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  • @katevenhorst1723
    @katevenhorst1723 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Heidi, you're a WONDERFUL dog-momma. Being a mom is about making the best choices for your baby, especially if they're hard decisions, and that's what you've done. I know it's so hard, but making this decision just proves how much you love him and want what's best for him. Sending good thoughts to you and Neuro ❤️❤️❤️

  • @erindoriah
    @erindoriah 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    All the people calling her a bad pet owner and making assumptions about the situation....take many seats!!!! Heidi was so brave to put this out

  • @darbriella_4496
    @darbriella_4496 7 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Saw this pop up on my notifications and immediately had to drop everything. Only a few seconds in and just want you to know so many people love you and believe in you. I know this has got to be incredibly hard, but your family and friends and TH-cam family and God are here for you. I'm so sorry Hedi that this has happened to you, keep your head up, many are here for you along the way❤️

  • @sophiewebb123
    @sophiewebb123 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This made me cry, so heart wrenching. You're doing the right thing, I work with dogs and they are a massive part of our life, he will be happier when he feels like he doesn't have to protect you. You'll always have the memories ❤

  • @110185jb
    @110185jb 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Your giving him a chance of living the rest of his life. That in my opinion is what a great owner would do. He'll never forget you no matter how much time goes by.

  • @morganceradsky178
    @morganceradsky178 7 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    25 seconds in and I just want to say I love you Heidi. You didn't owe anyone an explanation but I admire your courage to do so. This brought tears to my eyes and it's not even my life. Keep your head up, God works in mysterious ways but He will always be there for you with your best interest in mind. ❤️

    • @heidisomers
      @heidisomers  7 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Thank you Morgan....I know its a long video. My part was originally 1 hour long but I had to trim it down. I honest to God didn't want to make this video but I know so many viewers love him...and seeing people be so cruel online making pages about Neuro and saying I just got tired of my dog one day and dropped him off at a shelter and posting my home address....I had enough. Thank you for being kind and understanding.

    • @laurakenner2006
      @laurakenner2006 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Heidi Somers so glad you shared that part of your life with us. It touched my heart and when you were crying I could feel you pain. I cried too. Wish I was there with you to give you a big hug. You're an amazing person. Praying for you girl! Love you much!😘💪👊💚💖🍩🍩🍩 P.S. to all the haters if you can't say something nice,😐 don't say anything at all!🙊

    • @swanhuynh
      @swanhuynh 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Heidi Somers such a lying as bitch!!!

    • @strangelore4322
      @strangelore4322 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Swan Huynh Go away. Take that bad energy to your moms house

    • @swanhuynh
      @swanhuynh 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lorena Gomez 🖕🏻

  • @lindsayk3878
    @lindsayk3878 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I applaud you! You've fought HARD for your dog... Not just for him to survive and overcome the experience, but also fought through the judgements and comments on social media.
    I found a dog running around the streets of downtown St. Louis-- had her for exactly 1 week before myself and a local shelter had found and vetted the perfect family to officially adopt her. Once it was official and we set a "pick-up date"... I was a nonstop crying wreck. In 1 week I had such an attachment to this dog that was nothing but sweet, smart, and deserving of the world.
    I cannot fathom what you're going through after 6 years of having Neuro. It is heartwarming that such great owners like you exist. From day 1, you've been putting him first and even through the toughest decisions, you're staying true to that!
    Have a good cry, play the videos from Reversed Rescue over and over again, and look at how happy he is BECAUSE OF YOU!
    You're awesome. I'm glad I can be a fan of you for Fitness Motivation... but also for your character.

  • @meganfulkerson7332
    @meganfulkerson7332 7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Can any of you imagine having a dog you absolutely love attack a friend? Or attack anyone and having to worry about this 24/7. It would be terrible to live with that. I hope Neuro has a long happy life in a safe place.

  • @sammanthaann5072
    @sammanthaann5072 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As a dog momma myself my heart 110% goes out to you! I can't imagine the heartache your going through! To all the haters; don't judge until you walk in her exact shoes! 😡 Heidi you are an amazing person & Nero is beyond lucky to have called you momma for 6 amazing years! 💕

  • @taylorrcxo
    @taylorrcxo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So happy that you did everything you possibly could for Neuro! This video was especially hard for me to watch and definitely had me bawling because I am a dog momma to 3 pit bulls. I could not imagine going through what you are going through. Stay strong!!!

  • @michaelabell5077
    @michaelabell5077 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Heidi, my heart goes out to you. Thank you for taking steps towards Neuro's rehabilitation and I wish him success. I was involved in a dog attack when I was 23. I got bit in my face by my boyfriend's dog. He was an Aussie/Chow mix. He knew me well (we lived together), I fed him, I walked him, I played with him. Yet he still launched at me one evening. I was taken to the emergency room and once evaluated and my wounds cleaned, I was transported across town to a hospital that had a plastic surgeon on call. I got stitches under my eye, on my cheek, corner of my mouth and also inside my mouth. By the time we got back home, the dog was already taken to custody. He was released into my boyfriend's parents care. They hired a trainer, but about a month after my attack the dog turned on my boyfriend's mother during a training session. He didn't injure her but it was obvious he had no intentions to respect authority. Unfortunately he had to be put down. I so wish you were not in this situation because I know how much you love Neuro. I applaud you for your strength of knowing what's right to do. Not just by your dog, but by your injured friend. I wish her the best of luck in her recovery, not only physical but also emotional. I have always been a dog person. The accident never changed me. I am now the proud mom of two golden retrievers. But know I chose the breed wisely. I never want anyone to feel scared or uneasy when they see my dog.
    Best wishes!

  • @Everydaystarlet
    @Everydaystarlet 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    As someone who was bitten by a dog as a child and consequently been very scared of dogs ever since, I have run into a lot of people who have violent pets that don't take any safety measures to ensure people are safe around them. I know it must be difficult for you, but I applaud you for taking action. ❤️

  • @Shufflepower1994
    @Shufflepower1994 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What you've done is amazing. Don't ever feel like you haven't done the best. Most owners would just give up and put their dog down, you are fighting to get him the best life. We love you girl! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @sarahgirling2843
    @sarahgirling2843 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am not even a dog person and this video broke my heart. You did the right thing and I am sorry how quick people jump to conclusions and act like they know the situation enough to judge not only you but Neuro. You are doing the best you can by being selfless and putting him first. Hope everything turns out the way you want it to!!

  • @MariaCaro95
    @MariaCaro95 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Heidi, I cannot even begin to imagine the pain you are going through. Just know that you are a sweet, caring and extraordinarily brave woman. Thank you for taking the time to explain to us Neuro's situation and bare your pain to thousands of your fans. I have followed you for a number of years and love how genuine you are, you are truly a beautiful soul inside and out. Praying for you, for Neuro, and for a good outcome to this situation❤️🙏🏻

  • @melissaolinger6553
    @melissaolinger6553 7 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    Being in the animal field (registered veterinary technician) I have come across "aggressive" dogs of all breeds. The facility he is at is very close to where I live. Neuro is so lucky to have an amazing mom like you. Anyone would be lucky to have him! You're an amazing and selfless person. You are his hero and you are doing the best thing for him.

    • @heidisomers
      @heidisomers  7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Ahhhh thank you Melissa that means so much coming from you...

    • @whiteroses91
      @whiteroses91 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Melissa Brand this is so so true! All dogs can bite someone. I was bit in the face by a loved and cared for "family" dog. I hope Neuro gets through his training and gets to live a long happy life.

    • @kgal1298
      @kgal1298 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True sucks that pitbulls get such a bad wrap. I live in Studio City and I've seen a good mix of aggression in breeds the worst I've seen seem to be the tiny dogs. I'm walking my German shepherd mix who's breed used to be blamed for being aggressive and 9 times out of 10 some little dog will try to take her on like she's a Friday night buffet. LOL.

    • @lizblizard9967
      @lizblizard9967 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree. Heidi...as hard as it is, you ARE his hero! Bless you and your journey through this!

    • @whiteroses91
      @whiteroses91 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Señor Romántico no but they can cause 125 stitches on someone's face

  • @mmr8572
    @mmr8572 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Respect for posting that video, I´m sure that wasn`t easy. I can`t imagine how hard your decision about Neuro must have been

  • @lenoremiera4028
    @lenoremiera4028 7 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Heidi my heart goes out to you and Neuro. You really are doing the best thing for him. My daughter and I were crying watching this video. All dogs can adapt to this type of behavior. I wish you and Neuro all the best.

    • @lenoremiera4028
      @lenoremiera4028 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      djvbervuib3irv3r My daughter is 26 yrs old and works as vet tech. Being a better parent has nothing to do with this video. Check yourself before you start making judgements on people you don't even know. Recognize that!

    • @heidisomers
      @heidisomers  7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Thank you so much Lenore❤️🙏🏽
      Exactly....it's not just pitbulls that can develop this behavior....it's all dogs.

    • @ellevee1880
      @ellevee1880 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Heidi Somers my 7 pound teacup yorky did!!!!! 💙🐶✌🏼 do what's best for you and your pup from another #dogmom

  • @caitlinseidl7571
    @caitlinseidl7571 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh gosh Heidi, where do I ever start. Thank you for that raw vlog. So real. I cried right along with you. You did the right thing. You saved his life. He has a second chance, like you said. No matter what I'll always support you. I think you did everything you could do and you did everything right. Sending all my love chica. Stay strong!

  • @daniellemarie3121
    @daniellemarie3121 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm so sorry this happened- my heart goes out to you!! I can't imagine how hard this must have been for you, you were a great mom to Neuro you gave him an amazing 6 years of happiness and you saved his life and gave him a second chance.

  • @hollylawly
    @hollylawly 7 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    You did the right thing, even if it hurts. Maybe you can start a campaign to raise money for the company that's doing his rehab. Seems like an amazing company.

    • @heidisomers
      @heidisomers  7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Thank you its hard...but ahhhh I see how happy he is in the videos they send me and it makes me happy seeing him doing so well. We are donating a percentage of our next launch to their organization and will be working with them through social media to spread awareness about that they do. What they do is something very special....not many people want to work with and train pitfalls who have bit or attacked someone.

    • @hollylawly
      @hollylawly 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Heidi Somers That's awesome to hear! My pitbull passed away a few years ago at 15 and it was a huge struggle to find places to live that allow pits and all that. So glad places like Reversed Rescue exist and that you were able to leave him in such great hands! He's going to have a very happy life because of it.

    • @AdorkableGurl
      @AdorkableGurl 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Heidi Somers That's amazing! Great idea to donate from your next launch. Man Heidi, I know this so so hard for you. Nothing makes me cry, and I could hardly hold myself together watching this. You are the best dog mommy Neuro could ever ask for! You know, our fur-babies may not be here our whole lives, but we are there for all of theirs, and no matter the outcome, you have clearly given Nuero the best and happiest possible life he could have!!! So even in the worst possible outcome, you gave him the best possible life & you gotta be able to find some kinda peace from that.
      Much love!!

    • @Sabastien24
      @Sabastien24 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Heidi Somers that's amazing! I'm def going to order something to help out!

  • @tiffanysands326
    @tiffanysands326 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You're doing the right thing ❤️ Don't worry about what people say about you! You know what's best for Neuro and that's all that matters. We love Neuro 💙 We love you 💕 You are, always have been, and always will be one of my biggest inspirations 🙌🏻❤️ Sending love and prayers your way! 🙏🏻

  • @AlexaAdkins
    @AlexaAdkins 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I didn't know what to expect going into this video, but I'm barely 3 minutes in and already tearing up. It's obvious how hard this is to talk about and I can't imagine what this must feel like. Much love ❤️

  • @CaliforniaDreamer650
    @CaliforniaDreamer650 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sending you so many hugs!!! ❤️ it's obvious that you have so much love for Neuro and the time and consideration you have for his long term happiness shows your true heart and character and makes you an amazing pet mama!! Neuro will always love you! 😊

  • @ashleyfranklin6509
    @ashleyfranklin6509 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This video broke my heart. I couldn't imagine having to make a decision like this. You are making a choice to give neuro the best life possible. My heart goes out to you Heidi.

  • @margaritas2muscles22
    @margaritas2muscles22 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is probably one of the most owner responsible things I've ever seen done for a family pet. Kudos to you for wanting the best for Nero and working so hard to ensure he received just that. Don't you dare feel bad, you did what was best for him even at the cost of pain to you. Just think of how great a life he will get to have as a result of your actions. Most animals don't get that option of what they deserve. As pet parents we owe them the best of everything and that includes all the things you've done to give him the best.

  • @kristenhyde9529
    @kristenhyde9529 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You have been given such crap over this Neuro situation all because you wouldn't share every heart wrenching thing you've gone through with him at the exact moment it happened. This fact bothers me. You share your life on social media but you are not obligated to do any of that. The fact that you made this video shows such strength in a situation that I couldn't even fathom being in. I'm glad to know the story, and I, as well as the others that genuinely care, sympathize deeply with you as a person and as a pet parent. You did the best you could do in a unfortunate situation and I admire that deeply. I'm so sorry that you went through this but I'm so happy that there are selfless people like you out there. And I am glad that you saved Neuro from an ending that most pet owners are stuck with in a situation like this. All love from Canada

  • @krismarie04
    @krismarie04 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    heidi, your social media followers have learned so much about you and neuro. you are such a beautiful person inside and out and you are a great owner to neuro. This must have been the toughest decision you have ever made and neuro will forever be grateful to have such a loving person by his side. Because of you neuro has a second chance of life...you gave a PITBULL a second chance to live and not many people do that. heidi you have a heart of gold and always, always remember that.

  • @toshapatterson3441
    @toshapatterson3441 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this has absolutely torn me apart today. as a pitbull mom, I can't imagine the heartbreak and pain you are feeling. praying for the best for you and your baby.

  • @ashlyncaporicci672
    @ashlyncaporicci672 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'd like to applaud you!!! My dad is a protection dog trainer. This is something that people don't understand or make snap decisions and don't think through!! Kudos!!! Keep your head up! Stay strong. Know what you're doing is right for your dog and in the end you. ❤️

  • @kristinreiff3626
    @kristinreiff3626 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don't understand how people can have the nerve to say that you "aren't responsible enough" or can't handle a pittbull. You did more than most pet owners would ever do to take care of him and you put that dog before yourself because you love him so much. People are disgusting. You're doing the right thing girl. Keep your head up. ❤️❤️

  • @queenB121
    @queenB121 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Heidi, I have a friend who went through a similar situation with her pitbull, and they had to make the most difficult decision and put him down as the situation was very severe. Seeing that you are trying everything you can shows how big your heart is. Don't let anyone get you down for your decision

  • @kristinahunt8679
    @kristinahunt8679 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm usually a silent follower but I just wanted to say that we all know how much you love neuro. You have made the right decision for him and that's what makes you an amazing owner. Stay strong and we will all miss him but hope he ends up in a better state of mind so he can keep living a happy puppy life.

  • @Truthpursuit2015
    @Truthpursuit2015 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm in tears with you Heidi! I also had to rehome my dog, and two years later I still cry about her. But the peace you can hold onto, is knowing he is alive and well. That as much as we love our pups and treat them as our sweet babies, they have a greater life with the right environment. Your situation was a lot of work and commend you for that!

  • @catelyngalee
    @catelyngalee 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I cannot imagine the amount of tears that it took for you to make this decision, but being a fellow dog owner I am so proud of you for doing what you did and my heart goes out to you because I know you miss your friend. Neuro is a great dog and he will have a great life, and you did what any good dog owner would do, trying to give him the best life possible. He was an amazing support for you in all that you've been through and all you can do is be so thankful for the time you had with him. You are a great person Heidi don't ever think that you're a bad dog owner because of what happened. God has another plan for a Neruo and you. Keep making a big impact in the world you're doing what's right.

  • @KyleDelPaoli
    @KyleDelPaoli 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You're not a horrible person, you're just in a horrible position. Despite what everyone else says, I think you're doing the right thing and you should keep your head up. Stay strong Heidi.

  • @katness05
    @katness05 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm proud of you making such a hard decision. I'm so glad you're giving Neuro the best life possible! I'm thinking about you and know that your are an amazing person and praying for you and everyone involved!

  • @user-di9bu8pn7f
    @user-di9bu8pn7f 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Words can't even describe how proud of you I am. This has got to be the hardest thing. I work at a vet and I see people bring in dogs all the time to be put to sleep for this reason and it's because of you that he is still alive. I cried the whole time watching this video. Stay strong!

  • @MikuKhezri
    @MikuKhezri 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was in tears almost this whole video. I recently got my first furbaby not too long ago and I love her more than I thought I could love anyone. I cannot even begin to imagine how hard this was for you- however we should always remember that sometimes we love the most by letting go, not because we want to, but because like you said, you wanted the best for Neuro. You are amazing for always keeping HIS best interest at heart. Thank you for sharing your story. Sending so much love for the both of you

  • @tmac4853
    @tmac4853 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Heidi, For those of us who have watched you from the start, this is heartbreaking. We are all in your corner. The biggest of hugs and you are so BRAVE!! So many of us love you and you will get through this!! xo

  • @racheljames7070
    @racheljames7070 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sending so much love and prayers to you both ❤️ I pray Neuro recovers and lives the remainder of his life happy and safe xx

  • @callyjosephine1118
    @callyjosephine1118 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My heart goes out to you Heidi. Shame on anyone who has anything negative to say to you over this!!! Head up girl. This is an awful thing to go through.

  • @stephaniepratt4559
    @stephaniepratt4559 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Don't ever feel like a failure. You did what you had to do and made an absolutely the toughest decision ever, Neuro loved you very much and we all could tell.. I am so sorry to hear this and hope you are okay and keep him close in your heart forever xo sending so many hugs you way but don't feel like you failed you were such a good dog mom, and I know he will always remember you !!!

  • @aowen70
    @aowen70 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just want to send you the HUGEST hug ever!!! You made the most heart wrenching,but right, choice for your dog! You are the one of the best dog owners out there, to put his needs before your own. A lot of people don't think that way & it's so heart breaking for the dogs. I have 2 pit bulls myself, who I also adore & yes, I spoil them too. My male is protective of me also, hasn't bitten anyone & has never tried to, just always places himself in front of me when some people are around & follows me everywhere! He too is my baby & I could never fathom having to make the decision you had to. Keep your chin up, you are an amazing human being! 💙

  • @DanniPaige1
    @DanniPaige1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for sharing this emotional time with us heidi! My heart broke and I cried right along wit you. Neuro is the sweetest coolest dog and we all think of you and him as family. Such a tough decision bc we look at our pets as our children. Praying for you and Neuro stay strong

  • @ameliadionne4610
    @ameliadionne4610 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was very hard for me to watch. Myself being a dog owner of two, I couldn't imagine what your going through. Just know that your not a bad person, this is what's best for your boy and don't pay not attention to others opinions. I love neuro! He is a great dog. I grew with my family dog being a pit bull and she was the GREATEST! My heart and my prayers are with you Heidi! Neuro will pull through this and get better and find someone whom he knows that will be safe without him there so that he doesn't feel the need to constantly protect. Stay strong girl! You got this!

  • @radioJ757
    @radioJ757 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thanks for sharing your story with us because you didn't have to. I hope things work in your favor I will pray for you and the dog!

    • @andrearose6
      @andrearose6 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      radioJ757 of course she had to theres so many people giving her hate when they completely dont know the whole story!

  • @kristopherk6789
    @kristopherk6789 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So many people are SO mean! Love her! She doesn't need negative comments right now.

  • @pollypinkKylie
    @pollypinkKylie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This broke my heart to watch, I've followed your channel for a long time and anyone could see how much you loved Neuro. Sending so much love to you xx

  • @NessaRican09
    @NessaRican09 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Heidi I just want to give you a huge hug. I can't imagine the pain you're feeling! Stay strong love!! You absolutely did the right thing for him

  • @morganbrandt673
    @morganbrandt673 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The amount of hate in the comments is sad, and for those of you saying it is "just a dog" have either never owned one or are just that heartless. I think it is amazing he is getting a second chance.

  • @fathimar.harris3706
    @fathimar.harris3706 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I wonder if after breaking up with your ex, Nero felt a greater need to protect you. We have two pits as well, and we love them to death. Good luck with everything.

  • @desiraerose4989
    @desiraerose4989 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are an amazing pet owner and you actually opened my eyes up. My pit mix is starting to show signs that you had mention that are small and I will probably reach out to ty and see if I can prevent something from happening. Thank you for sharing your story, you educated us and shared something very hard to share and we appreciate you for your honesty and love for your pet. Keep your head up sweetie you are amazing

  • @1ANAHI
    @1ANAHI 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    this makes me so sad because I've been following you for a long time and to hear what has happened and the sadness in your voice ;( you are an amazing person dont forget that❤️

  • @sarahgalabeas2254
    @sarahgalabeas2254 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So glad your friend was okay, and you absolutely did the right and self-less thing. ❤️

  • @lindaandersson985
    @lindaandersson985 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    All love and suport to you Heidi! You got such a big heart and seeing you making this video makes me so sad! You don´t owe anybody an explanation, this is not something you should be forced to do just because of Narrow-minded people who live on others grief and want to set a scene! I understand that this is a tough time for you and I just want to give you all suport and love! You are an amazing, loving and big hearted person and I hope the wind will soon start blowing with you rather against you in this chapter in you live! All love to you Heidi and many hugs! ❤️❤️

  • @gabs0149
    @gabs0149 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have a dog so I know what its like. He's my baby, if he gets hurt, so do I. And watching Heidi get emotional made me get emotional thinking about if I was in her shoes. It really hits home. They are mans best friend forreal.

  • @AM-ql7eq
    @AM-ql7eq 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Stay strong Heidi ❤️❤️❤️❤️ You are so strong and although this is very difficult for you, you are an amazing human being. I know that you are doing what is best and not what you want. It must be so hard to share your whole life with the world and I give you so much credit. Keep staying strong and keep smiling. Know that you did the right and responsible thing. Don't worry about the haters and just know you saved his life. Everything happens for a reason and this is somehow a blessing in disguise. You just need to let go and let God and know that it'll be okay.

  • @allisonfoxworthy9457
    @allisonfoxworthy9457 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I went through this with my dog when I was 16, and I found a friend who had a son who was a dog trainer and now my little guy is healthier and happier. You're saving his life ❤️ praying for you!

  • @Luvinme-vh9fw
    @Luvinme-vh9fw 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It breaks my heart to see you heartbroken. Sending positivity, peace, & patience your way. I hope you feel better soon. 💛

  • @anacrisgonzalez7600
    @anacrisgonzalez7600 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video made me cry.. so sad for you. Be sure you gave him a very good life as long as he was with you. This is just a new chapter in his life and they usually adapt easily.

  • @crystalmeraz644
    @crystalmeraz644 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for sharing this story, you are so incredibly strong for doing what is right for your dog...if anything you are so selfless for weighing all of your options and choosing how to help Neuro. I have had Akitas and they are also "power dogs" and my last heavily guarded me. I have been through a lot in my life, and by far the heaviest loss I have suffered was losing my dog. The city I live in is a "one bite" city and unlike you he was not granted the opportunity to be rehabilitated. I know you said you always try to visit the positive and even though your heart is hurting so much just keep your head up and remember that you are so lucky to have the resources to help him rehabilitate and found such amazing people and a program like this for him.

    • @crystalmeraz644
      @crystalmeraz644 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      PS. How do you look so pretty when crying?! True story I was like every other female that commented on this post in true mass hysteria cry mode and also had to keep pausing this video to catch my breath. I also think if anything, you did not give this breed a bad rep, but helped bring awareness to rehabilitation and help people can get for their furry family.

  • @ang3ni
    @ang3ni 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Heidi, my most heartfelt condolences to you for this really tough decision you had to make. Don't blame yourself for loving him and trying to do your best as his owner. He is a great dog, and I truly hope he can be completely rehabilitated and live a beautiful full life. Praying for comfort and peace for you.

  • @lakotasaunders
    @lakotasaunders 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You and Neuro will always have an unbreakable bond. He will always remember you and it shows how much he loves you. Maybe the traveling and just being a busy business woman did have an impact on his actions lately. Dogs do need a lot of attention but don't let the negative comments make you feel like you failed. I know that it's easy to beat yourself up because I've been through the same thing. Although, I had no choice and my baby had to be put down. You think about all the things you could have done and that's just apart of grieving. I lost my girl back in October and it's still hard today. Things get easier and just know you made the best choice for him no one else. You're such a strong independent person and you have a lot of support and love. You'll get through it Heidi.
    P.S. I cried with you.

  • @Karliespurebliss
    @Karliespurebliss 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so sorry you had to go through this Heidi. You've always seemed like an amazing dog mom, and I always loved your prayers with Neuro before meal time. Just pray to God to watch over Neuro with his new owners. I instantly started crying within the first 30 seconds of this video. I completely feel for you and support you Heidi!!!! ♡

  • @sarahperault5088
    @sarahperault5088 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hang in there Heidi. Just know you're doing the best possible thing for him. It's so evident you care & love him. 💙

  • @searchforserenity8058
    @searchforserenity8058 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    True love involves sacrificing what you want for what you know is right. It's hard and not everyone will understand or agree, but in your heart you will know you made the right choice. Nothing heals a broken heart except time, so hang in there Heidi!

  • @baileycanoles6751
    @baileycanoles6751 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Awe Heidi, I am so sorry this breaks my heart ! He is a great dog and that's all a that matters. He will find a family that loves him just as much as you do and you are an amazing pet parent 😘 you're doing what's best for him ❤️

  • @vickyywayne
    @vickyywayne 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Emotional video to watch Heidi, all of us with pets especially dogs will support and understand the most difficult and upset decision that you had to make with neuro. You are giving him a second chance in life, I'm sure in some way he will know you did too. We all respect, love and support you with this so keep being positive you've got a big following behind you to help through this time, loves xxx

  • @theresaf1048
    @theresaf1048 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is an amazing video for soooooo many reasons. It brings light to so many important things that ever dog owner should know. I am so proud of you for being so brave and doing this and looking after him. Sending hugs xoxo

  • @basilandtomatoe800
    @basilandtomatoe800 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Don't cry Heidi! People can be cruel and insensitive. Hang in there girl. You did the right thing.

  • @qckap
    @qckap 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So sorry 4 u! U did tge right thing as hard as it is. Sometimes loving something requires u 2 b selfless n let them go. Not easy but shows what an AMAZING furmomma u r!

  • @Thizandthatwithnat
    @Thizandthatwithnat 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    don't worry about what anybody else thinks love. you know whats best for your baby. stay strong

  • @elisabethschiraldi8683
    @elisabethschiraldi8683 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All I can say is that i love you and neuro so much. You are absolutely making the right decision for him and for you. I know it must be hard not to blame yourself but you were just trying to give him the best life and you should definitely try and work through those feelings because none of this is your fault. You are an amazing dog momma. Your emotions show how much you care about him Heidi and your doing the right thing. I'm so sorry you have to go through this but keep your head up and keep making Neuro proud!!! LOVE YOU

  • @BullishBananaTrader
    @BullishBananaTrader 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No matter how happy someone's life seems, you never know what they are going through. Best of luck Heidi.

  • @jaclynjones9487
    @jaclynjones9487 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Giving up a dog is so hard! You're saying goodbye to a family member! I've had to do it too. Sending love!

  • @MsOperaPrincess
    @MsOperaPrincess 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am so happy to see the love and support on the comments for this video. The shaming blaming, and name calling when it first happened was vile and disgusting. It had me hurting inside for you and it didn't have anything to do with me. I'm so sorry you've had to go through this.

  • @justin19971230
    @justin19971230 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just wanted to say you are such a strong person to share this with everyone. I am also a dog owner and I can only imagine how your feeling. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Neuro. After hearing the trainer I know that Neuro will be ok. He is in good hands.

  • @cwilson894
    @cwilson894 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are such an amazing and strong person for fighting for what is best for Neuro. We are all here to support you!

  • @jaquisanchez-armendariz7423
    @jaquisanchez-armendariz7423 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Heidi I have no doubt in my mind that you live your dog and you want what's best for him. I admire the fight that you have put up for him to be given a second chance at a better life. Don't listen to anyone who says anything. Negative about the choices you have made for him. You did what was right! You had the resources to be able to give him that chance which not a lot of people have. I hope you find comfort in knowing that he is being taken care of so that he can have his second chance of being integrated again in a home

  • @amyrka
    @amyrka 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oh Heidi! I sensed something was going on behind the scenes with Neuro. Thank you for being so courageous to live and share the truth of this situation.
    I too have a blue pitbull and the thought of him not being with me brings me to tears. I was crying with you as you shared what's happened with Neuro.
    You are not a failed parent, I know it feels that way, and honestly, sometimes I still feel it too. As Ty stated, each dog's different. I know you did what a great pet mom could.
    I can only imagine how difficult this is for you. Keep looking for that silver lining. You are the best mom for doing what's best for your pet, even with your heart torn.
    I send you so so much love and prayers Heidi. You are one amazing human being. I know Neuro knows that too.

  • @nicoleb4629
    @nicoleb4629 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bless you Heidi. My heart breaks for you. I cried watching this. Your love for your baby is so obvious in your videos. I don't have children yet so my dogs are like my babies. I commend you for standing up for Nero the way you did and finding such an amazing program for him. Don't beat yourself up or listen to hurtful comments. He's alive! And by the clips I've seen of him he seems to be happy and doing really well. Tye seems like an amazing person and extremely professional and knowledgeable, who genuinely cares about animals and wants the best for each individual dog. You and Nero are in my thoughts and prayers and I know he has a bright and happy future ahead! In my opinion, you did the right thing and the best thing for him. Thank you for sharing and being so real and honest. God bless you sweet girl. I love you!

  • @thesimplyorganized
    @thesimplyorganized 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such a sweet girl with a sweet heart - you did the right thing. Can't imagine the pain...but I love you even more and everything will be just fine! Hold tight my friend! xoxo

  • @juanapaez7004
    @juanapaez7004 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am a dog lover a cried throughout the whole entire episode I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Remember you been a great mom to your baby pitbull. You're providing him with the best training for him to have the best life with the perfect family you being a amazing person❤️ Best of luck🙏

  • @hannahhall2823
    @hannahhall2823 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Heidi I don't know you, but you have been one of the strongest people I've ever seen. I have 2 pit bulls, myself, and I don't know what I would do if I lost my babies. I believe you made the right decision, and I hope whatever family he gets adopted by allows you to know him still. Stay strong beautiful girl, your son will be well taken care of 💕🐶

  • @courtneylemay1654
    @courtneylemay1654 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Heidi, I am usually someone that just watches your videos and doesn't say much, but I wanted you to know that you are not a bad owner and Neuro is not a bad dog! I am so sorry that you guys have to go through this situation and I can sympathize with you. I have an Australian shepherd and he exhibits a lot of the same behavior as Neuro such as being extremely protective and does not get along with other dogs... in other words he has a very high prey drive as Tray had said. I have had my dog since he was about 6 weeks possibly younger as he was rescued so we were not sure of his age. He is very attached but is the sweetest dog. We have had a couple of incidents, but fortunately we have not gotten to the point that you have had to get to. I have been doing my best to work with him and we have made some progress, but I am extremely aware that it will take time and that we may have to manage things rather than fully be able to rehabilitate him. Anyway I hope you know that you are not alone and that you are doing what is best for your dog! Keep your head up and know that it is a process, but as you said Neuro is extremely smart and he will get there in time. As a fellow dog owner I understand that this was one of the hardest decisions you've ever had to make! Stay strong and know that you are doing the best thing for him and just remember that he loves you!! I will be thinking about you and sending prayers and positive thoughts your way! Thank you for sharing your story I know it not an easy thing to do!! ❤️

  • @tiffanyharrison7410
    @tiffanyharrison7410 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm so sorry, Heidi. This was an impossible decision. Wishing you and Neuro nothing but happiness and love.

  • @Realityof76
    @Realityof76 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I know it was super hard for you hun. It HAD to be. Everyone who really watches you knows you loved him so much, but I really think you are making the right decision. He could end up with an other great owner and have a great life with someone else too. Remember that and remember you know the truth and that you did the best you could. God bless you girl! Much love. 💗🐶.

  • @illini61074
    @illini61074 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My heart breaks for you, Heidi!
    I can't imagine what it's been like going through all of this. You're a great puppy mom and I can tell how much you love Neuro. Thank you for updating us and choosing to be so personal through your journey! Much love and respect! ❤️
    Hang in there!

  • @juliajimenez7162
    @juliajimenez7162 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Big hugs Heidi! I pray you find comfort for this situation your going through. You did what you knew best and there is nothing wrong with that, dont let anyone tell you otherwise. Regardless of what others may think, its not our place to judge, its our place to love.

  • @danielledunbar5497
    @danielledunbar5497 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I cried the whole time. Lots of love sent your way 💙

  • @Sarah_Aney
    @Sarah_Aney 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm so sorry Heidi my heart breaks for you. You've done 100% the right thing for you and your dog. It's so inspiring that you had the courage to fight for him the way you have done and share it in a public forum. At the end of the day you found away to give him the best life possible and I'd say that makes you a pretty awesome pet owner.

  • @TheRunningmomma
    @TheRunningmomma 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It sounds like you have gone above and beyond what many dog owners would do given your circumstances. Nero is in good hands with his best interest at heart. I have a doberman who I adopted from a rehab rescue 10 years ago. Know that if and when he does go to his forever home that they will place him with a family that will be the best for him. We knew all of our Eddie's past history and went through lots of meetings with his trainers to ensure we were the best fit for our dog.
    It's so hard being a pet owner because they truly are part of the family. You know in your heart that you have done the best for your puppy every step of the way. God seems to have a different plan for Nero, I know it's hard that it may not be with you. Nero has been blessed with a second chance. Sending big hugs!!!

  • @brianb.5796
    @brianb.5796 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have real guts, and you have shown a higher form of honoring your dog that most people don't even try to reach. To share it on TH-cam must have been a hard decision but to let people know that they can help there pets is also an honorable endeavor in spite of losing YOUR companion. I'm a cynic and generally don't like people but your good person. You did good.
    Strength and Honor.

  • @michelleboring4906
    @michelleboring4906 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don't think you realize how this story helps others in different ways! We have a pit bull and she bit someone for the first time thankfully not as bad, but we are dealing with the same thing we're all of a sudden our pit bull is getting protective like that. Stay strong!

  • @emilymeehan435
    @emilymeehan435 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am so sorry you have to go through this. We all know how much you loved Neuro and you were so good to him. It seems like you are making the best choice for him even if it may be the hardest choice 💕💕

  • @ashleyallen4937
    @ashleyallen4937 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I watched this video and had to sleep on it before commenting because I had a really hard time when I found out about the initial incident and lashed out in the comment section. I am glad that you finally shared the whole story. I have owned pit bulls growing up and took one in about a year ago. he had spent most of his life in a back yard/ garage and had no obedience training and no human connection. when he came to live with me he was overloaded with experiences. he was difficult but we managed. he overall was very loving and affectionate but had extreme separation anxiety and would often escape or destroy things . he needed structure more structure than I knew how to give him or even knew he needed. I didn't understand this and one day he got out. he was struck by a car 1 hour after getting out. hundreds of people in my community came together to search for him and ultimately help put Johnny Ringo to rest. Tai explains the temperament of the dominant breed beautifully. the fact that you couldn't offer Nero the structure that he needs is no fault of your own and many people adopt pit bulls not understanding the rigid obedience training that these dogs need and unfortunately stressors in the dogs enviornement can cause the dog to act out negatively. and unfortunately this gives the dog a bad name. if I would have known this I probably wouldn't have adopted my pit bull because I work full time and go to school and couldn't possibly offer my dog the training that he needed and it resulted in a terrible situation given his previous history. I live in Santa Clarita about 45 minutes from this rescue and rescues I have fostered with have worked with these guys directly and I can honeslty say that I have heard amazing things about them. I believe Nero will rehabilitate fully and he will find a home who will cater to all of his needs where he will thrive in his obedience training. you made such a humble decision for your dog and given the option I would have made the same choice. pit bulls are amazi g dogs but they have very special needs. I applaud you for giving Nero a second chance and for sharing your story with your followers.

    • @karlagonzalezxo
      @karlagonzalezxo 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ashley Allen where's the love button

  • @kellyhoward6522
    @kellyhoward6522 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My prayers are with you Heidi, I can't even imagine if I had to give up my dog! You made the right decision getting him help instead of just putting him down. Don't listen to the haters, you are an amazing person, Nero will make it through this and so will you!!! ❤️

  • @guepardo7783
    @guepardo7783 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You're kind precious and amazing human being. You have done the right thing! You put him before yourself and thought of his life! You broke your heart to save his❤️ You are in my prayers and may god help you through this tough heartbreaking time ❤️

  • @kaliherring9562
    @kaliherring9562 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My pit was my best friend and she got put down simply because she got out of my yard and was a pit :( it makes me so happy that your baby got the opportunity to live! He is a beautiful and smart pup and will hopefully come out on top. and hopefully find a home that you can still be in touch with. praying for the two of you :)