How 6 Years in Malaysia Changed This Italian Man
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Beware the malays who are muslim will try their very best to convert you to their religion. Black magic they use to make you forget who you are.
It's true someone need to teach English to walaoun hadiawang pas pn 😂😂
Yeahhh walaoun too idiot to understand English 😂😂@@secretserviceinc
Nak mundur undi hadiawang PN 😌😌
Vote pas for racism and state lockdown
Whats your other channel?
These people you are interviewing have changed my mind about my own country. I love it even more and more now. Thank God 🎉
I am happy you loved the interview
@mauriziorosini6402 it was a great interview bro.
@@amein73 blessings brother
Mauri is so passionate telling his feeling about my country! I feel so blessed! Thank you again for this great interview, Ben!
I am glad you liked the interview!
Thank you for reminding us Malaysians how good we have it here.
Actually we have a lot that other citizens are long of. But Malaysians like to complain so much. When some want to reduce the fuel price, come on, we are among 10 countries with the cheapest fuel price in the world. A lot more.
@@bearybear66👍🏻👍🏻
@@bearybear66 Grass is always greener on the other side. One of the negative points of Malaysians regardless of races - we are quick to complain and want 'freebies' but are not willing to 'give' in terms of taxes, zakats, etc. We like to conveniently forget that we must 'give some to win some'.
I hate politicians.they always try to destroy harmony of our country
Thanks Ben for sharing this..👍
Many Malaysians like expats or foreigners like Mr Mauri, he's a smart and friendly type.. he seems to understand and appreciate Malaysia.. To know Malaysia is to love Malaysia 🇲🇾🌺
You are never alone, Ben ....from one of your many loyal subscribers on TH-cam...
What a wonderful interview. All the best to Mauri with his personal life & business in KL.
Ben, you might not notice it, but mental health is quite a serious issue in Malaysia nowadays. Not many people having and facing this problem are properly assisted with professional consultations and guidance. Not many people can afford personal therapy or empowerment. And worst case, some of these people don't realize or aware of their problems relating to mental health issues.
@@Yasin_AffandiYes dear Yasin, I am Mauri, the Men's Work we are doing and the Men's Circle is exactly to address the mental health, of men in this case, fortunately there are many women Circles and women supporting groups, now even men have the space to be open and honest and addressing their mental health issues
People like Ben & Mauri must truly be appreciated for their genuine interest & fondness for Malaysia.
They have the whole planet to choose from, buy here they are giving us priceless insights from outside looking in.
M'sians often take the peace & diversity here for granted & you knock us into appreciating the blessings we enjoy.
We have our quarrels & differences but it pales in comparison with what we enjoy in this paradise on earth.
May you both be blessed in your love for a happy & meaningful life & to spread positivity & healing for many more years to come.
Thanks for you powerful words, support and blessings! I do appreciate you.
Mauri🙏
Ben, you’re taking your interviews to a different level. You’re the 2nd non-Malaysian I’ve come across to bring these topics forward. Thank you.
Hi i am Mauri, yes Ben is doing an amazing job 👏
So much passion, conviction, compassion. Tq for sharing
I really appreciate and always watch your contents, Ben. It's inspiring, especially us Malaysians, makes us appreciate how blessed we are here in Malaysia ❤
I love this interview very much! The Italian guys are doing the good works to helping out the men here to voice out if they have any difficulties...Good jobs and keep it up! ❤❤❤
I'm loving this honest interview with Mauri. Not because he loves the country but the sharing about loneliness and mental health and how to overcome.
Hi! I am Mauri, as all of us , in different degrees I have been trough struggles, we have to have the courage to seek for help and be courageous to do inner work!
Love this interview. Well done Ben & Mauri ❤
Thanks 🙏
i love your question ben,what a great conversation.and mauriz are so kind all he talk is a big aspiration.
I appreciate you! I am glad you liked the interview
Im Malaysian and i welcoming you and europeans comes into my country.. we will become so kindness for every forigners and we will respecting forigners who is having higher respectfully on our societies
Great one Ben. Been grinding your videos recently. Most are educational, informative and a lot of good learning for a Malaysian to understand how foreigners make a living in an alien work. Keep it up!
I have a brother-in-law who finds it really hard to open up about his problems. He always tries to solve things on his own, but the way he handles issues often makes us frustrated because it’s just not the right approach and doesn’t actually solve anything.
I’ve reminded him so many times to just share what’s on his mind so we can figure things out together. I keep telling him not to try and fix everything alone. I believe he feels like a failure if he doesn’t at least try to handle things himself. He probably thinks that, as a man, he should be smart enough to solve problems without telling his wife or family. But in reality, his silence only makes things worse. Keeping everything bottled up is just making him more stressed. His wife has tried to comfort him and convince him to open up, but he still refuses.
We’ve explained over and over again that sharing his problems won’t make him any less of a man or a husband. If he doesn’t feel comfortable talking to his wife, he could at least open up to his own older brother. His brother is an extrovert, and I’m pretty sure if we encourage him to guide my brother-in-law into expressing himself, it would help. But still, he won’t do it. Whenever he faces problems, especially family-related ones, he just keeps quiet and then comes up with a solution that doesn’t really work. This has led to conflicts between him and my sister.
For example, when he lost his job due to issues with his boss, my sister had no idea. For almost two weeks, he was acting moody and getting upset with her over the smallest things. Then, suddenly, he announced that he had found a new job. But I knew that the new place was unstable, which led to a huge fight between them. The thing is, if he had shared his work problems with my sister or his own older family earlier, maybe he wouldn’t have had to quit in the first place. And when he started the new job, within two weeks, he quit again because the company wasn’t financially stable. As a result, they struggled to pay rent and manage their household expenses, and they have small kids to take care of.
I really think he needs a support group like this or some kind of discussion circle for men to talk about these things. The problem is, he doesn’t speak English well, and on top of that, it’s hard to persuade him because he’s such an introvert and keeps everything to himself.
In my own family, we’ve never believed that men shouldn’t express their emotions when they’re struggling. Both men and women need a space to talk about their feelings to avoid unnecessary stress. We even have a younger brother, and although we never encouraged him to cry over every little thing when he was a kid, we always made sure he had a safe space to vent whenever he felt upset. We’re used to sharing our problems with each other, and we don’t find it difficult to open up to others.
That’s why my sister (his wife) and I are so worried about his habit of shutting everyone out. It’s affecting their family life, and we honestly don’t know how else to help him.
ask his best friend to help him because sometimes, a man has his own ego and feels that sharing a problem is embarrassing to his dignity. He needs trust among men who are close to him.
His brother couldn't help his brother because they had different personalities. A man like this needs a friend like him to express his feelings and burdens.
As for a wife, slowly approach him and always be patient with his attitude. This is very important because introverts will lead to mental problems if left alone and continue like that.
we as people around him, give him space and help solve his problem secretly if we know a little bit about his problem. They don't need a whole lot of help, but a little help might help lighten their load.
Gosh this is a Very Good Video…Well done 👍👍👍
@@mesebak Thanks brother! I am glad you find the video insightful 🙏
I sincerely appreciate Mauri's efforts to assist our guys in becoming more open, positive, and self-confident. Furthermore, I hope this contribution enhances our country's existing positive momentum. 😉
This is a GREAT interview - Mauri is doing amazing work here in Malaysia - positively impacting many lives & families.
We attend the Men's Circle in Penang that he created & it's wonderful time to get like minded guys together & create connection
Thanks @Mauri for the passion and dedication you put into everything you do here!
Thank you for the interesting stories you had here, I really appreciate your kindness and sincerity supporting n introducing our communities here, am from kuching Sarawak..
Thanks for your support and kind words 🙏
Mauri
Terrific interview with Mauri, Ben !!
Thanks for your kind words 🙏
Another very interesting interview. Good job Ben. You're becoming a good professional interviewer.
Thank you Mauri. You're a friendly & kind gentleman & very open minded.
Hopefully to meet you both someday.
Thanks for your kind words!
Mauri
I am thinking to go Malaysia. Your video is very informative for me. Thanks.
welcome
Please come and visit at least once. Hope you have a good trip 😊
☺ are you Koreans ? Please come to Malaysia, we have Japanese and Korean community here. For Koreans we have Koreans restaurants and groceries store too. Come with less expectations and enjoy your stay 😊
Wow.. this is a good interview Ben.
So inspiring.. Thank you Mr Mauri and Good job Mr Ben.. Applause 👏
Thanks for your support 🙏 I appreciate you.
Mauri
3:10 saya orang malaysia pun, bila pergi ke tempat baru( tempat kerja..padahal dalam negeri sendiri je😅) masih lagi rasa sunyi.. nak suaikan diri memang ambil masa.. ni kan pula dari negara lain. Tapi, masa memang akan mengubah dan bergantung pada diri semdiri juga. Kalau kita kuat dan mudah menerima sesuatu perkara atau suaikan diri dengan komuniti setempat, memang lebih mudah..
As malaysian, when i has to work another place but still on my own state(it's far away from my hometown).. i still feel sad and lonely..so, i can imagine how u feel when u first comes here especially malaysia has different cultures from yours..but time will change it and we also need to be strong and try to adapt with surroundings community.
Hi Ben great interview...keep it up 👍
Great interview Ben u really prepared with all questions 👍
Excellent interview session.. amazing casual QnA..thank you for sharing to both of U..fine gentlemen 🎉
I am glad you fund good insights
Great work as usual Ben! 💪🏾💯
About learning Bahasa Melayu, it is easier than learning Mandarin or Tamil it is because unlike the others, we use Roman alphabet, the same alphabet used in English. By means you don't really have to figure out how the words sound, it only has little difference. It just that you want to learn it or not. How do you think the Malays learn English in the first place? We might have grammatical errors or shy to speak but I assure you we all know how to read in English and understand what you say. The funny thing is, back in 80s-90s, Malay kids understand English cartoons, there was no subtitles back then, but they know who's the good guys and bad guys, they know the plots and everything. But in English class, everyone is either shy or afraid to speak in English for some reason...I think it is more about confidence than anything, inferiority complex maybe. It's psychological, we were British colonial...
Tq mauri of ur honestly opinion about mlysia..thnk a lot ben of the interview
He really really really loves to talk. Surprisingly I can tahan dengar all the way.
You ve change a lot Ben from day one.Keep it up👍N you ll never regret you ve been in🇲🇾
As human bein i also face several mental helth issue b4 like losing ur closed family, but life must go on just live happy with whatever u have n B nice with everybody even they dont like u, until ur last breath 👍🏻
Superb session Ben!
worked with a few italians before. very kind people. take their food seriously. roll decent cigerettes too.
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Thanks for sharing your experience life in Malaysia as well as your knowledge in life.
Thanks 🙏
Nice video conversation ❤
Good sharing, well done n well said to both of u.
2 good men. Stay humble Brothers 👍😊
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gr8 interview ben
Thanks for sharing 🤩 good vlog 👍 😀 let's explore more 😀
mauri looks very passionate and sincere... may god ease your journey bro.. come visit us in east coast one day.. the land of Alpha closed minded Man in general - where ego seems hard to land 😇😂
Thanks for your support 🙏 and yes! I would love to visit east Malaysia 🇲🇾
Good interview
Thanks Ben..you’ve done great Malaysia proud of you too, great friend… come to Borneo
Good job Ben...
Well said 👍👍👍💖
Mauri, you're an extrovert indeed...enjoy your life here friend.👌
Yes ! Iper extrovert 😅
Maluri, arguably without doubt, the best interview of a great man with so much depth who offer so much wisdom and insight into the dark shadows at the bottom of every man. Kudos to you my beloved brother.
Thanks brother 🙏 I appreciate your support 🙏
Mauri
Ben you are looking 100% good.. i thought you are going up to Penang..
Nice video 📷📸
Thanks Mauri for helping men here. When growing up, I heard this saying from my circle of family, "Men are allowed to bleed but not to cry". Very sad for chaining our men to this erroneous thoughts. It's wonderful to help them break this chain.
High quality content Ben. Ben have you tried Sup Daging at any mamak store yet? Or Ayam Percik at any Ayamas outlet? You'll be blown away.
tq
learn Bahasa Melayu is th best ways to make friendz in malaysia
I'm trying to learn on youtube, it's hard to find places to learn, u have any suggestions, I don't mind paying to learn
@@Hesheka , start with few basic standard sentences/response/greetings/compliments/questions at local shops.
@khairulhelmihashim2510 I already got the basics. I want to become an actual speaker what do I do or where do I learn 😅
@@Heshekatry watching the animated story of upin and ipin.
Brilliant idea. Learn malay then lure him to marry you, force him to islam. Then you get good european looking offsprings that youll be showing off. After that into stupid malay movies and get attention of royal families for marriage. This is your agenda.
I absolutely adore the guest speaker's enthusiasm.
@@rollinghippo2940 Thanks! I am really excited to expirience life
You are right! He definitely needs to check Sabah out! We even have one of the besr Italian diner in Sabah. Glad you guys liked Sabah❤
Lol....is that how Italian always introduce themselves. It reminded me of the YT video " My name is Giorgio Giovanni but everbody calls me Giorgio...tet tet teded teded tet tet tet....tet tet teded teded tet tet tet.....tet tet teded teded tet tet tet"😅
Bravo Maurizio.....mi fa piacere che piace vivere in mio paese!!!! Auguroni
Grazie mille 🎉
so open minded!! i love mauri already 😂
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Hi Ben, can you make a video about how to make a decent living in Malaysia as a foreigner?
I wish he come to borneo. Salam dari borneo 'Sarawak'
Malaysians are friendly and will welcome you. Just give yourself a chance to be open to it.
Excellent interview. Actually the title can be amended to "men and their mental health". Hehe.
We, Malaysian men just lepak at the mamak for healing 😂.
I think I saw you in KLCC today
Malaysia Asean therapist. In Malaysia those who see therapists are normally recommended by doctors. Here normally the family will support each other if we have problems.The majority don't leave their family behind alone.
Even Malaysians speak English to Malaysians
nice
i have lived in England for 15 years and now a Malaysian residing in the South Americas.
My opinion is if you can conquer Bahasa Melayu or Bahasa Indonesia - you will go far exploring the archipelago starting from Kuala Lumpur up to the Stunning Krabi; up north to the Majestical Champa (Vietnam); down south to the Magical Indonesia; north-west to the Ethereal Southern Philippines and far east into the Jaw-Dropping islands of Papua. Do you know how vast that is if you can speak Bahasa Melayu? Do you how vast it is this archipelago spanning from Sumatera up to Segenting Kra and horizontally further to Papua? That's HUUUUGE.
And when you can speak Bahasa Melayu - you are free to roam this beautiful garden (the whole Malay archipelago) with the knowing that everywhere you are in this archipelago - all are your brothers and sisters - they will look out for you🌟🌟🌟
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Ben, I recommend you PJ.
Omg Mauri, that's my friend hahaha.. got to see you here..
😅😅😅😅 i am everywhere 😅😅
Mauri orang mantap betul...
I do the best i can 🙏
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its motivated
I am glad to hear that!
Mauri
Love the video.
Off topic: that ledge looks very uncomfortable to sit on 😂
Yes ! It was very very uncomfortable 😅
Wow what a cool italian guy ❤
NAHHH SOMEONE NEEDS TO TEACH ENGLISH TO WALAOUN HADIAWANG 😂😂
It's true walaoun pas bodoh
@@Gdftgu
They are not b*doh. They are bright. IQ as high as cavemen.
@@Gdftgu Enrol walaun to the interviewees man's course.
Get a life, dude.
Mat mental ni sibuk 24jam politik
It is funny u caught a weed smell😂
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is it bad that I dont know what the smell of a joint is , and I'm Malaysian
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@@ALLSTAR.X. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
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reach out Global Gibbon next!
What an amazing job you're doing Mauri! Men do struggle all the time. At the moment I go back to religion for comfort and strength
I appreciate you and thanks for the blessings 🙏
Nice work I worship both ppl. I joint men circle with Mauri
Hey brother! Always welcome to the Men's Circle 🙏
Unfortuely the politicians keep spinning the racial and religious issue. I like back when religion matters was the taboo things. Kinda self understood amongst other religion for generations.
Now, politician keep playing the racial cards to gain votes! They are the one creating this religious tension so that they standout like the religious messiah.
If they politician are too worry about races and religion they would have abolish the school system by Races in malaysia long time ago.
Truth is the malaysian politicians like us be devided. So they can always have the religion ace cards to use
03:45 sudden smell of weed ..or ours local simply call it ganja is Malaysian most favourite healing dope Ben ...is because of it's ever famous relaxing healing effect and often associate feelin chilled and unaggressive ☮️✌️🎉
If u want to have discount or freebies learn bahasa melayu. U will be surprise😊
Having said about yourself in organizing your struggles... I wonder, what is the purpose of your life actually?
Supporting individuals and communities to overcome the illusion of separation between human beings, that at the moment is my purpose in life.
Mauri🙏
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@@mohdzaid4633 🙏🙏🙏
Ben...pls do a content Trump...bullies acts😂😂😂😂😂. Trade war😅😅😅😅
i dont speak english in malaysia
belajar bahasa lebih mudah
"wife, girlfriends...". Bro those words are not supposed to be together
Why not?
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I actually had more money in my bank account during COVID lockdown. Salary still comes in, the government gave me some money and I didn't have to spend much because we can't really go out so.....