30'S AND THE [NY] CITY: going on a first date (after ages), apartment issue updates, living alone

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  • OPEN FOR ALL THE DEETS ⇩⇩⇩
    In today’s "MY 30'S AND THE [NY] CITY'' diaries, we go on a first date (after ages!!! I am so rusty), opening up about getting back into the dating world, apartment issue updates, catch up with Krity ( krity_s?hl..., spend time with my sister and friends in Jersey City and run errands.
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  • @TishaShrestha
    @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I am a bit nervous about posting this vlog… for some reason, opening up about dating is somewhat daunting. I hope you guys enjoy the video ❤.
    Hopefully, my laptop will be fixed soon. I will keep you posted about the next Friday video on my TH-cam community tab or my Instagram (instagram.com/tishashrestha/

    • @Billy33753
      @Billy33753 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Best wishes on your dating experience, it can be daunting at first but with time the right person is out there for you. God bless!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Billy33753 aweee thank you ♥️

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KactusKM thank youuuuu for sending such a thoughtful message ❤

  • @lindanardone5645
    @lindanardone5645 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You're doing great Tisha! I have the same musty icky smell in my Manhattan apartment and have had 2 supers and 2 building management people come in and miraculously NOBODY SMELLS IT but me. I think they are trained to say as much. The management person said she would buy me some baking soda lol. They need the hazardous materials people like Servicepro to do the job but landlords will never spend the money. The struggle is real. Keep on keeping on!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so sorry you have to go through this ❤ A of people have recommended to call 311. Please contact them to report this. I don’t have musty smell but to prove that there is mold I got this kit from Amazon (picture I posted on this videoo- a.co/d/0SKbRfa)

  • @tinawhynot8893
    @tinawhynot8893 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Best of luck on dipping your toe back into the dating pool Tisha, take your time and listen to your intuition and your gut. Disappointing response from management, but not surprising - keep pushing back.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you Tina for sending such a thoughtful message ❤ 🥹

  • @siva_nejad
    @siva_nejad ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Really enjoyed this vlog. the fact that you are an independent lady so it’s sometimes hard for you to let your date for the bill I completely understand. I’m sure you are not alone😅 however him opening the door for you or waiting for your uber to arrive that’s such a nice behavior.
    I can’t wait to hear more 😉

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Siva! All the deeets when I see you in person ❤ 🙃

  • @saaunique
    @saaunique ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Everyone has these growing pains with NYC apartments, but you'll know what to look out for in your next (and better) apartment. Landlords in this city are despicable, true slumlords. But continue to document everything, be firm and ask for credits/deductions until its time to move on.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว

      This has definitely been an experience. Planning to keep on pushing and be firm with the responses. Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @yolandalara2794
    @yolandalara2794 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This place is not making you happy. I hope you find another place to live when your lease is up! You and your cute lil doggy should be happy where you live!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Yolanda ♥️ 🐶. We are planning to move out once the lease ends.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว

      yes!!! there is no accountability at all

  • @90sBabyx
    @90sBabyx ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just getting caught up on your vlogs! You’re literally my friend in my head 🥰🥲 such relatable topics, I can be so awkward too at times! Love how transparent you are with it! Thanks for making these ❤️

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว

      Aweeee thank you so so much for such a sweet message 🥹🥰♥️

  • @TheLuvliiSmyle
    @TheLuvliiSmyle ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how you navigate through the city so effortlessly :) meanwhile I am always lost in the sauce in the city hhahaa!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว

      Ditto!! I am always lost too. Takes me forever to figure out if I am walking the right way haha 😂

  • @DanielleJ27
    @DanielleJ27 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Tisha, really hope the issues with the flat will be resolved very soon, you should feel comfortable in your flat! Date 1 sounded really nice! Have a lovely weekend 💕

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Danielle, Thank you ☺️. Had a lovely night. I hope you have an amazing weekend and week ahead 💗

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Tisha good morning happy Saturday morning and happy weekend and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Edward, Happy Wednesday! Thank you and I hope you have a great week ahead 🙏🏽

    • @edwardleecaliforniausa
      @edwardleecaliforniausa ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Tisha Shrestha hi of course sending you hugs ❤️ 🤗 happy Thursday morning

  • @nelly17ful
    @nelly17ful ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your vlogs are so sweet and relaxing, just what I needed this weekend 💖 btw I LOVE YOUR IRON MAIDEN SHIRT TISHA 🔥

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aweee thank you ♥️🥹. I hope you have an amazing week ahead. I got the Iron Maiden tshirt from Urban Outfitters few years ago. I mainly got it because it was on sale and it is an oversized tee 😬😬😬

  • @DianeC1975
    @DianeC1975 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You looked so pretty on your date. 👍💕💕

  • @warmbreeze43
    @warmbreeze43 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You looked so pretty on your date. Maybe if you felt the need, you could consider asking them to let you out of the lease and you move somewhere else. I know that’s a lot of work but maybe you’d be happier. Have a great week

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Linda 🥰😊. Considering that option as well (most likely after summer). Hoping I don’t have to do that. I hope you have a great week ahead ♥️

  • @NofilterMarion
    @NofilterMarion ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You looked so pretty!!! I haven’t started dating yet..maby next year. Until then i’ll just watch you and take notes😀

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahaha thank you ♥️♥️♥️ please send help lol

  • @artsygirlmarilyn6296
    @artsygirlmarilyn6296 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤❤❤yayyy a date. You are gorgeous 💃🏻🌙🌷

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Marilyn ❤️🥰💫💌🌺

  • @francesco2581
    @francesco2581 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You looked so beautiful, I hope you can find someone nice and respectful. You deserve the best❤

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aweeee thank you Andre ♥️ 😭

  • @insertfemaleusername
    @insertfemaleusername ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t have any friends so I have to tell you that your friends are super lucky to have you 🎉❤

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      so so blessed to have YOU here ❤️❤️❤️. Thank you for being part of this community.
      Very grateful and lucky to have them in my life.

  • @krity_s
    @krity_s ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a fun day at Central Park!!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Have to do it again SOON 💜

  • @sacgeekgirl
    @sacgeekgirl ปีที่แล้ว +8

    100% they're just gaslighting you. They're professionals at it cuz there's a stack of 100 other people just waiting to move in right after. Bullies the lot of them

  • @thedreamerchandni
    @thedreamerchandni ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First date 🤩👏👏You looked so pretty 💕

  • @marcheprovencal592
    @marcheprovencal592 ปีที่แล้ว

    have a great weekend!

  • @sauri2005
    @sauri2005 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tisha goes on a date. Me , so very married woman gets excited. Too many fishes in the pond for Tisha❤❤

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahahaha! Thank you Arjabi di ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @Sjudit84
    @Sjudit84 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I know this is an older video, but I was so nervous for you before the date HAHA? I am so glad I don't need to do this anymore.
    Btw I'm like you, I am so used to doing everything myself that I would have probably opened the right side of the door too HAHA

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      HAHAHA :)))))). I don’t want to go back to the dating world again 😭

  • @Cheye-one
    @Cheye-one ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Get the heck out of there when your lease ends!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah that’s the plan so far 👍🏽

  • @jacquelineharriette2896
    @jacquelineharriette2896 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The same in 5he carribean try wash the rice a few times to remove the starch.

  • @Ann-cx3dd
    @Ann-cx3dd ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would consider moving...but, let's see what happens.
    P.S. The guy seems so sweet❣️
    Have a great wknd!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว

      Let’s see how they handle this situation.
      Yes, so far he has been very sweet 😉☺️. Thank you Ann!! Have a great week ahead 💗

  • @carolbailey8019
    @carolbailey8019 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look beautiful! Great outfit! Any guy is lucky who gets to hang out with you!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank youuuuu Carol 🥹♥️

  • @markeeecmarkoni2855
    @markeeecmarkoni2855 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Greeting.
    I have to admit that you are the only one I follow as doing vlogs or Influencer video or similar on that topic from USA or my home country (famous stars or unknown) soooo yeah great job for keeping me still in.
    It is funny how I start follow you and it became completely accidental after watching the haunting series but for some reason you seem interesting as a person and certainly sincere and not as if you are acting for success or being fake.....Or maybe because you're not American :)
    I will doo same mold test and I hope I can buy that thing here in EU (probably I can).....
    Oh just to add: all the money you pay for housing in New York which includes a lot others stuff except the apartment
    at the end you have to solve the mold situation by yourself .....They just take people's money and after that the support disappears ..... good luck

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว

      Greetingsss!!
      Thank you so much for deciding to stick around. I try my best to keep it as authentic as possible… so your comment truly means a lot 🙏🏽 💗
      I am sorry you are going through the issue. The kit I got from Amazon a.co/d/0SKbRfa
      I really hope the issue resolves for both of us soon. Good luck ✨

  • @chi2om
    @chi2om ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful dress you look wonderful

  • @lucillerissler4905
    @lucillerissler4905 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Tiaha, I saw you in another girl whose vlog I love watching, Taylor and you were at her engagement party, could not believe it was you.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Lucille, Taylor did such an amazing job with the engagement party! Love her videos...such an inspiration 🙌❤

  • @bonniepwtf
    @bonniepwtf ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Disappointing response from management, was hoping to have it go better for you. I don't know how to spell Chappae, sorry, but he looked especially cute when he was being playful with you by the kitchen. Best wishes with dating, I can understand your trepidation.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes but will keep on pushing!! Thank you so much Bonnie ♥️. Sending you virtual hugs from me and Jhaape 🐶

  • @christinalalonde4159
    @christinalalonde4159 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I know it may hurt finacially ??!!...but you need to move, the sooner the better💕

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hopefully I don’t have to break my lease but definitely considering it based on how all this pans out 💗

  • @heshanipupulewatte8776
    @heshanipupulewatte8776 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where are your sunglasses from?

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It is from Princess Polly. I got it like 1 and 1/2 yrs ago. Just checked their website & they don’t have it anymore

  • @somethingclever2
    @somethingclever2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You looked nervous before your date. I have social anxiety so I can relate. I basically gave up dating because of it.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว

      I tried to go without any expectations but even with that I was so anxious. I hope you give it a shot again ❤

  • @32446
    @32446 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You looked fabulous on your date. Sorry about your flat. If it’s not making you happy maybe consider moving. Your home is too important to not feel comfortable in.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank youuuu 💗. Will decide based on all this pans out. Hopefully I don’t have to break my lease and move 🤞🏽

  • @georgiejackpot9540
    @georgiejackpot9540 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It looks like they are playing you on the apartment issues … flipping it on you for not reporting earlier ( when you did) . After the year is up just move

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว

      I was so pissed when I saw the email. Let’s see how they handle the situation. Definitely considering when my lease is up. Thank you Georgie 💗

    • @georgiejackpot9540
      @georgiejackpot9540 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TishaShrestha I get the feeling the building “manager” played down the issues to managment front office so it looks surprising to them. But yeah just move into a luxury building next year , way easier.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@georgiejackpot9540 luxury buildings are definitely out of my budget

    • @georgiejackpot9540
      @georgiejackpot9540 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TishaShrestha true that

  • @SuzyQ77
    @SuzyQ77 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your channel; great videos! 💗
    Why do youtubers/vloggers keep playing the same music on their channels? There is SO much music out there to use.
    Please don't play that song anymore, I'm so tired of hearing it. It's like watching different shows on TV but they're all using the same theme song or music.
    I'm sorry, I'm just trying to help. ❤
    Hope you get things resolved peacefully with your landlord & that situation. Glad you got an air purifier. Did you get a good air filter for your ac that filters mold spores? Notice you're having allergies.

    • @aylamonic
      @aylamonic ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Most songs, because of copyright, you have to pay a fee to use legally. TH-cam will delete all the sound on a video if you do it without permission. TH-cam offers a selection of free music that you can use without having to pay a fee. That is why they use a lot of the same songs. Are you going to offer to pay the fees for her?

    • @SuzyQ77
      @SuzyQ77 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have a channel myself & I can assure you there are LOTS of free music out there! ALOT! Google it. Which you could have done before commenting.
      I care about her, her channel & her wellbeing. I pray that she is blessed financially to get everything she needs & desires. No, I'm not paying for anyone's music, especially when there are plenty of free songs. I will however continue to watch her videos and provide "views" & prayers. 😍🥰