4:33 I'm glad that my mother had me when she was around 20 years old because then she will live longer so I get more time. if she was older then she would have less time. like. if she gave birth at like 40s then she would be like. 60 when I would be 20. she would be a lot older already
Must be tough to face peer pressure, specially in more conservative societies like in asia. I am an older dude. I stayed single during the majority of my 20s. I was single because i was shy and not self confident and the longer it lasted the more i lost my self confidence, thinking i was alone because i was not good enough. That's a vicious cycle. Now i am with someone and understood i had it all wrong : i was single simply because there were no eligible singles around me. Love is a numbers game and the more you expand your social circles, the higher your probabilities to find a good partner. That's mathematics. Unfortunately we live very solitary lives nowadays... All the best
@@rita1010-ivy Thank you for your reply. I meant that i was living a solitary life and there were no single women around my age in my social circle. It can't work like this. Let's assume that 10% of singles around my age and of the opposite sex are interested in being in a relationship with me. Additionally, I would need to also be interested in this potential relationship (I'm less picky, so let's assume a 20% likelihood of me being interested in them). I would need at least 35 members of the opposite sex in my social circle to have more than 50% chance of entering a relationship😁That's a whole tribe
4:33 I'm glad that my mother had me when she was around 20 years old because then she will live longer so I get more time. if she was older then she would have less time. like. if she gave birth at like 40s then she would be like. 60 when I would be 20. she would be a lot older already
Thanks a lot for sharing. It is always a pleasure to listen to you. Regards Pearly.
Must be tough to face peer pressure, specially in more conservative societies like in asia.
I am an older dude. I stayed single during the majority of my 20s. I was single because i was shy and not self confident and the longer it lasted the more i lost my self confidence, thinking i was alone because i was not good enough. That's a vicious cycle.
Now i am with someone and understood i had it all wrong : i was single simply because there were no eligible singles around me. Love is a numbers game and the more you expand your social circles, the higher your probabilities to find a good partner. That's mathematics. Unfortunately we live very solitary lives nowadays...
All the best
If you don't mind, what do you mean there were no eligible singles around you?
@@rita1010-ivy Thank you for your reply. I meant that i was living a solitary life and there were no single women around my age in my social circle. It can't work like this.
Let's assume that 10% of singles around my age and of the opposite sex are interested in being in a relationship with me. Additionally, I would need to also be interested in this potential relationship (I'm less picky, so let's assume a 20% likelihood of me being interested in them). I would need at least 35 members of the opposite sex in my social circle to have more than 50% chance of entering a relationship😁That's a whole tribe
Hi! How are you doing?
From today on I will listen you to improve my English skills! I'm learning English and you speak so well, damn. Thank you!
Eu vou fazer 27 agora em outubro e nunca namorei, eu quero namorar mas tenho muito medo de me envolver com alguém 😢
Are you a woman?