31:32 To this point, "no" is a full sentence. You don't have to elaborate if you don't want to. Even if they ask why, you can simply say "Because I don't want to." No further explanation is needed. I can get expressing more can make someone feel at ease. But it's truly on the other person to mange their own feelings. Not you.
Nice topic. I always listen all the way through because I love listening to people share their philosophy and get a window into their life. You're certainly way more mature than I was about people pleasing at your age. It does take a lot of courage, but I agree that it's so worth working on. Even from the point of view of helping others, having the ability to say no to some people helps you actually be helpful in general. It's not just selfish.
31:32 To this point, "no" is a full sentence. You don't have to elaborate if you don't want to. Even if they ask why, you can simply say "Because I don't want to." No further explanation is needed. I can get expressing more can make someone feel at ease. But it's truly on the other person to mange their own feelings. Not you.
I keep your phrase. "Your happiness does not depend on the happiness of others". How much truth is these simple words. Thank you Pearly.
awww thank youu
Nice topic. I always listen all the way through because I love listening to people share their philosophy and get a window into their life. You're certainly way more mature than I was about people pleasing at your age. It does take a lot of courage, but I agree that it's so worth working on.
Even from the point of view of helping others, having the ability to say no to some people helps you actually be helpful in general. It's not just selfish.
oh woww thank you so much for listening all the way through🥹🥹🥹and thank you for your kind words and feedback!
Hm... i am not affraid dislike by some one i am not relate or i am un convertable
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the thumbnail looks kinda weird, maybe change it?
I think I'm good with this one! But thanks for your feedback :)
as soon as you started apologising in the beginning of the video i knew that you were indeed a true people pleaser like me 🥲
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