I was married for 43 years and now divorced. We struggled because of these very issues Jimmy speaks about. Unresolved Anger destroyed our marriage. If we had heard and gone to Christian counseling, I feel confident we would have made it work. We later became good friends of which I'm grateful, it helped our children cope better. Neither of us married again. He became ill and passed away 4 years ago. I was there for him until the end. Jimmy, has great teachings. If God sends another soulmate into my life, I will be more educated and ready to resolved anger issues, with love and respect for my partner.
Even though I am going through divorce (God's way works, unfortunately it doesn't work when only one person wants to work it out and go God's way) ... I still enjoy these.. It's helpful to build a better me and helps to know what I want in a future relationship.
I hear you and my prayers are with you. I do am facing a divorce and am praying for my miricale of reconciliation. I have an angry wife and i so badly love her and want to repair our relationship bjt it is very difficult. I habe no.power nut all things are.possible through christ who love us and gives us his strength.
@@mikewhite9148 I'm in a similar situation. I'm praying for a Miracle reconciliation. Its been very hard not knowing if it will happen. That is great you want to repair yours, my prayer is for you both. It takes two wanting to work together for a healthy marriage. Mine is the opposite, it is him that isn't willing right now. Jimmy, has great knowledge with his teachings. Good Luck to you, Mike!
So often just the right video of his comes up right when I need it. This morning I prayed God would help me with my anger, I did it as usual silently so it's not like my phone picked up on any words about it. I just went onto youtube and this was right up front recommended for me.
Wow this is really good stuff! I think I need to listen to this every day! So so relevant and helpful! And delivered with a touch of humour! Thank you 😊
I need prayer for my wife and I desperately. We have dealt with addiction and a number of other things but we love each other and need prayer. Anger has been dividing us. I thank God for these teachings it’s the only way I do well is constantly listening to jimmy
Jacob, our team will certainly be lifting you and your wife up in prayer. Additionally, please feel free to visit xomarriage.com/marriage-help/receive-coaching/ for marriage help anytime!
Quick thing, the video is awesome! The last part about women / men dealing with emotions : i’ve always read or heard that women and men both start to go into fight or flight when their heart rates get over 100bpm, it’s not a men thing ... it’s a human being thing. I’m pretty sure Gottman was one of the researchers that said this.
I am sold out on his ministry and teachings. He is truly gifted with great wisdom about marriage. All I can say is, wish I had known about his ministry when I was married. Men and women's minds work differently, as it states in a book Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus. The only reason I stated this book, it helped me to understand the difference between the 2 sexes and how to understand each other. Great Book. Not knocking Jimmy's teaching at all his is fantastic. However, everyone that is going to start a marriage/relationship, should read first.
as a recently single man, I enjoy these videos. I wished my former partner wished to attend and or listen. I know in listening to these I'll be a better person in my next relationship.
My husband told me he was feeling particularly angry towards me but didn't know why. He asked me how to fix that, and I'm not sure what to say. He seemed a bit lifted by the time we went to bed but curious how to handle that when I don't have the answers except to pray in that moment.
I feel so sad. I could use the prayer and the power of our Lord today...my husband has hurt my soul. He has had a lot of anger towards me. He calls me names, puts me down and has now put physical harm towards me. I ask for prayer. I ask for help.
Praying for you Veronica. ❤️ you are a daughter of God, He is your Heavenly Father and wants you to be safe & loved. He does not want you in harms way, so even though God hates divorce he hates abuse as well. Pray for your husband anc your own heart, for healing. God can change him, but you also need to set boundaries and be wise in protecting yourself. You are worth respecting, loving & cherishing. Break the cycle & stand your ground against the devil, fight for your marriage n do not repay evil with evil. Please be safe but pray for healing & Gods conviction over your husband. Stay safe sister. Lean into Jesus He hears your aching heart & can give you strength to endure & overcome. ❤️🙏🏼
Yes, don’t get me wrong, there are times when we need to be angry, we need to fight… If not we be goose-stepping our way to work right now. But it should be one of the LAST options, not always the first. Because when you get angry, you don’t think straight, and people take ADVANTAGE of that
This one Spirit filled man is equal to 70million Dr. Phils
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Maybe your just a goof in your relationships 😃
I was married for 43 years and now divorced. We struggled because of these very issues Jimmy speaks about. Unresolved Anger destroyed our marriage. If we had heard and gone to Christian counseling, I feel confident we would have made it work. We later became good friends of which I'm grateful, it helped our children cope better. Neither of us married again. He became ill and passed away 4 years ago. I was there for him until the end. Jimmy, has great teachings. If God sends another soulmate into my life, I will be more educated and ready to resolved anger issues, with love and respect for my partner.
I know this story :(
Even though I am going through divorce (God's way works, unfortunately it doesn't work when only one person wants to work it out and go God's way) ... I still enjoy these.. It's helpful to build a better me and helps to know what I want in a future relationship.
I hear you and my prayers are with you. I do am facing a divorce and am praying for my miricale of reconciliation. I have an angry wife and i so badly love her and want to repair our relationship bjt it is very difficult. I habe no.power nut all things are.possible through christ who love us and gives us his strength.
@@mikewhite9148 I'm in a similar situation. I'm praying for a Miracle reconciliation. Its been very hard not knowing if it will happen. That is great you want to repair yours, my prayer is for you both. It takes two wanting to work together for a healthy marriage. Mine is the opposite, it is him that isn't willing right now. Jimmy, has great knowledge with his teachings. Good Luck to you, Mike!
Ow sorry about that. How are you today ?
I hope your days now are better than your yesterday's♥️
@@mikewhite9148 There is nothing too hard for the Lord 🙏
I love watching this even though I'm single
ruben canas, me also...
That's ok. It will help u both to know what to look for in a godly relationship ☺️
You both have the best seats in the house as singles! God bless you both!
This man is the wisest man I’ve ever seen.
I totally agree, Heather! Wish I had known about him earlier in life. However, I know about him now.
please pray for me and my husband we been arguing everyday
I am praying for you. Heart
I’m sorry . We are praying you and your mate!
it take two to argue , and only one to submit for peace
So often just the right video of his comes up right when I need it. This morning I prayed God would help me with my anger, I did it as usual silently so it's not like my phone picked up on any words about it. I just went onto youtube and this was right up front recommended for me.
I tend to criticize instead of complaining. I never share my feelings.
The Christian attitude… I don’t criticize, I offer commentary; I don’t argue, I have a conversation. I don’t force, I share and express
@@jojowarrior1862 A much better way!
Glad he is touching on this subject
Amazing message. You were great to see at the pittsburgh xo conference we loved hearing you!!!
Amazing messages. Amazing man of God and..woman behind him. 👏🏻 thank you. God bless you.
Excellent teaching.
This was really helpful...
I love this sermon 🙏🏻🙏🏻
It's a very powerful message....I am here to learn
Thank you! ❤️
Thank you for this🙏
Wow this is really good stuff! I think I need to listen to this every day! So so relevant and helpful! And delivered with a touch of humour! Thank you 😊
Glad it was helpful!
13:53 there is a difference between complaining and criticizing
I need prayer for my wife and I desperately. We have dealt with addiction and a number of other things but we love each other and need prayer. Anger has been dividing us. I thank God for these teachings it’s the only way I do well is constantly listening to jimmy
Jacob, our team will certainly be lifting you and your wife up in prayer. Additionally, please feel free to visit xomarriage.com/marriage-help/receive-coaching/ for marriage help anytime!
I thank you for the wake up call
14:48 difference between complaining and criticizing
Quick thing, the video is awesome!
The last part about women / men dealing with emotions : i’ve always read or heard that women and men both start to go into fight or flight when their heart rates get over 100bpm, it’s not a men thing ... it’s a human being thing.
I’m pretty sure Gottman was one of the researchers that said this.
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I am sold out on his ministry and teachings. He is truly gifted with great wisdom about marriage. All I can say is, wish I had known about his ministry when I was married. Men and women's minds work differently, as it states in a book Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus. The only reason I stated this book, it helped me to understand the difference between the 2 sexes and how to understand each other. Great Book. Not knocking Jimmy's teaching at all his is fantastic. However, everyone that is going to start a marriage/relationship, should read first.
as a recently single man, I enjoy these videos. I wished my former partner wished to attend and or listen. I know in listening to these I'll be a better person in my next relationship.
This advice only works if both people are truthful.
It’s possible to do all the right things and the other person does not want peace.
My husband told me he was feeling particularly angry towards me but didn't know why. He asked me how to fix that, and I'm not sure what to say. He seemed a bit lifted by the time we went to bed but curious how to handle that when I don't have the answers except to pray in that moment.
Let the kids see us revolving conflicts righteously
Good advice, I trust and believe in God. Not sure if my spouse will be able to get it.
I feel so sad. I could use the prayer and the power of our Lord today...my husband has hurt my soul. He has had a lot of anger towards me. He calls me names, puts me down and has now put physical harm towards me. I ask for prayer. I ask for help.
Praying for you Veronica. ❤️ you are a daughter of God, He is your Heavenly Father and wants you to be safe & loved. He does not want you in harms way, so even though God hates divorce he hates abuse as well. Pray for your husband anc your own heart, for healing. God can change him, but you also need to set boundaries and be wise in protecting yourself. You are worth respecting, loving & cherishing. Break the cycle & stand your ground against the devil, fight for your marriage n do not repay evil with evil. Please be safe but pray for healing & Gods conviction over your husband. Stay safe sister. Lean into Jesus He hears your aching heart & can give you strength to endure & overcome. ❤️🙏🏼
Nice
Yes, don’t get me wrong, there are times when we need to be angry, we need to fight… If not we be goose-stepping our way to work right now. But it should be one of the LAST options, not always the first. Because when you get angry, you don’t think straight, and people take ADVANTAGE of that
This is the best one yet.
difference between a pacific complaint and a global 15:17
My husband’s reaction is his responsibility not mine! I can only control myself! So maybe that should be clarified in your speech
I don't have an issue with anger... I'm just not going to be second to any woman 👌
That’s a whole other situation entirely
6:10 wrong behavior will briing the right result
Truth
I wouldn't be angry if my husband was here
Dustin Charles I want you back in my life. Come get me and you will have all my attention
No distractions you got me
the way you deal with ange is probably how your kids will deal with anger 5:30
the difference between men and women 16:12
WHY. I. GET. MAD. BECAUSE. I. MISS. MY. HUSBAND
when you go to bed on anger 9:17
15:07
the devil want to convence you that wrong behavior will shake your spouse into doing whats right 6:08
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the devil accusses you spouce of evil motives 7:25
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