Why I live ALONE and Refuse to Date

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  • @tidelinetoalpine
    @tidelinetoalpine  ปีที่แล้ว +262

    Haha Sunday video 🙌🏼
    Frank is having a pretty hard time today and in the next video I’ll share the details of what he’s going through and what our life currently looks like. While he snoozes I’m trying to keep myself distracted with work which is how I managed to put this video together. Thank you so much for all the love and support 🙏🏼💜
    PS: when I’m alone in nature I hang out naked a lot, I just generally keep it off the channel because I like earning a income 🙃

    • @tamipalermo2375
      @tamipalermo2375 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Thank you for your open honesty. Finding true authentic people is not easy. 😒 prayers and positive vibes for you and Frank!!

    • @theicangram
      @theicangram ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I am sorry Frank is struggling. 😭

    • @BlissfullyBearFoot
      @BlissfullyBearFoot ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Poor Frank… but I know hes in great hands! 💕

    • @LSChestersMom
      @LSChestersMom ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Sending you and Frank so much love..

    • @RenayVildhjarta
      @RenayVildhjarta ปีที่แล้ว +10

      💋🐶Sending All the LOVE, Mercy & Healing Blessings 🙏💜💚✊🏽
      I too have known the insidious pain of Arthritis for most of my life which makes my Heart goes out to Frank& you even more💔 Cannabis has been THE saving Grace for me & All of my Older Animals🙏 thankfully there are a multitude of products out there. Hopefully Frank finds some HEALING & Relief from the pain soon🍀🤞

  • @JellyCatGaming
    @JellyCatGaming ปีที่แล้ว +167

    I'm 34. Been married. Been chasing love since I was old enough to conceptualize it at about 15. Lots of toxic long term relationships. I finally accepted I was the common denominator in all of them. Decided to quit dating and just be with myself. Now it feels like a super power. I don't need anyone to be content.

    • @MrLessgov
      @MrLessgov ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Congratulations. To come to that conclusion at 32 says good things about you. Enjoy it and when the right one comes along your ready 😉.

    • @tammieparrishmiller3669
      @tammieparrishmiller3669 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@MrLessgov So much truth here.

    • @greenghost6416
      @greenghost6416 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@MrLessgov Thats the crux "the right one". There is no such thing as "the right one".

    • @janicerobinson6803
      @janicerobinson6803 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Totally agree that there is no such thing as ‘the right one’. I was married for 7 years, had 3 children and have now been divorced for 47 years. Yes, I am old now. My point: I have done just fine being solo, raising my kids and enjoying my own company. Since I became responsible for only myself, I have had some great adventures, and I love my life. Last fall, I bought a minivan, did a no-build inside and have lots of plans to start traveling in Canada in early spring. Age is just a number, and you do not need a spouse to ‘complete’ you. I am woman; hear me roar! Amanda and Frank are awesome! ❤

    • @helpmeretiresoon5972
      @helpmeretiresoon5972 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same hear I've been by myself for 4 years now.

  • @mojo7493
    @mojo7493 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    "Nobody gets to tell me how I feel about something and then hold it against me when that's not how I feel." Amen and amen!!

  • @ryanonwheels2174
    @ryanonwheels2174 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    A wise person once told me "if I waited for someone to travel with me, I'd never travel." And that led me to so many adventures all by myself, moving faster and farther doing exactly what I wanted to do when I wanted to do it. This video resonates with me very deeply

    • @irisgarcia9470
      @irisgarcia9470 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's exactly my answer when people ask why I travel alone. They also call me crazy. The best experiences in my trips always happened when I traveled alone.

    • @nancycoole5217
      @nancycoole5217 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯💯💯💯💯

  • @jessegreywolf
    @jessegreywolf ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Learning to love your own company is the greatest gift we can give ourselves!

  • @underscr0e
    @underscr0e ปีที่แล้ว +145

    no drama no stress and keeping busy = peace

    • @tidelinetoalpine
      @tidelinetoalpine  ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yep! The greatest gift you can give yourself 💜

    • @KM-cn5pc
      @KM-cn5pc ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That doesn’t equal peace, drama and stress arises all the time, relationship or not….stillness helps you find peace which is stopping the busy and dealing with what comes up within…

    • @matthewmiller9575
      @matthewmiller9575 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@KM-cn5pc I think what they mean acceptance, choices and productivity.

  • @hermitgirlwanders9162
    @hermitgirlwanders9162 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    After 30 years of being single, I found the best friend and companion ever! Me! (And my dog, Punk) Full time nomad 5 years. I really enjoy your work/art 🥰

  • @shesoutthere387
    @shesoutthere387 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I have never met you and I am old enough to be your grandma but you and I think alot alike. When you talk about how you feel it is jaw dropping because I feel exactly the same way. Sending you and Frank good vibes.

  • @traciebl7470
    @traciebl7470 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I needed this today! I am having lots of health issues and two days ago I lost my best friend Daisy she was 13 years old. Just started coughing, got her to the vet and there was a large tumor. I am getting by because I know she's at peace and I gave her the best life possible. So this video touched me deeply thank you Amanda and I'm praying blessings for you and Frank. ❤

    • @tidelinetoalpine
      @tidelinetoalpine  ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Thank you 🙏🏼 I am so sorry for your loss, sending lots of love 💜

    • @normaevett
      @normaevett ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So sorry, dear! I lost my little furry love to Cushing's disease in June. She was only 10.5 years old. It hurts so much.

    • @traciebl7470
      @traciebl7470 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@normaevett Thank you and I’m very sorry for your loss

    • @RenayVildhjarta
      @RenayVildhjarta ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @TracieBL74 💔Share your pain... this month we lost my Dearest companion 😻the Amazing INCREDIBLE Polydactyle Cat🐾 Marbles
      The void left has been so DEEP & such a struggle 😢
      His kitty Wife has taken it VERY HARD & has made the ability to put it out of mind for even a few moments impossible.
      Not knowing how to help her deal without him has made this loss particularly difficult.
      Even writing this is hard
      Thank you for sharing, it has made it easier for me💓
      Sending All my Love, Prayers, Good Wishes, Compassion, Mercy & Grace❤✊🏽🙏✌🏽May All be Free from Suffering

    • @traciebl7470
      @traciebl7470 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@RenayVildhjarta I'm so sorry. Its very hard lose a pet when we just love them so much. Many blessings your way.

  • @susanaughey9343
    @susanaughey9343 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I have been in toxic relationships and they were hard to rid myself of. Years later, I finally enjoy my solitude and don't require anyone to enjoy my life. Relationships for me are too much trouble. I am very happy just being with myself and no one tells me what to do, how to act, etc.....I like me and will always strive for improvement, but I don't need to change for others including me. Hope Frank is comfortable and getting the rest his poor body needs. Take care of you and Frank. You both deserve that.....Always.

  • @deborahforrest5601
    @deborahforrest5601 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Wish I would have figured this out in my early years. 🥰 single now. Alone and have never been happier.

    • @tidelinetoalpine
      @tidelinetoalpine  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Better later in life than never 🫶🏻

  • @saylaveenadmearedead
    @saylaveenadmearedead ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Your fans read like a global support group of kind and introspective people. Amanda, you are an accomplished photographer and the videos are beyond superb!!! We love Frank and relate to his peaceful nature!
    Thanks for sharing the enjoyment of your life well lived...

    • @tidelinetoalpine
      @tidelinetoalpine  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Awww I love this thank you ☺️

    • @bsavi62
      @bsavi62 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very well said... I agree!

  • @dianecampbell184
    @dianecampbell184 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Van lifers seem to have figured it out Amanda, but you are a shining example of someone who has mastered the Art of Wellbeingness, or the Art of Being. We have to learn to love ourselves First, before we can really love another person, without unrealistic expectations to constrain them. You, Amanda, are a wonderful Artist! 🌈🌎💖

    • @juliamoon6562
      @juliamoon6562 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I don't think it's a matter of loving another person but not settling for less than we want in life JUST to have another person by our side. With the low standards these days, it's really better to be alone, much healthier and obviously peaceful. And yes Amanda and VanLifers are doing it right !! :)

  • @karenb1627
    @karenb1627 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I do everything alone. And I prefer it. I maintain an open heart and know I'll get what I need. Frank's underwater swimming footage. Love that. The ariel views of the tideline waves weaving in and out if each other, was quite mesmerizing. Per usual, your words are always gentle reminders to be self aware, self loving and gentle with ourselves. I'm so happy to have you and Frank in my world......it helps me to do all those challenging self things. 💜🐾☮

  • @kathryngganderson8636
    @kathryngganderson8636 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You are never alone. All One. You have Frank, the best companion ever. And we are with you always, All Ways. I love your beautiful videos. You take the longest shots I have ever seen of melting beauty. Most TH-camrs are so hyped up, and fast, it is difficult to see what they are filming, and really enjoy it. You allow us to have the time with the waves and the beach and Frank!! Thank you!

  • @roadtriplover.
    @roadtriplover. ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I understand your perspective, as for quite some time after my divorce, people would just randomly say, “Don’t worry. The right person will come along.” I finally realized that I’m not actually looking for someone and I’m not willing to wait around for them. My life is NOW, and every day is a day that’s lost if I’m not out living it. Now, people say, “I can’t believe some of the things you do.” Would they rather I sit and wait? That’s just insane, imo. All that said, I’ll take each day and enjoy it as it flows. Hopefully, I’ll continue to meet and enjoy many friends.

    • @Liberal.Linda.
      @Liberal.Linda. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      "My life is NOW."
      YES!! Exactly. I'm not waiting for anyone. And really I don't want anyone because they are just too much work for too little return. When someone says "Don't worry. The right one will come along.", I tell them, "But I don't want anyone. I'm not waiting for them, I'm not looking for them, I don't want them." They look at me like I have two heads. Oh, well.

  • @stuartriley
    @stuartriley ปีที่แล้ว +45

    You could be called anything you like or not anything at all: in my days I was called a “free-spirit”. I was a photographer and film maker that enjoyed my time alone with my camera. But, don’t be too surprised if one day you find someone that becomes a close friend without drama.

  • @steelcarnations2207
    @steelcarnations2207 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm 57 and rejected 3 marriage proposals. Traveled and volunteered for world aid agencies, and can go help disaster relief at the drop of a hat when need arises if I want. Turn the truck in whatever direction the world needs. Now that's what I enjoy doing, but I do it alone. Live your best life. And being alone is what is best for some of us

  • @returningtoearthtv8836
    @returningtoearthtv8836 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Things Loved: (1) Tideline drone shots - just spectacular (2) your honest reflections and sharings about silence, self respect, knowledge of self. Your a wise woman Amanda. And courageous and kind.

    • @tidelinetoalpine
      @tidelinetoalpine  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you 🙏🏼 hope you’re having a wonderful day.

  • @tomwilliam5118
    @tomwilliam5118 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Long story short I was married one time now I'm single. Prior to me getting married I really didn't want to be single. But now after being single again I find it is ever. Wake up when I want and don't have to worry about pissing off somebody else. I hope things work out for Frank I enjoy your Channel you're one of the most honest, humble and down to Earth person It's hard to find that in a personal these days

  • @NYCHFAN
    @NYCHFAN ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Bravo to you! I feel the same way. Being alone is not being lonely and being your own best friend is the greatest thing! Sending good Juju and Love to Frank and yourself.

  • @jr2no160
    @jr2no160 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    🙏🏾✊🏿👏🏿 thankfully you took the "Me" journey at a younger age. Not surprisingly most people never engage the very necessary person in the mirror journey. 🥰 I was in my mid forties and struggling with my PTSD and a single parent of three. So grateful and blessed I invested a decade in myself. 🥰

  • @joansidor3409
    @joansidor3409 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I married at 55. Widowed 26 months later. He wanted me to have good health insurance, plus a few other perks that society grants married folks. Joan

  • @roamthewayhome
    @roamthewayhome ปีที่แล้ว +11

    No words could truly describe how much this video spoke to me. Your past is my past, and I am hoping to achieve what you have achieved... complete independence from toxicity, addictions, & people who drag me down to a point that makes me lose myself in their needs and wants, instead of doing what is best for me. You are a treasure... and you deserve only the best. Do not settle! Life is too short to spend it catering to assholes!
    Thank you for this video.... seriously. I needed this today more than you could know. Take care & keep being unapologetically you ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
    We are here for you !

  • @goodandgreen
    @goodandgreen ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow, this one is special. I'm disabled, isolated in a big city and it is amazing how far from my daily experience and yet how reasonable your self sufficiency seems, you've found your art in living alone. I dream of beaches and trees and not needing help.

  • @LaNette1
    @LaNette1 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Hey Amanda, what an incredible video and what a beautiful amazing spot you were at by the ocean wow right now you’re living your best life and you can’t ask for more than that and that’s how I feel I’m living in 2006. I went through cancer and divorce at the same time but I’m happier now than I have ever been. I have my daughter and son-in-law that live close to me but I feel like I am living my best life. thanks for taking us along to all these incredible places be safe and you and Frank have fun. You guys are amazing.🇺🇸♥️👍🙏🙂🐾🐾🚐🇨🇦

  • @LSChestersMom
    @LSChestersMom ปีที่แล้ว +12

    We have so much in common... I have been a long passage all on my own, no dating, just myself, my work and my dog... and I LOVE it.... it would take someone very special for me to even think about dating... I love time to myself and I love my own company.... introvert alert :)
    I love my Chester pup so much ... it makes me happy to focus on him :)
    So much love to Frank :) :) :)

  • @livingsimplytosimplylive6817
    @livingsimplytosimplylive6817 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Amanda you are so beautiful, not just physically, but I have to tell you your beauty was one of the reasons that I clicked on your channel. But your beauty all around that’s what keeps me coming back.

  • @TheASMRlogs
    @TheASMRlogs ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have learned to appreciate my solitude. It is so nice to raise the bar on who is allowed to share it.

  • @mdphotoworks2010
    @mdphotoworks2010 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi Amanda. I was steered to your page by a hiking buddy of yours. I enjoyed this video very much. It's really interesting hearing about your evolutionary journey. I admire you for taking the necessary steps to break free from the toxic environment you were in. You're having an amazing time, just you and Frank. I think I'll hop on over to Instagram in the morning and give you more info that the rest of your followers don't need. 😊

  • @elainemartinez2021
    @elainemartinez2021 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You and Simon (Foresty Forest) are very similar spirits. You both remind me so much of my husband. I've followed you both for some time now on TH-cam, and I can't tell you how many times I've told myself, "Man, David would be best friends with you guys." Just sincere people making their way through a broken world.
    God bless you and keep you safe.
    You have an online tribe, but I pray you are lead to your in-person tribe, too. One that is safe, respectful, peace-focused, etc.
    Lots of love,
    Elaine from Cali.

  • @SweetiePieTweety
    @SweetiePieTweety ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Everything you said 1000 times yes!!! What you have right now and are experiencing is a gift that very few ever take the risk to Discover until they are way way way too old to actually enjoy it fully

  • @annettec8555
    @annettec8555 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your space, photography shows a peace in life. Good for you!
    Last week I enjoyed three night time campfires by the ocean, out of my CRV with my dog along coast in Washington State.
    The Big Dipper is so much brighter at the ocean. Easier to fall asleep as camp fire goes out.

  • @carrolhenderson1555
    @carrolhenderson1555 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm going through the same problem with my dog. I understand!. Tomorrow he goes to a specialist and I have to decide which direction we will go. It's so hard. Is he suffering, I don't know. 11 years of "perfect " and one day of hell. Again, it's so hard.

    • @tidelinetoalpine
      @tidelinetoalpine  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m so sorry to hear this. I hope you can find a good path forward 🙏🏼

    • @SabrinApollo
      @SabrinApollo ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Just went through this on Monday with my elder greyhound. It never gets any easier. ❤️

  • @Offdutynurse1964
    @Offdutynurse1964 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Beautiful video. I’ve been married twice and still with husband #2. I’m soon to be 59 and the years have taught be that you must always be true to yourself. If I could go back and tell younger me anything, it would be to stop searching and start looking within. Have a beautiful week

  • @aured1310
    @aured1310 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It’s not true that someday the right one will come along. For many people that never happens. That’s why it’s important to be fine with being single. I do get a little tired of people saying this phrase.

    • @TUPELO_HUNNY
      @TUPELO_HUNNY 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      For me, the right ones are 4legged and furry ❤❤❤ those are the ones I hold onto.....loyal faithful and zero drama 😂

  • @skytechbits
    @skytechbits ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yes everything you say about being single I also found to be so true and wonderful. I'm not a fan of answering any questions about anything either. Living in the moment and just being alone is a whole lot less stressful for sure. I'm glad you are enjoying your life on your terms Amanda. Sending many hugs to you and Frank.

  • @mgmilw4966
    @mgmilw4966 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have never been to a bar, do not drink, or use drugs. I got married to my husband when I was young. We celebrated our 50th anniversary this June. Our kids flew home for the week-end and we all spent the week-end together. I have never done what you are doing. We both retired together when we finally helped the last child finish his university degree. So now we enjoy life together. Guess life is different with everyone. I have been following you for awhile and will continue. May you be blessed with health and peace and joy!

  • @simplifiedlife8607
    @simplifiedlife8607 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Singleness is a gift when we embrace it, but that special person could enter our life and we know it's right. That's an amazing gift too. Beautiful video.

  • @sbenn99
    @sbenn99 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I think you are an amazing woman and you are so good at doing things your own way. If you have small problems, you deal with it, especially driving an older vehicle, but that is so cool how you can go days without talking to anyone other than your viewers, and you can make so many decisions on what to do with yourself next, without saying a word to anyone except to Frank and yourself. Some other people do not understand how great it is to not have to deal with anyone but yourself and your dog. You do you!

  • @whitleyrobertson7070
    @whitleyrobertson7070 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Nothing better than a fire on the beach and the peaceful sound of the waves…..all good

  • @angiedee8749
    @angiedee8749 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Congrats to you for living your life for yourself & not anyone else. I can relate with the social & family pressures to be in a relationship, but what people often forget is that the most important relationship is with yourself. Thanks for sharing your life. Also, what’s the name of the dehydrated bean flake mix? It sounds incredible….happy travels.

  • @notVeganjustRegan
    @notVeganjustRegan ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You’re a rare creature to find. Your days are what I strive for. I gave up my apartment in March and went full time living out of my Subaru Outback. In montana. We got some snow this weekend.

  • @Monyornothin
    @Monyornothin ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I appreciate the parts of your message that I need to hear. I'm 4 1/2 years in and though a lot has changed I still need to embrace the path of self discovery by leaving the familiar and comfortable behind. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏻

  • @dianecampbell184
    @dianecampbell184 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The aerial shots are beyond cool. So beautiful and definitely tropical looking. 🌈🐲💖

  • @cyndeeh
    @cyndeeh ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your so blessed to get to do that. You really are. And giving frank his best life... wow. How very lucky you are. Sending healing vibes and prayers for frank.

  • @sallydansereau1270
    @sallydansereau1270 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What a gorgeous location! Being able to enjoy your own company is so powerful. I had given up on having a spouse because of similar issues, ie. someone trying to control you, when I met my husband and kindred spirit on a ski trip. But had I not met him I was fine to be alone. Don’t regret the past, you have learned valuable lessons and shaped the today Amanda, who is a beautiful person. What I have recently learned is that simple living is key. I am still working on shedding some society expectations that I have been suckered into. You seem to be further into that journey, and I truly thank you for sharing your wisdom. ☮️

  • @heatherinsf
    @heatherinsf ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love how Frank wags his tail when he swims, such a happy boy!

  • @deborahwhitcomb357
    @deborahwhitcomb357 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sending more love & prayers for you and Frank both. Stay strong Sista! 💜🙏

  • @ThriftStoreHoors
    @ThriftStoreHoors ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your cinematography is gorgeous, as usual.

  • @TrueBeliever6491
    @TrueBeliever6491 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Whoa...your words almost exactly echo.what I had been thinking. I also had toxic relationships that brought out the worst in me. And yes, they do seem like a waste of time but no, they taught me things about myself and this world we live in. Kudos for having strong boundaries!!! Mine have become a lot stronger too.

  • @juliamoon6562
    @juliamoon6562 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love this video, great scenery, so serene. I have come to so many of the same conclusions as you, and the times I have wasted looking for a partner have been just that "wasted time" the best thing to do is to find yourself, and be happy. Seems like most of society is searching for someone to complete them and I just don't believe I am incomplete. Or even "single" I am already a whole entire person lol ! Being alone and happy is a special skill, not everyone knows how to do it.
    You're doing it right, Amanda. :)

  • @lisajel52
    @lisajel52 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This might be my favorite video that you’ve done. Big, big kudos to you for sharing your life and giving Frank such a wonderful, contented life too! Love and companionship will come when you least expect it. I admire you and wish you nothing but the best in every aspect of your life! ❤

  • @lynh8378
    @lynh8378 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Enjoy your quiet time with Frank. Be well!

  • @bonnienklyde918
    @bonnienklyde918 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey there, I dont always comment on your videos I watch. But this one? Yes I must because the views are breath taking. Unreal footage of the ocean straight down. Very impressive!
    I also agree with you on the focusing on yourself as Ive been married, divorced 3 times because I thought I had to be in a relationship because everyone else was.
    Ive been single now for over 15 years and love being alone. I have just myself to please and not some over expecting, demanding man that only cared about himself. So yes you are 100% correct.
    Thankyou for a great video again and we(I) will be waiting for your next one.
    Be safe, stay well and God bless you and frank 🐕 🤷‍♀️

  • @spookydonkey2195
    @spookydonkey2195 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As someone who lives a fairly solitary life, this whole video really resonated with me. Your setting is dramatically more beautiful though, what an amazing place! Have you ever messed with night sky photography? I’m sure your Sony would do great. It’s surprising what is possible on a static tripod and some software.

    • @justb-nme
      @justb-nme ปีที่แล้ว

      I would love to see some nighttime sky photography

  • @janerainsford8996
    @janerainsford8996 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m 70 and I’ve practiced serial monogamy for 50 years. That’s enough!!! I’ve been living alone for 8 years. I’m happy.

  • @Shelty6
    @Shelty6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A couple things: One, Frank absolutely fits his name. It is a strong stoic name. He just looks like a Frank. :) Being alone: So i think that the art of being comfortable alone is so valuable. I travel alone, shop alone, camp alone, pretty much do everything alone if you don't count my dogs. The dogs keep me from being lonely but it sure would be nice to have a human to share driving or beautiful sites with. I have a few friends that I camp with and it makes it a lot of fun especially since we have our own rigs and can go to our own space when we need alone time. Sharing a van/tent/rv would be a challenge since the dogs don't really want to share me at bedtime. I think it is good to just wake up and take each day moment by moment and deal with everything as it comes. I hope Frank is feeling better in days to come. I know how much you love him. It is hard to watch and not be able to fix it.

  • @tammi_willis
    @tammi_willis หลายเดือนก่อน

    Only just found your channel and already binging. I'm almost 48 and have been celibate for a few years, single for a few more and honestly can't imagine ever wanting to be in a relationship again. Being able to pretty much do what I want, when I want, enjoy my own company and chase my own dreams without having to compromise and settle and change who I am for another person, is worth more than any possible benefit to being in a relationship. I have an amazing family and amazing friends and none of them cause me the kind of aggravation and stress that I've had in any serious relationship. I just don't like myself when I'm in a relationship, I feel like a reluctant carer who can't think about anything else but how to make my partner happy and it's exhausting and thankless. Now I spent all that energy on myself and on many others too, but with no obligations. Love your channel, will keep binging x

  • @jodyyoung2726
    @jodyyoung2726 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I discovered your videos yesterday. I have to admit I wasnt a fan of the first one I watched but glad I gave the channel a chance! I love seeing someone create content in one place rather than moving all the time. I feel like if I ever did do van life I would approach it like you do. Focusing on self and bringing people along. Rather than going places TO create content. I love the peace that you convey. Subbed!

    • @tidelinetoalpine
      @tidelinetoalpine  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Welcome Jody, I appreciate your honesty.

  • @YvonneMarieR
    @YvonneMarieR ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Agree 110%.. being alone and on our own is so much happier. I am much older then you and sadly it took a very bad break up to realize alone was so much better. I have never been happier and more content, it’s just perfect. Have a beautiful week and soft hugs to Frank.

  • @tinadoughty925
    @tinadoughty925 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have fought for years to try to keep family and friends in my life but what I have realized is that I too am happier alone. No drama, no arguing, no expectations ect... I feel more healthier and alive by myself .

  • @chaddeschenes8922
    @chaddeschenes8922 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amanda! Complements to you on such a genuine video. Thank you!!! You are an amazing person :)

  • @chrystaleng5946
    @chrystaleng5946 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing the ocean and the fire. Love being on my own living out of my Jeep.

  • @mothbythesea
    @mothbythesea 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I know this is an older video but i just recently found you so im bouncing all over the place but omg i love you and this is so relatable! ❤

  • @vaishnavigosain7197
    @vaishnavigosain7197 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm a 25 year old woman and i never really had much luck dating, just a one time experience to be precise and that was also very short lived and not the healthiest. This video gave me a sense of calmness in a very long time because we live predominantly in a world where everyone emphasises on having someone, for once it is very refreshing to see people who are candidly happy being on their own and who understand that companionship is not the only joy that one must try to seek all the time, not to say that having someone who loves you is necessarily always drama and toxic but in the end of most situations in life it is only You. Also Frank deserves all the love...Thanks Amanda for this video!

  • @annc5193
    @annc5193 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amanda, I see this video resonated with a lot of people. I totally understand about the joy of being alone. Moving thru the day at your own pace and in your own way.
    Relationships can be fun or awful. And you never really know what your getting until the romancing and capture is complete. I managed along the way to marry two abusive men plus 1 alcoholic. I adopted the baseball system to protect myself - 3 strikes you’re out!!! So I will never marry or live with anyone again. I’ve had several guy friends. Then a couple of men I loved and never lived with. They ended up loving the fact we never lived together. Said it was like a honeymoon when we spent time together. Unfortunately one man was killed in a tragic accident and the other died of cancer. Lot of recovery required from losing them.
    So now I choose not to date. Not to look. Am so happy on my own spending time with my women friends or traveling alone. I also have a Grand Caravan that I camp in. Nature always soothes and heals my soul. Plan to start spending more time away from home camping in my van. Spending my days outside. I hike, cook outside, eat outside. I have a cooking shelter. So I can spend my whole day in nature and sleep so well at night. Spending days in fresh air really relaxes me.
    Keep on going Amanda. You have found a beautiful and soul nourishing way of life. I love how open you are and all the gorgeous video footage. Thank you ❤️🤗

  • @abeach5420
    @abeach5420 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    *@**21:47* ... eeee i'ma dead {again}....that driftwood beach fire, moon + reflection,
    and our infamous shared Salish Sea all creating best ever chill space!!
    *@**5:10* .....insane captures + big dipper just WOW *@**5:18** other wordly girl* !!
    *@**5:33* Tx for making me cry 'again'

  • @margoburns9085
    @margoburns9085 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a camp! Like an ancient fortress on the beach. Frank looks so happy and content. What a beautiful life!

  • @teenalagree494
    @teenalagree494 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I cannot believe how gorgeous this beach is!! And you had it all to yourself--I am so jealous! The drone footage is breathtaking! I think you are one of the coolest people on YT. You are living out your dreams and no one holds you back. Self love is the best love🥰 Prayers for Frank's upcoming procedure!!
    If you get a chance, what's happening at 5:05 ?

    • @tidelinetoalpine
      @tidelinetoalpine  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s Starlink!! Went by two nights in a row about the same time.

  • @1hoppyac1
    @1hoppyac1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Looks so peaceful n relaxing hearing those waves how beautiful

  • @jjtrue
    @jjtrue ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That timelapse at 5:05 is creepy, all those satelites in a straight line. Just wild! Anyway this video is beautiful, you are are a lady after many of our own hearts. Stay blessed on your journey's...

  • @theicangram
    @theicangram ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have been single most of the time since 2005. I have dated and have had one really serious relationship since then. All of which turned out to be disasters. Drama, etc. I have not dated for 5 years and I have also been spending a lot of time figuring out myself, and all the reasons for choosing the relationships I have. And breaking many, many cycles. I am also nomadic with my dog, and not sure how it would ever work to share this life now. Maybe? But I am almost 58 yrs old and I have zero time to waste so sharing my life with someone is not looking good. It does get incredibly lonely sometimes and I miss love for sure, BUT, I am definitely just as happy as anyone AND a LOT less stressed and dramatized, and I love that!

    • @blueman5924
      @blueman5924 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ditto ( 61 ) 👍

  • @charlesgordon8713
    @charlesgordon8713 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hard to say who’s more fortunate... you or Frank!... best regards and safe travels.

  • @juniperwildflowers
    @juniperwildflowers ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I relate so much! Either a miraculous person will magically appear or I'll be alone forever, which is perfectly fine 😊

    • @sallys2423
      @sallys2423 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My outlook too. Radical acceptance of what was, what it is now and open to the future.

  • @jamesadams8748
    @jamesadams8748 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The person that is meant for you will find you. Yes it does get lonely but you're doing what you need to do for you first. You are living life and exploring places. When you least expect it thats when someone who understands your way of thinking and joy of they life you chose will meet you. Keep being the genuine person you are. You and frank keep enjoying each other's adventures

    • @nicole2138
      @nicole2138 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There’s also a chance she wont find someone that’s “meant for her” and thats perfectly fine. I see so many people especially nowadays telling women they’ll eventually find their perfect person.. but with the direction the world is going there’s a huge chance a lot of us won’t find that person. Not trying to attack your comment because everything you said was perfect but for the single folks that may come by this I hope they know they might not find “the one” and that’s okay💜 constantly holding onto the idea of another person coming into your life will only lead to more sadness and emptiness. I hope everyone stays content especially when alone because it’s extremely powerful!

  • @beck4407
    @beck4407 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're living the dream! I am envious, So glad that you are spending quality time with Frank in his Senior years. He is a very Lucky pup.!! I am an introvert, I was an only child, and have always enjoyed my own space. Being alone has never bothered me. Sometimes it is just too peoply out there... Enjoy your life, I am now 60 years old and it goes by very quickly... Peace and Happiness to you both. Xoxo's extra for Franklin. 😘

  • @RoxyEwe
    @RoxyEwe ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I could feel the state of bliss and contentment both you and Frank were in! That feeling made me feel the same way! This beach was one of the most magical ever! Thanks for your excellent vlog!! Can't believe it is still so warm in October! I hope you stay and keep relaxing! And you are so on track with enjoying being with just Sweet Frankie!!! Hugs!! 🧡🍁🧡🍁

  • @annewinning9723
    @annewinning9723 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are living my dream life - but it took me until 68yrs of age to figure it out! May be checking out my van to make it happen tomorrow - glad you have figured it out ….. stay true to yourself - hugs to Frank.

  • @lapinewood
    @lapinewood ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i absolutely loved that drone shot of the waves

  • @amygravlee8782
    @amygravlee8782 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I feel very similarly about romantic relationships, Amanda!
    I genuinely enjoy my time alone with my pupper. And he doesn’t enjoy new ppl in our lives so only the determined make it into our inner circle (romantic or otherwise).
    Thank you for sharing your perspective on life. That beach looks amazing!

    • @maxx8650
      @maxx8650 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ha ha.. I'm a single female with a dog that is extremely selective..he hated my last BF.. he'd constantly bark at him. He used his face to leverage off to get that spot...I'm too much of a giver. Men have been to lazy which leads to mental overload carrying them through .. telling them what to do. I love my solitude

  • @roadtriplover.
    @roadtriplover. ปีที่แล้ว +2

    what a beautiful, perfectly set-up location for camping! the drone footage so powerfully highlights it.

  • @mattkrea
    @mattkrea ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The longer you spend alone the more you tend enjoy your own company (especially if you've got an animal companion). I've found that when it comes to dating, I am more unwilling than ever to want to change for anyone or live with something about that that I don't like because the reality is we don't have to live that way. Of course sometimes things might be better shared but I can honestly say that I have enjoyed my every minute of my solitude on the road. Cheers, Amanda!

  • @nancyknowles305
    @nancyknowles305 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love tagging along in your videos, Amanda. Thank you for the beauty and the wisdom you share--and the happiness of Frank playing with a stick of wood! You are both awesome! :)

  • @denisestarr2314
    @denisestarr2314 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Six years offgrid building my homestead by myself .
    I got devorace at 50 , never again will I be dominated again . I havey 2 dogs and my land with lots of trees and peace n quite .
    I'm clean , sober , celibate.
    I am high on life everyday .

  • @sonjadlong7554
    @sonjadlong7554 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The drone footage was absolutely breathtaking! I could watch the surf come in and push out for a very long time.
    This spot is Heavenly.
    Definitely meeting content ppl is no easy task. Come On Universe 🤣 send a friend XOXO
    Lifting Up Franklin 🙏

  • @robertphillips3893
    @robertphillips3893 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Frank looks so good when he is playing fetch. I feel for him because pain sucks. I am glad he gets to have fun while it lasts.

  • @ivandrago7546
    @ivandrago7546 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the camera work in your videos, its always so good.

  • @kerriballard9014
    @kerriballard9014 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I savored this video.
    You are lovely inside and out. Praying for Frank

  • @christineboismier8849
    @christineboismier8849 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm right there with you, Amanda. I have not dated anyone in 3 years. I'm just happier by myself.

    • @blueman5924
      @blueman5924 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      try 19 yrs, still just fine. 👍

  • @Kitpu917
    @Kitpu917 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a beautiful beach the waves crashing the fire popping and crackling the stars absolutely so peaceful. Frank so relaxed! Your such a good doggie mom and a real genuine person. You have so much to offer and one day that special someone that is in harmony with you will come along. You really know yourself and are comfortable with yourself that is a beautiful trait. Ty for the lovely calming video ✌️❤️to you and Frank

  • @domg7359
    @domg7359 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This place looks absolutely amazing, with very few people. In awe at it. Thanks for letting us in to experience some of it.

  • @abeach5420
    @abeach5420 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    WE being *THE-DREAM-TEAM being the co-pilot/supervisor/dapperist doggo EVER*
    *annnd our Amanda aka bestest doggo mama/cinematographer/creative* !!
    *@**8:11** . . . luv the heart 'find' . . .omg you & I both are so blessed to find so often*
    SO many fabulosities within this video Amanda . . . oooo the drone shots {I'ma dead}
    I hope the uhhhh thumbnail does not bring wacko trolls n' such cuz it is such a
    great community without them.
    Just "be here quietly...at ease following whims of my soul" !!

  • @DuvAngel1
    @DuvAngel1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really like your artistry in your photography and videography.😁✨🕊

  • @user-gq7bi1lq9u
    @user-gq7bi1lq9u ปีที่แล้ว

    The clarity and color of that water - so gorgeous! Your drone shots are exquisite. And I loved the scenes of the night sky - the Big Dipper and Milky Way. You truly have an artist’s eye. Although my life is quite different than yours, I enjoy and admire your self-reliance and desire to fully know - and love - yourself. Much love to you and dear Frank. His eyelashes! And his comforting little snores…

  • @susanjackson1458
    @susanjackson1458 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There is a lot to be said for living your life as you want, alone or together with someone or both. After 20 years of fits and starts and endings, I experienced over 20 years with the love of my life, who I found in mid- life, and lost four years ago. Now in the sunset of my life, I am enjoying my alone time. It’s all about living the life you’re in. You are doing a good job of that.

  • @RenayVildhjarta
    @RenayVildhjarta ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's a proud privilege to be able to watch & share in your AWESOMELY Amazing Growth into the kind of Humane Bean☕😂we should ALL STRIVE TO BE 🙏
    THANK YOU for being YOU AMANDA 💯YOU Make the WORLD a Better place to be ✊🏽💚💜
    Noticed you haven't been posting about roasting beans or coffee making lately have you cut back on that also?

    • @tidelinetoalpine
      @tidelinetoalpine  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you Renay 🙏🏼 I truly appreciate the support of viewers like yourself that have been along for the entire journey so far. I haven’t roasted beans since the spring due to renovations and such so I’ve been buying coffee. I only drink one cup a day and have made it a little smaller so just verrrry slightly cut back although I am considering removing it entirely. I like the flavour but I don’t need the caffeine anymore.

    • @bernadettebockis4120
      @bernadettebockis4120 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tidelinetoalpine
      Try the mushroom coffee, or mushroom (hardly any coffee) coffees. Yum. Less acid, more health aspects.

  • @hemlockknits
    @hemlockknits ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like my own company too. It’s easy to lose yourself in a relationship. The drone shot with the waves crashing was amazing. You could do an entire video just of that. Now that the weather has changed I’m looking forward to rainy cosy videos

  • @debsimonovic1684
    @debsimonovic1684 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I really enjoy my own company but then again I have a heeler too so Im never really alone. Love your travels ❤️

  • @Cill441
    @Cill441 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Frank you are so lucky to have adopted such a beautiful human.