You handled the kid pretty good.. caution next time do not follow or go where they wann take u.. U are super kind-hearted person.. God bless u and keep u safe.
See, according to census and data, even the "poor" in the city donot represent how real poor people live in India. In cities, the poor are lazy, arrogant people. You shouldn't help them. Delhi is one of the largest cities in the world, they have everything they need yet they choose to beg. If you really want to help poor people in India, visit states like Chattisgarh, Jharkhand, Odishha etc. They work hard that's why they are satisfied with their life even if they are poor. And so, when you help them, they are grateful. This kid needs to go to school. Delhi has free school education, free food at school...Don't spend a single penny on them, not even on food.
@@chrismixxlewis I know Chris how it feels. You are a good man with a kind heart, so you decided to help. But you have to get immune to them. Notice that's why locals always drive them away. Btw, I love your videos. Keep up the good work, and have a safe travel. Best wishes.
I am Indian/American and living in California USA. We also have the same experience when we visit in India.I do help poor people who work hard and don't begg.One thing is bothering me that everyone is calling this "annoying kid" poor people.They are not poor but they choose to beg.This annoying kid maybe 11 years old and already begging and may be That's what he is gonna do for rest of his life, because he is not in the school where high school Education is free with free food. Man selling coconut is working 15 hours a day, and he came from Bihar to work. That's what poor people do. They work hard and don't beg and are satisfied with their earnings. "Auto rikshaw" man, Chris gave him 200 rupees, and his face lit up after getting 200 rupees instead of 70, and he came from outer state to work.I think he deserves 200 rupees because he is working hard. Poor people are working hard 12 to 15 hours a day. This annoying kid was also ungrateful eventhogh Chris paid for his paneer roti and lassi, and didn't say thanks but kept saying that you didn't help me because he was aspecting cash.Chris was smart enough to not to go with him. Visitors feel so frustrated when these beggers follow you long period of time.
@@chrismixxlewis always ignore these beggars, don't even make eye contact and walk past them asap. And if they still don't stop following you scold them , I felt bad in beginning when I saw people scolding them but with time I realized we don't have a choice, my brother once literally shouted because they were literally lingering on him, I didn't liked it and later even told him that you shouldn't have shouted they looked scared, but once I was with my father and when a beggar came to him, he talked to him softly and gave him a chocolate since he asked for one, but he refused and asked for a costly one ofc we refused but he kept following until we were gone, that time I realized we've got no option but scold them
@@chrismixxlewis also, dolma aunty's food is not good at all, never buy anything from there, you've just met someone who've recommended you wrong eatery
OK this never happened to me in TH-cam, never ever I saw a 45 minute video without realizing that it was a 45 min video. So good Chris. You are really a humble guy and full of positivity... Just be more aware with the people you interact with or mostly ignore them... Good luck
Bro how do you know words like 'Sanskriti' and 'rihwayati'. Most indians don't know them. You are insanely impressive. The accent, the vocabulary all of it. The fact that you speak Mandarin and Vietnamese makes it even more impressive. Oooof.
I have never hit a kid but the second he tried to extort you by saying about police and he will bother you I would of turnt the camera off and dealt with him properly. Can't have him getting away with this stuff even once or he will persist. Well done in not giving in and not losing your cool. Your a way better human than I am.
Chris you are really good and fluent in Hindi and you handled the situation very well. The gut feeling is that kid had some other plans so he wanted to take you and kept following. Beware of these type of guys as they will not only rob you but can do worst ☠ Best thing is you didn't gave him any money and instead you fed him but that kid was like that was nothing kinda thankless because he had other plans.
@@rabbit9638 Nope not more like urdu but fluent in hindi. Urdu has more complicated words from Epiglottis if you have seen or heard. But hindi & urdu are like siblings so one can understand it if they know either so that's the resemblance 👍
This happened to me one time. Two girls were selling pen and they were in need. I purchased a pen for 4 times the price to help one girl but then next girl also started using the same tactic to sell me another pen. I told her humbly that I cannot buy another pen so she abused me verbally in public even though I had helped her friend. I walked minding my own business. I thought may be it was best not to help poor people but I just shrugged it off. I think helping poor people is a good thing but we should also be ready for some bad experiences and whenever it happens just shrug it off. I know Chris you will think about this for long but better to shrug off and don't let your future experience get effected by this one incidence.
Once I was buying cigarette from a shop and a poor kid came asking me for help. I told the shopkeeper to give him a biscuit packet. The kid told me that he wanted kinder Joy. I didn't even buy him the biscuits after that.
@@Kitarp06 oh that kid before I didn't watch vedio I just stepped on comment when I watch vedio I'm very angry only this people was in india that's why India is not developing I really hate that people want free food one day I also feed a poor kid then they asking money I refused to give money and when I sit on my bike they broke my bike side mirror that.
you learned the lesson ... boy looked healthy enough and not at all starving ... as soon as he mentioned sister and money and started refusing feed i knew it was not going to turn out well ... any delhite here? what advice would you give chris after he realized that he is going to have tough time getting rid of such beggar?
In my opinion that kid looked like he was a great con artist who just conned Chris here are also some other things i noticed 1.he definitely threw away the roll as it as in his hands a few frames ago and was gone after 2. He was trying to lead Chris some where 3. He definitely wasn't poor or anything he was faking it all
Chris you are good soul bro but that was horrible experience. Please be safe bro. these kids have gangs behind them. You could see he was trained to get people in trouble.
I think the moral of the story Chris is not to get involved, as you found out, it never ends with just your good deed. That kid put a bit of a dampener on your whole experience there, and he didnt look particularly sad about it either, he was laughing about it as if it was some sort of game he was playing to extract money from you, and if you did give him money, would he have gone away? I doubt it.
The sad reality is that it becomes a form of "art" for them as opposed to legitimately wanting a stranger's help. Like you said, they look to extract as much as you can. It's difficult when you're a foreigner in a different country with a very different culture: you don't necessarily want to make a scene because then you'll look like the mean ugly American who is accosting a local kid. However, when someone has been told NO and they keep persisting, then I think it is universal to have to get angry with them and tell them more directly to get the hell away from you. In New York, I can tell you firsthand that 95% of us do NOT engage and just keep walking.
@@Krakaet In India generally people will support the foreigner because everyone knows what is happening. The Paneer Roti shopkeeper seemed skeptical af. There is no "mean American" stereotype in India, because Indians are decidedly worse. Finally due to differences in culture the south of India is a good option if you want less of these problems, or the North East. South Indian here, from Kerala.
That episode with the child was quite disturbing and understandably put a damper on things for you. You are a good person who is very empathic and wants others to feel good. This was hard. I feel like that boy may be beyond help. Corrupted in some way. Sometimes all we can do is walk away. We love you Chris. I am hoping to learn some Hindi by watching your videos which are very enjoyable. Thank you for Subtitling. It is much appreciated. Keep on making them vids. And don't let the darkness get down.
@@SylarbearG2a Veer Zara is a movie made once in decades, honestly. I am not a Bollywood buff but I watched it more than once. These stupid rom-coms they make these days can never come close to veer zara or bajirao mastani (its a recommendation). Bollywood movies more often than not lack a good story or great dialogues and even natural acting, but bajirao mastani and veer zara were two masterpieces.
It's mostly because it's hard to break the mental preconception that the person wouldn't speak Hindi, or is using some basic phraseology. Once the realization catches up, they make the switch back to Hindi.
It's usually the human nature to speak in language of other person comfort when trying to help. So if you have any commond of the Forienger you would be glad to help in their language to not make them uncomfortable speaking in foriegn language
Thank you for showing an omnipresent slice of ordinary interaction on many streets of India. Unlike anywhere else in the world, India challenge the traveler to confront the contradictions and failure of modern economic and social development. It does this on a spectacularly personal level, challenging us to examine not only who we are as humans, but the state of the world for others. Here, the impulse was to treat this kid with kindness, generosity and thoughtfulness. But where there are blatant inequities, a struggle for financial solvency and a future with no social or economic mobility, other rules apply. And who can blame them? I used to think that global travel, international social media and the internet would help. But no, globalization has has had a mixed record. Travelers from wealthy nations, especially white skinned travelers, face the contradictions and moral hazards of travel, especially in India. I, like Chris, love to travel and reach out to everyone, but I also try to be mindful of the fact that I am one of thousands alien passengers, to be fed, entertained and enjoyed, but in the end, forgotten in the parade of the next one in ine. I think the best way to help others is to allow India to put a mirror to yourself, your behavior, and how best to be a mindful visitor. The depressing and sad truth is, that there are economic, class, cultural and societal hurdles far too challenging for visitors. . So travelers will learn this lesson while maintaining their own norms. I shall always love India for its sights, hospitality, food and culture. But most of all India can be a personal journey of self awareness, of a lesson uncomfortable truths, and for many, a unique spiritual escape.
@@decoseo he wrote the bare truth. It took you 5 mins to understand him and some Googling as you're yet to learn what's all around you. However, IT TOOK ME A SECOND TO KNOW YOU MADE A FAKE ID!
Great improvement over the last 30 years. I remember back when kids in China used to wrap themselves around your leg and wouldn't let go with until they got some money, with their mothers encouraging them from a distance. My friends from Taiwan and Hong Kong always paid up. Back then street kids in Vietnam used to grab your arm or walk so close to you that you had to zig zag to avoid bumping into them. The Russians used to kick them away, but when they found out I was American they persisted. This kid actually went away after some time. Things have definitely gotten better.
In many countries this is not a thing at all... Only in some countries do people behave in that gross manner and use being poor as an excuse. He had no manners and was completely ungrateful. It's no ok that any child anywhere would think it's acceptable to behave that way for any reason.
@@Lindseyisloony i suggest you something in India as the people name especially in places you eat If they have muslim name the food will be unhygienic (maybe tastier) If shopping something ask a local or compare 2-3 shops for same thing Don't give any attention to these poor rats
@@AdityaSingh-mm1ez I do partially agree with you! Most of the Muslim eateries in the north of India are unhygienic but the food is really tasty! But not all muslim places are like that....there are a few places that are hygienic as well as tasty....but yeah...the majority (like maybe 75%) are unhygienic Whereas in the south of India,I've rather noticed a general average standard amongst all the eateries..... except in Karnataka....there also most muslim eateries are unhygienic but tasty at the same time 😅
Sorry for that Kid's Behaviour. He was a Con Artist and you got conned .. You're a good person Chris, But never ever help them. Be as cold as you can and ignore their presence like they don't even exist. You don't need to take the burden for their situation. Love from India to you
You don't need to be cold to anyone. The child did not hurt him. So he wanted money also. It is not his fault for being in poverty. One doesn't have to give money, but one can still be compassionate and kind. In the end, we cannot take anything with us when we die.
@@bahaar2825 cant he study in a govt school instead? or is begging, wearing BRAND NEW cloths, wanting desperately for you to go to a different location. by saying, 'yaha ka nhi waha ka khana hai' or 'mein apko mere bhaiya se milwata hu' etc etc... is better? sorry, but the kid looked like a drugee sadly, who just wanted money for a next 'hit' or 'rip' or whatever it is.
@@JUSTCHILL_06 well not the ones, who are consistently convincing you to go to a 'second' location. By keep on sayin, 'i don't wanna eat from this shop, but from the one a bit far away' or something like, 'i was you to meet my big brother, let's go' etc etc...
This is what I have observed there are some good people among well off and some bad people among poor ones. Poverty is not a hallmark of humbleness or simplicity neither affluence is hallmark of arrogance. It’s better we understand human nature without putting on the lens of seeing them as poor of rich. Chris be safe be attentive 😉
Dude Chris, just avoid these beggar/nagging folks bothering you. Just ignore them completely, if you utter a single word, they'll click onto you and hassle you. If they do not go away even after ignoring then shout at them and make a little scene, they'll scram. Don't let them take advantage of your goodness. That kid looked like a thoroughbred swindler.
He said people scold him. People scold him because he deserves it, his actions proved it. I would have scolded him as well. You could have told any local gentleman about him following you and he would have treated him the way he deserved. I wish you had gone to a really nice and fancy restaurant and pampered yourself after that unfortunate fraud experience with that little man (kid). You needed it. Take care.
The boy had an angelic smile, but as soon as I saw "Help me and God will help you," that told me he had practice. Oh, well, he had an extra snack and drink and some attention.
Man now that I’m traveling in India, videos like this are hilarious. Because now all these troubles are something that I experience on a daily basis. I don’t speak very good Hindi just a couple phrases so I get in all kinds of weird situations. But knowing other people from the west also get into those situations is nice.
How many languages can you speak dude? Great view from your room. I can't speak Hindi, but can understand most of what you're saying, I'm of Punjabi Sikh descent and speak Punjabi which is similar, but I'm blown away with how many languages you seem to be fluent in, you pick them up really well. Not common for Americans or the British to know another language. From London, UK
Chris, you are even-keeled and so patient. It's moments like this spending time with a sweet and desperate kiddo that make me watch this channel. I don't know what to do when this happens. Good on you for giving it a try and keeping hope alive!
I have been watching your videos and you are too generous to offer things to strangers. You have to understand there are lot of street people who will ask for money and try to bother you. Don't do that and save the hassle. Good Luck !!
Chris- First time in your Vlog. Simply amazed by your Hindi language fluency. I live in Texas and my daughter learned Hindi watching Bollywood films but wont speak. You are amazing for an American to have learned just watching movies. And one thing for an advice. Dont eat any uncooked food or cold drinks like lassi / the bottle soda you had etc. The handling of food with dirty hands and general hygiene is very questionable. And the final thing dont engage with anyone like the kid you were with. They will be pests knowing your compassion.
Hi Chris, you are amazing bro. You speak the Hindi language, it's unbelievable. you speak like a native, see I noticed not a single mistake or error, you consider the things that have genders, it's like how is your brother/wife?now brother is called kaisa, and wife is called kaisee, this is the difference. Anyway you keep going, see I know English, but you can speak Hindi way better than I speak English, I live here in New Zealand, I am from India, and Have you visited Gujarat western state of India?Do visit sometime, we Gujarati people are also so down to earth, I am sure you would feel a lifetime memorable experience,
Chris, your videos are original and not doctored and that makes them very novel. I have watched your Vietnamese videos in the past and I must say you have a gift for learning new languages. I look forward to seeing some South American country videos in the future. Before you leave India, I suggest you could visit some villages where 64% of the Indians live. Very few western bloggers make videos in rural areas.
Difficult to survive without 24*7 electricity and a good internet connection. Also, the food will be an issue. And no Western toilet. Even I get scared at the thought of visiting my grandparent's village. The situation is quite bad.
The kid is doing what he needs to do to survive. And Chris is being kind and hasn't developed his thick skin yet. Both of them are beautiful people, just raw life playing out.
Kid is definitely not an innocent one. He is grown enough to understand what he is doing. He seems crazy and was definitely intending to con Chris. They are more dangerous than people who openly rob you.
He handled that as he should have imo...stood his ground with grace and didnt let the kid take advantage of him, even when it got quite uncomfortable. I don't dare to judge the kid - I know nothing of hunger and scraping by on the streets. But I do know the kid's poor attitude doesn't take away from the gesture Chris made. Love people with a big heart. Have a nice weekend everybody!
I find that you are improving every single day. In fact, I felt that You speak better Hindi than myself. Best of luck and enjoy your Stay in this Great Country. 🤞👍🙏
You handled yourself very well. I remember when I went to India, I would try and help as much as I can but once you give one, they swarm you and it's non-stop so I had to stop giving, as much as it pained me to do so.
Hi Chris, only started watching your videos this evening and I am hooked.....they're honest, real, entertaining. Your Humilty is impressive, loved your Mathura dinner invitation. Thanks soo much for sharing and you have a beautiful heart and smile........take care
Can't say I found the persistent little brat, particularly endearing, but apart from him, a great video, as well as a cautionary tale for other tourists. Perhaps a, "If I give you some money (or food), will you promise to bugger oaff, - forever? PROMISE."
I like the fact that you could have easily edited out the interaction with the kid but didn't makes this video for me. It shows your willingness to be vulnerable to your audience and with those with whom you interact. There is an honesty about you Chris. Even when the subject of your video, perhaps a vendor, is standoffish, your friendly and open attitude often wins them over in the end. It is pleasure to watch. Tony from bayside.
I just finished watching this video and released it was 45 MINS LONG??? It didn't feel like because i was so invested. I love the way you keep your video raw, real and uncut.
You handled the kid pretty good.. caution next time do not follow or go where they wann take u.. U are super kind-hearted person.. God bless u and keep u safe.
India is a land of trickery and scammers. Be warned and be cautious at every turn. At every step.
You did plenty for the kid. Thank you and blessings to you.
Chris your kindness is unimaginable but that's the reason why hardly any people interact with such kids.
If you have more people like Chris in the world. It will be a better place. Respect
Absolutely 🤗
Especially in India
AGAR BURE LOG NAHI HONGE TOH ACCHE LOGO KI VALUE KAISE HOGI ...
RAM BHI USKA AUR RAVAN BHI USKA ,,,
Fr. There are a lot of “bad” people in the world
See, according to census and data, even the "poor" in the city donot represent how real poor people live in India. In cities, the poor are lazy, arrogant people. You shouldn't help them. Delhi is one of the largest cities in the world, they have everything they need yet they choose to beg.
If you really want to help poor people in India, visit states like Chattisgarh, Jharkhand, Odishha etc. They work hard that's why they are satisfied with their life even if they are poor. And so, when you help them, they are grateful.
This kid needs to go to school. Delhi has free school education, free food at school...Don't spend a single penny on them, not even on food.
Thanks for the advice. I agree in part. It’s a tough call though casue I still feel bad, especially when I’m there stuffing my face with food 🫠
@@chrismixxlewis I know Chris how it feels. You are a good man with a kind heart, so you decided to help. But you have to get immune to them. Notice that's why locals always drive them away.
Btw, I love your videos. Keep up the good work, and have a safe travel. Best wishes.
I am Indian/American and living in California USA. We also have the same experience when we visit in India.I do help poor people who work hard and don't begg.One thing is bothering me that everyone is calling this "annoying kid" poor people.They are not poor but they choose to beg.This annoying kid maybe 11 years old and already begging and may be That's what he is gonna do for rest of his life, because he is not in the school where high school Education is free with free food. Man selling coconut is working 15 hours a day, and he came from Bihar to work. That's what poor people do. They work hard and don't beg and are satisfied with their earnings. "Auto rikshaw" man, Chris gave him 200 rupees, and his face lit up after getting 200 rupees instead of 70, and he came from outer state to work.I think he deserves 200 rupees because he is working hard. Poor people are working hard 12 to 15 hours a day. This annoying kid was also ungrateful eventhogh Chris paid for his paneer roti and lassi, and didn't say thanks but kept saying that you didn't help me because he was aspecting cash.Chris was smart enough to not to go with him. Visitors feel so frustrated when these beggers follow you long period of time.
@@chrismixxlewis always ignore these beggars, don't even make eye contact and walk past them asap. And if they still don't stop following you scold them , I felt bad in beginning when I saw people scolding them but with time I realized we don't have a choice, my brother once literally shouted because they were literally lingering on him, I didn't liked it and later even told him that you shouldn't have shouted they looked scared, but once I was with my father and when a beggar came to him, he talked to him softly and gave him a chocolate since he asked for one, but he refused and asked for a costly one ofc we refused but he kept following until we were gone, that time I realized we've got no option but scold them
@@chrismixxlewis also, dolma aunty's food is not good at all, never buy anything from there, you've just met someone who've recommended you wrong eatery
Sikh bro is a businessman for sure, sharp eyes and mind.
i seen that too!
😂😂
Yea he got families in USA
OK this never happened to me in TH-cam, never ever I saw a 45 minute video without realizing that it was a 45 min video. So good Chris. You are really a humble guy and full of positivity... Just be more aware with the people you interact with or mostly ignore them... Good luck
It's true'100%
Wow your comment just made me realize that this video was 45 mins long didn't know I watched for that long 😂, great job Chris!
Better watch it in 3x
Crazzy kid so sorry for the experience .Never give these kids anything.
Chris is too trusting and kind. That kid did not look desperate.
Bro how do you know words like 'Sanskriti' and 'rihwayati'. Most indians don't know them.
You are insanely impressive. The accent, the vocabulary all of it.
The fact that you speak Mandarin and Vietnamese makes it even more impressive. Oooof.
We Bengalis proudly know every sanskrit words
Bro he's just amazing!!!! Never disappoints!!!
He learnt from his Pakistani friends how to speak Urdu.🇵🇰
@@Palestine_Pakistan chup kar porki
@@Iamalemonwhy ganesh penchod. Shiva gashti ka bacha.
I'm glad to see how you didn't let one such incident change your perspective about Indian people in general. You're super nice! Love your work.
Exactly 🫶🏻
I have never hit a kid but the second he tried to extort you by saying about police and he will bother you I would of turnt the camera off and dealt with him properly. Can't have him getting away with this stuff even once or he will persist. Well done in not giving in and not losing your cool. Your a way better human than I am.
The boy was a scammer,just ignore these people!!!
Bruh that amount of money is just nothing
Poors aren't scammers.
Very annoying
It's not the amount itsc the good manners
Love u Chris ❤and love my Sikh and bihari brother proud to be Sikh
@@ranjittyagi9354 apko kya problem hai
@@ranjittyagi9354tu tyagi laga kar ghoom raha hai lekin dusre ki identity se problem hai Jo usne khud banai hai 😂😂😂
Chris has learnt the art of Indian headshake communication.
Chris you are really good and fluent in Hindi and you handled the situation very well.
The gut feeling is that kid had some other plans so he wanted to take you and kept following.
Beware of these type of guys as they will not only rob you but can do worst ☠
Best thing is you didn't gave him any money and instead you fed him but that kid was like that was nothing kinda thankless because he had other plans.
Its more like urdu
@@rabbit9638 Nope not more like urdu but fluent in hindi.
Urdu has more complicated words from Epiglottis if you have seen or heard. But hindi & urdu are like siblings so one can understand it if they know either so that's the resemblance 👍
@@joylearner7501only Pakistan has added more Persian words in their official language curriculum. India doesn't have that.
Cocunut guy speak from the heart..such a simple phrase
Food is Food, har Jagah ka achha hota hai
You handled the young lad admirably!!
Your complete interaction with that boy was one of the most amazing things I've ever seen
This happened to me one time. Two girls were selling pen and they were in need. I purchased a pen for 4 times the price to help one girl but then next girl also started using the same tactic to sell me another pen. I told her humbly that I cannot buy another pen so she abused me verbally in public even though I had helped her friend. I walked minding my own business. I thought may be it was best not to help poor people but I just shrugged it off. I think helping poor people is a good thing but we should also be ready for some bad experiences and whenever it happens just shrug it off. I know Chris you will think about this for long but better to shrug off and don't let your future experience get effected by this one incidence.
Yes i never help these poor people.
They don't deserve the help
I don't even give them 1 Rupee
@@goodvibes6715 WTF man. That is not what I said.
Once I was buying cigarette from a shop and a poor kid came asking me for help. I told the shopkeeper to give him a biscuit packet. The kid told me that he wanted kinder Joy. I didn't even buy him the biscuits after that.
@@azeemuddinkhan923 LMAO
Desperate situation breeds desperate people
Please avoid these people Chris, only pay for a service. I'm really sorry for that 😕
Which people??
@@MehtabSingh anyone who ask for free money
@@Kitarp06 oh that kid before I didn't watch vedio I just stepped on comment when I watch vedio I'm very angry only this people was in india that's why India is not developing I really hate that people want free food one day I also feed a poor kid then they asking money I refused to give money and when I sit on my bike they broke my bike side mirror that.
Its so sad dude. No one returns without a bad experience from India. Why. I never thought India would be this bad.
@@MehtabSingh bro begging is
a business so be careful don't help them
crish bro..we all indians love your humble and attractive behaviour.💞🇮🇳
you learned the lesson ... boy looked healthy enough and not at all starving ... as soon as he mentioned sister and money and started refusing feed i knew it was not going to turn out well ... any delhite here? what advice would you give chris after he realized that he is going to have tough time getting rid of such beggar?
In my opinion that kid looked like he was a great con artist who just conned Chris here are also some other things i noticed 1.he definitely threw away the roll as it as in his hands a few frames ago and was gone after 2. He was trying to lead Chris some where 3. He definitely wasn't poor or anything he was faking it all
cant believe you speak such good hindi, you are really smart and intelligent Chris
Chris you are good soul bro but that was horrible experience. Please be safe bro. these kids have gangs behind them. You could see he was trained to get people in trouble.
You are so kind to this boy , very nice n generous of you. God Bless you both. Thanks 🙏
I think the moral of the story Chris is not to get involved, as you found out, it never ends with just your good deed. That kid put a bit of a dampener on your whole experience there, and he didnt look particularly sad about it either, he was laughing about it as if it was some sort of game he was playing to extract money from you, and if you did give him money, would he have gone away? I doubt it.
The sad reality is that it becomes a form of "art" for them as opposed to legitimately wanting a stranger's help. Like you said, they look to extract as much as you can.
It's difficult when you're a foreigner in a different country with a very different culture: you don't necessarily want to make a scene because then you'll look like the mean ugly American who is accosting a local kid. However, when someone has been told NO and they keep persisting, then I think it is universal to have to get angry with them and tell them more directly to get the hell away from you.
In New York, I can tell you firsthand that 95% of us do NOT engage and just keep walking.
@@Krakaet Nairobi is another story, there you are genuinely scared for you life. Definitely need a guide there.
@@nickychavda ah yes. Certain parts of East Africa, in particular, are no-go zones for foreigners. Like Mogadishu
@@Krakaet In India generally people will support the foreigner because everyone knows what is happening. The Paneer Roti shopkeeper seemed skeptical af. There is no "mean American" stereotype in India, because Indians are decidedly worse. Finally due to differences in culture the south of India is a good option if you want less of these problems, or the North East. South Indian here, from Kerala.
It's very upsetting that in some countries this is just normal. Definitely makes me not want to go there!
The way he handled that boy was just commendable
That episode with the child was quite disturbing and understandably put a damper on things for you. You are a good person who is very empathic and wants others to feel good. This was hard. I feel like that boy may be beyond help. Corrupted in some way. Sometimes all we can do is walk away. We love you Chris. I am hoping to learn some Hindi by watching your videos which are very enjoyable. Thank you for Subtitling. It is much appreciated. Keep on making them vids. And don't let the darkness get down.
Give me money im poor 😭
You have good heart bro ,keep it up ❤
im hoping to learn hindi too i love watching bollywood movies!! veer zaara is my favourite
@@SylarbearG2a Veer Zara is a movie made once in decades, honestly. I am not a Bollywood buff but I watched it more than once. These stupid rom-coms they make these days can never come close to veer zara or bajirao mastani (its a recommendation). Bollywood movies more often than not lack a good story or great dialogues and even natural acting, but bajirao mastani and veer zara were two masterpieces.
No one is beyond help. You're judging ans stereotyping that kid. No one chose to be poor or hunger. Nothing disturbing here only your dirty brains.
He is a very friendly person
This is wonderful. You're so lucky/hard working to be able to speak Hindi so well.
When A Foreigner Starts Speaing Hindi, Indians Replyes In English .
It's mostly because it's hard to break the mental preconception that the person wouldn't speak Hindi, or is using some basic phraseology. Once the realization catches up, they make the switch back to Hindi.
Yes bro
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It's usually the human nature to speak in language of other person comfort when trying to help. So if you have any commond of the Forienger you would be glad to help in their language to not make them uncomfortable speaking in foriegn language
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Chris has learnt the Indian art of head shaking very well, most Indians may not understand what i meant but Westerners sure would.
your Hindi skills are amazing, great job!
It's Urdu brother 😎
@@mdshiraz7846 Oh🤓
Its more like urdu
@@rabbit9638 basically the same language
You speak Hindi so well man that's amazing 💯😍
I as a indian. I don't speak this much fluent hindi cause my first language is not hindi. I am amazed actually
Thank you for showing an omnipresent slice of ordinary interaction on many streets of India. Unlike anywhere else in the world, India challenge the traveler to confront the contradictions and failure of modern economic and social development. It does this on a spectacularly personal level, challenging us to examine not only who we are as humans, but the state of the world for others. Here, the impulse was to treat this kid with kindness, generosity and thoughtfulness. But where there are blatant inequities, a struggle for financial solvency and a future with no social or economic mobility, other rules apply. And who can blame them? I used to think that global travel, international social media and the internet would help. But no, globalization has has had a mixed record. Travelers from wealthy nations, especially white skinned travelers, face the contradictions and moral hazards of travel, especially in India. I, like Chris, love to travel and reach out to everyone, but I also try to be mindful of the fact that I am one of thousands alien passengers, to be fed, entertained and enjoyed, but in the end, forgotten in the parade of the next one in ine. I think the best way to help others is to allow India to put a mirror to yourself, your behavior, and how best to be a mindful visitor. The depressing and sad truth is, that there are economic, class, cultural and societal hurdles far too challenging for visitors. . So travelers will learn this lesson while maintaining their own norms. I shall always love India for its sights, hospitality, food and culture. But most of all India can be a personal journey of self awareness, of a lesson uncomfortable truths, and for many, a unique spiritual escape.
Took me 5 minutes and ofcourse Google to understand the meaning of your comment.
@@decoseo he wrote the bare truth. It took you 5 mins to understand him and some Googling as you're yet to learn what's all around you. However, IT TOOK ME A SECOND TO KNOW YOU MADE A FAKE ID!
@@ranjittyagi9354 it took me time because of high level English my friend i think you didn't understand my comment
Very well said. That was a visceral encounter.
Excellent commentary on the unimaginable intricacies of a complex country.
Chris speaks Hindi/Urdu very well, wow He actually converses, Wow again,
Great improvement over the last 30 years. I remember back when kids in China used to wrap themselves around your leg and wouldn't let go with until they got some money, with their mothers encouraging them from a distance. My friends from Taiwan and Hong Kong always paid up. Back then street kids in Vietnam used to grab your arm or walk so close to you that you had to zig zag to avoid bumping into them. The Russians used to kick them away, but when they found out I was American they persisted. This kid actually went away after some time. Things have definitely gotten better.
Don't pay to these kids otherwise they will not work for living. You're very kind. God bless you
I am From 🇳🇵 Nepal But Be Careful in Every Countries Brother from this type of children
In many countries this is not a thing at all... Only in some countries do people behave in that gross manner and use being poor as an excuse. He had no manners and was completely ungrateful. It's no ok that any child anywhere would think it's acceptable to behave that way for any reason.
@@Lindseyisloony i suggest you something in India as the people name especially in places you eat
If they have muslim name the food will be unhygienic (maybe tastier)
If shopping something ask a local or compare 2-3 shops for same thing
Don't give any attention to these poor rats
GUYS THIS IS DELHI BEHAVIOUR, NOR SURPRISING AT ALL.
@@AdityaSingh-mm1ez I do partially agree with you!
Most of the Muslim eateries in the north of India are unhygienic but the food is really tasty! But not all muslim places are like that....there are a few places that are hygienic as well as tasty....but yeah...the majority (like maybe 75%) are unhygienic
Whereas in the south of India,I've rather noticed a general average standard amongst all the eateries..... except in Karnataka....there also most muslim eateries are unhygienic but tasty at the same time 😅
Absolutely brother, if he came to this child's house and went to his house, then probably everything would have been snatched from chrish
Brilliant bro. Looks so good to see a foreigner valuing our language and culture, Kudos to your efforts Man! 💯
Chris, you were very patient with that little kid...sad situation. Blessings brother.
Chris so so sweet you fed that little kid thank you 🙏
What a fluent Hindi & such a charming person with great persona!
You handle this child very politely that is very good from you.
What a visceral and thought-provoking encounter with that kid.
Sorry for that Kid's Behaviour.
He was a Con Artist and you got conned ..
You're a good person Chris, But never ever help them. Be as cold as you can and ignore their presence like they don't even exist. You don't need to take the burden for their situation. Love from India to you
You don't need to be cold to anyone. The child did not hurt him. So he wanted money also. It is not his fault for being in poverty. One doesn't have to give money, but one can still be compassionate and kind. In the end, we cannot take anything with us when we die.
@@bahaar2825 cant he study in a govt school instead? or is begging, wearing BRAND NEW cloths, wanting desperately for you to go to a different location. by saying, 'yaha ka nhi waha ka khana hai'
or 'mein apko mere bhaiya se milwata hu' etc etc... is better?
sorry, but the kid looked like a drugee sadly, who just wanted money for a next 'hit' or 'rip' or whatever it is.
@@bahaar2825 true 👍🏻
Don't be that mean. Some people really love to help people. Don't teach what you preach.🖤 -good vibes
@@JUSTCHILL_06 well not the ones, who are consistently convincing you to go to a 'second' location. By keep on sayin, 'i don't wanna eat from this shop, but from the one a bit far away' or something like, 'i was you to meet my big brother, let's go' etc etc...
3:43The hotel room helper has the most sweet sounding "welcome" voice 😂❤❤
This is what I have observed there are some good people among well off and some bad people among poor ones. Poverty is not a hallmark of humbleness or simplicity neither affluence is hallmark of arrogance. It’s better we understand human nature without putting on the lens of seeing them as poor of rich.
Chris be safe be attentive 😉
well said
You have done a sensible job to feed the poor child , if someone helps them with money they mostly misuses the money with some other unethical uses
Gentleman..helping poor boy
May God bless you🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
You speak awesome Hindi. Subscribing 😅
Just for the Hindi ? What if he was speaking Tamil ?
@@realaxis25 still would have subscribed
chris is spot on when he said over hyped .... i am impressed
Dude Chris, just avoid these beggar/nagging folks bothering you. Just ignore them completely, if you utter a single word, they'll click onto you and hassle you. If they do not go away even after ignoring then shout at them and make a little scene, they'll scram. Don't let them take advantage of your goodness. That kid looked like a thoroughbred swindler.
you are so kind and empathetic. you did the best thing you could with that kid. I know it was a tough situation.
Your kindness will be rewarded 10 fold. I don't know but something tells that little guy is a trained hustler? May God forgive me if I am wrong!
You are kind hearted blogger not like other TH-camr I like it thanks for little help to that kid
He said people scold him. People scold him because he deserves it, his actions proved it. I would have scolded him as well. You could have told any local gentleman about him following you and he would have treated him the way he deserved.
I wish you had gone to a really nice and fancy restaurant and pampered yourself after that unfortunate fraud experience with that little man (kid). You needed it. Take care.
The boy had an angelic smile, but as soon as I saw "Help me and God will help you," that told me he had practice. Oh, well, he had an extra snack and drink and some attention.
Chris, I loved how you handled that situation. Keep safe out there.
as soon as he said ki issme bohot manners hai he started being creepy bhaisaab 🙂
Superb content and you handled common people with perfection
Wow, that fresh coconut juice and fruit must taste heavenly when you're really thirsty. I'd absolutely love that.
You're such a great man Chris I'm addicted to your videos literally this 45 min video look like just 5 mint
Chris does the head nod and everything. Love it!!!
Man now that I’m traveling in India, videos like this are hilarious. Because now all these troubles are something that I experience on a daily basis. I don’t speak very good Hindi just a couple phrases so I get in all kinds of weird situations. But knowing other people from the west also get into those situations is nice.
Frend Aapki Hindi bahut good hai Jay hind
Chris you are a very nice person. I like your simplicity and fluency in Hindi 👍😄🙏
He is so kind i ended up in tears after he says do u want to eat something to the poor boy
I have not seen any foreigner who speaks Hindi fluently like he did
Bro watch Korea ka lala mans have a degree in Hindi😂
thw way he said rich guys throw trash on road , but u are a nice person with manners🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
How many languages can you speak dude? Great view from your room. I can't speak Hindi, but can understand most of what you're saying, I'm of Punjabi Sikh descent and speak Punjabi which is similar, but I'm blown away with how many languages you seem to be fluent in, you pick them up really well. Not common for Americans or the British to know another language. From London, UK
Chris, you are even-keeled and so patient. It's moments like this spending time with a sweet and desperate kiddo that make me watch this channel. I don't know what to do when this happens. Good on you for giving it a try and keeping hope alive!
I have been watching your videos and you are too generous to offer things to strangers. You have to understand there are lot of street people who will ask for money and try to bother you. Don't do that and save the hassle.
Good Luck !!
This is why I love your content. “There is a window here” then the window ends up being a wall! Love it!
That kid was stalking you. You have to be careful. You are too nice.
You are such a good guy and did very well.
Chris- First time in your Vlog. Simply amazed by your Hindi language fluency. I live in Texas and my daughter learned Hindi watching Bollywood films but wont speak. You are amazing for an American to have learned just watching movies. And one thing for an advice. Dont eat any uncooked food or cold drinks like lassi / the bottle soda you had etc. The handling of food with dirty hands and general hygiene is very questionable. And the final thing dont engage with anyone like the kid you were with. They will be pests knowing your compassion.
Much love Chris literally you won heart of many Indian's
Hi Chris, you are amazing bro. You speak the Hindi language, it's unbelievable. you speak like a native, see I noticed not a single mistake or error, you consider the things that have genders, it's like how is your brother/wife?now brother is called kaisa, and wife is called kaisee, this is the difference. Anyway you keep going, see I know English, but you can speak Hindi way better than I speak English, I live here in New Zealand, I am from India, and Have you visited Gujarat western state of India?Do visit sometime, we Gujarati people are also so down to earth, I am sure you would feel a lifetime memorable experience,
Ñoticed how çharitable you are
NICE WHAT A KIND HEARTED PERSON YO ARE....
Never follow them.. careful brother.. who knows where he will take you to... Dont entertain them next time
Chris, your videos are original and not doctored and that makes them very novel. I have watched your Vietnamese videos in the past and I must say you have a gift for learning new languages. I look forward to seeing some South American country videos in the future. Before you leave India, I suggest you could visit some villages where 64% of the Indians live. Very few western bloggers make videos in rural areas.
Difficult to survive without 24*7 electricity and a good internet connection. Also, the food will be an issue. And no Western toilet. Even I get scared at the thought of visiting my grandparent's village. The situation is quite bad.
This boy is frustrating even for us, hats off to you to deal with him
The kid is doing what he needs to do to survive. And Chris is being kind and hasn't developed his thick skin yet. Both of them are beautiful people, just raw life playing out.
Beautifully said🤗
Kid is definitely not an innocent one. He is grown enough to understand what he is doing. He seems crazy and was definitely intending to con Chris. They are more dangerous than people who openly rob you.
"You are from angrez". It made my day even tho the kid was not a good person.
He handled that as he should have imo...stood his ground with grace and didnt let the kid take advantage of him, even when it got quite uncomfortable.
I don't dare to judge the kid - I know nothing of hunger and scraping by on the streets.
But I do know the kid's poor attitude doesn't take away from the gesture Chris made. Love people with a big heart.
Have a nice weekend everybody!
Bringing back so many memories.. 😳... happy to know that you treat yourself in between... 🙏🌺
Although Lajpat Nagar is close to expensive suburbs like defence colony, it has a bazar atmosphere. Lots of small shops and very congested
Your hindi is simply awesome...👍👌
I find that you are improving every single day. In fact, I felt that You speak better Hindi than myself.
Best of luck and enjoy your Stay in this Great Country. 🤞👍🙏
You handled yourself very well. I remember when I went to India, I would try and help as much as I can but once you give one, they swarm you and it's non-stop so I had to stop giving, as much as it pained me to do so.
Hi Chris, only started watching your videos this evening and I am hooked.....they're honest, real, entertaining. Your Humilty is impressive, loved your Mathura dinner invitation. Thanks soo much for sharing and you have a beautiful heart and smile........take care
Can't say I found the persistent little brat, particularly endearing, but apart from him, a great video, as well as a cautionary tale for other tourists. Perhaps a, "If I give you some money (or food), will you promise to bugger oaff, - forever? PROMISE."
I'm watching Delhi through these videos. It's been 19 years!
When you went to sit and you went down further than you thought and then said "very low chair" it made me laugh. 😂
I like the fact that you could have easily edited out the interaction with the kid but didn't makes this video for me. It shows your willingness to be vulnerable to your audience and with those with whom you interact. There is an honesty about you Chris. Even when the subject of your video, perhaps a vendor, is standoffish, your friendly and open attitude often wins them over in the end. It is pleasure to watch. Tony from bayside.
Fascinating. Thanks. Take care.
I just finished watching this video and released it was 45 MINS LONG??? It didn't feel like because i was so invested. I love the way you keep your video raw, real and uncut.
damn man as an urdu speaking from Karachi, man i would love to visit Delhi and UP area, it just feels like home for some reason..