Former school teacher, this is why we have classroom procedures and we enforce them. She wasn’t watching where she was going, she wasn’t managing her classroom. She was medical retirement waiting to happen.
Story 1. The parents were super irresponsible. They should have taught their kid about money management and how to make & keep a budget, not how to pretend like there is a bottomless money pit. The parents did him no favors until the shock of hearing he spent the retirement account, so he finally got a taste of reality. The parents could have done that a lot sooner without ruining their life.
The thing is tho the vast majority of people who do get into substances is because of mental health conditions. Horrible PTSD, depression, and BPD led me to getting on heroin
That's why my parents gave me a debit card, and had full control of the account. If I needed anything financially, I'd call my mother and she would provide, but there was an understanding that I should watch my spending, and my mother had the right to say "no" if she felt like I was taking advantage of my parent's generosity. By using a debit card, no credit was affected, and I knew exactly how much money I had left.
Yeah that was entirely their parents fault. They didn't even tell him it was their retirement just gave them a plastic card. It's hard enough as it is for a teen to manage their own money, it's fucking stupid giving them unlimited access to your life savings. They clearly knew about his bad spending and did nothing about it. Maybe they saw it as an investment and their son would finish college and get a high paying job but they didn't see the spending at the bar?
It's not my life, but a friend said to her , " ex-boyfriend, i fancy a cigarette he gave her one she said it started her smoking, of course, he was smoking marijuana and she picked up that habbit. I spoke to her a few years ago, and she said when she said she wanted a cigarette, her ex should have told her no, you don't. It ruined her life for years trying to break that habbit.
story 3 is not on OP at all but on that guy for not getting help and pushing away all his friends cuz of his jealousy or whatever issues made it where he couldn't handle his friend dating a girl HE TOLD HIM TO GO FOR!
I relate to bits and pieces of most these stories. Funny perhaps how the universe and history is in repeat, but also unfortunate. I do have things I regret and blame myself for on occasion. Constantly needing to remind myself that I just cannot save everyone. I've lost many friends and family over the years. Most could no longer stand their own existence it seems. Others didn't care whether or not they existed and pushing things too far. I did what I could, gave advice or tools to the best of my ability even if in the end it didn't even matter. You can teach a man to fish, but cannot force him away from the ledge. I mourn the loss of friends, remembering them as they once were even if I know they are still alive. Perhaps foolish to hope that someday they will change their ways before it's too late. Maybe I am not friends with them anymore because I've seen how this story ends one too many times, and I'd rather not view it for 5th or 6th time...too many times within 20 years, least for me...
I’m glad to hear something positive again in my life thanks to what I have been through I am not alone even if people have done things recently to be a mess. damn I wouldn’t blame gender whatsoever people do go through shit or rather not end something so to one person intentions which why. I’m glad Yall being aware about this hate to see people start wars which never ends well. frick those high narcissistic people some do find hate more than love even tho that can’t always be the answer then again I refuse to believe there someone out there watching us to us actually an ed bruh you want attention or something better to help others in need instead of what a child wants from a parent all the time. don’t care about the power of the mind screw that too.
Some of these people especially the girl whose friend was on drugs are just way too full of themselves and think they are way more important than they are
College professor. She was an idiot and didn’t deserve her degree at all but I was just some teen punk who complained about how useless she was to my best friend and his dad was listening in. His dad was the head of the mathematics department at my college and brought my concerns up with the college and turns out that moron “professor” was an illegal immigrant without an actual degree and when they tried to deport her she took a bunch of pills and almost binned herself. She had her kids taken away and got deported as far as I’m aware. Didn’t mean to ruin her life but I don’t feel bad at all about it. I also ruined another professors career the next year because I found out he had CP on his laptop while I was installing some software for him but I didn’t hesitate to report him to the college, the police, and then the fbi while sending copies of his hard drive to all of them so there would be proof but that was intentional.
How is story 1 unintentional? Were the consequences unintended? Sure, but it wasnt an accident. The actions were taken with the knowledge that it was bad.
Former school teacher, this is why we have classroom procedures and we enforce them. She wasn’t watching where she was going, she wasn’t managing her classroom. She was medical retirement waiting to happen.
Story 1. The parents were super irresponsible. They should have taught their kid about money management and how to make & keep a budget, not how to pretend like there is a bottomless money pit. The parents did him no favors until the shock of hearing he spent the retirement account, so he finally got a taste of reality. The parents could have done that a lot sooner without ruining their life.
Totally agree.
First story: Equally their fault for letting you do what they did.
Exactly they should of told them "30 days. Get a job. Your free ride gets cut off in 30 days." but at least the OP is paying the family back.
The thing is tho the vast majority of people who do get into substances is because of mental health conditions. Horrible PTSD, depression, and BPD led me to getting on heroin
Story 1 1 parents if you say your going to do something to your kids as punishment ACTUALLY DO IT and kids don’t do what op did don’t be like op
W for not saying first and actually making a good comment
@@PuceGaming445I thought about it
That's why my parents gave me a debit card, and had full control of the account. If I needed anything financially, I'd call my mother and she would provide, but there was an understanding that I should watch my spending, and my mother had the right to say "no" if she felt like I was taking advantage of my parent's generosity. By using a debit card, no credit was affected, and I knew exactly how much money I had left.
@@RedLeif1 some parents are to generous like ops
Yeah that was entirely their parents fault. They didn't even tell him it was their retirement just gave them a plastic card. It's hard enough as it is for a teen to manage their own money, it's fucking stupid giving them unlimited access to your life savings. They clearly knew about his bad spending and did nothing about it. Maybe they saw it as an investment and their son would finish college and get a high paying job but they didn't see the spending at the bar?
Every time I destroy a life its intentional.
i cant tell which one this is, a joke , a threat or a piece of advice, and tbh that makes it a lot more better
@@cloud_congestus 😉
It's not my life, but a friend said to her , " ex-boyfriend, i fancy a cigarette he gave her one she said it started her smoking, of course, he was smoking marijuana and she picked up that habbit. I spoke to her a few years ago, and she said when she said she wanted a cigarette, her ex should have told her no, you don't.
It ruined her life for years trying to break that habbit.
That's on her, though. She chose to do it. She even brought it up first.
@@Jen321able true I said that to pint put how this was her ruining her own life at least for a few years.
Story 3: Sounds like a him problem.
story 3 is not on OP at all but on that guy for not getting help and pushing away all his friends cuz of his jealousy or whatever issues made it where he couldn't handle his friend dating a girl HE TOLD HIM TO GO FOR!
Idk kinda L friend for going for his bro's ex so soon after the breakup.
@@Batmans_Pet_GoldfishAgreed no matter how unserious, that’s one of the cardinal rules of the bro code smh 🤦🏾♂️
I relate to bits and pieces of most these stories. Funny perhaps how the universe and history is in repeat, but also unfortunate. I do have things I regret and blame myself for on occasion. Constantly needing to remind myself that I just cannot save everyone. I've lost many friends and family over the years. Most could no longer stand their own existence it seems. Others didn't care whether or not they existed and pushing things too far. I did what I could, gave advice or tools to the best of my ability even if in the end it didn't even matter. You can teach a man to fish, but cannot force him away from the ledge. I mourn the loss of friends, remembering them as they once were even if I know they are still alive. Perhaps foolish to hope that someday they will change their ways before it's too late. Maybe I am not friends with them anymore because I've seen how this story ends one too many times, and I'd rather not view it for 5th or 6th time...too many times within 20 years, least for me...
I’m glad to hear something positive again in my life thanks to what I have been through I am not alone even if people have done things recently to be a mess. damn I wouldn’t blame gender whatsoever people do go through shit or rather not end something so to one person intentions which why. I’m glad Yall being aware about this hate to see people start wars which never ends well. frick those high narcissistic people some do find hate more than love even tho that can’t always be the answer then again I refuse to believe there someone out there watching us to us actually an ed bruh you want attention or something better to help others in need instead of what a child wants from a parent all the time. don’t care about the power of the mind screw that too.
Some of these people especially the girl whose friend was on drugs are just way too full of themselves and think they are way more important than they are
what is the name of the game he is playing in the background???
Which game is that in the beginning? The person running around in a desert
Sable!
Whose life did you accidentally *destroy* ?
Edit: since yall keep answering, I am not asking, I am correcting grammar
Mine.
Mine
College professor. She was an idiot and didn’t deserve her degree at all but I was just some teen punk who complained about how useless she was to my best friend and his dad was listening in. His dad was the head of the mathematics department at my college and brought my concerns up with the college and turns out that moron “professor” was an illegal immigrant without an actual degree and when they tried to deport her she took a bunch of pills and almost binned herself. She had her kids taken away and got deported as far as I’m aware. Didn’t mean to ruin her life but I don’t feel bad at all about it. I also ruined another professors career the next year because I found out he had CP on his laptop while I was installing some software for him but I didn’t hesitate to report him to the college, the police, and then the fbi while sending copies of his hard drive to all of them so there would be proof but that was intentional.
nah i do it intentionally
Whoms.
How is story 1 unintentional? Were the consequences unintended? Sure, but it wasnt an accident. The actions were taken with the knowledge that it was bad.
Don't feel bad
What this game play
Your dad. I introduced him to your mom. I just thought he'd have a bit of fun and be on his way, but she got knocked up.
If you speak to my exs apparently I have 😂
It is important to know Jesus, non of us knows what will happen tomorrow
gawd the ai read was TERRIBLE
If one is smart enough to be a teacher they should probably be smart to watch where they walking.