You don't get to abandon your children for thirteen years, have the _audacity_ to sue for custody and then act like the kids are being unreasonable for not wanting to see you. The dad sucks. The judge might also suck for trying to force this against the kids' wishes.
Why the hell did the judge agree to this bs? Why tf would they force these kids to interact with the man who abandoned them for _13 years_ while he ran off and had another family?? That judge is terrible and clearly doesn't care about what's best for the kids. The sperm donor also doesn't give af about what is best for the kids he abandoned for their entire lives. How does he have tje audacity to just show up, try to take control, completely screw up their lives, and then be shocked and upset they don't want him or his shiny new family he replaced them with??
Yes, it always works out SO well when you actively try to force a relationship on people. The blighter left 2 little kids before his wife's funeral, what a show of class. He showed not effort at all for 13 years, all while he was putting 100% into a new wife and kids. Then suddenly recalls that he already HAD 2 other kids - who knew??? Tell the judge this: He didn't want you and your sister at all for 13 years. That was his choice, while you two and your grandparents were given no choice at all. Now what he wants is a relationship, and he doesn't think any of you should have a choice - just let him have what he and his kids (his new kids) want. How is this either right or fair?
NTA you can’t just disappear and then expect to be welcome back. And also he left them right after they lost the other parent. Sorry but that’s unacceptable. Idk where did he and wife got the audacity to demand anything from those poor children
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"But he he's trying so hard 🥺"
And he still left his children behind. Making an effort doesn't make him entitled to anything.
Sue for unpayed child support,2 kids thats over 20 years worth of support.
Lotta money.
You don't get to abandon your children for thirteen years, have the _audacity_ to sue for custody and then act like the kids are being unreasonable for not wanting to see you. The dad sucks. The judge might also suck for trying to force this against the kids' wishes.
That judge needs to be taken off of the bench.
He disappears for years then suddenly decides to come back and you are supposed to want to know him. I think not. He lost that right.
Why the hell did the judge agree to this bs? Why tf would they force these kids to interact with the man who abandoned them for _13 years_ while he ran off and had another family?? That judge is terrible and clearly doesn't care about what's best for the kids.
The sperm donor also doesn't give af about what is best for the kids he abandoned for their entire lives. How does he have tje audacity to just show up, try to take control, completely screw up their lives, and then be shocked and upset they don't want him or his shiny new family he replaced them with??
Yes, it always works out SO well when you actively try to force a relationship on people. The blighter left 2 little kids before his wife's funeral, what a show of class. He showed not effort at all for 13 years, all while he was putting 100% into a new wife and kids. Then suddenly recalls that he already HAD 2 other kids - who knew??? Tell the judge this: He didn't want you and your sister at all for 13 years. That was his choice, while you two and your grandparents were given no choice at all. Now what he wants is a relationship, and he doesn't think any of you should have a choice - just let him have what he and his kids (his new kids) want. How is this either right or fair?
NTA you can’t just disappear and then expect to be welcome back. And also he left them right after they lost the other parent. Sorry but that’s unacceptable. Idk where did he and wife got the audacity to demand anything from those poor children
Did dad return of his own accord? Or did his wife pressure him into reconnecting with his older kids?🤔🤔
Did bio dad ever say why he left? A sincere apology may help but sounds like OP moved on from his abandonment. Nta
He’s trying 13 years too late