If they’re your friends they would never do this shit! Even though you are friends, family etc. there are always boundaries that you shouldn’t cross!! If they flirt a bit too much or constantly try to engage in conversation with a specific person or try to make excuses to be near them, or always be the first to offer a helping hand, then that’s something to look into!! Always be suspicious because when u aren’t is when it happens to you!! TRUST but VERIFY!!
During my younger married life l was lonely & didnt have any friends due to being so busy; now I'm so glad that my husband is my only friend. My other friends are my siblings & hubby's sisters. No drama, life is good.
YES!!! A happy ending. Another hmong man suffering to his last days for his desires of life and doing a hmong woman wrong. So deserving and so delightful to see the other woman suffer her own fate. I have no sympathy for cheating hmong men or women. They will get theirs in the end like this couple. As for the woman of this story. You are free! Now you just have to love yourself and move on. Good luck!
So sad for you, sister. The two people who should have your back conspired to betray you. Your husband paid for it and so will your friend. Now you've learned a good lesson about trusting anyone 100%. Never turn your back to anyone again. Be eternally vigilant. Glad you're smart enough to hang on til he killed himself and got insurance for it, and glad you didn't bury him. You did right so do not get weak and give money to his parents. Keep saying no to them.
@Cellan Thao it is very sad and awful to say it, but when a spouse betrays you this badly, most of us prob see this ending as ideal. At least there's closure forever, and this woman doesn't have to watch her friend gloat in victory and share half her assets with her husband. Omg, it's so awful to have serpent pretender friends like this.
😢 I have friends, but I’ll never entrust them wholeheartedly, because they forget loyalty, and when they get caught they say the most hurtful words that you’ll never expect from them. I don’t have friends to this extent of being together 24:7, but I’m fine without this crowd. All about my family and my husband’s family ❤
I really don't have many friends because of many friends before they teach me a lot from back stab I'm now very happy I don't have to give in or always have to do what they want me to do. I also don't let anyone walk all over me again thank God for saving me I trun to God because he's the only best friend I have and trust and he's truly love me for who I am.
Good job sister for seeing your self worth and not giving anyone from that selfish family a penny. I have a relative’s wife from my husband’s family who tried to make a move on my husband similar to this too! She would text my husband that she needed help with this and that, but really she just wanted to see my husband. The first time she texted my husband, I told my husband to call her husband to double check that they do needed the help and what do you know - her husband didn’t know. Second time it happened my husband called her husband to double check again and her husband said he didn’t realize that his wife was texting my husband for help. The third time she texted, I responded back to her via my husband’s phone telling her that if they do need as much help as she claims then her husband should be the one calling/reaching out. Never heard from her since. Then she went around the relatives claiming that we cut them off and that she and I had drama that’s why she doesn’t want to show up anywhere if I show up. The audacity of some people’s wives.
Txhob tu siab mog tus me viv ncaus aw vim yus txoj kev ruam dhau qhov ruam lawm xwb yus muab ntseeg luag dhau qhov ntseeg lawm ces luag thiaj muab neb ob tug neeg zoo tsuj ua neb lo av tag los neb txhob tu siab os mog.thaum ub kuv tseem hluas 2 kuv twb mag kuv tus phooj ywg zoo twb txeeb kuv niag hluas nraug ntawm kuv mus lawm tab sis kom nej nco qab ntsoov tias cov neeg siab phem li no yus nrog luag ua neej ntxiv mus los tsis txog txij twg. Cov neeg uas nyiam yav nrav xwb ces tsis kav ntev kav tsij tso mus mog.
Cas may zaj neej neeg no tseem qhia tias txiv neej tseem tsuav ib qhov chaw zoo nyob es tus nkauj fa no thiaj paub txog xwb may lwm zaj koj puas kam muab kiag txiv neej qhov chaw zoo nyob ua tus nkauj fa los tus niam tsev nkauj fa ntawv keej2 coj kiag los tham kom peb suav daws paub kiag seb peb puas tuav tau peb cov neej hos may yog koj tsis xav li cas.
Zoo kawg vim nws tau yam nws ua lawm os mog me vivncaus tshuav kj tus phoojywg nws yuav ntsib xau sai2 no thiab nawb cov neeg siab phem ntuj yeej tsis cia nws tau zoo li os, kv twb Nyob kj sab nkau lawm thiab os
Hu, tus niam ntawm zaj neej no nas ua casyuav lom zem ua luaj nrog koj zoo siab os tus niam tsev koj mas thiaj li tsim nyog ua neeg thiab ua neej os nawb ib sees liability tsi txhob Kam nawb
Damn. He literally died “doing” what he love 😅 The nerve of relatives to have some claim on the life insurance money they didn’t pay for 🙄 you did the right thing by not giving them money to bury their backstabbing cheating person.
There are a few back stabbers who pretends to be a friend. I have a few. Never trust anybody so completely because a smiling face can hold a dagger behind your back. Trust your instincts. When something don’t feel right is because it’s not.
This is why i didnt have any friends and i don't trust my husband 100%. I check his phone and work hour even though he not a cheater, But you never know.
Humans are sinners. Even your own family can betray you. My wife has told me many times that my cousins have hitted on her. I believe her. I've been around them long enough to know how they are. This is why I keep my circle small. I often get, why don't you hang out with us? I hear this all the time. Becareful who you keep in your circle!
@Chong Lor it takes 2 to cheat. She chooses not to hang out around us when there's a gathering, etc. She hates the disrespect (hitting on her) they show towards her. But you're right. You don't want to add fuel to the fire either. We live in a different state, so we only see them when there is a special event going on. The thought of returning "home" is always dreadful for us. Which I'm sure it's most for others too. Lol
When you died because of lust is always so embarrassing. It really is the way to send you to heaven, and some unlucky like this guy, you don’t come back.
This is the reason why I haven’t had a girl friend for 30years. My best friend and my cousin cheated on my husband for over 10 years. But he didn’t marry her after all.
Wow! My cousin stole my first real bf, but he didn't marry her, and my best friend stole a guy from me in college and married him--even invited me to her wedding, thinking I'd show up. Nope! Other cousins married other guys who pursued me. These women prob would be husbandless without me 😆. So, I've been eternally vigilant since. Glad the betrayal occurred earlier in life for me. It would be more devastating had it been a husband they stole, as in this case. I still have friends, but the best ones are far, far away physically. We talk on the phone and meet up for vacations at a common spot once every few yrs without the husbands. Men are weak for the flesh. Watch them carefully.
Heck no! He sent you back to your family. Why would his family have the audacity to ask you for money for his funeral? You are no longer his people. This is why most of us don’t have friends or best friends.
Yog Tsis paub ua friends txhob ua tib neeg lub siab Tsis xav ib yam lawv lam yog yus li friend tabsi lawv Yeej muaj ib lub siab phem rau yus tabsi yus Tsis paub xwb so be your own friends talk to yourself.
Lady there was so many red flags but you choose to ignore. You're in denial for too long. You knew in your heart but you just don't want to bring up because you know it'll be the end of your guys.
These so called kwv tij were worried about having to pay for your funeral but didnt care to give their own a proper burial. Keep the money and run! It is partly your fault tho for not divorcing tu taw. Hope you learn and not become a victim again.
Nrog koj zoo siab os ua ntuj tsaug tshaj plaws li
I’m glad you didn’t give your in-laws the insurance money. You paid for it, they have no right to it!
Again this is why most of us don't have friends.
LMAO I second that
Exactly!
EXACTLY!!
Yup!!! Our friends are our siblings & siblings-in-law only. We keep our circle very small.
Friends are our closest enemies! Don’t trust anyone.
Don't give your in laws any money. They didn't pay for the life insurance. Your husband deserved what he got.
Life is sooo peaceful being alone, no people problem!!!!
100%
Npam zoo kawg
Nrog koj zoo siab uas koj peem koj tus kheej dim ntawm txoj kev nyuab siab thiab tuag tawm rov los
Good job sister! I'm glad you're doing well, that money is for you and your kids. No one u need to give you anything.
This is why friends are not important in our lives. They’re nice to have but keep them at bay in cases like this.
Some friends just nice the outside don't trust your friends for 100%
If they’re your friends they would never do this shit! Even though you are friends, family etc. there are always boundaries that you shouldn’t cross!! If they flirt a bit too much or constantly try to engage in conversation with a specific person or try to make excuses to be near them, or always be the first to offer a helping hand, then that’s something to look into!! Always be suspicious because when u aren’t is when it happens to you!! TRUST but VERIFY!!
During my younger married life l was lonely & didnt have any friends due to being so busy; now I'm so glad that my husband is my only friend. My other friends are my siblings & hubby's sisters. No drama, life is good.
YES!!! A happy ending. Another hmong man suffering to his last days for his desires of life and doing a hmong woman wrong. So deserving and so delightful to see the other woman suffer her own fate. I have no sympathy for cheating hmong men or women. They will get theirs in the end like this couple. As for the woman of this story. You are free! Now you just have to love yourself and move on. Good luck!
So sad for you, sister. The two people who should have your back conspired to betray you. Your husband paid for it and so will your friend. Now you've learned a good lesson about trusting anyone 100%. Never turn your back to anyone again. Be eternally vigilant. Glad you're smart enough to hang on til he killed himself and got insurance for it, and glad you didn't bury him. You did right so do not get weak and give money to his parents. Keep saying no to them.
Good thing he's gone
@Cellan Thao it is very sad and awful to say it, but when a spouse betrays you this badly, most of us prob see this ending as ideal. At least there's closure forever, and this woman doesn't have to watch her friend gloat in victory and share half her assets with her husband. Omg, it's so awful to have serpent pretender friends like this.
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A cheater will always will be a CHEATER! Trust no one not even your spouse!
Ua tsaug rau zaj story no. Yog kev kawm kom paub ceev faj
Zoo qhov nws tuag lawm koj thiaj tsis mob2 siab lawm os viv ncaus. Thiab zoo qhov koj tau tagnrho cov nyiaj life insurance.
Hmong woman just don't know when to let go and move on.
Sib deev zoo nyob dhau tuag kig li os!!!!!
What a great ending!!
This is why I don’t have friends.
Yog kawg ma
Nrog koj zoo siab qhov nw tuag lawm os
Wow txaus tu siab kawg os😢
Cov nyiam2 ua phooj ywg zoo22 li nej ces yeej sib tham ntau tus lawm vim koj ruam dhau lawm
😢 I have friends, but I’ll never entrust them wholeheartedly, because they forget loyalty, and when they get caught they say the most hurtful words that you’ll never expect from them.
I don’t have friends to this extent of being together 24:7, but I’m fine without this crowd.
All about my family and my husband’s family ❤
Koj ua yog kawg lawm os tus viv ncau!
Wow tus txiv ysev no cas yuav ua tuag kiag li na.
Koj Tus friend ntawv Liam tiag tiag Liam tshaj plaws.
Cov poj nrauj tam sim no siab phem phem lawm nawb lawv aw...
Pab koj tu siab thiab khuv xim koj lub neej os.. kav liam nws twb tuag theej nws txoj kev lim hiam ces yog ib qhov zoo thiab koj twb tau nws cov life insurance thiab ces haj yam zoo heev os
So heart breaking....
At last you win
Tuag kiag rau txoj niag kev qia kev liam
Deev luag poj niam ces ntuj yeej g pab..thaum kawg ces tuag li kj thaub ntxeev siab
Viv ncaus nrog koj tu siab
Ua neej nyob ruam dhau txog qhov ua phooj ywg ciaj phooj ywg tuag li nej ces kawg zaj ko
Don’t ever trust your friends
I really don't have many friends because of many friends before they teach me a lot from back stab I'm now very happy I don't have to give in or always have to do what they want me to do. I also don't let anyone walk all over me again thank God for saving me I trun to God because he's the only best friend I have and trust and he's truly love me for who I am.
Cas mloog nej cov dab neeg ntau2 zaj Cas txaus ntshai ua luaj tsis xav ua phooj ywg rau leej twg li lawm os lawv aw
Never trust your spouse..
Cov poj nrauj tam sim no ces yeej keej deev txiv neej li koj tus friend ntag nawb.......
Untrustworthy Friend + Cheating Husband + Happy Ending With Life Insurance ... YES!! I Like
Good job girl!! Proud of you!
Good job sister for seeing your self worth and not giving anyone from that selfish family a penny. I have a relative’s wife from my husband’s family who tried to make a move on my husband similar to this too! She would text my husband that she needed help with this and that, but really she just wanted to see my husband. The first time she texted my husband, I told my husband to call her husband to double check that they do needed the help and what do you know - her husband didn’t know. Second time it happened my husband called her husband to double check again and her husband said he didn’t realize that his wife was texting my husband for help. The third time she texted, I responded back to her via my husband’s phone telling her that if they do need as much help as she claims then her husband should be the one calling/reaching out. Never heard from her since. Then she went around the relatives claiming that we cut them off and that she and I had drama that’s why she doesn’t want to show up anywhere if I show up. The audacity of some people’s wives.
Damn that relative should be embarrassed of herself. Good thing you stood your ground.
Txhob tu siab mog tus me viv ncaus aw vim yus txoj kev ruam dhau qhov ruam lawm xwb yus muab ntseeg luag dhau qhov ntseeg lawm ces luag thiaj muab neb ob tug neeg zoo tsuj ua neb lo av tag los neb txhob tu siab os mog.thaum ub kuv tseem hluas 2 kuv twb mag kuv tus phooj ywg zoo twb txeeb kuv niag hluas nraug ntawm kuv mus lawm tab sis kom nej nco qab ntsoov tias cov neeg siab phem li no yus nrog luag ua neej ntxiv mus los tsis txog txij twg. Cov neeg uas nyiam yav nrav xwb ces tsis kav ntev kav tsij tso mus mog.
Cas may zaj neej neeg no tseem qhia tias txiv neej tseem tsuav ib qhov chaw zoo nyob es tus nkauj fa no thiaj paub txog xwb may lwm zaj koj puas kam muab kiag txiv neej qhov chaw zoo nyob ua tus nkauj fa los tus niam tsev nkauj fa ntawv keej2 coj kiag los tham kom peb suav daws paub kiag seb peb puas tuav tau peb cov neej hos may yog koj tsis xav li cas.
Zoo kawg vim nws tau yam nws ua lawm os mog me vivncaus tshuav kj tus phoojywg nws yuav ntsib xau sai2 no thiab nawb cov neeg siab phem ntuj yeej tsis cia nws tau zoo li os, kv twb Nyob kj sab nkau lawm thiab os
Hu, tus niam ntawm zaj neej no nas ua casyuav lom zem ua luaj nrog koj zoo siab os tus niam tsev koj mas thiaj li tsim nyog ua neeg thiab ua neej os nawb ib sees liability tsi txhob Kam nawb
This is why me and my husband don’t need friends in our life.
Agreed!
For reals!
Txhob muab nyiaj rau koj niam pog lawv mog. Cov txiv neej no tsis txhob ntseeg tag2. Lawv lub siab ohem tob tshaj li os. Txawm yog li kuv thiaj ntshai muaj phooj ywg .
Nej cov es ua ib pab phooj ywg zoo zoo ces yeej muaj tej kev no ntau heev li. Kev sib daj sib deev ntawm kev phooj ywg. Pheej coj phooj ywg pojniam mus aim hauv tsheb es tsheb thiaj poob qab kev mas.
Zoo kawg ! Txhob faib ib qrho nyiaj rau leej twg lis nawb ! Yus yog tu them insurance, Tiam si lwm tus hov tuaj txeeb, ntshe noj tsis tag PoB !
You’re not obligated to give any money to your in laws. Their son’s the one that cheated and died of his own happiness only.
Damn. He literally died “doing” what he love 😅 The nerve of relatives to have some claim on the life insurance money they didn’t pay for 🙄 you did the right thing by not giving them money to bury their backstabbing cheating person.
Thanks for sharing. Txoj kev ua phooj ywg yog nws muaj nws ciaj ciam phooj ywg. Yog thaum twg hla dhau txoj kev phooj ywg lawm ces kawg muaj teeb meem.
There are a few back stabbers who pretends to be a friend. I have a few. Never trust anybody so completely because a smiling face can hold a dagger behind your back. Trust your instincts. When something don’t feel right is because it’s not.
My children, siblings, and grandchildren are my friends.
This is why I don’t have friends. 😅
This is why i didnt have any friends and i don't trust my husband 100%. I check his phone and work hour even though he not a cheater, But you never know.
Why blame on your friend? Blame on your husband first…
Good job lady. If I was you I would do the same. No need to give out the life insurance money to anyone. He don’t deserve it
zoo kawg kav tswj tuag2 rau txoj niag kev zoo2. nyob xwb tuag tau tswm nyog kawg
Koj tus aib pog phooj ywg no khij xuaj heev nawb,
Reason why I don’t care to have friends!
Npam tsis npam tuag tsis tuag ua li cas koj tsis cias kom nws tuag mus os sister
Humans are sinners. Even your own family can betray you. My wife has told me many times that my cousins have hitted on her. I believe her. I've been around them long enough to know how they are. This is why I keep my circle small. I often get, why don't you hang out with us? I hear this all the time. Becareful who you keep in your circle!
I am glad you listen to your wife and keep away from them. Smart move ...
@Chong Lor it takes 2 to cheat. She chooses not to hang out around us when there's a gathering, etc. She hates the disrespect (hitting on her) they show towards her. But you're right. You don't want to add fuel to the fire either. We live in a different state, so we only see them when there is a special event going on. The thought of returning "home" is always dreadful for us. Which I'm sure it's most for others too. Lol
Hlub tus Niam tsis
Txaus cais hlub tus txiv ntag ,cov uas sib 2 hlub sib 2 zoo Mas cov neeg no ntag , ua txuj hlub sab nraud ghov tiag cais nws twb nyiag hlub sab hauv lawd
Tus neeg yuav nyiag yus yog tus ntawm yus xub ntiag, tus neeg yuav tua yus nyiag ces yog yus tus txij nkawm 😢
yos lawm os
Ruam ua luaj, cas tsis cia nws plawv nres kom nws mus nws rau dab teb na, es koj tseem yuav hu tsheb kho mob rau nws thiab.
What sweet karma 😂
What is wrong is still wrong but can’t force someone to love when they don’t. You’re better than that.
He got his karma! Don't shed a tear and take care of your self.
Ntawm yog npam xwb os
All I can think about that poor boy. I can’t believe these people
When you died because of lust is always so embarrassing. It really is the way to send you to heaven, and some unlucky like this guy, you don’t come back.
Me viv ncaus peb cov niam tsev uas coj zoo sib hlub saum txaj saum chaw peb tsis siv li dev es peb thiaj poob peb cov txiv lawm vim peb siv li ntuj tsim xwb
At the end.. Zoo kawg.. 👏👏
never trust anyone no matter what or who it is.
Never ever trust your best friend!!!
This is the reason why I haven’t had a girl friend for 30years. My best friend and my cousin cheated on my husband for over 10 years. But he didn’t marry her after all.
Wow! Did you stay married to your husband?
Horrible…! I’m so sorry this happened to you , not by 1 person, but 2 …
Wow! My cousin stole my first real bf, but he didn't marry her, and my best friend stole a guy from me in college and married him--even invited me to her wedding, thinking I'd show up. Nope! Other cousins married other guys who pursued me. These women prob would be husbandless without me 😆. So, I've been eternally vigilant since. Glad the betrayal occurred earlier in life for me. It would be more devastating had it been a husband they stole, as in this case. I still have friends, but the best ones are far, far away physically. We talk on the phone and meet up for vacations at a common spot once every few yrs without the husbands. Men are weak for the flesh. Watch them carefully.
Karma at its best 🎉
Tus me Viv ncaus koj tus txiv ces yog tseem tseem tuag rau kev npam ntag os
Heck no! He sent you back to your family. Why would his family have the audacity to ask you for money for his funeral? You are no longer his people. This is why most of us don’t have friends or best friends.
Neb cia li sib tsuav xwb los mos
Karma got your ex husband good!! You are the lucky one to get the insurance money and don't give any of it to your ex in laws either!
Yog yuav niam you Cia tuag zoo dau os
Yog Tsis paub ua friends txhob ua tib neeg lub siab Tsis xav ib yam lawv lam yog yus li friend tabsi lawv Yeej muaj ib lub siab phem rau yus tabsi yus Tsis paub xwb so be your own friends talk to yourself.
Lady there was so many red flags but you choose to ignore. You're in denial for too long. You knew in your heart but you just don't want to bring up because you know it'll be the end of your guys.
Good Job sister!!!! How dare the ex inlaws comes back and ask for money. Koj twb tsi yog lawm neeg lawm nas.....
Cov ua phooj ywg zoo zoo nyob ces yog li no xwb tiag sawv daws yeej paub zoo li no tiag ua pim nkaus xwb mog
Txhob ruam thaum pom tej yam txawv lawm yuav tsum ntse
Please stand your ground. That money is yours and your kids!!
You play by the sword, you die by the sword. You play with someone’s heart, you die from heart attack. What a tragic. Good luck in the future sister.
What’s her name? Sister good thing you got the benefit of your husband.
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Hi
Luag tias tuag rau poj niam 2 ceg no yog koj tus txiv lawm os yom
I can feel your pain
These so called kwv tij were worried about having to pay for your funeral but didnt care to give their own a proper burial. Keep the money and run! It is partly your fault tho for not divorcing tu taw. Hope you learn and not become a victim again.
Good job! Do not give any money to his family! And that friend will get karma. Be good to yourself and get therapy if needed.
Tus niam tsev tus txiv zoo li kos tsis txhpb nco lawm cia mus ua txiv dev os yuav zoo es txhob cia koj lub kua muag poob yuav zoo dua mog.
U don’t need to give his parents any $. They were nti the ones making payments for it.