The first sentence alone says it all. "I'm the scary transgender person the media warned you about". A child did not come up with that. It is a talking point fed to a child who has now become a pawn in all of this. Raise your children to be kind, introspective, loving and accepting people, and when they have matured enough to make life-changing decisions, THEN support them in choosing to live an authentic life. I'm tired of media outlets virtue signaling and promoting agendas all while catching children in the crossfire.
I feel like labelling children this young as transgender is harmful, because typically children this young don't know what they want, they go through phases, and they don't understand everything. Hell, up until I was 10 I thought I was part cat or something, because I was a stupid kid. Of course, I definitely don't think that now, but if I had a parent also pushing ans enabling the idea that I really was part cat, I probably would've had problems growing out of that. I think it's just best to let these kids be kids. If a boy likes girly things, so be it. Let him like pink and girls clothes, but don't push them into being trans at such a young age. I'm not saying these kids aren't transgender either, even without their parents telling them about it they could still end up being transgender. What I'm saying is, let them be kids, like whatever they want, and slowly figure it out when they mature instead of rushing them into it. Kids go through phases, they change. Don't set anything in stone too early on in their life.
@MoonaticDestiny So they need mental help, physical changes just adds to the belief. It's like a depressed person being told negative things all the time. No offence to anyone transgender or anything, you do you and I do me.
Key difference is : the moms didn’t assume, the kids directly told the parents 😁and showed consistent behavior/thoughts in that direction . It’s not an issue of playing with boy or girl toys.
My daughter was a little Tom boy. She never liked wearing the pretty dresses I bought for her preferring instead shorts. She loved playing with her brother’s boy toys. She told me that boy’s toys were more fun. I agree. She is now 30 and loves being a woman but she still hates dresses!
That’s a funny story. But the thing is this, not every child thinks they are living in the wrong gender. Tomboys exist , period. Just because you’re daughter was only a tomboy doesn’t mean kids with trans gender mentality exists. I’m noticing people who have trouble grasping the idea of a trans kids cannot for one second put themselves in someone else’s shoes or even listen to what the person in question has to say. It’s all projection and dismissive comments
I'm a teen who is a "tom boy" and I get mistaken for a boy all the time. I know very much about trans people and in fact, my sibling is trans. I know I'm a girl and it feels right. You aren't trans because you think "Oh I'm masc/femme, this will be a laugh" you do it because you dont feel right as a cis person.
that’s like me I hate dresses lolz although I rlly think society should get over the word tomboy and accept that girls should just be classed as being like girls even if they are into more originally seen as ‘masculine’ things.
I called myself king instead of queen, wanted to be called handsome, tried to fit in boy spaces, etc. I loved Barbie and Polly Pockets, but I also enjoyed wrestling toys. I think I’ve always been in the middle until I got older. I have no problem being a woman, and I don’t think I’d have a crisis being a male either. My sister was very feminine in the way she dressed, but was a tomboy. She has long hair and is occasionally feminine with masculine traits still. She doesn’t wish to be a man. Never did. No matter how many footballs she threw, the tackles she took, boxing class, basketball team, etc. People are just people.
I'm totally supportive in letting your child figure out who they want to be, but giving your child hormones and medication at such a young age, is just too much. I would wait until she's older and able to comprehend what the medication is doing. It's obvious that she's not the one that brought up the idea of medication, she's way to young to even know about these types of medications.
Not Today Hormone blockers from my knowledge don’t do any permanent damage. They just stunt puberty. So that the child is able to make the decision whether or not they want to take estrogen when they are older.
@@hughjass5125 that can have negative affects on a male or females life. Men and women develop different skeletal structures, along with hormone and testosterone levels, muscular development, etc. Even the mother in the video acknowledges such risk.
YEA YEA YEA. It would be nice if the other trans kids got a bit of help as well. The ones you do not know about the one that gets up as a small child wondering how many times is mom going to beat me today. How many times is my parents going to hurt me and threaten me.
Liking pink and girls clothes doesn’t make you a girl. Growing up I was a tomboy but I understood the things I liked didn’t define me. Plenty of little girls don’t like pink.
Your simplifying it too much it’s not just liking boys clothes or the colour pink there are far more signs and it has to be approved by a medical professionals before they can get any medication
@@meorrrrw4020 seriously, what do you expect her to say. its a child and its hard to say these emotions in a way that makes sense to what they feel. sod off.
the point is, Rebecca is a kid. You can't expect her to be able to explain her situation well. Transgender people just know it when they are. There are scientific studies that show transgender people's brains are not wired like their assigned gender at birth.
These kids are 10 years old they don’t know how do describe gender dysphoria to a cisgender person. In fact I’m older and i don’t even know how to describe my dysphoria to a cisgender person.
@@aerwynmoss6372 tbh maybe they'll just forget about it yk. It's just an experience. We all go through a curiosity whirlwind when we are very young kids, and after some time it goes away; a good example are career choices.
Why is it that the majority of Boys are really "Girls" ?? ? I don't see any REAL Fathers .. Looks like mostly single moms in nice White upscale neighborhoods ..
@@willdpe1256 Those are like 6 kids who probably don’t even live in the same city. That’s not a majority at all. If you have to search for people like you, there aren’t many people like you. Just like the little girl said. She had to search for friends.
I understand what tou are saying but it dont applie for trans ppl here. You cant accept everything . Acceptence of you body commes next when you have to accepte that you have à trans body with all its greatness and its flows.thats the body acceptence you have to teach your children
@@kiyoducros4513 I would agree if there was the technology to switch sex safely and properly, but as for today you’re probably going to have a lot of issues that will just make your life difficult
@@Law_desu15 NOt everybody is trans who wears a dress. I guess most males have tried one on or at least ladies underwear. If going out like that turns them on it's transvestism. They are still full blooded guys who have a fetish. It is this which worries us women a lot as there seems to be no distinction between an actually trans [sexual] and a dressed up male, who both have now unrestricted access to women's private places.
it is... its all about the mom... her blog is direct evidence of her attention seeking desire.. like look at me and my challenges as a parent who has to endure these hardships... smh. and its upsetting because there seems to be no protective laws for the children as these "parents" influence their innocent children... in some cases i can agree they might actually be happier to make the switch... but that should be reserved for the child when they are full grown adults... never should they be permitted to undergo the transition as a child... and there is a HIGH push right now... because of Money these school systems receive... it was the same thing and still is with ADHD and putting children on experimental drugs because teachers are too lazy to teach a child who needs a little extra help with their grades... they tried to do this with my son.... i faught it but my sons mother ... whom i am seperated from won... Now my son is 27 he has mental issues that you will not believe.. he has spent the last 12 years of his life doing drugs and nearly died 2 times from overdose... i could show videos of me finding him in my bathroom writhing uncontrollably... theyve all ruined my child... the mother still refuses to accept her part in this.. instead latches on to the fact that my real father was paranoid skitz as an adult... and those school doctors told my sons mother that is why my son has issues... he was fine when i had custody... he got good grades because i would sit with him every evening after dinner and work on his homework.. so for me that was all he needed was someone to care enuff to help him learn... thing is tho.. as a pre-teen he hated it.. .like every kid does... so he would cry to his mom and his grandmother to let him return home because i was too strict.. they all claimed i was too tough on him.. and maybe i was but i was fighting the 11 yrs of neglect at their hands prior to me being there for him every day. They won the case because of a liberal judge saying that it would work what i was doing for normal children,.., but since my son had documental mental health issues.. that they felt he would receive better treatment in their care... it wasnt but a year later .. she was calling me at home to tell me that he was using his new size to threaten his mom when she asked him to do simple chores. then too i find out that she on a regular basis was leaving him at home alone for entire weekends at the age of 13... liberals are terrible when it comes to children... they really are..
@@SnoozerPodcast ok you clearly want someone to give you attention so here you have it, you are not a man you re a biological women and you have serious identity and acceptance issues that all come from psycological traumas and mental problems, you got took away by the extrem left that puts the money in these movements so thousands of weak people like you spend their money on transitioning and the same pharmaceutical companies keep getting rich at your expenses, you re completely asleep in What you call life and need to wake up and some bright light in your life, take care ✌️
When I was a kid I always wore boy clothes, loved dinosaurs, would always hang out with boys and not girls, relatively short hair, didn’t care for pink (not that it should matter). At 24 now I have my nails and hair done, love girly stuff. There are a lot of changes that happen from a child to an adult..
@@MaduJune same with me I used to have a bowl cut and would only act like my brothers (wearing their clothes) but since my sister was born I completely changed
Puberty blockers will cause bone weakness, leading to osteoporosis, and it will stunt brain development. It does not pause puberty, it halts crucial, healthy development.
@@QuickMove321 It's hard to find a single study that details it all. Puberty Blockers are Gonadotropin-releasing Hormones. They can be used to treat prostate cancer patients, and it has been linked to accelerating the loss of bone mineral. Lupron is a common name for one of the puberty blockers used, the list of side effects is rather extensive. On GIDS.NHS.UK they say that puberty blockers are fully reversible, and cross-sex-hormones are partially reversible. Regarding puberty blockers, they have this on their website, "However, we don’t know the full psychological effects of the blocker or whether it alters the course of adolescent brain development." My phone won't let me link some study, but it was about the use of Lupron, they did prescribe something to be taken with the Lupron, and it did help to stop loss of bone density. Google "Lupron Bone density" accessdata.fda.gov was the link I could see. Just type "lupron"/lupron bone density" into the Google News category for articles. And we know that sex hormones affect brain development, and I think it is fair to guess it will have some sort of impact. It's hard to find a study that specifically addresses puberty blockers on healthy children who don't start HRT. This site is a bit anti-trans, but it has some info that allows you to look things up yourself. Most articles are biased. Very hard to find nuanced ones. www.transgendertrend.com/puberty-blockers/
Transgenderism seems like a obsession with objects. Obsession with cloths/shoes etc it doesn't seem like a obsession with self. A true transgender is suppose to be trans no matter what they wear
that's not at all what being trans is. Trans people wear clothing that they identify as a way to socially transition, while they do think more about clothes it's not an obsession its just all about being seen how you truly feel, and many trans people find this out by gender dysphoria.
So true. Without their makeup, clothes, wigs, surgeries and medication they simply wouldn’t be able to transition. It’s all about turning against their natural, god given bodies. It’s a life long, exhausting fight against their biology. The child in the video might look like a girl now but when puberty kicks in and the male skeleton does it’s thing (despite the hormone blockers) they will not be as convincing.
I was a Tom boy growing up, my favorite color was blue, I rode dirt bikes and 4 wheelers. I am also a straight, biological female who is married to a man. I was a gymnast and a model. I've always loved doing whatever the boys are doing but I knew that I didn't have to be a boy to enjoy those things.
Right. Sometimes it’s a part of growing up. I don’t think grown women should be rejecting everything “girly,” but there are two genders and you can’t choose.
Oh, because this is straight out child abuse by narcissistic parents that should have their kids taken away? Oh, then sorry for not meeting your vibe-check standards.
@@ck4603dude they clearly weren't gonna show you the whole process to how they got there, that's none of our business. Look at how happy she is, she clearly wanted this. She went to therapy to make sure she wanted this. Her transition has nothing to do with her parents because it's about her. Her parents aren't abusing her, they're letting her know that she's being supported and that they're there for her, they're parent not idiots they know what they're doing. If you don't agree with their methods, that's on you being transphobic. But know they aren't taking away their child, but giving her the best life she could possibly have. They're amazing parents for not telling her it's a phase. Transphobia isn't cool, they're people too, do your research because you're apart of the group of people that were coming after parents giving their child the life they wanted. Kids aren't stupid, you might've been but she clearly isn't.
She has already labeled her putting her on this! I have a 17 year old daughter who didn't lyk wearing dresses at 2 or bows and would play with boy toys never dolls at6 but by 12she was into make up and boys. No child can make grown up decisions. One day they might want be a dinosaur are u gonna paint em green and call em rex
@@davidmartiin4359 Well its up to the parent but I say, let them. I would totally buy a dinosaur suit for my child btw. Children do not get operations for this, they have to be adult to make those decisions. Puberty inhibiters are reversable when you stop with them but not giving them while a kid wants them on the ground he/she isnt adult enough yet will have concequentions for the rest of their lifes. Boobs can ofcourse be operated (but better prevent every extra operation) and hair can be removed but ones they get the beard in their voice it is not reversable. They need to live with that for the rest of their live, probably never has the chance to pass like a regular girl and has to deal with so many more bullies. Is that really what you want for your child? If they dont want it later on, they can stop and will have a normal puberty anyway.
This decision should be left until they are at a reasonable age because many trans people regret transitioning later on, it's always important to make sure you know what you want.
I am diagnosed with Asperger syndrome and as a kid I had short hair and wore sweats because of extreme sensory overload. Many people who didn't know thought that I was either a boy or a trans girl. I also didn't have a strong sense of gender (still don't tbh) and I wasn't interested in "girly" stuff, like celebrities, make up, glitter etc. I was living with my grandmother at the time and she told me to dress in whatever way makes me comfortable and just let me be. Growing up I was able to find a lot of ways to self manage (with help of therapy). Let your kid experiment BEFORE u give them chemically created products that cause infertility and cancer.
Nobody is giving this child any hormones. She's been to therapy. She was depressed and upset from being percieved as a boy. Even if she turns out to not be trans, then she would be able to detransition. And how does it cause cancer?
@@aoibhie1208 Hormone-therapy has been shown to significantly increase the chances of cancer later in life. And it is a myth that people can "just detransition." Actual biology isn't that clean. The long term impacts of hormones will be bigger the longer someone stays on them, but for most people there will always be certain lifetime health consequences for taking hormones as a child that children who did not take hormones will never experience. It's not like a word document where you can write a sentence and then delete it later if you don't like it and it will be like you never wrote it. If you are exposed to large amounts of lead as a child, chances are you will still be experiencing effects in your 90's. If you have scabies as a child, there is a decent chance that will still be impacting you in your 90's as well. Heck, I was scratched by a scared cat over a decade ago and I still regularly see the scar. It's absolutely true that if the child is allowed to wear a dress there will likely be no long term physical effects if the child decides to start wearing bow ties later. But it is absolutely factually inaccurate that after taking hormones for a significant period in childhood that the person can just detransition and it will be as if they had never taken the hormones in the first place.
as a trans teen (living in a transphobic home) it’s okay to raise your kids to explore their gender identity, if your kid is born male, and likes feminine stuff, let them like feminine stuff, don’t tell them “so you’re a girl now? you’re trans?” and push it onto them, if they start to like masculine stuff, that’s okay too. if your kid wants to be called a she, call her a she, and vice versa. don’t try and tell them “so you were born a boy, but you like pink and girly stuff, so you’re a trans girl!”, please just let them explore and don’t push anything, and definitely nothing permanent.
I feel like labelling children this young as transgender is harmful, because typically children this young don't know what they want, they go through phases, and they don't understand everything. Hell, up until I was 10 I thought I was part cat or something, because I was a stupid kid. Of course, I definitely don't think that now, but if I had a parent also pushing ans enabling the idea that I really was part cat, I probably would've had problems growing out of that. I think it's just best to let these kids be kids. If a boy likes girly things, so be it. Let him like pink and girls clothes, but don't push them into being trans at such a young age. I'm not saying these kids aren't transgender either, even without their parents telling them about it they could still end up being transgender. What I'm saying is, let them be kids, like whatever they want, and slowly figure it out when they mature instead of rushing them into it. Kids go through phases, they change. Don't set anything in stone too early on in their life.
@@greenbeantm1096 proffesionals like gender degree? You don't need much to get in there, i mean a dude wore a wig and went to prison for assaulting women, so he dressed up to be "trans" and did it again in the prison, all quesrions are heresy and bigotry for them, the law and doctors, just like doctors who tried to give 18cc of oxygen to kids (18cc or half is enough to block a blood vein or paralize an elephant), and suddenly they were up for donating organs by wery badly mismatched signature by parents somehow
While kids are not allowed to do things such as alcohol and smoking..at 7 years she is not even having feelings of having sex or that kind of stuff😢this is so deep.l wish this madness does not come to Africa
@@josh_fisher wait until their 16 than we can establish some kind of stable plan by the time they're 18. One can hit puberty between 12-16 and around that time they'll know more of what they want. Because they'll be expiring the hormones supposed to have
I thought I was Superman and believed in Santa Claus. That said, I also saw myself as a girl and that view never changed. Today i am a trans woman and I WISH I could have socially transitioned as a teenager. I believe i would have been happier in many aspects.
When I was a kid I liked playing with cars and had only one doll. Sometimes I was acting like a tomboy. But it NEVER occurred to me to think whether I'm a boy or a girl! May be I would of if mass media or some ignorant people told me to think about it. But thank God it never happened! If a little girl liked wearing boy's clothes it doesn't mean she's "a boy" and has to start her transitioning. It may CHANGE. She may eventually stop wearing boys clothes and start acting like a girl again. It happens with children. Parents, don't be so devastatingly ignorant and tolerant to what "doctors" and media tells you. This is business!
my best friend wouldnt had been here if he wasnt allowed to be himself, if he wasnt allowed to get a binder his chest dysphoria wouldve been so much worst. being a tomboy is different to being a trans guy.
@@loke4444 If you suddenly feel yourself like a giraffe it doesn't mean you are. If you are born as a girl you are a girl. If you were born as a boy you are a boy. Unless you were born as hermaphrodite. Also, if a chicken feels like a peacock and puts a peacock tail in its bottom, it doesn't make her a peacock. These kids fell victims of propaganda and permissiveness. They need a good psychiatrist.
At age 11 I thought that when actors died in movies they actually died wich make me kind of sad and these kids at age 11 already know what the meaning of transgender is
@@michaelmurdock7331 lol same but like till i was nine but heres the thing kids arent so dumb when it comes too how they feel they m,ight not be able too explain it correcly but a toddler could still tell u that they are heartbroken that the banana does not fit in the peanut butter jar
They said that a 5yo boy said "I'm a transgender" and another dressed his 3yo son like a girl because "He likes pink"... those parents are sick abusers.
@hyperbabe2009 consider that on the off-chance that one of your kids IS transgender, if you force them to be something they’re not, they’ll likely suffer from feelings of not being accepted, possibly depression, etc. Have your own opinions but it’s harmful to not let a trans kid transition, have you seen the trans suicide rates? I’m not saying they have to take hormones or have surgery before they’re 18 or anything but you should not oppress their right to be them.
Gender stereotypes at their worst "i am a girl because i like pink and girls clothes and how they wear their hair". Why not let the kid like any colors and clothes and hair? What happened to telling the little boy that he can play with girls and wear pink and it's all fine? Gender is not clothes or colors. It's about sex. Something kids have no idea about until they start puberty.
So why are "gender" and "sex" separated in things such as surveys? Gender Identity, Sexual Orientation. Kids are developed much more than say some of the other generations. They can feel how they wanna feel, no one is influencing anyone. TransGENDER is not about sex. Far from it. TransGENDER is about IDENTITY. If it was about sex then we should be labeling as TransSEXUAL. If kids were referring to themselves as Transsexual or if their parents are calling their children Transsexual, then yes red flags would be raised there. Kids are finding their identities, sexuality is far from another term. That's what they find when puberty hits, sexual orientation.
Why the hell are there SO many commenta about that She “knew” She was a girl because She liked pink!? This is the easiest way for her to say It because It probably is difficult for her to say It otherwise
Eline Baas thank you! All these people who have no idea what they’re talking about are bashing her. Y’all- she’s too young to completely understand dysmorphia for herself or I guess more actually how to phonically express it.
Why is it that the majority of Boys are really "Girls" ?? ? I don't see any REAL Fathers .. Looks like mostly single moms in nice White upscale neighborhoods ..
@@EliteDebate Agreed not to mention the toll the Medications have on them.... The testosterone and Estrogen it has on the opposite sex surely effects them mentally. Just imagine being on them as a child. Absolutely falsely attributed to mass bullying.
My best friends daughter wanted to be identified as a boy. Everyone was happy to do so and so she began the long road to gender reassignment. From the age 12 - 18 she lived as a boy when she changed her mind!! She was glad that the process had been slow as she managed to save her girly bits. Unfortunately it might be too late for her reproductive system. She has lived as a woman now embracing her curves for the past 2 years. This worries me with children so young. I’m glad these kids have parents who are happy to embrace this but I’d be very careful to make any permanent changes as minds do change. I’ve seen it with my own eyes. I personally think this is a deep depression that needs treatment rather than putting a bandaid so to speak over the wound. I wish them all the best of luck 🙏
If this is perpetual depression turned to joy through gender re-assignment then it’s the better option to aim for your child feeling happy every day. Should they change their mind later, it won’t be with much regret if the early phase was such a strong emotional desire for the first transition, such as the child in this video.
@@SnoozerPodcast Please get some real good therapy before surgery. Honestly so many people feel they’re in the wrong body or hate their body and just doesn’t feel right. This can be some very deep down psychological problems and I beg you to see a therapist first. You may have already done so in which case I wish you lots of luck and hope you are happy once you transition. ❤️
@@estellegrove4853 I did way too much of them and I hated them and all they confirmed is that I was indeed dysphoria and I am now trying more to be my true self as a male not a female
@@estellegrove4853 thanks:) already went through them and all of them confirmed I am dysphoric and I am excited to get my breast removed surgery in May so that I can swim shirtless with the bois.
I have always liked male clothes and I wear them. I like my hair short. I'm definitely female though and I've never doubted that. Im not sure how I feel about putting your kid on hormone blockers by their choice. It's hard on any persons body to stop their hormones.
Your point? My daughter has blue hair? I dye my hair crazy colors all the time she asked for blue for the summer. What does hair color have anything to do with her gender identity?
@@courtneyheider predisposition to let her try anything. And element of flamboyance for attention like the trans stuff is getting her. Most, 94 %, revert back to original gender. www.kqed.org/futureofyou/441784/the-controversial-research-on-desistance-in-transgender-youth
🙌and how else would they know about transgender stuff if their parents haven’t indoctrinated them about it? these kids will grow up and regret ever “transforming”
@@user-ilovemrfahrenheit Big Facts. These kids have no choice but to go along with this, and they're convinced it's a good thing because their guardians say so. Children are easily impressionable. The adults are making life-altering decisions for these kids before they even realize the weight of the situation. And by that time, the damage will be done. Very sad. People need to allow their children to grow up, and make their own decisions.
@@HarryKlein123 because when they grow up they may regret what they’ve done. kids shouldn’t be allowed to make such a huge decision at such a young age.
Let kids play with whatever toys that want, let girls wear blue and boys wear pink, but let major decisions like changing gender wait until the child is at least 16. It just always feels like these kids are led to making these major decisions by the adults around them.
I struggle when the sibling says when she was five she said “Mama I’m Transgender” and then the other Mom says at 8 the child says “You will call me Lily and use she/her pronouns” An 8 year old doesn’t know what a pronoun is...and a 5 year old can’t even spell transgender let alone define it!
socogirl1980 pronouns are learned in like 3rd grade... kids also know what they are before because they learn how to talk and refer to people. They also didn’t say “I’m transgenders” they said “I’m a girl” or “I’m Lilly”
I mean, when I was 7, I started having dysphoria. Albeit I didn't start transitioning until I was 19. But the feeling was always there, the only thing stopping me was other life events, and just, not really knowing how to voice how I felt. No one is too young, or too old to know their sexuality, or their gender.
I'm 14 and I am a boy but my mom won't let me dress like one and says I'm to young to know what I want.i want to change my name to zack.but I don't think that's gonna happen any time soon.
I have no problem with trans kids but it's wayyyy too young to be taking hormones and even surgery. I don't wanna say they will change their mind, but if they do it's normal it's what kids do. It's too young to be making such a big decision.
I completely agree. People are encouraging this at way too young of age. I don't care what people think, children don't know what they want when they are young. I am sorry. I used to want to be a cop when I grew up, but i never did that. Children have all kinds of fantasies when they are super young, that is just the wonder of a child's mind. But when you grow older, you start to see the world a bit different and you mature into the person you really are.
I dont disagree with that as a parent I think letting them Express themselves is great as they get older and are more in charge of their life they can make these changes.
@MoonaticDestiny you're knowledge of "pills" and "drugs" is very poor. You should educate yourself on the subject, before making yourself look foolish.
as a transitioned person, i hate that people glorify trans children as being amazing, its not, ive encountered to many trans kids who regretted it, ive still to met a trans kid who still wants a different gender
This might shock you, but words and clothes are not the same thing as a gun. You give a kid a gun, someone might get hurt. You let a kid be called a different name and pronouns, literally nobody is hurt by that.
@@camillehendricks9819 not necessarily. Trying to move past the bad stereotypes, but gender stereotypes in general are actually a good thing. It's late and I'm too tired to try and find the link, but I read an article as to how gender roles can actually help benefit society.
This feels like madness. My oldest daughter (age 17) is experimenting with they/them pronouns and a gender neutral new name and it's been a challenge. This is a trauma response to some awful events that have been endured. We are supportive and trying to understand. Taking medication as a child or encouraging a very young child to go fully into the other gender just seems like setting them up for all kinds of confusion and problems down the line. At that age, I would be more about distraction and getting them to be happy with themselves as they were born. Younger children can be pointed at other interests that have nothing to do with gender and I would basically put a pin in it until they are far older.
Liking pink, girls clothes and how girls wear their hair does not mean that the little boy is a girl. And it is obvious that the kid has been coached in what to say as he uses adult expressions and trans led sound bites. Poor kid. I hope they didn't him on puberty blockers.
Aren't they too young to change gender? I mean.. They can still like girly things while staying males. I'm not hating, i just think that those medications might mess up their health
@@hnibuns Guess what idiot? Once you take those hormones for a while, it will be completely irreversible. Kid, you don't know what you're talking about, get off the internet, you're not old enough anyways
Black Diva I’m trans ftm I just realized I’m trans and I’m 11 turning 12 in two weeks, but I saw from when I was younger that I dressed like a boy sometimes when I was little
@@aa-lj7sn they go on blockers until they're old enough to decide and they have been diagnosed before they do, boomer, get off the internet you don't know what you're talking about.
Yeti the hormones they will be given and the fact that they can get their genitalia mutilated by 15 is not cool at all. All kids go through different phases in their lives and just because you like pink does not mean you’re a girl or vice versa. I was a tomboy till 18. My little brother was a little feminine... we never thought he was a female born in the “wrong” body or never thought I was a male born in the “wrong” body. They need to give these kids more time and to mature more before letting them make such a huge decision so early on. Like I said kids have a lot of phases don’t let one of them be a permanent mistake.
@@muneca3819 A transgender person has to jump through many hoops to get puberty blockers, countless hoops to obtain HRT and countless more to even have the POSSIBILITY of surgeries. These children are socially transitioned, which is reversible. Yes, some men are more feminine as kids and some girls are tomboys, but these people are weeded out in the earlier stages of gender therapy. Puberty blockers - reversible HRT - semi reversible Surgeries - semi reversible Do some research and then come back to me.
I don't know why some people have to be so rude to others. They mock what they don't understand. They need to "walk a mile in that persons shoes, feel what they feel, go through what their going through", then maybe, they may understand & accept why that person decided to be trans. And even if they don't accept it, it's really none of their business. People need to stop being so mean & rude to other people.
I don’t want to live because i want to be transgender and I don’t feel comfortable in my own body everyone makes fun of me because I am different to other people I want to die I feel I need female hormones 😓🏳️🌈 not everyone is the same!
Isaac mastering ASMR! I’m not diagnosed with depression it I feel it and I want to die to but think of all the people u would hurt when u leave I thought about it and I don’t want them to feel pain so I will and if you weren’t different what would make u special from other people u would be the same and you being trans 🏳️🌈 makes you special
Isaac mastering ASMR! And if u want female hormones go ahead but if u don’t want it but u have to bc of other people there opinion doesn’t matter it’s your body do what u want :)
I have seen a lot of comments about how kids don’t know about themselves but if you ask most trans people they would say that they knew that they weren’t the gender they were born with when they were very little and yes they may realize they aren’t trans and that’s why I think that it’s cool that the parents aren’t taking permanent actions.
Yes but for the majority they would not cut their members off or stapler anything on, the risk is not worth it since dysphoria is super common among hormone filled fast growing children with hurting joints and bones
Dont confuse personality with sexuality! Gosh! You could always do girly or boyish things being the opposite gender without being one. These parents are dangerous.
I’m not against trans and stuff but I would have waited till he was older because he Was so young and he might not fully know in the future what he’d want. It’s such a big decision for a kid
Marion H lol why are you fighting over this. I’m not fighting with you I understand your point but I do agree with my opinion, don’t make yourself sound dumb by fighting with someone who isn’t with you
Exactly like Obviously she is transgender, but she is also little. She may understand she is a girl and not a boy, and that is fine, but she also only knows girls as wearing pink and playing with dolls and wearing dresses. Thats why she fits that gender stereotype. We shouldn't strip children from what they identify as.
Hahahaha yeah I sucked at sports (didn't even like them) but since all my male friends played soccer and stuff I just did it too. Kids just want to be grouped in with the people they identify with.
That first case is insane. Just because the kid said he likes pink and other "girls stuff" his mother, instead of saying, "It's ok, boys can like the color pink and theres nothing wrong with It" she assumed he was a girl because of this. The funny thing is that the trans community supports this
@@indiesb0nes they don't know what they are, they know what they like and they associated pink with femenine so they assumed that makes them a girl. They don't know their sexuality,they don't understand the damage the blockers will do to their body and brain
This is disgusting. The adults who enable this stuff should be in prison for grooming. I never thought about “gender” when I was a kid. I liked to play with dolls and sometimes wore dresses. But I also liked toy cars, action figures and video games. I never thought I was a girl because of the former. Thanks for reinforcing gender stereotypes
My daughter would crawl over dolls to play with my son’s trucks. At four she would also want to wear boys briefs “why” her cousin asked her? “Because they’re comfortable” she responded. She hated the color pink! So, we let her like what she liked and she’s still a happy healthy GIRL today! In her early 20’s
How is this child abuse? The children are not being abused in any way. They're being allowed to live life they way they want, and they're absolutely not forced to do anything they don't want to do. Seems like the opposite of abuse to me.
I wanted to be a boy since I could speak… and my mom said it was a perverse spirit and the devil had hold of me. When I didn’t wear dresses to church, it was disobedient and sinful, a dishonored my parents. Basically my mom told me I was going to hell every day just for being me. That’s emotional abuse. Can you imagine the guilt I felt my whole life? Like a pit in your stomach? I didn’t know what transgender was until my 20s and then a few years later I began medically transitioning. Wish I could have had the help I needed when I was a kid 💜
Thank god my mom didn't assume I was trans just because I wore boy's clothes. You can clearly see the kid doesn't even know what being trans is, just hear her definition "I am trans because I like pink and girl's clothes". This is not the definition of gender, it's a preference. Mom went on and made her believe she was trans at like what, 8 years old? There's NO WAY you know your gender identity so young. Mom should just have let her be a kid and decide whether she is trans or not at an appropriate age.
Society picks as if your a boy you should like: Boy clothes Football Gaming Blue Trucks/trains/motorbikes/cars If your a girl that you should like by Society: Pink Dresses/ skirts/tights Makeup Hairclips etx
I was born in 1996, I knew my identity was female since I was 3, literally since I can remember and that was persistent and insistent. So no, you're quite wrong, we are capable of knowing our identity since we learn to use the language and learn the world around. Now can I hear your argument for why you are so convinced that there is "NO WAY" for someone to know their identity so young?
Lily sounds like she just doesn't identify with being a boy or girl. But I like how the mother is letting lily go at her own pace and she's not jumping into hormone blockers etc.
These parents are heavily pushing this on their children. Even if they are actually trans, they shouldn’t be allowed to physically transition until they’re 18 or even 17 with parental consent. These kids don’t have the mental capacity to really understand what’s happening.
The first sentence alone says it all. "I'm the scary transgender person the media warned you about". A child did not come up with that. It is a talking point fed to a child who has now become a pawn in all of this. Raise your children to be kind, introspective, loving and accepting people, and when they have matured enough to make life-changing decisions, THEN support them in choosing to live an authentic life. I'm tired of media outlets virtue signaling and promoting agendas all while catching children in the crossfire.
Quit lying
I feel like labelling children this young as transgender is harmful, because typically children this young don't know what they want, they go through phases, and they don't understand everything. Hell, up until I was 10 I thought I was part cat or something, because I was a stupid kid. Of course, I definitely don't think that now, but if I had a parent also pushing ans enabling the idea that I really was part cat, I probably would've had problems growing out of that.
I think it's just best to let these kids be kids. If a boy likes girly things, so be it. Let him like pink and girls clothes, but don't push them into being trans at such a young age. I'm not saying these kids aren't transgender either, even without their parents telling them about it they could still end up being transgender. What I'm saying is, let them be kids, like whatever they want, and slowly figure it out when they mature instead of rushing them into it. Kids go through phases, they change. Don't set anything in stone too early on in their life.
What if alot of kids feel like this but its because of the media they have the courage to get "out"
Theres a stigma on how people look at Trans people and you know it 😒
and it was hanging in her room 2 years later in the vid.... indoctrination much.
I never thought about my gender as a kid i just have a hard time with kids making life changing decisions
I totally agree.
Ditto
You didn't think about it cause, what she said, you don't have gender dysphoria. You were completely ok with your gender/sex
@MoonaticDestiny So they need mental help, physical changes just adds to the belief. It's like a depressed person being told negative things all the time. No offence to anyone transgender or anything, you do you and I do me.
Yep
How does a 4 year old speak out that “I am transgender “?
That one was a bit sus. Personally 90% of these kids are legit but a couple i was a little mmm
the mom was pushing it since the kid could walk
report this video for child abuse
@@pokemontas8025 Don't be silly
@@pokemontas8025
Yes it is child abuse and i will report this sickness .
I’m thankful my mom didn’t assume I was a trans when I played with dolls and liked my little pony at age 7 and knew I was just being a kid.
Key difference is : the moms didn’t assume, the kids directly told the parents 😁and showed consistent behavior/thoughts in that direction . It’s not an issue of playing with boy or girl toys.
@@keishakiger8541 that is only thing kids do play. let kids grow up. then they wil decide
@@keishakiger8541 I wanted to be a superhero when I was kid and my behavior showed that I did. Do u know why? Because I was just a kid💀
@@joldomines4005 it's like some people think we should just follow everything kids say.
@@keishakiger8541 you don’t actually think a kid is born needing to wear a dress do you?
My daughter was a little Tom boy. She never liked wearing the pretty dresses I bought for her preferring instead shorts. She loved playing with her brother’s boy toys. She told me that boy’s toys were more fun. I agree. She is now 30 and loves being a woman but she still hates dresses!
yes
That’s a funny story. But the thing is this, not every child thinks they are living in the wrong gender. Tomboys exist , period. Just because you’re daughter was only a tomboy doesn’t mean kids with trans gender mentality exists. I’m noticing people who have trouble grasping the idea of a trans kids cannot for one second put themselves in someone else’s shoes or even listen to what the person in question has to say. It’s all projection and dismissive comments
I'm a teen who is a "tom boy" and I get mistaken for a boy all the time. I know very much about trans people and in fact, my sibling is trans. I know I'm a girl and it feels right. You aren't trans because you think "Oh I'm masc/femme, this will be a laugh" you do it because you dont feel right as a cis person.
that’s like me I hate dresses lolz although I rlly think society should get over the word tomboy and accept that girls should just be classed as being like girls even if they are into more originally seen as ‘masculine’ things.
I called myself king instead of queen, wanted to be called handsome, tried to fit in boy spaces, etc. I loved Barbie and Polly Pockets, but I also enjoyed wrestling toys. I think I’ve always been in the middle until I got older. I have no problem being a woman, and I don’t think I’d have a crisis being a male either. My sister was very feminine in the way she dressed, but was a tomboy. She has long hair and is occasionally feminine with masculine traits still. She doesn’t wish to be a man. Never did. No matter how many footballs she threw, the tackles she took, boxing class, basketball team, etc. People are just people.
I'm totally supportive in letting your child figure out who they want to be, but giving your child hormones and medication at such a young age, is just too much. I would wait until she's older and able to comprehend what the medication is doing. It's obvious that she's not the one that brought up the idea of medication, she's way to young to even know about these types of medications.
Especially if the main reasoning was because your son liked a color.... 1:58
Not Today Hormone blockers from my knowledge don’t do any permanent damage. They just stunt puberty. So that the child is able to make the decision whether or not they want to take estrogen when they are older.
Nobody has ever proved that the Elephant can become a Horse, so there are no other sexes except male and female.
report this video for child abuse
@@hughjass5125 that can have negative affects on a male or females life. Men and women develop different skeletal structures, along with hormone and testosterone levels, muscular development, etc. Even the mother in the video acknowledges such risk.
A suicidal kid at 7? That is extremely hard to be dealing with as a mother. I'm glad that they're happier now,
i was close to comitting sucide when i was 7 aswell im 10 now and im glad i didn't
YEA YEA YEA. It would be nice if the other trans kids got a bit of help as well. The ones you do not know about the one that gets up as a small child wondering how many times is mom going to beat me today. How many times is my parents going to hurt me and threaten me.
@Primal Beast HA HA HA HAS that is now how it works fool. religotard.
@Primal Beast Here is the truth and reality of gender identity you religotard.
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Ugh I don't care if someone switched their gender! I love all trans people, I kinda wished I was a boy so I can get transgender-
Liking pink and girls clothes doesn’t make you a girl.
Growing up I was a tomboy but I understood the things I liked didn’t define me.
Plenty of little girls don’t like pink.
Your simplifying it too much it’s not just liking boys clothes or the colour pink there are far more signs and it has to be approved by a medical professionals before they can get any medication
@@-M1LK0- she is not simplifying anything... LOL that is literally the reason they give in the video
@@meorrrrw4020 seriously, what do you expect her to say. its a child and its hard to say these emotions in a way that makes sense to what they feel. sod off.
the point is, Rebecca is a kid. You can't expect her to be able to explain her situation well. Transgender people just know it when they are. There are scientific studies that show transgender people's brains are not wired like their assigned gender at birth.
@@JustSeb825825_p4ssw0rd the parents were saying it that’s why I commented on it... did you even watch the video?
Omg gender is more that "colors" , "shows" and "clothes". That's just a preference. Just because I hate dresses doesnt mean Im a man
agreed, it's just common sense
So true
These kids are 10 years old they don’t know how do describe gender dysphoria to a cisgender person. In fact I’m older and i don’t even know how to describe my dysphoria to a cisgender person.
I agree, I almost always wear boyish clothes but it doesn’t mean anything
simplycbh she's only a kid she found it hard to explain it and I think she is trying her best
I'm really interested in an interview with all of that kids in 30 and in 40 years to her how they see their past and childhood in review.
me too
Sameee
If they haven't committed suicide already... And don't think that's what I wish or want, the worlds just a cruel place. Especially when you're young
@@j.krollin1307 young and being trans like a lot of trans ppl committed from bulling or tuff or with getting to be them self
@@aerwynmoss6372 tbh maybe they'll just forget about it yk. It's just an experience. We all go through a curiosity whirlwind when we are very young kids, and after some time it goes away; a good example are career choices.
The moment she said.." Ok so I write a blog about our journey" ..
pretentious goat what is wrong with blogging? I used to do it
pretentious goat oh ok
Why is it that the majority of Boys are really "Girls" ?? ? I don't see any REAL Fathers .. Looks like mostly single moms in nice White upscale neighborhoods ..
@@willdpe1256 Those are like 6 kids who probably don’t even live in the same city. That’s not a majority at all. If you have to search for people like you, there aren’t many people like you. Just like the little girl said. She had to search for friends.
Exactly
This is the total opposite of accepting our bodies, a lesson that brings maturity, understanding and acceptance of our own limits
I understand what tou are saying but it dont applie for trans ppl here. You cant accept everything . Acceptence of you body commes next when you have to accepte that you have à trans body with all its greatness and its flows.thats the body acceptence you have to teach your children
@@kiyoducros4513 I would agree if there was the technology to switch sex safely and properly, but as for today you’re probably going to have a lot of issues that will just make your life difficult
@@kiyoducros4513 right acceptance for a child not even done with puberty
Sir, u dont know what dysphoria feels like
@@tadanohitohitogr8450 no i don’t, but progress didn’t advance enough to make it safe and healthy
Thank god my mother didn’t assume I was a female when I wanted to wear a dress 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Alot of dudes turn trans around 40 be careful 🤷♀️
@@Law_desu15 NOt everybody is trans who wears a dress. I guess most males have tried one on or at least ladies underwear. If going out like that turns them on it's transvestism. They are still full blooded guys who have a fetish. It is this which worries us women a lot as there seems to be no distinction between an actually trans [sexual] and a dressed up male, who both have now unrestricted access to women's private places.
They didn't assume, they were born this way just like Lady Gaga!
Stop being a bigot!!!!
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣
They taught their child that it is 'girly' to like pink.
I know right!? Liking a color has nothing to do with which genitalia you own! THESE POOR CHILDREN NEED TO BE SAVED FROM THEIR PARENTS!
Wow
Right!
No she just likes pink
Society teaches us that. It's a societal issue not a matter of parenting.
Am i the only person wondering how they had transgender in there vocabulary at 5 years old like i didn't know what that ment till 5th grade
1. They went to a gender specialist so it likely the term was used 2. The mom said she said said “I am a girl.” Not “I am transgender.”
I knew that when I was 7, soo
Cuz u never thought of wanting to be another gender
@@drawing4u962 23:12
I didnt know what transgender meant till i was in grade7 i am now in grade 9
This is completely insane
it is... its all about the mom... her blog is direct evidence of her attention seeking desire.. like look at me and my challenges as a parent who has to endure these hardships... smh. and its upsetting because there seems to be no protective laws for the children as these "parents" influence their innocent children... in some cases i can agree they might actually be happier to make the switch... but that should be reserved for the child when they are full grown adults... never should they be permitted to undergo the transition as a child... and there is a HIGH push right now... because of Money these school systems receive... it was the same thing and still is with ADHD and putting children on experimental drugs because teachers are too lazy to teach a child who needs a little extra help with their grades... they tried to do this with my son.... i faught it but my sons mother ... whom i am seperated from won... Now my son is 27 he has mental issues that you will not believe.. he has spent the last 12 years of his life doing drugs and nearly died 2 times from overdose... i could show videos of me finding him in my bathroom writhing uncontrollably... theyve all ruined my child... the mother still refuses to accept her part in this.. instead latches on to the fact that my real father was paranoid skitz as an adult... and those school doctors told my sons mother that is why my son has issues... he was fine when i had custody... he got good grades because i would sit with him every evening after dinner and work on his homework.. so for me that was all he needed was someone to care enuff to help him learn... thing is tho.. as a pre-teen he hated it.. .like every kid does... so he would cry to his mom and his grandmother to let him return home because i was too strict.. they all claimed i was too tough on him.. and maybe i was but i was fighting the 11 yrs of neglect at their hands prior to me being there for him every day. They won the case because of a liberal judge saying that it would work what i was doing for normal children,.., but since my son had documental mental health issues.. that they felt he would receive better treatment in their care... it wasnt but a year later .. she was calling me at home to tell me that he was using his new size to threaten his mom when she asked him to do simple chores. then too i find out that she on a regular basis was leaving him at home alone for entire weekends at the age of 13... liberals are terrible when it comes to children... they really are..
I am not insane, you must be insane for telling people their insane, I am a man, not a women
@@SnoozerPodcast ok buddy sure 😅
@@davidtenreiro6030 I am not a women, I am a man, just born in a women’s body, ok bud
@@SnoozerPodcast ok you clearly want someone to give you attention so here you have it, you are not a man you re a biological women and you have serious identity and acceptance issues that all come from psycological traumas and mental problems, you got took away by the extrem left that puts the money in these movements so thousands of weak people like you spend their money on transitioning and the same pharmaceutical companies keep getting rich at your expenses, you re completely asleep in What you call life and need to wake up and some bright light in your life, take care ✌️
We used to just call that a tomboy??? What happened to being a tomboy?? Now your just a boy
You know what's funny I thought of this same thing today...
When I was a kid I always wore boy clothes, loved dinosaurs, would always hang out with boys and not girls, relatively short hair, didn’t care for pink (not that it should matter). At 24 now I have my nails and hair done, love girly stuff. There are a lot of changes that happen from a child to an adult..
Two very different things.
@@MaduJune same with me I used to have a bowl cut and would only act like my brothers (wearing their clothes) but since my sister was born I completely changed
Right
Puberty blockers will cause bone weakness, leading to osteoporosis, and it will stunt brain development. It does not pause puberty, it halts crucial, healthy development.
Also non reversible. This is so tragic.
ALSO IT CAUSE YOUR NUTS TO SHRINK!!!
Shave or use laser hair removal
Hey can you link your sources. I believe you I just want to have a article or study to bring up if I happen to need it in a arguement. Thanks.
@@QuickMove321 It's hard to find a single study that details it all.
Puberty Blockers are Gonadotropin-releasing Hormones.
They can be used to treat prostate cancer patients, and it has been linked to accelerating the loss of bone mineral.
Lupron is a common name for one of the puberty blockers used, the list of side effects is rather extensive.
On GIDS.NHS.UK they say that puberty blockers are fully reversible, and cross-sex-hormones are partially reversible.
Regarding puberty blockers, they have this on their website, "However, we don’t know the full psychological effects of the blocker or whether it alters the course of adolescent brain development."
My phone won't let me link some study, but it was about the use of Lupron, they did prescribe something to be taken with the Lupron, and it did help to stop loss of bone density.
Google "Lupron Bone density" accessdata.fda.gov was the link I could see.
Just type "lupron"/lupron bone density" into the Google News category for articles.
And we know that sex hormones affect brain development, and I think it is fair to guess it will have some sort of impact. It's hard to find a study that specifically addresses puberty blockers on healthy children who don't start HRT.
This site is a bit anti-trans, but it has some info that allows you to look things up yourself. Most articles are biased. Very hard to find nuanced ones.
www.transgendertrend.com/puberty-blockers/
Transgenderism seems like a obsession with objects. Obsession with cloths/shoes etc it doesn't seem like a obsession with self. A true transgender is suppose to be trans no matter what they wear
There is no transgender. It is a lie!
That's not a word you moron. Pick up a book and learn to stop spreading your hate.
that's not at all what being trans is. Trans people wear clothing that they identify as a way to socially transition, while they do think more about clothes it's not an obsession its just all about being seen how you truly feel, and many trans people find this out by gender dysphoria.
Nutty Professor I used to love playing with trucks. Now girls like trucks they are given hormone blockers. Crazy world.
So true. Without their makeup, clothes, wigs, surgeries and medication they simply wouldn’t be able to transition. It’s all about turning against their natural, god given bodies. It’s a life long, exhausting fight against their biology.
The child in the video might look like a girl now but when puberty kicks in and the male skeleton does it’s thing (despite the hormone blockers) they will not be as convincing.
I was a Tom boy growing up, my favorite color was blue, I rode dirt bikes and 4 wheelers. I am also a straight, biological female who is married to a man. I was a gymnast and a model. I've always loved doing whatever the boys are doing but I knew that I didn't have to be a boy to enjoy those things.
THIS 👏👏👏
Right. Sometimes it’s a part of growing up. I don’t think grown women should be rejecting everything “girly,” but there are two genders and you can’t choose.
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Oh, because this is straight out child abuse by narcissistic parents that should have their kids taken away? Oh, then sorry for not meeting your vibe-check standards.
@@ck4603dude they clearly weren't gonna show you the whole process to how they got there, that's none of our business. Look at how happy she is, she clearly wanted this. She went to therapy to make sure she wanted this. Her transition has nothing to do with her parents because it's about her. Her parents aren't abusing her, they're letting her know that she's being supported and that they're there for her, they're parent not idiots they know what they're doing. If you don't agree with their methods, that's on you being transphobic. But know they aren't taking away their child, but giving her the best life she could possibly have. They're amazing parents for not telling her it's a phase. Transphobia isn't cool, they're people too, do your research because you're apart of the group of people that were coming after parents giving their child the life they wanted. Kids aren't stupid, you might've been but she clearly isn't.
I completely agree with Lily’s mom . Not wanting to label her yet .
Edit:thanks for the likes :)
I agree Silati Kalalika
She has already labeled her putting her on this! I have a 17 year old daughter who didn't lyk wearing dresses at 2 or bows and would play with boy toys never dolls at6 but by 12she was into make up and boys. No child can make grown up decisions. One day they might want be a dinosaur are u gonna paint em green and call em rex
@@davidmartiin4359 Well its up to the parent but I say, let them. I would totally buy a dinosaur suit for my child btw. Children do not get operations for this, they have to be adult to make those decisions. Puberty inhibiters are reversable when you stop with them but not giving them while a kid wants them on the ground he/she isnt adult enough yet will have concequentions for the rest of their lifes. Boobs can ofcourse be operated (but better prevent every extra operation) and hair can be removed but ones they get the beard in their voice it is not reversable. They need to live with that for the rest of their live, probably never has the chance to pass like a regular girl and has to deal with so many more bullies. Is that really what you want for your child? If they dont want it later on, they can stop and will have a normal puberty anyway.
@@sannewijn8695 puberty inhibiters? Yeah look up leuprorelin, yeah its the german ww2 gas chambers treatment all over again with its effects
Yeah.. And my daughter is 4 and identifys as a Disney princess.. 😏
Brooke Bailey haha! That’s typical for this ages!
Let me guess your daughter is a girl because she likes pink lol
And do you identify as a basic idiot.
If your daughter played with legos I guess you wouldn’t love her? You have a twisted mind!
@@andreamaria85 Umm when did I say I didn't love her? I think your just really ignorant.
This is not ok. Kids are not able to make such decisions at that age they are very easily influenced and she is likely to regret this decision later.
yeah, because kids are not capable of making life size decisions like this
@whisky lol kids change their minds all the time. They cannot handle big decisions. That's why the adults needs ti help and guide them.
shes still trans
still a girl
she runs a page on instagram
shes an activist
@@doubletiereddoppleganger1163 what’s her insta I want to follow
@@doubletiereddoppleganger1163 of course she is, you need constant self-deception process to feel good.
This decision should be left until they are at a reasonable age because many trans people regret transitioning later on, it's always important to make sure you know what you want.
They can choose who they wanna be at that age
@@MisterBubbaMan Lol no.
Thank you an actual smart person
@@MisterBubbaMan you're incompetent lol
@@webbie1891 and you're hopeless.
I am diagnosed with Asperger syndrome and as a kid I had short hair and wore sweats because of extreme sensory overload. Many people who didn't know thought that I was either a boy or a trans girl. I also didn't have a strong sense of gender (still don't tbh) and I wasn't interested in "girly" stuff, like celebrities, make up, glitter etc. I was living with my grandmother at the time and she told me to dress in whatever way makes me comfortable and just let me be. Growing up I was able to find a lot of ways to self manage (with help of therapy). Let your kid experiment BEFORE u give them chemically created products that cause infertility and cancer.
Same same
Nobody is giving this child any hormones. She's been to therapy. She was depressed and upset from being percieved as a boy. Even if she turns out to not be trans, then she would be able to detransition. And how does it cause cancer?
@@aoibhie1208 Hormone-therapy has been shown to significantly increase the chances of cancer later in life. And it is a myth that people can "just detransition." Actual biology isn't that clean. The long term impacts of hormones will be bigger the longer someone stays on them, but for most people there will always be certain lifetime health consequences for taking hormones as a child that children who did not take hormones will never experience. It's not like a word document where you can write a sentence and then delete it later if you don't like it and it will be like you never wrote it. If you are exposed to large amounts of lead as a child, chances are you will still be experiencing effects in your 90's. If you have scabies as a child, there is a decent chance that will still be impacting you in your 90's as well. Heck, I was scratched by a scared cat over a decade ago and I still regularly see the scar. It's absolutely true that if the child is allowed to wear a dress there will likely be no long term physical effects if the child decides to start wearing bow ties later. But it is absolutely factually inaccurate that after taking hormones for a significant period in childhood that the person can just detransition and it will be as if they had never taken the hormones in the first place.
@@hollybigelow5337 source on the cancer stuff? Haven't heard of that before.
@@aoibhie1208 www.bmj.com/content/365/bmj.l1652
To be fair, the risk is much higher for transgender women than for transgender men.
Oh my god her little brother “I think that having a big brother would just be too much” that’s actually so cute 🥺🥺
Ikr 🥺
With his little Forrest Gump accent... so cute and wholesome
This kid is blessed I have 5 brothers 😭😭
I loved him saying that as well, it just shows he supports his sister, super sweet.
IKR
as a trans teen (living in a transphobic home) it’s okay to raise your kids to explore their gender identity, if your kid is born male, and likes feminine stuff, let them like feminine stuff, don’t tell them “so you’re a girl now? you’re trans?” and push it onto them, if they start to like masculine stuff, that’s okay too. if your kid wants to be called a she, call her a she, and vice versa. don’t try and tell them “so you were born a boy, but you like pink and girly stuff, so you’re a trans girl!”, please just let them explore and don’t push anything, and definitely nothing permanent.
I am 23 and I cant even decide what I’m having for dinner
bland spaghetti like your personality 😂😂😂
@@antrax2141 or maybe sour pickles, like yours 😂
Mellbinha Bincheski good thing these kids aren’t choosing their gender then
Mellbinha Bincheski MEEEEEEE
This is literally my older sister
Hormone blocker are a very bad idea... what if the child changes their mind? They are only 7
Angellica I don’t agree with what they are doing but you can simply take the blockers out and you go through the puberty you were supposed too
@@Popplebop It doesn't work that way. They're called puberty blockers for a reason. There's no turning back.
Noo it does I was on them and then they just took the patch off and I had a female puberty....it’s literally proven dumbass
Duckify . How old are you? Do you seriously think you’ll get away with such an obvious lie?
@@williamlavagna1096 No, they are reversible.
I feel like labelling children this young as transgender is harmful, because typically children this young don't know what they want, they go through phases, and they don't understand everything. Hell, up until I was 10 I thought I was part cat or something, because I was a stupid kid. Of course, I definitely don't think that now, but if I had a parent also pushing ans enabling the idea that I really was part cat, I probably would've had problems growing out of that.
I think it's just best to let these kids be kids. If a boy likes girly things, so be it. Let him like pink and girls clothes, but don't push them into being trans at such a young age. I'm not saying these kids aren't transgender either, even without their parents telling them about it they could still end up being transgender. What I'm saying is, let them be kids, like whatever they want, and slowly figure it out when they mature instead of rushing them into it. Kids go through phases, they change. Don't set anything in stone too early on in their life.
Those 3 hippopotamuses are messing with that poor child
Kendall Bergstrom the parents didn’t have a part though, they’ve been diagnosed by professionals with gender dysphoria
@@greenbeantm1096 proffesionals like gender degree? You don't need much to get in there, i mean a dude wore a wig and went to prison for assaulting women, so he dressed up to be "trans" and did it again in the prison, all quesrions are heresy and bigotry for them, the law and doctors, just like doctors who tried to give 18cc of oxygen to kids (18cc or half is enough to block a blood vein or paralize an elephant), and suddenly they were up for donating organs by wery badly mismatched signature by parents somehow
These are kids. How can this be allowed.
Shut up when you don’t know about anything!!!!!!
@@maumiau8765 About what exactly? elaborate
Man thate is the crazy usa for you
While kids are not allowed to do things such as alcohol and smoking..at 7 years she is not even having feelings of having sex or that kind of stuff😢this is so deep.l wish this madness does not come to Africa
@@nom3181 yeah but why are you saying white kids. what do you mean, only white kids cant drink and smoke but black kids or asian kids can or what lol?
at the young age she can't articulate why she wants to be a girl so stop hating on her for putting it into those words.
Lol this is going to be the only comment I agree with. Welcome to the homophobic gang, it’s the new generation of middle schoolers to high schoolers.
She looks old enough to know about gender and hormones
Hi freddie i love you❤
She had a choice and made it dude
@@amandamareya2059
She didnt have a choice. Shes a girl. She was suicidal and the only way to get rid of the depression is transition.
I still say they should wait until their at least 16. Id say 18 but 16 is a good age to have a better idea of who you are.
16 year olds go through phases faster than the seasons change... By 18 it's not as bad, but some still are that way even in their 20's...
@@josh_fisher wait until their 16 than we can establish some kind of stable plan by the time they're 18.
One can hit puberty between 12-16 and around that time they'll know more of what they want. Because they'll be expiring the hormones supposed to have
@@lasvegas1099 ^^^^^
@Al The INTP its always better to plan it out over a course of years
Yeah why dont u dress as the opposite sex for atleast 16 years no matter how much u hate it and then well force it on the kids, such hypocrisy
I wanted to be a vampire when I was young ....
Real Salica...me too dammit
Blah!
Guess we’ll identify as vampires 🤷♀️
I still kinda do :)
Did you become one?
When I was 7, I was sending letters to Cartoon Network to participate in total drama lol
I thought I was Superman and believed in Santa Claus. That said, I also saw myself as a girl and that view never changed. Today i am a trans woman and I WISH I could have socially transitioned as a teenager. I believe i would have been happier in many aspects.
When I was a kid I liked playing with cars and had only one doll. Sometimes I was acting like a tomboy. But it NEVER occurred to me to think whether I'm a boy or a girl! May be I would of if mass media or some ignorant people told me to think about it. But thank God it never happened! If a little girl liked wearing boy's clothes it doesn't mean she's "a boy" and has to start her transitioning. It may CHANGE. She may eventually stop wearing boys clothes and start acting like a girl again. It happens with children. Parents, don't be so devastatingly ignorant and tolerant to what "doctors" and media tells you. This is business!
my best friend wouldnt had been here if he wasnt allowed to be himself, if he wasnt allowed to get a binder his chest dysphoria wouldve been so much worst. being a tomboy is different to being a trans guy.
@@loke4444 so whats the male equivalent for tomboy? Oh wait society didnt come up with a term other than a six letter f word
@@ssnadera6498 YES! I still believe the term applies.
@@loke4444 If you suddenly feel yourself like a giraffe it doesn't mean you are. If you are born as a girl you are a girl. If you were born as a boy you are a boy. Unless you were born as hermaphrodite. Also, if a chicken feels like a peacock and puts a peacock tail in its bottom, it doesn't make her a peacock. These kids fell victims of propaganda and permissiveness. They need a good psychiatrist.
For real, when i was a kid i was really a tomboy xD , sometimes i used to say stuff like "i'm a male".
Well, hopefully no one took that too seriously
At age 11 I thought that when actors died in movies they actually died wich make me kind of sad and these kids at age 11 already know what the meaning of transgender is
Lol i thought clouds werre made by a machine
Jk i wasnt fkn stupid
@@another_useless I thought that you could walk on clouds when I was a kid
@@michaelmurdock7331 lol same but like till i was nine
but heres the thing kids arent so dumb when it comes too how they feel
they m,ight not be able too explain it correcly but a toddler could still tell u that they are heartbroken that the banana does not fit in the peanut butter jar
I thought teachers lived in the school
I was so fcking dumb
They said that a 5yo boy said "I'm a transgender" and another dressed his 3yo son like a girl because "He likes pink"... those parents are sick abusers.
It's your child, let kids be kids boy girl dinosaur barbies who cares as long as they are happy and healthy
Lisa Simpson while I read this I read this in Lisa Simpson’s voice
Mimi Bonish
LOL
We all know that if a kid thought he seriously was a dinosaur, it would not be accepted.
My kids won’t have that choice. They’ll be raised the gender they’re born as.
@hyperbabe2009 consider that on the off-chance that one of your kids IS transgender, if you force them to be something they’re not, they’ll likely suffer from feelings of not being accepted, possibly depression, etc. Have your own opinions but it’s harmful to not let a trans kid transition, have you seen the trans suicide rates? I’m not saying they have to take hormones or have surgery before they’re 18 or anything but you should not oppress their right to be them.
Gender stereotypes at their worst "i am a girl because i like pink and girls clothes and how they wear their hair". Why not let the kid like any colors and clothes and hair? What happened to telling the little boy that he can play with girls and wear pink and it's all fine? Gender is not clothes or colors. It's about sex. Something kids have no idea about until they start puberty.
So why are "gender" and "sex" separated in things such as surveys? Gender Identity, Sexual Orientation. Kids are developed much more than say some of the other generations. They can feel how they wanna feel, no one is influencing anyone. TransGENDER is not about sex. Far from it. TransGENDER is about IDENTITY. If it was about sex then we should be labeling as TransSEXUAL. If kids were referring to themselves as Transsexual or if their parents are calling their children Transsexual, then yes red flags would be raised there. Kids are finding their identities, sexuality is far from another term. That's what they find when puberty hits, sexual orientation.
Why the hell are there SO many commenta about that She “knew” She was a girl because She liked pink!? This is the easiest way for her to say It because It probably is difficult for her to say It otherwise
Eline Baas thank you! All these people who have no idea what they’re talking about are bashing her. Y’all- she’s too young to completely understand dysmorphia for herself or I guess more actually how to phonically express it.
Kj Ari exeaxtly and probably also dysphoria, but idk all about that
Kj Ari dysphoria*
Eline Baas
Oh I don’t know MAYBE BECAUSE IT SAID THAT IN THE VIDEO?
Why is it that the majority of Boys are really "Girls" ?? ? I don't see any REAL Fathers .. Looks like mostly single moms in nice White upscale neighborhoods ..
As long as they grow to be nice, kind and strong human beings, that's all that matters.
Total delusion
Are you INSANE!?!?!
@@EliteDebate Trans people commit suicide because of people like you and many others, sadly. That's the truth.
Bye sweetie
@@EliteDebate Agreed not to mention the toll the Medications have on them.... The testosterone and Estrogen it has on the opposite sex surely effects them mentally. Just imagine being on them as a child. Absolutely falsely attributed to mass bullying.
Her first problem was posting ANYTHING on Facebook
To find a girlfriend on Facebook.
My best friends daughter wanted to be identified as a boy. Everyone was happy to do so and so she began the long road to gender reassignment. From the age 12 - 18 she lived as a boy when she changed her mind!! She was glad that the process had been slow as she managed to save her girly bits. Unfortunately it might be too late for her reproductive system. She has lived as a woman now embracing her curves for the past 2 years. This worries me with children so young. I’m glad these kids have parents who are happy to embrace this but I’d be very careful to make any permanent changes as minds do change. I’ve seen it with my own eyes. I personally think this is a deep depression that needs treatment rather than putting a bandaid so to speak over the wound. I wish them all the best of luck 🙏
If this is perpetual depression turned to joy through gender re-assignment then it’s the better option to aim for your child feeling happy every day. Should they change their mind later, it won’t be with much regret if the early phase was such a strong emotional desire for the first transition, such as the child in this video.
I am a trans man, I am a man just born in a women’s body you know what I mean yeah, planning to have my Brest surgery in like May
@@SnoozerPodcast
Please get some real good therapy before surgery. Honestly so many people feel they’re in the wrong body or hate their body and just doesn’t feel right. This can be some very deep down psychological problems and I beg you to see a therapist first. You may have already done so in which case I wish you lots of luck and hope you are happy once you transition. ❤️
@@estellegrove4853 I did way too much of them and I hated them and all they confirmed is that I was indeed dysphoria and I am now trying more to be my true self as a male not a female
@@estellegrove4853 thanks:) already went through them and all of them confirmed I am dysphoric and I am excited to get my breast removed surgery in May so that I can swim shirtless with the bois.
“I’m the scary transgender person the media warned you about.”
-Rebekah
ok so what's your point PiNe RoSe
【`` S P A C E A L I E N ``】 sorry I’m really awful about telling if that is sarcasm, so I’ll just say that I thought it was funny.
@@Deliriumsendless DKFDWLGBVW YOUR USERNAME IS BEST SHIP-
@@soulxblugamer best ship
I have always liked male clothes and I wear them. I like my hair short. I'm definitely female though and I've never doubted that. Im not sure how I feel about putting your kid on hormone blockers by their choice. It's hard on any persons body to stop their hormones.
I was born female and have continued to be female
Tastes don't define your gender.
- sinaeb
You can be a boy who likes pink and dresses
The consensus view is that gender differences are socially constructed and girls really prefer pink, so boys who like pink are really girls.
Putting your child on puberty blockers should be illegal.
When I was 10 I wanted to be a Transformer
Lol I wanted to be a power rangers lol 😂
So that kid didnt dye her hair herself
Your point? My daughter has blue hair? I dye my hair crazy colors all the time she asked for blue for the summer. What does hair color have anything to do with her gender identity?
@@courtneyheider predisposition to let her try anything. And element of flamboyance for attention like the trans stuff is getting her. Most, 94 %, revert back to original gender.
www.kqed.org/futureofyou/441784/the-controversial-research-on-desistance-in-transgender-youth
Carol the Crazy Camper good thing nothing is permanent until hormones which can’t be started until 15-16
“I was here before you were born, stop tellin me how to dance” dang, that hit hard when I heard that
When you're a kid, you just wanna make your parents proud.
That's whats going on here.
🙌and how else would they know about transgender stuff if their parents haven’t indoctrinated them about it? these kids will grow up and regret ever “transforming”
@@user-ilovemrfahrenheit
Big Facts.
These kids have no choice but to go along with this, and they're convinced it's a good thing because their guardians say so.
Children are easily impressionable.
The adults are making life-altering decisions for these kids before they even realize the weight of the situation.
And by that time, the damage will be done. Very sad.
People need to allow their children to grow up, and make their own decisions.
@@kirbydouglas1191 i feel so bad for these kids.
@@user-ilovemrfahrenheitwhy? They are happy with the life they have now.
@@HarryKlein123 because when they grow up they may regret what they’ve done. kids shouldn’t be allowed to make such a huge decision at such a young age.
Let kids play with whatever toys that want, let girls wear blue and boys wear pink, but let major decisions like changing gender wait until the child is at least 16. It just always feels like these kids are led to making these major decisions by the adults around them.
16 some people don't know what they want until mid 20s.
*25
I struggle when the sibling says when she was five she said “Mama I’m Transgender” and then the other Mom says at 8 the child says “You will call me Lily and use she/her pronouns” An 8 year old doesn’t know what a pronoun is...and a 5 year old can’t even spell transgender let alone define it!
I knew what a pronoun was when I was 7 and I'm dyslexic. And they ain't spelling nothing
Actually I'm 10 and we learned pronouns in 3rd grade sooo
socogirl1980 pronouns are learned in like 3rd grade... kids also know what they are before because they learn how to talk and refer to people. They also didn’t say “I’m transgenders” they said “I’m a girl” or “I’m Lilly”
I don’t think she said that ok.
Did you get a primary school education? Pronouns are a pretty basic part of language.
I mean, when I was 7, I started having dysphoria. Albeit I didn't start transitioning until I was 19. But the feeling was always there, the only thing stopping me was other life events, and just, not really knowing how to voice how I felt. No one is too young, or too old to know their sexuality, or their gender.
I'm 14 and I am a boy but my mom won't let me dress like one and says I'm to young to know what I want.i want to change my name to zack.but I don't think that's gonna happen any time soon.
@lance woolam its not about changing genders. i was just a female born in a males body. i already was female there is no change.
It’s still a decision that shouldn’t be made until adulthood... unless we should let kids drink and serve in the military too. Cuz why not right?
@@aidanmoore9652 those are completely different things
@@aidanmoore9652 no no no unless you've been through it you don't get to say anything.
mom: you can't have tatto, can't drink, can't go out at night, and you can't have sex until 18.
kids: can i have a trans surgery?
mom: yes
i think you didn't watch the video
When I was a kid, I wasn't allowed to pick my own religion
Even in high school
😂it’s different u heard him the mom was torturing him when he was being force to wear girl cloths
This is making me wanna come out to my parents
Make sure you're in a safe place love!
After awhile you might change your mind so I'd wait till you really think your the right person
it takes time to be ready to come out so no rush💕
hey, best of luck. it’s hard but so worth it :))
I came out they think it’s a phase 😅 but just make sure you’re in a safe place when you tell thim!
A transgender child is like a vegan cat. We know who really who’s really making the choices.
Cats can't be vegan.
Being transgender isn't the child's choice; its what the child was born with.
I have no problem with trans kids but it's wayyyy too young to be taking hormones and even surgery. I don't wanna say they will change their mind, but if they do it's normal it's what kids do. It's too young to be making such a big decision.
Kobi kob
If you’re giving your kids hormones before the age of 16 then you should be arrested for child abuse
I completely agree. People are encouraging this at way too young of age. I don't care what people think, children don't know what they want when they are young. I am sorry. I used to want to be a cop when I grew up, but i never did that. Children have all kinds of fantasies when they are super young, that is just the wonder of a child's mind. But when you grow older, you start to see the world a bit different and you mature into the person you really are.
I dont disagree with that as a parent I think letting them Express themselves is great as they get older and are more in charge of their life they can make these changes.
@MoonaticDestiny you're knowledge of "pills" and "drugs" is very poor. You should educate yourself on the subject, before making yourself look foolish.
Yes but do you not understand the extremely harmful mental issues that can come with trans people going through the wrong puberty
as a transitioned person, i hate that people glorify trans children as being amazing, its not, ive encountered to many trans kids who regretted it, ive still to met a trans kid who still wants a different gender
Judging from the comments, these kids are going to face an uphill battle in life.
I know it's sad
I hate the LGBTQ yo lol
@@saleh6907 funny😐
@Magdalen Elam NOT EVERYONE IS CHRISTIAN STOP USING RELIGION TO BE A SHITTY PERSON
@Magdalen Elam hope u gain common sense cuz you are the reason some people don’t want come out smh
A child can't drink, smoke, drive ,buy a gun but they can decide they are a different gender...WoW..
This might shock you, but words and clothes are not the same thing as a gun. You give a kid a gun, someone might get hurt. You let a kid be called a different name and pronouns, literally nobody is hurt by that.
Why does this perpetuate gender stereotypes??
They try to fit the gender stereotypes to be more cis passing.
@@shinu1923 aren't we trying to move on from that?
@@camillehendricks9819 not necessarily. Trying to move past the bad stereotypes, but gender stereotypes in general are actually a good thing. It's late and I'm too tired to try and find the link, but I read an article as to how gender roles can actually help benefit society.
This feels like madness. My oldest daughter (age 17) is experimenting with they/them pronouns and a gender neutral new name and it's been a challenge. This is a trauma response to some awful events that have been endured. We are supportive and trying to understand. Taking medication as a child or encouraging a very young child to go fully into the other gender just seems like setting them up for all kinds of confusion and problems down the line. At that age, I would be more about distraction and getting them to be happy with themselves as they were born. Younger children can be pointed at other interests that have nothing to do with gender and I would basically put a pin in it until they are far older.
I'm so so soooo agree with you.
Dear kid.... Pink is not always girl... 🙂
Wth would a 6 yr old know about a pronoun?
I didn't know the difference between a pronoun and a regular noun til I was eight
That does mean they aren't important idk man
Gayvenclaw Commonroom i didn’t until i was like 10 lmao
Probably more than you, honestly
Ummm I knew when I was 6
If you didn’t tell me they were trans, I wouldn’t ever know
Me neither
If the parents never forced it upon them he would have just been happy as a boy
Its because theyre kids
Liking pink, girls clothes and how girls wear their hair does not mean that the little boy is a girl. And it is obvious that the kid has been coached in what to say as he uses adult expressions and trans led sound bites. Poor kid. I hope they didn't him on puberty blockers.
Aren't they too young to change gender? I mean.. They can still like girly things while staying males.
I'm not hating, i just think that those medications might mess up their health
it's easyest to change is before puberty
@@hnibuns Guess what idiot? Once you take those hormones for a while, it will be completely irreversible. Kid, you don't know what you're talking about, get off the internet, you're not old enough anyways
Black Diva I’m trans ftm I just realized I’m trans and I’m 11 turning 12 in two weeks, but I saw from when I was younger that I dressed like a boy sometimes when I was little
@@aa-lj7sn they go on blockers until they're old enough to decide and they have been diagnosed before they do, boomer, get off the internet you don't know what you're talking about.
They’ve been diagnosed with dysphoria I think
I mean, okay, they’re transgender, but it shouldn’t make up there whole lives. It should just be apart of them.
Soooo you can’t drink alcohol till 21 but you can make such a crazy, permanent decision at 6????? 🥴
In what way is it permanent?
Yeti the hormones they will be given and the fact that they can get their genitalia mutilated by 15 is not cool at all. All kids go through different phases in their lives and just because you like pink does not mean you’re a girl or vice versa. I was a tomboy till 18. My little brother was a little feminine... we never thought he was a female born in the “wrong” body or never thought I was a male born in the “wrong” body. They need to give these kids more time and to mature more before letting them make such a huge decision so early on. Like I said kids have a lot of phases don’t let one of them be a permanent mistake.
@@muneca3819 A transgender person has to jump through many hoops to get puberty blockers, countless hoops to obtain HRT and countless more to even have the POSSIBILITY of surgeries. These children are socially transitioned, which is reversible. Yes, some men are more feminine as kids and some girls are tomboys, but these people are weeded out in the earlier stages of gender therapy.
Puberty blockers - reversible
HRT - semi reversible
Surgeries - semi reversible
Do some research and then come back to me.
It's not crazy. Surgery and medicine is NOT required to be trans. Some trans people don't have surgery or medicine.
Interesting no dads are involved.
People are so rude they just can’t accept trans even tho there just people but not comfortable in there own body’s and some people aren’t ok with that
I don't know why some people have to be so rude to others. They mock what they don't understand. They need to "walk a mile in that persons shoes, feel what they feel, go through what their going through", then maybe, they may understand & accept why that person decided to be trans. And even if they don't accept it, it's really none of their business. People need to stop being so mean & rude to other people.
The truth hurts, don't it?
I don’t want to live because i want to be transgender and I don’t feel comfortable in my own body everyone makes fun of me because I am different to other people I want to die I feel I need female hormones 😓🏳️🌈 not everyone is the same!
Isaac mastering ASMR! I’m not diagnosed with depression it I feel it and I want to die to but think of all the people u would hurt when u leave I thought about it and I don’t want them to feel pain so I will and if you weren’t different what would make u special from other people u would be the same and you being trans 🏳️🌈 makes you special
Isaac mastering ASMR! And if u want female hormones go ahead but if u don’t want it but u have to bc of other people there opinion doesn’t matter it’s your body do what u want :)
the mother literally said “we nurtured” it 🤦🏽♂️sickening!
I have seen a lot of comments about how kids don’t know about themselves but if you ask most trans people they would say that they knew that they weren’t the gender they were born with when they were very little and yes they may realize they aren’t trans and that’s why I think that it’s cool that the parents aren’t taking permanent actions.
Yes but for the majority they would not cut their members off or stapler anything on, the risk is not worth it since dysphoria is super common among hormone filled fast growing children with hurting joints and bones
Dont confuse personality with sexuality! Gosh! You could always do girly or boyish things being the opposite gender without being one. These parents are dangerous.
Halah omong kosong
My favourite toy when I was a kid was a baby doll, thank god I wasn’t born in this era where it would have been a sign I was transgender
Yeah I played with cars and trucks. I'm a normal teenage girl.... I think hahaha
Kendall Funk don’t worry thinking you’re not normal sometimes is very normal
that's not how being trans works but ok lmao
trans people have always existed
That fake girl made my juice spill so i don't like him
White_Blacket 1 hahahahaha never said I don’t like them, just grateful my parents didn’t treat me like one
I’m not against trans and stuff but I would have waited till he was older because he Was so young and he might not fully know in the future what he’d want. It’s such a big decision for a kid
She not he please
You can disagree but just give her the respect any human deserves
Thank you
Marion H ok my bad I wasn’t trying to not respect “her” but she was a he at a time
And no longer is
And maybe might have never been in her mind
Marion H lol why are you fighting over this. I’m not fighting with you I understand your point but I do agree with my opinion, don’t make yourself sound dumb by fighting with someone who isn’t with you
It’s cool I understand
do yall not know a lot of trans people, before transition, are very drawn to “opposite” gendered stuff?
Exactly like Obviously she is transgender, but she is also little. She may understand she is a girl and not a boy, and that is fine, but she also only knows girls as wearing pink and playing with dolls and wearing dresses. Thats why she fits that gender stereotype. We shouldn't strip children from what they identify as.
I identify as an attack helicopter, the AH-64
Hahahaha yeah I sucked at sports (didn't even like them) but since all my male friends played soccer and stuff I just did it too. Kids just want to be grouped in with the people they identify with.
@@campbellaviation7357 Every transphobic joke ever:
@@campbellaviation7357 you identify as unfunny. Your pronouns are didn't/laugh
That first case is insane. Just because the kid said he likes pink and other "girls stuff" his mother, instead of saying, "It's ok, boys can like the color pink and theres nothing wrong with It" she assumed he was a girl because of this. The funny thing is that the trans community supports this
Gender specialists. Neat.
The kids are too young to make very adult decisions like this.
Its not a choive it's who they are, its not like it's your child so shut it!
Read about it if you have an opinion on it. Dont just be an idiot who says i dont think this is right cuz God.
@@indiesb0nes they don't know what they are, they know what they like and they associated pink with femenine so they assumed that makes them a girl. They don't know their sexuality,they don't understand the damage the blockers will do to their body and brain
@@indiesb0nes thank you ! as a trans person that made me smile and proud you're educated
ThePassiveMilk No on even mentioned God
This is disgusting. The adults who enable this stuff should be in prison for grooming. I never thought about “gender” when I was a kid. I liked to play with dolls and sometimes wore dresses. But I also liked toy cars, action figures and video games. I never thought I was a girl because of the former. Thanks for reinforcing gender stereotypes
Spot On! 👍, These kids have terrible parents, Their boys not girls. I blame the parents for not being firm with them about it.
"this is disgusting" you say, to children who decided their gender themselves and had supportive parents
My daughter would crawl over dolls to play with my son’s trucks. At four she would also want to wear boys briefs “why” her cousin asked her? “Because they’re comfortable” she responded. She hated the color pink! So, we let her like what she liked and she’s still a happy healthy GIRL today! In her early 20’s
Okay? No one said girls can’t like those things.
This kids got a bigger closet then me
Instead of dealing with her child's depression and anxiety problems she assumed it gender-related.
How is this child abuse? The children are not being abused in any way. They're being allowed to live life they way they want, and they're absolutely not forced to do anything they don't want to do. Seems like the opposite of abuse to me.
Puberty blockers etc? That's OK is it.
awful! to reduce being a woman to playing with certain toys & dressing up is bloody insulting! who ARE these parents?? child abuse really
Mom gives me controlling vibes..
She permanently made changes to her life because she liked pink, girl hair and girly stuff, controlling is a bit of an understatement.
She gives me narcissistic and totally insane vibes XD
Shes a loon you can see it in her eyes
fivelearner1089 nothing they had done is permanent
This is so awful on sooooo many levels..
Liking pink, girls' clothes, and long hair doesn't make one a girl.
Agreed. The thing that makes you a girl or boy is your genitals
the comment section is supportive, not supportive and confused at the same time
WE NEED MORE POSITIVITY!
Oml Lily's eyes are BEAUTIFUL! I love the ocean blue, you GO GIRL!!
what about her teeth the distance is larger than your mom
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im a trans guy and honestly letting your kid decide their gender that young is too far
zachary chase good luck to you then
mitsubcs why? You of all people should also know it not a choice. Especially with they first girl it was that or let her jump out a window
I wanted to be a boy since I could speak… and my mom said it was a perverse spirit and the devil had hold of me. When I didn’t wear dresses to church, it was disobedient and sinful, a dishonored my parents. Basically my mom told me I was going to hell every day just for being me. That’s emotional abuse. Can you imagine the guilt I felt my whole life? Like a pit in your stomach? I didn’t know what transgender was until my 20s and then a few years later I began medically transitioning. Wish I could have had the help I needed when I was a kid 💜
That's a amazing story. I agree that you should have done years before. I bet you would of looked super gorgeous adorable
Thank god my mom didn't assume I was trans just because I wore boy's clothes. You can clearly see the kid doesn't even know what being trans is, just hear her definition "I am trans because I like pink and girl's clothes". This is not the definition of gender, it's a preference. Mom went on and made her believe she was trans at like what, 8 years old? There's NO WAY you know your gender identity so young. Mom should just have let her be a kid and decide whether she is trans or not at an appropriate age.
Society picks as if your a boy you should like:
Boy clothes
Football
Gaming
Blue
Trucks/trains/motorbikes/cars
If your a girl that you should like by Society:
Pink
Dresses/ skirts/tights
Makeup
Hairclips etx
I was born in 1996, I knew my identity was female since I was 3, literally since I can remember and that was persistent and insistent. So no, you're quite wrong, we are capable of knowing our identity since we learn to use the language and learn the world around.
Now can I hear your argument for why you are so convinced that there is "NO WAY" for someone to know their identity so young?
This is wrong man :/
At 26:42 "The best part of having a twin sister is Having FUN!!!" :-)
Lily sounds like she just doesn't identify with being a boy or girl. But I like how the mother is letting lily go at her own pace and she's not jumping into hormone blockers etc.
Alison P ikr
She seemed like she was raising her kid the best out of the bunch.
These parents are heavily pushing this on their children. Even if they are actually trans, they shouldn’t be allowed to physically transition until they’re 18 or even 17 with parental consent. These kids don’t have the mental capacity to really understand what’s happening.