12:38 this is so true though. people always hate to admit it when its very clear that misogynistic views flood the comment section. thanks for calling it out because unnecessary victim blaming and misogynistic views makes it very hard for female SA survivors
after reading the comment section,I just want to dig my eyes out...because people really be blaming the girl@the beach for being "overreact"? yea yea sure but if she don't defend herself right at the moment,you guys will still say stuff like "why don't you just confront him atm? if you're scared then it's your fault for letting the creep go?" victim blame at its highest?????
That’s so true. The girl at the gym got criticised for not confronting the guy but the girl at the beach got criticised for confronting the guy. It’s like people are looking for an excuse to criticise them.
Recently, I was confronted by a girl in a gym where she accused me recording her working out. I startled and denied the allegation. Obviously she didn't believe me and walkaway in disgust. Little did she knows I'm 💅🏻. I respect her for confronting me but I do feel uncomfortable to be perceived that way.
What is it with the current comments on this video. I’m honestly so disgusted by some things people say and how everyone thinks it’s so easy to make comments like this online and not get any repercussions from it. I don’t even want to bring in the argument of “what if it was your mother or sister getting said things like this.” Normal humans should have the basic decency and knowledge to know that it’s NOT right to make comments like this to ANYONE.
I’m new to this channel and I loved the ‘She was too stunned to speak’ video. We have similar programs here where the ‘Dramatic Representation’ is the understatement of the century. Here’s to seeing more funny videos.
The girl who filmed the guy in the gym is such a touchy and sensitive issue because everyone would handle it differently, whether being confrontational or filming someone for evidence. I think from her perspective, it is understandable that she did it in "self-defence" and also to justify what she has done. However, I think that uploading it to the internet for everyone to see WITHOUT finding out the actual reason or even trying to solve ANY misunderstandings. Lmao, the posting of the video was mainly fuelled by an almost malicious approach with the intention to bring the person down. At this time and age, the current generation should be aware of the detrimental effects of defaming someone through the internet, it's either people are with you or it could back fire horribly like her case. I think that if her approach was filming someone as evidence based on her own assumptions that she's being harassed, she should have escalated it to the people who would actually do something rather than the online platform for us to judge (We all know how THAT would turn out). Anyways, stay safe and please make smart decisions especially with posting videos online :l A camera phone is legit such a deadly weapon.
no shade to yeolo because he obviously has the right mindset about this, but this comment section is very weird, clearly people took the wrong things away from these videos
@@aspenn4275 The guy also felt uncomfortable the female was staring and filming him as shown in video which she misunderstood that the guy was staring at her.
Would be good to have the someone from legal discuss this from both sides as most would agree that it is morally wrong to take unsolicited photos with the assumed wrong intentions.
I don’t know what laws you guys are reading, but it is NOT illegal to take photos of people in public spaces in Singapore. The only exceptions would be if it’s a place where privacy would be expected (example: public bathrooms); if the photos taken are outraging someone’s modesty (example: upskirt photos); and if the person posts your photos online and makes defamatory/harassing remarks about you. I, too, am very disappointed with the lack of protection that this gives to people. Both from being harassed, and from having false allegations be placed upon you. :(
I too am interested in the legality of the issue. Was it legal for the girl to have taken his phone away from him for the purpose of deleting the said photos?
@@gasparian02 That karen is just a clout chaser. She still want to continue the drama after the apology. Didn't get the police involved. Obviously just want clout.
Idk bro staring is fine i guess as long he or she doesn't make any suggestive pose or taunting etc. Also woman do this all the time to attractive men yet ppl call it as flattery rather than creepy.
She's brave, her sister should be proud her mother gave birth to another child HAHHAHA strong aura some more. He's lucky the girl didn't screaam "you touch me one more time i call police" lol. Lesson learn..... dei.... got gf and you still do that lol. You lucky covid cover face otherwise, mampos..... NUS eh? What the sus hahahahha sigh. Famous for the wrong thing omg.
Sometimes, its better to know the full story then just full blown judging after hearing one pov of the story... And ladies, the Women's Charter laws are very strong in Singapore.. If he really is staring u at the gym, either confront him after taking the video or take video and then report to the gym staff there. DON'T POST IT ONLINE WITHOUT PROPERLY VERIFYING!!!!! For u could be an honest mistake, but for him, especially with SG laws, it could cause him major humiliation and even might make him lose his job.. You could take down the video, but he isn't gonna get his old job back.
sadly, there are still women being harassed in singapore 2022. be in it public or private space. why cant men just leave them alone? what gives them the right to behave that way?
Ok, the biggest problem here is that people don't understand nuance. There is a huge difference between checking out someone you find attractive and being a creepy stalker. Also ladies, men cannot approach with with blinders on, they have to look and see is it worth it to come up to you and risk rejection and maybe humiliation for the opportunity to Date you. Ladies can you look at a random man and tell me anything about him other than his looks? No, you can only see if you find him attractive or not, then decide if you want to get his attention, but if he isn't allowed to look at you and try make eye contact then how? Side note, we do not live in a world of privacy, those days are over. All your online information, videos, whereabouts, everything now everyone has.
Lady at the gym needs to stop having egotistical thoughts lmao I'd take Mr Bean any time of the day You're at the gym, most fitness buffs dont give a fuck about looking at girls and just want those gains Just focus on your workout
I dont see any apology from this fitness influencer. Just tryna justify her actions. She posted publicly, what stops her from apologising publicly. These egoistic... nah
why are you staring at a girl in the gym. you should be working out not ogling other people. it makes the other person uncomfortable. why would you make another person uncomfortable just so you feel good? why?
She had no reason to be concerned, she was in a public space, unlikely that the guy was going to do anything to her. Even if he was looking at her, its not a crime. "Decided to film him for evidence in case anything happened" Nothing happened LOL, but she posted it online, for what? And no apology, just defending herself, she should be cancelled.
why do guys think staring at girls is not a crime ? why would you make the other person feel uncomfortable just so you feel good? maybe they should make ogling a crime in singapore.
The first story I’m gonna give an L to the woman. Well keyword being so called”influencer” hence attention seeker. Also why is she feeling herself so much? So syok sendiri thinking everything is about her. People stare in gym and eyes are everywhere. She could have reported to the staff and handled accordingly if she knew it was a threat. Defamation is not a light matter. It could have destroyed his life and his career. Imagine the mum of that guy go everywhere and her friend says “ eh your son is that guy got caught one ah? “ imagine losing face on family gathering🥲. People stare and it’s a public place so I’m supposed go gym blindfolded or something? If she is so worried she can go gym that are for woman. Yes it’s common now or just go different sessions. In my uni days we separate the girl and guy gym sessions.
but what if the guy really stared at her? he was saved by the TV. imagine if there wasnt any TV, you would think he is a creep no? that's why I proposed separate gender mrt carriage. by the amount of women choosing that carriage shows how uncomfortable they are in mixed carriage mrt.
It isn’t illegal to take pics of someone else without consent in a public setting. It is wrong however to snatch someone else’s phone and invading their privacy, deleting pics they did not want deleted. This woman is overly entitled and took matters into her own hands.
@@bchpls24You are absolutely right ! Maybe this commenter is jealous of her body and comment this out of spite ! This comment of this person is so telling
Agreed. She confirm film guys before lol. Ain't no one gonna care if it's a guy who got filmed. Some more this ugly blob thinks she's worthy of filming.
@@Keeferino I mean the guy apologised and she DID NOT lodge a police report despite being "uncomfortable". Taking photo without consent and causing someone being uncomfortable because of it is illegal.
Keyword is influencer what u expect. The seeker for attention to be relevant. Don’t create drama means no views/ reaction hence no money. They thrive on the sensation of others expense
The girl wasn't even apologizing at the end, hypocrite literally til the end. In the second video girl clearly doesn't know about the invasion of privacy. Had the guy really not done anything, she will have had a long chat with the police on her actions.
doesnt know about the invasion of privacy? errrr, he taking picture of her is the exact definition of invasion of privacy... I'm sure she had watched him long enough to confront him.
The only illegal thing that happened was girl at the beach stealing the guy's phone and threatening physical violence when asked to return the stolen property. It would have been better to approach the security personnel stationed at the beach. Civility requires cooperation from both parties. Indeed, it was quite difficult to watch.
@@estherlim4596 what needed to happen was to keep a cool mind and make a rightful, lawful decision. What did happen was illegal and philistinic. Two wrongs don't make a right.
I think you wont be thinking abt the law & the rightful thing to do if your body parts are being secretly filmed with the intention to circulate to their friends.
@@krishnavenikrishnan3457 There are many assumptions made 1. Body parts specifically being filmed 2. Intention to circulate said pictures of those body parts 3. Circulating to friends All of these must first be proven. If not, again, it is simply jumping to conclusions. Also, your thinking about my thinking is entirely inaccurate. I do my best to think things through carefully, especially in a time when my emotions are deeply aggravated. This is to prevent harm from happening to myself and my loved ones. It is the sensible thing to do.
@@rubanvicknendra509 women defending themselves = criminal. women not defending themselves = weak. by the time look for authorities the guy would have deleted all the evidence. she should get applauded for actually having the balls to confront the guy. why is it to difficult to understand that we have the right to stand up for ourselves?
Ladies! If the guy is 10 years older + then it could be creepy depending on how many decades. But if he is a kid or around your age what’s the big deal! This is how people used to meet and future marriages were made. Boys passing by and staring is what kids do! Taking pictures on the other hand unbeknownst to the targets is 100% 🚫❌🚫
Idk abt you. But maam, taking pictures of women’s body parts with the intention of sharing it with their friends, is not how marriages were made. Whether it is a guy 10 years older or guys around our ages, the right way to go about this is to initiate conversations. Not to creepily take pictures of body parts.
sentosa guy didn't pass the vibe check
Yes.. I think as guys maybe we should allow to use “weird vibe” to describe girls too? Equality.
Not true. He sneaked photos, outraged her modesty, casually explaining it was a joke. The audacity. She should make a police report.
The guy rabak sia, If it was me, straight away to police station
12:38 this is so true though. people always hate to admit it when its very clear that misogynistic views flood the comment section. thanks for calling it out because unnecessary victim blaming and misogynistic views makes it very hard for female SA survivors
Love how you addressed the issue of taking photos of people in public without their consent. Couldn't have said it better myself.
@@itzSoonz yea
after reading the comment section,I just want to dig my eyes out...because people really be blaming the girl@the beach for being "overreact"? yea yea sure but if she don't defend herself right at the moment,you guys will still say stuff like "why don't you just confront him atm? if you're scared then it's your fault for letting the creep go?" victim blame at its highest?????
That’s so true. The girl at the gym got criticised for not confronting the guy but the girl at the beach got criticised for confronting the guy. It’s like people are looking for an excuse to criticise them.
7:45 it’s super creepy how he place his hand on girl shoulder.
Recently, I was confronted by a girl in a gym where she accused me recording her working out.
I startled and denied the allegation. Obviously she didn't believe me and walkaway in disgust. Little did she knows I'm 💅🏻.
I respect her for confronting me but I do feel uncomfortable to be perceived that way.
Some girls are just full of themselves.
I’m 💅 too and I’m so annoyed a lot of Singaporeans forget Queer people exists 😂
What is it with the current comments on this video. I’m honestly so disgusted by some things people say and how everyone thinks it’s so easy to make comments like this online and not get any repercussions from it. I don’t even want to bring in the argument of “what if it was your mother or sister getting said things like this.” Normal humans should have the basic decency and knowledge to know that it’s NOT right to make comments like this to ANYONE.
I’m new to this channel and I loved the ‘She was too stunned to speak’ video. We have similar programs here where the ‘Dramatic Representation’ is the understatement of the century.
Here’s to seeing more funny videos.
The girl who filmed the guy in the gym is such a touchy and sensitive issue because everyone would handle it differently, whether being confrontational or filming someone for evidence. I think from her perspective, it is understandable that she did it in "self-defence" and also to justify what she has done. However, I think that uploading it to the internet for everyone to see WITHOUT finding out the actual reason or even trying to solve ANY misunderstandings. Lmao, the posting of the video was mainly fuelled by an almost malicious approach with the intention to bring the person down.
At this time and age, the current generation should be aware of the detrimental effects of defaming someone through the internet, it's either people are with you or it could back fire horribly like her case. I think that if her approach was filming someone as evidence based on her own assumptions that she's being harassed, she should have escalated it to the people who would actually do something rather than the online platform for us to judge (We all know how THAT would turn out).
Anyways, stay safe and please make smart decisions especially with posting videos online :l A camera phone is legit such a deadly weapon.
no shade to yeolo because he obviously has the right mindset about this, but this comment section is very weird, clearly people took the wrong things away from these videos
Misogynism is disgusting.
its really sad how a lot of ppl are being misogynistic because of these situations :( makes me wish i wasnt born as a woman sometimes
"Women hold up half the sky." Men and Women should be given equal rights and respect.
Another female, making it about them rather than the man falsely accused. Good job
@@thamyaojie8212 another Singaporean demonstrating their two digit iq
@@thamyaojie8212 the female had the right to feel uncomfortable considering the situation she was in
@@aspenn4275 The guy also felt uncomfortable the female was staring and filming him as shown in video which she misunderstood that the guy was staring at her.
Im convinced yeolo is just 1/4 a guy because all i see is his head, neck and shoulders
I'm too stunned to speak🤣
@@isjustanamemelody8026The woman was too stunned to speak.
i thought this was going to be about fyan but this is better
"hey that's me 😀"
🤣
i hope people don't take this kind of misunderstanding as an excuse to not believe s/a victim first.
Bro still had the audacity to give excuses
Would be good to have the someone from legal discuss this from both sides as most would agree that it is morally wrong to take unsolicited photos with the assumed wrong intentions.
That is why I stay at home and don't go out.
But then you might offend your mom
so early... Arrrghhh so many creepy guys in sg
I don’t know what laws you guys are reading, but it is NOT illegal to take photos of people in public spaces in Singapore. The only exceptions would be if it’s a place where privacy would be expected (example: public bathrooms); if the photos taken are outraging someone’s modesty (example: upskirt photos); and if the person posts your photos online and makes defamatory/harassing remarks about you.
I, too, am very disappointed with the lack of protection that this gives to people. Both from being harassed, and from having false allegations be placed upon you. :(
I too am interested in the legality of the issue. Was it legal for the girl to have taken his phone away from him for the purpose of deleting the said photos?
i like your ending message
Thank you for your thoughtful comments, yeolo
Kuku bird💀💀💀💀💀💀
Lol, with gf still take other people photo🙈
If she never look at him for the amount of time she film him, ?? How she know that man looking at her
Looks like Siloso beach?
Am in the sea there weekly. I'd assume that there are a lot day trippers who film and photo member of the public.
8:21 I would have done it and called the police
One of the many reasons why I wear the hijab now. But I still get creeps taking my pictures. 😰
Honestly, you can be in a huge potato sack, and they will still stare 🥲
Yea , we always use our imaginations if you know what i mean
Me @ men: stop. Just. Stop
it is illegal to take pictures of people in public
You can sue or make a police report if the photo taker intended to distress you. It's called HARASSMENT.
@@gasparian02 That karen is just a clout chaser. She still want to continue the drama after the apology. Didn't get the police involved. Obviously just want clout.
That's why you should use the zoom function. It's there for a reason
Idk bro staring is fine i guess as long he or she doesn't make any suggestive pose or taunting etc. Also woman do this all the time to attractive men yet ppl call it as flattery rather than creepy.
staring is fine???? how desperate are you to stare? dont guys have nothing better to do than ogle at girls?
The beginning sounds like harassment
Is this the reason why so many guys nowadays choose to find thai girls?
What how
The beach scene, why not call police on that dude for harrassment and molest?
She's brave, her sister should be proud her mother gave birth to another child HAHHAHA strong aura some more. He's lucky the girl didn't screaam "you touch me one more time i call police" lol. Lesson learn..... dei.... got gf and you still do that lol. You lucky covid cover face otherwise, mampos..... NUS eh? What the sus hahahahha sigh. Famous for the wrong thing omg.
Sometimes, its better to know the full story then just full blown judging after hearing one pov of the story... And ladies, the Women's Charter laws are very strong in Singapore.. If he really is staring u at the gym, either confront him after taking the video or take video and then report to the gym staff there. DON'T POST IT ONLINE WITHOUT PROPERLY VERIFYING!!!!! For u could be an honest mistake, but for him, especially with SG laws, it could cause him major humiliation and even might make him lose his job.. You could take down the video, but he isn't gonna get his old job back.
This is why birth rates are low in sg
damn never been this early
7:46 " Don't u fucking have a girlfriend". I was lowkey hurt by this
Why are millennial so Conservative nowadays ?
they can sleep with one eye open :D
How about those who used GoPro in the public?
Changi runway
sadly, there are still women being harassed in singapore 2022. be in it public or private space. why cant men just leave them alone? what gives them the right to behave that way?
How about woman taking picture of guys??? then the woman is entitled to do that?
Ahaha sike😅
huh
Ok, the biggest problem here is that people don't understand nuance. There is a huge difference between checking out someone you find attractive and being a creepy stalker. Also ladies, men cannot approach with with blinders on, they have to look and see is it worth it to come up to you and risk rejection and maybe humiliation for the opportunity to Date you. Ladies can you look at a random man and tell me anything about him other than his looks? No, you can only see if you find him attractive or not, then decide if you want to get his attention, but if he isn't allowed to look at you and try make eye contact then how? Side note, we do not live in a world of privacy, those days are over. All your online information, videos, whereabouts, everything now everyone has.
Wa twist point until like that then talk about no privacy. Dk what you talking about then just diam la
Lady at the gym needs to stop having egotistical thoughts lmao
I'd take Mr Bean any time of the day
You're at the gym, most fitness buffs dont give a fuck about looking at girls and just want those gains
Just focus on your workout
Oh, the second guy is from NUS...?
Im sorry, you wot, again?
most guys at gym are staring at other guys actually. 😂
@@bchpls24
That's quite accurate tbh lmao
Gains over anything when you're in the gym
Bruh
I dont see any apology from this fitness influencer. Just tryna justify her actions. She posted publicly, what stops her from apologising publicly. These egoistic... nah
I’m an American, how is staring at a girl in the gym a crime?
Welcome to singapore
why are you staring at a girl in the gym. you should be working out not ogling other people. it makes the other person uncomfortable. why would you make another person uncomfortable just so you feel good? why?
Why can't ppl just clarify face to face instead have to secretly video here and there.
the second one did FTF clarification no? and she was called aggressive? did you watch the whole video?
They look just like ordinary girls lol
so ordinary girls cannot be harassed? must be super hot then you believe they've been harassed? why is that ?
@@bchpls24 that's not what I said. Fair point though, coming from a guy's perspective it's all the more not worth it.
She had no reason to be concerned, she was in a public space, unlikely that the guy was going to do anything to her. Even if he was looking at her, its not a crime. "Decided to film him for evidence in case anything happened" Nothing happened LOL, but she posted it online, for what? And no apology, just defending herself, she should be cancelled.
why do guys think staring at girls is not a crime ? why would you make the other person feel uncomfortable just so you feel good?
maybe they should make ogling a crime in singapore.
@@bchpls24 your comment makes me uncomfortable, does that mean you just committed a crime?
@@bchpls24 because it isn’t. Find me the legislation that says it is.
Early gang
The first story I’m gonna give an L to the woman. Well keyword being so called”influencer” hence attention seeker. Also why is she feeling herself so much? So syok sendiri thinking everything is about her. People stare in gym and eyes are everywhere. She could have reported to the staff and handled accordingly if she knew it was a threat. Defamation is not a light matter. It could have destroyed his life and his career. Imagine the mum of that guy go everywhere and her friend says “ eh your son is that guy got caught one ah? “ imagine losing face on family gathering🥲.
People stare and it’s a public place so I’m supposed go gym blindfolded or something? If she is so worried she can go gym that are for woman. Yes it’s common now or just go different sessions. In my uni days we separate the girl and guy gym sessions.
but what if the guy really stared at her? he was saved by the TV. imagine if there wasnt any TV, you would think he is a creep no?
that's why I proposed separate gender mrt carriage. by the amount of women choosing that carriage shows how uncomfortable they are in mixed carriage mrt.
@@bchpls24 People like you who love to trash on men when the woman was in the wrong is exactly why humanity will go extinct.
w*men moments lol
It's legal to take pictures of people without their consent in public places
However, snatching someone's phone is illegal 😡😡😡
ahhhh victim blaming. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
It isn’t illegal to take pics of someone else without consent in a public setting. It is wrong however to snatch someone else’s phone and invading their privacy, deleting pics they did not want deleted. This woman is overly entitled and took matters into her own hands.
or would you rather the guy have her photos on his phone for god knows reason why?
why must he take her picture? it's his phone, but of HER body.
@@bchpls24You are absolutely right ! Maybe this commenter is jealous of her body and comment this out of spite ! This comment of this person is so telling
Worse ! Those pics were of her sister, and as we have no mention how old she might be imagine if she was underage ? So messed up 😡
@laurence82 sure…
Another karen. Still want create more drama after he apologised to her. Obviously a clout chaser.
Agreed. She confirm film guys before lol. Ain't no one gonna care if it's a guy who got filmed. Some more this ugly blob thinks she's worthy of filming.
well thats another way to see it
@@Keeferino I mean the guy apologised and she DID NOT lodge a police report despite being "uncomfortable". Taking photo without consent and causing someone being uncomfortable because of it is illegal.
Keyword is influencer what u expect. The seeker for attention to be relevant. Don’t create drama means no views/ reaction hence no money. They thrive on the sensation of others expense
its good. so other creepos will think twice.
The girl wasn't even apologizing at the end, hypocrite literally til the end.
In the second video girl clearly doesn't know about the invasion of privacy. Had the guy really not done anything, she will have had a long chat with the police on her actions.
Yeah. Lucky for her, the guy actually did take pics of her
doesnt know about the invasion of privacy? errrr, he taking picture of her is the exact definition of invasion of privacy... I'm sure she had watched him long enough to confront him.
The only illegal thing that happened was girl at the beach stealing the guy's phone and threatening physical violence when asked to return the stolen property. It would have been better to approach the security personnel stationed at the beach.
Civility requires cooperation from both parties. Indeed, it was quite difficult to watch.
She did what needed to be done. She didn't do anything wrong at all lol
@@estherlim4596 what needed to happen was to keep a cool mind and make a rightful, lawful decision.
What did happen was illegal and philistinic. Two wrongs don't make a right.
I think you wont be thinking abt the law & the rightful thing to do if your body parts are being secretly filmed with the intention to circulate to their friends.
@@krishnavenikrishnan3457 There are many assumptions made 1. Body parts specifically being filmed 2. Intention to circulate said pictures of those body parts 3. Circulating to friends
All of these must first be proven. If not, again, it is simply jumping to conclusions.
Also, your thinking about my thinking is entirely inaccurate. I do my best to think things through carefully, especially in a time when my emotions are deeply aggravated. This is to prevent harm from happening to myself and my loved ones. It is the sensible thing to do.
@@rubanvicknendra509 women defending themselves = criminal. women not defending themselves = weak.
by the time look for authorities the guy would have deleted all the evidence. she should get applauded for actually having the balls to confront the guy.
why is it to difficult to understand that we have the right to stand up for ourselves?
So I cannot take pictures of other people in public?
Er yes ???? What are you on
Can , don't let them know .
Why are you even taking pictures of people you don't know in public? Want take picture just ask, not rocket science...
@@tyunve street photography
@@Justfeb01 Oh, i was just thinking
like some pictures like street
photography look better when they don't know as they act more
naturally
Omg.. Yall look good surely attract creeps and good looking guys. Its normal, eyes are free to roam.. Omg..
Yea but just do a quick glance at them don't be a creep and keep on staring till the point it makes them uncomfortable
EYES ARE FREE TO ROAM??? must be coming from a guy... pure mcp view. good for you
Ladies! If the guy is 10 years older + then it could be creepy depending on how many decades. But if he is a kid or around your age what’s the big deal! This is how people used to meet and future marriages were made. Boys passing by and staring is what kids do! Taking pictures on the other hand unbeknownst to the targets is 100% 🚫❌🚫
Idk abt you. But maam, taking pictures of women’s body parts with the intention of sharing it with their friends, is not how marriages were made. Whether it is a guy 10 years older or guys around our ages, the right way to go about this is to initiate conversations. Not to creepily take pictures of body parts.
@@krishnavenikrishnan3457 that part you are 100% right. It’s wrong on so many levels. I need to edit my comment
@@Looloowa74 thank you for understanding where i was coming frm!
I'm a guy, still I wouldn't want random people just blatantly staring at me. That's just weird and impolite.
@@krishnavenikrishnan3457 of course. You made an excellent point.