It's like, "Walang iba, pero hindi na ikaw." In a relationship, if a person chose to let go of the other, it doesn't always mean that there is another person involved whom he/she fell inlove with during their relationship. Kadalasan, everything is just within ourselves. The words, "Hindi ikaw ang may kalasanan. Hindi ikaw ang problema. Hindi ikaw, kasi ako," may thought as an "excuse" kasi nga, gasgas na ang linyang 'yan. However, if we try to decode the meaning behind of it, there are things, emotions/feelings that we suddenly feel which we can't explain even to ourselves. Hindi na nga natin kayang i-explain sa sarili natin, paano pa sa iba? Paano pa kaya sa partner natin? There is no such thing as, "Falling out of love." Sinubukan muna niya; nagtiis muna siya. However, the sad thing is, the person didn't try to talk to the other and didn't open up his feelings. Sinarili niya, kaya naipon, hindi niya kinaya, kaya umabot sa pagsuko. Communication is the key, yes. Speak what you feel. But let us not forget that in a relationship, it takes two to tango. I am not saying to read his/her mind to be able to know his/her feelings, but ask. Always ask if the other is doing just fine or if there is a problem. On the other side, the other person should also be honest with his/her feelings. Never hide your emotions especially if it involves your partner or your relationship. Walang mangyayari kung hindi kayo mag-uusap at kung hindi kayo magiging honest sa isa't isa. COMMUNICATE and don't forget to LISTEN and CONTEMPLATE. Sometimes, holding on is not always the answer. It is better to fix things between the two of you and let go. It may not be easy to do, but maybe, just maybe, someday, it may lead you two to the better version of yourself, better life, and better person when the time is right.
Na engaged ako sa kanya, planado na lahat. Pero sa iba sya ikinasal. ☺️ Ilang taon ko nilaban pero regardless ng sakit na naramdaman ko. Masaya ako para sa kanya! 🧡 Im safe and healed now.
This song speaks for the one who left. We all know how painful it is sa part ng mga iniwan kase sila yung mga taong naghahanap ng kasagutan sa mga tanong na kung bakit sila iniwan at kung saan sila nagkulang na kailanman ay hindi masasagot ng kahit na sino man. Pero wala na yatang mas sasakit pa pag dumating yung point sa buhay mo na naubos ka na, naubos na lahat ng dahilan para lumaban ka pa, and the only reason that's left is for you to give up. That no matter how much you love this person, you have no choice but to save yourself. Masakit ang maiwanan, but if only we could see the depth of the wounds of these people who endured all the pain just to save the relationship that they built for years. If you could only see how much they sacrificed and almost gave up everything just to stay, all those nights that they would cry to sleep questioning their worth, those days where they should've already given up but still chose to stay cause they still have this small hope na baka pwede pa, baka kaya pa. If you could only imagine the weight that increases with each pain and bitterness that accumulates until it is filled with heaviness until they can no longer carry it, that no matter how hard they try, wala na talaga. Hindi na kaya. Walang katumbas yung sakit at konsensya na kailangan nilang dalhin dahil sila ang nang-iwan. You can't even imagine how they were able to endure the pain in their heart. They are left with no choice but to be strong. Hindi sa lahat ng laban kailangan panalo ka. May mga laban na mas makakapagpalaya sayo pag binitawan mo. Ika nga ng karamihan, lahat ng mabigat gumagaan pag binitawan. At the end of the day, nang-iwan o iniwan, parehas masakit. We all become selfess when it comes to love. We cannot deny the fact na parte na ng pagmamahal ang masaktan. No matter how painful it is, always make your pain as an instrument to make you a better and stronger person. ❤️
For those people who felt betrayed because their loved ones left them, I hope you find it in your self to still open your heart to people who are ready to love you, just waiting for you to be finally healed. The tendency is, people who are like Krisha (in this MV), they might be scared to love again because it might happen again. It's alright, it will probably take time to heal, but you will get there. Heart strong! And for those people who suddenly got tired of loving someone, not because they found another one, I hope you find it your heart to forgive yourself. It's never easy to stop the battle you once thought you'll continue fighting for. It wasn't your fault, I guess instances like this happen in life, and that's part of our challenges from God. To be able to decide whether to continue or to stop where you think there's no more reason to fight. Heart strong! Salamat dawans. Pinaiyak niyo ako, again and again. Thank you for sharing us your music. I love you 3000!!!
May this song lead us all to healing. At the end, it is our CHOICE. To fight or to surrender is both STRENGTH! Thank you for showing this to us the juans!
It seems that the role of Kokoy let go their relationship easily but the truth is, he didn't. The process that he have been before he decided to end their relationship perhaps a very difficult and challenging process for him. He will not decide to end their relationship suddenly because he just want it. Maybe he went through a lot of deep thinking, he dwell so much in his decision before he came up for that. It is saddening that their relationship already reach its end. But I commend him for being honest that it's his fault and the girl is enough in their entire relationship.
@@aiaaeaoi becoz he was still contemplating how to hurt her less, for Kokoy's character it's the guilt of hurting another person specially if you did love the person that's the painful part , no one wants to be the villain in your love story!for now that's how she will feel but later she might even thank him for setting her free find to find her true happiness!
Sadly, this is the reality of someone who continues clinging on to the relationship vs someone who's ready to let go because he/she has reached the end. That no matter how hard you fight the feeling, you've already lost the battle. And both have become casualties of this complicated love.
The song, cinematography, concept, actors, production, the outfits, the emotions, and the whole music video was so on point😭 here's to more great music, The Juans!
Jut as we choose to love the same person everyday, I agree that at some point we also have to choose to forgive everyday. The greatest nneed of man is really, FORGIVENESS.
Realtalk yong wala pang kayo pero kailngan mo ng bitawan kasi di muna naiintindihan saril mo kasi pinapangunahan muna yong dulo ,dahil sa past issue mo ,pero mahal mo siya pero takot ka🥺kaya mas mabuti pa na taposin na lang kahit dipa nag sisimula.
That’s why you don’t commit to a relationship para lang subukan if sya na ba o hindi. You will only cause pain to other people. You only cause brokeness. At yung na experience nila na pain will lead them to define love in a bad way.
Huhu. True po 😭 sobrang sakit tapos parang hindi lang yung tiwala mo sa ibang tao yung nawala kundi yung tiwala mo sa sarili mo na nagbigay ka ng chance sa isang tao na akala mo sigurdo sa'yo, yun pala hindi naman. :( parang kung may dadating bang bago hindi mo na kayang pagkatiwalaan yung sarili mo
Ending a relationship doesn't always mean there's already someone else. This can be also mean that you need to grow as an individual but this time in separate ways.
Gano'n siguro talaga no? that no matter how hard you try to make things right, if he/she is not the right person for you everything else will feels so wrong. But we know deep inside of our heart na even though we didn't end up with them, they still hold a special place in our hearts. The time we spent with them and the memories we've shared will never be 'sayang' because it happened for a purpose. Pain is inevitable. But on the other side it will cause us to learn and grow. Sometimes, in order to find the right one we had to learn from the wrong one first. It's not gonna be easy but it will mold you into a better person. To be better for the right person that God has store for you.
I've heard about the juans before but I never checked them out until I saw them with SB19, kaya pinakinggan ko yung mga songs nila at nagulat ako na may mga kantang na lss ako dati tapos sila pala kumanta. Two of the members wrote the song, and I can't imagine the pain they've gone through to be able to write a really good and sad song. I really have a huge respect for people who write their own song because not everyone can do that. Wala akong pinagdadaanan na relatable sa "Dulo" but I personally like this song knowing how painful it must have been for those who can relate.
what’s painful is you can feel when someone’s slipping away from you… but you choose to ignore it thinking that it’s more painful to let go of the love you cherish. but in the end, you can’t make someone stay kung nasa dulo na siya.
For all people who still looking for the answer of "bakit di ako?", praying that one day at the right time we'll know the answer of "why's". Di man masasagot agad ngayon but soon as you heal. ❤️
THIS JUST SHOWS HOW WEAK OUR MENTAL HEALTH IS. We cannot force ourselves to love someone, so we choose to admit everything. Kesa naman one sided lang. Big respect to all the men fighting for mental breakdowns.
This song will remind us to always check up on our partners. Wag tayong maging kampante at ibigay lang yung bare minimum. Alalahanin natin at gawin yung mga bagay na magpapasaya sakanila kasi kapag nasanay na sila sa kaunting ibinibigay natin, bigla sila mapagod at sumuko.
That's exactly what I have failed to do and now I have to suffer the consequence and live an embitter life. I have to swallow the pain of her leaving me, of her being happy without me. I have to give her up my own happiness just for her to be happy. I am really shattered.
tbh, Kokoy is such an underrated actor his acting is top-notch. This role perfectly fits to him, Kudos to the director Carl and the whole team for making this successful MV. Way to go The Juans you guys deserve all the love and admiration in the world. ❤️
Dito sa kantang to naramdaman ko yung dinadala ng ex ko. Di ko man lang nakita o naramdaman yun nung kami pa. Grabe na pala yung dinadala nya. Ako nalang pala yung masaya at nangangarap para samin dalawa. Ngayon huli na, kung kelan kaya ko na lumaban para alisin yung nararamdaman nya at maibalik yung sigla sa relasyon namin. Nasa DULO na sya, may kasamang iba. Habang ako nandito pa din kumakapit sa mga pangako namin sa isa’t isa. Mahal kita kaya tatanggapin ko na lahat, tatanggapin wala ka na, tatanggapin masaya ka na sa kanya, lahat ng di ko nagawa, nagagawa nya. Mahal na mahal kita Carery, salamat sa 9 years na pagsasama
Masakit ang maiwan ,pero hindi natin alam ang pinagdadaanan ng mga nangiiwan kung bakit ba nila piniling pakawalan tayo. 9 years ,madaming nangyari ,madaming pinagdaanan ,nadapa ng magkasama ,bumangon ng magkasama. Pumalpak at natuto ng magkasama. Maraming pagsubok na kinaharap ng magkasama. Sa kabila ng lahat ng yun eto tayo nasa dulo. Sobrang sakit nung iniwan moko pero naiintindihan ko kung bakit mo yun ginawa. Piliin mo palagi ang sumaya ,kasama ka lagi sa pagdarasal ko. Mahal kita
CONGRATS THE JUANS !!! SOBRANG THE BEST NG THE JUANSS !! LALO NA YUNG CINEMATOGRAPHY !! YUNG ACTOR AND ACTRESS HIGIT SA LAHAT YUNG KANTAAAAA SOBRANG SOLID 😭✊🏻 I STAN THE JUANS!🙏🏻❤️ #THEJUANSDULOMV
This is so painful to watch when you've been there. Eto yung pakiramdam na mawawalan ka nalang talaga ng lakas sa buo mong katawan. It is painful and very exhausting kapag dumating ka sa point na naubus na ang mga dahilan para ipaglaban mo pa. Iniwan ko yunng 3 year relationship because i arrived at this point. Tatamaan kanalang ng ayaw mong iwan kasi gusto mo pa, pero wala kanang nararamdama, kahit anong piga. Nagsisinungaling kanalang sa sarili mo na meron kapang nararamdaman and because of this your slowly crumbling inside, para kang nakagapos. Ito yung time na nagbabago na yung kilos mo na di na tulad dati. Alam mo na hindi na katulad noon, pero di mo mapagawa sa sarili na ibalik yung dati mong sigla. And your left with the only option, which is to "give up".
Same experience. Na hindi na ikaw yung dating ikaw nung nag uumpisa palang kayo. Na dahil binigay mo lahat naubos ka. Yung gusto mong bumitaw pero kahit konti may umaasa sa loob mo na baka kahit papano umapaw yung pagmamahal niya sayo na kahit konti yung naubos mong puso ay mapunan. Pero hindi, dahil hindi din naman naging totoo ung pagmamahal niya kaya umabot na dulo
My exposure to this song only came because Kokoy was in the video and now I’m sitting here stunned. It was truly beautiful and proof that music is a universal language, I don’t speak the language (yet) but I got the message completely. Congrats to the Juans, I really don’t have words to describe the emotions.
All the lines are the same from the person who left me and now I realize that it's time to forgive and let it go with no bitterness. Thank you for this MV💖
I broke up with her cos I thought nasa “DULO” na ako. Before I even met her, grabe ang self love ko but 3 months ago nakipagbreak ako sa kanya because sobrang empty ko na. Binigay ko sa kanya lahat ng love na makakaya kong ibigay sa loob ng apat na taon. Tapos ngayon na nakapag-pahinga na ako, na may pag mamahal na ulit ako sa sarili ko, too late na. May iba na siya. Hinihintay ko pa rin siya bumalik. Hinihintay ko pa rin na baka pag tagpuin ulit kami ng tadhana. And if ever man na pagtatagpuin muli at pag bibigyan muli, pinapangako sayo Trisha na ipaglalaban kita hangang sa dulo. Na ikaw na ang makakasama ko sa hangang sa dulo ng buhay ko. Mahal na mahal kita trisha, always & forever. ❤️
sana nung napagod din sya at naubos, nag pahinga talaga sya katulad ng ginawa mo pero hndi e.... kaya nya nasabing napagod sya ay dahil meron na syang iba... escape goat lang pala nya yung mga dahilan nya.. dinamay pa ko sa sakit na ginawa nya.
My 13-year relationship ended. Posible pala talaga yun. Sinabi nya lang sakin na nasa dulo na sya. Hindi ko maintindihan. Pero aasa ako. Aasa ako na kapag okay na sya, magkakaron kami ng panibagong simula na di na aabot ng dulo. 🥺
Lyrics: Nakatingin na naman sa kawalan Tinatago ang tunay na nararamdaman Hangggang kailan ko 'to kakayanin Hanggang saan kita uunawain Pa'no ipaglalaban ang pagmamahal Kung sa pananatili ay nasasakal Nahihirapan na ating mga damdamin 'Di malaman kung pa'no aaminin Naubos na ang luha At mga salita Siguro'y 'di sapat Aking pagmamahal Ito na ba ang hinihintay Ang pagwawakas ng paglalakbay Lahat nama'y ibinigay Ngunit baliwala lang kaya paalam Kailangan na yatang harapin Na ito ay 'di para sa atin Mahirap man na tanggapin Hanggang dito lang tayo, ito na ang dulo (Ang dulo, ito na ang dulo) Bibitawan at palalayain ka Kasama ang pangako't alaala Ngunit hindi kita pipilitin Hahayaan ko na lang ito 'yong mapansin Naubos na ang luha At mga salita Siguro'y 'di sapat Aking pagmamahal Ito na ba ang hinihintay Ang pagwawakas ng paglalakbay Lahat nama'y ibinigay Ngunit baliwala lang kaya paalam Kailangan na yatang harapin Na ito ay 'di para sa atin Mahirap man na tanggapin Hanggang dito lang tayo, ito na ang dulo Gusto mang kumapit, mahirap ipilit ang 'di para sa atin Hihintayin ko na maramdaman mo, ito na ang dulo Ito na ba ang hinihintay Ang pagwawakas ng paglalakbay Lahat nama'y ibinigay Ngunit baliwala lang kaya paalam Kailangan na yatang harapin Na ito ay 'di para sa atin Mahirap man na tanggapin Hanggang dito lang tayo, ito na ang dulo, ang dulo (ito na ang dulo) Hanggang dito lang tayo, ito na ang dulo
Love is not as perfect as we thought. It's not like fairytale in the movie, it is not magical. It is choosing someone despite of all the hindrances. It is committing to someone regardless of the circumstamces you face, for the rest of your life. The idea of love in the movie is not the reality. Endurance. That is the realistic element of love.
I love your insight Ma'am Leah, but you probably missed it. The guy said "nilaban ko naman e." He tried to endure it, but endurance has its limitation just like what happened in this short film.
@@reyjhongallego1116 And that is where communication enters. Endurance has its limits, perhaps, if and only if you will fight it all alone. Imagine the power and miracle of two heads and hearts working together. Sana sinabi niya sa babae nung panahon dama na niya na paubos na, na nagkukulang na. Kasi baka sakaling mapunan pa, mapuno pa ulit. Baka mailaban pa "nila." Relationship works both ways, a very obvious matter, yet oftentimes, people tend to forget about it.
It's nice when you let go of the things that don't feel like yours anymore. There is beauty in letting go. Anyways congrats boys! This is such a masterpiece! ♥
Share ko lang sinabi ni Chael sa relay interview nila, "Kung narating niyo na ang dulo, sana kayo ay natuto." Remember that even in our pain, there's a lesson we can get. Yakap sa lahat. Ikaw man ang nauna o ang naiwan, valid ka.
This happened recently lng. I joined the military for our future then after ng graduation ko, dun din nya sinabi na “I don’t love you anymore “. Kala ko pag-alis ko, may babalikan pa ako. Andami kong inipong kwento yun pala wala dn akong mapagkwekwentuhan ng karanasan ko habang nasa training ako. Mahirap, kasi sya lang meron ako, sya yung laging nandyan para palakasin loob ko. Perfect Package na sya, pero siguro hindi sya para sa akin. Umaabot din pala sa dulo, kahit sobrang dami nyo ng plano. Fresh pa yung sugat, wala eh. I need to let go, wala na din nmng magagawa pa. Pipilitin nalng natin maging masaya para sa kanila.🙃
Mahirap pa ung akala mo kayo lang , kala mo may uuwian kapa. Yong feeling mo , kayo2 lang nagpapalakasan ng loob since malayo sa isat isa...sa sobrang busy sa kanya kanyang buhay, Matagal na di nagparamdam , tapos dumating ung time na nagkausap kau,tapos sinabi nia na meron na sia. Sobrang sakit , sobrang hirap , nakakabaliw lalo pat narealize mo , wala palang KAYO. 🤦♂️ 😢
SOBRANG related po sa situation ko on my past relationship. More than a year now, I broke with him. And it is both painful for us. My decision is not so abrupt. Part of it ay napagod na rin but I just felt that we should have to part ways. Back then, we were so in love and perfectly fit with each other. Lahat ng qualities na pinagp'pray ko sa isang guy ay nasa kanya. But there's one thing important I have left in my checklist at binalewala ko yon. I just shrug it off and I believed that because I prayed for it then God would intervene. Pinagmamalaki ko ung relationship namin as good example dahil we started right: right age, right time, hindi patago and has good intentions BUT it was hurting that I am slowly drifting away. Without noticing that I am slowly compromising my views, my virtues, even my passion. My routine, my hobby. I am so in love with him that I don't see these little changes. And I feel that hindi ako healthy for him, and loving this way is hindering him to be a better person. The way I love him is not healthy anymore. Mali na nagiging dependent ako sa kanya emotionally. I didn't know I was going back to my old self. Akala ko dati hindi ko mararanasang magpalaya ng taong mahal ko, but growing now as an adult, it is really important that you both making each other better. And choosing the hard way is a better way to understand how love works. I chose to end it not because I don't love him anymore or I already love somebody else, but because God told me way before na hindi kami para a isa't isa nagmatigas lang ako dahil mahal ko siya at ipinilit ko ung 'WILL' ko and mangyari. Pero masakit mamalo si Lord. Realizing that now na minsan kailangan natin madaan sa pagpapalo para maituwid tayo. Maybe we started right but I hope we will continue to be on the right lane kahit hindi kami sa DULO. Now he's with someone and to be honest I am genuinely happy for them. I really thank you #TheJuans for this song, you brought the exact message -- through your music --that I want to convey to the one I left behind. #TheJuans #TheJuansDuloSongStory
Same feels with me alam mo yung mas mahirap ,may anak kame .. part of me is losing my self in this relationship . Para nakong empty can sa loob . I wish there is an easier way to lighten up my mind on what i really want parang out of truck nako saming dalawa mahal ko naman sya kaso nawalala nayung dating ako idunno kung phase lang bato. Tska hindi nalang sarili ko yung iniisip ko pati yung anak ko .
Walang sayang sa bandang ‘to. Grabe, palaging the best. Isa sa mga best decisions ko yung pagsuporta ko sa inyo. WORTH TO STAN! JUANISTA’S BEST BOYS! I LOVE YOU, FIVE!!!
Skl: "Kaya mo pa ba? Kasi if hindi mo na kaya iendure yung pain na nararamdaman mo, wag na nating ipilit. Pareho lang tayong masisira kapag pinilit natin at ayokong mangyari yon." - Ayan 'yung sinabi niya sa'kin sa chat bago kami magkita sa personal. Mas pinili naming bumitaw, mas pinili naming sumuko. Kasi alam naming dalawa na kapag pinilit pa namin 'yung relationship namin, wala ring pupuntahan. Parang niloloko lang namin sarili namin, ang hirap naman na parang pilit 'yung relasyon niyo diba? Gaya nga ng sabi niya, pareho kaming masisira kapag tinuloy namin. Mas pinili naming sumuko para sa happiness at inner peace naming dalawa, hindi kami sumuko para saktan 'yung isa't isa. Hindi kami sumuko kasi mahina kami, sumuko kami kasi mahal namin 'yung isa't isa. So ayun skl, thank you & congrats the juans and sa whole team. More masterpiece to come!! Love ü :>>>
you can actually see how emotional and hard for the guy Kokoy to let go of her (w/c i think Carl wanted to show us) but i think it is for the better. Letting her go means giving her the chance to find someone who will give her the world that you failed to do because you chose to end the journey which you both promised to finish together..
Yung inilaban ko ng 8 months.. Tapos siya sa 8 months na yan... "sure na" na hindi ako yung gsto niya hanggang "DULO"..Walong buwan na nagpapanggap na AKO PA.. Para na akong tanga.. CHAR!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Di ko alam noon kung bakit, kung bakit hindi ako..now I know why.... boh..
@@gedai8642 hahahaha..and you found me.. Now you know why...because you are ment for someone who will give you the best love you could ever ask for..#Jatjat...
Ang ganda nmannnnn. No matter how hard you fight the feeling, you know you've already lost the battle. It's not easy letting go of someone you love. It's even harder when you know it's the right thing to do. I have learned a long time ago that unconditional love is giving someone the freedom to exist and be happy, even without you. So be free, Be happy.
I remembered that day when you said that you want me to be part of your future. You even promised me that you will keep me forever. Pero hindi ko inexpect na hindi pala talaga ako kasama sa future mo. I waited for you. Walang text, walang chat, walang kahit ano akong nareceive sayo. Feeling ko bigla ka nalang umalis. Feeling ko nun baka di mo na ko gusto. Pero when you said na you are aiming to be captain. I was really shocked. Kasi kung parte talaga ko ng future mo ipapaalam mo sakin. Sasabihin mo sa akin. Alam mo namang mauunawaan ko. You even pushed me away pero sabi ko wag kasi di pa ko ready. Sabi ko wag, kasi di ko pa kaya. I gave you another chance kasi alam kong priority mo yung career mo at Priority ko yung studies ko. And now that I am already graduate happy ako kasi malapit ka nang maging captain! I am so proud of you. Alam kong kahit ilang beses kang sumuko nandito parin ako para sayo. Ilang beses mo man akong pagtabuyan babalik at babalik parin ako sayo. Pero hindi mo naman sinabi na ako lang pala yung hinihintay mong sumuko para masabi nating ito na ang dulo. To my kitkat, you will always be my future🥰✨ Fulfill your dreams and make yourself happy as always💕
This is real. You'll question things. Is it me? Is it my attitude, physical appearance? Why? How? Pero all answer she had is "hindi ko alam" Confusion is really thought but how come you became unsure on things that are really working well, that is sure and certain? Save our self. Let go and heal.
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"mahirap man tanggapin, hanggang dito lang tayo, ito na ang dulo" grabe tagos bawat linya, lalo to.
Finally a song that made me understand why he left me. Four months ago since you've left me, leaving me confused and broken. Yung akala kong ganun lang kadali para sayo ang isuko ako, ang isuko ang sinimulan natin pero dahil sa kantang toh naintindihan ko at nakita ko na bago mo pala naisipang bumitaw sinubukan mo pa rin palang lumaban, salamat. Pero siguro nga sadyang hindi tayo magkasingtatag kaya nauna ka na sa dulo. Thank you for choosing your self, salamat for being brave enough to let go of me kahit na parehong masakit para saten. Salamat sa pitong taon. Ngayon, pipiliin nang magpatuloy ng walang ikaw at ako. Tatanggapin na, papatawarin na, lilimot na, bibitaw na at lalaya na. I will always choose gratitude over bitterness. Mag-iingat ka palagi. Be happy. Hangad ko lahat ng kabutihan para sayo. Patawad at paalam mahal. Sa huling pagkakataon gusto kong sabihin na sobrang minahal kita and this time mas papatunayan ko yun by letting you go and giving you the freedom you've asked for.
Totoo nga pla tlga ung mga ganitong pangyyari, na napagod ka, ayaw mo na hindi dhil may iba na. Naubos ka dhil sa mga differences nyo,ndi pgkakaintindihan. Inintindi mo nman, sobra. Minahal mo nman sobra. Binigay mo nman lhat lhat. Pero pag naramdaman mo na parang ikw at ikw na lng ang umiintindi,ngmahal ng sobra,ung tipong inabuso kna kasi alam nyang anjan ka lng,hindi ka mawwala kasi nasanay sya na binibgay mo ung best mo,ung tipong wala ng natira pra sa sarili mo. Darating tlga sa point na mppagod ka,hindi kna msaya, hanggang darating kna sa dulo na ayaw mo na, tama na, itigil na.
minsan talaga you’ll never see what’s ahead of you kapag patuloy mong ipinag-lalaban yung mga bagay na hini-hinder ka mag grow and the best thing to do is to let go. Minsan, hindi sapat na mahal mo ang isang tao para ipagpatuloy lalo na kapag wala ng progress yung relationship. Congrats The Juans and to everyone behind this awesome song & music video!
Can't process my thoughts & feels yet. But gosh guys, you really are the best!! Our best boys!!! ❤ Congratulations with this new single and to everyone who's part of it & the bts people. Grabe talaga yung purpose na God has created in you to write songs like this. I love you five!! I'll always be a proud Juanista. ❤❤❤👌💯 May the Lord bless and use you more.
Ganitong ganito yung dialogue namin nung nakipag break sakin yung bf ko for four years. I was always sure of him. And everyday na kasama ko sya we seemed ok. He seemed ok. Masaya ako lagi pag kasama ko sya. And I never saw it coming. Bigla na lang one day out of nowhere ayaw nya na. Sabi nya walang iba, turned out may nakakausap na pala sya. You guys should not drag women down your dark pits. And he was never aware of the damage he caused me. It's been five months since he broke up with me and I'm still dealing with the damage, trauma and nightmares he gave me. Next month should've been our fith year. I never thought I was building a damaged man for a girl who doesn't know how to respect relationships and not have the decency to stay away from a troubled guy who is in a shakey relationship. It wasn't even shakey to start with. And I never confronted her for it. I dodged a bullet because of her and he's her to suffer with. What goes around, comes around.
You'll know when it's time to go. ngayon mas naunawaan ko nang hindi makasariling desisyon ang sumuko. masakit man pero isa yung mahirap, matapang, at selfless na desisyon lalo na kung minsan mong sinabi na "ikaw ang panalangin ko" pero kahit na gusto mong manatili, kahit na gusto mong panghawakan, at tuparin lahat ng pangako, minsan mas higit na ang sakit na dulot kaysa pagmamahal, at mapapagtanto mong hindi ikaw yung tamang tao kaya handa mong palayain ang taong mahal mo. ang dulo ng 'tayo' ay simula ng "wag kang panghinaan, narito ako, noon pa man mayroong akong inilaan na tamang tao para sa'yo sa tamang pagkakataon."
Letting go is the hardest thing to do. I had a boyfriend, isang taon mahigit na naging kami. We were so happy, hindi kami nag-aaway, minsan tampuhan lang. Siya laging takbuhan ko, sa kanya ko lang naoopen lahat. Sobrang komportable ako sa kanya, napakacaring and mabait siya sakin. Lagi niya akong naiiintindihan at ganun din naman ako. But one night, nagchachat ako sa kanya. Then react lang ginagawa niya, sad react. And then suddenly sabi niya "ayaw ko na" tinanong ko kung pagod na ba siya, sabi niya hindi. I asked him kung bakit, naguguluhan daw siya, ayaw na raw niya. Akala ko lang pala lahat. Kung sana nalaman ko lang agad, sa umpisa palang sana ako na yung umiwas. Gabi gabi akong umiiyak. Hindi ba ako sapat? may mali ba sa akin? nagkulang ba ako? Kasi ginawa ko naman lahat. Siya yung bumuo sa akin, pero siya rin pala ang dudurog sa akin. I take risk kasi akala ko baka, baka sakaling sa pagkakataong ito hindi na ako ulit iwanan. Pero ganun talaga siguro. Minsan ang pagmamahal parang sugal. Walang kasiguraduhan kung mananatili ba talaga sila. Walang kasiguraduhan kung totoo nga ba ang sinasabi nila. Andami kong natutunan. Masyadong masakit ang magmahal ng isang taong hindi naman pala sigurado sa iyo. I love him so much to the point that I let him go. Kasi yun yung nais niya, mahirap namang ipilit kung hindi naman pala para sa atin. I hope he will find his happiness na hindi niya nahanap sa akin. I pray that one day, All the pain will gone away. I pray that one day when I woke up in the morning wala ng sakit na mararamdaman. I pray that one day God will made a way for me to find the good man that I deserve. Time heals everything. To all woman out there, don't give all your love to a man. Magtira kayo sa sarili niyo. If you're single now, ilaan niyo yung natitirang araw niyo sa mga magulang niyo. Love your family than everyone else because at the end of the day sila lang yung nanjan. Sila yung siguradong hindi kayo iiwan. Make sure that you use your time sa mga tamang tao.
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Grabe ang galing mo talaga Kokoy ❤️ the best ka talaga! Congratulations too Gameboys won an Award in Taiwan!
You did well, brother! Dami mong pinaiyak! Welcome to the club 😅
Ang sakit😭
@@TheJuans Congratulations!!! Nakakawarak ng puso 😭😭😭
I expect no less from you kokoy apakagaling mo bro
It's like, "Walang iba, pero hindi na ikaw."
In a relationship, if a person chose to let go of the other, it doesn't always mean that there is another person involved whom he/she fell inlove with during their relationship. Kadalasan, everything is just within ourselves.
The words, "Hindi ikaw ang may kalasanan. Hindi ikaw ang problema. Hindi ikaw, kasi ako," may thought as an "excuse" kasi nga, gasgas na ang linyang 'yan. However, if we try to decode the meaning behind of it, there are things, emotions/feelings that we suddenly feel which we can't explain even to ourselves. Hindi na nga natin kayang i-explain sa sarili natin, paano pa sa iba? Paano pa kaya sa partner natin?
There is no such thing as, "Falling out of love." Sinubukan muna niya; nagtiis muna siya. However, the sad thing is, the person didn't try to talk to the other and didn't open up his feelings.
Sinarili niya, kaya naipon, hindi niya kinaya, kaya umabot sa pagsuko.
Communication is the key, yes. Speak what you feel. But let us not forget that in a relationship, it takes two to tango. I am not saying to read his/her mind to be able to know his/her feelings, but ask. Always ask if the other is doing just fine or if there is a problem. On the other side, the other person should also be honest with his/her feelings. Never hide your emotions especially if it involves your partner or your relationship.
Walang mangyayari kung hindi kayo mag-uusap at kung hindi kayo magiging honest sa isa't isa. COMMUNICATE and don't forget to LISTEN and CONTEMPLATE.
Sometimes, holding on is not always the answer. It is better to fix things between the two of you and let go. It may not be easy to do, but maybe, just maybe, someday, it may lead you two to the better version of yourself, better life, and better person when the time is right.
Why this hits me so hard…
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This was him to me.
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TRUEEE 💔
Ang sakit 🥺
Hi po thank you for supporting The Juans 😍
Na engaged ako sa kanya, planado na lahat. Pero sa iba sya ikinasal. ☺️ Ilang taon ko nilaban pero regardless ng sakit na naramdaman ko. Masaya ako para sa kanya! 🧡 Im safe and healed now.
This song speaks for the one who left.
We all know how painful it is sa part ng mga iniwan kase sila yung mga taong naghahanap ng kasagutan sa mga tanong na kung bakit sila iniwan at kung saan sila nagkulang na kailanman ay hindi masasagot ng kahit na sino man.
Pero wala na yatang mas sasakit pa pag dumating yung point sa buhay mo na naubos ka na, naubos na lahat ng dahilan para lumaban ka pa, and the only reason that's left is for you to give up. That no matter how much you love this person, you have no choice but to save yourself.
Masakit ang maiwanan, but if only we could see the depth of the wounds of these people who endured all the pain just to save the relationship that they built for years. If you could only see how much they sacrificed and almost gave up everything just to stay, all those nights that they would cry to sleep questioning their worth, those days where they should've already given up but still chose to stay cause they still have this small hope na baka pwede pa, baka kaya pa.
If you could only imagine the weight that increases with each pain and bitterness that accumulates until it is filled with heaviness until they can no longer carry it, that no matter how hard they try, wala na talaga. Hindi na kaya.
Walang katumbas yung sakit at konsensya na kailangan nilang dalhin dahil sila ang nang-iwan. You can't even imagine how they were able to endure the pain in their heart. They are left with no choice but to be strong.
Hindi sa lahat ng laban kailangan panalo ka. May mga laban na mas makakapagpalaya sayo pag binitawan mo. Ika nga ng karamihan, lahat ng mabigat gumagaan pag binitawan.
At the end of the day, nang-iwan o iniwan, parehas masakit. We all become selfess when it comes to love. We cannot deny the fact na parte na ng pagmamahal ang masaktan. No matter how painful it is, always make your pain as an instrument to make you a better and stronger person. ❤️
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Kokoy's acting is so excellent. Congratulations for The Juans and team.
Agree po!
Feel na feel ko yung acting nya 😭😆💘
For those people who felt betrayed because their loved ones left them, I hope you find it in your self to still open your heart to people who are ready to love you, just waiting for you to be finally healed. The tendency is, people who are like Krisha (in this MV), they might be scared to love again because it might happen again. It's alright, it will probably take time to heal, but you will get there. Heart strong!
And for those people who suddenly got tired of loving someone, not because they found another one, I hope you find it your heart to forgive yourself. It's never easy to stop the battle you once thought you'll continue fighting for. It wasn't your fault, I guess instances like this happen in life, and that's part of our challenges from God. To be able to decide whether to continue or to stop where you think there's no more reason to fight. Heart strong!
Salamat dawans. Pinaiyak niyo ako, again and again. Thank you for sharing us your music. I love you 3000!!!
Sometimes, the hardest part of letting go is facing the fact that you will have to lose the person whom you made so much memories with.
May this song lead us all to healing. At the end, it is our CHOICE. To fight or to surrender is both STRENGTH! Thank you for showing this to us the juans!
It seems that the role of Kokoy let go their relationship easily but the truth is, he didn't. The process that he have been before he decided to end their relationship perhaps a very difficult and challenging process for him. He will not decide to end their relationship suddenly because he just want it. Maybe he went through a lot of deep thinking, he dwell so much in his decision before he came up for that. It is saddening that their relationship already reach its end. But I commend him for being honest that it's his fault and the girl is enough in their entire relationship.
He did not tell the girl early on though. He was already on the process of letting go while making the girl believe that everything's fine. Sad.
@@aiaaeaoi becoz he was still contemplating how to hurt her less, for Kokoy's character it's the guilt of hurting another person specially if you did love the person that's the painful part , no one wants to be the villain in your love story!for now that's how she will feel but later she might even thank him for setting her free find to find her true happiness!
"there's no easy way to break somebody's heart."
Ang sakit marinig ng “minahal naman kita”. Past tense na agad sya samantalang ikaw asa present pa. 😔
Tama😭 isang taon bago lumabas ang kanta ng buhay ko😅✌️😭
Aray💔
Ouch🥺😭
Sadly, this is the reality of someone who continues clinging on to the relationship vs someone who's ready to let go because he/she has reached the end. That no matter how hard you fight the feeling, you've already lost the battle. And both have become casualties of this complicated love.
The song, cinematography, concept, actors, production, the outfits, the emotions, and the whole music video was so on point😭 here's to more great music, The Juans!
There is healing in letting go and you need to choose to forgive everyday. Psalms 29:11
Jut as we choose to love the same person everyday, I agree that at some point we also have to choose to forgive everyday. The greatest nneed of man is really, FORGIVENESS.
Amen ❤
Realtalk yong wala pang kayo pero kailngan mo ng bitawan kasi di muna naiintindihan saril mo kasi pinapangunahan muna yong dulo ,dahil sa past issue mo ,pero mahal mo siya pero takot ka🥺kaya mas mabuti pa na taposin na lang kahit dipa nag sisimula.
That’s why you don’t commit to a relationship para lang subukan if sya na ba o hindi. You will only cause pain to other people. You only cause brokeness. At yung na experience nila na pain will lead them to define love in a bad way.
So true💯💯💯💯
@@Sheep257 I agree! This what happens when you decide to commit to a relationship based on feelings.
Huhu. True po 😭 sobrang sakit tapos parang hindi lang yung tiwala mo sa ibang tao yung nawala kundi yung tiwala mo sa sarili mo na nagbigay ka ng chance sa isang tao na akala mo sigurdo sa'yo, yun pala hindi naman. :( parang kung may dadating bang bago hindi mo na kayang pagkatiwalaan yung sarili mo
Agree 💔😭13 years ng single & I don't know,why until now di paku ready for a relationship!kahit naka move on.
True..it should be Date to Marry not Date just for the sake of dating.
Ending a relationship doesn't always mean there's already someone else. This can be also mean that you need to grow as an individual but this time in separate ways.
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Agree 🤗
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My situation rn🥺😩
Pero dapat nasa tamang edad din kapag papasok sa isang relation^o^
The saddest part in life is saying goodbye to someone you wish to spend your lifetime with.
Gano'n siguro talaga no? that no matter how hard you try to make things right, if he/she is not the right person for you everything else will feels so wrong. But we know deep inside of our heart na even though we didn't end up with them, they still hold a special place in our hearts. The time we spent with them and the memories we've shared will never be 'sayang' because it happened for a purpose. Pain is inevitable.
But on the other side it will cause us to learn and grow. Sometimes, in order to find the right one we had to learn from the wrong one first. It's not gonna be easy but it will mold you into a better person. To be better for the right person that God has store for you.
To someone who chose to let go, keep in mind, "hindi kahinaan ang pagsuko". ♡
Kudos The Juans!! As always, you guys are epic! 👏💙
Hindi kahinaan ang pagsuko.
kaya lang ang unfair, sana ganun lang din kadali tanggapin na sinukuan ka na.
Sana ganun din kadali tanggapin na siya ay ngumingiti na dahil sa iba samantalang ako lumuluha parin dahil sa kanya 😭
@@crisorpilla9631 ses been there, at dahil sa ginawa nya mas lalo ko syang nakalimutan hahahahaaha Thank you, next
Great acting Kokoy de Santos. A very natural actor.Superb characterization.
Chaelʼs voice is a wowie !! 😭 Labyu, Engr.
I've heard about the juans before but I never checked them out until I saw them with SB19, kaya pinakinggan ko yung mga songs nila at nagulat ako na may mga kantang na lss ako dati tapos sila pala kumanta. Two of the members wrote the song, and I can't imagine the pain they've gone through to be able to write a really good and sad song. I really have a huge respect for people who write their own song because not everyone can do that. Wala akong pinagdadaanan na relatable sa "Dulo" but I personally like this song knowing how painful it must have been for those who can relate.
KAHIT HINDI KA BROKEN KAPAG NAPANOOD MO 'TO MAIIYAK KANA LANG😭
NAKAKAPROUD KAYOOOO, CONGRATS ILOVEYOUUUU THE JUANS😭✊❤
Sometimes holding on does more damage than letting go.
what’s painful is you can feel when someone’s slipping away from you… but you choose to ignore it thinking that it’s more painful to let go of the love you cherish. but in the end, you can’t make someone stay kung nasa dulo na siya.
For all people who still looking for the answer of "bakit di ako?", praying that one day at the right time we'll know the answer of "why's". Di man masasagot agad ngayon but soon as you heal. ❤️
" ARAW - ARAW, AKO NA LANG BA ANG MASAYA? NAPIPILITAN KA NA LANG BA? "
grabe tong line na to 😭😭😭 napakasakit
THIS JUST SHOWS HOW WEAK OUR MENTAL HEALTH IS. We cannot force ourselves to love someone, so we choose to admit everything. Kesa naman one sided lang. Big respect to all the men fighting for mental breakdowns.
Cheers mate.
Chin up brodie
"Araw-araw, ako na lang ba ang masaya? Napipilitan ka na lang ba?"
Grabeeee talaga The Juans T_T
This song will remind us to always check up on our partners. Wag tayong maging kampante at ibigay lang yung bare minimum. Alalahanin natin at gawin yung mga bagay na magpapasaya sakanila kasi kapag nasanay na sila sa kaunting ibinibigay natin, bigla sila mapagod at sumuko.
At ako yun.. Yung napagod. 💔😭
That's exactly what I have failed to do and now I have to suffer the consequence and live an embitter life. I have to swallow the pain of her leaving me, of her being happy without me. I have to give her up my own happiness just for her to be happy. I am really shattered.
The juans never failed to make me cry.
Kailangan na yata nating tanggapin ito ay 'di para sa atin~ congraats The Juans another mapanaket comeback! 😭
tbh, Kokoy is such an underrated actor his acting is top-notch. This role perfectly fits to him, Kudos to the director Carl and the whole team for making this successful MV. Way to go The Juans you guys deserve all the love and admiration in the world. ❤️
Say it loud
Credit also to nicolas brothers studios. Galing din nila.
Top - notch acting ?? What??? Nothing is special here . The song was good though.
Thankfully, we can all have our opinions.
Basher alert .
Dito sa kantang to naramdaman ko yung dinadala ng ex ko. Di ko man lang nakita o naramdaman yun nung kami pa. Grabe na pala yung dinadala nya. Ako nalang pala yung masaya at nangangarap para samin dalawa. Ngayon huli na, kung kelan kaya ko na lumaban para alisin yung nararamdaman nya at maibalik yung sigla sa relasyon namin. Nasa DULO na sya, may kasamang iba. Habang ako nandito pa din kumakapit sa mga pangako namin sa isa’t isa. Mahal kita kaya tatanggapin ko na lahat, tatanggapin wala ka na, tatanggapin masaya ka na sa kanya, lahat ng di ko nagawa, nagagawa nya. Mahal na mahal kita Carery, salamat sa 9 years na pagsasama
when Krissha said "Bakit hindi ako?"
All the exes felt that.
char.
Grabe yung feels ng song na 'to. Ang galing din ng mga gumanap. Congrats, The Juans.
"hanggang dito lang tayo,
ito na ang dulo"💔
Iconic amp.
waiting sa tula na ang title ay "Dulo" ♥️
Huhh...... Kokoy💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭 ano bah
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Let's Appreciate Krissha Viaje too. They all did Great. Thank you The Juan 🥺🥺
Trueee
Truly!
Glory to God. Congrats, the Juans and the whole team behind 💚💚💚
"Bakit parang ganun kadali sa'yo?"
-- Di mo lang alam yung araw-araw na hirap nya bago sya umabot sa ganyang punto..
Masakit ang maiwan ,pero hindi natin alam ang pinagdadaanan ng mga nangiiwan kung bakit ba nila piniling pakawalan tayo. 9 years ,madaming nangyari ,madaming pinagdaanan ,nadapa ng magkasama ,bumangon ng magkasama. Pumalpak at natuto ng magkasama. Maraming pagsubok na kinaharap ng magkasama. Sa kabila ng lahat ng yun eto tayo nasa dulo. Sobrang sakit nung iniwan moko pero naiintindihan ko kung bakit mo yun ginawa. Piliin mo palagi ang sumaya ,kasama ka lagi sa pagdarasal ko. Mahal kita
*Finally a song that showcase RJ and Chael's voice🖤🙈*
I scream-
CONGRATS THE JUANS !!!
SOBRANG THE BEST NG THE JUANSS !! LALO NA YUNG CINEMATOGRAPHY !! YUNG ACTOR AND ACTRESS HIGIT SA LAHAT YUNG KANTAAAAA SOBRANG SOLID 😭✊🏻
I STAN THE JUANS!🙏🏻❤️
#THEJUANSDULOMV
*GO THE JUANS!*
Grabe nafefeel ko na agad na mapapaiyak ako ng MV almost five seconds in palang.
This is so painful to watch when you've been there. Eto yung pakiramdam na mawawalan ka nalang talaga ng lakas sa buo mong katawan. It is painful and very exhausting kapag dumating ka sa point na naubus na ang mga dahilan para ipaglaban mo pa. Iniwan ko yunng 3 year relationship because i arrived at this point. Tatamaan kanalang ng ayaw mong iwan kasi gusto mo pa, pero wala kanang nararamdama, kahit anong piga. Nagsisinungaling kanalang sa sarili mo na meron kapang nararamdaman and because of this your slowly crumbling inside, para kang nakagapos. Ito yung time na nagbabago na yung kilos mo na di na tulad dati. Alam mo na hindi na katulad noon, pero di mo mapagawa sa sarili na ibalik yung dati mong sigla. And your left with the only option, which is to "give up".
Was there anything wring with your partner tho? What if nagbago nmn at my pagbabago? D mo bbgyan ng chance?
Same experience. Na hindi na ikaw yung dating ikaw nung nag uumpisa palang kayo. Na dahil binigay mo lahat naubos ka. Yung gusto mong bumitaw pero kahit konti may umaasa sa loob mo na baka kahit papano umapaw yung pagmamahal niya sayo na kahit konti yung naubos mong puso ay mapunan. Pero hindi, dahil hindi din naman naging totoo ung pagmamahal niya kaya umabot na dulo
J23
My exposure to this song only came because Kokoy was in the video and now I’m sitting here stunned. It was truly beautiful and proof that music is a universal language, I don’t speak the language (yet) but I got the message completely. Congrats to the Juans, I really don’t have words to describe the emotions.
Bands that evolve and adapt thru the times, sila ung hindi mawawala sa circulation. Ang husay! Congratulations.
the juans never disappoints!!! another masterpiece created ng mga crushies ko
All the lines are the same from the person who left me and now I realize that it's time to forgive and let it go with no bitterness. Thank you for this MV💖
Hoyy po bakit mapanakit kayoo Lalo na Yung acting ni Kokoy, ang ganda din ng Kanta THE JUANS VOCAL KINGS 🥺😭💘🤍
I broke up with her cos I thought nasa “DULO” na ako. Before I even met her, grabe ang self love ko but 3 months ago nakipagbreak ako sa kanya because sobrang empty ko na. Binigay ko sa kanya lahat ng love na makakaya kong ibigay sa loob ng apat na taon. Tapos ngayon na nakapag-pahinga na ako, na may pag mamahal na ulit ako sa sarili ko, too late na. May iba na siya. Hinihintay ko pa rin siya bumalik. Hinihintay ko pa rin na baka pag tagpuin ulit kami ng tadhana. And if ever man na pagtatagpuin muli at pag bibigyan muli, pinapangako sayo Trisha na ipaglalaban kita hangang sa dulo. Na ikaw na ang makakasama ko sa hangang sa dulo ng buhay ko. Mahal na mahal kita trisha, always & forever. ❤️
sana nung napagod din sya at naubos, nag pahinga talaga sya katulad ng ginawa mo pero hndi e.... kaya nya nasabing napagod sya ay dahil meron na syang iba... escape goat lang pala nya yung mga dahilan nya.. dinamay pa ko sa sakit na ginawa nya.
My 13-year relationship ended. Posible pala talaga yun. Sinabi nya lang sakin na nasa dulo na sya. Hindi ko maintindihan. Pero aasa ako. Aasa ako na kapag okay na sya, magkakaron kami ng panibagong simula na di na aabot ng dulo. 🥺
nasa huli ang pagsisisi talaga
Sana nga ganyan ginawa ni Rosemarie Salvatierra kaso nun napagod naghanap ng iba tinapon un 12 years! Di man lang nagpaalam...
@@yoshiko1115 at least nagkatikiman kayo. nag video ka sana para may remembrance. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
The song, the story, the cinematography and everything is perfect. The best! Congratulations The Juans!
Lyrics:
Nakatingin na naman sa kawalan
Tinatago ang tunay na nararamdaman
Hangggang kailan ko 'to kakayanin
Hanggang saan kita uunawain
Pa'no ipaglalaban ang pagmamahal
Kung sa pananatili ay nasasakal
Nahihirapan na ating mga damdamin
'Di malaman kung pa'no aaminin
Naubos na ang luha
At mga salita
Siguro'y 'di sapat
Aking pagmamahal
Ito na ba ang hinihintay
Ang pagwawakas ng paglalakbay
Lahat nama'y ibinigay
Ngunit baliwala lang kaya paalam
Kailangan na yatang harapin
Na ito ay 'di para sa atin
Mahirap man na tanggapin
Hanggang dito lang tayo, ito na ang dulo (Ang dulo, ito na ang dulo)
Bibitawan at palalayain ka
Kasama ang pangako't alaala
Ngunit hindi kita pipilitin
Hahayaan ko na lang ito 'yong mapansin
Naubos na ang luha
At mga salita
Siguro'y 'di sapat
Aking pagmamahal
Ito na ba ang hinihintay
Ang pagwawakas ng paglalakbay
Lahat nama'y ibinigay
Ngunit baliwala lang kaya paalam
Kailangan na yatang harapin
Na ito ay 'di para sa atin
Mahirap man na tanggapin
Hanggang dito lang tayo, ito na ang dulo
Gusto mang kumapit, mahirap ipilit ang 'di para sa atin
Hihintayin ko na maramdaman mo, ito na ang dulo
Ito na ba ang hinihintay
Ang pagwawakas ng paglalakbay
Lahat nama'y ibinigay
Ngunit baliwala lang kaya paalam
Kailangan na yatang harapin
Na ito ay 'di para sa atin
Mahirap man na tanggapin
Hanggang dito lang tayo, ito na ang dulo, ang dulo (ito na ang dulo)
Hanggang dito lang tayo, ito na ang dulo
Love is not as perfect as we thought. It's not like fairytale in the movie, it is not magical. It is choosing someone despite of all the hindrances. It is committing to someone regardless of the circumstamces you face, for the rest of your life. The idea of love in the movie is not the reality.
Endurance. That is the realistic element of love.
I love your insight Ma'am Leah, but you probably missed it. The guy said "nilaban ko naman e." He tried to endure it, but endurance has its limitation just like what happened in this short film.
@@reyjhongallego1116 And that is where communication enters. Endurance has its limits, perhaps, if and only if you will fight it all alone. Imagine the power and miracle of two heads and hearts working together. Sana sinabi niya sa babae nung panahon dama na niya na paubos na, na nagkukulang na. Kasi baka sakaling mapunan pa, mapuno pa ulit. Baka mailaban pa "nila." Relationship works both ways, a very obvious matter, yet oftentimes, people tend to forget about it.
@@reyjhongallego1116 I agree. Kaya choose someone who can make you say "I can endure everything as long as it's you."
It's nice when you let go of the things that don't feel like yours anymore. There is beauty in letting go.
Anyways congrats boys! This is such a masterpiece! ♥
Share ko lang sinabi ni Chael sa relay interview nila, "Kung narating niyo na ang dulo, sana kayo ay natuto." Remember that even in our pain, there's a lesson we can get. Yakap sa lahat. Ikaw man ang nauna o ang naiwan, valid ka.
This happened recently lng. I joined the military for our future then after ng graduation ko, dun din nya sinabi na “I don’t love you anymore “. Kala ko pag-alis ko, may babalikan pa ako. Andami kong inipong kwento yun pala wala dn akong mapagkwekwentuhan ng karanasan ko habang nasa training ako. Mahirap, kasi sya lang meron ako, sya yung laging nandyan para palakasin loob ko. Perfect Package na sya, pero siguro hindi sya para sa akin. Umaabot din pala sa dulo, kahit sobrang dami nyo ng plano. Fresh pa yung sugat, wala eh. I need to let go, wala na din nmng magagawa pa. Pipilitin nalng natin maging masaya para sa kanila.🙃
Mahirap pa ung akala mo kayo lang , kala mo may uuwian kapa. Yong feeling mo , kayo2 lang nagpapalakasan ng loob since malayo sa isat isa...sa sobrang busy sa kanya kanyang buhay, Matagal na di nagparamdam , tapos dumating ung time na nagkausap kau,tapos sinabi nia na meron na sia. Sobrang sakit , sobrang hirap , nakakabaliw lalo pat narealize mo , wala palang KAYO. 🤦♂️ 😢
Hi kaya mo yan someday mahahanap mo din yung para sayo
Be strong po!✨
Galing ni kokoy, nadadala nya yung mga manonood. 😭 Congraaats, The Juans! 🥳
"Babe, I'm sorry".
3 words pero ang sakit. 😭
Ang healthy ng relationship namin ng partner ko pero sobra lang talaga kayong mapanakit, The Juans!!!! ❤️
SOBRANG related po sa situation ko on my past relationship.
More than a year now, I broke with him.
And it is both painful for us. My decision is not so abrupt. Part of it ay napagod na rin but I just felt that we should have to part ways. Back then, we were so in love and perfectly fit with each other. Lahat ng qualities na pinagp'pray ko sa isang guy ay nasa kanya. But there's one thing important I have left in my checklist at binalewala ko yon. I just shrug it off and I believed that because I prayed for it then God would intervene.
Pinagmamalaki ko ung relationship namin as good example dahil we started right: right age, right time, hindi patago and has good intentions BUT it was hurting that I am slowly drifting away. Without noticing that I am slowly compromising my views, my virtues, even my passion. My routine, my hobby.
I am so in love with him that I don't see these little changes.
And I feel that hindi ako healthy for him, and loving this way is hindering him to be a better person. The way I love him is not healthy anymore.
Mali na nagiging dependent ako sa kanya emotionally.
I didn't know I was going back to my old self.
Akala ko dati hindi ko mararanasang magpalaya ng taong mahal ko, but growing now as an adult, it is really important that you both making each other better. And choosing the hard way is a better way to understand how love works. I chose to end it not because I don't love him anymore or I already love somebody else, but because God told me way before na hindi kami para a isa't isa nagmatigas lang ako dahil mahal ko siya at ipinilit ko ung 'WILL' ko and mangyari. Pero masakit mamalo si Lord. Realizing that now na minsan kailangan natin madaan sa pagpapalo para maituwid tayo.
Maybe we started right but I hope we will continue to be on the right lane kahit hindi kami sa DULO. Now he's with someone and to be honest I am genuinely happy for them.
I really thank you #TheJuans for this song, you brought the exact message -- through your music --that I want to convey to the one I left behind.
#TheJuans
#TheJuansDuloSongStory
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Same feels with me alam mo yung mas mahirap ,may anak kame .. part of me is losing my self in this relationship . Para nakong empty can sa loob . I wish there is an easier way to lighten up my mind on what i really want parang out of truck nako saming dalawa mahal ko naman sya kaso nawalala nayung dating ako idunno kung phase lang bato. Tska hindi nalang sarili ko yung iniisip ko pati yung anak ko .
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Walang sayang sa bandang ‘to. Grabe, palaging the best. Isa sa mga best decisions ko yung pagsuporta ko sa inyo. WORTH TO STAN! JUANISTA’S BEST BOYS! I LOVE YOU, FIVE!!!
I love the song...congrats TheJuans
and the whole teams...
Love you Kokoy you're really are great actors...
Skl:
"Kaya mo pa ba? Kasi if hindi mo na kaya iendure yung pain na nararamdaman mo, wag na nating ipilit. Pareho lang tayong masisira kapag pinilit natin at ayokong mangyari yon."
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Ayan 'yung sinabi niya sa'kin sa chat bago kami magkita sa personal. Mas pinili naming bumitaw, mas pinili naming sumuko. Kasi alam naming dalawa na kapag pinilit pa namin 'yung relationship namin, wala ring pupuntahan. Parang niloloko lang namin sarili namin, ang hirap naman na parang pilit 'yung relasyon niyo diba? Gaya nga ng sabi niya, pareho kaming masisira kapag tinuloy namin. Mas pinili naming sumuko para sa happiness at inner peace naming dalawa, hindi kami sumuko para saktan 'yung isa't isa. Hindi kami sumuko kasi mahina kami, sumuko kami kasi mahal namin 'yung isa't isa.
So ayun skl, thank you & congrats the juans and sa whole team. More masterpiece to come!! Love ü :>>>
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paexplain naman po panung masisira pag tinuloy nyo ?
I'm on the point right now na gusto ko ng kumawala pero sa isip ko sa puso ko, siya hanggang dulo pero siya hindi 😭
"Pero sigurado ko na ito na yung dulo. I'm sorry."
Masakit. Totoo naman masakit. 😭🥺
you can actually see how emotional and hard for the guy Kokoy to let go of her (w/c i think Carl wanted to show us) but i think it is for the better. Letting her go means giving her the chance to find someone who will give her the world that you failed to do because you chose to end the journey which you both promised to finish together..
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OMG..nakita ko comment ko na to sa story ng fb page at IG nila..ayyyeeee... na notice ako ng mga petmalu na lodi!..😭😭
Yung inilaban ko ng 8 months.. Tapos siya sa 8 months na yan... "sure na" na hindi ako yung gsto niya hanggang "DULO"..Walong buwan na nagpapanggap na AKO PA.. Para na akong tanga.. CHAR!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Di ko alam noon kung bakit, kung bakit hindi ako..now I know why.... boh..
@@gedai8642 hahahaha..and you found me.. Now you know why...because you are ment for someone who will give you the best love you could ever ask for..#Jatjat...
Ang ganda nmannnnn.
No matter how hard you fight the feeling, you know you've already lost the battle.
It's not easy letting go of someone you love.
It's even harder when you know it's the right thing to do.
I have learned a long time ago that unconditional love is giving someone the freedom to exist and be happy, even without you.
So be free, Be happy.
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Nakikita ko ang sarili ko don sa girl , same situation, yung ayaw mo naman give up pero kailangan.
CONGRATULATIONS THE JUANS ON YOUR NEW SINGLE 🥰💖✨
Grabe naman lahat yun The Juans! The vocals and musicality. Pero napaka "mas masakit naman nito" 😢
apakaangas! color grading, shots, music, vocals, emotions. everything! The Juans anonaaaa! + Kokoy and Krissha grabe! so lit 🔥🔥
Ako'y nandito sa kadahilanang nalito ako sa ending ng "Anghel". Sabi sa comments ay panoorin daw ang "Dulo"
He gave us The Juans as blessing and The Juans gave us this masterpiece. Truly a blessing!
I remembered that day when you said that you want me to be part of your future. You even promised me that you will keep me forever. Pero hindi ko inexpect na hindi pala talaga ako kasama sa future mo. I waited for you. Walang text, walang chat, walang kahit ano akong nareceive sayo. Feeling ko bigla ka nalang umalis. Feeling ko nun baka di mo na ko gusto. Pero when you said na you are aiming to be captain. I was really shocked. Kasi kung parte talaga ko ng future mo ipapaalam mo sakin. Sasabihin mo sa akin. Alam mo namang mauunawaan ko. You even pushed me away pero sabi ko wag kasi di pa ko ready. Sabi ko wag, kasi di ko pa kaya. I gave you another chance kasi alam kong priority mo yung career mo at Priority ko yung studies ko. And now that I am already graduate happy ako kasi malapit ka nang maging captain! I am so proud of you. Alam kong kahit ilang beses kang sumuko nandito parin ako para sayo. Ilang beses mo man akong pagtabuyan babalik at babalik parin ako sayo. Pero hindi mo naman sinabi na ako lang pala yung hinihintay mong sumuko para masabi nating ito na ang dulo. To my kitkat, you will always be my future🥰✨ Fulfill your dreams and make yourself happy as always💕
Godbless THE JUANS BAND! Salamat sa palaging pagpapakalma ng mga pusong bigo't sugatan
Finally The juans speak it out.. for the one who let go.. They are also in pain, hurting... For so long...
Same words when we ended our relationship. When I thought everything was ok and we're unstoppable, hindi na pala ako, hindi na siya sigurado. 😥
This is real. You'll question things. Is it me? Is it my attitude, physical appearance? Why? How?
Pero all answer she had is "hindi ko alam"
Confusion is really thought but how come you became unsure on things that are really working well, that is sure and certain?
Save our self. Let go and heal.
"mahirap man tanggapin, hanggang dito lang tayo, ito na ang dulo"
grabe tagos bawat linya, lalo to.
THESE BOYS NEVER DISAPPOINTS. THE JUANS, I STAN!
AAAAA NAGREACT THE JUANSSSS
Ang hirap, ang sakit. Yung bigla nlang naramdaman mo na pagod kna suko kna,wlang iba pero pero may kulang
Congrats the juans! So proud of you. Great music.. naiyak ako.
" Ako na lang ba masaya araw-araw? Napipilitan kana lang ba? "
Congrats The Juans! You never fail to make me cry HAHAHA
Finally a song that made me understand why he left me. Four months ago since you've left me, leaving me confused and broken. Yung akala kong ganun lang kadali para sayo ang isuko ako, ang isuko ang sinimulan natin pero dahil sa kantang toh naintindihan ko at nakita ko na bago mo pala naisipang bumitaw sinubukan mo pa rin palang lumaban, salamat. Pero siguro nga sadyang hindi tayo magkasingtatag kaya nauna ka na sa dulo. Thank you for choosing your self, salamat for being brave enough to let go of me kahit na parehong masakit para saten. Salamat sa pitong taon. Ngayon, pipiliin nang magpatuloy ng walang ikaw at ako. Tatanggapin na, papatawarin na, lilimot na, bibitaw na at lalaya na. I will always choose gratitude over bitterness. Mag-iingat ka palagi. Be happy. Hangad ko lahat ng kabutihan para sayo. Patawad at paalam mahal. Sa huling pagkakataon gusto kong sabihin na sobrang minahal kita and this time mas papatunayan ko yun by letting you go and giving you the freedom you've asked for.
The unspoken words in my heart.. you laid it all out.. 💔
Reading this comment breaks my heart 😭
Thank you for sharing your Story.
Hugsss po. 💙💙💙
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Totoo nga pla tlga ung mga ganitong pangyyari, na napagod ka, ayaw mo na hindi dhil may iba na. Naubos ka dhil sa mga differences nyo,ndi pgkakaintindihan. Inintindi mo nman, sobra. Minahal mo nman sobra. Binigay mo nman lhat lhat. Pero pag naramdaman mo na parang ikw at ikw na lng ang umiintindi,ngmahal ng sobra,ung tipong inabuso kna kasi alam nyang anjan ka lng,hindi ka mawwala kasi nasanay sya na binibgay mo ung best mo,ung tipong wala ng natira pra sa sarili mo. Darating tlga sa point na mppagod ka,hindi kna msaya, hanggang darating kna sa dulo na ayaw mo na, tama na, itigil na.
True,,😭😭😭parang aq,, yung napagid kna na ikaw nlng yung anjn
minsan talaga you’ll never see what’s ahead of you kapag patuloy mong ipinag-lalaban yung mga bagay na hini-hinder ka mag grow and the best thing to do is to let go. Minsan, hindi sapat na mahal mo ang isang tao para ipagpatuloy lalo na kapag wala ng progress yung relationship.
Congrats The Juans and to everyone behind this awesome song & music video!
Grabe, nasaktan ako sa lines ni Kokoy na “Babe, nilaban ko naman. Pero ‘di talaga ikaw!”
Super ouch 😣 😭
Congratulations The Juans! You deserve it. thank God.
Saktan niyo pa ko The Juans. Saktan niyo pa ko. Moooooooore!!!
The hardest part of every breaking up is answering the question "why?" 😔
nakaka Goosebumps parin everytime i watch yung kanta and yung pag acting dalang dala ako tapos yung Dulo sa Netflix ko lang nakikita yun :)
Can't process my thoughts & feels yet. But gosh guys, you really are the best!! Our best boys!!! ❤ Congratulations with this new single and to everyone who's part of it & the bts people. Grabe talaga yung purpose na God has created in you to write songs like this. I love you five!! I'll always be a proud Juanista. ❤❤❤👌💯 May the Lord bless and use you more.
Ganitong ganito yung dialogue namin nung nakipag break sakin yung bf ko for four years. I was always sure of him. And everyday na kasama ko sya we seemed ok. He seemed ok. Masaya ako lagi pag kasama ko sya. And I never saw it coming. Bigla na lang one day out of nowhere ayaw nya na. Sabi nya walang iba, turned out may nakakausap na pala sya. You guys should not drag women down your dark pits. And he was never aware of the damage he caused me. It's been five months since he broke up with me and I'm still dealing with the damage, trauma and nightmares he gave me. Next month should've been our fith year. I never thought I was building a damaged man for a girl who doesn't know how to respect relationships and not have the decency to stay away from a troubled guy who is in a shakey relationship. It wasn't even shakey to start with. And I never confronted her for it. I dodged a bullet because of her and he's her to suffer with. What goes around, comes around.
Another incredible masterpiece produced by the one and only THE JUANS!!! Congratulations!!!
You'll know when it's time to go.
ngayon mas naunawaan ko nang hindi makasariling desisyon ang sumuko. masakit man pero isa yung mahirap, matapang, at selfless na desisyon lalo na kung minsan mong sinabi na "ikaw ang panalangin ko" pero kahit na gusto mong manatili, kahit na gusto mong panghawakan, at tuparin lahat ng pangako, minsan mas higit na ang sakit na dulot kaysa pagmamahal, at mapapagtanto mong hindi ikaw yung tamang tao kaya handa mong palayain ang taong mahal mo.
ang dulo ng 'tayo' ay simula ng "wag kang panghinaan, narito ako, noon pa man mayroong akong inilaan na tamang tao para sa'yo sa tamang pagkakataon."
I’m living for Kokoy’s natural acting. Ang galingggg tha Juans🤍
Letting go is the hardest thing to do. I had a boyfriend, isang taon mahigit na naging kami. We were so happy, hindi kami nag-aaway, minsan tampuhan lang. Siya laging takbuhan ko, sa kanya ko lang naoopen lahat. Sobrang komportable ako sa kanya, napakacaring and mabait siya sakin. Lagi niya akong naiiintindihan at ganun din naman ako. But one night, nagchachat ako sa kanya. Then react lang ginagawa niya, sad react. And then suddenly sabi niya "ayaw ko na" tinanong ko kung pagod na ba siya, sabi niya hindi. I asked him kung bakit, naguguluhan daw siya, ayaw na raw niya. Akala ko lang pala lahat. Kung sana nalaman ko lang agad, sa umpisa palang sana ako na yung umiwas.
Gabi gabi akong umiiyak. Hindi ba ako sapat? may mali ba sa akin? nagkulang ba ako? Kasi ginawa ko naman lahat.
Siya yung bumuo sa akin, pero siya rin pala ang dudurog sa akin. I take risk kasi akala ko baka, baka sakaling sa pagkakataong ito hindi na ako ulit iwanan. Pero ganun talaga siguro.
Minsan ang pagmamahal parang sugal. Walang kasiguraduhan kung mananatili ba talaga sila. Walang kasiguraduhan kung totoo nga ba ang sinasabi nila. Andami kong natutunan. Masyadong masakit ang magmahal ng isang taong hindi naman pala sigurado sa iyo. I love him so much to the point that I let him go. Kasi yun yung nais niya, mahirap namang ipilit kung hindi naman pala para sa atin. I hope he will find his happiness na hindi niya nahanap sa akin.
I pray that one day, All the pain will gone away. I pray that one day when I woke up in the morning wala ng sakit na mararamdaman. I pray that one day God will made a way for me to find the good man that I deserve.
Time heals everything. To all woman out there, don't give all your love to a man. Magtira kayo sa sarili niyo. If you're single now, ilaan niyo yung natitirang araw niyo sa mga magulang niyo. Love your family than everyone else because at the end of the day sila lang yung nanjan. Sila yung siguradong hindi kayo iiwan.
Make sure that you use your time sa mga tamang tao.