The Reality of Being a Military Spouse

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  • @user-qq6rc9xx8e
    @user-qq6rc9xx8e 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    military girlfriend here!! it’s been really hard he just left for basic in tx 2 days ago and i’m struggling. we have a baby on the way and it sucks he can’t be here for appointments and my belly grow. im looking forward to moving with him though!

    • @J35u5Ch4i5t
      @J35u5Ch4i5t 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is the baby his?

    • @user-ew4td7zf3j
      @user-ew4td7zf3j หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@J35u5Ch4i5t it's the utter guts... Ain't none of your business

  • @angelinacalderoni7054
    @angelinacalderoni7054 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My boyfriend is currently at BMT in TX. Your videos have helped me so much! Steve and I have been together for almost 4 years now and I’m so afraid about how our lives are going to change. I am a RN in CT working my dream job. He will be in tech school in Mississippi for (something relating to radar I think). How have you managed staying true to your dreams while still supporting your husband? Steve is very honest about wanting to get married and I want that to. I just feel like we can’t have the best of both worlds.

    • @juanalim1652
      @juanalim1652 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My husband is finishing AIT rn and we'll be 4 yrs married this month. We've been living w/ my parents this whole time because I was finishing grad school and then covid. I'm excited for us to be out on our own, but also worried about changed and my career moving forward. 🙃

  • @mikeuprockhistorian8507
    @mikeuprockhistorian8507 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They are most cutest couple, I just love watching them, I leaned so much from watching there video, keep doing what you are doing, other people can learn so much from you both,

  • @mebeBrianna
    @mebeBrianna ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My husband just started tech school (space force) and he is on the other side of the country for the next 4 months and I’m STRUGGLING

    • @AlyashaYasmeen
      @AlyashaYasmeen  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ouu girl I know how that feels 😥my husband’s tech school was almost 6 months, the best thing is to set a FaceTime schedule or talk on the phone when possible. Or even start a little hobby. If you follow me on Insta @alyashayasmeen we can chat girly🤍 you’re not in this alone

    • @cassandracastillo2736
      @cassandracastillo2736 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My boyfriend yesterday left for the Navy bootcamp

  • @KaysLife20
    @KaysLife20 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fun fact we actually had Guam but it had to be changed because of endless typhoons which sucks because Guam is beautiful & I was really looking forward to being a island girl but hey like you said we women have no control😂

    • @AlyashaYasmeen
      @AlyashaYasmeen  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      GIRLL😭😭😭omg Guam sounds beautiful, I’ll be laid up on the beach everyday! But here in Alaska it does get hella cold lol. Also when you get down here if you have a hard time just lmk I can help you @alyashayasmeen is my insta🤍

    • @KaysLife20
      @KaysLife20 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thankyou so much for your reply because I’ve been really over thinking the whole waiting process , I’m actually very excited to be living in Alaska it seems cool & I will definitely be hitting you up if I have questions I really appreciate the help

  • @smalltowngirl420
    @smalltowngirl420 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just found your channel. Thanks for your Husband Service.

  • @thelawrences9366
    @thelawrences9366 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wish I could take to you personally. My husband is about to leave for Basic training and my thoughts are everywhere. I’m also an over thinker

    • @AlyashaYasmeen
      @AlyashaYasmeen  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hey girly, 🤍I know exactly what that feels like. If you have Instagram, DM me on there and I’ll send you my Phone number and we can talk. I’ve been in the same boat, it can get very lonely and stressful so whenever you need to talk to someone you can easily just call me or shoot me a text. My Instagram is @alyashayasmeen🙏🏾

  • @zealousideal
    @zealousideal หลายเดือนก่อน

    If u find that movie let ME know. Bcz wife is the one that always sleeps soon as it starts. I retired from USAF and was also SF. Y’all a good cute couple. Take care of each other. Blessings!

  • @KaysLife20
    @KaysLife20 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m away from my fiancé right now while he’s in tech school, his first duty station is Alaska & I’ll be going with him once we get married after he graduates tech school in July, I was wondering if any one could tell me how long it takes for you to be able to join your spouse wherever they are once you’re married?

    • @AlyashaYasmeen
      @AlyashaYasmeen  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey🤍 It depends on housing honestly. It took us MONTHSSS🙄 but once you’re on his orders it speeds up the process. So once you guys get married, he will put you on his orders and get the process started. I would say just make sure they’re clear, cause they had me and my husband doing the run around cause misinformation. But if you have any questions you can also call On base Housing🤍 do you know if you’ll be at Eielson?

    • @KaysLife20
      @KaysLife20 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think he’s going to be at elmendorf or something like that so we’ll be stationed in anchorage, but we are going to get married in July while he’s home for raps for about 2 weeks. I just hope it doesn’t take TOO long for me to get there & we’re planning to live off base because we have a dog that would be classified as a “dangerous breed” so we just think living off base would be a lot easier for us

    • @KaysLife20
      @KaysLife20 ปีที่แล้ว

      About how many months did it take you guys? I’m just so ready to be in a different scenery honestly I’m so sick of Louisiana even tho I love my city & things of that nature I’m ready to go lol!

    • @cassandracastillo2736
      @cassandracastillo2736 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      U can immediately if ur married an on his orders

  • @cheyennemiley4158
    @cheyennemiley4158 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi! I am 40hours away on a 3 hour time difference from my fiancé!!

  • @manimona3902
    @manimona3902 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im curious i never seen the lower rank houses are they two bedrooms are just one ?

    • @AlyashaYasmeen
      @AlyashaYasmeen  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hello🥰 They go up to 3 bedrooms now! Especially if you have kiddos

  • @mckyliepeterson
    @mckyliepeterson 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Airforce wife and we’re about to move onto base together and we have no idea what is going on because nobody is giving him clear information 😳😳

    • @AlyashaYasmeen
      @AlyashaYasmeen  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Girl I feel you, he can contact his first Sergeant and he or she can lead him in the right way. I hope this helps!🫶🏾

  • @cynthiaxlopezz
    @cynthiaxlopezz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    my boyfriend is going to be on deployment this December. It’s going to be hard for me.

    • @AlyashaYasmeen
      @AlyashaYasmeen  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It was super hard for me as well, the best thing that helped me was staying busy and finding a hobby and staying communicated with my husband whenever. And just remember it’s hard on both sides so when you guys talk, focus on the positive it really helps🤍🫶🏾

  • @lexikailyns
    @lexikailyns 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can I live with my husband during his AIT??

  • @tymiracle4093
    @tymiracle4093 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My wife is at bct now so it's definitely hard and it's only been a week so far

    • @AlyashaYasmeen
      @AlyashaYasmeen  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey Ty! It’ll be over sooner than you think. You can send mail to her through sandbox once she sends her address and it helps a lot!

    • @tymiracle4093
      @tymiracle4093 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AlyashaYasmeen thank you! I'm look it up

    • @manimona3902
      @manimona3902 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you going to be a military husband spouse? ( I think I worded It right lol ) but I was just wondering how it is for you if so because I'm a female and I'm joining the military and my boyfriend soon to be husband is going to be a military spouse as a man I just don't see any content when it comes to them just woman.

  • @luhgator3k
    @luhgator3k ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can your spouse live on base with you? Or do you have to live off base with your wife?

    • @AlyashaYasmeen
      @AlyashaYasmeen  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can live on base with your spouse!

  • @quelquun2018
    @quelquun2018 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My boyfriend is a reserve marine but he still go on missions…my baby 😢

    • @AlyashaYasmeen
      @AlyashaYasmeen  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ugh I know that’s so hard😫😭don’t worry queen, he’ll be back in no time 🩵 just take it day by day