Does The Dating Pool Shrink For Men As They Get Older?

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  • @christianpaul-cp6746
    @christianpaul-cp6746 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Bro men peaking in high school? That only applies to either jocs who don’t make it big after high school, or bad boys who eventually end up in prison. Just about everyone else will improve over time, as long as they take care of themselves.

    • @jukejoint523jordan6
      @jukejoint523jordan6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Facts

    • @chrischreative2245
      @chrischreative2245 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Most Men don’t start to peak until 32-35.

    • @tylerschafer1296
      @tylerschafer1296 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@chrischreative2245 this is so true. Just turned 29 and though my peak was 18 when I was young. Just relizing now I aint even there. More fit, more money, more game.

    • @LeadLeftLeon
      @LeadLeftLeon ปีที่แล้ว

      Any male who thinks high school or college are the best years of their life is pure soy. In those years They’re broke and surrounded by women who can’t dress.

    • @RichardsWorld
      @RichardsWorld ปีที่แล้ว

      Men in high school can maybe bust more nuts, but that's about it.

  • @michaelthebarbarian3380
    @michaelthebarbarian3380 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Woman are born with intrinsic value (Their sex appeal), men are not. But a man's value grows as men age (Income, net worth), while a woman's mostly diminishes.
    My experience is that a man's dating pool only get's larger as they age.

    • @rashredpaul4133
      @rashredpaul4133 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      His dating pool gets bigger as long as he is improving his income and social status

    • @deenaprice1524
      @deenaprice1524 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      A small, tiny number of men. Dad bod with gray hair and debt does not attract 20 year-old hotties. Pinch yourself. That was a dream.

    • @michaelthebarbarian3380
      @michaelthebarbarian3380 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@deenaprice1524 do you know the difference between "debt" and "net worth"? You don't typically have lots of one and also the other.

  • @prizz3175
    @prizz3175 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Brainless women: let's go to the most soulless cities in America and try and find love

  • @nancyj795
    @nancyj795 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    If a guy is physically elite, educated, and rich, he never runs out of options. Edit: those guys are very, very rare however. It's just basic statistics: he'd have to be an outlier in three of the most important categories in the sexual marketplace (.02 x .02 x .02) - do the math.

  • @victoriaman117
    @victoriaman117 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Nikki Benz saying anything is fake is hilariously ironic lol

  • @Dwbulldog04
    @Dwbulldog04 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Men usually go for looks and fertility. As a woman ages those characteristics disappear resulting in the number of men being interested decreasing. Although women want an attractive man, they will sacrifice that for a man that makes good money and can provide security. A man hits his salary peak in his mid 40’s so if he can keep himself up, he can have a nice pool of women to pick from which includes much younger women. If looks is one of the main items men look for in finding a woman, it’s hard for the 40 year old to compete with younger women.

  • @kennymichaelalanya7134
    @kennymichaelalanya7134 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That's why it's more important for a woman to get into a serious relationship before she turns 30. Don't wait too long. For older men, they don't have that issue. Diego Rivera was like almost 20 years older than Frida who was like 21 when they married

  • @ethxo6734
    @ethxo6734 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Mens dating pool does decrease.
    Money just keeps that door open.

    • @stayswervin554
      @stayswervin554 ปีที่แล้ว

      nope broke boys get tons of chicks

    • @ethxo6734
      @ethxo6734 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Old ones? Nah. 😂

    • @stayswervin554
      @stayswervin554 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ethxo6734 define old like 80?

    • @ethxo6734
      @ethxo6734 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not even 80. I’d say mid/late 40s men start approaching there danger zone.
      For the same reasons that men say late 20s is the danger zone for women for youth and fertility, if a man is in there 40s and they haven’t found there purpose, don’t have a career or stability established they probability it’ll come later in life drastically diminishes.
      Once in your 30s/40s it becomes harder to be disciplined and stay in shape. So this picture about how men just have this pool of infinite women for the rest of there life’s is laughable.
      Just look around. What is the reality?

    • @stayswervin554
      @stayswervin554 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      nope depends on how attractive, in shape, funny, and successful you are tbh some guys are 60-70 and can still pull attractive young women.
      how successful and how well you took care of yourself and a lil genes determine if you decline if your a male.
      in general, tho most men won't fit the description because most guys let themselves go in their twenties or after them.
      you got guys as old as elon, and kevin samuals (currently deceased) pulling pretty chicks half their age
      yet look at all the women who divorced billionaires they don't really get guys who are attractive, the guys even if they are a lame still can pull something semi-decent

  • @manuelrobledo5106
    @manuelrobledo5106 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Depends on a Man’s Income or Net worth.Also his expectations.. You could be semi broke but as long as you have more than the ones that you were pulling from you will get.

  • @antilaw9911
    @antilaw9911 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm 59. I was a so called nobody in high school. Never dated. Low self esteem. Not into sports. Not until my late 30"s I decided to get counseling to know myself better. Didn't start dating until after 40. I date tons of women and lots of sex all the time. People I went to school with that were popular, they are divorce with kids and ruined lives, child support etc. Turned into alcoholics. Yes along the way I find women to be very fucked up in the head.

  • @victoriaman117
    @victoriaman117 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Western women are empowered with their sexuality and they flaunt that power throughout their 20s and 30s not realizing that it is slowly going away every day.
    Men either get their stuff together in their 20s and 30s or dont. However for those who do, their value only increases as they go forward

  • @KP-us1ld
    @KP-us1ld ปีที่แล้ว +5

    For these ladies, it's not hard to find a good guy. But all of you keep going for the same guys and ignoring good candidates.

  • @triplecrownwinner6897
    @triplecrownwinner6897 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mine got bigger…I’m a 46 year old male and I’m getting the most looks and numbers as I ever have.

    • @n.m.3760
      @n.m.3760 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Men age like fine wine.

  • @D12345
    @D12345 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm pretty sure at 80 a man's dating pool is not as wide as at 40. What a preposterous statement!

  • @jk-califkid5017
    @jk-califkid5017 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Miami is a cesspool for relationships. Get out of LA & Miami, girl. Five guys sharing an expensive place: high end homeless.

  • @bobstar6837
    @bobstar6837 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    40, yeah right sweetheart 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @jk-califkid5017
      @jk-califkid5017 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She looks a lot older than 40. Wild living will age you.

    • @TOF2485
      @TOF2485 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣😂

    • @JosephSaad13
      @JosephSaad13 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      looks 60

  • @bouncerighttoleftandletyas9093
    @bouncerighttoleftandletyas9093 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Adam is the type of annoying that you keep listening too for some weird reason. Don’t hate the player hate the game

  • @bobbybrooks5496
    @bobbybrooks5496 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s like the guy doesn’t understand no one’s marrying these women…the older women don’t be getting wife’d up anymore

  • @donh1572
    @donh1572 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nope, the older I get the more desperate women become…options increase more and more as the number of women getting divorced increases and think the grass is greener

  • @paulhart7739
    @paulhart7739 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dating pool only increases if guys are dating. Some guys are just happily married. Married guys shouldn’t have to deal with all of the crap women give us because single guys are able to date more easily

  • @NSG2003
    @NSG2003 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She is not hot….she poked her face too much

    • @brandonhallam51
      @brandonhallam51 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It doesnt move... looks like a rubber mask

  • @tomcarrow
    @tomcarrow ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A divorced 40 year old woman is way more appealing than a never married 40 year old.

  • @CbusRon
    @CbusRon ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The dude that said high school is the peak was off with a lot of what he was saying. It’s guys line this that hold the convo back. The women understood better than he did smh

  • @katkat6466
    @katkat6466 ปีที่แล้ว

    It dwindles. You can't tell a hot, young woman that, she'll find out on her own.

  • @chrissalley9468
    @chrissalley9468 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Its like a game of spades. The wild joker will always get the last book. A man with resources and appeal is the wild joker. At the end, he will be left standing

  • @mdf1951
    @mdf1951 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its not that I cant get a date, but who wants to? Women carry way too much baggage for me. Kids, debt, dishonesty, cant cook, keeps a dirty house ,overweight, and the list goes on and on. Tried to get interest in women in church but they seem as messed up as the rest of them. I have women friends and keep it that way, no investment is necessary.

  • @LeadLeftLeon
    @LeadLeftLeon ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Options should expand up to a certain age As long as he doesn’t make stupid life decisions and build negative equity: having kids with a woman he half-loved, being a fat bastard, stuck in a career without a business

  • @juice8225
    @juice8225 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That dude in the black shirt is 100 percent right. Personal experience. Truth

    • @jasiah1313
      @jasiah1313 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Damn I feel bad for you if you peaked in high school or college. 😂 it’s all down hill from here for you. If you are in the gym and take good care of yourself men usually peak as we get older.

    • @juice8225
      @juice8225 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jasiah1313 your missing the point. Priorities change. When you are young you have a good time and spend time on your looks. When you get older it's more important to grow a family and be wealthy.

    • @jasiah1313
      @jasiah1313 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@juice8225 not everyone wants a family though. I’m 29 making great money living in Miami. In the gym 6 days a week and travel. On a flight to Los Angeles right now. A lot of men are walking away from marriage and not wanting kids.

    • @juice8225
      @juice8225 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jasiah1313 true

    • @juice8225
      @juice8225 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Stop.At.Nothing it's all about sacrifice and tradeoff. Look at the richest billionaires, most are unhealthy (with the exception of Bezos and his steroid/stem cell injections) and have a poor family life.

  • @EmpireGuy91
    @EmpireGuy91 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dude in the blue has an ego the size of a Planet 🌎 lol

  • @KidCity1985
    @KidCity1985 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a woman 62, definitely peaking.
    Adam, we call that arrested development.

  • @matthuffman4788
    @matthuffman4788 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Lol, how is this even part of the Valuetainment channel? You guys should start a separate channel for this type of ridiculousness no?

  • @magfromrags2873
    @magfromrags2873 ปีที่แล้ว

    Joke idea, ( incomplete ) compare Vegas slots to Miami tinder slots, etc. Good video thanks!

  • @donaldperrotta8514
    @donaldperrotta8514 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely it does !

  • @B__C
    @B__C ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If Amberis interested in experimenting in any additional ways, I’m available. And let’s be honest, Amber really doesn’t have a lot of competition.

  • @briankhall9963
    @briankhall9963 ปีที่แล้ว

    I from NYC transported to Asheville

  • @clays1507
    @clays1507 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s doesn’t shrink. At 60 I’m spoiled for choice.

  • @slowridefpv9668
    @slowridefpv9668 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can’t even commit to buying a loaf of bread much less a long term relationship ;)

  • @danielj3010
    @danielj3010 ปีที่แล้ว

    5:45 mic drop

  • @drugonzalez7908
    @drugonzalez7908 ปีที่แล้ว

    She made a good point a lot of good looking people in Miami ! But as someone who lives in orlando we are very well off compared to the rest of the country ! How you going to say we look normal when you look about as normal as it gets !

  • @micangelo
    @micangelo ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m 40 years old with 6 children and I’m right at the threshold of the average earner in these United States. I can’t figure this ish out, but now dating is way better than even my college days. I don’t really like younger women, but the women in my age range that I let now are way higher quality than ever before. I don’t know what this one guy is talking about.

    • @micangelo
      @micangelo ปีที่แล้ว

      that I *meet now

  • @akumacode
    @akumacode ปีที่แล้ว

    It's Miami. *confused jackie chan face*

  • @LeadLeftLeon
    @LeadLeftLeon ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Men too have a biological clock. About 2X more time than women get. You still have to look good. Otherwise 60 year old grandpas with all their experience and wealth would be the top players

  • @Ducotevision
    @Ducotevision ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel like these people are out of touch with the audience they’re serving….. or the ones that linger on to this advice they’re so fair from actually being able to use it that it acts as hopium …. The audience that they think they’re talking to aren’t on here listening to this watered down “advice” if you’d like to call it that.

    • @jk-califkid5017
      @jk-califkid5017 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have noticed that all these TH-camrs just interview each other. Norhing creative about this method. Making conclusions about dating from living in Miami is so uninformed and of no value.

    • @Ducotevision
      @Ducotevision ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jk-califkid5017 yeah Miami is really out of touch with the rest of the state/cities…. I’m from the south and it’s a weird and highly fake environment. You hear it when the blonde talks about men…. After growing up there her entire life.

  • @adebowalegbenga4316
    @adebowalegbenga4316 ปีที่แล้ว

    Perfect comment from that lady in Black...
    Men do have success eventually with Relationships, women have more success with Sex

  • @usuario-dc8bb
    @usuario-dc8bb ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂 YOU MAD!!! SALTY

  • @jaredb9523
    @jaredb9523 ปีที่แล้ว

    Trust me it shrinks it's not how it used to be

  • @ElHabibi369
    @ElHabibi369 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Holy shit,,,,,you are 41...???? Thought u r like on ur 50s

  • @briankhall9963
    @briankhall9963 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm 61 and better than I've ever been. Women still think I'm attractive. Of course I've always looked young.

  • @eibonphoenix842
    @eibonphoenix842 ปีที่แล้ว

    These people are so out of touch with reality. In "real life" all is see is men getting better, making more money, getting better women. And not just "elite" men.

  • @Bobbyfuckingaxelrod
    @Bobbyfuckingaxelrod ปีที่แล้ว

    The only characteristic the older men can get away with is physical. Now if you are in shape yes you’re gonna love life. However, if you’re not that physically attractive and not in shape BUT you’re rich, have game and hold frame well, you’re still hitting baddies into your 60’s if not ‘til death.
    P.s. Nikki the high school and even college comment is unfounded. Studies have shown the human brain doesn’t even fully develop until 25 or so. More recent studies out of the UK show it’s more like 30’s. Do you think men who apply themselves aren’t getting better and better into 30’s and 40’s knowing this? They are. Are there losers who just stagnate? Of course, but no man who is actually trying is going to peak anywhere near 18 or 20’s. They are only just beginning.

  • @jbp122
    @jbp122 ปีที่แล้ว

    Women’s fertility is the limiting factor.

  • @pointuout2020
    @pointuout2020 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes it does! I don’t get to date any one!

  • @joecam1167
    @joecam1167 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Holy crap.
    This drivel is embarrassing to the pbd channel / brand. If we wanted content like this, we'd hit up the holiday in bar at 130 am to listen to drunk cougars and immature frat boys plan their mating rituals

    • @jk-califkid5017
      @jk-califkid5017 ปีที่แล้ว

      Adam had a great show as an extension to Valutainment. Now he has drivel shows about relationships. Boring guests saying nothing new. Just complaining about life. Adam is full of himself. Needs to be more humble.

  • @dazfranklin4376
    @dazfranklin4376 ปีที่แล้ว

    They find a good man just to ruin him by leaving after ur bored because he was to nice 🤣 dog eat dog world

  • @LeadLeftLeon
    @LeadLeftLeon ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Adam declares himself high value male. But why does he only bring old girls onto the show. Bring some 20 somethings in their prime on. Or are they too young and stupid to make for good conversation

  • @JackTheStrippa
    @JackTheStrippa ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It doesn't matter if a man gets fat or doesnt take care of themselves that doesnt take away from the fact that they have the potential to.
    Because age is not really a factor for men you could be 50 knocing down baddies.
    The thing is men dont take care of themselves but this "fat overweight" man at 40 got in shape and started making money that closed dating pool opens right back up.

  • @Ericdgarcia
    @Ericdgarcia ปีที่แล้ว

    No

  • @ferregu12
    @ferregu12 ปีที่แล้ว

    There’s less high value men < the quantity of hot girls

  • @philmerling8356
    @philmerling8356 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Women have a shelf life. Men do not!

    • @SilVia-hs2kb
      @SilVia-hs2kb ปีที่แล้ว

      By the looks of your lack of hair your exp. date is long gone.

    • @deenaprice1524
      @deenaprice1524 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keep dreaming. Debt. Pot bellies. Gray hair. Receding hair. Decreasing testosterone. Decreasing stamina in the bedroom. Loss of muscle mass. Wrinkles. Everybody has a shelf life. You only break that trend by "buying it".

  • @dalebonehart211
    @dalebonehart211 ปีที่แล้ว

    No, but it does for women.

  • @kawikak.1657
    @kawikak.1657 ปีที่แล้ว

    Should get rollo on with the chick in the black

  • @benh580
    @benh580 ปีที่แล้ว

    Men peak In late 20s and 30s

  • @matthewjohnson1643
    @matthewjohnson1643 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mens pool doesn’t shrink because we will date rich poor fat or skinny.

  • @traezeeofor
    @traezeeofor 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thsi video mad eme fall in love with "Amber Joylane"👍

  • @ryanm9628
    @ryanm9628 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m 41. All the girls on bumble are fat. Sorry, I don’t like mom bods. I’m highly successful and will take my time.

  • @pointuout2020
    @pointuout2020 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol

  • @sebastiang00
    @sebastiang00 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The market place as skewed as this man’s nose

  • @eyes2338
    @eyes2338 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol shes the fake one from l.a lol

  • @scottsimon769
    @scottsimon769 ปีที่แล้ว

    Last 🤬 💩

  • @cliffthecoolcat
    @cliffthecoolcat ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Adam dating 25 year olds is a product of societies values. He and the women he dates share the same values.
    Had Adam been part of a different community he would have been married at 21 and would be going to his kids graduation right now..
    There are two sides of the coin to look had Adam.
    A: how lucky for him, he gets to be with young women and party..
    B: how sad for him he has no wife, no home , no family, no dog.

    • @cliffthecoolcat
      @cliffthecoolcat ปีที่แล้ว

      @Dislike Button Adam will never live option B. it's difficult. It's a lot of growing with great spiritually difficulty with great sacrifice. It's a lot easier to party with young women and have no responsibility. Adam is where he belongs, a treasure to women who only gets better with age.

  • @vincesorrentino7871
    @vincesorrentino7871 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nicki talking fake

  • @sebastiang00
    @sebastiang00 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lost all credibility by saying men peak in high school. Go listen to Rollo Tomasi the god father

  • @jk-califkid5017
    @jk-califkid5017 ปีที่แล้ว

    Adam's $O$ show is evolved into only about relationships. The $ aspect has gone from the podcast. That is a shame. Adam just parrots Rollo. Boring.

  • @putuharris
    @putuharris ปีที่แล้ว

    cry me a river 🤣😭😁

    • @putuharris
      @putuharris ปีที่แล้ว

      ugly chicks got it way easier than ugly dudes bcuz of this: makeup

  • @Dankehum
    @Dankehum ปีที่แล้ว

    Mens dating pool increases with age if they aren’t not settled in their early 20s. Woman’s dating pool decreases with age as their looks fade away.