I was more excited about this video, and thought it was something truly special. How wonderful it felt watching you reach out to us, sharing the magic, and celebrating it. All the while navigating the sights and sounds of the city! We had a blast connecting with each other. It's like no other dynamic, never uneven, and the most beautiful display of love and trust between you all. Here's to being great together! 🥂
Thank you! So happy you enjoyed the video Q&A and the setting! Hope to find a better mic soon so the airplanes and city isn’t so noisy behind us! Fun spot to do future Q&A with all the unanswered questions in the bowl!
Happy Anniversary again ❤🎉 You all answered these questions with so much detail. I like how you pulled them out of the bowl rather than cherry picking them off the phone screen or something like a lot of Q&A videos can be. As always there is so much love, care, adoration and respect for each other. You are all so funny, and every video continues to get better and better. Much love to you all ❤❤❤ xxx
@@feyas_world thank you for the anniversary wishes! Was a fun way to do it and I think we will keep this method… fun for us not knowing what will come up, and makes the chats more candid. Much love to you as well! 🩵🩵🩵
@JessAlexZac yeah absolutely, you took your time, and you could really tell how well you've learnt from one another over the last year, plus I think you all learnt the odd new thing as well the more you opened the topics. Zac was doing a great job answering questions too, he obviously still gets very shy and flustered at times, which is very adorable, and you amd Alex clearly like making him like that, but it also brings out his fun side a lot. A year goes so fast and the three of you have achieved so much in that time, but again, I think that's a credit to the strength of your relationship with each other. 🩷🍍🩷🍍🩷🍍 xxx
I can feel the love and care you have for each other radiating through my screen. I hope I can find love like this! Poly or otherwise. Love your content, guys!
It's fun to see your personalities interact. You guys are different but with similar values and views. Loved that you recorded outside, despite the noise. This was a treat. Happy Anniversary!! Keep them coming, and the videos too.
Thank you for the anniversary wishes! We need to try to find a new microphone that cuts out the outside noise better! - would love to keep doing videos on the rooftop if we can get the sound better 🩵🩵🩵
I am absolutely in awe of you three and your relationship ❤ you’alls have turned this Q&A into a sit down and chat with friends video, I had my glass of wine while watching this! . I love that you guys went into the depth of each question and sought each other’s opinions. It’s so easy to see why your relationship absolutely thrives. I am definitely looking forward to other Q&A later on! My questions are still pending! 😅 oh boy! Zac is a definition of introvert. “Not having emotional bandwidth” is my favorite excuse to not go where there are a million people or annoying people. Happy Anniversary again and hope the lemonade was delicious! (Alex is a hooooot!😂😂😂)
@@Tejalcreates thank you! So glad you grabbed your own glass and joined us! Looking forward to continuing the Q&A questions in future episodes! - the pull out of the bowl method was fun for us and we enjoyed being able to candidly discuss! Haha - his bandwidth comments are so funny, he is def the biggest introvert of us… and is doing amazingly sharing on YT. Social media exposure like this definitely took some getting used to for him 🤗🩵
@@JessAlexZac a big thank you for taking the time to answer each and every comment. You have no idea how much, I as a follower and a fan appreciate it! ❤
You guys are wonderful. You have an awesome relationship. All three of you are very handsome. Zack’s facial expressions are way too funny. He says everything with his facial expressions.
It's always a pleasure to learn from you and to have your points of view on how you navigate things in the relationship. I think Zac love threat speaks of how deeply is feeling are. It's actually a beautiful love declaration IMO 🫶. You guys are also very funny, especially Zac funny looks and Alex comments. Can't wait to see the next episode with the others questions.
So happy you enjoyed this Q&A segment 😊 His “I love you” was just perfect - we agree with it being a beautiful declaration of his feelings 🩵 hope you continue to enjoy the channel!
I just had an epiphany moment listening to a song you've used quite a few times "out of the blue" by Punctual and how it seems to fit what you guys are saying at the end of the video about having been hurt, not looking for someone but somehow it was him, it was you and it clicked 🥰 (or am I reading things 🫣)
Loved the whole Q&A video. Two videos back to back, that's lovely. The rooftop space is insanely beautiful; Avgeeks' heaven with the SAN final approaches ✈️❤
So happy you enjoyed the video! Trying to keep the videos rolling very regularly! Thank you, it’s been so nice to have that outdoor space, was fun to utilize the view for our backdrop… now just need a mic that can quiet the airplane and city noise during videos!
As always, so fun to watch your videos guys! Interesting questions and great answers. I hope you all are enjoying making these videos, because I am certainly enjoying watching them. Thanks so much for sharing a part of your lives with us. Hope you enjoy your anniversary.💝
Great video guys. Happy anniversary to you all. Thank for your honest and candid answers. Pulling questions out of the bowl like that makes it feel quite spontaneous, which is great. You’ve all made something quite special over the last year. Best wishes for the next years to come.
Thank you so much for the well wishes! We like this method better too - much more fun randomly answering and seeing what questions followers come up with!
Thanks for answering my question. All that cleaning shows how much love you both have for Zac for sure ❤ Also love when you went inside Alex is cuddling one of the cats haha. Great vod Jess, Alex, Zac, Tux, Saffie, Irina & Voodoo ❤❤❤
@@frostiesarah2315 so glad yours was pulled! Thanks for sending it in for us! So happy you enjoyed - looking forward to answering more of the questions in future episodes!
First, I want to apologize to you guys for not sending any questions. I have an issue that is killing me with IG Q&A and that is why I couldn't participate. Ok, now going back to the video. I really enjoyed this video mostly for three reasons. First, I got to understand more about your troupe and how it works for you guys, and second, I got to know and see more about the dynamic you three have with each other by answering questions and your body reaction to each other while you were answering the questions and third, it also clarifies some issues that I have while in my our own polyamorous relationship with my boys and to hear from you how you work out some issues that we also came across too. Knowing that we too when with some of those issues helps me understand more clearly why and how we approach work differently for each relationship. So it was very informative and awesome guys!!💖💖💖 Jess, this is a suggestion. Maybe you can do a live Q&A in the future.
I now understand how polyamoury works after you explained it, especially how the relationship develops. Alex is right, young people nowadays think beauty is everything and should be given money just because they look good
Thank you for sharing, you can see its not as easy for Zac, understandably after his ordeal with social media, the best video you put out was Day in the life Zac showed his great sence of humour and the Pinapples best friend you all were so relaxed, I think your going to need another 3 QA just answer all the questions left in that jar lol all the the best to you Jess, Alex and Zac Love is Love and we need more of it in our lives.❤🧡💙🍍Hope your lemon aid was delicious 🤪
The lemonade was superb 😁😋 Yes, he has come a long way since he began to join us here on this channel! Love seeing his personality come through more and more as we go along 🥰 We will be doing more like this and continue to answer questions from the bowl! Was a fun candid way for us to do it. I’m glad others are enjoying!
I’m using ChatGPT to decipher, as I don’t know the power puff girls well! 😅😋 “ Blossom (Alex): This suggests you are seen as the leader, someone who is organized, responsible, and often takes charge in situations. You likely come across as level-headed and maybe even perfectionistic at times. Bubbles (Jess): Jess is likely being described as sweet, kind-hearted, and gentle. Bubbles’ personality is also marked by innocence, emotional depth, and a loving nature, so Jess might be viewed as nurturing and sensitive, but still capable of surprising strength. Buttercup (Zac): Zac is being compared to Buttercup, who is tough, rebellious, and more aggressive or bold in their approach. This could mean Zac is seen as strong-willed, assertive, or someone who doesn’t back down easily and might have a more carefree or rule-breaking personality.” Accurate interpretation??
What A great team , All 3 are so special in their own character in life but they all 3 are so respectful to each other feeling ! I just love to watch them since I suddenly look at their smile n great personality ,,hope see u all 3 in person one day,,, Best In California
A team is a perfect description! Thank you, each brining their own unique personality and strength to our family 🥰 hope you continue to enjoy the channel!
I just discovered you guys a few weeks ago. But I have grown to enjoy your vids. so much. I'm a senior citizen much much older than you guys. No nothing about polyamory, I was never able to have a one on one relationship. But you guys seem so happy together, I'm sure it's work but I wish you the best. I lived in SF during the 70-80's. I lost all my friends. So you guys are very young to me. Keep doing what you are doing, I enjoy it so much.
Thank you for joining us and we are so glad you have enjoyed the videos and our channel! So sorry for the loss of your friends/loved ones. Such a tragedy! Much love from all of us 🤗🩵
The lack of a one on one relationship doesn’t mean you could have never had one, it’s a “luck” thing IMO. I thought for sure I was unfit in some way for one (gave up) but then met someone. It will be 35 years this year. Lots of people actually are damaged by. I’m really happy with mine but many times it could have ended due to situations. 🩷
I know jess and alex are married, i wanna know even though legally you cant married Zac but would you guys consider a ceremony for you three? I mean a ceremony is just that it doesnt define the marriage but to me it is important because it is a statement to eachother that lets them know, no matter what i got you.
This is a great question! - going to add it to the bowl for a future Q&A! Short answer - yes, it’s been casually talked about 😊 Insight: Alex and I(Jess) never had a wedding. We just signed papers at the courthouse. We’ve thought about some kind of commitment ceremony (not sure what it would look like) for years even before Zac.
@JessAlexZac I just looked it up and it seems to be ok for ya'll 3 to do a commitment ceremony.. even though it wouldn't be legal like your marriage (Jess and Alex)..
Alex you make me laugh by the way love the shawl. Really like all your videos. If you ever go to Italy you have to go to Florence and Lake Como . I think you all fit together very well keep going guys love you all❤
Wowwwwwwwww what a view - Yeah the 3 of you and also the rooftop .....perfect back drop with the planes landing too and the sky turning to dusk Zac reminds me of the cartoon comic character Haddock from Tintin....sooooooooo handsome and suave with the beard and the hairstyle i love watching you guys .....do more rooftop vlogs - the scenery is fantastic BTW nice choice of shirt Zac
Haha - it’s his dark beard and hair! 😋 So glad you enjoyed us doing the Q&A on our rooftop! We plan to do more soon, have many more questions to pull from the bowl! 🎉
Thanks guys. I enjoyed the question and answers. It was interesting. I’ve wondered how a Throuple works. I have followed you for years. There is something so sweet and genuine about you guys. I do have one comment: Alex, please remove your shirt when you’re in the bedroom. 😅 Thank you. 😘👍 Happy Anniversary 🥳🎉🎉🎊
@@FranciscoOsorio-yj8tg lol - an hour of video chatting is hardly much time wasted in the scope of our life. We are living our life together and enjoying it. The entire point of these is to enjoy discussing topics that our viewers send to us in long conversation form… if you don’t have interest in the convo, no problem - no need to watch… but as you can see from the comments, there are many others that enjoy it.
I noticed in many of your videos Zac tends to leans his body more against Jess than to Alex, even when you take pics in group or when you cuddle together.
It's probably because Jess' torso is usually turned towards him as well. Alex tends to bend forward a lot, probably because he's cold. He doesn't make a lot of eye contact either. I think he might be really shy, even more than Zac.
I (Jess) am by far the most physical. Alex and Zac are not naturally that way much - so their relationship with me as well as each other is different. We explain in the video there are 4 different relationships going on… 1. Jess and Alex 2. Jess and Zac 3. Alex and Zac 4. Jess Alex Zac Each is unique and different - none “better” - just different. Both Alex and Zac had to learn to be more physically affectionate to Jess than is their natural. (Cuddling, holding hands… etc.) Shyness, differing comfort with PDA, and different love languages all come into play. Time shared together also comes into play… Alex and I (Jess) have been together for 10 years, Zac has been with each of us for 1. A 1 year relationship and the interaction is going to be different than that of a 10 year relationship. Expecting multiple partners to be exactly the same with each other is unrealistic. We are happy and share immense love in our relationships together, we don’t expect or want each other to be the same.
@@JessAlexZac Yes I saw you spoke having different kind of relationship with each other, but you were not that specific, but I assume something like this, that maybe Alex was not so physical or maybe you did? I don't know my english is not so good, thanks for the clarification, you 3 look lovely together.
I want you all to know I am gonna try your anniversary dinner that looked really good. I’m excited to try it out. I hope I do it justice happy anniversary and I love the question Q&A. I wish I had known about it. I just pop in from time to time time and c u guys. You all are just gorgeous.
I think for an ordinary relationship you need two smart people to make it work; for a three-person one, you need so much more emotionally intelligent people as well as non-jealous personalities than the average.
This could be true! Definitely have to navigate communication, disagreements, jealousy, and emotions in general at a whole different level with multiple partners! 🤗🩵
Thats a very interesting conversation about sugar daddies. I think I relate to Alex. 8 years! Thats funny. Thanks for sharing part of your lives. Maybe my lesson is to understand and not judge. A throuple is far beyond my comprehension even as a gay male as its not visible in mainstream nor anyone I know of. Very courages to share your lives online open to the public forum. I follow you now and again. Good health and wellbeing to the 3 of you .....
Thank you for the well wishes, and we are happy this glimpse into our life has shown something new and different from what you’ve known! Hope you continue to enjoy the channel! 😊
As far as sheets when you buy a large bed . California King is equal to 2 super singles. You can always do 2 full size mattresses and a topper. Very large bed and standard sheets.
Any mattress company can make a custom mattress. I am a single woman and have a 8×7' bed. For sheets I use cal. king or king on bottom and I don't like a top sheet so soft cotton blankets on top with a light comforter. I live in S. Florida so I'm never cold. Don't pay some big company for custom bedding. It's easier to find than you think. Also, my cat gets half the bed 💖🐈
My question is! Does the one that was added to your guys relationship have more feelings or emotions towards other or not. Some guys get weird out after having feelings for that person and not the other guy.
Just one more comment about the bed search, Alaska King 9'X9' 108" X108' by the look of that bedroom could only be about 10' X 9' let alone trying to open the door or change the sheets, ok Zac need to give the your office to sleep in lol love you guys. stay safe.🥰
Haha, yes - the new room wouldn’t fit anything bigger than what we currently have. Our couch is modular and can be put together to form a ginormous bed… fun for special “sleepover” nights on the living room because it’s so much space for us all to sprawl out and also have all 4 pets with us. 🎉 Maybe we will get a custom or Alaskan king in the future when we have a bigger bedroom!
@@JessAlexZac Well that makes a lot of sense and more room for fun times. I would like to thank you for your kindness in responding to your fans, I been watching your journey over the past 3/4 chaptors as you put it, with the ups and downs, it has made you stronger to be the man you are today. VERY SPECIAL and Alex and Zac must be so proud of you.🥰🍍🍋
How about adding a girl. I want Alex to cook for me, Zac to just look cute and blush a lot and I’ll snuggle Jess to help the snuggle quota. No spicy sleep involved but happy to watch the entertainment. Jk 😊 love you videos
I already had a wonderful relationship with my beautiful Angel who is in a better place now 👼🏻 I know how it feels to be with one person and I loved it. Now I really feel I can be with two guys and I’m very open minded so if will happen is very welcome in my life! Of course if it happens it has to be organic because I’m not looking for it I just want love and being love in return but I definitely can see that (3) Thank you for sharing your answers it is a beautiful love story 🧔🏻♂️🧔🏻♂️🧔🏻♂️
Its so noisy where you live and your right up high to , i couldn't stand that, here where i live the most noise is people slamming car doors lol. You did a really good job explaining the asked questions, here in the UK i know of 3 polyamorous relationships one of 5 years, 11 years and 30 years, its not easy i dont think, ive been with my partner this year i think its 43 years, in that time we have had extended 3somes, by which i mean we have an open relationship and at times we have met a third which has developed into 3 in the relationship, but it never lasted, its hard as us we have a very strong relationship to be together this long its necessary, Now we are older and it most likely wont happen again, neither of us had the best of health in the past couple of years, im 64 he is 67, we have 4 dogs 2 cats and an 8 week old lab puppy arriving next Sunday, there's not much room for any one else, as usual i wish you well in your life and in the journey, live long love every day, Blessed Be.
Haha, yes! We need to find a new microphone that cancels out the outdoor noises better - planes, cars, and sirens were very loud even though we are on the 32nd floor! Thank you for sharing your story with polyamory/ open relationships! We love to hear it! So great to hear of other log-term successful poly relationships… 30 years?! Incredible 🎉 Good luck with your new puppy! You have a house full 😍🩵🩵🩵
That was really cool guys, thank you for answering all the questions and sharing your life with us, I have a question as I am a hotel manager so how do you go when checking into hotels? Is there any awkwardness? I know if I saw three guys checking into one room, I would make up the sofa bed or do you let them know in advance that one king bed is fine?
So far no one has made any kind of deal about it! Only time we ran into a situation we weren’t thrilled about is when they advertised king bed rooms… and then we got there and they had gotten rid of them and the largest they had was a double queen room! A queen definitely doesn’t work for us 😱 we’ve tried and no one sleeps well!
Hi there might be late adding a Q&A to it but what happens and they might someone might have put one in already what happened to fun view because there’s three of you you’re in a relationship goes out and cheat on you guys. What if you cheats with somebody else??
We learned something new! After the discussion we asked ChatGPT: “Omnisexuality refers to a sexual orientation in which a person is attracted to people of all genders, similar to pansexuality. However, omnisexual individuals typically acknowledge gender as a factor in their attraction, meaning they may experience attraction differently based on someone's gender, but they are still open to all genders. The emphasis is on an inclusive attraction to all genders, while still being aware of gender differences.”
Girlies Math. Let’s make it make sense. 1 throuple = 7 relationships in totality. Meaning 1 person has 2 relationships with each of their partners + 1 in totality. Not 4 relationships in total Jess lol 😂
@@Nay_Tea … but this isn’t about each persons “perspective” which I assume is what you’re actually referring to with your number of 7? Jess + Alex / Alex + Jess = 1 relationship Alex + Zac / Zac + Alex = 1 relationship Zac + Jess / Jess + Zac = 1 relationship Jess + Alex + Zac / Any variation in order of all 3 = 1 relationship. So 4 total relationships going on.
If you watch the previous video - we were outside for our anniversary dinner 😊 Did the special anniversary Q&A after dinner. Hope a new mic will fix the outdoor noises.
We wear bracelets instead. Rings are a problem in the gym with pinching fingers and weights. You can see the matching bracelets clearly on each of us at 5:54
Zac looks like a superstar in every moment!
We agree! So handsome! 🥰❤️🔥
@@JessAlexZac Thank you for agreeing! 👍🥰🙏
Zac doesn't need to talk much:a lot of his glances are enough to know what's up!
Haha yes, he says a lot with his expressions and we love it 😋🩵
OMG, Zak has the most adorable blush, you guys are so much fun!
Another fabulous video guys!!! 😍🥰😘
Thank you 🤗
Loved this Q&A. You guys are such a great example that love is different for everyone & we should be much more accepting in this world
So happy you enjoyed it. We hope to be able to show love can be diverse and beautifully different 🩵🍍 so glad that is coming through
The three of you are so handsome. I enjoy this channel. The honestly, smiles, laughs, and seriousness. By the way the background is niccccce.😊
Thank you so much, so happy you are enjoying the channel 🩵🩵🩵
I was more excited about this video, and thought it was something truly special. How wonderful it felt watching you reach out to us, sharing the magic, and celebrating it. All the while navigating the sights and sounds of the city! We had a blast connecting with each other. It's like no other dynamic, never uneven, and the most beautiful display of love and trust between you all. Here's to being great together! 🥂
Thank you! So happy you enjoyed the video Q&A and the setting! Hope to find a better mic soon so the airplanes and city isn’t so noisy behind us! Fun spot to do future Q&A with all the unanswered questions in the bowl!
@@JessAlexZac There really is no better time to upgrade your skillset. Lights, action!
Happy Anniversary again ❤🎉 You all answered these questions with so much detail. I like how you pulled them out of the bowl rather than cherry picking them off the phone screen or something like a lot of Q&A videos can be. As always there is so much love, care, adoration and respect for each other. You are all so funny, and every video continues to get better and better. Much love to you all ❤❤❤ xxx
@@feyas_world thank you for the anniversary wishes! Was a fun way to do it and I think we will keep this method… fun for us not knowing what will come up, and makes the chats more candid. Much love to you as well! 🩵🩵🩵
@JessAlexZac yeah absolutely, you took your time, and you could really tell how well you've learnt from one another over the last year, plus I think you all learnt the odd new thing as well the more you opened the topics. Zac was doing a great job answering questions too, he obviously still gets very shy and flustered at times, which is very adorable, and you amd Alex clearly like making him like that, but it also brings out his fun side a lot. A year goes so fast and the three of you have achieved so much in that time, but again, I think that's a credit to the strength of your relationship with each other. 🩷🍍🩷🍍🩷🍍 xxx
I can feel the love and care you have for each other radiating through my screen. I hope I can find love like this! Poly or otherwise. Love your content, guys!
So happy to hear it comes through 🩵 we hope you find your love that you wish for 💯
Damn...Zac got even more gorgeous with the "OH AM I?" face 😍
It's fun to see your personalities interact. You guys are different but with similar values and views. Loved that you recorded outside, despite the noise. This was a treat. Happy Anniversary!! Keep them coming, and the videos too.
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Thank you for the anniversary wishes! We need to try to find a new microphone that cuts out the outside noise better! - would love to keep doing videos on the rooftop if we can get the sound better 🩵🩵🩵
@@JessAlexZac Am I the only one that caught the joke? Or is my mind permanently in the gutter?
@@yrp237 haha, no - the joke is there 😋 it’s not just you
Thanks, so much, Guys! This was terrific! And once again, HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!
Thank you! 🤗🩵🍍
I am absolutely in awe of you three and your relationship ❤ you’alls have turned this Q&A into a sit down and chat with friends video, I had my glass of wine while watching this! . I love that you guys went into the depth of each question and sought each other’s opinions. It’s so easy to see why your relationship absolutely thrives. I am definitely looking forward to other Q&A later on! My questions are still pending! 😅 oh boy! Zac is a definition of introvert. “Not having emotional bandwidth” is my favorite excuse to not go where there are a million people or annoying people. Happy Anniversary again and hope the lemonade was delicious! (Alex is a hooooot!😂😂😂)
@@Tejalcreates thank you! So glad you grabbed your own glass and joined us! Looking forward to continuing the Q&A questions in future episodes! - the pull out of the bowl method was fun for us and we enjoyed being able to candidly discuss!
Haha - his bandwidth comments are so funny, he is def the biggest introvert of us… and is doing amazingly sharing on YT. Social media exposure like this definitely took some getting used to for him 🤗🩵
@@JessAlexZac a big thank you for taking the time to answer each and every comment. You have no idea how much, I as a follower and a fan appreciate it! ❤
Great video guys. Best of luck to you in the future. Hope to see more Q&As.
Thank you so much! Have a lot more questions to go through! Planning on more videos like this in the future 🤗
You guys are wonderful.
You have an awesome relationship.
All three of you are very handsome.
Zack’s facial expressions are way too funny. He says everything with his facial expressions.
@@Bob-fk8vd thank you - haha yes! We love the facial expressions 😛🤗🩵
It's always a pleasure to learn from you and to have your points of view on how you navigate things in the relationship.
I think Zac love threat speaks of how deeply is feeling are. It's actually a beautiful love declaration IMO 🫶.
You guys are also very funny, especially Zac funny looks and Alex comments.
Can't wait to see the next episode with the others questions.
So happy you enjoyed this Q&A segment 😊 His “I love you” was just perfect - we agree with it being a beautiful declaration of his feelings 🩵 hope you continue to enjoy the channel!
I just had an epiphany moment listening to a song you've used quite a few times "out of the blue" by Punctual and how it seems to fit what you guys are saying at the end of the video about having been hurt, not looking for someone but somehow it was him, it was you and it clicked 🥰 (or am I reading things 🫣)
@@Maaaarine yes, its our song (or one of them) 🥰 The words - you were reading into them correctly! 🩵
Loved the whole Q&A video. Two videos back to back, that's lovely.
The rooftop space is insanely beautiful; Avgeeks' heaven with the SAN final approaches ✈️❤
So happy you enjoyed the video! Trying to keep the videos rolling very regularly!
Thank you, it’s been so nice to have that outdoor space, was fun to utilize the view for our backdrop… now just need a mic that can quiet the airplane and city noise during videos!
Love this Q&A! Thanks guys for being authentic! Your authenticity makes you confident, honest & valued by others.
Love the 3 of you guys! Thanks
So happy to hear you enjoyed the Q&A! Much love 😊🩵🍍
Happy Anniversary -- love seeing the love.♥♥♥
You guys are spectacular both inside and outside! Really enjoying your life videos!
Thank you! So happy you’re enjoying the videos 😃🩵
As always, so fun to watch your videos guys! Interesting questions and great answers. I hope you all are enjoying making these videos, because I am certainly enjoying watching them. Thanks so much for sharing a part of your lives with us. Hope you enjoy your anniversary.💝
Our pleasure! So happy you enjoyed the Q&A - was fun to candidly answer - have many more to go through! Looking forward to future Q&A episodes 🤗
never seen so many airplanes in 1 video....loved the video
So happy you enjoyed it!
Yes, the San Diego International airport is not far from us! So fun watching them come in day and night 😃✈️
Happy Anniversary guys! This was a great, fun video. Thanks for sharing it.
Thank you!🩵
Great video guys. Happy anniversary to you all. Thank for your honest and candid answers. Pulling questions out of the bowl like that makes it feel quite spontaneous, which is great. You’ve all made something quite special over the last year. Best wishes for the next years to come.
Thank you so much for the well wishes! We like this method better too - much more fun randomly answering and seeing what questions followers come up with!
Thanks for answering my question. All that cleaning shows how much love you both have for Zac for sure ❤ Also love when you went inside Alex is cuddling one of the cats haha. Great vod Jess, Alex, Zac, Tux, Saffie, Irina & Voodoo ❤❤❤
@@frostiesarah2315 so glad yours was pulled! Thanks for sending it in for us! So happy you enjoyed - looking forward to answering more of the questions in future episodes!
First, I want to apologize to you guys for not sending any questions. I have an issue that is killing me with IG Q&A and that is why I couldn't participate. Ok, now going back to the video. I really enjoyed this video mostly for three reasons. First, I got to understand more about your troupe and how it works for you guys, and second, I got to know and see more about the dynamic you three have with each other by answering questions and your body reaction to each other while you were answering the questions and third, it also clarifies some issues that I have while in my our own polyamorous relationship with my boys and to hear from you how you work out some issues that we also came across too. Knowing that we too when with some of those issues helps me understand more clearly why and how we approach work differently for each relationship. So it was very informative and awesome guys!!💖💖💖 Jess, this is a suggestion. Maybe you can do a live Q&A in the future.
Yes, we aren't open anymore since we are living together now and our bed is custom-made for 4 guys. To clear that up.
So happy to hear it was relatable and brought more understanding! So happy for you and the boys - tell them hello for us 😊🩵
@@JessAlexZac Yes, I will Jess. Thank you!!💖
I now understand how polyamoury works after you explained it, especially how the relationship develops. Alex is right, young people nowadays think beauty is everything and should be given money just because they look good
So glad we could give a little insight and understanding on how polyamory works for us 🥰🩵🍍
Thanks for sharing with these questions - appreciate the insight into all three. Happy anniversary to you!
Thank you for the anniversary wishes, so happy you enjoyed the video. 😊
Thank you for sharing, you can see its not as easy for Zac, understandably after his ordeal with social media, the best video you put out was Day in the life Zac showed his great sence of humour and the Pinapples best friend you all were so relaxed, I think your going to need another 3 QA just answer all the questions left in that jar lol all the the best to you Jess, Alex and Zac Love is Love and we need more of it in our lives.❤🧡💙🍍Hope your lemon aid was delicious 🤪
The lemonade was superb 😁😋
Yes, he has come a long way since he began to join us here on this channel! Love seeing his personality come through more and more as we go along 🥰
We will be doing more like this and continue to answer questions from the bowl! Was a fun candid way for us to do it. I’m glad others are enjoying!
Please make more q&a video , they are more relaxing and fun and natural
We will! Have many more questions from the bowl to go through 😊🩵🍍 it was fun to answer them this way!
You too better hold to Zac tightly 😊!!!!!
Wait omg
Blossom: Alex
Bubbles: Jess
Buttercup: Zac
Omg PPG so cute 😭
I’m using ChatGPT to decipher, as I don’t know the power puff girls well! 😅😋
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Blossom (Alex): This suggests you are seen as the leader, someone who is organized, responsible, and often takes charge in situations. You likely come across as level-headed and maybe even perfectionistic at times.
Bubbles (Jess): Jess is likely being described as sweet, kind-hearted, and gentle. Bubbles’ personality is also marked by innocence, emotional depth, and a loving nature, so Jess might be viewed as nurturing and sensitive, but still capable of surprising strength.
Buttercup (Zac): Zac is being compared to Buttercup, who is tough, rebellious, and more aggressive or bold in their approach. This could mean Zac is seen as strong-willed, assertive, or someone who doesn’t back down easily and might have a more carefree or rule-breaking personality.”
Accurate interpretation??
@@JessAlexZac yes omg 😭
I agree ,what you guys said, that's the truth.👍
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Zac, that color shirt looks great on you.
Thank you so much for sharing. Loving the channel.
So happy you are enjoying it! Thanks for joining us 😊🎉
What A great team , All 3 are so special in their own character in life but they all 3 are so respectful to each other feeling ! I just love to watch them since I suddenly look at their smile n great personality ,,hope see u all 3 in person one day,,, Best In California
A team is a perfect description! Thank you, each brining their own unique personality and strength to our family 🥰 hope you continue to enjoy the channel!
Watched this yeaster on my TV. You guys are interesting and a joy to watch. I find Alec funny and entertaining to watch.
So happy to hear you enjoyed the video! 🤗
Wait just a year? I thought it was longer. Time flies...the best to you guys you all are hot.
Another awesome vlog guys. As always thanks for sharing. Hope you guys enjoyed your “lemonade”…😜
Much luv from Alabama!
Haha, the lemonade was perfect 😋
Thanks for joining us! glad you enjoyed the vlog!
Alex, can I have your scarf😅, it's beautiful. Thank u for answering those questions. Again, congratulations on your journey 👏
Thank you 🩵
I just discovered you guys a few weeks ago. But I have grown to enjoy your vids. so much. I'm a senior citizen much much older than you guys. No nothing about polyamory, I was never able to have a one on one relationship. But you guys seem so happy together, I'm sure it's work but I wish you the best. I lived in SF during the 70-80's. I lost all my friends. So you guys are very young to me. Keep doing what you are doing, I enjoy it so much.
Thank you for joining us and we are so glad you have enjoyed the videos and our channel!
So sorry for the loss of your friends/loved ones. Such a tragedy!
Much love from all of us 🤗🩵
The lack of a one on one relationship doesn’t mean you could have never had one, it’s a “luck” thing IMO. I thought for sure I was unfit in some way for one (gave up) but then met someone. It will be 35 years this year. Lots of people actually are damaged by. I’m really happy with mine but many times it could have ended due to situations. 🩷
You are lucky to have found each other. I feel the magic. At 72 I can fantasize .Fantastic broadcast guys.
🩵 So happy you enjoyed the video - and can feel the magic! 🤗🍍
Ciao, thanks for your answer!😊 I suggest you see Naples and the islands (Ischia and Capri), Rome, Milan and Venice
Thank you for the suggestions! 🎉
Love the Q&A guys. So informative honest. 3 handsome men
Thank you! So happy you enjoyed this one! Have many more questions to go through - more episodes to come!
😅 Zac your hilarious straight to the point 😅
Love it Zac into death metal here's your sister 😅 🤘🏻🤘🏻
Thank you for the Q&A 😅 so easy motify Zac 😅😅😅😅😅
Thanks for two videos in two days. I tend to miss you guys when there's a few days in between. 😊
We love that! So happy you have enjoyed them 🩵
I know jess and alex are married, i wanna know even though legally you cant married Zac but would you guys consider a ceremony for you three? I mean a ceremony is just that it doesnt define the marriage but to me it is important because it is a statement to eachother that lets them know, no matter what i got you.
This is a great question! - going to add it to the bowl for a future Q&A!
Short answer - yes, it’s been casually talked about 😊
Insight: Alex and I(Jess) never had a wedding. We just signed papers at the courthouse. We’ve thought about some kind of commitment ceremony (not sure what it would look like) for years even before Zac.
@JessAlexZac I just looked it up and it seems to be ok for ya'll 3 to do a commitment ceremony.. even though it wouldn't be legal like your marriage (Jess and Alex)..
Alex you make me laugh by the way love the shawl. Really like all your videos. If you ever go to Italy you have to go to Florence and Lake Como . I think you all fit together very well keep going guys love you all❤
Thank you! Yes, Alex is always bringing laughter to our home 😋😃🩵 we love it!
Hope we get to do a trip together there! That would be fantastic!
Alex is so unserious. I love it 😂😂😂
Always keeping it light and brining jokes and laughter to our home 😋🥰
Great video pineapples 🍍 I learned so much about how your trouble works love the new digs love the dogs Charlie from Virginia the schnauzer man
Thank you Charlie! 🩵
Wowwwwwwwww what a view - Yeah the 3 of you and also the rooftop .....perfect back drop with the planes landing too and the sky turning to dusk
Zac reminds me of the cartoon comic character Haddock from Tintin....sooooooooo handsome and suave with the beard and the hairstyle
i love watching you guys .....do more rooftop vlogs - the scenery is fantastic
BTW nice choice of shirt Zac
Haha - it’s his dark beard and hair! 😋
So glad you enjoyed us doing the Q&A on our rooftop! We plan to do more soon, have many more questions to pull from the bowl! 🎉
It’s seriously amazing I mean you guys
Damm
Thank you! 🩵🩵🩵
Thanks guys. I enjoyed the question and answers. It was interesting. I’ve wondered how a Throuple works. I have followed you for years. There is something so sweet and genuine about you guys. I do have one comment: Alex, please remove your shirt when you’re in the bedroom. 😅 Thank you. 😘👍
Happy Anniversary 🥳🎉🎉🎊
So happy you enjoyed the episode and that it gave a bit of insight into how polyamory works for us! 🤗🍍🩵
For me, Sometimes ,i feel that you are explainning Too much of your Lives are like...
I think you just should live your lives...And Enjoying it...
@@FranciscoOsorio-yj8tg lol - an hour of video chatting is hardly much time wasted in the scope of our life. We are living our life together and enjoying it.
The entire point of these is to enjoy discussing topics that our viewers send to us in long conversation form… if you don’t have interest in the convo, no problem - no need to watch… but as you can see from the comments, there are many others that enjoy it.
I noticed in many of your videos Zac tends to leans his body more against Jess than to Alex, even when you take pics in group or when you cuddle together.
True tho
It's probably because Jess' torso is usually turned towards him as well. Alex tends to bend forward a lot, probably because he's cold. He doesn't make a lot of eye contact either. I think he might be really shy, even more than Zac.
I (Jess) am by far the most physical. Alex and Zac are not naturally that way much - so their relationship with me as well as each other is different.
We explain in the video there are 4 different relationships going on…
1. Jess and Alex
2. Jess and Zac
3. Alex and Zac
4. Jess Alex Zac
Each is unique and different - none “better” - just different.
Both Alex and Zac had to learn to be more physically affectionate to Jess than is their natural. (Cuddling, holding hands… etc.)
Shyness, differing comfort with PDA, and different love languages all come into play. Time shared together also comes into play… Alex and I (Jess) have been together for 10 years, Zac has been with each of us for 1. A 1 year relationship and the interaction is going to be different than that of a 10 year relationship.
Expecting multiple partners to be exactly the same with each other is unrealistic. We are happy and share immense love in our relationships together, we don’t expect or want each other to be the same.
@@JessAlexZac Yes I saw you spoke having different kind of relationship with each other, but you were not that specific, but I assume something like this, that maybe Alex was not so physical or maybe you did? I don't know my english is not so good, thanks for the clarification, you 3 look lovely together.
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Hold on tightly to each other!!
I want you all to know I am gonna try your anniversary dinner that looked really good. I’m excited to try it out. I hope I do it justice happy anniversary and I love the question Q&A. I wish I had known about it. I just pop in from time to time time and c u guys. You all are just gorgeous.
Hope you enjoy the meal! So happy to hear you liked the Q&A video - planning to do more and answer more of the questions from the bowl!
I think for an ordinary relationship you need two smart people to make it work; for a three-person one, you need so much more emotionally intelligent people as well as non-jealous personalities than the average.
This could be true! Definitely have to navigate communication, disagreements, jealousy, and emotions in general at a whole different level with multiple partners! 🤗🩵
Thats a very interesting conversation about sugar daddies. I think I relate to Alex. 8 years! Thats funny. Thanks for sharing part of your lives. Maybe my lesson is to understand and not judge. A throuple is far beyond my comprehension even as a gay male as its not visible in mainstream nor anyone I know of. Very courages to share your lives online open to the public forum. I follow you now and again. Good health and wellbeing to the 3 of you .....
Thank you for the well wishes, and we are happy this glimpse into our life has shown something new and different from what you’ve known! Hope you continue to enjoy the channel! 😊
😂😂😂😂😂l can imagine how someone says l love you but also promises to destroy your life if you break their heart
That's love😂
😂🩵 and we love him for it
As far as sheets when you buy a large bed . California King is equal to 2 super singles. You can always do 2 full size mattresses and a topper. Very large bed and standard sheets.
This might work if the topper covers the gap well enough between the two!
Love you guys❤ regards from Poland
Much love from us in San Diego! 🥰🩵
You guys are amazing ❤
Lots of love from India ❤
Thank you! 🤗🩵
Second Question.. Would love to see Florence and Lake Como.
We would too! 🎉
You guys are adorable!
good morning my favourite throuple hope u have great day love you guys 😘❤️
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Zac, I saw you fingerspelling "rural" and it made my night. Are you fluent in ASL?
Not fluent at all. Finger spell and some words. - Zac ❤
Any mattress company can make a custom mattress. I am a single woman and have a 8×7' bed. For sheets I use cal. king or king on bottom and I don't like a top sheet so soft cotton blankets on top with a light comforter. I live in S. Florida so I'm never cold. Don't pay some big company for custom bedding. It's easier to find than you think. Also, my cat gets half the bed 💖🐈
Thank you for this info! 👏🩵
Love you guys🎉❤
Thank you for the love 🩵🩵🩵
Good morning guys handsomes❤
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My question is! Does the one that was added to your guys relationship have more feelings or emotions towards other or not. Some guys get weird out after having feelings for that person and not the other guy.
That is Question #3 that we answered: 5:53 😊
Just one more comment about the bed search, Alaska King 9'X9' 108" X108' by the look of that bedroom could only be about 10' X 9' let alone trying to open the door or change the sheets, ok Zac need to give the your office to sleep in lol
love you guys. stay safe.🥰
Haha, yes - the new room wouldn’t fit anything bigger than what we currently have. Our couch is modular and can be put together to form a ginormous bed… fun for special “sleepover” nights on the living room because it’s so much space for us all to sprawl out and also have all 4 pets with us. 🎉
Maybe we will get a custom or Alaskan king in the future when we have a bigger bedroom!
@@JessAlexZac Well that makes a lot of sense and more room for fun times.
I would like to thank you for your kindness in responding to your fans, I been watching your journey over the past 3/4 chaptors as you put it, with the ups and downs, it has made you stronger to be the man you are today.
VERY SPECIAL and Alex and Zac must be so proud of you.🥰🍍🍋
Great video! What brand shirt is Zac wearing? I definitely wouldn’t look as good in it but interested to possibly get it for myself.
Our fitted shirts like Zac’s come from Tailored Athlete 😊
tailoredathlete.com
@@JessAlexZac Thank you so much!!! I’m going to check it out right now! Keep up the great videos. Love from LA.
Good Morning!
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How about adding a girl. I want Alex to cook for me, Zac to just look cute and blush a lot and I’ll snuggle Jess to help the snuggle quota. No spicy sleep involved but happy to watch the entertainment. Jk 😊 love you videos
I already had a wonderful relationship with my beautiful Angel who is in a better place now 👼🏻 I know how it feels to be with one person and I loved it. Now I really feel I can be with two guys and I’m very open minded so if will happen is very welcome in my life! Of course if it happens it has to be organic because I’m not looking for it I just want love and being love in return but I definitely can see that (3) Thank you for sharing your answers it is a beautiful love story 🧔🏻♂️🧔🏻♂️🧔🏻♂️
You guys are such a great couple and cute
HI ZAC AND JESS AND ALEX I LOVE YOU GUYS THE BEST EVER LOVE DAVID😀🥰😀🥰🥰🥰🥰
Thank you David! Much love to you too 😊🩵🩵🩵
I like the Q&A questions
So happy you enjoyed them! 😊
Its so noisy where you live and your right up high to , i couldn't stand that, here where i live the most noise is people slamming car doors lol. You did a really good job explaining the asked questions, here in the UK i know of 3 polyamorous relationships one of 5 years, 11 years and 30 years, its not easy i dont think, ive been with my partner this year i think its 43 years, in that time we have had extended 3somes, by which i mean we have an open relationship and at times we have met a third which has developed into 3 in the relationship, but it never lasted, its hard as us we have a very strong relationship to be together this long its necessary, Now we are older and it most likely wont happen again, neither of us had the best of health in the past couple of years, im 64 he is 67, we have 4 dogs 2 cats and an 8 week old lab puppy arriving next Sunday, there's not much room for any one else, as usual i wish you well in your life and in the journey, live long love every day, Blessed Be.
Haha, yes! We need to find a new microphone that cancels out the outdoor noises better - planes, cars, and sirens were very loud even though we are on the 32nd floor!
Thank you for sharing your story with polyamory/ open relationships! We love to hear it! So great to hear of other log-term successful poly relationships… 30 years?! Incredible 🎉
Good luck with your new puppy! You have a house full 😍🩵🩵🩵
Alex I just love you
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More of Q&A plz 🙏🤣
We have a lot more questions to get to! Will keep with the bowl method and film more videos in the future
That was really cool guys, thank you for answering all the questions and sharing your life with us, I have a question as I am a hotel manager so how do you go when checking into hotels? Is there any awkwardness? I know if I saw three guys checking into one room, I would make up the sofa bed or do you let them know in advance that one king bed is fine?
So far no one has made any kind of deal about it!
Only time we ran into a situation we weren’t thrilled about is when they advertised king bed rooms… and then we got there and they had gotten rid of them and the largest they had was a double queen room!
A queen definitely doesn’t work for us 😱 we’ve tried and no one sleeps well!
Florence, Tuscany guys!
Alex, where'd you get that pashmina?? It's beautiful
I got side tracked by the 4 extra inches... and counting those planes
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6 🖐🏻 > 4
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WECOME ZAC AND JESS AND ALEX IM DOING BETTER NOW IM GROWING PUMPKINS PLANTS I DIDN'T HAVE GARDEN PLANTS FOOD TO HELP THEM FAST LOVE DAVID😀🥰😀🥰🥰🥰🥰
Hi there might be late adding a Q&A to it but what happens and they might someone might have put one in already what happened to fun view because there’s three of you you’re in a relationship goes out and cheat on you guys. What if you cheats with somebody else??
None of us are cheaters… not really a hypothetical we are interested in exploring further 🙂
Omni = always...so omni present is always present, everywhere.....
We learned something new! After the discussion we asked ChatGPT:
“Omnisexuality refers to a sexual orientation in which a person is attracted to people of all genders, similar to pansexuality. However, omnisexual individuals typically acknowledge gender as a factor in their attraction, meaning they may experience attraction differently based on someone's gender, but they are still open to all genders. The emphasis is on an inclusive attraction to all genders, while still being aware of gender differences.”
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Girlies Math. Let’s make it make sense. 1 throuple = 7 relationships in totality.
Meaning 1 person has 2 relationships with each of their partners + 1 in totality. Not 4 relationships in total Jess lol 😂
@@Nay_Tea … but this isn’t about each persons “perspective” which I assume is what you’re actually referring to with your number of 7?
Jess + Alex / Alex + Jess = 1 relationship
Alex + Zac / Zac + Alex = 1 relationship
Zac + Jess / Jess + Zac = 1 relationship
Jess + Alex + Zac / Any variation in order of all 3 = 1 relationship.
So 4 total relationships going on.
@@JessAlexZac Semantics. Happy 1 year to the 3 of y’all boys!!! 💙🥂Anyway.
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Good video, not sure why you choose outside, it is really disruptive.
If you watch the previous video - we were outside for our anniversary dinner 😊 Did the special anniversary Q&A after dinner.
Hope a new mic will fix the outdoor noises.
good video
Thank you! Glad you liked it 😊
Zac is introvert like me 😂
Haha, he is! - and he has come a long way this past year with becoming more comfortable in front of the camera 🤗🩵
What are Zac’s tattoos of
You don’t have to answer but who the top and bottom
It’s a toss up 😜
@@JessAlexZac😂
Why don't you have your rings on you when there are three of you?
We wear bracelets instead. Rings are a problem in the gym with pinching fingers and weights.
You can see the matching bracelets clearly on each of us at 5:54
Is it classy of me to say this guyss got a nice décolletage
Haha, I had to look this up 😅😝
U guys r cute!
Thank you 🩵