Congrats! I did 200 to 150, back at 177 now and losing the weight again. I agree with Exoticals, do you have any tips? 👀 my first time losing weight, I was too frail from lack of protein..and stress. I’m striving for 60-100g protein a day but anyways I need long-term strategies to keep it off!!!
@@ExoticalsUnited Intermittent fasting/ time restricted eating is one way of losing weight . My favourite is OMAD one meal a day as it helps me ensure am always eating in deficit and continue losing weight and keeping it off
Skinny women have a right to embrace and love their body too. People are acting like she’s saying “I love being skinny and I would never be fat! being fat is the worse! Everyone should be skinny!”. It’s pure projection that certain people have a problem with it.
Exactly! We've tried so sincerely to help them feel safe at every turn, but when the shoe doesn't fit, they just need to stop having to have a participation award for every aspect of life. The only group, both men and women, who go off if something is said, and as individuals, it just doesn't apply to them!
Even if she did say that, she has a right. People have the swing the pendulum backwards and stop letting chicks who look like her play in their face. These chicks say RECKLESS stuff out of their mouth with no fear but they all believe someone should walk on eggshells for them and their feelings. It is crazy how people are scared to make uadsbw mad like someone fears them.
Honestly I kinda think they shouldn't. Atleast now I know the condescending remarks about my skinny self weren't a misunderstanding. Honestly they need to keep making these types of videos for the sake of my better understanding of my life experience 😂
@@betrayedbaeuchiha175 right! I’m gonna keep eating my cherry tomatoes and laughing at them lying to themselves . happy people don’t randomly call it white supremacy when you’re trying to be skinny.
I just saw a screenshot of some uabw girl saying all light skin women have bad skin and bad breath and we dont take care of ourselves. 😂 Yet the majority look like her and she look like she smells Smh
I'm gonna keep sipping my lemon ginger green tea, my smoothies, and my kombucha knowing I'll never have to turn sideways just to get through the door. 😂
These women operate and think from various hierarchies 24/7. This chick brought up colorism, race,and politics, all because a girl said that she always wants to be skinny
I love being slim. There's too much of the BW being fat stigma. It's ridiculous and she's mad that UABW as well as exoticals can be slim, cute, and beautiful. The haters will always say the dumbest BS. Keep up the great content EU. 💕💕
They make all their personal insecurities political and projections. Skin Hair Features Dating and attention Weight/Height It never ends with them. Until the new waves stop of people feeding their nonsense
IMO this ties back to the female preferences of most successful men. A woman must not boast about having any attribute that these men find more desirable; skinny, voluminous hair, lighter complexion,model like physique, etc. Otherwise women with limited access to these men may get triggered. It’s ok to express pride in being a big girl, deeply melanated , bald or having an attribute that would normally make a woman invisible to these men.
Idgaf how they feel. If they call me a white supremacist because I like to be at a healthy weight for my health, looks and how I’m treated in society, then I will be that.
Exactly. In order to stop this, we have to stop caring about these people and how they feel. If im colorist so what for only liking one skin tone so what If im fatphobe so what If im not an ally to dsw, so what People are 4 years older than woke 2020 so noone is as naive to this guilt tripping as before. People are tired of them. Stop allowing them to bait you with guilt to center them. When they were invisible and ignored, life was good. People gave them some attention and here we are smh
My highest weight was 216 lbs in April 2024 and through walking 10k steps a day, cutting out alcohol, junk food and reducing stress I am now 158 lbs. I was around 178 lbs all my life because I thought it was normal because my maternal side of the family are big and I bought into the body positivity movement blindly. My own fault. Tbh it's easy for me to eat healthy and be active because it feels more natural than sitting all day and eat junk. Its like my brain and body love my new lifestyle naturally so I'm emotionally stable and learning about myself and life at my own pace. Thanks for all the mental gems loves. 🥰🥰🥰🌸💐🐝
Yes. There are so many people who lost weight to share your perspective. They’re like why didn’t I do this all along! And they act like it takes so much effort. Honestly, it’s little changes like 10,000 steps. And cutting out alcohol. I too, had a significant weight loss and sometimes I get upset that I didn’t do it sooner. Because it really wasn’t that bad. No, we are not all sitting here thinking about food all day and obsessed with exercise. In fact, we have more energy now.😂
"I'm fat and it makes me feel bad about myself. Instead of working on where those feelings come from, and/or emulating the women I admire, I'm going to go through this weird transvaluation process where I convince myself everything I admire is actually bad. It puts all of the locus of control on the OUTER world because I lack the skills necessary (or am simply too lazy) to deal with what's going on in the INNER world."
I hate that people are using social media as a dear diary. However I don’t see the problem with loving your body. If someone’s body bothers you, the call is coming from inside the house.
I stopped drinking alcohol and fasted for the past month and my rib cage is showing again…I love it 😂 I was only 125 so it wasn’t a big weight but I kept getting bloated and had a puffiness on me that I wasn’t comfortable with. I weighed today at 120
All of my life as a healthy naturally skinny black woman I mind my business yet still offend people. I definitely get the most flack from other black people. They’re just gonna have to continue to cry about it.
What if slimkim said she loves being dark skinned. All the people would be celebrating her instead of crying and projecting their insecurities about them being fat.
As a mixed girl i love being skinny and having my health improved. The fat stigma around poc and black women upsets me bc growing up i thought I had to be "thick" to be pretty, now i know being thin is what makes me happy.
If these people were actually happy with themselves they wouldn’t be foaming at the mouth over someone saying they like being skinny. I like being skinny too. 1) because you feel worse the more excess weight you carry and I don’t experience that; 2) I like the way clothes look on me, the compliments I receive, and I can admire my figure. Also why do these people act like thin privilege is exclusive? Literally anyone can have it, it’s one of the few privileges everyone CAN achieve. You don’t have to be a 00 to experience the benefits. The way they’re reacting to Slim Kim and basically calling her a supremacist supporter is insane. If the black community isn’t a monolith, like Blackistan likes to say, then there shouldn’t be an issue when someone strays differently.
Hey EU ❤ The real beauty standard was obvious when EVERYONE got on ozempic. It's no longer available because the demand was too high. The pharmaceutical industry couldn't keep up with the need for it.
Honestly they sound like haters. The 2010s were really hard for skinny girls we were called all types of names like “bones, or stick figures ect” for years while the bbl and thick girl era was popular now that everyone’s reversing they’re bbl, taking ozempic and skinny is back in there’s an influx of hate from the mediocre women who got comfortable in being over weight because they were considered “thick” and got praise from the body positivity movement, now the switch is here and skinny girls are getting praise now everyone’s mad and posting think pieces, like no! we waited patiently and now it’s our turn so sit quietly same way we did.
Now they are hurt because everyone is telling them they smell funny and stink now here comes the thinkpieces smh I like having boobs and booty without having to be obese since Im tall like meg the tha stalliin so I can carry weight so I have no desire to be skinny. Skinny is going to be in for a little while and then everyone is going to want to thicken up again and it will be back to calling skinny people, skins and bones. It is a cycle. Skinny, slim thick, fat, wash then repeat. The real issue is women sitting around waiting for their body type to be praised. It is all fake attention and love and people gotta stop thinking what they are is actually what people want. People praise people based on trends. The love is fake. Love yourself no matter the fake era. Men will praise skinny get tired and then trash that type and praise bigger bodies and reverse.
Same girl same - if you do not have pronounced baby making hips, there are women who project their insecurities your way within the Afro-Caribbean community in Canada as well
Slimkim is well spoken, thin, supposedly lives in the nice part of NY and confident…. I think these traits combined is why people don’t like her. They don’t want to see BW, especially darker BW, level up and encourage leveling up.
What a time where we live in a world with obesity and over weight, is more positively “embraced” rather than a healthy skinny woman negatively demonized. 2:41
I think accepting and being comfortable *looking mediocre* is what *mediocre presenting women* are attempting to push as a form of feminism, along with attempting to claim *what being a feminine woman looks like* without putting effort in having a basic skincare and beautification routine - based on all the "cry me a river" videos/reels, they are trying to trample what they know to be visually beautiful on social media etc - I think it's a power surge for these women
I saw nothing wrong with slim Kim comments honestly since they taking her comments so deeply I can take it there too ...let's think about all the women dying under the knife getting bbls and the back alley bbls with foam and concrete literally dying trying to achieve a body type slim Kim saying I like/love being skinny could honestly save a young woman's life
This whole thing is so crazy. I cant even wrap my mind around the fact that all of the controversy, think pieces and rage is because a woman got on the app and said she liked being skinny...ALT RIGHT PIPELINE?? GENOCIDE? WHAT? why do they always do this??😂
They were fine saying being black means you have to be thiccc and or fat Why do they hate fit and skinny (ness) so much? They had no problem when famous black women were proud about being thick in every way
lol as a black girl who grew up in Switzerland and i would say I’m fit, in shape and skinny. Being skinny is a privilege from how people treat, how clothes look and you. And they way a lot of doors will open for you. The slim black girl triggered a lot of insecure women who happen to be on the bigger side. Instead of hating maybe why not try to change something 😅🥴
Right! I’ve been chunky and I’ve been skinny and I simply like being skinny, I can wear whatever clothes I want without having to cover up certain areas of my body. I’m not trying to hide my own body anymore
8:08 Milka has made tiktoks mocking mixed/light skinned women so IDC what she is offended by. Why do UABW cry about privilege and then act like you dont have it? She is saying Kim has nothing to show for it, but they hate MLS women for light skinned privilege.
What’s rounder mouth. An African friend of mine said she looked like a Minstrel theater poster, and I about choked on my protein bar. Because she does. But if I look like her, I would probably act that way too because humor would be my only defense. She’s so big and so angry. And nothing she says is funny. She just makes fun of other people. Which is sad. I can’t even dislike her because when I look at her, I feel nothing but pity. And if I watch her for more than a few seconds, I just literally get depressed.
Well damn. I lost 60 pounds. Went from a 14 to an 8 and working down at a 6 which will put in a size small. I guess I’m a horrible person for caring about my health… plus I miss being thin.
The more these people talk the more I realize why i never got on well with them..i just about fall into the categories of everything they resent. No loss for me though ..toxicity is unhealthy!
i remember another tiktok girl who got banned for wanting to be skinny. She was falsely accused of promoting an eating disorder. All she said was eat whatever you want with portion control. I completely agree with her. This fat acceptance nonsense promotes binge eating and over eating and they don't get banned. Wanting to be a healthy weight and eating normal serving sizes should be the standard. As someone with unhealthy eating habits myself, I like fit influencers for inspiration. If you're skinny or want to be, don't let these fat people bully you lol
Slimkim got dragged for being Nigerian, and people were saying foreign blacks are self haters who align with yt people because of her skinny comments. SJWs are mad that kim isn't "problack." People were dragging her features and calling her a b!tch and then calling her a meangirl. Like they bully her and call her a meangirl when they are mean themselves.
I hate the whole pro black thing. Because black Americans like to act like black culture only exist here. And when I hear that argument, I’m like this is why Black people get a bad rap. You sound so stupid. You don’t hear what people talking about white culture. Because they realize white culture exist in many different faces or every corner of the globe and you can’t just put a certain characteristic on it and say that everyone has to align with it.
7:39??? No fat on my organs hello? 10-20 years longer life span??? No chronic disease?? Aint no wayyyyy shes saying all that unironically … whatttt?! 😭 so many positive results. Not huffing and puffing when i go up stairs
In the black community, I would be subject to eat more because I was skinny. But any other race, they don’t say anything about “your weight” because it’s normal. Smh ! 4:43
I actually followed SlimKim before her video blew up, and what’s incredibly sad is she’s a Nigerian, dark skin black woman who encourages confidence in women. Maybe if these women watched more of her prior content, they’d see that she’s never coming from a hateful or spiteful place. It’s sad that insecure women have to tear down confident women time and time again.
As a Nigerian skinny girl I will tell you body shaming is the order of the day I was body shamed for years I tried gaining weight it didn't really work But seeing slim dark or Nigerian women helps with my confidence and I know plenty girls like me Now see people hate skinny girls is weird
I can only be friends with women who go to the gym. I watch what I eat so my freaking children don’t have to care for me in old age because of my poor health choices. I like how I look is also a benefit. I have been all sizes and being larger then I needed to be was literally uncomfortable.
@@Sagethebodygod right ! I love talking about health stuff with my friends too, and sharing tips with eachother! Plus when we go out we can share meals. It saves money and calories !
2:18 all of this social warrior stuff seems exhausting, quite literally the opposite of resting in femininity. No thanks, I wasn’t created for all that worrying.
I love having a 27" waist and being my size 🤷🏽♀️. There's no snack in this world that's going to change that. They have a beautiful UABW to look to and they go and destroy her platform 🙄. THEY DID THAT not yt ppl. Anything to stay at the bottom.....go figure. Not my skinny problem 💅🏽✨️🎀
This is why I’ve said multiple times that no one in the world takes them seriously when they start up their “plights”. They complain about having no representation when it’s THEIR OWN PEOPLE bringing down their representation like make it make sense
You remember when they got mad at Lori Harvey, for sharing her exercise & diet routine? They said she was fat shaming them, by saying that she doesn't eat more than 1200 calories in a day.
I’ve lost a ton of weight through fasting and bring on the stairmaster and lifting. I always had a nice shape but I gained so much weight thinking it would all go to my ass, when it also went to my face, arms and stomach. Don’t disregard your health for ass. When I was slim I had an ass and now that I’m lifting it’s going to be even bigger in a healthy way. And even if you don’t have an ass! Healthy is always better! An hourglass shape can be obese as well! Stay healthy! Ignore the birds
I feel bad that Slim Kim got demonetized. But what I’ll say is, I’m happy that the big beluga whales want to keep promoting lies. Less competition for us who actually know how life is better when you’re slim.
Going from "I love being skinny, it's my social power/currency" to body fascism, extreme politics, race, brand diversity, and the "R" slur (whatever that even is, lol) within 12 seconds on TikTok is manic! From what I've seen of Slim Kim, she seems to be a leftist. The way these TikTok fans and Kim’s followers are so quick to turn against and bully their fave, or how other content creators jump on the bandwagon IMMEDIATELY to add their two cents after hearing just one differing opinion, shows that they are weak and that influencers don't have a solid foundation. Even celebrities are getting bullied nowadays. This also reminds me of the "trophy wife" and how her story has been manipulated, with everyone blaming her for what her husband allegedly did to HIS daughters. @EU, I'd love to hear your take on the social media world. It looks psychotic to me.
@@ExoticalsUnited I can't blame anyone for making fun of Tyra after watching her call people that were only about 10 or 15 lbs heavier than she was during ATNM "fat". Some of those "plus sized girls" on that show weighed 30 lbs less than how Tyra looked during that show, people have always been irritated at her for those comments, so they feel comfortable making fun of her for not upholding her own beauty standards
I’m trying to get skinny. No body is trying to get fat. You can do more things I can’t go sky diving or jet skiing and I have a nice shape but there is shittt I want to do.
Listen, as a fat person losing weight, I don't see how big people are always complaining about clothes and stuff. I have NEVER seen a size XXS in any store in my life. I didn't even know that size existed until this year. Apparently XXXS is a size too, I think it's more commonly referred to as 00. Meanwhile you casually have up to 5XL in local stores or in a mall.
I have been a size double zero. Though I’m usually closer to a zero and two if I’ve been eating a lot of buffets.🤣 but I’m tall. And so no matter what my clothing size is stores usually don’t even carry the tall version. One time a lady at Old Navy gave me the dirtiest look when I ask if I had anything and a size 0. And she told me they don’t carry anything less than a four when it comes to jeans. Did I complain? Nope? I just simply got online and ordered what I needed. It never made me feel less than or like I wasn’t being included. I just realized it wasn’t profitable to the store. And I realize my work in this world is not based on what they carry at a particular store.
But there ARE privileges attached to being small, and that’s exactly why I’m fighting for my life trying to lose 50 more lbs! Morbidly obese/obtuse…they can have it lol
7:47 lmao skinny privilege? It’s an earned privilege. Anyone can be skinny if they want to be. And the privileges are health, better fitting clothing, cheaper clothing, not needing 2 plan tickets 😂
Exactly. People comparing it to someone getting online and seeing how they love being light skinned or they love being white. Like you cannot help your ethnicity. I literally got a strike on TikTok for saying that.😂
As an adult, I believe in Body Positivity and especially not commenting on other people's bodies. But since I was a child, one of my biggest goals was never to become overweight. I love food but all in moderation
These people can keep telling themselves whatever they need to so they can feel good. Let those type of people stay how they want to. We will get the benefits and they will forever wonder why
I hated hearing it growing up but..... "it's that phone" People who sit online and argue about stuff like this all day literally have nothing else to do I'm so happy my life is great and I can be outside instead of consuming negative/pointless bs like this. I don't even know what they talking about 😂 if she was in the gym, she wouldnt have time for this crap either. Obesity is a problem and literally debuffs you, its as simple as that. If fat chicks can be online talking about "what I eat in a day as a fatty that doesn't care" how is it fair to do what they did to the content creator?????
I've been skinny my entire life and everytime I would tell other women who were in the bigger size that I love my body they would call me all tyes of stick and twig and how they wouldn't want to be skinny and would take offense to me being skinny and confidence. Most of the tim I was talking about myself and not them I would get called all types of fat phobic they would tell me that I need some meat in my body and tell me real men need something they can grab.But would get offended if I ever say anything about how they look when they attacked me first. but I feel lik if they really loved their body they wouldn't be this offended women who truly love themselves wouldn't put down other women
She’ll have her wake up call soon. She made that video for likes and views like most of them do. The fact she rolled her eyes while saying she was bullied for not being black enough says all that needed to be said and that’s she is looking for a pat on the back. Now know the reason didn’t care to watch her videos some time ago.
We have an obesity problem when it comes to black Americans. This should be a celebration not a degradation.
Yep!
That part!!!
Every race got fat people STFU
🐳: “Being thin is white supremacy”
No it’s skinny supremacy,get it right💅🏽
😂😂😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉🎉
Haha that should be a crop top
Lol
cornball
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So it's only body positivity when you're big and happy? 🤔😂😂😂
It not even for the physically disabled folks either. 💀
But they are never happy tho…
@@Satin.B it used to be, but the fat acceptance people made it about them. In their minds being fat is a disability… 💀
its only body positivity when you eat fried chicken and hamhocks for breakfast lunch and dinner 😂
@@JaushaWuBINGO, they're miserable, but won't work out or eat healthy. This is why they never have advantages. 💅🏾💅🏾
It wasn’t surprising to me that all the women who pushed back on slimkim have the same…look
Exactly like it’s too easy 😂
Is this a young people thing? I don’t know because people in the early twenties twist everything said to them to become offended
They're so triggered lol
@@BeautyRevolutionist I didn’t wanna say it in the video 😂
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I was 260 lbs a few years ago. Im now 155. I will never go back. I like the way i look and feel at a smaller weight and i wont apologize for that
I don't believe you. You were 260 a few years ago and your 245 now!
Amen!!!
@@soull_fllower omg congrats ! Do you have any weight loss tips for the ladies here ?
Congrats! I did 200 to 150, back at 177 now and losing the weight again. I agree with Exoticals, do you have any tips? 👀 my first time losing weight, I was too frail from lack of protein..and stress. I’m striving for 60-100g protein a day but anyways I need long-term strategies to keep it off!!!
@@ExoticalsUnited Intermittent fasting/ time restricted eating is one way of losing weight . My favourite is OMAD one meal a day as it helps me ensure am always eating in deficit and continue losing weight and keeping it off
Skinny women have a right to embrace and love their body too. People are acting like she’s saying “I love being skinny and I would never be fat! being fat is the worse! Everyone should be skinny!”. It’s pure projection that certain people have a problem with it.
She did say she never wanted to be fat but I agree with you
FACTS I WILL ALWAYS BE SLIM !!!!
@@Anastasia8880 oh yeah lol, they're acting like she said it in a derogatory way which was not the case.
Exactly! We've tried so sincerely to help them feel safe at every turn, but when the shoe doesn't fit, they just need to stop having to have a participation award for every aspect of life. The only group, both men and women, who go off if something is said, and as individuals, it just doesn't apply to them!
Even if she did say that, she has a right. People have the swing the pendulum backwards and stop letting chicks who look like her play in their face. These chicks say RECKLESS stuff out of their mouth with no fear but they all believe someone should walk on eggshells for them and their feelings.
It is crazy how people are scared to make uadsbw mad like someone fears them.
Do these people own a journal?? There’s a free one on iPhone. I pray they learn to use one 💅🏾
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It’s called the notes app, and I use one all the time!
Honestly I kinda think they shouldn't. Atleast now I know the condescending remarks about my skinny self weren't a misunderstanding. Honestly they need to keep making these types of videos for the sake of my better understanding of my life experience 😂
They should buy my one😅
Anything to remain a victim. I’m tired of it.
Exactly
The commitment to being a victim is sad.
Yep, extremely tiring.
Lets keep on eating our salads and let those Beluga whales be “positive”
Why is your yt handle sending me😂
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@@betrayedbaeuchiha175 right! I’m gonna keep eating my cherry tomatoes and laughing at them lying to themselves . happy people don’t randomly call it white supremacy when you’re trying to be skinny.
I just saw a screenshot of some uabw girl saying all light skin women have bad skin and bad breath and we dont take care of ourselves. 😂
Yet the majority look like her and she look like she smells Smh
I'm gonna keep sipping my lemon ginger green tea, my smoothies, and my kombucha knowing I'll never have to turn sideways just to get through the door. 😂
Drink your water, eat your soup and salads and continue to take your walks. 💯
These women operate and think from various hierarchies 24/7. This chick brought up colorism, race,and politics, all because a girl said that she always wants to be skinny
Right. Imagine calling someone a “body fascist” because they said they wanted to be skinny 😂
Why are they like this 🤷🏽♀️ 😂😂
Envy, Bitterness, Cope, Inferiority Complex
When she said being skinny is a part of the “alt right” pipeline I almost spit out my coffee 😂
She HATES HERSELF
If you dont like bigbacks then you are a part of the alt right omg lmao 😂 you cant make this up @@ExoticalsUnited
Demons not human
I love being slim. There's too much of the BW being fat stigma. It's ridiculous and she's mad that UABW as well as exoticals can be slim, cute, and beautiful. The haters will always say the dumbest BS. Keep up the great content EU. 💕💕
OW my gosh she made being skinny political 🤣😂😂😂 I CANT even..
As if the bar couldn't go low enough ..
@@eleusinia_ 🤣.. At this point, its bloody creative 😅
@@yasminogbu8929 I was today years old when I discovered the phrase “body fascist” 😂 imagine comparing skinny people to Nazis
They make all their personal insecurities political and projections.
Skin
Hair
Features
Dating and attention
Weight/Height
It never ends with them. Until the new waves stop of people feeding their nonsense
@@ExoticalsUnited hahahahaha im cryingg
What skinny GOTS to do with Palestine and genocide, how pretentious.
Disgusting take honestly
Insecurities are loud like a semi truck and real confidence is silent like a feather hitting concrete.
Being skinny is a lot more healthy than being fat in most cases. Have you seen any obese 90 year old?
That’s a great point !
IMO this ties back to the female preferences of most successful men. A woman must not boast about having any attribute that these men find more desirable; skinny, voluminous hair, lighter complexion,model like physique, etc. Otherwise women with limited access to these men may get triggered. It’s ok to express pride in being a big girl, deeply melanated , bald or having an attribute that would normally make a woman invisible to these men.
Omg I screamed when you said “bald” 😂 but yeah that’s actually a good point
Thin will always be in….
That's hi-key crazy she insulted no one & got banned by the "body positivity" crowd for being positive about her body.
Idgaf how they feel. If they call me a white supremacist because I like to be at a healthy weight for my health, looks and how I’m treated in society, then I will be that.
Exactly. In order to stop this, we have to stop caring about these people and how they feel.
If im colorist so what for only liking one skin tone so what
If im fatphobe so what
If im not an ally to dsw, so what
People are 4 years older than woke 2020 so noone is as naive to this guilt tripping as before. People are tired of them.
Stop allowing them to bait you with guilt to center them. When they were invisible and ignored, life was good. People gave them some attention and here we are smh
My highest weight was 216 lbs in April 2024 and through walking 10k steps a day, cutting out alcohol, junk food and reducing stress I am now 158 lbs. I was around 178 lbs all my life because I thought it was normal because my maternal side of the family are big and I bought into the body positivity movement blindly. My own fault. Tbh it's easy for me to eat healthy and be active because it feels more natural than sitting all day and eat junk. Its like my brain and body love my new lifestyle naturally so I'm emotionally stable and learning about myself and life at my own pace. Thanks for all the mental gems loves. 🥰🥰🥰🌸💐🐝
Yes. There are so many people who lost weight to share your perspective. They’re like why didn’t I do this all along!
And they act like it takes so much effort. Honestly, it’s little changes like 10,000 steps. And cutting out alcohol.
I too, had a significant weight loss and sometimes I get upset that I didn’t do it sooner. Because it really wasn’t that bad.
No, we are not all sitting here thinking about food all day and obsessed with exercise. In fact, we have more energy now.😂
Good job, sis!
Congratulations ❤ I love this
Good for you!
“If I can’t do it, then neither can you”……Terrible mentality.
Great video EU! 💫
"I'm fat and it makes me feel bad about myself. Instead of working on where those feelings come from, and/or emulating the women I admire, I'm going to go through this weird transvaluation process where I convince myself everything I admire is actually bad. It puts all of the locus of control on the OUTER world because I lack the skills necessary (or am simply too lazy) to deal with what's going on in the INNER world."
@@jjsays excellent observation!
Well said 👏
I hate that people are using social media as a dear diary. However I don’t see the problem with loving your body. If someone’s body bothers you, the call is coming from inside the house.
I stopped drinking alcohol and fasted for the past month and my rib cage is showing again…I love it 😂 I was only 125 so it wasn’t a big weight but I kept getting bloated and had a puffiness on me that I wasn’t comfortable with. I weighed today at 120
It’s the rib cage for me too 🤣
@@InfiniteBee I love being sample / fit model size….i can have more style that way ✨
All of my life as a healthy naturally skinny black woman I mind my business yet still offend people. I definitely get the most flack from other black people. They’re just gonna have to continue to cry about it.
It's jealousy girl, when you're a private, confident black woman they go crazy & want to punish you.
What if slimkim said she loves being dark skinned. All the people would be celebrating her instead of crying and projecting their insecurities about them being fat.
idk i don’t think so. women that look like her are hated in the blk community
As a mixed girl i love being skinny and having my health improved. The fat stigma around poc and black women upsets me bc growing up i thought I had to be "thick" to be pretty, now i know being thin is what makes me happy.
Being thick is embraced In low class black communities only
Mainstream society does not embrace being overweight
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If these people were actually happy with themselves they wouldn’t be foaming at the mouth over someone saying they like being skinny.
I like being skinny too. 1) because you feel worse the more excess weight you carry and I don’t experience that; 2) I like the way clothes look on me, the compliments I receive, and I can admire my figure.
Also why do these people act like thin privilege is exclusive? Literally anyone can have it, it’s one of the few privileges everyone CAN achieve. You don’t have to be a 00 to experience the benefits.
The way they’re reacting to Slim Kim and basically calling her a supremacist supporter is insane. If the black community isn’t a monolith, like Blackistan likes to say, then there shouldn’t be an issue when someone strays differently.
Hey EU ❤ The real beauty standard was obvious when EVERYONE got on ozempic. It's no longer available because the demand was too high. The pharmaceutical industry couldn't keep up with the need for it.
Honestly they sound like haters. The 2010s were really hard for skinny girls we were called all types of names like “bones, or stick figures ect” for years while the bbl and thick girl era was popular now that everyone’s reversing they’re bbl, taking ozempic and skinny is back in there’s an influx of hate from the mediocre women who got comfortable in being over weight because they were considered “thick” and got praise from the body positivity movement, now the switch is here and skinny girls are getting praise now everyone’s mad and posting think pieces, like no! we waited patiently and now it’s our turn so sit quietly same way we did.
Yup! Little booties are back!🏅 😂
@@kem1233 Scat! You🪳🪳🪳
Now they are hurt because everyone is telling them they smell funny and stink now here comes the thinkpieces smh
I like having boobs and booty without having to be obese since Im tall like meg the tha stalliin so I can carry weight so I have no desire to be skinny. Skinny is going to be in for a little while and then everyone is going to want to thicken up again and it will be back to calling skinny people, skins and bones.
It is a cycle. Skinny, slim thick, fat, wash then repeat.
The real issue is women sitting around waiting for their body type to be praised. It is all fake attention and love and people gotta stop thinking what they are is actually what people want. People praise people based on trends. The love is fake. Love yourself no matter the fake era. Men will praise skinny get tired and then trash that type and praise bigger bodies and reverse.
I've experienced the same thing and as far as I'm concerned, they can go kick rocks. Your not on trend anymore, get over it and stop crying online 😂
Yes, I remember the era when being slim was overcast by the surgery altered "Voluptuous" look - Remain Elegant Ladies😉✨
I'm not skinny but what is the problem with being skinny if you are skinny?
@@uniquelyme3581 exactly
@ExoticalsUnited These women GET ON MY LAST NERVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sometimes I wish I was born back when “skinny” was embraced and healthy eating were deem as normal
Y'know as a naturally skinny lsbw growing up in South Africa I was made fun of for not having the curves watching this was infuriating
Same girl same - if you do not have pronounced baby making hips, there are women who project their insecurities your way within the Afro-Caribbean community in Canada as well
What’s good about being obese? 🙄
Like literally nothing! They live in their own delulu world 😒🙄
Slimkim is well spoken, thin, supposedly lives in the nice part of NY and confident…. I think these traits combined is why people don’t like her. They don’t want to see BW, especially darker BW, level up and encourage leveling up.
This!!!
As a pudgy slightly overweight former skinny queen… All these people hating on Kim just give me more motivation to get back in the gym again 💅🏾💪🏾
this exactly what they did to the black girls in luxury movement
Crab in the bucket mindset. If their feeling down then you are to!
Facts, same with the pretty girls whether they are exotical or not.
What a time where we live in a world with obesity and over weight, is more positively “embraced” rather than a healthy skinny woman negatively demonized. 2:41
I think accepting and being comfortable *looking mediocre* is what *mediocre presenting women* are attempting to push as a form of feminism, along with attempting to claim *what being a feminine woman looks like* without putting effort in having a basic skincare and beautification routine - based on all the "cry me a river" videos/reels, they are trying to trample what they know to be visually beautiful on social media etc - I think it's a power surge for these women
I saw nothing wrong with slim Kim comments honestly since they taking her comments so deeply I can take it there too ...let's think about all the women dying under the knife getting bbls and the back alley bbls with foam and concrete literally dying trying to achieve a body type slim Kim saying I like/love being skinny could honestly save a young woman's life
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This whole thing is so crazy. I cant even wrap my mind around the fact that all of the controversy, think pieces and rage is because a woman got on the app and said she liked being skinny...ALT RIGHT PIPELINE?? GENOCIDE? WHAT? why do they always do this??😂
Skinny and healthy is back in !! Cheers to all my skinny and healthy sisters ! The 2010s were tough for us
Misery loves company 😂
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They were fine saying being black means you have to be thiccc and or fat
Why do they hate fit and skinny (ness) so much?
They had no problem when famous black women were proud about being thick in every way
lol as a black girl who grew up in Switzerland and i would say I’m fit, in shape and skinny. Being skinny is a privilege from how people treat, how clothes look and you. And they way a lot of doors will open for you. The slim black girl triggered a lot of insecure women who happen to be on the bigger side. Instead of hating maybe why not try to change something 😅🥴
The 2nd girl in vid has GOT to be an alien or NPC…… like what actual human being doesn’t want to socially advance
I had to rewind it bc what??? I thought that's what ppl do‼️🤦🏽♀️
She's just not attractive lol let's keep it real
Body positivity= I love being fat
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Facts I love how well spoken you are, I was once a black victimized women but escaped! Keep up the work! To the top we go!
@@princessportt yay! 😀
Thank the Lord! 👏🏼
This should be in the "Comment Foolery Exposed" category because body fascism??? Whet??😂😂😂
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😂😂😂 You can't make this shit uuuuup!!! 😂😅😂
I cannot wait to be skinny again. I fucking loved it.
Right! I’ve been chunky and I’ve been skinny and I simply like being skinny, I can wear whatever clothes I want without having to cover up certain areas of my body. I’m not trying to hide my own body anymore
@ I agree with that. I’m still cute, but I want to be comfortable where I feel hot again.
What is it like for you? I assume you were skinny and then gained weight, what was the shift like for you
@ The shift isn’t horrible but I feel heavier so I’m not as confident. It’s all about how I feel, not men. Still got that.
@@ExoticalsUnitedsame 🥰✨
8:08 Milka has made tiktoks mocking mixed/light skinned women so IDC what she is offended by. Why do UABW cry about privilege and then act like you dont have it? She is saying Kim has nothing to show for it, but they hate MLS women for light skinned privilege.
it's a double standard and pure jealousy.
@@kem1233By you maybe? Every guy I know is attracted to American women 🤷♀️
What’s rounder mouth. An African friend of mine said she looked like a Minstrel theater poster, and I about choked on my protein bar. Because she does.
But if I look like her, I would probably act that way too because humor would be my only defense. She’s so big and so angry. And nothing she says is funny. She just makes fun of other people. Which is sad.
I can’t even dislike her because when I look at her, I feel nothing but pity. And if I watch her for more than a few seconds, I just literally get depressed.
She bleaching her lips what else is there to say 😂
@@DOLCEKAYEXOTICAL i didn't notice at first💀💀
Well damn. I lost 60 pounds. Went from a 14 to an 8 and working down at a 6 which will put in a size small. I guess I’m a horrible person for caring about my health… plus I miss being thin.
The more these people talk the more I realize why i never got on well with them..i just about fall into the categories of everything they resent.
No loss for me though ..toxicity is unhealthy!
I never could click with their type either, like ever and I thank God cause it was my protection
@@theLordismysheperd98 Right..same!
i remember another tiktok girl who got banned for wanting to be skinny. She was falsely accused of promoting an eating disorder. All she said was eat whatever you want with portion control. I completely agree with her. This fat acceptance nonsense promotes binge eating and over eating and they don't get banned. Wanting to be a healthy weight and eating normal serving sizes should be the standard. As someone with unhealthy eating habits myself, I like fit influencers for inspiration. If you're skinny or want to be, don't let these fat people bully you lol
Slimkim got dragged for being Nigerian, and people were saying foreign blacks are self haters who align with yt people because of her skinny comments. SJWs are mad that kim isn't "problack." People were dragging her features and calling her a b!tch and then calling her a meangirl. Like they bully her and call her a meangirl when they are mean themselves.
I hate the whole pro black thing. Because black Americans like to act like black culture only exist here.
And when I hear that argument, I’m like this is why Black people get a bad rap. You sound so stupid. You don’t hear what people talking about white culture. Because they realize white culture exist in many different faces or every corner of the globe and you can’t just put a certain characteristic on it and say that everyone has to align with it.
It's good to be healthy. And while not all slender women are healthy, slim or just not having excessive body fat is a sign of good or better health.
Right slender
7:39??? No fat on my organs hello? 10-20 years longer life span??? No chronic disease?? Aint no wayyyyy shes saying all that unironically … whatttt?! 😭 so many positive results. Not huffing and puffing when i go up stairs
I honestly didn’t know people could be this dumb until the pandemic. And then it made me realize people just make up their own facts.
In the black community, I would be subject to eat more because I was skinny. But any other race, they don’t say anything about “your weight” because it’s normal. Smh ! 4:43
Fire back with, sure give me all the veggies I can eat.😂 Then they back off trust me 💯
I actually followed SlimKim before her video blew up, and what’s incredibly sad is she’s a Nigerian, dark skin black woman who encourages confidence in women. Maybe if these women watched more of her prior content, they’d see that she’s never coming from a hateful or spiteful place. It’s sad that insecure women have to tear down confident women time and time again.
As a Nigerian skinny girl
I will tell you body shaming is the order of the day
I was body shamed for years
I tried gaining weight it didn't really work
But seeing slim dark or Nigerian women helps with my confidence and I know plenty girls like me
Now see people hate skinny girls is weird
For some reason people can’t be skinny unless others are being triggered!
I can only be friends with women who go to the gym. I watch what I eat so my freaking children don’t have to care for me in old age because of my poor health choices. I like how I look is also a benefit. I have been all sizes and being larger then I needed to be was literally uncomfortable.
@@Sagethebodygod right ! I love talking about health stuff with my friends too, and sharing tips with eachother! Plus when we go out we can share meals. It saves money and calories !
The girl in the video thinks humans being fascinated with their appearance started with a Tiktok trend lol
I swear! They are ment¤lly iII‼️😩🙆♀️🤦♀️
This doesn’t surprise me at all because I live with someone like this who hates me for being slim…
Why. ?
2:18 all of this social warrior stuff seems exhausting, quite literally the opposite of resting in femininity. No thanks, I wasn’t created for all that worrying.
Do people THINK before they speak? My god🤦🏾♀️
No ,I don't think she knows what thinking is.
I love having a 27" waist and being my size 🤷🏽♀️. There's no snack in this world that's going to change that. They have a beautiful UABW to look to and they go and destroy her platform 🙄. THEY DID THAT not yt ppl. Anything to stay at the bottom.....go figure. Not my skinny problem 💅🏽✨️🎀
This is why I’ve said multiple times that no one in the world takes them seriously when they start up their “plights”. They complain about having no representation when it’s THEIR OWN PEOPLE bringing down their representation like make it make sense
Someone please call the police. This woman’s waist is missing. 👏
@@HulaMask lmao 😂😂😂
“You have an unnatural allegiance to losers. It’s not like you..” Kat Williams 2024 pretty much sums up this topic😭.
You remember when they got mad at Lori Harvey, for sharing her exercise & diet routine? They said she was fat shaming them, by saying that she doesn't eat more than 1200 calories in a day.
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I’ve lost a ton of weight through fasting and bring on the stairmaster and lifting. I always had a nice shape but I gained so much weight thinking it would all go to my ass, when it also went to my face, arms and stomach. Don’t disregard your health for ass. When I was slim I had an ass and now that I’m lifting it’s going to be even bigger in a healthy way. And even if you don’t have an ass! Healthy is always better! An hourglass shape can be obese as well! Stay healthy! Ignore the birds
I feel bad that Slim Kim got demonetized. But what I’ll say is, I’m happy that the big beluga whales want to keep promoting lies. Less competition for us who actually know how life is better when you’re slim.
idc being skinny is part of my personality
Going from "I love being skinny, it's my social power/currency" to body fascism, extreme politics, race, brand diversity, and the "R" slur (whatever that even is, lol) within 12 seconds on TikTok is manic! From what I've seen of Slim Kim, she seems to be a leftist.
The way these TikTok fans and Kim’s followers are so quick to turn against and bully their fave, or how other content creators jump on the bandwagon IMMEDIATELY to add their two cents after hearing just one differing opinion, shows that they are weak and that influencers don't have a solid foundation. Even celebrities are getting bullied nowadays. This also reminds me of the "trophy wife" and how her story has been manipulated, with everyone blaming her for what her husband allegedly did to HIS daughters.
@EU, I'd love to hear your take on the social media world. It looks psychotic to me.
Just look at the 2024 Victoria secret show. All the models were skinny but only one body positive model. Lots of people were mad.
Yes and I saw people making fun of Tyra because she is considered plus size now , they were saying her walk looked sloppy
@@ExoticalsUnited I can't blame anyone for making fun of Tyra after watching her call people that were only about 10 or 15 lbs heavier than she was during ATNM "fat". Some of those "plus sized girls" on that show weighed 30 lbs less than how Tyra looked during that show, people have always been irritated at her for those comments, so they feel comfortable making fun of her for not upholding her own beauty standards
I h@+€ the term "Victim Olympics" but there's nothing else to call this😢
People will say anything to avoid diet & exercise.
I’m trying to get skinny. No body is trying to get fat. You can do more things I can’t go sky diving or jet skiing and I have a nice shape but there is shittt I want to do.
Right! Like, when I was bigger I couldn’t wear backless and braless tops. There is shit I want to do in this life ok?! 😂
Ooh snap! The tea is piping hot!
Listen, as a fat person losing weight, I don't see how big people are always complaining about clothes and stuff. I have NEVER seen a size XXS in any store in my life. I didn't even know that size existed until this year. Apparently XXXS is a size too, I think it's more commonly referred to as 00. Meanwhile you casually have up to 5XL in local stores or in a mall.
I have been a size double zero. Though I’m usually closer to a zero and two if I’ve been eating a lot of buffets.🤣 but I’m tall. And so no matter what my clothing size is stores usually don’t even carry the tall version. One time a lady at Old Navy gave me the dirtiest look when I ask if I had anything and a size 0. And she told me they don’t carry anything less than a four when it comes to jeans. Did I complain? Nope? I just simply got online and ordered what I needed. It never made me feel less than or like I wasn’t being included. I just realized it wasn’t profitable to the store. And I realize my work in this world is not based on what they carry at a particular store.
But there ARE privileges attached to being small, and that’s exactly why I’m fighting for my life trying to lose 50 more lbs! Morbidly obese/obtuse…they can have it lol
OMG !!! I'm working my butt off so, I can get back to leaner size.
As a former big back now medium back on the way to being a small back. Being big and sloppy is my fear, sorry, life is short why not be in shape?
Right! When I was a big back I wanted to go back to being small and I’m not ashamed of saying it .
Around minute 7: "we all know what she was trying to say !"
Madam, who is "we"?
First thing I see when I wake up☺️ I know it’s going to be good❤ Good morning from the West coast ❤🙂
7:47 lmao skinny privilege? It’s an earned privilege. Anyone can be skinny if they want to be. And the privileges are health, better fitting clothing, cheaper clothing, not needing 2 plan tickets 😂
Exactly. People comparing it to someone getting online and seeing how they love being light skinned or they love being white. Like you cannot help your ethnicity. I literally got a strike on TikTok for saying that.😂
In most instances it takes hard work and discipline. Something these women lack!
As an adult, I believe in Body Positivity and especially not commenting on other people's bodies. But since I was a child, one of my biggest goals was never to become overweight. I love food but all in moderation
These people can keep telling themselves whatever they need to so they can feel good. Let those type of people stay how they want to. We will get the benefits and they will forever wonder why
I hated hearing it growing up but..... "it's that phone" People who sit online and argue about stuff like this all day literally have nothing else to do I'm so happy my life is great and I can be outside instead of consuming negative/pointless bs like this. I don't even know what they talking about 😂 if she was in the gym, she wouldnt have time for this crap either. Obesity is a problem and literally debuffs you, its as simple as that. If fat chicks can be online talking about "what I eat in a day as a fatty that doesn't care" how is it fair to do what they did to the content creator?????
She’s so fine I love her !! Glad she loves herself so young ❤❤
As soon as I saw this craziness circling online, I couldn't wait for EU to talk about it! 😂
I actually met her once while I visited a&t 😭
Blessed day 🌺
I had to click this........*sigh*.....
Here we go🤦🏽♀️
I've been skinny my entire life and everytime I would tell other women who were in the bigger size that I love my body they would call me all tyes of stick and twig and how they wouldn't want to be skinny and would take offense to me being skinny and confidence. Most of the tim I was talking about myself and not them I would get called all types of fat phobic they would tell me that I need some meat in my body and tell me real men need something they can grab.But would get offended if I ever say anything about how they look when they attacked me first. but I feel lik if they really loved their body they wouldn't be this offended women who truly love themselves wouldn't put down other women
They always have them on their mind
Body fascism😂😂
I was hoping you would speak on this! I’ve also noticed the trend of wokeness nd obesity being conflated
EU please make a response video of a youtuber joules lo'well talking about how LS people are the worst while bieng LS herself.
Oh no I love joules! Let me look at the video
She’ll have her wake up call soon. She made that video for likes and views like most of them do. The fact she rolled her eyes while saying she was bullied for not being black enough says all that needed to be said and that’s she is looking for a pat on the back. Now know the reason didn’t care to watch her videos some time ago.
Being fat for me would not be good skinny privilege is real