I wonder why most people keep condemning and castigating you for always saying the truth ... I have learnt a lot from you since I started listening n watching you ... may God bless you for all you do !
Women are now free to aspire to be more than a man's maid or chef and I'm so proud of women who have used this freedom to accomplish more for themselves.
You know, I am a stay at home mom and I know that I have to do majority of the cleaning but I’m sick and tired of asking for help and not receiving it. I’m tired of always doing and doing for everyone else but not receiving anything back. I’m not taking about objects but appreciation. I bust my butt to make sure the house is taken care of but I don’t feel appareciated. I feel more like a house maid than a wife and mother
Love comes with absolutely no strings attached and come from the heart which has a place in the SOUL. Finding a man that's worth it always makes all the difference, appreciation and choosing who you date and marry wisely can make all the difference in the Long run. Cooking ) Cleaning for a woman should never be a burden rather should be an experience which you bring to the table daily.
cooking and cleaning should be a human basic survival skills; adults should know how to cook and clean to save their own skin; if a man cannot find wife or girlfriend and his living on his own abeggi who is going to cook for him; is he going to be eating outside all through?
Very well said! Doing and using those high value skills for the right person and in the proper setting too. I think it is both ways [because it should apply to men as well in terms of what we do for the women we love and who appreciate it].
Exactly For it takes two to tango I love Blessing Ceo because she brings this truth unabashedly She provides a lot of insights into things and is one of the best thought leaders in terms of relationship and matters of the heart Love you Blessing Ceo
I understand but my husband expects me to be a chief and he is unappreciative. Always want me to be creative. It’s exhausting. & he believes cooking is so easy and I shouldn’t be complaining 😭
I was really impressed by your answer to this question Blessing CEO. Kudos for telling our girls the truth. It's only a HURT or MISGUIDED girl that will ask this kind of silly question. It's just like a man asking who should provide for the needs of the home.
It's my duty to make sure that the house is in good condition right? Okay so I will hire a chef and a cleaner for that and all required appliances so that my husband pays them. Abeg, I don't do it for boyfriends I've been cooking and cleaning since I was 10. Everyday. I'm tired. I'll hire
Im new to the concept to be honest…independent woman for most of my life. And all I can say it can be very rewarding especially if its done with love and kindness. Im dating a traditional older gentleman and he so enjoys it and I enjoy that he enjoys it! He is contractor and he is really helping me out around my home and the rental for my kindness…I love it here!!!! Ladies try it and if your man is receptive and grateful for your efforts, watch how he responds😍
no, it’s the fact that I work full-time and I’m tired. last thing I wanna do on my day off is cook, clean and do laundry all day. I have no time for myself.
Wow. I just discovered you today. You are amazing. I'd love to have women like you around in my life as a friend and fellow sister. You are such a good woman. Woman of standards.
Am speaking as a wife. Cooking and cleaning is not a women Job and we need to stop teaching those old teaching. It's a survival skill. Everybody in your house needs to know how to cook, clean, washing and manage a house. even though most women do the cooking and cleaning times is changing. And all men are not the same. My husband don't need me to cook clean wash nothing. I do all those things but he does them also. He don't need to depend on any women. These modern men they don't all want a traditional wife. Some want a modern women who works and they share the responsibility in the house. They cook clean wash help raise the children. Everything is both of them doing it. These new generation men you can't get them with you can cook and clean they asking you now what you bring to the table. You say I can cook and clean and they tell you they can do that for themselve. in traditional countries like Africa it's expected these women roles while the men sit back and just work. Some of these men can not cook or do anything. We need to teach our son's all this so he can be self sufficient. Everybody has a different men and different home. So the requirements are different.
We women date people who don't appreciate us...gbam that's all. But that nice man that want to do everything for you. That one is not dramatic and fun to be with enough. But when the not so nice guy have finished with you all. You marry Mr Nice man and you start punishing him for the sins of your previous fuck boys. May thunder fire you ladies that will tow this path.
No, it's not your job. It's a privilege. If he's not looking forward to YOUR cooking, 1. He doesn't see you as a major contribution to his home environment and 2. Someone else can easily TAKE his attention away from your bond and relationship because of spiritual and vital food is in EVERY culture.
Interesting, I'm a woman. And I don't get up everyday to "cook and clean." I get up every day to climb into my truck and head to my full-time career in a laboratory, working in the study of Genetics & Ancestry. Sure, I do a bit of cleaning on the weekends- Mainly washing my truck or waxing my motorcycle up. I also jump on my ride-on mower to cut the lawn. Lol 😊
Hello It's goes both ways. A wife is not your slave or your maid What is wrong with men hands they can help with cooking and cleaning Men don't appreciate good women Men, needs to take accountability for their part
Men are too busy mowing the lawns and keeping the car running. Men are too busy working hard laborious jobs while women work in office jobs. So yes, women should cook and clean.
Same in Jamaica, I love taking care of my home. Its simply inate, not for a man. I do it anyways, its in me. Then give it to the one you love.....Tantalize him. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
From the look of things, blessing you are one of Most women that never does nothing in organising the home due to body language, actions and character by focusing your attention more in materials things and this leads you to lazyness
Do you praise your man every time he comes from work? "Thank you for working so hard dear? I appreciate it?" Doesn't sound like something most wives do. It sounds to me like women are attention whores who wish to be emotionall validated at every single turn. Maybe grow up and stop looking for validation all the time. Men do not need to be constantly praised every day. You shouldn't either.
I wonder why most people keep condemning and castigating you for always saying the truth ... I have learnt a lot from you since I started listening n watching you ... may God bless you for all you do !
Women are now free to aspire to be more than a man's maid or chef and I'm so proud of women who have used this freedom to accomplish more for themselves.
You know, I am a stay at home mom and I know that I have to do majority of the cleaning but I’m sick and tired of asking for help and not receiving it. I’m tired of always doing and doing for everyone else but not receiving anything back. I’m not taking about objects but appreciation. I bust my butt to make sure the house is taken care of but I don’t feel appareciated. I feel more like a house maid than a wife and mother
If the woman have to work and make money it's is NOT her duty. Cooking and cleaning should be for both partners.
I agree! I work a full time and part time, I come home and he’s expecting me to cook or has cooked for himself and not for me.
Love comes with absolutely no strings attached and come from the heart which has a place in the SOUL. Finding a man that's worth it always makes all the difference, appreciation and choosing who you date and marry wisely can make all the difference in the Long run. Cooking ) Cleaning for a woman should never be a burden rather should be an experience which you bring to the table daily.
cooking and cleaning should be a human basic survival skills; adults should know how to cook and clean to save their own skin; if a man cannot find wife or girlfriend and his living on his own abeggi who is going to cook for him; is he going to be eating outside all through?
He’s going to find a woman who can cook for him?? Lol
You are very brilliant in answering questions 😀👌
SOMETIMES YOU TALK SENSE. WE REALLY APPRECIATE YOU FOR THIS PARTICULAR VIDEO. Thank you Blessing CEO. 👍
Very well said! Doing and using those high value skills for the right person and in the proper setting too. I think it is both ways [because it should apply to men as well in terms of what we do for the women we love and who appreciate it].
Exactly
For it takes two to tango
I love Blessing Ceo because she brings this truth unabashedly
She provides a lot of insights into things and is one of the best thought leaders in terms of relationship and matters of the heart
Love you Blessing Ceo
Knowin where to place yo value belongs is a critical thing
You are a very wise lady.
I understand but my husband expects me to be a chief and he is unappreciative. Always want me to be creative. It’s exhausting. & he believes cooking is so easy and I shouldn’t be complaining 😭
U shouldn’t ur husband is probably a hard working man. Give that man a variety of dishes to eat
I was really impressed by your answer to this question Blessing CEO. Kudos for telling our girls the truth.
It's only a HURT or MISGUIDED girl that will ask this kind of silly question. It's just like a man asking who should provide for the needs of the home.
Well said, I really don't like how Nigerian women try to westernize Nigeria. I hope we can stick to our traditions and culture. Love you Blessing
She is Speaking Wisdom 😎
Cast not your pearls before swine! I love this! Thank you for this word.
Don't give a man something he isn't supposed to have.
It's my duty to make sure that the house is in good condition right? Okay so I will hire a chef and a cleaner for that and all required appliances so that my husband pays them.
Abeg, I don't do it for boyfriends I've been cooking and cleaning since I was 10. Everyday. I'm tired. I'll hire
Then you don't deserve a man that works and provides. He is also tired
@@AntiGod46 go cry about it
Blessing I LOVE you for this video and the concept you expounded on! Lovely!
Yes, it’s a must!!! I do it for my husband everyday. If I can do duties at a job, I can do my duties as a wife to my HUSBAND. He’s important to me.
I'm a guy and I like to cook. One of the ways I express my love and get praise for people is by cooking big delicious meals for them.
To each his own…I am more traditional..my husband is the provider and I cook and clean
Im new to the concept to be honest…independent woman for most of my life. And all I can say it can be very rewarding especially if its done with love and kindness.
Im dating a traditional older gentleman and he so enjoys it and I enjoy that he enjoys it!
He is contractor and he is really helping me out around my home and the rental for my kindness…I love it here!!!!
Ladies try it and if your man is receptive and grateful for your efforts, watch how he responds😍
no, it’s the fact that I work full-time and I’m tired. last thing I wanna do on my day off is cook, clean and do laundry all day. I have no time for myself.
Thank you Mummy 🙏🥰♥️
Thank a for your advice 🙏
Well that concept works if the man is the provider, however, is that always the case?
My sister, if you leave it to him, e go dutty and na A&E u go wake up in everyday. But yes, save it for your husband and family only.
You are very wise ma. God bless you
Wow. I just discovered you today. You are amazing. I'd love to have women like you around in my life as a friend and fellow sister. You are such a good woman. Woman of standards.
Realest babe!🙌 Hard truth!😅
💯 true
My motivator mama blessing CEO, u are right 🌹🌟🌟🌟. Up on doing all that still they are not appropriated.
Such an excellent content .
Well said 👏🏻
God bless you ma for this.
First here. I love you more each day. Keep preaching it darling
Yes!!!
Yes.
❤️
👏👏👏
Am speaking as a wife. Cooking and cleaning is not a women Job and we need to stop teaching those old teaching. It's a survival skill. Everybody in your house needs to know how to cook, clean, washing and manage a house. even though most women do the cooking and cleaning times is changing. And all men are not the same. My husband don't need me to cook clean wash nothing. I do all those things but he does them also. He don't need to depend on any women. These modern men they don't all want a traditional wife. Some want a modern women who works and they share the responsibility in the house. They cook clean wash help raise the children. Everything is both of them doing it. These new generation men you can't get them with you can cook and clean they asking you now what you bring to the table. You say I can cook and clean and they tell you they can do that for themselve. in traditional countries like Africa it's expected these women roles while the men sit back and just work. Some of these men can not cook or do anything. We need to teach our son's all this so he can be self sufficient. Everybody has a different men and different home. So the requirements are different.
It's a woman's job.
I love you very much ma'am 💕
We women date people who don't appreciate us...gbam that's all.
But that nice man that want to do everything for you. That one is not dramatic and fun to be with enough.
But when the not so nice guy have finished with you all. You marry Mr Nice man and you start punishing him for the sins of your previous fuck boys. May thunder fire you ladies that will tow this path.
If it's appreciated. I listen to know other woman about my relationship at all
I hope not because I love cooking.
I make my own recipes.
No, it's not your job. It's a privilege. If he's not looking forward to YOUR cooking, 1. He doesn't see you as a major contribution to his home environment and 2. Someone else can easily TAKE his attention away from your bond and relationship because of spiritual and vital food is in EVERY culture.
No its not a womans duty to cook and clean its both of the job of the men and women
*Yes... end of.*
Interesting, I'm a woman. And I don't get up everyday to "cook and clean." I get up every day to climb into my truck and head to my full-time career in a laboratory, working in the study of Genetics & Ancestry. Sure, I do a bit of cleaning on the weekends- Mainly washing my truck or waxing my motorcycle up. I also jump on my ride-on mower to cut the lawn. Lol 😊
Yes next question 🤣
Hello
It's goes both ways.
A wife is not your slave or your maid
What is wrong with men hands they can help with cooking and cleaning
Men don't appreciate good women
Men, needs to take accountability for their part
Men are too busy mowing the lawns and keeping the car running.
Men are too busy working hard laborious jobs while women work in office jobs.
So yes, women should cook and clean.
Half!
Same in Jamaica, I love taking care of my home. Its simply inate, not for a man. I do it anyways, its in me. Then give it to the one you love.....Tantalize him. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤭🤭🤭🤭coconut head. Ur advice is solid. tfs dear...
I love you ❤... Lol
Hunty oyibos do the same duties
Women would rather get $3.99 from random men these days than cook and clean.
Those are only the influencers
U said aaaaooooo see how u are sweating y isn't there AC in side ur car🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
And why don’t you go inside the video to check if there’s ac in d car or not. I think going inside will answer your question or what do you think
Her culture is not like mines
From the look of things, blessing you are one of Most women that never does nothing in organising the home due to body language, actions and character by focusing your attention more in materials things and this leads you to lazyness
It is definitely the lack of appreciation..you slave and sweat. Spend hours and at the end no praise.
Do you praise your man every time he comes from work?
"Thank you for working so hard dear? I appreciate it?"
Doesn't sound like something most wives do.
It sounds to me like women are attention whores who wish to be emotionall validated at every single turn.
Maybe grow up and stop looking for validation all the time.
Men do not need to be constantly praised every day. You shouldn't either.