me and my relationship with men | yani's room
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.พ. 2025
- sabi nga ni charli xcx, i was busy thinking 'bout boys.....3 or 4 years ago 😅
as someone na sobrang hilig sa pogi dati, nakakacrazy (medyo) marealize na i haven't thought about men in a long time. k long naman mga te di ko naman ikinamatay! pero napaisip ako why 🤥
feel ko naman di ako nag-iisa WOW
open na ang ating #LettersToYani NAPAKAARTE! send your letters, problems, chika, kahit titulo ng lupa to our email: yanisroompodcast@gmail.com 🎀
un lng see u next week
#yanisroom #yanihatesu
⊹₊꒷︶꒷꒦‧₊˚⊹
ig: @kwartoniyani
spotify: bit.ly/yanisroom
💌 yanisroompodcast@gmail.com for inquiries
“people can only meet you at a point that they already met themselves” SLAAAAY PHILOSOPHER YANI
"okay na 'ko sa presence mo, 'wag ka nang magsalita" hAGSHHAHWHHWHAA 😭😭😭
gets na gets yang thoughts mo, mareng yani haha may certain topics na ang hirap idiscuss with straight people kasi other than hindi sila informed sa queer culture, they also tend to have some sort of resistance sa queerness or other pictures of relationships outside of the binary haha
Relate!! Kaya mga bi and gay talaga nagiging crush ko most of the time (as a girl), nasa kanila yung humor , personality, vibes and substance
I also identified as bisexual (90% women, 10% men lol) before reading comphet and that really opened my eyes. I think there's also a stigma about just simply being called a lesbian which may be why some women are just hesitant to jump ship. I'm just glad being lesbian isn't linked to being "masc" or "butch" exclusively anymore and more representation are coming out on social media (lipstick lezzies, chapsticks, soft butch, etc) so more people can be educated about it.
love this topic kasi it’s rarely talked about talaga especially comphet in the philippines. even though we have been slowly progressing na as a society people still have the tendency to treat “comphet” as something lesbians experience lang pero parang it’s much more prominent pa nga to the bisexual women i know ehh. very telling as to how embedded parin ang religious guilt and internal homophobia but this vid helps a lot in opening up that convo!
Yani you made this episode so interesting from start to finish! So proud of u!! (Wow close?!??)
As a trans and queer person myself I totally agree to most, if not all, of the things you’ve said in this episode.
Nakakatawa yung conversation with herself progresses with herself. Yung nahahanap mo yung answers by yourself, funny because I do that too, lalo na pag nag iisip ako ng mga witty comebacks sa mga taong punchable yung personalities hahaha
Though there are a lot of factors for straight people to act traditionally straight, you should invite viewers to talk about it live, it would be hella fun.
All this time, I thought I was straight until I realized when I was 26 that I was attracted to girls, guys, and gays.
You're also right about gender fluidity. Preferences can change over time. Based on my experiences, most straight men really suck at emotional intelligence. It's rare to meet emotionally intelligent and empathic straight men.
SOBRANG LALA NG PAGKAKA RELATE NG LAHAT SA BUHAY NI YANNIE SAKEN para akong hinuhug and vinavalidate as a person!
GETS NA GETS TODAY'S EPISODE OMYGHODDD. i've been waiting for you to open up this topic and i can say that i agree so much w ur thoughts. from influence of masculinity to biphobia/bi erasure, tumpak na tumpak talaga. hindi talaga magegets ng mga straights na 'yan ang queerness as long as influenced sila ng certain beliefs, esp the thought of being queer as insult.
really felt ung inis sa responses ng mga tao kapag may queer person na nasa hetero relationship. i believe its a problem of ph society as a whole of not accepting queer sexualities and genders. and who is to blame except colonialism and the import of religion.
super luv this episode 🙇🏻♀️
thanks for this long yap sesh! hahaha nagstart ako maglinis ng kwarto. natapos na tong podcast di pa rin ako tapos maglinis 😭 niweys, may mga realizations ako sa mga sinabi mo and 'di ko pa rin gets if ano na ba yung gender orientation ko.
relate sa part na sobrang rare na nga makahanap ng straight guy na may emotional intelligence. and as a babaeng may baklang humor, ang hirap nga i-translate sa kanila yung humor mo at yung mga thoughts 🥲
Omg episode 4 na proud of you Yani 😚
grabe mx yani!!! SUPER RELATE AKO SA EP MO NA TO NGAYON AS IN!!!
love it sm!! gets na gets
i super lurv this episode, kudos yaniiii!!!
Ate Yani and I share a point in our childhood na sinasabihan na tomboy daw. Very siga ako maglakad, di ako kikay (only recently) and I just acted very siga in general. Pero ate Yani's experience is very different from me because unlike her, nag boyfriend ako and that killed the gay allegations. Pero, as we speak, I identify as a bisexual, just like ate, only difference is I'm more into men.
Ate Yani's point doon sa seperating friends is SOOO spot on. I have two "circles" that I'd love to keep seperated. One are my queer friends and the other are my straight male friends. Unlike ate Yani, I on the other hand does not feel attraction to women as much as I do with men-parang like she said "okay na 'ko sa presence mo" (but not with the salita part) is me with women. Like I admire them a lot, I fall in love with them pero I cannot pursue a relationship with them. Di naman ako takot to pursue a woman, it's just that di lang ako nagri-reach sa level that I do with men. Due to being boyish kasi, most of my friends are men. Hanggang ngayon, I still struggle to interact with the same sex na parang feeling ko, women are an unrealistic ideal that I cannot have (maraming factors diyan, aside sa ating very hetero-promoting society, mayroon din akong insecurities)
All I can say is as a society, we should stop being so heteronormative (wow??? Big words) and learn to accept that we, as humans have the capacity to be attracted to anyone we like.
And btw, yes, ako yung nakasalubong mo sa LB that talked about dating afams exclusively (kaya i am unfazed with the UPLB stereotype) 😂😂
yani's trying to think of an example ata talaga to at ang word of the day ay "dwindling ✨"
Love the sweatshirt
I must say, I super love this episode!!! +++ I can resonate with you, I was talking with you (and I was able to predict few words you were trying to say) throughout the entire talk. LOVE IT!!!!
Ganda nitong episode na to
thanks for this episode, yani
SOAPER GANDA NG EP HUHAEUHAUEHA
ganda ng episode huhu ♡♡♡
ANG DIVA NG 1 HR MA HA I LOVE
hi, ms. yani! i don’t usually leave comments peroooo haysx ewan ko parang sinisipag ako mag-type nang mahaba ngayon. sooo anyway, na-gegets talaga kita like supeeeeer. ang hirap na talaga makihalubilo sa mga straight people kasi ang dami talaga differences i guess. saka i love how you deliver this episode kasi kahit ang daming shifting ng topics, for me, it’s not boring and it still keeps me interested and andoon pa rin talaga ‘yong attention ko and while discussing subtopic, alam ko na mababalikan mo pa rin ‘yong main point mo that’s why excited ako kapag alam ko ibabalik mo na ulit sa main topic mo tapos marami rin munang chika before we can into there jahshaahah wala for me mas exciting ‘yong ganitong style. ewan siguro kasi maiksi rin ‘yong focus ko sa pag-didiscuss kasi ganito rin ako, pasikot-sikot sa pag-buo ng thoughts pero naka note sa utak ko na need ko pa rin balikan ‘yong main topic ko hahaha. nakita ko sarili ko sa ‘yo in this episode, kasi ganito rin ako kapag nag s-self reflect or randomly having an intrapersonal communication hahshahaha. i love u, ms. yani! more episodes to comeee!
waittt, suggestion lang haha! irdk if it's really helpful, pero diba you say at the first part of the video na nahihirapan ka mag-focus sa mga topics mo kapag may camera na. what if, since this is yani's room, you can do other stuffs na you usually do sa room mo and then start yapping while the cam is still running, then after that you can do a sit down video na after doing random stuff. HAHAHAHA irdk if this is rly yk, will help?? HAHA basta that's the vision 😭😭
HAHAHAHHA ANG INTERESTING NETO i’ll see!!
"okay na ako sa presence mo, wag ka na magsalita" me fr HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
same feels. i’ve only been in romantic relationships with men and minsan may mga taong hindi naniniwala na bi talaga ako just bc wala pa akong naging jowa na girl
i relate to this too much T____T sexuality crisis na naman ang badet ... thx yani
ay pak bongga isang oras!!
aaa i feel seen. I've always felt invalid dahil late bloomer ako sa pagiging bading or baka matagal na talaga kaso di ako fully knowledgable sa sogie and mataas ang standards ko before (wow)
magrereview din sana ko kaso wag nalang pala, dito nalang ako makikinig kay yani HAHAHA
Straight guy ako pero this is insightful.
wowwww welcome dito!!
PRESENTTTTTTTTTTTTTT
mx yani, quick question lang. possible bang may iu-uploag kang hk vlog? ang kwela kasi nung sponsored vid mo w gcash 😅
Relate 😅 gender fluid too
omg 1 hour
yes............ganun nga
nakakamiss 'yong boses mo😭
WAHAHAHAHAHAH sa " wag ka nang magsalita"🤣
Kinaya naman ng attention span ko yung one hour vid
4:12 so true
MAGREVIEW - ❎❎❎
MAKINIG KAY YANI - ✅✅✅✅
deadliest deadline na talaga bukas ng backlogs but We will listen
gawa ka backlogs habang nakikinig!!
Walang tapon one hour mo bhie.
Kakauwi ko lang te dahil sa traffic tas ikaw bungad sa yt ko 🫵🏻😔😔😔😔
7:41
3:46 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
Ma nag open ako ng yt para sana sa Law readings lesson, pero mas okay ata ‘to
SES
GIVE KO SAYO YAN TE 1HR KABOG
parang nagpalit ka lang ng damit from last ep charot LABYU YANI
HOY NALIGO NAMAN AKO ay
gets
natuyo ba laway mo dito mhie
si Yani ba talaga ‘to? ba’t ang dalas mag-upload
ah tite
gets