You come across to me to be so strong and beautiful!! I know when this is done and over with you'll be a much more stronger person!! Sending lots of love and positive thoughts your way. 💜💜💜
So this was 8 years ago... I think I only found you less than a year ago. You're going through this tough journey and you look as gorgeous as you do today 2/13/2024... I think you're amAzing! You caught my attention when I saw the word vintage. I'm praying that God will keep you strong and healthy and C FREE. Continued Blessings to You and Pete!!! and yes, your Puppy...
There is one thing I have found for certain with anytime you seek counnseling. People cannot learn how to relate to people who have experienced certain things from a book. A text book doesn't cut it. You have to find a counselor who has been through the same experience. We have found that to be the case with severe medical issues and sexual assault. Those who have not experienced don't even know what to ask or help you with. Thank you for sharing your experience because for years to come your words will be available for people to hear when they think they are alone and no one else understands. I know my comments are years after the fact, but I just found your blog. I began watching you and your sidekick in your fun sourcing videos, then ran across this series. Your openness is undoubtedly going to be a Godsend for many people without you even knowing it!
Selena.....I am so proud of you for dealing with this ordeal with grace and elegance! You are truly an inspiring young woman....! I always tell you...."you got this girl" but honestly you do! As an RN, I see many, many cancer patients, some deal with their cancer in negative ways, some are neutral and some put their boxing gloves on and fight like hell....And you.....my friend have put on your girly girl boxing gloves and have whipped this cancer......only 4 more treatments wow!!! You keep this strong attitude up! You are a beautiful person, I so enjoy hearing the updates, seeing your vintage hauls etc.....When I met you at the Colburg Antique Fair this summer.....I walked away thinking to myself, "wow, that girl has a long road ahead of her, in her cancer treatments" but, your almost ready to crest that long mountain you have been climbing.....once you reach the top (4 treatments away) You will feel so liberated that YOU conquered this cruel hand that you were dealt. Why some people (even children) have to deal with this we will never know.....But I feel that each battle that we come across in life, only makes us a stronger individual......Hugs to you my friend.....And, like I said, if you ever come to Roseburg to thrift.....we will have to grab a coffee together......(((Hugs)))
I just found your channel and I have to say I'm so glad I did. The first vids I watched today was your vintage hauls and then I started snooping around and spotted this newest one. You're such a strong, beautiful woman.
Hey Miss Salena, ya'll are in my prayers. my elder sister Judie finished her treatments for breasts cancer a few months ago, Praise GOD she made it!!!!! I canna imagine my life without her in it, dontcha know! I'm right glad to know ya'll are gonna make it as well! Never forget that JESUS loves you with His whole Heart dear lady!!!!
I watch a lot of YouTubr videos, but I have never left a comment before. You are an absolute inspiration and your words are the swift kick in the buns that I needed to wake up and love myself more by taking better care of myself. My mother was diagnosed with breast cancer when she was 41. I am 44 and have been lucky not to have it thus far. I have been very lazy about my healthcare, but not anymore. Thank you for sharing your journey. God bless.
You are my new hero, your brain is your strength, and it's you therapist, that is so obvious to me. I have taken care of 3 family members with cancer, and the one thing they all have in common, is there ability to think through the pain, the emotional distress and come out a stronger, more empathetic and wonderful human being, you my dear are at that part of your rough but enlighning journey. Keep going it's right at your door, your a beautiful soul I love u💖💖💖💖💖
You are so true to yourself and with your viewers. Honesty is the best. I prefer that. I appreciate you and what you have gone through. You are brave and so strong. Thank you, you beautiful soul ❤☝🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️
Oh, Sweetie. U r beautiful inside & out. U have a kind heart. U radiate sweetness. :). Councilors never worked for me. I'm a to private of a person. I went through some deep depression for 5 yrs. From losses I couldn't handle. It just made me more determined to help myself, rather than them.. I know its "hard"! U came this far! U can go all the way! We, that enjoy ur site so much. R pushing along with u..... :)
+Pam Lenon Yeah I think it's hard to find someone that you feel really cares and someone you can connect with. I haven't given up on the concept just yet though haha :)
You are a beautiful woman who is going through something in life that you didn't deserve to get but you are strong and you give me strength. God bless!
I just wish I could give YOU a hug that would lift you up and take away all the yucky pain and discomfort!!! 💕💕💕 You are beautiful, strong, brave and amazing and I am so so proud of you. Love and big hugs ❤️❤️😘😘😘
Sending you love and a Big hug! I have learned so much from you Selena and watched your Grace under pressure and your sweet words. I got a mammogram thanks to you and fought for an MRI (but was declined) and learned a lot in the process. One thing I learned was that my Dr. was telling me that I only needed a mammogram every 5 years. The nurse told me to always follow the American Cancer Societies recommendation. Thank you for your encouragement to go. God is using you as a Blessing for others. Keep shining His love.
+Yacky Cat I'm so proud of you for taking care of your body. I believe you should go see the Dr whenever you feel something is "off". That's how my lump was discovered. Only by mammogram , you couldn't even feel it. I was having strange pains, and something inside me told me I needed to figure out what was wrong. I'm so glad I could be here to "push" to get checked! XO
You are such a sweet, beautiful soul.....I wish I could hug you too. I don't even know you but find myself thinking about you some times during the day hoping you are well and that the chemo is doing its thing. I'm sending prayers to you. You remind me of my own daughter,.... sweet and gentle.....you hang in there. With all the prayers you have coming your way....you'll be fine. You are a WARRIOR!! Hugs.
Just watching this video, my strong, brave, courageous friend. I feel like the rest of us i'm sure, we just want to give you a great big hug. You were talking about "you not being in control, the doctors are in control the medications are in control" Non-True my friend, always remember this if you never remember anything else I said or will say " GOD IS ALWAYS THE ONE IN CONTROL" Love you Sweetie...xoxo
You are such a beautiful person. I hated when people would tell me they understand what I was dealing with. No they didn't. Its different for each of us. I would go from happy to a full rage in a split second. You have done amazing and everything you feel is ok. Even though I have been in remission for a few years now I am still scared. I have lymph node they missed. But I am strong and a survivor and so are you! I will not let cancer define me and you haven't either! Stay strong baby girl...5 more to go...a walk in the park now. Always in my prayers and heart! Oh and I almost have your package ready FINALLY lol!!
We all love you! You are genuine, honest, inspiring and Beautiful! You spoke words felt from deep in your heart. You have such genuine and honest substance...and that is very moving. A rare thing to experience these days. Thank you for being our friend and sharing such very difficult things you are feeling and experiencing! Your videos have made me learn to appreciate, myself more and what I have...and that is a HUGE gift you have given me!(bet you didn't know!) I am so excited that you only have a few treatments left!!! The last day of your treatment will be a huge milestone moment, and the ultimate turning point in your life! We will all be cheering you on! Big GIANT long Hugs! Jan :))
+SecondHandJan You are always so kind to me Jan. Thank you for always being such a supportive friend to me. Only four more treatments left for me now. Thank God time is going quickly!
I cry watching bc I go through this now so I understand you .Every day I cry and ask God why me I was eating healthy, workout, no family history. This chemo took a lot energy from me and mentally some days fatigue, nausea I wish you the best ♥️🙏
I think you are great spokeperson for breast cancer. You are going through Hell but everyone else who is going through this also finds relief from contact with you.
Girl, you have been an instrument for all of us. Sometimes things happen for a reason we might not no why. But you probably have a different outlook in life and appreciate every moment. Most people take things for granted, not you. Try to see someone who can build your inner health holistically and detox. Do also see a spiritual person. Does not matter what religion but someone who has an open heart will help you. Kisses
It was nice to see you vulnable for a change. Not everyday is a happy smiley day. I am sure it felt good to let it all out and we are all listening so I want you to know you are not speaking to a brick wall when I watch and listen to you. I just got home yesterday from the Hospital after having my 3rd back surgery. I know it's not on the same level but believe it or not you have and will give me the strength to get through my Recovery and I want to Thank You for that. Best of Luck on your 5 and counting down. Prayers coming your way. God Bless....
+Cathy Pastrana Thank you Cathy. Back pain can be terrible. I have pinched nerves from a past injury that tweek and make me scream sometimes :( I hope you are taking it easy. You CAN get through this and heal. The mind is a strong instrument that can carry you through this. Sending love and light to you
Selena, You are so strong and so so so special, I wish for you and pray for you always to be blessed with all the health, love, joy, laughter, and yes HUGS you can handle!!!!. maybe what would help is try to talk to God, sing to him, write him letters filled with all you are grateful for and all you wish for, He is the Absolute ultimate counsellor best friend, confident,healer, protector, Father.. and he knows you and so loves you xoxo
Amazing how you can communicate your feelings so well I am sending you a big hug from Hawaii ,well done girl.God is my only strength I can do nothing without it everyday I am calling out for his help .Blessings ,pray you feel better soon.Enjoy your clips.
your spirit is very strong and beautiful....maybe there is a support group of ladies that are going through the same thing you are and you can reach out to them and they can help talk you through these last few chemos.....or go to a church support group to help you know that God has a plan for you and they can support you through this. Cancer is such an awful thing to go through by yourself...God bless you and I am praying for your strength to push through these last couple of weeks.
I just discovered you and so glad l did. Before l read the comments I kept thinking how beautiful you are. I will be keeping you in prayer also. Thanks for sharing your journey! I know it's helping a lot of people. God bless and Jesus loves you!
prayers lifted up! You'll be a better person after this, you'll be a guiding light for others who come down the same path in the future. We don't often understand what God has in store for us when he makes us travel these difficult journey's, but He has his arms around you, and He's walking beside you. Let Him take the wheel and watch the miracle's happen. He'll carry you when it gets to hard.
I stumbled across you, but I am glad I found you. You're the only one that says fricken as much as me. I wish you could style me. Love what you put together all the time! Good luck with your 5 treatments. Sucks you have to go threw that!
Hi! Ive been following you all thru this & I think ur super brave & incredible! I know u don't know me, Im just some subscriber that lives across the country but I want u to know how inspiring u are to me! I love ur channel. I love everything u do. It's obvious it's ur passion & being able to earn a iving at what gives u so much happiness is awesome in my book! I hate my job, I love my home, husband, decorating, diy, and all the things u do. I wonder if maybe a support group would b helpful for ur feelings. There's something to b said about being around people who have gone theu the same thing. My father died from prostate cancer 12 years ago. If he was still avile he would of been 69 tomorrow. I don't know what chemo is like but I do know how much it hurts to see someone u love to be in so much pain & not b able to function the way they want to. Ive had 2 mammograms so far the past couple of years & so good. God bless, best wishes on a full recovery!!
WE love you and are so glad that you are taking us threw this journey with you. I know some people who are going down the same road as you. I am so happy you are able to talk about it as you have been doing. I know it will help you as it will others. Thank You.
I just started watching your video to day I spent 7 hours watching them.Love them. are you ok now? I need to know, I keep watching them I find you amazing. You gave me motivation. My husband passed away last August I haven't done anything.And from watching your video for 7 hours I got motivation thank you. we have the some taste. sorry so long of message.again you are amazing
Sending big hugs and prayers to you my dear. I just started watching your channel and I feel so bad for you my dear . You are such a sweet person and you don't deserve this. God moves in mysterious ways but you will survive this. It's just hard to except why he chose you. I am going in to hospital myself , next week for a breast biopsy. It runs in my family so I have been in tune to it. Hopefully, it's not to late.
I Can just send you my love and understanding that is not much, but i will have you in my mind and i will imagine you full of healing energy... You are an amazing person ... All my love
Jesus I lift up Selena to you! Lord I know cancer does not come from you, touch her with your healing hands. Lord heal her from her toes to her head. Giver her that strength to fight that you can only give. Jesus give her that peace that only you can give. I ask you to fill her soul, body and mind with your Holy Spirit. I ask you to surround her with your love. And give her, her miracle like you have done with me! This I pray in Jesus name. Amen! You are an inspiration! You stay strong in Jesus. Soon this shall pass and you will have a great testimony. One that saves others. You are probably already doing that. Sending love. I receive your hug and send you a great big one too. God bless you greatly! Xoxoxo
I've only just found your channel and see this is from several months back, but you look great, and I love your hat! You're very brave, and your lively personality is an inspiration!
I have been watching your videos for a while now! Stay Strong! I am thinking of you, yesterday I even saw this one "Free People" jacket and I was like Selena would love that lol :) ~Katie
omgaaarsh im in tears with you wow i just really feel your heart its so precious your amazing and im going to make my drs appointment this week tew...teo things im goong to send healing prayers for tonite is the leg pain and your fingernails...yes draw close to God. ....and take him thrift shopping with you.....hell find you treasures and of course imm kicking brest cancers ass with some huhe prayer for you too...uhgg five more treatment eeek its soo close can we alll just do a count down with you....butvwith every treatment you gotta. get one thing from the thrift store to your self from God cuz your loved giiiirl.....ok let me know how you legs and hands feel from now on much love
You are SO strong and you are kicking cancer's ass. You have been brave and beautiful throughout this entire journey and I just know you are helping/going to help so many people because you went through this.
I love you, you are such a strong woman to go through this and such an inspiration to us! God bless you snd your family and give you strength and health to get through this, you are in our prayers. ❤️😙
Selena, you are so beautiful ....inside and out. You really articulated so amazingly what it's like and I found myself nodding my head yes as if we were in the same room. I feel as if I know you and am sending you love and hugs. You were right on as far as what you said about needing to find a counselor that you click with. I've gone to someone that I had absolutely no rapport with and then found someone that I really did have a lot of rapport with. I guess it just depends on your chemistry with that person. I hope you find someone you like if that is something you want to do. I respect and admire you so much and how you think of others -- by doing these amazing videos for us. I know it's got to be really hard. You have a lot of inner strength and a beautiful spirit. Sending you lots of love from California.
+Susan Schafer Thank you Susuan. I'm trying......I just hope to show other women that are going through this or another health problem that you CAN hold onto the things you love and you CAN get through it. It a mind of matter game for sure. It's incredible how strong the mind can be when you tap into your inner strength. Thank you for being my friend
+Vintage Bombshell I have dealt with a very lengthy and difficult health issue that thank God, is in remission -- for the most part. There are times that I seriously wondered if I would ever feel better and see some light...or even have the strength and energy to walk down the hall or make a meal without being totally depleted of everything in me. But I think I always kept that ray of hope and faith and it did get better. I am so grateful and now I don't take anything for granted....most of the time. I really try not to. I try to stay grateful and prioritize -- remember that whats important in life is the people I love and that love me. I know you are very loved and have so many people rooting for you. I dont mean to ramble on about myself. I guess I'm just trying to say that it was really dark for me before I saw the light again. But even though it was so very dark and difficult, it did get better. I agree with you that it's often mind over matter. And I really admire and respect you for being so honest, open and direct about what's going on with you - and sharing your life and your love with all of us. I'm sure you're helping and will continue to help a lot of people. Sending you love and hugs. And as one thrifter to another.......keep on thriftin baby! THRIFT ON!!
+Vintage Bombshell I have dealt with a very lengthy and difficult health issue that thank God, is in remission -- for the most part. There are times that I seriously wondered if I would ever feel better and see some light...or even have the strength and energy to walk down the hall or make a meal without being totally depleted of everything in me. But I think I always kept that ray of hope and faith and it did get better. I am so grateful and now I don't take anything for granted....most of the time. I really try not to. I try to stay grateful and prioritize -- remember that whats important in life is the people I love and that love me. I know you are very loved and have so many people rooting for you. I dont mean to ramble on about myself. I guess I'm just trying to say that it was really dark for me before I saw the light again. But even though it was so very dark and difficult, it did get better. I agree with you that it's often mind over matter. And I really admire and respect you for being so honest, open and direct about what's going on with you - and sharing your life and your love with all of us. I'm sure you're helping and will continue to help a lot of people. Sending you love and hugs. And as one thrifter to another.......keep on thriftin baby! Love you.
+Vintage Bombshell Selena, I have to explain something. The reply that says it's fromJamenica Reyes was written by me. Jamenica is a good friend who alloweed me to use her tablet to watch your video and respond back to your comment. I didn't realize that my comment would have her name on it. and on top of that, it was sent twice somehow. Sorry. Ok, I just wanted to clarify that. I'll try to fix it so that my next comments come with my own name.
Stay strong and try to watch inspirational videos on TH-cam. That will help a lot, mentally anyway. Sending positive energy your way! PS. Cool hat and hairstyle!
Dear HEAVENLY FATHER .... Please wrap your loving arms around your beautiful daughter and give her strength to kick this disease to the curb. She is too precious and important to all of us. Help her heal her body and give her the strength to carry on. We ask this in your son JESUS CHRIST'S name. Amen. 💜💜💜 Your strength inspires us all and we're not ready to let you go! Keep on fighting and we'll keep on praying for you.💜💜💜 Hugs xxxx 💙 💙💙
I started watching your channel years ago when it was mspinkfabulous, and having some down time today at work I figured I'd look your channel up and see how you're doing. I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this. You have always been so vibrant and full of life. I will pray for a full and speedy healing. Thank you for sharing your story. Bless you, girl. You'll get through this!
I love you so much. I'd be blessed to be as brave as you. You are always on my mind and in my heart. You're so beautiful inside and out. Xoxo Thank you for your videos. I am so thankful to see you and hear your heart. Please keep smiling. We're going to get up thattaway soon! Huge hugs 💜 Love the hat girlie 😍👍🏻
+Joanie Earle I never thought I could ever handle something like this. The thought of doing chemo terrified me....but here I am. I'm doing it. I did it. Hope to see to some time soon!
you are so amazing and inspiring even though it hasnt been easy youve touch so many people lives and i lov ya for all that uv hav shared in this journey in Jesus name in faith there will be light at the end .
Hi Selena, I was drawn to your channel some time back, through our mutual love of anything shabby, chic and gorgeous! and over the last few weeks, watching your back videos, I learned of your current health issues, I have never done this before but I just want to wish you Gods light and pray for your recovery, what a lovely person you are! youv made me laugh out loud at times and I love love love your taste ! God Bless Selena from the Emerald Isle ( Ireland)
Hugs to you! I have the bone and joint pain. I know this part you are going thru. I have Acromegaly and had a tumor removed off of my pituitary gland in Jan. xoxoxo
Thank you for sharing your heart!! I can't imagine in alot of ways what you are going thru, but I suffer with another illness that is often stigmatized! So I understand a part of your journey of feeling out of control! You are a brave and strong woman for going thru this journey and I believe you WILL touch a lot of hearts!! Praying for a speedy recovery!!!xoxox
Thank you so much for this video, I am sending you hugs and my love. You have made me realize I need to go and get the biopsy that I was told I needed and have been putting off. I guess I just don't want to have to face anything currently. I am going to make the appointment on Monday. Thank you for your strength. May God bless you and keep you safely protected in his loving arms. You look gorgeous.
you are a very beautiful person I love watching you and look forward to seeing your future finds and this is all behind you are very strong and pretty lol janet
You motivated me to get checked and I am very thankful. 🌹I had breast pain, which turned out to be nothing...what I did find out, was that I have very dense breasts, and that mammograms are close to ineffective, without an ultrasound. In finding this, also found that there are a lot of women, aren't aware that having dense breasts, means that you have to push for an ultrasound. Doctors won't outwardly tell the patient...probably because of cost. How wrong is this?
+AliceCries You need to seek out a place that does the 3D mammography which gives an accurate view of your breast tissue, especially if you have dense breasts.
I have that too. I've had it for several years now. I'm still in my 30's and have had 2 mammograms already. Doc says it should go away with menopause. I guess that's something to look forward to. Something that Does help is green tea. The more I drink it, the less painful they are.
+Debbie G I actually know of such a machine, but they cost 600k, which make them few and far between. It is going to replace the standard mammogram, but they will be years from now, meaning a lot of women will lose their lives. So sad. I was reading, so where that, 49%, of women, have dense breasts, but it seems to mean nothing, when it comes cost and education.
+Stacy Wilson yeah, I drink a lot of caffeine, I know that contributes to pain. I found that a certain type of bra (that I was wearing) was also the culprit...underwire and I, don't get along. 😕
👋 selena ur a brave young women and beautiful it's hard sometimes we ask why this thing happens 2 wonderful good people but ur going 2 beat this god take care of his good people 🙏 🤲 🕍 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
My Drs said I'm too young to get a mammogram (I'm 38). They said nothing will show up in a mammogram until after 40 because the tissue changes after 40. I have talked to 4 Drs that told me this.
+annieg1977 Find a doctor that will refer you. I have three other friends under 40 that have had breast cancer. You have to stand up for yourself. Doctors just go by what they have seen among the average....
My heart just aches for you; I'm so happy you're on the mend in 2019!
You come across to me to be so strong and beautiful!! I know when this is done and over with you'll be a much more stronger person!! Sending lots of love and positive thoughts your way. 💜💜💜
So this was 8 years ago... I think I only found you less than a year ago. You're going through this tough journey and you look as gorgeous as you do today 2/13/2024... I think you're amAzing! You caught my attention when I saw the word vintage. I'm praying that God will keep you strong and healthy and C FREE. Continued Blessings to You and Pete!!! and yes, your Puppy...
There is one thing I have found for certain with anytime you seek counnseling. People cannot learn how to relate to people who have experienced certain things from a book. A text book doesn't cut it. You have to find a counselor who has been through the same experience. We have found that to be the case with severe medical issues and sexual assault. Those who have not experienced don't even know what to ask or help you with. Thank you for sharing your experience because for years to come your words will be available for people to hear when they think they are alone and no one else understands. I know my comments are years after the fact, but I just found your blog. I began watching you and your sidekick in your fun sourcing videos, then ran across this series. Your openness is undoubtedly going to be a Godsend for many people without you even knowing it!
Selena.....I am so proud of you for dealing with this ordeal with grace and elegance! You are truly an inspiring young woman....! I always tell you...."you got this girl" but honestly you do! As an RN, I see many, many cancer patients, some deal with their cancer in negative ways, some are neutral and some put their boxing gloves on and fight like hell....And you.....my friend have put on your girly girl boxing gloves and have whipped this cancer......only 4 more treatments wow!!! You keep this strong attitude up! You are a beautiful person, I so enjoy hearing the updates, seeing your vintage hauls etc.....When I met you at the Colburg Antique Fair this summer.....I walked away thinking to myself, "wow, that girl has a long road ahead of her, in her cancer treatments" but, your almost ready to crest that long mountain you have been climbing.....once you reach the top (4 treatments away) You will feel so liberated that YOU conquered this cruel hand that you were dealt. Why some people (even children) have to deal with this we will never know.....But I feel that each battle that we come across in life, only makes us a stronger individual......Hugs to you my friend.....And, like I said, if you ever come to Roseburg to thrift.....we will have to grab a coffee together......(((Hugs)))
I just found your channel and I have to say I'm so glad I did. The first vids I watched today was your vintage hauls and then I started snooping around and spotted this newest one. You're such a strong, beautiful woman.
Thank you for sharing. From one cancer patient to another. I always feel a black cloud is following me.God Bless!
Sorry you are going thru this, my mother had breast cancer 40 years ago and today she is 93! Sending prayers, Ellen.
You are such an inspiration to so many! Thanks for always being honest with us and being vulnerable with your feelings. Wish I could hug you!
Hey Miss Salena, ya'll are in my prayers. my elder sister Judie finished her treatments for breasts cancer a few months ago, Praise GOD she made it!!!!! I canna imagine my life without her in it, dontcha know! I'm right glad to know ya'll are gonna make it as well! Never forget that JESUS loves you with His whole Heart dear lady!!!!
I watch a lot of YouTubr videos, but I have never left a comment before. You are an absolute inspiration and your words are the swift kick in the buns that I needed to wake up and love myself more by taking better care of myself. My mother was diagnosed with breast cancer when she was 41. I am 44 and have been lucky not to have it thus far. I have been very lazy about my healthcare, but not anymore. Thank you for sharing your journey. God bless.
You are my new hero, your brain is your strength, and it's you therapist, that is so obvious to me. I have taken care of 3 family members with cancer, and the one thing they all have in common, is there ability to think through the pain, the emotional distress and come out a stronger, more empathetic and wonderful human being, you my dear are at that part of your rough but enlighning journey. Keep going it's right at your door, your a beautiful soul I love u💖💖💖💖💖
You are so true to yourself and with your viewers. Honesty is the best. I prefer that. I appreciate you and what you have gone through. You are brave and so strong. Thank you, you beautiful soul ❤☝🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️
Oh, Sweetie. U r beautiful inside & out. U have a kind heart. U radiate sweetness. :). Councilors never worked for me. I'm a to private of a person. I went through some deep depression for 5 yrs. From losses I couldn't handle. It just made me more determined to help myself, rather than them.. I know its "hard"! U came this far! U can go all the way! We, that enjoy ur site so much. R pushing along with u..... :)
+Pam Lenon Yeah I think it's hard to find someone that you feel really cares and someone you can connect with. I haven't given up on the concept just yet though haha :)
You are a beautiful woman who is going through something in life that you didn't deserve to get but you are strong and you give me strength. God bless!
I just wish I could give YOU a hug that would lift you up and take away all the yucky pain and discomfort!!! 💕💕💕 You are beautiful, strong, brave and amazing and I am so so proud of you. Love and big hugs ❤️❤️😘😘😘
Sending you love and a Big hug! I have learned so much from you Selena and watched your Grace under pressure and your sweet words. I got a mammogram thanks to you and fought for an MRI (but was declined) and learned a lot in the process. One thing I learned was that my Dr. was telling me that I only needed a mammogram every 5 years. The nurse told me to always follow the American Cancer Societies recommendation. Thank you for your encouragement to go. God is using you as a Blessing for others. Keep shining His love.
+Yacky Cat I'm so proud of you for taking care of your body. I believe you should go see the Dr whenever you feel something is "off". That's how my lump was discovered. Only by mammogram , you couldn't even feel it. I was having strange pains, and something inside me told me I needed to figure out what was wrong. I'm so glad I could be here to "push" to get checked! XO
Love you, a huge hug the size of Texas. Praying for you every day. MiBelia In Texas
You are such a sweet, beautiful soul.....I wish I could hug you too. I don't even know you but find myself thinking about you some times during the day hoping you are well and that the chemo is doing its thing. I'm sending prayers to you. You remind me of my own daughter,.... sweet and gentle.....you hang in there. With all the prayers you have coming your way....you'll be fine. You are a WARRIOR!! Hugs.
Just watching this video, my strong, brave, courageous friend. I feel like the rest of us i'm sure, we just want to give you a great big hug. You were talking about "you not being in control, the doctors are in control the medications are in control" Non-True my friend, always remember this if you never remember anything else I said or will say " GOD IS ALWAYS THE ONE IN CONTROL" Love you Sweetie...xoxo
You are such a beautiful person. I hated when people would tell me they understand what I was dealing with. No they didn't. Its different for each of us. I would go from happy to a full rage in a split second. You have done amazing and everything you feel is ok. Even though I have been in remission for a few years now I am still scared. I have lymph node they missed. But I am strong and a survivor and so are you! I will not let cancer define me and you haven't either! Stay strong baby girl...5 more to go...a walk in the park now. Always in my prayers and heart! Oh and I almost have your package ready FINALLY lol!!
I'm so sorry for what you are going through, you are amazing to open up and share the reality of your fight.
Thank you.
We all love you! You are genuine, honest, inspiring and Beautiful! You spoke words felt from deep in your heart. You have such genuine and honest substance...and that is very moving. A rare thing to experience these days. Thank you for being our friend and sharing such very difficult things you are feeling and experiencing! Your videos have made me learn to appreciate, myself more and what I have...and that is a HUGE gift you have given me!(bet you didn't know!)
I am so excited that you only have a few treatments left!!! The last day of your treatment will be a huge milestone moment, and the ultimate turning point in your life! We will all be cheering you on! Big GIANT long Hugs! Jan :))
+SecondHandJan You are always so kind to me Jan. Thank you for always being such a supportive friend to me. Only four more treatments left for me now. Thank God time is going quickly!
I cry watching bc I go through this now so I understand you .Every day I cry and ask God why me I was eating healthy, workout, no family history. This chemo took a lot energy from me and mentally some days fatigue, nausea I wish you the best ♥️🙏
I think you are great spokeperson for breast cancer. You are going through Hell but everyone else who is going through this also finds relief from contact with you.
Girl, you have been an instrument for all of us. Sometimes things happen for a reason we might not no why. But you probably have a different outlook in life and appreciate every moment. Most people take things for granted, not you. Try to see someone who can build your inner health holistically and detox. Do also see a spiritual person. Does not matter what religion but someone who has an open heart will help you. Kisses
It was nice to see you vulnable for a change. Not everyday is a happy smiley day. I am sure it felt good to let it all out and we are all listening so I want you to know you are not speaking to a brick wall when I watch and listen to you. I just got home yesterday from the Hospital after having my 3rd back surgery. I know it's not on the same level but believe it or not you have and will give me the strength to get through my Recovery and I want to Thank You for that. Best of Luck on your 5 and counting down. Prayers coming your way. God Bless....
+Cathy Pastrana Thank you Cathy. Back pain can be terrible. I have pinched nerves from a past injury that tweek and make me scream sometimes :( I hope you are taking it easy. You CAN get through this and heal. The mind is a strong instrument that can carry you through this. Sending love and light to you
Selena, You are so strong and so so so special, I wish for you and pray for you always to be blessed with all the health, love, joy, laughter, and yes HUGS you can handle!!!!. maybe what would help is try to talk to God, sing to him, write him letters filled with all you are grateful for and all you wish for, He is the Absolute ultimate counsellor best friend, confident,healer, protector, Father.. and he knows you and so loves you xoxo
Amazing how you can communicate your feelings so well I am sending you a big hug from Hawaii ,well done girl.God is my only strength I can do nothing without it everyday I am calling out for his help .Blessings ,pray you feel better soon.Enjoy your clips.
+Dawn Faialaga Thank you Dawn. I think that's the musician in me pouring out my feelings. I think I need to get back to song writing right now.....
your spirit is very strong and beautiful....maybe there is a support group of ladies that are going through the same thing you are and you can reach out to them and they can help talk you through these last few chemos.....or go to a church support group to help you know that God has a plan for you and they can support you through this. Cancer is such an awful thing to go through by yourself...God bless you and I am praying for your strength to push through these last couple of weeks.
I just discovered you and so glad l did. Before l read the comments I kept thinking how beautiful you are. I will be keeping you in prayer also. Thanks for sharing your journey! I know it's helping a lot of people. God bless and Jesus loves you!
prayers lifted up! You'll be a better person after this, you'll be a guiding light for others who come down the same path in the future. We don't often understand what God has in store for us when he makes us travel these difficult journey's, but He has his arms around you, and He's walking beside you. Let Him take the wheel and watch the miracle's happen. He'll carry you when it gets to hard.
You are my Hero......Hang in there!...Lots of hugs and kisses across the miles for you xoxo!
I stumbled across you, but I am glad I found you. You're the only one that says fricken as much as me. I wish you could style me. Love what you put together all the time! Good luck with your 5 treatments. Sucks you have to go threw that!
Such an inspiration !! Congrats on the hair growing back and hugs plus prayers
You are a warrior! You have such a positive attitude, stay strong girl. big hugs to you and sending positive vibes.
Sending you love and hugs! I wish I could hug you too! So in awe of your strength and courage!! 💖
Hi! Ive been following you all thru this & I think ur super brave & incredible! I know u don't know me, Im just some subscriber that lives across the country but I want u to know how inspiring u are to me! I love ur channel. I love everything u do. It's obvious it's ur passion & being able to earn a iving at what gives u so much happiness is awesome in my book! I hate my job, I love my home, husband, decorating, diy, and all the things u do. I wonder if maybe a support group would b helpful for ur feelings. There's something to b said about being around people who have gone theu the same thing. My father died from prostate cancer 12 years ago. If he was still avile he would of been 69 tomorrow. I don't know what chemo is like but I do know how much it hurts to see someone u love to be in so much pain & not b able to function the way they want to. Ive had 2 mammograms so far the past couple of years & so good. God bless, best wishes on a full recovery!!
You are amazing! I'm just begining my journey with chemo for colon cancer. You are an inspiration. Thanks for sharing.
WE love you and are so glad that you are taking us threw this journey with you. I know some people who are going down the same road as you. I am so happy you are able to talk about it as you have been doing. I know it will help you as it will others. Thank You.
I just started watching your video to day I spent 7 hours watching them.Love them. are you ok now? I need to know, I keep watching them I find you amazing. You gave me motivation. My husband passed away last August I haven't done anything.And from watching your video for 7 hours I got motivation thank you. we have the some taste. sorry so long of message.again you are amazing
Sending big hugs and prayers to you my dear. I just started watching your channel and I feel so bad for you my dear . You are such a sweet person and you don't deserve this. God moves in mysterious ways but you will survive this. It's just hard to except why he chose you. I am going in to hospital myself , next week for a breast biopsy. It runs in my family so I have been in tune to it. Hopefully, it's not to late.
I am sooo proud and touch by you! You are an inspiration to all. Thank you for sharing your story💕
I Can just send you my love and understanding that is not much, but i will have you in my mind and i will imagine you full of healing energy... You are an amazing person ... All my love
You dont have to accept it and its ok to be angry all those things just make you stronger hugs to you too thank you for sharing your life with us
Jesus I lift up Selena to you! Lord I know cancer does not come from you, touch her with your healing hands. Lord heal her from her toes to her head. Giver her that strength to fight that you can only give. Jesus give her that peace that only you can give. I ask you to fill her soul, body and mind with your Holy Spirit. I ask you to surround her with your love. And give her, her miracle like you have done with me! This I pray in Jesus name. Amen!
You are an inspiration! You stay strong in Jesus. Soon this shall pass and you will have a great testimony. One that saves others. You are probably already doing that. Sending love. I receive your hug and send you a great big one too. God bless you greatly! Xoxoxo
+Faviola Vidal Thank you so much for your prayers and kindness to me
Sending tons of hugs and love your way! You are stronger than you know!
+Le-Anne Summers thank you my sweet friend!
Sending big hugs and prayers for strength you are doing a great job such a strong lady xxx
I've only just found your channel and see this is from several months back, but you look great, and I love your hat! You're very brave, and your lively personality is an inspiration!
thank you so much for your kind words
Thanks Selina for being so honest in this journey
Big hugs and lots of love to you! Always in my thoughts and prayers! xoxo, Jan
+MegaJansue thank you my friend
I have been watching your videos for a while now! Stay Strong! I am thinking of you, yesterday I even saw this one "Free People" jacket and I was like Selena would love that lol :)
~Katie
Sending you big hugs love. I am so proud of you. You have all of our support and love. Light and love from Miami! xo
+Alicat Style Thank you my sweet friend
omgaaarsh im in tears with you wow i just really feel your heart its so precious your amazing and im going to make my drs appointment this week tew...teo things im goong to send healing prayers for tonite is the leg pain and your fingernails...yes draw close to God.
....and take him thrift shopping with you.....hell find you treasures and of course imm kicking brest cancers ass with some huhe prayer for you too...uhgg five more treatment eeek its soo close can we alll just do a count down with you....butvwith every treatment you gotta. get one thing from the thrift store to your self from God cuz your loved giiiirl.....ok let me know how you legs and hands feel from now on much love
You are SO strong and you are kicking cancer's ass. You have been brave and beautiful throughout this entire journey and I just know you are helping/going to help so many people because you went through this.
I love you, you are such a strong woman to go through this and such an inspiration to us! God bless you snd your family and give you strength and health to get through this, you are in our prayers. ❤️😙
Selena, you are so beautiful ....inside and out. You really articulated so amazingly what it's like and I found myself nodding my head yes as if we were in the same room. I feel as if I know you and am sending you love and hugs. You were right on as far as what you said about needing to find a counselor that you click with. I've gone to someone that I had absolutely no rapport with and then found someone that I really did have a lot of rapport with. I guess it just depends on your chemistry with that person. I hope you find someone you like if that is something you want to do. I respect and admire you so much and how you think of others -- by doing these amazing videos for us. I know it's got to be really hard. You have a lot of inner strength and a beautiful spirit. Sending you lots of love from California.
+Susan Schafer Thank you Susuan. I'm trying......I just hope to show other women that are going through this or another health problem that you CAN hold onto the things you love and you CAN get through it. It a mind of matter game for sure. It's incredible how strong the mind can be when you tap into your inner strength. Thank you for being my friend
+Vintage Bombshell I have dealt with a very lengthy and difficult health issue that thank God, is in remission -- for the most part. There are times that I seriously wondered if I would ever feel better and see some light...or even have the strength and energy to walk down the hall or make a meal without being totally depleted of everything in me. But I think I always kept that ray of hope and faith and it did get better. I am so grateful and now I don't take anything for granted....most of the time. I really try not to. I try to stay grateful and prioritize -- remember that whats important in life is the people I love and that love me. I know you are very loved and have so many people rooting for you. I dont mean to ramble on about myself. I guess I'm just trying to say that it was really dark for me before I saw the light again. But even though it was so very dark and difficult, it did get better. I agree with you that it's often mind over matter. And I really admire and respect you for being so honest, open and direct about what's going on with you - and sharing your life and your love with all of us. I'm sure you're helping and will continue to help a lot of people. Sending you love and hugs. And as one thrifter to another.......keep on thriftin baby! THRIFT ON!!
+Vintage Bombshell I have dealt with a very lengthy and difficult health issue that thank God, is in remission -- for the most part. There are times that I seriously wondered if I would ever feel better and see some light...or even have the strength and energy to walk down the hall or make a meal without being totally depleted of everything in me. But I think I always kept that ray of hope and faith and it did get better. I am so grateful and now I don't take anything for granted....most of the time. I really try not to. I try to stay grateful and prioritize -- remember that whats important in life is the people I love and that love me. I know you are very loved and have so many people rooting for you. I dont mean to ramble on about myself. I guess I'm just trying to say that it was really dark for me before I saw the light again. But even though it was so very dark and difficult, it did get better. I agree with you that it's often mind over matter. And I really admire and respect you for being so honest, open and direct about what's going on with you - and sharing your life and your love with all of us. I'm sure you're helping and will continue to help a lot of people. Sending you love and hugs. And as one thrifter to another.......keep on thriftin baby! Love you.
+Vintage Bombshell Selena, I have to explain something. The reply that says it's fromJamenica Reyes was written by me. Jamenica is a good friend who alloweed me to use her tablet to watch your video and respond back to your comment. I didn't realize that my comment would have her name on it. and on top of that, it was sent twice somehow. Sorry. Ok, I just wanted to clarify that. I'll try to fix it so that my next comments come with my own name.
Sorry fpr mix up with names below.
So proud of you also. Im so new to your chanel I feel so blessed that I will be part of your family.
+Judy Holden Thank you very much. :)
Stay strong and try to watch inspirational videos on TH-cam. That will help a lot, mentally anyway. Sending positive energy your way! PS. Cool hat and hairstyle!
Sending a huge hug your way and continued good, positive thoughts.
Dear HEAVENLY FATHER .... Please wrap your loving arms around your beautiful daughter and give her strength to kick this disease to the curb. She is too precious and important to all of us. Help her heal her body and give her the strength to carry on. We ask this in your son JESUS CHRIST'S name. Amen.
💜💜💜 Your strength inspires us all and we're not ready to let you go! Keep on fighting and we'll keep on praying for you.💜💜💜 Hugs xxxx 💙 💙💙
+Searia Kett thank you for your prayers, I am doing a little better each day. On the healing path! xo
I started watching your channel years ago when it was mspinkfabulous, and having some down time today at work I figured I'd look your channel up and see how you're doing. I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this. You have always been so vibrant and full of life. I will pray for a full and speedy healing. Thank you for sharing your story. Bless you, girl. You'll get through this!
I love you so much. I'd be blessed to be as brave as you. You are always on my mind and in my heart. You're so beautiful inside and out. Xoxo Thank you for your videos. I am so thankful to see you and hear your heart. Please keep smiling. We're going to get up thattaway soon! Huge hugs 💜 Love the hat girlie 😍👍🏻
+Joanie Earle I never thought I could ever handle something like this. The thought of doing chemo terrified me....but here I am. I'm doing it. I did it.
Hope to see to some time soon!
Huge gentle hugs my warrior friend. You are doing it! Kick its butt 💪🏻👊🏻 Xoxo
you are so amazing and inspiring even though it hasnt been easy youve touch so many people lives and i lov ya for all that uv hav shared in this journey in Jesus name in faith there will be light at the end .
You are a beautiful person and a strong one that's for sure!! big hugs to you:)
I am so proud of you.....hugs hugs hugs
Hi Selena, I was drawn to your channel some time back, through our mutual love of anything shabby, chic and gorgeous! and over the last few weeks, watching your back videos, I learned of your current health issues, I have never done this before but I just want to wish you Gods light and pray for your recovery, what a lovely person you are! youv made me laugh out loud at times and I love love love your taste ! God Bless Selena from the Emerald Isle ( Ireland)
Hugs to you! I have the bone and joint pain. I know this part you are going thru. I have Acromegaly and had a tumor removed off of my pituitary gland in Jan. xoxoxo
Thank you for sharing your heart!! I can't imagine in alot of ways what you are going thru, but I suffer with another illness that is often stigmatized! So I understand a part of your journey of feeling out of control! You are a brave and strong woman for going thru this journey and I believe you WILL touch a lot of hearts!! Praying for a speedy recovery!!!xoxox
Love your hat!! Keep your spirits up.
Thank you so much for this video, I am sending you hugs and my love. You have made me realize I need to go and get the biopsy that I was told I needed and have been putting off. I guess I just don't want to have to face anything currently. I am going to make the appointment on Monday. Thank you for your strength. May God bless you and keep you safely protected in his loving arms. You look gorgeous.
You are an amazing woman! Love you Selena.
+Kelli Renee I'm trying, thank you honey
Stay Strong Girl!!! Ill pray for you!xxxoo
We love you , stay strong and thanks for sharing xo
+Anna Mals thank you honey
You are totally amazing and such an inspiration! I'm sending big hugs out to you and keeping you in my thoughts and prayers x
I see. A very strong women , but God will see you through
Thank you so much for sharing. Gods speed my friend Hugs XXXXX
Sending you lots of hugs
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Zohreh
We love you... Sending hugs....
Eres una hermosa persona, tu luz te sanara. Fabi, from Argentina, a kiss for you.
you are a very beautiful person I love watching you and look forward to seeing your future finds and this is all behind you are very strong and pretty lol janet
Selena, I wish I could put my arms around you and give you a big sister hug. XXXX
Bless your heart
Your feelings are real. Neuropathy and Chemo brain are real.
Hugs to you!
Hugs & prayers! You've got this! xo
Sending you a big((hug)) you are an inspiration!
Keep fighting the fight Huni and stay strong !!
xoxo
Katt ^,,^
Hugs and prayers
Thank you..you are amazing
You got it girl!
Sending huge *HUGS*……
You motivated me to get checked and I am very thankful. 🌹I had breast pain, which turned out to be nothing...what I did find out, was that I have very dense breasts, and that mammograms are close to ineffective, without an ultrasound. In finding this, also found that there are a lot of women, aren't aware that having dense breasts, means that you have to push for an ultrasound. Doctors won't outwardly tell the patient...probably because of cost. How wrong is this?
+AliceCries You need to seek out a place that does the 3D mammography which gives an accurate view of your breast tissue, especially if you have dense breasts.
I have that too. I've had it for several years now. I'm still in my 30's and have had 2 mammograms already. Doc says it should go away with menopause. I guess that's something to look forward to. Something that Does help is green tea. The more I drink it, the less painful they are.
+Debbie G I actually know of such a machine, but they cost 600k, which make them few and far between. It is going to replace the standard mammogram, but they will be years from now, meaning a lot of women will lose their lives. So sad. I was reading, so where that, 49%, of women, have dense breasts, but it seems to mean nothing, when it comes cost and education.
+Stacy Wilson yeah, I drink a lot of caffeine, I know that contributes to pain. I found that a certain type of bra (that I was wearing) was also the culprit...underwire and I, don't get along. 😕
You'll get stronger when you start to feel like yourself again. You do however look gr8 in that cute hat. I hope you're spoiling yourself rotten!
👋 selena ur a brave young women and beautiful it's hard sometimes we ask why this thing happens 2 wonderful good people but ur going 2 beat this god take care of his good people 🙏 🤲 🕍 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hugging you back! Pat S
My Drs said I'm too young to get a mammogram (I'm 38). They said nothing will show up in a mammogram until after 40 because the tissue changes after 40. I have talked to 4 Drs that told me this.
+annieg1977 Find a doctor that will refer you. I have three other friends under 40 that have had breast cancer. You have to stand up for yourself. Doctors just go by what they have seen among the average....
I just l love you💕💞🙏
I am 72 years old and getting my mammogram every year
poor poor you, how horrible for you. so many people are cheering for you