Wow, the relative party was more important than your daughters wedding! What a deadbeat dad, I hope you learned your lesson! You are so lucky they forgave you, because you really don’t deserve it.
Koj mas yog ib leej txiv phem tshaj plaws hauv qab ntuj no....tseem muaj tu ntxhais qhov nqaij xa rov qab thiab qhov no tu siab tshaj plaws thiab tub qaug neeg tshaj plaws thiab
Yus cov yus yug kiag thiaj li tshaw yus txoj kev hlub os. Koj tsis txawj xav kiag li os. Nej cov txiv neej tsis tsim nyog kiag, tsis txawj xav kiag tabsi hob txawj tu siab thiab. You reap what you sow. You are lucky they still took you in.
Make sure your life insurance policy’s beneficiaries are under your daughter’s name. Just because you changed your insurance to them doesn’t mean they’ll get the money. They need to be named beneficiaries.
You’re right about the sons. My husband does not talk about his family. Does not make an effort to be around them even when I suggested. If your sons don’t care for you, don’t blame your nyab. She tried but he didn’t. Yes, change your beneficiaries to your daughters.
That is really sad. My husband is really close with his parents, not a mommas boy but stops by when he’s in town for work, brings his dad his favorite meals, talks to his mom about TH-cam videos etc. they sit for hours talking about nonsense. How he treats his parents/family says a lot about him. My FIL was the one that cared for his mom, changed her diapers etc. my MIL didn’t do much. I’m grateful for the man he raised.
Very true. I’m married and a nyab. I have to force my husband to go visit his parents. I have to coordinate and plan their birthdays, holidays and do everything for my in-laws to show them I care for them even though my husband don’t do anything. Daughters are a blessing and I have 6, no boys!
Karma and misfortune are the best teachers of life lessons. The truth is that if your sons cared about you, then you wouldn't have batted an eye on your daughters. You would have left them in sorrow. Your salvation is that they longed for a father's love. I feel sorry for your first wife the most. She died knowing your love was conditional of male heirs.
We daughters love our parents more or learn to appreciate them is because when we get married we have to change our whole life over night and adapt to our husbands family. Whereas, the sons they dnt know how to appreciate their parents because their life style the same. The only difference is they have a wife. Also, if their parents live with them they have the parent to watch their kids, etc...
I had 3 daughters and one son myself, I loved them unconditionally and evenly no matter what reason. Hmong people thaum tau kev txom nyem ces mam paub li. Hmong OG loved to use these three Worlds: 1, Khuv xim. 2, paub li. 3, kav liam (which means kam liam).
Tus me txiv tsev aw koj txoj me kev siab phem lim hiam ces nyuam qhuav haum xwb os tus txiv dev aw txoj kev phem lim hiam ces caum cuag koj lawm puas yog 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
So true! I live so close to my MIL but I never visit her because my husband has never ask or mention to visit his mom. I go and visit my parents and drag my husband along.
Loving and being in love with someone are two different things! When your in love, the time just flies by and you just don’t have enough time with one another. I’m glad you have a wonderful love life like mine too.
All I got to say is that it’s your own blood daughter, how could you miss her wedding instead the other relatives party. Her wedding is the most important day of her life. You don’t love them stop saying you regret. If you only have pain on your legs that could still walk around your second wife should of taking care of you if she really loves you..selfish person
Ua cas ua ib leej txiv es tswvyim yuav tsawg ua lauj, tseem nqa nqaij rov qab rau tub ntxhais thiab tub vauv. My heart would be shattered to bits if my father ever did this.
Brother, you are right about sons. You made way for them so they will do like you did. Like father like sons. I feel bad for you for abandoned you first wife and daughters for your sons and now turn to the daughters for a place to die. I wish all HMong men realize that and stop cheating and fall in to the same sins. We should raise our head up and look around and change our mind from the old traditions.
Cov tub Tsis hlub nej los tab tom ua kom phim nej Vim nej cov txiv neej siab hlub cov tub xwb tseg kiag tej txhais saib tsis muaj nuj nqi li os txhob tu siab vim txoj kev siab phem rau lwm tus neeg hlub koj os
Koj yuam kev loj kawg li. Teb chaws mekas no ntxhais yog cov tseem ceeb dua. Peb hmoob mas yuav tau hooov txoj kev xav tias ntxhais tsis muaj qlis. Tub ces mus ua nyab rau neej tsa xwb, ho ntxhais cee tus vauv ho tuaj ua nyab rau koj ces koj tuav tau kev hlub.
Nej cov niag txiv dev mas thaum yuav tuag mas nim ua tus txhawj txhawj xav qhov koj ua tus txhawj xav li koj ces twb yog tsis muaj chaw tuag thiaj li ua txuj xwb os
These stories I don’t blame the sons!!! I blame the girls (Nyab especially) because girls now days are smartass!!! They love their family but not the husband side of family!!!!
To my father and mother, I hope you hear this story. You have 6 daughters and 1 son. You always told us - daughters could not do for you two like a son would but your only son doesn’t even speak to you anymore and he lives on the other side of the U.S. purposefully away from you guys. I hope you hear the value in this lesson and loves us daughters too because we’re all you got in the long run.
Tus Txiv Tsev aw thaum 2 tug ntxhais hlub2 koj lawm es mam quas ces txaj mog tshaj lawm os. Peb cov ntxhais los yeej muaj2 pev xwm tshaj nqa tau koj lub taub hau es txhob vam cov Tub xwb nawb.
tiam no mas tus yug ntxhais thiab lis muaj hmoov nawb ib tsum hmoob es! Nxthais sawv cev los ua tub, tub sawv cev los ya nxthais lawn os! Tsis txob tsim2 txom cov mi nxthais ib npliag tsis muaj chaw nyob os
Yog nyob Nplog thiab Thaib ces hnub koj tuag koj cov tub yuav tau kwv koj mus faus tiag, vim poj niam tsis kwv tuag, tab sis nyob lub teb chaw no peb tsis kwv tuag lawm yog leej twg muaj ntxhais ces tus ntawv yeej. Vim teb chaw no peb laub lub cev tuag ntawv nkag hauv tsheb xwb ces cov ntxhais los yeej laub tau. Yog muaj tub ces tau qhov tias koj keeb kwm tseem muaj txuas mus xwb, cov ntxhais ces yuav tawm rooj mus yuav txiv sab nrauv ces yuav mus tuav nws tus txiv caj ces keeb kwm mus ntxiv lawm tom ntej.
Brother, you are so wrong for how you treated your flesh and blood daughter. Your second wife manipulated you. How could you missed and not attend your daughter wedding? You are so foul to listen to your second wife. You can be dad/father to your stepchildren but not your own. So sad.
Koj tus ntxhais rooj tshoob tseem ceeb tshaj koj cov neej tsa tus txiv tsev koj xav yuam kev loj heev koj ces twb tsis tsim nyog ua neeg lawm thiab tuag los tau lawm lau koj na
Wow, the relative party was more important than your daughters wedding! What a deadbeat dad, I hope you learned your lesson! You are so lucky they forgave you, because you really don’t deserve it.
Right? His own daughter's wedding is not a priority but the relatives party is🙄 he's lucky indeed
Agreed
Koj mas yog ib leej txiv phem tshaj plaws hauv qab ntuj no....tseem muaj tu ntxhais qhov nqaij xa rov qab thiab qhov no tu siab tshaj plaws thiab tub qaug neeg tshaj plaws thiab
This is the reason I love my girls n boys the same bc u never know who will love u at the end.
Ua cas yuav txawj xav ua luaj li tseem xa cov nqaij rov qab mus rau tus ntxhais tu siab tshaj 😢
Yus cov yus yug kiag thiaj li tshaw yus txoj kev hlub os. Koj tsis txawj xav kiag li os. Nej cov txiv neej tsis tsim nyog kiag, tsis txawj xav kiag tabsi hob txawj tu siab thiab. You reap what you sow. You are lucky they still took you in.
Make sure your life insurance policy’s beneficiaries are under your daughter’s name. Just because you changed your insurance to them doesn’t mean they’ll get the money. They need to be named beneficiaries.
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Exactly! I think he’s just lying about changing the life insurance policy.
You’re right about the sons. My husband does not talk about his family. Does not make an effort to be around them even when I suggested. If your sons don’t care for you, don’t blame your nyab. She tried but he didn’t. Yes, change your beneficiaries to your daughters.
I know right. My husband is the same. Tell him we should go see his parents. Buy them food, he tells me next time. He’s going fishing. 🤷🏻♀️
That is really sad. My husband is really close with his parents, not a mommas boy but stops by when he’s in town for work, brings his dad his favorite meals, talks to his mom about TH-cam videos etc. they sit for hours talking about nonsense. How he treats his parents/family says a lot about him. My FIL was the one that cared for his mom, changed her diapers etc. my MIL didn’t do much. I’m grateful for the man he raised.
Same here! Must of the times i go by myself.
Only time they (sons) care is what % life insurance they’re going to receive.
That's true. Sometimes it's not the nyab. Sons don't care for responsibility from his family.
Zaj neej neeg no yog ib txoj kev kawm zoo heev rau peb cov niam cov txiv ,tsi hai tub ntxhai yuav tsum hlub sib npaug
So let’s said that if your son actually care for you a little. You wouldn’t care for you daughters that left behind
Very true. I’m married and a nyab. I have to force my husband to go visit his parents. I have to coordinate and plan their birthdays, holidays and do everything for my in-laws to show them I care for them even though my husband don’t do anything. Daughters are a blessing and I have 6, no boys!
Karma and misfortune are the best teachers of life lessons. The truth is that if your sons cared about you, then you wouldn't have batted an eye on your daughters. You would have left them in sorrow. Your salvation is that they longed for a father's love. I feel sorry for your first wife the most. She died knowing your love was conditional of male heirs.
Tu siab tshaj peb cov ua yog ntxhais na. Peb tu2 siab los peb tseem hlub thiab.
Koj txim txiaj koj cov tub thiaj txim txiaj
There are way too many stories like this one, but sadly, Hmong people still want and value sons. Too all my Hmong sisters out there, I applauded you.
Two stories today are the two bad dad 😞 I wish I had more daughters, too!
Thanks u for sharing this story I feel much better I had 6 girls.
You are truly blessed.
Koj mas thiaj yuav muaj kev npam thaum kawg koj yuav tau mus nyob tsev laus hnub no koj mam txawj tu siab
koj hais yog tshaj li os
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We daughters love our parents more or learn to appreciate them is because when we get married we have to change our whole life over night and adapt to our husbands family. Whereas, the sons they dnt know how to appreciate their parents because their life style the same. The only difference is they have a wife. Also, if their parents live with them they have the parent to watch their kids, etc...
Tus txiv tsev koj hais rau kuv zoo siab kawg vim kuv muaj 7 tus ntxhais kuv yeej tau txhua yam li koj hais tiag yus birthday los lawv coj yus mus zuaj tes zuaj taw kom zoo yuav khoom plig rau yus tiag koj cov lus yeej muaj tseeb
Good example of Txiv Dev
Seriously, nowadays daughters are way more loving & dependable than any sons! Don't take your daughters for granted!!!
I had 3 daughters and one son myself, I loved them unconditionally and evenly no matter what reason. Hmong people thaum tau kev txom nyem ces mam paub li. Hmong OG loved to use these three Worlds: 1, Khuv xim. 2, paub li. 3, kav liam (which means kam liam).
You are very very cold heart to your kids, not attended her wedding? Your are bad bad father, you deserve your punishment!..
Only when his sons abandoned him did he realize and acknolwdge his daughter's love.
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True
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Tus me txiv tsev aw koj txoj me kev siab phem lim hiam ces nyuam qhuav haum xwb os tus txiv dev aw txoj kev phem lim hiam ces caum cuag koj lawm puas yog 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Paub Ces Yuav Luag Lig.
So true! I live so close to my MIL but I never visit her because my husband has never ask or mention to visit his mom. I go and visit my parents and drag my husband along.
Zoo kawg rau koj koj tau txais yam koj ua cia xwb
Loving and being in love with someone are two different things! When your in love, the time just flies by and you just don’t have enough time with one another. I’m glad you have a wonderful love life like mine too.
All I got to say is that it’s your own blood daughter, how could you miss her wedding instead the other relatives party. Her wedding is the most important day of her life. You don’t love them stop saying you regret. If you only have pain on your legs that could still walk around your second wife should of taking care of you if she really loves you..selfish person
All I just said, you one of the lucky dad to have your 2 daughters
Ua cas ua ib leej txiv es tswvyim yuav tsawg ua lauj, tseem nqa nqaij rov qab rau tub ntxhais thiab tub vauv. My heart would be shattered to bits if my father ever did this.
Vim nws ua tsis taus txiv nws ntseeg nws tus niam yau dhau lawm
Koj twb yuav tuag koj mam nco txog koj ob tus ntxais siab lim hiam tiag cas tsi txaj muag I
Kuv tsis ntseeg tias koj txawj tu siab.twb tau li koj txoj kev ntshaw lawm.ntxub2 cov thaub laws ua li koj ua ko.quav dev.
Peb cov ntshais hlub niam hlub tsiv hlub hauv lub xiab dawb paug tawm tuaj
Tus leej txiv siab phem no
Tsis tsim nyog hlub nws li lawm os …
Brother, you are right about sons. You made way for them so they will do like you did. Like father like sons. I feel bad for you for abandoned you first wife and daughters for your sons and now turn to the daughters for a place to die. I wish all HMong men realize that and stop cheating and fall in to the same sins. We should raise our head up and look around and change our mind from the old traditions.
Từ siab heev li og
Cov txiv neej zoo li koj mas ntuj txawj faib kev npam rau koj thiab yom
Txiv neej hmoob siab pheem tshaj plawg, ntxim ntxhub heev li os.tsis yog yuav kev siab pheem xwb os
Koj tu dab laug ntawm niam yau rooj mov tseem loj tshaj koj tu ntxhais rooj tshoob lawm thiab yom....koj tu ntxhais rooj tshoob nws lub neej tsuas muaj ib zaug xwb....koj dab laug rooj mov yuav muaj txhua txhua zaum tab sis koj lub siab phem.....yog koj paub txaj muag thiab muaj siab ntsws tsis tsim nyog koj hu niam loj cov ntxhais lawm....txhob hu hu niam loj cov ntxhais pab koj txaj muag dhau...
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tsua tau niam yau xwb ua dab tsi los yeej txau siab hlo😢
Yog kawg os txhob saib peb cov me ntxhai g muaj nqi nawb
Koj yog ib leej txiv saib tej ntxhais tsis muaj nuj nqis txog thaum kawg koj cov tub muaj nqis thiaj tsis hlub koj thov kom nej cov txiv yuav tsum saib tej ntxhais kom muaj nuj nqis nawb
This is so sad. Thaum Koj yuav tuag ces Koj mam li xav txog Koj 2 tug ntxhais xwb.
Txiv neej hmoob ces zoo ib yam xwb
Yog kawg os, koj hais tau tsis yuam kev li nawb.
“A son is a son ‘til he takes him a wife, a daughter is a daughter all of her life.” -Irish Saying
Isn’t that quote the fkn truth⁉️
Cov tub Tsis hlub nej los tab tom ua kom phim nej Vim nej cov txiv neej siab hlub cov tub xwb tseg kiag tej txhais saib tsis muaj nuj nqi li os txhob tu siab vim txoj kev siab phem rau lwm tus neeg hlub koj os
O koj tham txog koj tus niam loj mas kuv tus sia heev li o peb cov poj niam hnoo aw
ฟังเมียน้อยเกินไป ลูกตัวเองแท้ๆทำไมไม่รักให้เท่ากัน
ntuj aw cas yuav ntxov tsawj xav ua luaj li os hnub no koj twb yuav tuag koj tsi tau chaw tuag ces lam ua tsuj kom tau chaw tuag xwb os
❤❤❤❤cos me txaiv ma zoo heev li nas
Yog tiam 21 no ntxhais hlub niam txiv tshaj plaws nawb! Tuag ntxhais tha xwb ov😊
Koj ua txiv lub siab tsi zoo ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb os
Koj txiv nas tsis yog koj niam os. Koj hais yuam kev lawm may
Lawv muab nqaij koj twb tsi kam noj lm ces yeej yog kj tsi hlub lm lo mas yawm txiv 😢😢
Koj tsawj xav lig dhau lawm os yawm tsiv aw
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Zoo heev li o kuv tuaj koom koj lawm o
Nej cov txiv neej hmoob ces yeej ua li koj feem coob xwb. Es nyuam qhuav haum koj xwb vim koj xaiv koj tus niam yau.
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Koj tu siab tsis nyog rau Koj cov mi nyuam. Tu siab rau Koj tus kheej xwb
Nej ib niam txiv phem kawg kiag li
Twb yog li ntawv es kuv thiaj nrhiav tshuaj muaj ntxhais nkaus xwb mas thaub
Tus Yawm txiv Ko ntseeg koj niag pog Yau dhau g ntsim nyog cov ntxhais hlub koj lawm tub, ntxhais los yeej muaj peev Xwm Ib yam na
Ua cas peb hmoob pheej tsis cia xiab rau cov ntshais yug los ua ib leej ntshais rau hmoob cas yuav tu xiab ua luaj
Koj yuam kev loj kawg li. Teb chaws mekas no ntxhais yog cov tseem ceeb dua. Peb hmoob mas yuav tau hooov txoj kev xav tias ntxhais tsis muaj qlis. Tub ces mus ua nyab rau neej tsa xwb, ho ntxhais cee tus vauv ho tuaj ua nyab rau koj ces koj tuav tau kev hlub.
Well darn it. Im out of luck then with my boys. 😆
Nej cov txiv neej lub siab phem thaum nej tau ib tug tshiab.
Koj tau licas yuav tsum txaus siab rau li yus muaj. Koj siab phem dhau ntxeev siab thiaj tau kev npam.
Nej cov niag txiv dev mas thaum yuav tuag mas nim ua tus txhawj txhawj xav qhov koj ua tus txhawj xav li koj ces twb yog tsis muaj chaw tuag thiaj li ua txuj xwb os
These stories I don’t blame the sons!!! I blame the girls (Nyab especially) because girls now days are smartass!!! They love their family but not the husband side of family!!!!
Some of these nyabs need a a$$ whoop. It should be treated equally.
I thought men were all powerful gods. Why only when things go wrong do Hmong blame women? Don't the blame start with the gods?
Los los kua muag
To my father and mother, I hope you hear this story. You have 6 daughters and 1 son. You always told us - daughters could not do for you two like a son would but your only son doesn’t even speak to you anymore and he lives on the other side of the U.S. purposefully away from you guys. I hope you hear the value in this lesson and loves us daughters too because we’re all you got in the long run.
When you praise sons over daughters, you (Hmong parents like these) deserve to eat your own words.
Do what I do. I just send them the TH-cam story. :)
Txiv neej hmoob yeej siab phem li ko txhua leej o
😢🎉😅🎉🎉😅
Hnub no koj thiaj npam tiag tiag koj niag niam yiam yuav mus yiam lwm tus
Tus Txiv Tsev aw thaum 2 tug ntxhais hlub2 koj lawm es mam quas ces txaj mog tshaj lawm os. Peb cov ntxhais los yeej muaj2 pev xwm tshaj nqa tau koj lub taub hau es txhob vam cov Tub xwb nawb.
Taw vwm kho tau kawg li sav los
Tu2 siab li o kuv niam thb txiv lawv yug peb ib pab ntxhias xwb lawv cem2 li😫
Siab npem ces zoo li ko😂
Wow koj kawm tau zoo kawg os peb cov hmoob lub hlwb ruam ma tsis muaj menyuam, tsis tub, tsis muaj ntxhais lo muab liam tas nrho rau poj niam rau qhov poj niam tsis xav hais tawm ne
tiam no mas tus yug ntxhais thiab lis muaj hmoov nawb ib tsum hmoob es! Nxthais sawv cev los ua tub, tub sawv cev los ya nxthais lawn os! Tsis txob tsim2 txom cov mi nxthais ib npliag tsis muaj chaw nyob os
Hauv neeg phem muaj haiv neeg tsim
Txhua txhua tus txiv siab phem li koj thov kom ib hnub twg kom txom txom nyem raus li koj nawb thaum zoo li koj mam tsim tsis tau lig kiag li
Ruam tshaj koj lawm tus phoojywg.
Yog nyob Nplog thiab Thaib ces hnub koj tuag koj cov tub yuav tau kwv koj mus faus tiag, vim poj niam tsis kwv tuag, tab sis nyob lub teb chaw no peb tsis kwv tuag lawm yog leej twg muaj ntxhais ces tus ntawv yeej. Vim teb chaw no peb laub lub cev tuag ntawv nkag hauv tsheb xwb ces cov ntxhais los yeej laub tau. Yog muaj tub ces tau qhov tias koj keeb kwm tseem muaj txuas mus xwb, cov ntxhais ces yuav tawm rooj mus yuav txiv sab nrauv ces yuav mus tuav nws tus txiv caj ces keeb kwm mus ntxiv lawm tom ntej.
Yam yus tsi muaj txhob ntshaw 2 heev vim tsi yog yus li txawm peem 2 tau kiag lo yeej tsi nrog yus nyob qhov kawg
Puas yog maj kuv nyuam ghuav muaj 5leeg ntxhais xwb ne
Hos kuv kam muaj 1leeg tub hos
Tsis tsim nyog nkawv hlub koj but it’s a life lesson. Glad you realize your wrong doing.
This is the second story I heard about dbd. lol
Hmong parents, shfdh. ALWAYS wait till they're old, sick, and dying to turn around and start wanting their kid's love.
Brother, you are so wrong for how you treated your flesh and blood daughter. Your second wife manipulated you. How could you missed and not attend your daughter wedding? You are so foul to listen to your second wife. You can be dad/father to your stepchildren but not your own. So sad.
Ntuj os ntuj aw tsam no koj mam qhua ce lig lig rau koj koj tus ntxhais yuav hlub koj npaum li ca los lawv yeej tu tu siab rau koj lawm os thaub aw
Tus txiv tsev no ces raug kev txom nyem ces thiaj tig rov los khuv xim xwb os yog nws tau zoo ces tsis hnov txog nws txoj niag kev npam li os
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Koj tus ntxhais rooj tshoob tseem ceeb tshaj koj cov neej tsa tus txiv tsev koj xav yuam kev loj heev koj ces twb tsis tsim nyog ua neeg lawm thiab tuag los tau lawm lau koj na