How to Become Luckier - An Evidence-Based Guide

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  • @aliabdaal
    @aliabdaal  ปีที่แล้ว +49

    This video is sponsored by Curiosity Stream. Get access to my bonus content on Nebula when you sign up for Curiosity Stream using this link - curiositystream.com/ali

    • @maloukadaknou153
      @maloukadaknou153 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great video ali

    • @marko9463
      @marko9463 ปีที่แล้ว

      Has anyone ever studied any of his courses, I am very interested so can someone reply if its good. Honest answers please

    • @tranhuynhmaingoc5844
      @tranhuynhmaingoc5844 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi, I've already signed up for 1 year plan on Curiosity Stream. But I didn't see any instruction to access Nebula after finishing payment. Would you mind showing me how?

    • @zainalirizwi
      @zainalirizwi ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tranhuynhmaingoc5844 Yeah me too, didn't get anything related to Nebula.

    • @sunidhisingh9054
      @sunidhisingh9054 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea me too

  • @lucasm4056
    @lucasm4056 ปีที่แล้ว +1171

    1. Try things, talk to people
    2. Use your intuition, trust your gut
    3. Optimism, virtuous circle
    4. Perseverance, resilience

    • @hnnhml
      @hnnhml ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🙌🏻

    • @leadinglife
      @leadinglife ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯

    • @learnerdecuriousqueen3320
      @learnerdecuriousqueen3320 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Our savior

    • @dionysus3774
      @dionysus3774 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Saved me 13 minutes, thanks 🙏

    • @yourshitsweakx100
      @yourshitsweakx100 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I do all those things and I agree I feel lucky and have always felt lucky. My email when I was in middle school was "lucky_2_b_me" 😆

  • @GadgetsGearCoffee
    @GadgetsGearCoffee ปีที่แล้ว +114

    The more I work on my mental health, the more I realize it's the base of literally everything. Working on my attachment style, my anxiety, etc. which are all intermingled, it made me more secure, confident, step outside my comfort zone more and more, more chance encounters, more meeting people and more opportunities for fun. "luck"
    For people who had the personality + upbringing to be secure and relaxed in life, are already set up. For those of us who had to work on it, and continue to work on it every single day, it's possible, it's not easy ohhhh it's not easy, but it's possible.

    • @ascia158
      @ascia158 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      how do you do that?

    • @yougotmyheart2626
      @yougotmyheart2626 ปีที่แล้ว

      How did you work on attachment style and anxiety? Any books/videos/ practical tips e.g exercise, meditations? Thanks!

    • @ricochet4674
      @ricochet4674 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yougotmyheart2626 Therapy lmao

  • @chrissy96
    @chrissy96 ปีที่แล้ว +368

    Been subscribed to Ali's channel for over two years and I must say this channel has been the greatest ROI on my time. It really is just so amazing how he distills concepts so easily! Thanks Ali and team!

    • @aliabdaal
      @aliabdaal  ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Wow, thank you!

    • @marko9463
      @marko9463 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Has anyone ever studied his courses, I am very interested so can someone reply if its good. Honest answers please

    • @shadowtheory7500
      @shadowtheory7500 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@marko9463 I'm also interested!

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes, I’ve done his PTYA course and it’s one of the best on the internet.

    • @tinysoundmachine
      @tinysoundmachine ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here! I ultimately welcomed success and growth to my life because of Ali 😌 I ranked 4th on our national licensure exams from his Active Recall tips! 😂🎉 and now, on to my own business and quitting my full time job! 🔥🔥❤

  • @beezneez2056
    @beezneez2056 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Someone once told me that “luck” is when preparation meets opportunity. It’s also related to the ‘Proximity Principle’.

  • @nul4327
    @nul4327 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    i love how good quality ali abdaal's vids are. i mean how its concise, straigt to the point and easily understandable, plus he uploads pretty regularly! i appreciate ur channel man

  • @jememe5209
    @jememe5209 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love how I don’t have to speed up your videos, they’re already at the perfect speed for my brain

    • @ascia158
      @ascia158 ปีที่แล้ว

      i thought that's the way he talk but even tho i speed it to 2

  • @LearningandTechnology
    @LearningandTechnology ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I feel lucky to have heard about this book.

  • @laneczora1780
    @laneczora1780 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    Coincidentally, the four principles listed in this video are the core of nurturing Mental Toughness. Mindset matters!

    • @jerryloncey
      @jerryloncey ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you tell me where I can get the lessons talking about nurturing "mental toughness"? The one that parallels these principles

    • @aasifnabi6004
      @aasifnabi6004 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jerryloncey mental toughness free books are avaliable on kindle...you may find these books quite beneficial for nurturing mental toughness

    • @Peaches-i2i
      @Peaches-i2i 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah just delude yourself into not paying attention to how much luck affects your life. That's all you're doing, lying to yourself.

  • @AnaLucia262
    @AnaLucia262 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Setting goals also makes you keep track of your progress which is really valuable. Tracking helps evaluate your own behavior and adjust/do more of what is working.

  • @waqassafdar7987
    @waqassafdar7987 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mind Blown.
    Yesterday I was talking to my friend about my colleague. and I was complaining that I am no different than my colleague in terms of academics, communication and presentation, but my colleague tends to close more sales because he is very lucky. and i have witnessed his luck many many times. and i don't know why he has all those opportunities, but I don't have any of those.
    to find answers I have observed his personality very closely. and based on my very close observations, I would like to confirm that whatever you have mentioned in the video is 100% correct.
    The things you have mentioned are exactly the things that he has which make him lucky
    and my personality is the opposite of that. I have all the characteristics of an unlucky person that you mentioned in the video.
    I never saw them as contributing to my life that way.

  • @ayushanand7933
    @ayushanand7933 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Thank you Ali and the team for all the hardwork and great content you guys make for us

  • @ishubhanshu
    @ishubhanshu ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Have subscribed this Channel in 2020 only because of one Book Club video and am always satisfied of every Book Club Video ever uploaded on Channel.

  • @glennsriyousefbaun-cueto9287
    @glennsriyousefbaun-cueto9287 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Us introverts have always regarded extroverts as luck vampires or hogs. But we do and will always remember is that success is not always based on luck & privilege. How we react to and hence make use of luck heading our way is what success is based on

    • @mediacenterman8583
      @mediacenterman8583 ปีที่แล้ว

      Success is always based on luck. Life itself is luck, from conception!

    • @lostintechnology1851
      @lostintechnology1851 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Scientifically speaking we underestimate the external factors. What you call luck and privilege are critical factors for success.

  • @sugarabroad
    @sugarabroad ปีที่แล้ว +40

    As an introvert person, I'd like to talk to you guys here. Can someone share something fun/inspiring stories that you have? I'm starting my youtube channel again after 2 years of avoidance. I grew up more and I became more optimistic. I believe that this time will be different but still it's a bit afraid of uploading new video haha!

    • @amyhangin
      @amyhangin ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I've been wanting to vlog for years now, but I never had the courage to and I also thought my life wasn't interesting, plus I am an extreme introvert haha but I want to try to post more this 2023!

    • @divyasinghart
      @divyasinghart ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh same. My new year resolution is to be more active in posting, and not avoid. Wishing you on your journey 😊

    • @jenkathefridge3933
      @jenkathefridge3933 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@amyhangin Try to start doing vlogs because there might be someone interested about

    • @n0b0dy123
      @n0b0dy123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Restarting requires so much courage and you are already better than yourself yesterday! Don't worry, you'll do great!! Luck is on your way :)

    • @Em-hm9qt
      @Em-hm9qt ปีที่แล้ว

      Good luck to your new TH-cam channel! xx

  • @alikhambati9919
    @alikhambati9919 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take ~Michael Scott
    ~Wayne Gretzky

  • @sliceofamber
    @sliceofamber ปีที่แล้ว +6

    kinda off topic but i really like your set-up. The BGM and blue glow in the background is so therapeutic 😌 thanks again for the valuable information!

  • @CalicoCooperFan
    @CalicoCooperFan ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Great video! This is exactly the kind of content that you create that motivated me to subscribe to your channel in the first place. Keep it up!

    • @aliabdaal
      @aliabdaal  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome! Thank you!

  • @flourish_ol
    @flourish_ol ปีที่แล้ว

    This video had the answer to my prayers to this morning-to look more cheerful, and improve my self-perception

  • @briang7502
    @briang7502 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I WAS LITERALLY JUST THINKING ABOUT THIS

  • @anahinata28
    @anahinata28 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you, Ali! This is very inspiring and motivating.

  • @lesleytao1915
    @lesleytao1915 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so true - speaking with people and creating more opps

  • @OlgaWand
    @OlgaWand ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am not into Ali's whole productivity business. But I really loved this video. It's actually truelly interesting.

  • @starrymoonlitwinternight
    @starrymoonlitwinternight ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I needed this in the biggest way. Thanks Ali!

  • @scottxgibson
    @scottxgibson ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s true. Luck will follow you around if you say yes to more opportunities and network. You never know what’s around the corner!

  • @vagarywolf1008
    @vagarywolf1008 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Manh I've seen this footage before. I have to say Ali, the efforts that put for this channel is just amazing. ❤👌

  • @soundscape26
    @soundscape26 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Richard Wiseman is amazing. Great video.

  • @khansasajjadd
    @khansasajjadd ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Whenever i trust my intuition, it almost always turns out to be wrong. Esp. while marking answers on exams.

    • @tylerjenkins8985
      @tylerjenkins8985 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you thinking with your head or with your gut? Huge difference

  • @monicarao382
    @monicarao382 ปีที่แล้ว

    If there is anyone thing to characterise Ali with, its his showing up and consistency, i dream of youtube , ali abdaal is living my dream

  • @faiazamin1035
    @faiazamin1035 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks Ali forvsuch insightful discussion. This episode really reasonates with my understandings of getting lucky.

  • @tasanotes
    @tasanotes ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i really love this ali! i always see how other people are so lucky but I forget that we can be one of them too!

  • @umaraliofficial01
    @umaraliofficial01 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Fortune favours the brave!

  • @Sara-ji1ih
    @Sara-ji1ih ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel so lucky to have found you Ali!

  • @ren5397
    @ren5397 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is great, but could you imagine being one of those "late bloomer" students in that study and doing poorly in school and potentially later in life all because some scientist wanted to use you as data?

  • @EverythingGoodAndRandom
    @EverythingGoodAndRandom ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for this Ali..just what i needed❤️

  • @shoto6024
    @shoto6024 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:58 is that Abhi & Niyu 😮👌

  • @gamedion2031
    @gamedion2031 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I recently subscribe you and I love your content❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @rockabillyrevolution
    @rockabillyrevolution ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't think you need to worry too much about missing lucky opportunities Ali - things seem to be going well!

  • @michellemcneil4825
    @michellemcneil4825 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Luck = preparation meeting opportunity. Yes - resilience is very important. I've been made redundant 4 times in my life. Take action and move forward and pretty soon I was working again. Luck diary is similar to gratitude diary - thankful for things/people in your life.

    • @mediacenterman8583
      @mediacenterman8583 ปีที่แล้ว

      FFS IF I hear this utter nonsense one more time. Luck requires no preparation, when the high school massacre occurs on the day that your child has an upset stomach and is at home, what preparation did they do? Have the sh*ts?????

  • @hnnhml
    @hnnhml ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good title you chose there 👌🏻
    And great video and really cool topic 🙌🏻

  • @BrilliantBeautifulBrielle
    @BrilliantBeautifulBrielle ปีที่แล้ว

    “Darling, luck favours the prepared.” - Edna Mode.
    Pretty sure she was talking about no capes but still applies here too😂

  • @magev-make-an-income-today
    @magev-make-an-income-today ปีที่แล้ว +19

    We ALL love your content ❤

  • @jaimev6062
    @jaimev6062 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Solid good content backed up with studies! Keep up the good work!
    J

  • @jared6893
    @jared6893 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Really good video thank you

  • @lucaiozzo8273
    @lucaiozzo8273 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This doesn't make you luckier, it changes your perception of your life to apreciate the good random things you encounter

    • @JennieGem7
      @JennieGem7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Perception changes everything it's called the placebo effect

    • @mediacenterman8583
      @mediacenterman8583 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JennieGem7 Perception is not going to change bleeding out after being stabbed in your femoral artery and no medical intervention. You will die

  • @UC3rm0aNC4ysyZipDZotXnZA
    @UC3rm0aNC4ysyZipDZotXnZA ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this video. I notice I had some of the characteristics. Now I know what to aim for :D! Merry christmas!

  • @tantradossantos4501
    @tantradossantos4501 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is actually good. Is all of your stuff like this???

  • @UniversoSpiritualUnido
    @UniversoSpiritualUnido ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m very lucky is crazy I was thinking of this and this is showing up on my feed bazaar

  • @spirit.canada
    @spirit.canada ปีที่แล้ว

    Isn't this guy from the AMAZING TH-cam channel Quirkology ? God I love this guy so much!

  • @Bozhidar_Delchev
    @Bozhidar_Delchev ปีที่แล้ว

    Merry Christmas dude! ☺️☃️✨

  • @manavtyagi6086
    @manavtyagi6086 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Ali it's nice appreciate your work and content

  • @tokyo_taxi7835
    @tokyo_taxi7835 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me, an anxious introvert: Well shit.

  • @Paintcafe_
    @Paintcafe_ ปีที่แล้ว

    abhi and niyu time stamp 1:55, my fav

  • @rongitmukherjee
    @rongitmukherjee ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely loved this video.

  • @sitifarhanafajrinadnan
    @sitifarhanafajrinadnan ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you

  • @zohaibkhan5320
    @zohaibkhan5320 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have started reading The Psychology of Money and it is really fasinating. I have read only 15 pages. I will comment about it when I have read it completely

    • @gamerrex5940
      @gamerrex5940 ปีที่แล้ว

      👍
      (Commenting so I'll get an update)

  • @arinabdo1
    @arinabdo1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the great content you make

  • @MatiasRijoM
    @MatiasRijoM ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What happened to the studio? Is it gone?

  • @abdullahfahad9756
    @abdullahfahad9756 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Quirkology is the author of this book, I think i will buy it…

  • @Dr.JubairsFinance
    @Dr.JubairsFinance ปีที่แล้ว

    Great vid Ali

  • @noobystyles
    @noobystyles ปีที่แล้ว

    my unluckyness is supernatural

  • @franklyrahat
    @franklyrahat ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, 3:55, you mean 'Pigmailmen Effect' - Jake Peralta

  • @taufiqxnoorani
    @taufiqxnoorani ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you.

  • @smilecat4633
    @smilecat4633 ปีที่แล้ว

    What to do if you are optimistic but don't follow your instincts?
    Or you miss your instincts in very important part of your life?

  • @rosheimd2339
    @rosheimd2339 ปีที่แล้ว

    You make the best videos, no joke

  • @remembernostalgic6619
    @remembernostalgic6619 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ali Abdaal is the best

  • @serventofallah1426
    @serventofallah1426 ปีที่แล้ว

    This explains Ge Fang Yuan's success

  • @holyhorsewhale6892
    @holyhorsewhale6892 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where'd you get that hoodie? Looks fresh

  • @shagalab500
    @shagalab500 ปีที่แล้ว

    How to understand positive goal and negative goal? Anyone could explain with example? ❤

  • @bluepen215
    @bluepen215 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks

  • @Fr0zenPeanut
    @Fr0zenPeanut ปีที่แล้ว

    Me: Ooh, I'm gonna try this!
    Him: Talk to people more.
    Me: Nevermind...

  • @randommonkey5418
    @randommonkey5418 ปีที่แล้ว

    love that. thank you

  • @The_Reductionist
    @The_Reductionist ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey: friendly feedback - your audio sounds kind of echo-y when coming straight from the videos of other youtubers like Philip Defranco or Coffeezilla. Maybe get some soundproofing/dampening in the studio?

  • @MihoAfrica
    @MihoAfrica ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's true

  • @sunidhisingh9054
    @sunidhisingh9054 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi I purchased the curiosity stream annual package . Can you help me figure how to get nebula signed in from the same credentials.

  • @princesslacson6291
    @princesslacson6291 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. 😭

  • @user-yf8iv3ml1p
    @user-yf8iv3ml1p ปีที่แล้ว

    Very clear at 4:46 but it’s throughout

  • @2wr633
    @2wr633 ปีที่แล้ว

    so you get more lucky moment if you do more thing
    why didn't i thought of this earlier

  • @randomvideos5989
    @randomvideos5989 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ali abdal is great it been more than 2 years i have subscribed ali before i have subscribed john fish who already those books which ali is explaining in the video but unfotunately after some time have seen john with videos and really great to see abhi and nyu in your video keep up the good work and get married too

  • @HG51_
    @HG51_ ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing!

  • @manavtyagi6086
    @manavtyagi6086 ปีที่แล้ว

    2nd Feb is special day for me! Can you do something in your future for love and users by reminded them you r too look and care all of em doing some gifts small play fun game or giveaway

  • @groundedtek
    @groundedtek ปีที่แล้ว

    great guy

  • @qtyrubnvfm
    @qtyrubnvfm ปีที่แล้ว

    why does your video alway has background noise like the knocking sound?

  • @AYoungdude
    @AYoungdude ปีที่แล้ว

    I have headphones and I think I can hear your table shift Ali.

  • @aliraza6589
    @aliraza6589 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you from Pakistan bro❤

  • @ememoppus5735
    @ememoppus5735 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im really unlucky on a game so i went to watch this 😅😅

  • @heenadhabhai
    @heenadhabhai ปีที่แล้ว

    Luckily , found your video

  • @tantohnfor4415
    @tantohnfor4415 ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn this hitting deep

  • @francis_n
    @francis_n ปีที่แล้ว

    Ali, where did you buy that white rug that's in your lounge?

  • @trevorreads
    @trevorreads ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re the man.

  • @user-yf8iv3ml1p
    @user-yf8iv3ml1p ปีที่แล้ว

    What is that knocking sound? Throughout the whole vid. Anyone else hear that?

  • @raywhuj217
    @raywhuj217 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    how can I use this when I play roulette ?

  • @Ahmadaw4n
    @Ahmadaw4n ปีที่แล้ว

    where can I buy the hoodie, Ali's wearing 👀

    • @martinthomas9371
      @martinthomas9371 ปีที่แล้ว

      Willowharp is her user name for help..

  • @bluepen215
    @bluepen215 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good

  • @StrawDino
    @StrawDino ปีที่แล้ว

    lets see if i get luck

  • @kanamenoname210
    @kanamenoname210 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lmao my gut feeling almost got me kidnapped TWICE! 😂 (true story)

  • @hamzanasir7018
    @hamzanasir7018 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    YO

  • @techfinance9610
    @techfinance9610 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It feels like the old Ali is back : )

    • @hyserra
      @hyserra ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How was the new Ali? What happened? haha

  • @bholibhandari
    @bholibhandari ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wonder, would all lucky people identify as lucky? And vice-versa?

  • @pinkyorange_
    @pinkyorange_ ปีที่แล้ว

    Where do we get this hoodie from? 👀

    • @martinthomas9371
      @martinthomas9371 ปีที่แล้ว

      Willowharp is her user name for help..