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Sir, I do agree with you. My father earned a lot in his life but most of the money was spent on the kids and wife of my deceased uncle. The eldest son of my deceased uncle got government job of his father. He was able to make a second home because his money was saved because my father had made them a home. And today, I have been earning fine in Bengaluru but I can't buy a house because of my father's mischiefs. I am not saying that I won't be able to do so, but it will take some years.
Hello sir, Tathastu 1 has increased the rates even after launching and we have paid the 1st installment as well. Is this possible to increase rate midway?
Achha hai sir parents Pension sai kids kai business mai help Karo. Private walon kau pension bhee nahee hai.jau thodee bahut 10 lakh 20 lakh jamaa poonjee hai woah business lagaa dain feer bachha bhee road aur ham bhee road par. Thodee poonjee sai kids kau jau 2 rotee meel rahee thee woah bhe khatam. Paisaa tau bank bhee nahee lagataa yadee idea achha Naa hau. Kya guarantee hai kids kaa Naya business. Success hee rahey
@@manjular3678this hits hard man. I'm 21, I wanted to do research in life, but I didn't go towards it because it won't pay me much. I made this decision when I was 16. I just want to get out of this rat race now.
This has been my personal philosophy in life -- If your parents force you to do something and then disown you in failure then it's better to just take the risk and go against them and do what you want to do. Because at the end of the day, if you win you'll know it was on your conviction and if you fail, you'll know you tried. This is a situation where you have nothing to loose. So do what you want to do>>>> what your parents want you to do. Because if you fail in both, they'll put the blame solely on you.
Most of the time when you are young you do not have the absolute confidence to power your way against the opinions of people especially if they are successful and older. The least they can do is to stay out but parents sometimes push kids in a certain direction and then ridicule and criticize when they take time
Best example is my mother, always emotionally blackmailing... who constantly remainds me of the scarifices they did to bring me and my sister even at my age of 34..My dad was a top level central govt official yet we were never demanding as kids, never asked for any materialistic things. We actually lived like a lower middle class people even though we had money. They only had to spend towards our education yet my mother constantly keeps cribbing even today... after a point in my life i decided not to be financially dependent on them or else i will have to keep listening to her expenses of looking after me.... With her passing age i feel its becoming too difficult to adjust with my mom...
Ignore them. I tried to make my mother understand that her constant nagging isn't helping anybody. Still she continues to do so. The problem is that middle class parents, after a certain period of time, they don't want to change or to keep up-to-date themselves with their surroundings. This creates a huge problem for us. So now, just say yeah yeah and mind your own business. Try to find a new home for yourself. I'm doing the same for myself. My parents didn't allow me to learn driving until the age of 28 just because they were scared. Now imagine.
Very true... Indian middle class think they have done some great favour on their kids by birthing them! No one asked them to... If they wanted to enjoy their lives they should have remained childfree and enjoyed! Sirji, pls make video on couple's decision to remain childfree in today's world and how it should be supported and not ridiculed!
Sir on point. So called parents hai ye log . Bas bachen paida karliya but knows nothing about parenting . Na paisa na akal bas bhasanbaji hai . Hopefully the younger generation learns from this and become a true parent.
One word - Masterpiece!! Sir, I am currently working as IMO (Grp-A, JB) in ESIS, L&ESI Dept, Govt of Odisha, age is 28, unmarried, and being a doctor, I find myself very fortunate to find your channel!! Thank you so much sir for your insights!! Usually, I don't comment, but this video compelled me to give a comment!! I will make sure my next gen would get advantage from my social position and connections!! Thanks again, Sir!!
You are not just enlightening and guiding students like me out of dark but playing a significant role in India’s economic development as well by pulling out people from govt jobs preparation and put them to work, sir we need more like you if we want to be a developed nation till 2050. Jai Hind 🇮🇳🇮🇳
Really you are right in saying We were built up and brain washed with these ideas and words nepotism ,favouritism,,etc so i couldn't change or ask favour in school, college, with this mindset I tried and ruined my time in upsc
Sir your topic and explanation is brilliant! But when we share this with parents elders or relatives they become very bitter... they pick and choose only what they like... apne fayde ke liye... really our generation has bad toxic parents (except a few)! Thank you for bringing up these topics which nobody talks about...! Hope things get better!
Good one. Many middle class parents are so stuck in the daily rut that they put rest of their life (kids, health, wealth, etc) on autopilot. They just get on with their schedule without thinking about where they are and where they want to go!
Sir you r so correct.When I was doing my summer internship during my MBA my father refused to help me out even when he could as he was in a senior post in a govt outfit. I was told fend for urself.
Mine is exactly the opposite scenario. My parents get jealous of me if I do or achieve anything more than them. They never ever celebrated my achievements. Forget about helping me, they stopped me at every single chance they got. Mind you, they are poor living in 40k pension. Still, they do not want me to achieve more than them. I am tired of hearing from their mouth that Money is not important in life. It's like a broken tape recorder.
@@gyansakhi452 Narcissistic parents Google kijiye. Reddit pe personal narrations v parh saakte hai.. Bohut parents jealous toh kiya, abusive v hoote hai.. Parent banne ke baad koi insaan' buree se bhala nahi ho jata.. Unka character and behavior waisa he reehta hai.
this is your life and your free will what would you want to choose parents jealousy or your growth remember "the world bows down to power and money" adding to that if you can achive right knowledge and wisdom and clarity along with this then you will be on stage heaven
@@ankansenapati3600 Not living with parents. Haven't met them in 15 years. Probably met them 2-3 times in 15 years but every time it ended up in a fight. I don't talk to them. It's simply not possible. Too much of toxicity. I moved out when I was 18.
Very realistic thank you 🙂 Sir Please parenting pr bhi ek video bnayen, aajkl parenting me anger, stress bhut jyada h, bchcho ko smbhalna bhut challenging lgta h 🙏
I've got worst and most selfish in-laws. I wanted to make career transition in 2020 but I had to settle for something less than what I deserved because nobody was there to look after my kid. I would have been very successful in my career if I had good in-laws. Food for thought: I & my husband will always support our child and future daughter in law "jab tak hain jaan" without expecting anything in return from our younger generation because unconditional and selfless parenthood is when you don't expect anything in return. Its all about giving, giving and giving, jab tak hai jan, jab tak hai jan, jab tak hai jan!
Just a question, did your in laws birthed your kid or you did ? In place I come from you are responsible for your own kids, you don't get free service from in laws, in case you do job you hire the baby sitter paid by your own and work.
@@techihandlebut in india...there is joint family so the kids are expected to live with parents even after marriage. Also kids have to support parents financially
Blaming in laws because they are not available as baby sitters is not right. Enroll the kids in day care, that’s the safest and best way ☺️ All the best!
Very well explained Sir.. hats-off to you .. this is exactly what going on in some families its just cos some parents are so selfish 👌👌👌👌 n so-much toxicity on behalf of just given birth they can do n exploit in anyway no genuineness is there enjoying own life
Sir itne saare baba, prawachan krta aur bhi baaki sab motivational speakers hain koi bhi real sach nahi batata but aapki baatein iss samay middleclass kei liye bahut genuine hain bahut practical hain, aapko dil sei salute.
Sir I agree. Agar immigrants bhi apne bacche ko neeche se shuru karwaate to Vivek Ramaswamy jaisa ladka aaj US president banne ko ladayi mein na hota. Great video
As a young guy, in my late 20s I've seen this obsession with buying expensive products on loans such as iPhone, they will go to these open cafes and smoke spliff just to look cool... But the reality is mostly they are broke. They are living paycheck to paycheck. They just want to live in the moment. Woke and Broke they are! I see this, living in pune and being an IT professional.
These are the ones who will suffer the most in upcoming 10-15 or probably 20 years. The time they will retire they will understand where it all went wrong.
This vedio and education will certainly be helpful for upliftment of Middle-class. Excellent education for global humanity. Role of the parents is forever for supporting their children in all aspects of life. Sir, you are right. Dr. Laxmi Shanker Kanpur
Namaste ji, you are absolutely correct, whatever little we can save during life please pass it to your next generation. Wealth will grow multi fold when parents are magnanimous enough to part with their property with blessings .
I live in uk sir. And I started thinking the same from 2 months but the indian parent was still inside me and now you just rose the old me with this video. Our kids are our responsibility. We have to give them a good start. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thank you guruji 🙏. Hopefully situations are changing. Gone are the suffering days when children worked hard just to see a smile on their parents face.
Hi Sir, Please do a video on how a wife can manage all financial responsibilities alone and save for future, while her husband is not working or loosing jobs frequently.
Sir, I want to know why parents favour and pamper younger siblings and invest more on them while ignoring the eldest children and ask them to do it alone. One example, is a parent send thier youngest son to USA to study by spending around ₹ 55 lakhs. While cussing thier elder son that he was weak in studies so cannot take any risk to spend money. I checked the marks of these brothers and they have between 60 to 70 percent. Now the younger son has a good job and the elder is jobless. Kindly need your views and advice.
Your advice is correct. But there is a catch. A good athlete will succeed with a good team. But the athlete should have to basically put the effort - if he doesn't work, no team effort can make them succeed. Same way, if the child doesn't put any effort and says they are failure because of parents not helping them, that doesn't have any point then. Bad can't be made best, may be can be made average. Also there is a tendency about comparison - other parent did better for the child and you didn't do it for me etc from the children. Parents shouldn't compare their children with others and similarly, children also shouldn't compare their parents with other parents. No two people face the same issues.
Parents need to create a conducive environment for the children so that children will grow automatically. Example: If u take care of good sunlight, water, good soil, for a plant, then now flower will automatically bloom. Take care, give them small challenges so they learn decision making, give right investment mindsets, right knowledge.
the single reason of every middle class problem is middle class wants high return in lowest investment possible. and secondly, they don't understand the power of compounding (which they are missing every time) and inflation (which are constantly against their growth).
Middle class need to stop Glorifying Abhav mein rehna... kami mein mein rehna... financial sacrifice... apni ichchao ko marna... They should not remember their poor past (bachpan) life.
Kyoki middle class mostly Service sector me hai and they cannot pass on there job to their children also they hv no other skill by which they can help their children to settle So easiest way is to ask child to work hardest
Absolutely correct. Most of the rich people will not tell these to the middle class. The rich don't want the middle class to become rich. The middle class has to understand the same and needs to promote their children to get success. Thank you for sharing
The content that you deliver is absolutely right. Even today youth really wasting their energy just spending time on preparing government exam. And most of the parents spending hard earned money on children's education, at last the grownup blame system and all.
naukari pesha baap ke 2 dialogue, 1- hamne kaisa pala tumko pet kaat kaat ke, 2- hamne padha diya tum dekh lo,agar hame mauka mila hota to hum ye ho jate.. hahahah
Sir please do a video again on property divided equally between married sister and two brothers , despite of sister taking huge chunk of papas wealth as gold to the tune of 1 kgsovereign. Father was taken cared till death by sons, now mother living on the monthly allowance given by sons. Mother insists to divide the house into three telling papa has written a will . It was hidden from sons since 2008, it was surfaced in 2021 😢
Has your parents not given gold to your wife ?? Is it obligation to take care of your parents in the old age I really feel disappointed to see such type of attitude Think about the situation if your father had not made any Will Then where you would have been as per the inheritance law
Wills are supposed to be kept hidden if kids are having such type of thinking If it's self acquired wealth by your Father he has all the right to distribute as per his wish If he would has made it public during his life time you would have made his life he'll whish is evident from your views and since he was your father he knew your thoughts and took desion of not disclosing during his life time
@@anilbakshi4505 I am a lawyer and I am not the son, the son’s wife who is writing here. Will was hidden only from the sons , original is with the sister. Papa and mother was under our care only. We are paying 25000 per month since 2008 till 2012 then 15000 since 2012 till date I am a daughter as well, my parents deducted the value of gold which was given to me during the time of marriage, from the due share I was supposed to get. I am happy with whatever my parents gave me ie only one tenth of their property. My brother inherited the rest of all property from my father with my full consent. My husband and his brother are gem of persons. Sister inlaw and mother in law arm twisted father to write a will so that sister inlaw gets some more from whatever little is left out. Any way parents should treat children equally and not biased Whatever you feel you can express. My husband almost lost his job while he took long live to be with his fathe for the last full month preceding his fathers death It hurts really , being nice and dutiful is not enough
Spoiling relationship with sister will weaken your planet Mercury and with mother will weaken your planet moon. Like wise for sister spoiling relationship with brothers will weaken her Mars. So it is better to have good relationship to avoid other astro issues.
That’s very true sir, If you get success and listen to your parents then it was all done by your parents and if not then it was fault on your part that you didn’t listen us having said that, “agar humari baat suni hoti toh yeh naubat hi nahi aati” Getting failure in my career, again I restarted and at this juncture, my parents are pressuring for marriage ki Umar ho rahi hai shaadi kar aur jaa. Apart from this I told them before connecting with your channel I had this mindset ki jo paisa aap samaaj ko dikhane ke liye kharch kar rahe ho give it to me I’ll buy a property or invest it somewhere. Parents really don’t understand that how deal with these tiny issues and these such things could lead to major problems in our lives
I had face same issue. My parents love feeding 30 40 relatives and brag about it but would not want to even spend for further education of kids. Somehow me and my sister stopped expecting, coz most Indian parents are very emotionally neglectful to their kids but use kids for their own image.
Same thing happen with my family my grandfather got a sarkari job and my grandfather was also a good friend of MLA of our area once my father call my grandfather for a job from MLA but my grandfather reject he said that you should start from scratch cherry on the cake after my grandfather death we become lower middle class person😂😂
Sir , another excellent video. One of my friend who is on a Top Post in central government always used to say that third generation enjoys while ist and second generation struggles and the same cycle runs . You have rightly broken that myth . I have forwarded this video to him and now he has no answer and agreed to yours intelligent view’s . Salute to you GURUJI . 👏👏
My dad just said this mujhse jitna possible tha utna kiya ab jo bhi hai tumlog karoge, but if u need any help i will help u that lead to awesome feeling of independence n choosing what makes me happy is really success registering event
Agree partially, you gave Mukesh Ambani eg, but you forgot Anil Ambani(from 10th richest to bankrupt beggar). the difference between them is that one was party guy who did not know how to run business and other was not. other eg are Vijay Malaya, Rahul Gandhi, Abhishek banchan, party guys with no base and understanding of the world.
@@ankansenapati3600 only for sometime, just giving and setting up legacy is not sufficient, but you also need to pass wisdom and knowledge to retain and grow what you have been given.
They are utter failures yet popularly known and that I guess sums up the purpose of the video. Imagine if they were too preparing for a govt job and failed to get one. Who would know them? 😂
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Sir, I do agree with you. My father earned a lot in his life but most of the money was spent on the kids and wife of my deceased uncle. The eldest son of my deceased uncle got government job of his father. He was able to make a second home because his money was saved because my father had made them a home. And today, I have been earning fine in Bengaluru but I can't buy a house because of my father's mischiefs. I am not saying that I won't be able to do so, but it will take some years.
Hello sir,
Tathastu 1 has increased the rates even after launching and we have paid the 1st installment as well. Is this possible to increase rate midway?
Sir kindly guide us youth if parents are not ready to accept these kind of behaviour !! This is wasting my life and am suicidal .😢
This video is the best I have ever listened. I am a son with a son & daughter. You are absolutely right. ❤
Bura nhi lgaa sir. I have learnt a lot.
Sir I like the lines -agar kisi maa baap ko bura lag gaya ho to haath jod kar vinti hai Mera aim hi tha aapko bura lagana😂😂😂
@@samirbhalerao5579Exactly
😂😂😂😂😂
Literally at least parents should support their child small business
😂😂😂
Achha hai sir parents Pension sai kids kai business mai help Karo. Private walon kau pension bhee nahee hai.jau thodee bahut 10 lakh 20 lakh jamaa poonjee hai woah business lagaa dain feer bachha bhee road aur ham bhee road par. Thodee poonjee sai kids kau jau 2 rotee meel rahee thee woah bhe khatam. Paisaa tau bank bhee nahee lagataa yadee idea achha Naa hau. Kya guarantee hai kids kaa Naya business. Success hee rahey
Another masterpiece of yours Amit Sir. What a line "baap banne me kuch nahi, pita banne me dum hai" 🙏
but samjhte kaha log
Sir Fir konsa Career option choose kare as alternative to Govt. Jobs
precisely
Chup bey
middle class parents dont care about children's failure and success but force children to do mundane jobs.
Truth. Plus they laugh at their kids behind their backs forgetting their failure is theirs too
Only Middle Class People know the Feeling of Sacrificing their Dreams because of a Family Situation
@@manjular3678this hits hard man. I'm 21, I wanted to do research in life, but I didn't go towards it because it won't pay me much. I made this decision when I was 16. I just want to get out of this rat race now.
Success hua to humne kara diya, fail huye to humne padha diya 😂😂😂
you can say "success has many fathers failure has none "
@@shivkapoor3302that was deep 😢
😂😂
It not funny
This has been my personal philosophy in life -- If your parents force you to do something and then disown you in failure then it's better to just take the risk and go against them and do what you want to do. Because at the end of the day, if you win you'll know it was on your conviction and if you fail, you'll know you tried. This is a situation where you have nothing to loose. So do what you want to do>>>> what your parents want you to do. Because if you fail in both, they'll put the blame solely on you.
good understanding
Very true!
Most of the time when you are young you do not have the absolute confidence to power your way against the opinions of people especially if they are successful and older. The least they can do is to stay out but parents sometimes push kids in a certain direction and then ridicule and criticize when they take time
So true,, i hv felt this. 👍
Gr8 thinking 💬
Best example is my mother, always emotionally blackmailing... who constantly remainds me of the scarifices they did to bring me and my sister even at my age of 34..My dad was a top level central govt official yet we were never demanding as kids, never asked for any materialistic things. We actually lived like a lower middle class people even though we had money. They only had to spend towards our education yet my mother constantly keeps cribbing even today... after a point in my life i decided not to be financially dependent on them or else i will have to keep listening to her expenses of looking after me.... With her passing age i feel its becoming too difficult to adjust with my mom...
Brother you have to earn respect.... Do something great and earn more... Be humble to everyone... Good luck
This is your story and we just can't believe whatever you say
Banke Tera saya Mai tujko tham loo uthh ke rab se pahele Mai Tera naam loon..😅😅😅😅
Dont mind me brother
if you are 34 then You should not depend on them financialy
Ignore them. I tried to make my mother understand that her constant nagging isn't helping anybody. Still she continues to do so. The problem is that middle class parents, after a certain period of time, they don't want to change or to keep up-to-date themselves with their surroundings. This creates a huge problem for us.
So now, just say yeah yeah and mind your own business. Try to find a new home for yourself. I'm doing the same for myself.
My parents didn't allow me to learn driving until the age of 28 just because they were scared. Now imagine.
Sir you are "light "of middle class darkness...
Very true... Indian middle class think they have done some great favour on their kids by birthing them! No one asked them to... If they wanted to enjoy their lives they should have remained childfree and enjoyed! Sirji, pls make video on couple's decision to remain childfree in today's world and how it should be supported and not ridiculed!
And also a video on the pwople who is happy witj one kid but are forced to birth another because of growing trend of having more thn one babies
@@Gshgshshs123 you should fight back. The decision should be the couple's and not anyone else's
Every middle class parents should watch this video carefully.... Thankyou sir for your valuable life-changing guidance
Sir on point. So called parents hai ye log . Bas bachen paida karliya but knows nothing about parenting . Na paisa na akal bas bhasanbaji hai . Hopefully the younger generation learns from this and become a true parent.
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Pehle achche padha to de...fir to layak bnega
@@prasannjitkumar780 Bhaukte rah. Tu video ke dekhne ke bad ye comment kr rha h,then daya aa rhi tujhpe
Amit ji - You are the real definition of what we call as an Influencer.
You are not just enlightening and guiding students like me out of dark but playing a significant role in India’s economic development as well by pulling out people from govt jobs preparation and put them to work, sir we need more like you if we want to be a developed nation till 2050. Jai Hind 🇮🇳🇮🇳
😂 reason is - he is running his company for selling flats in metro cities.
Agree sir
Baccho ko is duniya me lane Wale bhi hum hi hain,to responsibility bhi hamari hai.
Jab tak hai jaan😊
Chalo koi to, is matalabi duniya me parents ki galti nikalne Wale Mila warna sabhi to bas youth ko gali de te hai.
yeh sab silsala 5 aur 6 saal tak hai sab badalne wala hai transition period mein abhi india
Extremely true....
Hats off to you Sir....!!
You are the only youtuber who is real and genuine....!!
Yess
Excellent guidance to children of many middle class families who will come to know the reality of cheating that happened to them but too late in life.
Really you are right in saying
We were built up and brain washed with these ideas and words nepotism ,favouritism,,etc so i couldn't change or ask favour in school, college, with this mindset I tried and ruined my time in upsc
My opinion is govt is no more a choice
Your content is so original and practical. You're doing great service to humanity.
1st time I have seen thoughts of these days via words,this is bitter truth sir again long live guru ji🎉
Creative, Scientific and Entertaining. Also Actionable and Practical! respect
Sir your topic and explanation is brilliant! But when we share this with parents elders or relatives they become very bitter... they pick and choose only what they like... apne fayde ke liye... really our generation has bad toxic parents (except a few)!
Thank you for bringing up these topics which nobody talks about...! Hope things get better!
matlab tumko apne khud ke upper vishwash hi nhi hai ki me jo kar rha hu usme benefit hai. dosh dete ho apne gharwalo par.
When you look around you must realise... then you probably would know the narcissism many going through...
success ho jaye to hamne bana diya, nahi to hamne padha diya..hahaha what a line.. naukari pesha baap lo ki yahi soch hai..
" Success has many fathers failure has none"
Good one. Many middle class parents are so stuck in the daily rut that they put rest of their life (kids, health, wealth, etc) on autopilot. They just get on with their schedule without thinking about where they are and where they want to go!
Original ..practical...and content full of Ground level situation reality and real mindset prevailing for last more than 25 years...
Sir you r so correct.When I was doing my summer internship during my MBA my father refused to help me out even when he could as he was in a senior post in a govt outfit. I was told fend for urself.
Mere baap ne mujhe sirf diploma karwaya fir bola apna dekho
Mine is exactly the opposite scenario. My parents get jealous of me if I do or achieve anything more than them. They never ever celebrated my achievements. Forget about helping me, they stopped me at every single chance they got. Mind you, they are poor living in 40k pension. Still, they do not want me to achieve more than them. I am tired of hearing from their mouth that Money is not important in life. It's like a broken tape recorder.
Koi ni yar tu laga reh aur apne parents ko har chiz batane ki koi zarurat nahi hai
Koi parents jealous nhi hote apne bachche se.kuchh aapas ki misunderstanding hogyi hogi.
@@gyansakhi452 Narcissistic parents Google kijiye. Reddit pe personal narrations v parh saakte hai.. Bohut parents jealous toh kiya, abusive v hoote hai.. Parent banne ke baad koi insaan' buree se bhala nahi ho jata.. Unka character and behavior waisa he reehta hai.
this is your life and your free will what would you want to choose parents jealousy or your growth remember "the world bows down to power and money" adding to that if you can achive right knowledge and wisdom and clarity along with this then you will be on stage heaven
@@ankansenapati3600 Not living with parents. Haven't met them in 15 years. Probably met them 2-3 times in 15 years but every time it ended up in a fight. I don't talk to them. It's simply not possible. Too much of toxicity. I moved out when I was 18.
This is life changing for me. Father is dharma. He has to sacrifice and bear the bitter treatment.
Very realistic thank you 🙂
Sir Please parenting pr bhi ek video bnayen, aajkl parenting me anger, stress bhut jyada h, bchcho ko smbhalna bhut challenging lgta h 🙏
standing ovation.. ans salute to you sir.....
I've got worst and most selfish in-laws. I wanted to make career transition in 2020 but I had to settle for something less than what I deserved because nobody was there to look after my kid. I would have been very successful in my career if I had good in-laws. Food for thought: I & my husband will always support our child and future daughter in law "jab tak hain jaan" without expecting anything in return from our younger generation because unconditional and selfless parenthood is when you don't expect anything in return. Its all about giving, giving and giving, jab tak hai jan, jab tak hai jan, jab tak hai jan!
Just a question, did your in laws birthed your kid or you did ? In place I come from you are responsible for your own kids, you don't get free service from in laws, in case you do job you hire the baby sitter paid by your own and work.
@@techihandlebut in india...there is joint family so the kids are expected to live with parents even after marriage. Also kids have to support parents financially
Blaming in laws because they are not available as baby sitters is not right. Enroll the kids in day care, that’s the safest and best way ☺️ All the best!
Hats off again sirji. Your videos are exceptionally to the point especially for the people who didn't get the right guidance from their fathers.
Very well explained Sir.. hats-off to you .. this is exactly what going on in some families its just cos some parents are so selfish 👌👌👌👌 n so-much toxicity on behalf of just given birth they can do n exploit in anyway no genuineness is there enjoying own life
Sir itne saare baba, prawachan krta aur bhi baaki sab motivational speakers hain koi bhi real sach nahi batata but aapki baatein iss samay middleclass kei liye bahut genuine hain bahut practical hain, aapko dil sei salute.
Sir, i literally wish one day you become international's best lifestyle coach. What you said just now is the utmost truth of life.
Yes. This is true. Mentality must change.
Sir I agree.
Agar immigrants bhi apne bacche ko neeche se shuru karwaate to Vivek Ramaswamy jaisa ladka aaj US president banne ko ladayi mein na hota.
Great video
As a young guy, in my late 20s I've seen this obsession with buying expensive products on loans such as iPhone, they will go to these open cafes and smoke spliff just to look cool... But the reality is mostly they are broke. They are living paycheck to paycheck. They just want to live in the moment. Woke and Broke they are! I see this, living in pune and being an IT professional.
These are the ones who will suffer the most in upcoming 10-15 or probably 20 years. The time they will retire they will understand where it all went wrong.
but in IT average pay is 50 lpa, so should be fine financially
@@msdadsfsx😂😂😂in quora....
@@msdadsfsx what 50! 😂😂
@@shashankdalvi2174 yes in Bengaluru 50 lpa is common
Rightly said, my lIfe is miserable due to parent,just destroyed my life.
Jo ho gaya usko yaad karne se koi faayda nahi. Ab hum parents ko kya karna hai us par concentrate kare.
Very nice video sir.
Keep educating us🙏
This vedio and education will certainly be helpful for upliftment of Middle-class.
Excellent education for global humanity.
Role of the parents is forever for supporting their children in all aspects of life.
Sir, you are right.
Dr. Laxmi Shanker
Kanpur
As usual very practical topic for subcontinent. middle class. These r hurdles for growing up.
Namaste ji, you are absolutely correct, whatever little we can save during life please pass it to your next generation. Wealth will grow multi fold when parents are magnanimous enough to part with their property with blessings .
It automatic pass after parent death
Awesome video.....broke many strong and widely held beliefs...no words to describe the profoundity of the wisdom
I live in uk sir. And I started thinking the same from 2 months but the indian parent was still inside me and now you just rose the old me with this video. Our kids are our responsibility. We have to give them a good start. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Zabardast topic and fresh perspective.. you are the real OG TH-camr!
You've become my favourite youtuber, binge watching your content is new addiction 👏🏻😊
Thank you guruji 🙏. Hopefully situations are changing. Gone are the suffering days when children worked hard just to see a smile on their parents face.
So far the best video of yours.Hats off to you sir 👏
17.40 point hits the middle class hard... Karela juice. Dhanya ho gaye Guruji aapke iss wisdom se .. ,🙏
Perfect analysis and eye opener for middle class ..!! Pls make some video for indian people who dont do any work but intervent to others life
Sir, pranam,,, you are clarity king..hands down
You are absolutely right 👍
I am happy to have a channel which talks so straight
Aap jaisa Pita har bachhey ko miley..
Great Video. Thank you for posting.
Sir ji real man ho app
Ap ji ki khushi wehguru ji hamesha barkrar rakhai hum dil say ardaas kartai hi
Wehguru ji
Hi Sir,
Please do a video on how a wife can manage all financial responsibilities alone and save for future, while her husband is not working or loosing jobs frequently.
Sir, I want to know why parents favour and pamper younger siblings and invest more on them while ignoring the eldest children and ask them to do it alone. One example, is a parent send thier youngest son to USA to study by spending around ₹ 55 lakhs. While cussing thier elder son that he was weak in studies so cannot take any risk to spend money. I checked the marks of these brothers and they have between 60 to 70 percent. Now the younger son has a good job and the elder is jobless. Kindly need your views and advice.
Your advice is correct. But there is a catch. A good athlete will succeed with a good team. But the athlete should have to basically put the effort - if he doesn't work, no team effort can make them succeed. Same way, if the child doesn't put any effort and says they are failure because of parents not helping them, that doesn't have any point then. Bad can't be made best, may be can be made average.
Also there is a tendency about comparison - other parent did better for the child and you didn't do it for me etc from the children. Parents shouldn't compare their children with others and similarly, children also shouldn't compare their parents with other parents. No two people face the same issues.
Parents need to create a conducive environment for the children so that children will grow automatically.
Example: If u take care of good sunlight, water, good soil, for a plant, then now flower will automatically bloom.
Take care, give them small challenges so they learn decision making, give right investment mindsets, right knowledge.
We should learn from jains and baniyas they teach their children business anyhow even if they are not good at studies and other things.
@@ameyapatil2424 indeed ....you catch the point brother
If he is not a good athlete then his parents should help him buy an athletic team instead. Not pressure him to be a athlete
@@keshabroy6094 then you are trying in the wrong direction obviously
unique topics as always... your audience is not only in india... but across borders... beacuse social issues are same in subcontinent
Sahi h...sir shuru se apke sath hu...
Another gem video By Guru ji ❤❤❤❤ 🙏
Guruji You are the Pioneer for Jago n Karo n Badho - Middle Cladd
U r really telling the harsh reality of our middle class mindset..I salute u sir....U r like our guardian..🙏🙏
Direct from ❤ Heart ❤️!!
Very very true!!
I liked your T Shirt 🎉too !❤
You are absolutely right 🎉
The way you bring clarity into complex topics is amazing. :)
eye opener Guruji 🙏. Pls make a video on how to upbring your kids.
The best advise have seen in years Thank you Sir !!!
the single reason of every middle class problem is middle class wants high return in lowest investment possible.
and secondly, they don't understand the power of compounding (which they are missing every time) and inflation (which are constantly against their growth).
Kaanjus hai isliye
@@asecdsi4009 kanjusi is a behavior , induced bcz of situation and due to not knowing the fundamentals of money and wealth
@@asecdsi4009 hn...ek line me aapne correct bol Diya 😂😂😂
बहुत प्रेरणादाई वीडियो
Middle class need to stop Glorifying Abhav mein rehna... kami mein mein rehna... financial sacrifice... apni ichchao ko marna... They should not remember their poor past (bachpan) life.
True. We can't cry for the past despite having good fortune now.
Kitni sahi aur perfect baat karte Hain aap ❤
Kyoki middle class mostly Service sector me hai and they cannot pass on there job to their children also they hv no other skill by which they can help their children to settle So easiest way is to ask child to work hardest
Wealth tohh pass kar sakte hai
बहुत अच्छी बात श्रीमान सांगवान जी।
Absolutely correct. Most of the rich people will not tell these to the middle class. The rich don't want the middle class to become rich.
The middle class has to understand the same and needs to promote their children to get success. Thank you for sharing
Good knowledge sir for middle class people ,thank you for this video
The content that you deliver is absolutely right. Even today youth really wasting their energy just spending time on preparing government exam. And most of the parents spending hard earned money on children's education, at last the grownup blame system and all.
Aage Ke liye Best Of Luck🍀 To "FAMILY MAN". Thanks Sir.
Mind opening session.
Iam 22 and listening this.❤
naukari pesha baap ke 2 dialogue, 1- hamne kaisa pala tumko pet kaat kaat ke, 2- hamne padha diya tum dekh lo,agar hame mauka mila hota to hum ye ho jate.. hahahah
Amit Guru Ji, please make a separate channel for Astrology - Sango Astro Wisdom 💫🔥💫
Awesome message. True to the core
Wonderful 💯
Dhamakedaaaaaar Mazzaaaaa Aa Gayaaaaa, Amit Guru Ji! 🔥🔥🔥
Sir please do a video again on property divided equally between married sister and two brothers , despite of sister taking huge chunk of papas wealth as gold to the tune of 1 kgsovereign.
Father was taken cared till death by sons, now mother living on the monthly allowance given by sons. Mother insists to divide the house into three telling papa has written a will . It was hidden from sons since 2008, it was surfaced in 2021 😢
Bro apne maa baap ko investment jesa mat dekh bhai. Jo mila khus reh.
Has your parents not given gold to your wife ?? Is it obligation to take care of your parents in the old age I really feel disappointed to see such type of attitude Think about the situation if your father had not made any Will Then where you would have been as per the inheritance law
Wills are supposed to be kept hidden if kids are having such type of thinking If it's self acquired wealth by your Father he has all the right to distribute as per his wish If he would has made it public during his life time you would have made his life he'll whish is evident from your views and since he was your father he knew your thoughts and took desion of not disclosing during his life time
@@anilbakshi4505 I am a lawyer and I am not the son, the son’s wife who is writing here. Will was hidden only from the sons , original is with the sister. Papa and mother was under our care only. We are paying 25000 per month since 2008 till 2012 then 15000 since 2012 till date
I am a daughter as well, my parents deducted the value of gold which was given to me during the time of marriage, from the due share I was supposed to get.
I am happy with whatever my parents gave me ie only one tenth of their property. My brother inherited the rest of all property from my father with my full consent.
My husband and his brother are gem of persons.
Sister inlaw and mother in law arm twisted father to write a will so that sister inlaw gets some more from whatever little is left out. Any way parents should treat children equally and not biased
Whatever you feel you can express.
My husband almost lost his job while he took long live to be with his fathe for the last full month preceding his fathers death
It hurts really , being nice and dutiful is not enough
Spoiling relationship with sister will weaken your planet Mercury and with mother will weaken your planet moon. Like wise for sister spoiling relationship with brothers will weaken her Mars.
So it is better to have good relationship to avoid other astro issues.
Mind blowing. Just WOW!
That’s very true sir, If you get success and listen to your parents then it was all done by your parents and if not then it was fault on your part that you didn’t listen us having said that, “agar humari baat suni hoti toh yeh naubat hi nahi aati”
Getting failure in my career, again I restarted and at this juncture, my parents are pressuring for marriage ki Umar ho rahi hai shaadi kar aur jaa. Apart from this I told them before connecting with your channel I had this mindset ki jo paisa aap samaaj ko dikhane ke liye kharch kar rahe ho give it to me I’ll buy a property or invest it somewhere. Parents really don’t understand that how deal with these tiny issues and these such things could lead to major problems in our lives
I had face same issue. My parents love feeding 30 40 relatives and brag about it but would not want to even spend for further education of kids. Somehow me and my sister stopped expecting, coz most Indian parents are very emotionally neglectful to their kids but use kids for their own image.
Although I am from a high class but I can really relate to this as my father still has middle class mentality! Very well explained Guruji
Same thing happen with my family my grandfather got a sarkari job and my grandfather was also a good friend of MLA of our area once my father call my grandfather for a job from MLA but my grandfather reject he said that you should start from scratch cherry on the cake after my grandfather death we become lower middle class person😂😂
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Great sir ji,aap realistic discussion karte hai sir
Sir , another excellent video. One of my friend who is on a Top Post in central government always used to say that third generation enjoys while ist and second generation struggles and the same cycle runs . You have rightly broken that myth . I have forwarded this video to him and now he has no answer and agreed to yours intelligent view’s . Salute to you GURUJI . 👏👏
Sir, you are absolutely correct. Very brave to have expressed it.
My dad just said this mujhse jitna possible tha utna kiya ab jo bhi hai tumlog karoge, but if u need any help i will help u that lead to awesome feeling of independence n choosing what makes me happy is really success registering event
Very true'and perfect
Ye sab bata ke hame aur takleef mat pohochaiye. Middle class maa baap 60 saal ki age mein nhi sudharne wale. Tell us how to rise beyond that.
Right bro
I like your words' genuineness' ki flow karne do...Very true...❤
Agree partially, you gave Mukesh Ambani eg, but you forgot Anil Ambani(from 10th richest to bankrupt beggar). the difference between them is that one was party guy who did not know how to run business and other was not. other eg are Vijay Malaya, Rahul Gandhi, Abhishek banchan, party guys with no base and understanding of the world.
@@ankansenapati3600 only for sometime, just giving and setting up legacy is not sufficient, but you also need to pass wisdom and knowledge to retain and grow what you have been given.
Beggar? What r u smoking?
@@keshabroy6094 he was begging his brother to save from bankruptcy and jail
With no understanding of the so called world , thier net worth is 100s of times more than urs . What have u achieved by understanding the world?
They are utter failures yet popularly known and that I guess sums up the purpose of the video. Imagine if they were too preparing for a govt job and failed to get one. Who would know them? 😂