@@tij_ana_ Opinions are opinions. If you don't want to acknowledge being friends, or don't see each other being friends...you are not friends. She definitely didn't seem like she wants to be friends with her. Which is okay.
Heather Leigh Well when the person you loved tells you to your face that they were missing something from your relationship because you’re a women I’d be pissed/hurt too. Even as a bisexual woman I know that I am monogamous, if the girl on the right isn’t sure then she shouldn’t have dragged the girl on the left through a relationship. She seems more like she was being straight forward to me.
The one on the left doesn't seem "still mad" or "rude" and whatnot. Shes just really blunt. That type of honesty people ask for then complain that the other is mean when they hear it.
Exactly. Also, it's quite clear she is sure of herself whereas the other girl isn't. That likely played a factor into their breakup. A blessing in disguise for real. After this Maria likely may not speak to the other girl ever again. Complete closure
It's not the WHAT she's saying is rude, it's that the emotion behind it IS anger/annoyance/frustration. Basically, the girl on the left is reactive. I'm sure she has reason to feel so, though.
The girl on the left wasn’t cold at all. She seemed so hurt. And I get it. They didn’t end well, and she was just being honest. Bulgarian people do tend to be really honest about their feelings. I don’t see why hide them.
luu I don’t really know how to decipher her emotions. The girl on the left seemed a bit narcissistic but then again she sounds like me currently during this breakup with my ex girlfriend. We literally are like them both fems and all. My ex gf doesn’t know anything about me but I know everything about her, she was a bitch our entire relationship, and I told her if we breakup we’d never be friends because she could never be my friend. I told her you’re barely a girlfriend so what makes you think we could be friends and deserving of a friendship with me when you were everything but in the relationship. Then one day she texted me days after she canceled on me for my bday and I never responded it’s been a week now and I’m honestly happy without her like the girl on the left. I do miss her occasionally but then I realize I just miss the sex but even then the sex was one sided because she never touched me. Seemed like I was a “touch me not” when I’m everything but that. So I feel for the girl on the left but the the shock coming from the girl on the right is throwing me off. I can’t tell who is really in the wrong.
Lori Anne i’m really sorry you had to go through that. Some people just want to hurt others. They don’t know what they want. I wish you all the best, and I hope you find a good girlfriend
higgins no? she didn’t say anything mean. it’s called honesty. the rules were to drink and to be honest. she was not mean nor disrespectful. communicating is good. i don’t think you understand that.
There’s so much to unpack here. It seems almost like the darker blond used the lighter blond to not be lonely. She didn’t love her, she loved having someone to love. She missed the honey, not the real person. Saying someone healed you, you liked this person more for what they brought to you then who they truly are.
I honestly feel a lot of people stay with someone because they make them feel loved and safe rather than because they are truly in love with them. They just don't want to be alone, and that person makes them feel good. I can't figure out if it's good or bad.
I really felt the bi-curious exploitation and it made me sad. The girl on the left gave me the impression of a mature woman who knows what she wants and I think she saw the shipwreck of this "relationship" coming from the beginning. But she is at peace with that.
@@celgaro09 hmmm. This is quite an interesting topic. I think being loved and feeling safe with a specific person can later on develop into loving that person itself. But maybe thats not always the case.
@@rosafiammante5027 I agree with you. She was able to make all her points without even once raising her voice or changing tone. She was very sure of exactly what she thought and how she wanted to express those thoughts. Very interesting to listen to her and watch her composure.
Girl on the left is confident and knows exactly how she feels. She’s finally putting her foot down and say “this is about me not you anymore.” I wanna know their background story
As a Slavic person myself, I can say that Slavic people in general, don't really "shade" people. If we don't like someone, we won't try to hide it and be super sassy about it. We're just gonna name things as they are.
i can really understand the pain the girl on the left feels. it is difficult to want the relationship to be the last one when the other person perceives it to be just a step in the right direction. no one wants to be the person who "heals" someone and then loses that same person to someone else.
It's fine to feel pain, but she was so rude. It's not the other girls fault she didn't feel the same and moved on, but she's acting like she was a bitch for being that way
At first I was like wow the girl on the left is pretty harsh. Then the girl on the right says she only missed the food in the relationship..... then I completely understood the other girl
I know this was a while ago but that’s not all she said. She started by saying she missed the food and then afterwards got serious and said that she really missed her. Y’all are ridiculous and love creating shit
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@@CrashClubMedia There should be no awkwardness in honesty. Some people ask for honesty and when they get it, it becomes too much for them and they call it awkward, frustrating etc. Really just shows how dishonest those people are or can be, despite preaching honesty on the outside. If you want honesty, you need to know how to handle anything that can come out.
the friendship conversation was real as fuck. being “friendly” does not mean you’re friends with someone. you’re “friendly” with your coworkers and acquaintances because you have to tolerate them but friendship is about emotional commitment and loyalty to another person. It’s very clear that the girl on the right meant that to say she’s nice to her so they’re friends but the girl on the left said “I can show our whatsapp messages” and I already know what she would show would be emotional distance from the other girl. we all have those people we text when we’re bored or they text us and we politely respond but that’s not a friendship
This was not awkward at all that girl is an eastern European they are blunt and to the point she actually came across quite chilled and friendly to me.
@@ChantalAngeles_ America has a habit of hiding the truth from everyone. It’s bled into the culture for so long that we’re all drowning in euphemisms and “polite” white lies
@@legitlinus9052 of course it depends are the person. But I should've said 'as a Dutch woman' instead of European, because us dutchies are very truthful and open!
It sounds like the relationship they had was one-sided centered around the person on the right where she worked out her issues through that relationship and the person on the left gave more.
Julia was the one who ended the relationship in the first place, though. So its expected for the other to leave once they've been told the relationship isn't working out for their partner. If she still wanted to stay with Maria, they could've taken a break instead of break up
@@DianaIsaBeek I can so fucking relate, not only because I made that mistake (breaking up insted of taking a break), but because my ex's name is Maria, and it freaking hurts listening, or reading her name... Poor Julia, she will might regret that decision for a long time.
She’s right, friendly is not the same thing as friends. I’m friendly with my exes but we aren’t friends, we don’t hang out or chat on the regular just for the sake of it. But we’re friendly and nice to each other when we cross paths.
I don't think the girl on the left is mean spirited as some of you guys suggested, I think she's hurting. The other girl said she prioritized herself and even kinda viewed the other as a hindrance. I wouldn't bother with fake pleasantries too.
@@soph7480 I never said I didn't respect the other girl. But the one on the left was getting a lot of shit for no good reason and I wanted to highlight and show appreciation for her self-respect and honesty.
I love how the girl on the left was so honest. She wasn’t mean at all, she just knew what she felt and wasn’t afraid to share it. Cheers to that type of communication!
This was one of the most interesting *body language* Cut videos. At first glance you think Julia (right) is more into Maria (left), Bc Maria is so laid back and Julia seems *eager to be closer.* It turns out, *as they interact* , Maria got hurt so her *distance and being closed off* is because she's protecting herself, and not bc she's rejecting Julia's advances. So Maria *is* distant and Julia *is* eager to be closer but not for what first instinct will tell. Julia wants to make *mends* ;Maria has *reservations* about Julia's version of that being sufficient for what she expects. And their body posture just screams it the entire video.😅 really cool.
It's a two edged sword, on one end you get more communication and trustful honesty. On the other end they tell you stuff like who else is attractive, they tend not to say supportive words, they tend to say what they don't like about you all the time, and they can tend to tell everyone every little thing they've heard from you but not in a malicious way. Kind of like the "oopsie" thing in the video. Just depends on what you want in a partner
This such an awkward conversation lol you can tell the lighter blonde was really hurt by how the relationship ended. Especially when she told her "no we're not friends"
How about when the other said: "I miss you, like you were there one day and then you just weren't and that still makes me sad, you know?". THAT must really fucking sucks to hear, especially since she chose to leave her, someone that really liked her and then to hear this later on.
@@phatbastard0alkaline Someone told me that once. Didn't hurt at all. Felt pretty good. "I guess I was doing something good then. 👌" Once you see the relationship not going anywhere but the drain, that's a reason to just leave quickly. You don't want to deal with all the bs drama.
@@Joshualacruz "It's so much better to talk about your feelings and communicate with each other rather than not do that" I dont think it's ever fair for the other party to be just cut off so easily like that
Well when the person you loved tells you to your face that they were missing something from your relationship because your a women I’d be pissed to. Even as a bisexual woman I know that I am monogamous, if the girl on the right isn’t sure then she shouldn’t have dragged the girl on the left through a relationship. She seems more like she was being straight forward to me.
What really, REALLY hurts is when you find someone and think the relationship is the real thing. Then you found out you were the rebound and that they never considered you more than someone to pass the time with until "the one" came around.
I loved reading the comments... if I had watched this a year ago I would’ve said the Bulgarian chic is an ass.... but having lived in Europe now and being exposed to the culture, one of my closest friend is Bulgarian, people from those countries sounds cold and prudish almost, but that’s just their culture to not display emotions. BUT in their core they’re epically kind and amazing... they’ll invite you over, feed you, treat you like one of them. Not because they’re “being nice” to you, that’s just who they are and what they’re culture to you. It’s fascinating
I understand where the girl on the right is coming from and it’s honestly comforting to hear that she can acknowledge that she was struggling with her own identity and felt like she needed to make that decision for herself.
The girl on the left, happier with the break up cause she can achieve more now, completely agree, some partners need lots of time and compromise that can drain you
That level of honesty and welcoming the feelings dialogue is just refreshing. Almost no drinking. Something you really miss in a girl/guy relationship.
Because they mature, also personality and stuff ofc. I personally find it " funny " some people cant talk about their feelings, i mean if something is bothering you why not just straight say it ?
clearly the girl on the right was in control of the relationships fate at all times. She accepts the passive aggressive shots in order to feel less guilty about experimenting and then dumping the girl on the left
y’all are saying this is awkward and that the girl on the left is being rude but she’s just being honest. clearly she’s hurt about the way things ended but she’s allowed to feel and express that
As a bisexual women please understand that the *STEREOTYPE* that bisexual people miss the other sex is only true for *SOME* people. The amount of people that are wary of dating someone who is bisexual because they fear that the person won’t be be *FULLY* into them is actually sad. I was in a relationship for a year and a half and didn’t think about anyone but my partner at the time. Monogamy is good for *ME* . I suggest everyone finds someone who is also compatible with them.
Yeah but it’s also awful how they wouldn’t wanna date us because we will miss the other gender. I, personally, do fit the stereotype of missing the other gender while in a relationship. Doesn’t mean i’ll ever act on it because I’m not a cheater, but I’m pretty sure both gay and straight people do miss fucking other people while in a relationship too. I don’t know, seeing all these comments saying how people wouldn’t wanna date me for something I can’t control makes me sad (?)
@@agustina7345 Every tried non-monogamy? I feel like bisexuals who do really miss the other gender might be better off with an open relationship so they can satisfy both their needs and still don't cheat or hurt their SO.
@@agustina7345 Well, it sucks even more for the other person that will feel like they aren't enough, in ways they can't control. Better to be honest if you know that you are that kind of person, straight, gay or bi, so that they know what they are getting into.
1:20 EXACTLY i’m bi and i hate when people say “i’m gonna miss the other gender” like no it’s you’re dating someone and you really love them that shouldn’t really matter
the only people who feel this way are people who feel compelled to go back to compulsory heterosexuality because they have spent their lives believing that "the one" should be the "opposite" gender. it's hard to overcome a lifetime of socialization and internalized beliefs about what an ideal relationship looks like. someone (like this woman) might not be able to see it but that is 100% what it's about.
MissBrittneyofCourse yup. being a friend isn’t sending the occasional “how are you?” text or tolerating someone. it’s a commitment to the other person and genuinely caring about their emotional well being
@Tala Habern i call bullshit. the bulgarian girl seems realistic and the aussie is obviously deaf to the truth and makes everything about her. i can empathize bc i have an ex like this that perpetrates like they're involved/invested in my life but contacts me once a month to talk about themselves. the first girl might still be bitter but i don't think she's exaggerating
Tala Habern, We only saw a five-minute conversation of the two girls meeting to talk. In my opinion, the girl on the right could have some valid points as to why can't they remain friends. The problem in both heterosexual and homosexual relationships is that some people have a difficult time remaining friends with someone after a breakup. I think that the blunt girl just didn't see that happening. The Australian girl was trying very hard to explain her personal struggles to the ex girlfriend and she even went as far to tell her that she helped her to grow in some ways. I personally am more drawn to the personality of the Australian girl. Unless I went through a horrible break up with someone I can still be a friend after a relationship. However, not everyone seems to feel that way, especially in a heterosexual relationship.
The Yellow Aurora well, she’s in another relationship with a woman rn so clearly she’s not confused about being attracted to women. but I do think that living in a heteronormative society is hard for bi/queer women particularly because it puts a lot of pressure on them (and women in general) to find the “right guy”, have children and settle down so being in love with a woman can be very conflicting and confusing
@AandA marjority??? not really, you must have had a bad experience with a bissexual person idk but we aren't all the same person and that is just not true
@@emerlyga I totally agree with you.That person must be hurt and had a terrible experience because not all bisexuals act that way.Im bisexual and so is my partner and we both have a happy and healthy relationship.
Even though sexuality is somewhat accepted these days, as a whole it is not. You still have to go to designated gay bars to find someone instead of just a normal bar. It can be a lot of struggling with yourself to be happy in a relationship that many see as different.
I love the honesty of the girl on the left. It's obvious that the girl on the right was experimenting and didn't really know what she wanted, but the girl on the left wanted her to pick if she really wanted to be with her or not and quit messing around. Had this experience with a lot of straight girls before. They never wanted to act like they did anything wrong, but they always treated me like a transition point in their lives, something for them, not as my own person who they hurt.
it’s really telling how genuine honesty like that of the girl on the left has makes people think “oh what a mean person!” but someone who’s genuinely rude like cardi b gets praised all the time
Lol I don’t get why the right girl was so agitated when the other said they’re not friends anymore. I only consider people friends that I regularly talk to and that I genuinely care about. Not people that I talk to once a year cause I’m curious about their life
Maybe they have different definitions of friends. For me, I consider a friend someone that I'm rooting for and someone I can reach out and talk to when I need to. What you describe as a friend is what I think is a close friend to the point of basically being like family.
It’s because she was the one who caused the break up. Seems like she was the one who was mean and rude and they both know that and I think she wants to consider them friends so that she doesn’t seem like she’s a bad person or what not
lol at the bi woman admitting to bi stereotype of ‘missing the other gender’ when in a relationship. Feel bad for the Bulgarian girl and how that must’ve felt in their relationship.
@@evoltaocao5078 you can't say monogamy is shitty just because you don't like it....some people are monogamous and some are polyamorous, you should respect a person no matter how they choose their relationships to be
Gzz Ra I think non monogamy is a shit idea but that’s just my opinion right? If she wants to be non monogamous then she can be but with consent from her partner. Also fuck off
Boob Pocket yeah, that was... yikes. as someone who is attracted to all genders that comment really rubbed me the wrong way because that’s never something I think about when choosing a partner. I think it’s possible that she’s scared of fully committing to a woman because she has some underlining internalized homophobia which is pretty common
@@bkinouye I think maybe she actually was. It was right after the food comment and for some reason a lot of the Eastern European people I know always know where to get really good honey.
Don’t get offended by what she said about doing better being alone. Sometimes we need to work on ourselves and grow and being in a relationship can be distracting from that work. Wish you both the best 😉💕
If she had said that calmly it would be one thing. But it seemed like she was still super angry and not admitting it to herself, and saying shes better off sounded like a story she tells herself to stop the pain rather than a lesson she learned with time.
What an interesting dynamic they have I love how honest the girl on the left consistently was, how sure of her answers she was and I love how the girl on the right took all of the things her old partner said in stride.
It’s clear girl on the right just used her because she needed someone emotionally at the time to “heal her”, as she said. Girl on the left is genuine in her emotions and seems she’s better off without her
This is a perfect example of why communication is extremely important. Closure is needed, and when you deny that source of closure, you’re left with pain that never goes away.
"What do you miss about me?" "I miss the Bulgarian food you used to make me." That was such a bad answer. How about cooking that stuff yourself? Ever thought about that?
This is basically me and my ex. I’m the one on the left, used for healing and not getting the friendship part post-breakup. Julia is good looking, but it’s obvious she’s feeling a lot of guilt about the relationship. For me, seeing how Julia struggled on this vid is satisfying. You can’t put a good person down.
Maria looks like she is still into the other girl. Is sad because she seems to be still holding grudges about the relationship. The attitude towards Julia is like she is still mad about how things went.
Not into the other girl nor is the other girl holding grudges, maria just valued the relationship seeing as it was her first same sex relationship and it changed her as a person
Their conversation was so honest, that it made me feel comfortable and interested. Like I really could understand each of those women's feelings even though I was single all my life. The comment section is filled with people saying that other people think it's awkward. No idea why. Yes, they are not in best terms, that's pretty obvious. But they communicate so well and are super open to the point I felt refreshed. Thanks for this video
as a fellow bulgarian, i thought that is so weird, i literally never cook bulgarian food o.O it's all just fried onions and paprika, and not even the SPICY kind T.T
@@am.ivanova lol you are lame. all I am telling you that for sure there are recipes with almost every flavour., so that every person can enjoy. And yeah bulgarian spicy is not hot as carribean or african one but still it can be pretty hot for a white guy. Geez noone gives a fuck if you are a woman transgender or a man hahaha its 2020 already lmao
Her honesty just hits hard enough that it makes people like you squirm in how hard it hits. Her bluntness is something people don't expect when they ask for honesty and once they hear it, they don't want honesty anymore. It's too raw for them. She not being rude or mad or hung up on their relationship; she's being real and open about it. Which is exactly what honesty is.
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Lame. No way.
@@richfuller thanks dude i almost die from it
A fellow Bulgarian, cool 😀🎉🏳️🌈😉
Why?
That takes so much fun form reading the comments of people asking if you give the handles out at launch :D
this isn’t even truth or drink, it’s just truth
Chase Conroy and I have no problem with that🗣
drink because of too much truth
I think they lowkey needed an excuse to get the truth out 💁♂️
@@rogerioteca what is the problem with to not drink???
truth and pain
"kinda hard to hear"
"oopsie"
i've never heard a more slavic thing in my entire life.
Time stamp?
@@lucymckee943 3:56
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The girl on the left was honest. Never hide your feelings.
Honest or hurt? Lol
@August I think she should have kept her composer better. She was basically apologizing and she didn't want to accept it or be friends.
@@tij_ana_ Opinions are opinions. If you don't want to acknowledge being friends, or don't see each other being friends...you are not friends. She definitely didn't seem like she wants to be friends with her. Which is okay.
I also loved how she kept it real
Heather Leigh Well when the person you loved tells you to your face that they were missing something from your relationship because you’re a women I’d be pissed/hurt too. Even as a bisexual woman I know that I am monogamous, if the girl on the right isn’t sure then she shouldn’t have dragged the girl on the left through a relationship. She seems more like she was being straight forward to me.
Damn people don’t have serious conversations with other humans? This was not awkward at all to me, they were expressing how they genuinely felt
One of them was at least
Wow really? Usually people just tend to hide their feelings and not talk about them
Two years later, people in general are less honest and more sensitive than ever.
If you're an American it can be hard. Faking the whole time makes you sensitive for honesty.
People: We want honesty.
Girls talking honestly about their emotions
People: This is awkward.
SoulFullOfMusic81 best comment I have ever seen
robin van lil genuinely
SoulFullOfMusic81 exactly lmao
Yea that just shows how people are so not honest bc If we were honest it wouldn't be awkward
Humans. So complicated.
The one on the left doesn't seem "still mad" or "rude" and whatnot. Shes just really blunt.
That type of honesty people ask for then complain that the other is mean when they hear it.
Thank you.
Exactly. I love her honesty.
YES! People are always complaining about people not being honest and then when an honest person comes around, they can't handle it.
Exactly. Also, it's quite clear she is sure of herself whereas the other girl isn't. That likely played a factor into their breakup. A blessing in disguise for real.
After this Maria likely may not speak to the other girl ever again. Complete closure
It's not the WHAT she's saying is rude, it's that the emotion behind it IS anger/annoyance/frustration. Basically, the girl on the left is reactive. I'm sure she has reason to feel so, though.
The transparency I’m receiving from the beautiful woman on the left is immense and I’m here for it
@@GracieTurts yea
Here for itttttt
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Incorrect
@@Shopwithgroovy “incorrect 🤬🤬🤬🚫🚫⭕️❌❌”
The girl on the left wasn’t cold at all. She seemed so hurt. And I get it. They didn’t end well, and she was just being honest. Bulgarian people do tend to be really honest about their feelings. I don’t see why hide them.
luu I don’t really know how to decipher her emotions. The girl on the left seemed a bit narcissistic but then again she sounds like me currently during this breakup with my ex girlfriend. We literally are like them both fems and all. My ex gf doesn’t know anything about me but I know everything about her, she was a bitch our entire relationship, and I told her if we breakup we’d never be friends because she could never be my friend. I told her you’re barely a girlfriend so what makes you think we could be friends and deserving of a friendship with me when you were everything but in the relationship. Then one day she texted me days after she canceled on me for my bday and I never responded it’s been a week now and I’m honestly happy without her like the girl on the left. I do miss her occasionally but then I realize I just miss the sex but even then the sex was one sided because she never touched me. Seemed like I was a “touch me not” when I’m everything but that. So I feel for the girl on the left but the the shock coming from the girl on the right is throwing me off. I can’t tell who is really in the wrong.
Lori Anne i’m really sorry you had to go through that. Some people just want to hurt others. They don’t know what they want. I wish you all the best, and I hope you find a good girlfriend
she was not just being honest. she look at the right one very disrespectful and said some mean things.
higgins no? she didn’t say anything mean. it’s called honesty. the rules were to drink and to be honest. she was not mean nor disrespectful. communicating is good. i don’t think you understand that.
luu facts i’m bulgarian i aprobé
There’s so much to unpack here. It seems almost like the darker blond used the lighter blond to not be lonely. She didn’t love her, she loved having someone to love. She missed the honey, not the real person. Saying someone healed you, you liked this person more for what they brought to you then who they truly are.
She was her first and she likely didn't know how to break up with her cause she didn't want to hurt her. It happens.
I honestly feel a lot of people stay with someone because they make them feel loved and safe rather than because they are truly in love with them. They just don't want to be alone, and that person makes them feel good. I can't figure out if it's good or bad.
I really felt the bi-curious exploitation and it made me sad. The girl on the left gave me the impression of a mature woman who knows what she wants and I think she saw the shipwreck of this "relationship" coming from the beginning. But she is at peace with that.
@@celgaro09 hmmm. This is quite an interesting topic. I think being loved and feeling safe with a specific person can later on develop into loving that person itself. But maybe thats not always the case.
@@rosafiammante5027 I agree with you. She was able to make all her points without even once raising her voice or changing tone. She was very sure of exactly what she thought and how she wanted to express those thoughts. Very interesting to listen to her and watch her composure.
Girl on the left is confident and knows exactly how she feels. She’s finally putting her foot down and say “this is about me not you anymore.” I wanna know their background story
Truth or drink
Americans: shots shot shots
Bulgarians & aussies: truth truth truth
thats absolute bullshit
Lesbians: feelings feelings feelings
Drinking isn’t that big of a deal in Europe
@@ValerieAbena lmao who told you that
LadyChaos101 it is in Ireland!
For some reason I don't find this awkward at all. The girl on the left was blunt..she wasn't even trying to be shady
Maisha I totally agree
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As a Slavic person myself, I can say that Slavic people in general, don't really "shade" people. If we don't like someone, we won't try to hide it and be super sassy about it. We're just gonna name things as they are.
she was shady.
same
i can really understand the pain the girl on the left feels. it is difficult to want the relationship to be the last one when the other person perceives it to be just a step in the right direction. no one wants to be the person who "heals" someone and then loses that same person to someone else.
This. So true.
100% true, you feel used.
It's fine to feel pain, but she was so rude. It's not the other girls fault she didn't feel the same and moved on, but she's acting like she was a bitch for being that way
its just honesty, its not rude
Yep, I was that person. I’m still getting over it, and it’s been like almost 10 months
the girl on the right, you can see she was the one making things difficult and acting like she didnt
sportyp that’s what I thought too omg.
And the left one was so done with it haha
OMG TEAAA
@@Havenyee but still hurt defenitly
Esmeralda Corradazzi true it definitely will hurt... and we cant change people’s personality haha gotta accept it and move on.
At first I was like wow the girl on the left is pretty harsh. Then the girl on the right says she only missed the food in the relationship..... then I completely understood the other girl
100000%
i mean thats not what she said but okay lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂that is deadly
@@tiachapman6767 lmao, right? she went on to say that she missed literally everything about the girl on the left.
I know this was a while ago but that’s not all she said. She started by saying she missed the food and then afterwards got serious and said that she really missed her. Y’all are ridiculous and love creating shit
Sounded like they both needed a bit of closure. Def one of the more heavier episodes
How are there 2.2k likes but I'm the only comment
I definitely had to take a labored sigh after watching. Bless them
Closure... you nasty boy
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@@CrashClubMedia There should be no awkwardness in honesty.
Some people ask for honesty and when they get it, it becomes too much for them and they call it awkward, frustrating etc.
Really just shows how dishonest those people are or can be, despite preaching honesty on the outside.
If you want honesty, you need to know how to handle anything that can come out.
the friendship conversation was real as fuck. being “friendly” does not mean you’re friends with someone. you’re “friendly” with your coworkers and acquaintances because you have to tolerate them but friendship is about emotional commitment and loyalty to another person. It’s very clear that the girl on the right meant that to say she’s nice to her so they’re friends but the girl on the left said “I can show our whatsapp messages” and I already know what she would show would be emotional distance from the other girl. we all have those people we text when we’re bored or they text us and we politely respond but that’s not a friendship
damn this fuck this
you are just out here w the facts fire comment after fire comment
@@nattyfknsmokes lichrallyyyyy
facts
YUP
This was not awkward at all that girl is an eastern European they are blunt and to the point she actually came across quite chilled and friendly to me.
yeah absolutely
As a European woman I was so confused that there were actually people who found this awkward, we are so honest and open here.
@@ChantalAngeles_ America has a habit of hiding the truth from everyone. It’s bled into the culture for so long that we’re all drowning in euphemisms and “polite” white lies
@@ChantalAngeles_ it always depends on the person. im european and i cant imagine saying the plain truth out loud like she does.
@@legitlinus9052 of course it depends are the person. But I should've said 'as a Dutch woman' instead of European, because us dutchies are very truthful and open!
I love how the woman on the left stand her ground
It sounds like the relationship they had was one-sided centered around the person on the right where she worked out her issues through that relationship and the person on the left gave more.
agreed
I felt the two sides of me were having a inner conversation
Lol same
yeah,specially bi people xd
Exactly!!! „Im so friendly“ „ no youre not“
TBH lol
EXACTLY!!
"You were there one day and then you just weren't" seems obvious, but you really need to go through a breakup to understand the depth of this one
I've been going through a break up for a few months now, and when she said that, my heart sank a little because of how true it is.
@@Andrew-eg7fy it gets better my friend
Julia was the one who ended the relationship in the first place, though. So its expected for the other to leave once they've been told the relationship isn't working out for their partner. If she still wanted to stay with Maria, they could've taken a break instead of break up
💯
@@DianaIsaBeek I can so fucking relate, not only because I made that mistake (breaking up insted of taking a break), but because my ex's name is Maria, and it freaking hurts listening, or reading her name...
Poor Julia, she will might regret that decision for a long time.
This should be a continuous series like yes bring out the lesbians or wlw
Right its all I Care about truthfully...
Preach!
Why non lesbians
Yeees
yes more drama pls
Canadians would die of heartattack with this honesty lol 😂😂😂😂
this is savage =)
Why?
I'm Canadian and I don't understand what you meaaaaan lol
Canadian here, I fully disagree, this type of honesty is quite refreshing. Open communication is really important in every relationship
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She’s right, friendly is not the same thing as friends. I’m friendly with my exes but we aren’t friends, we don’t hang out or chat on the regular just for the sake of it. But we’re friendly and nice to each other when we cross paths.
I don't think the girl on the left is mean spirited as some of you guys suggested, I think she's hurting. The other girl said she prioritized herself and even kinda viewed the other as a hindrance. I wouldn't bother with fake pleasantries too.
Yeah agreed
100%
I agree
Big facts
She’s not rude at all imo, just honest. Love her personality!
“Im so much happier now that we broke up”
“Im gonna cry that’s so mean😢”
“-oopsie”
I loved the oopsie 😂👍
I have a lot of respect for the girl on the left.
why not respect both a lot
@@soph7480 I never said I didn't respect the other girl. But the one on the left was getting a lot of shit for no good reason and I wanted to highlight and show appreciation for her self-respect and honesty.
@@thebreadofknowledge2350 honestly i see what u mean now and sorry for being low key passive aggressive :(
@@soph7480 that's totally okay :D thanks for looking to see where I was coming from, I appreciate it
really, there's no need to feel bad!
@@thebreadofknowledge2350
I love how the girl on the left was so honest. She wasn’t mean at all, she just knew what she felt and wasn’t afraid to share it. Cheers to that type of communication!
This was one of the most interesting *body language* Cut videos. At first glance you think Julia (right) is more into Maria (left), Bc Maria is so laid back and Julia seems *eager to be closer.* It turns out, *as they interact* , Maria got hurt so her *distance and being closed off* is because she's protecting herself, and not bc she's rejecting Julia's advances.
So Maria *is* distant and Julia *is* eager to be closer but not for what first instinct will tell. Julia wants to make *mends* ;Maria has *reservations* about Julia's version of that being sufficient for what she expects.
And their body posture just screams it the entire video.😅 really cool.
hello u undercover CIA, GOTCHA
How did you learn so much about body language?
@@CeaSeMusic1 charisma on command, ben shapiro.
I think you have read Pierre Weil 😂
so truee
girl on the left is the most honest girl i have ever seen. We need these girls all around the earth.
She is my new role model
I have ever seen *
It's a two edged sword, on one end you get more communication and trustful honesty. On the other end they tell you stuff like who else is attractive, they tend not to say supportive words, they tend to say what they don't like about you all the time, and they can tend to tell everyone every little thing they've heard from you but not in a malicious way.
Kind of like the "oopsie" thing in the video. Just depends on what you want in a partner
Synesthesiac she sounds like a Virgo 😏
Yes!
Yo the girl on the right should do audio books, she’s got a great voice.
Pretty sure that's an Australian accent
@@redskull3000 Yeah Aussie mate
yeah every australian and english person should do audio books looooool
Zyoop changa Watch clips of Geordie Shore and tell me that all Englishmen have good accents. 😂
@@elijahmikhail4566 that's the joke the girl has an average accent
An Aussie chick and a Slavic chick as a couple, now I’ve seen everything.
Hehe I’m Aussie and my partner is Bulgarian...wedding next year :)
@@alexisyates28 oh that's great, congratulations for you both
"The Bulgarian women is honest!". Yes, she can be. To me, she sound more than honest, truly hurt.
This such an awkward conversation lol you can tell the lighter blonde was really hurt by how the relationship ended. Especially when she told her "no we're not friends"
How about when the other said: "I miss you, like you were there one day and then you just weren't and that still makes me sad, you know?". THAT must really fucking sucks to hear, especially since she chose to leave her, someone that really liked her and then to hear this later on.
@@phatbastard0alkaline Someone told me that once. Didn't hurt at all. Felt pretty good.
"I guess I was doing something good then. 👌"
Once you see the relationship not going anywhere but the drain, that's a reason to just leave quickly. You don't want to deal with all the bs drama.
@@Joshualacruz "It's so much better to talk about your feelings and communicate with each other rather than not do that" I dont think it's ever fair for the other party to be just cut off so easily like that
@@itsmealyssaaa I agree it _can_ be good. But if talking doesn't bring anything but pain and annoyance, there is no reason to keep talking.
I dont think it was awkward at all
The girl on the left pretending like she’s not still mad 😭😂
Daniella she's calling her a bitch but she's the one acting like a bitch😂
No
Well when the person you loved tells you to your face that they were missing something from your relationship because your a women I’d be pissed to. Even as a bisexual woman I know that I am monogamous, if the girl on the right isn’t sure then she shouldn’t have dragged the girl on the left through a relationship. She seems more like she was being straight forward to me.
Maybe because she felt like an experiment.
If that's what you think. It's kinda sad.
What really, REALLY hurts is when you find someone and think the relationship is the real thing. Then you found out you were the rebound and that they never considered you more than someone to pass the time with until "the one" came around.
JustinChristoph yeah it does hurt
I loved reading the comments... if I had watched this a year ago I would’ve said the Bulgarian chic is an ass.... but having lived in Europe now and being exposed to the culture, one of my closest friend is Bulgarian, people from those countries sounds cold and prudish almost, but that’s just their culture to not display emotions. BUT in their core they’re epically kind and amazing... they’ll invite you over, feed you, treat you like one of them. Not because they’re “being nice” to you, that’s just who they are and what they’re culture to you. It’s fascinating
I understand where the girl on the right is coming from and it’s honestly comforting to hear that she can acknowledge that she was struggling with her own identity and felt like she needed to make that decision for herself.
GIRL ON THE LEFT IS NOT MEAN! IT'S CALLED HONESTY PEOPLE
you can be honest without sounding like a jerk
It's called Slavic life :D
@@tamara.mw. Shes not really a jerk though, it's just that it hits hard.
Ikr! I dont mind her honesty at all, even if she's hurt.
Tami W. I think she just wasn’t sugar coating how she felt. It didn’t seem like she was trying to make the ex feel bad at all.
I was like.. This accent and character is so familiar. And then she turns out to be Bulgarian! Love u BG girls!
She doesn't sound Bulgarian though
Omg im Bulgarian too and i know it sounded to familiar
Thought she was Irish at first, the way she said “hudder” instead of “hotter”.
I thought you meant the other one at first, she's definitely australian
Bulgarian folk are just so cringey when they spot other natives. "Omg i'm bg too"
Who cares honestly...?
You shouldn't use someone else to heal. Point blank period.
Nicole Stols YES!!!! people are not door mats to clean off your life ugh
My ex says that’s what I did to him, and I wasn’t even aware. It hurts me every day to think that
Yeah... When she said that I was like uh... no.
unless it’s your therapist.
Shit happens. Live life and you'll see that things don't happen according to a perfect script. People do things unconsciously that they realize later.
"I wouldn't say I'm more happy or sad, it's more like a blessing in disguise... Cause I'm happier" LOL
The girl on the left, happier with the break up cause she can achieve more now, completely agree, some partners need lots of time and compromise that can drain you
That level of honesty and welcoming the feelings dialogue is just refreshing. Almost no drinking. Something you really miss in a girl/guy relationship.
Crazy how they can talk about their emotions that easily.
I get uncomfortable af
Jope YT Thats why they don’t want to date men lol
Its because you are gay bro
NOT PsiSyndlcate I’ve been married to your father for a few years now, can you please stop saying that
Because they mature, also personality and stuff ofc. I personally find it " funny " some people cant talk about their feelings, i mean if something is bothering you why not just straight say it ?
NOT PsiSyndlcate sure mate
Wow, as a Bulgarian lesbian i really feel seen rn
hi, fellow Bulgarian friend
Are you single?
I lol'd with your comment
Greetings from your neighbouring greek lesbian!
Lmao
Още един българин 😁
clearly the girl on the right was in control of the relationships fate at all times. She accepts the passive aggressive shots in order to feel less guilty about experimenting and then dumping the girl on the left
We’d like to see more of Maria on CUT, please.
That must have felt super therapeutic for the girl on the left. I wish I have a chance to talk like this with one of my exes.
y’all are saying this is awkward and that the girl on the left is being rude but she’s just being honest. clearly she’s hurt about the way things ended but she’s allowed to feel and express that
As a bisexual women please understand that the *STEREOTYPE* that bisexual people miss the other sex is only true for *SOME* people. The amount of people that are wary of dating someone who is bisexual because they fear that the person won’t be be *FULLY* into them is actually sad. I was in a relationship for a year and a half and didn’t think about anyone but my partner at the time. Monogamy is good for *ME* . I suggest everyone finds someone who is also compatible with them.
Yeah but it’s also awful how they wouldn’t wanna date us because we will miss the other gender. I, personally, do fit the stereotype of missing the other gender while in a relationship. Doesn’t mean i’ll ever act on it because I’m not a cheater, but I’m pretty sure both gay and straight people do miss fucking other people while in a relationship too. I don’t know, seeing all these comments saying how people wouldn’t wanna date me for something I can’t control makes me sad (?)
@@agustina7345 Every tried non-monogamy? I feel like bisexuals who do really miss the other gender might be better off with an open relationship so they can satisfy both their needs and still don't cheat or hurt their SO.
Yasss👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@@agustina7345 Well, it sucks even more for the other person that will feel like they aren't enough, in ways they can't control. Better to be honest if you know that you are that kind of person, straight, gay or bi, so that they know what they are getting into.
Nkem Ani 💖💜💙
1:20 EXACTLY i’m bi and i hate when people say “i’m gonna miss the other gender” like no it’s you’re dating someone and you really love them that shouldn’t really matter
the only people who feel this way are people who feel compelled to go back to compulsory heterosexuality because they have spent their lives believing that "the one" should be the "opposite" gender. it's hard to overcome a lifetime of socialization and internalized beliefs about what an ideal relationship looks like. someone (like this woman) might not be able to see it but that is 100% what it's about.
everyone begs for honesty then can’t handle when they get it
Whew chile when Ms. Bulgaria told Ms. Australia that they weren't friends and Australia said "have I not been friendly?" SHE MISSED THE WHOLE POINT.
MissBrittneyofCourse yup. being a friend isn’t sending the occasional “how are you?” text or tolerating someone. it’s a commitment to the other person and genuinely caring about their emotional well being
@Tala Habern i call bullshit. the bulgarian girl seems realistic and the aussie is obviously deaf to the truth and makes everything about her. i can empathize bc i have an ex like this that perpetrates like they're involved/invested in my life but contacts me once a month to talk about themselves. the first girl might still be bitter but i don't think she's exaggerating
Tala Habern, We only saw a five-minute conversation of the two girls meeting to talk. In my opinion, the girl on the right could have some valid points as to why can't they remain friends. The problem in both heterosexual and homosexual relationships is that some people have a difficult time remaining friends with someone after a breakup. I think that the blunt girl just didn't see that happening. The Australian girl was trying very hard to explain her personal struggles to the ex girlfriend and she even went as far to tell her that she helped her to grow in some ways. I personally am more drawn to the personality of the Australian girl. Unless I went through a horrible break up with someone I can still be a friend after a relationship. However, not everyone seems to feel that way, especially in a heterosexual relationship.
The girl on the right seems a bit confused, lol and this is coming from a bisexual person. She doesn’t seem sure about what she wants as a whole.
The Yellow Aurora well, she’s in another relationship with a woman rn so clearly she’s not confused about being attracted to women. but I do think that living in a heteronormative society is hard for bi/queer women particularly because it puts a lot of pressure on them (and women in general) to find the “right guy”, have children and settle down so being in love with a woman can be very conflicting and confusing
@AandA marjority???
not really, you must have had a bad experience with a bissexual person idk but we aren't all the same person and that is just not true
@@emerlyga I totally agree with you.That person must be hurt and had a terrible experience because not all bisexuals act that way.Im bisexual and so is my partner and we both have a happy and healthy relationship.
@@En_Eye_Sea_Kai_Eye smh people love to make us seen like people that never know what we want and that is just...not
Even though sexuality is somewhat accepted these days, as a whole it is not. You still have to go to designated gay bars to find someone instead of just a normal bar. It can be a lot of struggling with yourself to be happy in a relationship that many see as different.
I don't think this was that awkward. Their honestly talking about how they feel which can be uncomfortable, but not awkward.
I love the honesty of the girl on the left. It's obvious that the girl on the right was experimenting and didn't really know what she wanted, but the girl on the left wanted her to pick if she really wanted to be with her or not and quit messing around.
Had this experience with a lot of straight girls before. They never wanted to act like they did anything wrong, but they always treated me like a transition point in their lives, something for them, not as my own person who they hurt.
it’s really telling how genuine honesty like that of the girl on the left has makes people think “oh what a mean person!” but someone who’s genuinely rude like cardi b gets praised all the time
Lol I don’t get why the right girl was so agitated when the other said they’re not friends anymore. I only consider people friends that I regularly talk to and that I genuinely care about. Not people that I talk to once a year cause I’m curious about their life
Well clearly they are not talking to you then mate.
Maybe they have different definitions of friends. For me, I consider a friend someone that I'm rooting for and someone I can reach out and talk to when I need to. What you describe as a friend is what I think is a close friend to the point of basically being like family.
@@soph7480 true. Everyone has their own meaning of the word. The same with the word "love"
It’s because she was the one who caused the break up. Seems like she was the one who was mean and rude and they both know that and I think she wants to consider them friends so that she doesn’t seem like she’s a bad person or what not
Julia doesn't want to lool back
lol at the bi woman admitting to bi stereotype of ‘missing the other gender’ when in a relationship. Feel bad for the Bulgarian girl and how that must’ve felt in their relationship.
Boob Pocket right... like i’m bi and i agreed with the other woman saying that when you find the right person, you don’t feel like you’re missing out
@@brittv420 ppl you like sure but "the one" is a myth. also monogamy is a shitty idea.
@@evoltaocao5078 you can't say monogamy is shitty just because you don't like it....some people are monogamous and some are polyamorous, you should respect a person no matter how they choose their relationships to be
Gzz Ra I think non monogamy is a shit idea but that’s just my opinion right? If she wants to be non monogamous then she can be but with consent from her partner. Also fuck off
Boob Pocket yeah, that was... yikes. as someone who is attracted to all genders that comment really rubbed me the wrong way because that’s never something I think about when choosing a partner. I think it’s possible that she’s scared of fully committing to a woman because she has some underlining internalized homophobia which is pretty common
The other lady is so truthful and always says how she felt and what’s on her mind
- What do you miss about me?
- I miss the bulgarian food you used to make me.
This was way deeper than I was prepared for.
i like left girl. honest. straight forward. very not american lol
I wana be her friend.
do Americans lie? I'm confused why it is unamerican to be straight forward.
@@ATurtlesLife i wana know the answer to that lol. I'm Egyptian and we're more blunt than the woman on the left. 🤔
super shaggy he’s just saying it because he’s aware that she’s foreign. Any other time people would call Americans out for her kind of behavior
@@BryQ1030 people in America get called out for being honest? 🤔
“You miss the honey”
👁👃🏻👁
👅
I miss the honey :(
wat honey they walk taking about
@@codybersicc7939 it's creamy and can be a little salty.
@@RexTheDinosaur1 Oh, I thought she was referring to what bees make. I'm so innocent.
@@bkinouye I think maybe she actually was. It was right after the food comment and for some reason a lot of the Eastern European people I know always know where to get really good honey.
right: thats kind of hard to hear
left: oopsie..
LOL
That's me right there.
She tried to really hurt her, but she couldn't and that made her even more sad and angry
This first same sex partner series needs to make a comeback. It sheds light into their perspectives.
I loved this open communication, and genuine feelings.
I've learned a lot about telling the truth. But i still cant talk this openly with partners.
Don’t get offended by what she said about doing better being alone. Sometimes we need to work on ourselves and grow and being in a relationship can be distracting from that work. Wish you both the best 😉💕
If she had said that calmly it would be one thing. But it seemed like she was still super angry and not admitting it to herself, and saying shes better off sounded like a story she tells herself to stop the pain rather than a lesson she learned with time.
What an interesting dynamic they have I love how honest the girl on the left consistently was, how sure of her answers she was and I love how the girl on the right took all of the things her old partner said in stride.
Didn't expect to see bulgarian person on this show. I'm really surprised. That girl is right tho. The food in Bulgaria is delicious.
I Just Went On A Vacation For A Week At Bulgaria- The Food Is Cheap And Delicious , I Recommend -
@@kion3606 My first name is not Turkish and is either my last name not Bulgarian but thanks for nothing captain obvious.
@@xxpsyco_devilxx9783 Born and raised there, unfortunately long time living in another country i really miss mostly the food. 😁
No better feta than Bulgarian feta
Oktay Shakirov I’m also sooo surprised seeing a Bulgarian on here! And in a gay video as well lol. Balkan food really is the best.
3:45 girl on the right keeps subtly victimising herself. Kudos to the girl on the left for being real
I wanna see Shannon and Cammie do this
Lmao same
Perhaps Stevie and ally too
Ooh this was heavy as hell
Like it like that tho
There are 2 kind of person after a break up and they reflect exactly this
The one on the right is clearly in a VERY different mindset than the one on the left
It’s clear girl on the right just used her because she needed someone emotionally at the time to “heal her”, as she said. Girl on the left is genuine in her emotions and seems she’s better off without her
they were so respectful n honest n they r so attractive I'm dying
This is a perfect example of why communication is extremely important. Closure is needed, and when you deny that source of closure, you’re left with pain that never goes away.
Maria, MARRY ME! 💍💙 She is so genuine, honest, has such a great values and views... Omg!
yes and also she s so hot!!!!!viva Bulgaria girls!!!!
I’ve never related more to a person than the girl on the left
"What do you miss about me?"
"I miss the Bulgarian food you used to make me."
That was such a bad answer. How about cooking that stuff yourself? Ever thought about that?
She has a girlfriend so that answer was safe.
This is basically me and my ex. I’m the one on the left, used for healing and not getting the friendship part post-breakup. Julia is good looking, but it’s obvious she’s feeling a lot of guilt about the relationship. For me, seeing how Julia struggled on this vid is satisfying. You can’t put a good person down.
What do you mean “you can’t put a good person down?”
Girl on the right is stunning
Yeah, I really loved her voice.
@@thatboyaldy6976 bro you literally told the other dude its an opinion, wtf.. nah you right the one on the right is fiiine
Yes 😍
Minus the horrible outfit haha.
LEFT,
wow, this is very exciting, watching two emotionally intelligent women have a conversation.
Maria looks like she is still into the other girl. Is sad because she seems to be still holding grudges about the relationship. The attitude towards Julia is like she is still mad about how things went.
really terrible analysis
Not into the other girl nor is the other girl holding grudges, maria just valued the relationship seeing as it was her first same sex relationship and it changed her as a person
Chris_OG Didn’t Julia say it was her first relationship with a woman? Not Maria?
@gisxbel I totally agree! It doesn't seem like she's not being completely honest about her feelings. But who knows 🤷♀️
@@charlesmcg maybe, but that's my analysis
“that’s kind of hard to hear”
“whoopsie”
Their conversation was so honest, that it made me feel comfortable and interested. Like I really could understand each of those women's feelings even though I was single all my life. The comment section is filled with people saying that other people think it's awkward. No idea why. Yes, they are not in best terms, that's pretty obvious. But they communicate so well and are super open to the point I felt refreshed. Thanks for this video
0:23 The clink from the shot glasses was sooooo satisfying...I wouldn't even expect to be leaving a comment like this but man..😂😂
They look like they both said “why go down the street when you can go down the hall?”
Bald lesbian the account pic is a man not a woman
@@doumngloom7146 and? What does that mean to me?
I love how open and honest they are yet they for sure still have some things to let go of. It's actually really beautiful
These two really convey good values. They are honest and are genuinely hurt by getting accused for wrongduring they did. Thats really great to see.
the girl on the right is really sweet and the one on the left is really honest, maybe TOO honest lmao
Julia: I miss the Bulgarian food you used to make
Me, a Bulgarian: :o
as a fellow bulgarian, i thought that is so weird, i literally never cook bulgarian food o.O it's all just fried onions and paprika, and not even the SPICY kind T.T
@@am.ivanova because you dont know bulgarian meals doesnt mean that there are none for your type. make a search and start cookin', dear
@@TheJohnnyrosko it's 2019 you can't just tell random women to start cooking lmao
@@am.ivanova lol you are lame. all I am telling you that for sure there are recipes with almost every flavour., so that every person can enjoy. And yeah bulgarian spicy is not hot as carribean or african one but still it can be pretty hot for a white guy. Geez noone gives a fuck if you are a woman transgender or a man hahaha its 2020 already lmao
I really like the Bulgarian girl
No wonder she's Bulgarian, we don't hide how we feel!
I really enjoyed how direct the woman in all black was.
Her honesty just hits hard enough that it makes people like you squirm in how hard it hits. Her bluntness is something people don't expect when they ask for honesty and once they hear it, they don't want honesty anymore. It's too raw for them. She not being rude or mad or hung up on their relationship; she's being real and open about it. Which is exactly what honesty is.