Self Love | Parul Gulati | TEDxGLIMChennai

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  • @akankshasinghvlogs7405
    @akankshasinghvlogs7405 5 ปีที่แล้ว +312

    She was mah senior in my school😍
    She is so kind...! And beautiful soul!😘

    • @neetushrivastava9133
      @neetushrivastava9133 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      in which school u were in ?

    • @ishitasingh6492
      @ishitasingh6492 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      seriously amazing ♥♥♥♥♥

    • @akankshasinghvlogs7405
      @akankshasinghvlogs7405 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@neetushrivastava9133 shiksha bharti in haryana😊

    • @akankshasinghvlogs7405
      @akankshasinghvlogs7405 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ishitasingh6492 😍😘

    • @VRDproject
      @VRDproject 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Haryana!!?? OMG!! I took her to be a Mumbai girl. Now I truly wish we see her playing a typical Haryanvi Girl with that savage accent🤩

  • @kalzj6176
    @kalzj6176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    The way she was speaking about the "other girl" could be clearly seen in her eyes that she was talking about herself...and it really takes a lot of courage to come up like this...to talk about your own story specially when you have struggled a lot in life...hatsofff girl more power and love to you...god bless...

    • @viking21
      @viking21 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I noticed too

  • @artlove203
    @artlove203 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Why an audience is so quit? She is delivering a elegant speech. ❤

  • @aryangupta1971
    @aryangupta1971 5 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    She was in an extremely underrated show on Star Plus called "Bandi Yudh ke" (prisoners of war). Loved her performance

    • @ash8253
      @ash8253 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It was a great serial first saw her there love her nose...

    • @dollyshukla5646
      @dollyshukla5646 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      she was also d part of web series haq se..

  • @Iam_namangupta
    @Iam_namangupta ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Watching it after shark tak. She is at par at everything she does. Superb.

  • @mugdhakanungo
    @mugdhakanungo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Can't believe you are portraying me in front of me....I loved you from haq se where you are such a strong girl... never knowing a soft hearted girl like me laying underneath...tears are rolling down from my eyes...I am getting goosebumps

  • @minni_bisht_0408
    @minni_bisht_0408 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    What i actually loved about her is she's so confident 💫

  • @paridhisinha4833
    @paridhisinha4833 5 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    Parul Gulati reminds me of " Girls Hostel" by girlyapa
    I wish they have more episodes
    😁😂my comment is so out of tangent

    • @adityakumar3943
      @adityakumar3943 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Watch BTS. They released it yesterday ;)

    • @sanvi3740
      @sanvi3740 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here😁

    • @i_bit2
      @i_bit2 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right......❣️

    • @restorezone1145
      @restorezone1145 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@adityakumar3943 i didn't find girl's hostel season 2....did they released it?

    • @akanksha0421
      @akanksha0421 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@restorezone1145 yes I hope you've watched already :)

  • @RubiscoTalks
    @RubiscoTalks 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I met her during Lil Flea Market, Delhi this Feb (I even have a vlog on my channel)
    I remember her and became a fan of her since POW series which was underrated!
    I still remember how her face lit up when I mentioned her work in Prisoners of War! She is a sweetheart...and absolute gem 😍😍 she has her own brand Nish Hair and was promoting it..I really like this talk!
    Very relatable..

  • @OjashShrestha95
    @OjashShrestha95 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That abrupt ending. This lady is amazing. From Acting to TEDX Talk. Everything blows the audience way in so subtle ways. More power and achievements in her life!

  • @naptune6279
    @naptune6279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When she said "anyway" it was the perfect style I have ever seen. Such a beautiful girl. I like her.

  • @TheNilabh
    @TheNilabh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm not sure if I am going to say that I've become a fan of Parul but I can relate to her so much that it just makes me feel sad. Sad, because the way she speaks, I can see myself in her place. Like this is how I feel and this is what am and I've been seeking answers and validation from others and I've lived with this constant need for approval of others solely because I've never known myself. I still don't know what I want from myself and how I want to be. It's scary when you realise that fact because then you come to the actual understanding that there is no safe place for you to go and that you've been hiding and running from the real version of you. I dont know if people can relate to my comment here but I'm taking this time out to write so much here for two reasons, 1) I really really wish that someone should read this and help me. 2) i know there are many of you who feel just like me and it's not a good feeling and it makes us feel like we're not living like we're holding ourselves back. Like there is potential in all of us but we are not able to do anything because we don't know ourselves.

  • @kuhukapoor9215
    @kuhukapoor9215 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She seems so real and true when she's speaking..all that stammering and pauses make it seem like she's really recalling her past..ohh brother.

  • @ajaykumartripathi85
    @ajaykumartripathi85 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Brilliant content delivered almost Perfectly . You did a great job but I guess the audience were dead or abnormal !

  • @nuke2625
    @nuke2625 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I thought she's kind of a diva girl. But she seems like a nice girl.

  • @nidhiupadhyay4607
    @nidhiupadhyay4607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U have a charismatic personality . Keep growing 💗
    Conclusion: love yourself , always feel privileged for the things that you have stop dying for fake attension start living for true love .
    Always respect your A category person . ✨

  • @stha03
    @stha03 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "How can you expect others to love you when you don't love yourself"
    💖

  • @riyabhatt1710
    @riyabhatt1710 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have gone through same situation but now after going to a doctor or a therapist I found myself and if you and I can do it everyone must do it ... Because mental sickness is a real thing

  • @surekhamallareddi9781
    @surekhamallareddi9781 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I actually never liked her in videos because she seemed like somebody with an attitude and now I have become a huge fan of who she is! I love this video and I relate to this.. Great work!!

  • @tiaradsouza2072
    @tiaradsouza2072 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She is pretty relatable. Self-love is important! truly empowering.

  • @garimasinghbhati6419
    @garimasinghbhati6419 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The way she has explained her story was totally relatable. So many things has cleared for me abouts me.
    Thank you!!

  • @payalk2898
    @payalk2898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    7:06- Accept yourself and your journey
    Ask yourself why are you feeling what you are feeling ??

  • @ankitashelke1218
    @ankitashelke1218 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This is exactly what i needed .
    Thank you so much parul .

  • @richabhardwaj1196
    @richabhardwaj1196 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Parullll... u r a power packed girl. Keep it up. Love you 😊God bless you

  • @karshanbhaigohil198
    @karshanbhaigohil198 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ur story just helped me change my story...Thankyou for making me feel that this was an emptiness that I "ws" feeling in my stomach... But now no more... ik what I hv to do... Tysm parul 😇😇💕💕 - Shivangi

  • @dikshasharma4518
    @dikshasharma4518 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I still remember her character of Bittan in the show ye pyar na hoga kam which starred yami Gautam :') loved this video

    • @VipulJain40
      @VipulJain40 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Correct she was sister of yami gautam in the show

  • @humming_words_on_the_tree9934
    @humming_words_on_the_tree9934 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Parul ♥ all hearts out to u... Love ur voice and more than that, ur confidence... Whether u are or not. U are doing great. Love ur jacket and u accepting urself ♥

  • @achyutsinha8242
    @achyutsinha8242 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hii Parul, my story is almost similar like you and I also get my therapy and after this therapy I got all my questions why is to be happen with me and only me. But it needs guts to say everything about yourself and I want to say great job 👍😎✌

  • @coolshailly04
    @coolshailly04 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey Parul!
    Hope you read this.. I first saw you in 'Yeh pyaar na hoga kam' as Bittan and I just loved your character. In most of the shows I watch I like the supporting characters more than the main 2 actors! I just remember your face from that show. Then I saw you in P.O.W. and I followed that show religiously. I loved that show! In 'Haq se' you were also there. I really appreciate your choice of projects. Good luck for your future.
    Here you said stop collecting and start connecting. Well I was born and brought up in a big city and I face people's prejudice all the time. Oh she's a Delhite must be high headed or just way too modern (which is now the defintion for not knowing household basic chores or being non adjusting). Well I am not one of them and yes someone said oh you don't go out often and are always studying or spending time with your family. So I have friends who are well connected and not collected. Self love is soo important and with time and the success/failures we face I think we start undervaluing ourselves. So it's super important to love yourself and to accept yourself. Other things will fall into place eventually. And yes Parul di (as I am younger to you by 2 yrs as per wikipedia :P) keep smiling! Keep shining! 😊

  • @RuchiYevle
    @RuchiYevle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    How beautifully conveyed!
    The "Collector" and "Connector". That's the generation of we millennials. We first compare ourselves rather than self appreciation. But this betters with self talk and more importantly self love.
    One of the rare videos with such relatable "connect"!

    • @neetushrivastava9133
      @neetushrivastava9133 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      correct but what if somebody has no 'A' category friends, and she wants to make friends but no one wants to be her friend.

    • @RuchiYevle
      @RuchiYevle 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@neetushrivastava9133 Firstly, one can list their some friends as 'A' category friends only if he/she knows them, understands them and they do the same. This friendship comes over a lot of time and understanding. And why nobody wants to be her friend?
      Ask yourself first. Only you can get your answer

    • @neetushrivastava9133
      @neetushrivastava9133 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RuchiYevle thanks for the suggestion .

    • @RuchiYevle
      @RuchiYevle 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@neetushrivastava9133 also take time to differentiate between your friends and acquaintances. Life would be better!♡

  • @UnlockingBrilliance
    @UnlockingBrilliance 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Every failure is coming to make us brave and successful so it's all about our choice what we want to choose.. thank you for sharing worth of self love :)

  • @darshitaagrawal8258
    @darshitaagrawal8258 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    It was like... Someone is telling my tell to the world... I m 18 right now... And hoping that, will be as much confident as she is, in my future

  • @bvartikaa
    @bvartikaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how genuine this was.

  • @HollyyBollyy
    @HollyyBollyy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    People often confuse self love with selfishness, narcissism...the real form of self love is self love and compassion, empathy

  • @belzebub1533
    @belzebub1533 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    What if one has no "A" category friend?
    The thing is we might feel others superior than ourselves... 😩
    Yes its wrong..... Yeah Nothing wrong in taking time.... We are good persons and being better... Somehow
    ....... Life........

  • @sirishjain7003
    @sirishjain7003 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    More power to you girl. Keep going strongly .. stay blessed. You are a champion .

  • @ajaykumartripathi85
    @ajaykumartripathi85 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    One of the most connecting videos on TedX .Parul you are doing a great job dear .Lots of wishes !!
    👏👏👏👏

  • @sane2863
    @sane2863 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Somehow somewhere when this video started and you started speaking after 2-3 minutes I knew you were talking about yourself

  • @saurabhniley5441
    @saurabhniley5441 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are very brave to talk about your past to help others, also I can relate so much. Great talk!

  • @prashanttiwari1225
    @prashanttiwari1225 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Feels like you just portrayed my story.

  • @nilottomasultana2412
    @nilottomasultana2412 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really feel the same.. Thanks for sharing.. Lots of love for you.

  • @pallavid8231
    @pallavid8231 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What you went threw I understand it very much
    But I am glad you have realized and trying to be a better everyday, ☺

  • @kitotekishika
    @kitotekishika 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Don't collect... Just connect 😘

  • @akanksha0421
    @akanksha0421 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh my god! It is great (no other words) Kudos to uh Parul!
    Really awesome!

  • @gauravgupta9477
    @gauravgupta9477 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    3:09.....I was like "boom!!!!!!!!"..... Collector??....IAS??

  • @kanchankashyap9033
    @kanchankashyap9033 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She's so beautiful from heart and soul

  • @vandanasingh3973
    @vandanasingh3973 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I lv the reality...........i can feel what she said......just amazing 💓💓

  • @khanajaana
    @khanajaana 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I totally relate to you ...I feel the same.

  • @revathisusi6609
    @revathisusi6609 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I m related to u...!!!ur words r giving confidence sis!!!👍

  • @pankhfoundation1750
    @pankhfoundation1750 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Loved your work in "Haq se" on altbalaji webseries

  • @AnamikaSingh-gb3pr
    @AnamikaSingh-gb3pr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Totally related to me.. But in my case i know where did i come from ...thnx for this ,to me worked like a therapy. Still I'm struggling with self love 😪 .

  • @kashikarathor941
    @kashikarathor941 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is very beautiful, thankyou for sending so much power, more power to you💯💖

  • @aditigupta5649
    @aditigupta5649 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Her voice ❤❤

  • @SeemaSharma-cb9gd
    @SeemaSharma-cb9gd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can relate to her😔

  • @ritambharasingh5373
    @ritambharasingh5373 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I relate so much...but gud t c u n learn frm u Parul to how navigate thru dis situation of ours...my loved ppl tell me luv myself frst..only den can i luv others !

  • @ganum51
    @ganum51 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Nice start parul... Best luck... It's very difficult to keep people engage

  • @jetbllackwings
    @jetbllackwings หลายเดือนก่อน

    10:20 such a great depiction that’s exactly what it feels like

  • @ravijoshi6022
    @ravijoshi6022 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for being you 👊👊

  • @ankitasingh728
    @ankitasingh728 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    luv u parul,you are so connecting.Ilove your every performance.

  • @angitd3766
    @angitd3766 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a great speech

  • @ayushkapoor2119
    @ayushkapoor2119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is literally my life story.

  • @nk8368
    @nk8368 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Superbbb....one of the best video i hv ever seen

  • @dubb3292
    @dubb3292 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I remember her from Kitni mohabbat hai❤❤

  • @cami__s5068
    @cami__s5068 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I can so relate to this....lovely speech👍

  • @zainabmohammad3834
    @zainabmohammad3834 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ditto my Story
    Therapy is yet to happen

    • @anitamajhi7635
      @anitamajhi7635 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Therapy se kuch fayda hota haa...

  • @prabalsharma6618
    @prabalsharma6618 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    There is a kind of emptiness in ur eyes👀....just saying😁😁

  • @parulpurwar7716
    @parulpurwar7716 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved it !❤️ I feel the same be you self love is something which can give u peace 😍

  • @shrutitayal01
    @shrutitayal01 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡ilove your voice and the style of ur speaking,🧡🧡🧡🧡⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

  • @suruchi2867
    @suruchi2867 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aag h bndi ...best speech

  • @alidack9750
    @alidack9750 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Superb..one of the best videos I have watched on this topic👏👏👏

  • @meghawa
    @meghawa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, this is so relatable😪

  • @namita7387
    @namita7387 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I relate to this...but thanks to tell us first like ur self❤😍😍😍

  • @Abhishek-vy9kj
    @Abhishek-vy9kj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    same feeling as i have , a category people are difficult to find

  • @dikshamalhotra3372
    @dikshamalhotra3372 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Appreciate your courage.. 💞 ぱる は きれい です👍

  • @crazycutiie6694
    @crazycutiie6694 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This helping a lot to overcome the fact that "why people don't like me" Very good 👍

  • @sabrinmehtab9293
    @sabrinmehtab9293 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love her episode in girliyapaa..

  • @harmianaaa
    @harmianaaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so proud of you!

  • @riyaz2041
    @riyaz2041 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Confidence level 🔥💯

  • @mollysharma3373
    @mollysharma3373 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It was worth listening ..... Really...

  • @sachusabu1
    @sachusabu1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is what I was searching for....thank you❤️

  • @knowledgepin3390
    @knowledgepin3390 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So relatable ❤❤

  • @durgeshnandinpanda2999
    @durgeshnandinpanda2999 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can connect this to myself,,,,and loved this talk,,&diva,,,,

  • @monishkakaushal6040
    @monishkakaushal6040 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Every of my fav person is on ted ex now i love uh guyss❤❤💙💙

    • @akhilkumar4032
      @akhilkumar4032 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I too want to talk any chance.. sister

  • @pragatisingh2396
    @pragatisingh2396 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love every word of you..♥️♥️♥️

  • @Zahra-bi4bw
    @Zahra-bi4bw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She's so pretty 💕

  • @himanshikashyap4640
    @himanshikashyap4640 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love her since girls hostel ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @aryangupta3498
    @aryangupta3498 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    mam u r so adorable. Very well presented.

  • @universedaughter8267
    @universedaughter8267 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So brilliantly you spoke the all on going things , a stage of every life. Blessed soul

  • @geetikashaaran4256
    @geetikashaaran4256 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So helpful, thanks❤

  • @meghalad3725
    @meghalad3725 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Idk but somehow our situations relate , like I can't figure out , what is actually happening to me or will I be able to fittin a city , like being a small town girl will I be able to mix up or like fit in there society will ppl like me , Idk but ur vid helped me at some point , all I can say right now is THANKS from heart like I mean it🖤

  • @Am-js1ue
    @Am-js1ue 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel the same way as she did and it's so depressing

  • @billyperez9422
    @billyperez9422 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thats nice vedio i am gonna kerp this going

  • @sofiaabidi7607
    @sofiaabidi7607 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very nice speech Zahira

  • @kiruthika___attheglobalcit4134
    @kiruthika___attheglobalcit4134 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing. ..

  • @gaurika4927
    @gaurika4927 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    She is talking about herself

  • @cuteorganism6524
    @cuteorganism6524 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U r Awesome

  • @Kirti9999
    @Kirti9999 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You solved my problem thank u dear☺️

  • @pankajnirankari8710
    @pankajnirankari8710 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    From today i changed 🙂

  • @TheVishalvindoorty
    @TheVishalvindoorty 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice

  • @SJ-bx6vq
    @SJ-bx6vq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    5:14 Parul: statue audience.