Divorce Court - Elise vs. Floyd: Too Controlling - Season 14 Episode 36
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- Elise and Floyd are ready to turn to Judge Lynn to see whether or not their marriage can be salvaged. Elise says she is sick and tired of her husbandís dominating and controlling nature.
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This episode should be a video show how to spot an abuser
Right!
He is abusive. You don’t have to hit someone.
Not an abuser just a controlling cheater, cheaters are usually controlling
When someone feels the "need" to control they clearly lack something within themselves. I hope she stayed away from him.
Maybe he is willing to change I think..lol 🤔
@@MyWayWendy HELL NO.. THIS IS PATHOLOGICAL IN MOST BACK MALES.. IT'S IN THEIR DNA.. NO CHANGING THAT..
Tasha Williams I totally agree with you. They don't get no better they get worse with time.
@@VeronicaGillispie 💯
Girl Run 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ he's annoying and not bringing much to the table cheating and lying 🙄
Looooooool, my thoughts completely. !!!!!!
Ontop of being insanely controlling
This man is definitely controlling and not good for her. Her not being allowed to work, not having her own money and him cheating on top of all that… it’s a bad situation. 🤦🏼♀️
When you don't have your own, depending on the other, you give them power over you
Cheating is not on top of all that. He is controlling to cover his cheating. To have an excuse.
He is definitely abusive. I understand the judge trying to keep this family together, however if he is not in counseling it's not a good idea for them to be together.
When he was nodding as she talked about how controlling he is😬😬😬 He loves that sense of control. Scary.
O HELL TO THE NAW!!!!...There is absolutely no way I could be with a man like that...too freaking controlling.
He needs to be completely single. He can't take responsibility for ANYTHING he does, but he wants respect as "head of the house"? I swear, so many men use that phrase and lack understanding of what that really means.
Swearing and degrading men and putting men in a bad situation is not right, just make your comments simple..
Keep the last sentence away from your comment..
Exactly. Too many of them are worried about having control over women but not doing what it takes to BE the 'head of the house'. People like this dude disgust me with their selfishness and failures to be bare-minimum decent men while demanding that women just blindly follow them.
@@MyWayWendy Now you know good and well I'm not about to do a damn thing you tell me to do.
@@ambzcloud You know you're telling the truth! I've been through that and I was not doing it again.
There are few times when I disagree with Judge Lynn and this is one of them. Leave. He's already shown who he is. Why stay? Another thing that Judge should have put in as to what he should do to keep her is to buy her BRAND new tv since he's the one who broke it, not give it to her if she leaves. She saved for it and she made it sound like she really had to save.
Sometimes you don't need to hear the truth, their actions and behavior already tells you exactly and truthfully who they are. Love is not about possession, it's all about appreciation.
“Scraping the bottom of the barrel” is how I would best describe this “man”
When someone shows you who they are, you need to believe them and act accordingly!Run!
Worse times are coming in the world but GREATER is coming in the kingdom 🙌🏾
Make sure you're in the Kingdom!!!!
WOW HE IS NOT THE SHARPEST KNIFE IN THE DRAWER. !!!!!!!! WHAT A CLOWN. !!!!!
This is one of those cases I rarely disagree with Judge Toler. He’s super controlling, won’t allow her to have money, cheats on her multiple times, treats her like nothing, shows zero affection, is a hot head that breaks her tv. What was Toler thinking here?
Probably knew she was content in that relationship. That she was willing to put up with it all to avoid having a job. Better they stay together and leave others alone.
She dropped the ball on this one. !!!
Did you hear that guys??!
He’s going to LET her work!!!🥳🙄🙄🙄🙄
I know why I'm not married. He would've last 3 hrs with me.
You mean 3 seconds.
He annoyed me in this 20min show…not a chance w me!
This lil boy has no clue as to what a man is, that is his insecurity and that is what he is afraid of!!! He has some growing up to do, she better stay close to her own support like her family!!
I would love Joe's job; he got paid just to stand there - he didn't even have to say anything🤣
Indeed!!😂😂😭
Who died and made that fool God? That woman shud run away.
EXACTLY! I definitely don’t agree with Judge Lynn on this one!
He wants the same day off to save on babysitting
He's saying he can't control a woman sending a nude pic to his phone, well he must have asked for them, hence is why he deleted the messages...
Right. And he talked about how much he wants control so…
But he wants to control everything else
He cant control blocking her or telling her to cut it out either🙄
Why would a woman would like this guy, not for me.
Judge Lynn has a sense of humor, she laughs, she makes jokes, she knows when to get serious & when to be strict & doesn't allow herself or a partner in her courtroom to be disrespected, shes so perfect and no other Judge could literally take her place💓💓
Forgot to say that she also starts the topic in a really great way and speaks to them well as well
Except for judge Judy of course she’s the best
Honestly watching these episodes let me appreciate my life. Damn so many miserable marriages. This here makes me know I can do good all by my damn self. Love me even more. Ladies do not be so quick to go into marriage that you take up a control idiot like this
On the other hand it can be very good. Married at 20 he was 22, we're celebrating our 15th wedding anniversary tomorrow. He's a hard worker, and brings the best out of me. What worked for us was not having kids, it would otherwise have been too stressful for us. I wish you a very happy life, whether single, or as a couple.
Judge Lynn Toler brings humor on Divorce Court..
I don't know about what the judge said. He will continue to do what he's been doing. He's not going to change. I would love to have an update on this couple. I know it's an old one, but would love to see where they are today.
Run girl
Why?
I'm so happy I have raised my baby girl to be independent & supportive & have her own money & my son to treat his wife with dignity & respect & compliment each other in every way(that's for both)
The way he looked at her with CONTEMPT
I disagree! Run honey!
Iron your own damn drawers!
"True Love is built on free will and free choice..not control and manipulation"..
He WOULD hve to go
He don't need to be married
Ironed underwear and socks? Bruhhhhhh 🙄
Such a pretty lady 😍 Inside and out. We got a whole bunch of city girls and f* boys now a days so her trying to be the best wife for him, I respect that! Unfortunately she does it for the wrong man. He's controlling and lowkey miserable. Most men BEG they woman to work to help with bills. He keeps her home but doesn't give her any ' F* off money.' She need to leave him period! He seem like the type to keep her sheltered and CHEAT for years and years just to leave her for a younger dummy. Hope she AT THE LEAST, left him!
my late husband listened in stuff he wasn't interested in when I was lol, I did the same though I was interested because he was.
He has some nerve.... Narcissist!
No love, it's transactional
Men like this grew up like this. I'm ashamed of his parents or whoever raised him
This is old.. I saw this in real time.. I hope she left that fool 🤡!
Well first of all,she started doing whatever he demanded.
This was a marriage doomed from the beginning.
He can iron,his own clothes,especially his socks and underwear.
He is sickening.
Why did they get married?
I can understand why her family doesn't like him.
They saw he was a controller,when they were dating.
It happens in many families and usually the controller's family supports the behavior.
so why did she marry him.
He is disgusting!!
She can't even take the daughter to see her relatives,because she has no money and probably doesnt have a car.
He can block texts ,emails,
He is a JERK!!
I don't even like how he looks,at her.
I hope she gets away from asap!!
He will not change!!
He will get worse.
He will tell the judge anything and as soon as they are out of the courtroom he will badger the wife.
Happens too often and the wife goes back.
Sorry,she waited 2 years.
She should have ended his attitude immediately.
Was she so insecure,she settled for him.
Is Judge having a hangover.
she seems to be have been drinking or sleep deprived.
I pray,the wife will get away from him!!
They are not a good couple,and she needed to have left before they had more children.
So her day off is to watch ⌚ the kids. He claim to be man of the house for her to cook an clean excuse him. Ironing his underwear 🩳🥴. He can't control naked pic on his phone
Dude thats your wife not your child. You want your socks iron get your mama.
Awww thank God im so glad they are good and loved when judge toler them what to say to each other❤️❤️❤️❤️
I hate when men feel their responsibility stops at bringing home the money, it's a lot more involved
He does not even sound intelligent.
This dude is too much, he might as we'll lock her up, tie her up and keep her hostage in the house. I would be gossiping too if I felt someone is controlling me. She must feel so miserable being with him. I couldn't deal with that. He's the kind of guy that would try to (kill her) saying::if I can't have you nobody else will.she needs to 🏃♀️ 🏃♂️ RUN
He is so controlling he cheats cheats and cheats that's the reason why he doesn't want her to work to watch her every move. She needs to run run run run and start her life and be happy
Ughhhhh.. Him and his behavior is so unattractive. He can change but does he want to?
Lord please fortify me in my efforts to raise a man who is the opposite of this 🙏🏾 Been there, done that, and brought back a 16-year old souvenir who I need to make sure isn’t a piece of sh*t
i wonder did he ever iron his own under wear
If a red flag was a person it would be him, she needs to run and not look back
This man is a Trip, Run Girl too controlling this is the 22 Century. Go back to school get a degree take care of u and your kids
"Im the man of the house" for doing the bare minimum? Absolutely the fuak not.
He is soooo insecure. She seems pretty awesome. Why did she stay
BRING JUDGE LYN TOLER BACK PLEASE SHE IS THE BEST
I know when your being bad!!! Lmao 😂
The wife, Elise, kinda looks like the actress Paula Jai Parker. Not exactly the same, but they do favor and can easily pass as family members.
I was trying to put my finger on it u right
He wants a SLAVE !!! GIRL GONE BOUT YO BUISNESS
A lot of those jokers use the “I’m the man of the house” excuse for all of their shenanigans. So? You’re a man, thats about it. That doesn’t automatically come with respect 🤷🏻♀️
Hey Judge Lyn Toler watching u here in the Philippines🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🙏🙏🙏💛💛💛
How would she treat a decent man?
He wants to control go Marines Army or what ever!!! He is not husband material !!!
He’s a control freak
I've never smoked a day in my life, can't stand the smell one bit, but after listening to him he makes me want 2 packs in 1 day 😭 🌬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬🚬💨💨💨💨
He know that if he gave her money she’d save it and leave him. He’s trash !! And she knew beforehand.
Why should she leave him
Why should she leave him
That's exactly what.
If you're a significant other cannot go in your phone at any given time y'all did not need to be together period cuz before they were cell phones that was house phones and we all had to enjoy so maybe we need to go back to just home phone
I already DON'T like him
"Man of the House", no one should applaud you for doing your responsibilities.
You are still a boy, Men don't go about things the way you doing it.
Always remember, your Partner/Wife is not your slave but your best friend. Treat your significant other with love and respect, you shall see life work in your favor.
#Coach
The family doesn't like him..no shit.🤦🏿♀️
They don't need to be together
She should come back
He should have hired a maid. He doesn’t appreciate a wife
She’s a delightful and sweet lady 💜i love her
Being abused don't just be physical, 🏃♀️🏃♀️ Lady
He want his underwear and socks ironed, he will donit himself. Thats just plain stupid
OCD???
When someone show you who they are believe it. !!!!!
Will someone please tell me why is it that some women feel they have to the right to go through a man's phone? I just don't understand that!
She should do it, but he also shouldn't give her reasons to feel the need to do that..
the same reason why men feel they have the right to go through her phone. Besides if he was doing the right thing, he should have nothing to worry about.
Both some men and some women feel they have that right. Not gender-specific. Some women feel they have the right for the same reason that some men do.
@@Renrens-LionessofJudah you're a silly woman. More often than not, it is woman going through a man's phone as if this is normal. It's not. Whether he's doing the right thing or not has absolutely nothing to do with anything. A woman going through my phone unauthorized is an automatic dealbreak and/or divorce.
@@NotYourTypicalNegro silly woman. Look closer to home.
It's a result of father's not teaching their boy's to be man and responsible husbands. Like many this dude wasn't trained from childhood 🤞.he just got married but doesn't know what it means to be a husband and father
She loves having foot prints all over her back. She won’t get rid of him. She’s addicted to being controlled, and too lazy to do anything about it.
Run Gurl run
Definitely the makings of a DV situation
She better run!!!
This was definitely waaay before the whole red flag discussion... the judge says she likes them as a couple and I don't think any woman should stick around with someone controlling like him.
Im allergic to controlling men🤦🏾♀️☝️
I would not have put up with his mess 2 seconds let alone 2 years
Boy, bye!
He’s oppressive! Hard task master! Foolishness 😢
Get saved sweetheart..John 3:16..Jesus give her peace and wisdom in what to do. In Jesus Name 🙏
Damn the judge is gifted, tooooo wise
what he talm bout “wifely duties” 😅
HE IS NOT GONNA CHANGE. CAUSE HE BELIEVES HE Is ALWAYS RIGHT.. He wANTS HiS WOMAN to TAKE IT. He WINS. ITS about him.. Run beautiful lady. . Run run. He will not change ....
Not to lessen this woman in any way AND ..I hope she really sees she is more valuable than what he gives...BUT a REAL DEAL, STRONG-MINDED; STAND ON WHAT I SAY WOMAN would tear his EGO ALL THE WAY down...I would date him just to have the liberty of doing it...
Mrs toler is making y'all men weak as hell.
What's the update on this couple
Is he serious?! Gtfoh!!! He is weak and sorry… run girl!
I totally dont agree with the judge!