'Friend Zoned' By More Than 30 Women... Here's What Went Wrong.
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Rich is spot on here. I’m 45 and learned my lesson the hard way. Stop being nice, it will get you nowhere and only leave you broke and frustrated.
💯 and the adage "nice guys finish last" has stuck over time for a DAMN good reason!
If you're that stupid.........🙄🤷♂️
@@Darrell7777women needs man more than a man needs a women
@@NoOne-hq9cp we need each other , just stay away from the crazy ones .
Nice guy meaning naive pushover. Women will mock you behind your back if that's how you come across.
"NO" is one of the most powerful words out there. Saying "NO" might not get you the chick, but surely it will save your time, energy, resources & peace.
Absolutely. Everything is so damn expensive now. Modern dating is like gambling. Many people lose their hard earned money in gambling so does with dating. For many women, going out for dates are like free meals so it's way of saving their money. So many men fall for this trap. I would rather live my rest of life without any date than burning my hard earned money, wasting my time & energy on modern women. Hookers are a billions time cheap option.
Next! There are plenty of fish in the sea.
Women will only waste your time and use you if you let them. It’s that simple.
Exactly right. The advice I hand out is to treat women like the adult children that they are. If they continue said behavior, then break all contact.
Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free 😄
I've been friendzoned a couple times. One time this woman demanded I go see her "now". Once I said no to these women they proceeded to berate me and curse me out and call me a loser. That is the lack of respect they secretly have for their "friend"
Yes.
Because you’re only a friend as long as you’re fulfilling their wants and needs.
@@jamesg1974aThis is the hard truth men do not want to face.
@@jamesg1974a💯 and they have the audacity to call MEN narcissists!
_Regina George_ from _Mean Girls_ is an excellent character case study of how the alpha bitch don't care and anyone who works with her becomes a slave or subject to the proverbial queen
If a woman wants to friend zone you…
Move On quick….your time is precious and plenty of fish in the sea 😎
I think I’m swimming in the Dead Sea
In that case you're floating don't fart you might get burned
When it comes to the friendzone, all I can say is "been there, done that, got the t-shirt". I'll tell a woman now "if I want friends, I'll go out to meet dudes". I will not waste my time with a woman that has no interest in me.
My turn. I'm 60, and I have been the nice guy too many times to count.
I'm not deaf, and I dated a deaf woman, and she cheated on me when I treated her nice (not because of her disability).
From that experience, I stopped treating women differently, and I let them know when they do something that upsets me. I learned that money, nice cars, nice apartments/homes, will never replace a strong and balanced character and never allow anyone to be disrespectful to you.
Women are ruthless!! Don’t tell them anything and just do whatever you want and lie to them
I DO NOT HAVE WOMEN FRIENDS! NO FRIEND ZONE!
This is the way
Being a nice guy wasted more time, money and energy than I can even count. Fortunately I learned to cut it out before it was too late and concentrate on real relationships.
Don't accept being friend zoned, ask her out, if she agrees to a date, be kind, listen, treat her well, but indirectly make your intentions clear that you want sex and romance and won't accept anything less with the use of flirting via teasing and innuendo etc.
If you know what your doing, by the end of the first date you should of made a move to kiss her, if she doesn't reciprocate don't ask her out again. Simple.
No dates, thats for women who already put in the work. The first 3-6 seconds of first looking at you , she already decided how far she is willing to go. Negotiating attractiveness with the reward of a date is entering as the weak one and her with the leverage and options.
@@sunn209That's facts this guy has nice guy syndrome and you don't indirectly make your intentions know you do it upfront.
@@krhawkins91
It is said the root word of "nice" is fool. "Nice" is perceived by women to be CREEPY and untrustworthy, like a serial killer...,also unmanly, because they KNOW what you want.
YOU should know, in seconds, with serious eye contact, that she's feeling you, STRONGLY, like THAT, before you even consider it worth pursuing.
THEN, you gots to vett, to make sure she is solidly with your program, like an employer or pimp, because your time is valuable and she should feel, strongly, that you have multiple and many options for your time.
Dudes supposed to pick from whose choosing on THEM, not cold approaching what dudes like, because without even looking at you, women who feel you KNOW you in the room...,even from other women.
Marilyn Monroe, without makeup is about a 6, her attitude and personality makes her a 7, makeup , hairstyle and fashion makes her a 9 or 10.
Dudes gots to go after their water level..,a masculine man, a leader, can make a woman want to improve, "IF" she is on your program.
The others don't exist, not even worth a look to even give them FREE validation, which is as good as money , giving them power...,she doesn't feel you in seconds, she doesn't and NEVER will exist, you got pressing things to do:
Entrepreneurship, appointments, 2nd job, 3rd job, nutrition, workout program, tangible investments in assets, expansion, legal matters, martial arts & combat training, octagon training/or boxing, fight schedules, some hours in books, education, classes, improving speech writing & business proposals and presentation, appointments with fashion consultants, dentist, dermatologist, optometrist,..,etc., list goes on and on...,
Dealing with people, in general, who are ONLY on YOUR program, period, time flies and we not getting in younger for nonsense....,Kevin Samuels style.
Recently I am saying "No" more often. Not only to girls but to men as well. I just get tired of shit and I don't want to be bothered by useless stuff that I do not enjoy. I took me 3-4 years to learn to say "No" more often. It's insane.
Most men confuse “kind/nice” with “having morals”. You can be rough with a chick, she probably gonna love it and you still can have high morals - just 2 different things.
Just as many women confuse have morals/standards/character as being "just another nice guy"
@@Cee_Eff Like what? Do you have any examples?
Ask Trevor Bauer how that went lol
@user-oh9ou8zo5o yeah it's a tricky one , good luck finding the answer, it's like dang she sucks this d great 😢😢 how'd she practice for this
You had me at the first part of your comment but you lost at the latter half.
"NO" is a complete sentence. It has an N at the beginning, an O at the end, and there is nothing to discuss in the middle. Period.
Women breed criminals
I love saying the N word
I don’t get how someone could get friendzoned 30 times. I’ve been friendzoned like twice and I can firmly say that it will never happen again. I will just end it.
Too many years of programming that gets further reinforced by those female “friends”.
its called Modern Brainwashing by Society on us Males.
Friendzoned by 30 women and he still won't learn his lesson. Leave him in the ditch. He's not trying to get out of it.
Whiny and spoiled looking for a mommy substitute, unwilling to do the work necessary to grow into manhood and leadership.
I been friendzoned before. It sucks but min that happens I'm not calling or putting any effort in keeping in touch. If she wants to say hi occasionally that fine. Other than that I'm no longer obligated to stay or play house sitter. And yes ladies you can do same thing to if your friendzoned
I am not amazingly successful with women, but one thing I was taught early is if a woman aint giving you sexy time you need to put an end to the attention. Be polite, say "hi", but that's it. Many will gladly string you along for months, years, and then act like you're a weirdo if you finally call them out and say "why not me?"
I got a new saying for myself, do what's right for you man.
Simple but powerful i think. 👍
That's what women do for themselves
That isn't new, that's a traditional one. You must be a Gen-z'r who are the Christopher Columbus generation. You "newly" discover something yourself, that other people have known for a long time.
@@riproar11 You mad bro?
your wrong, boy. Ive seen half of my family and friends bend to the womens will, because of her tears and what not. Men do whats right, women do whats right...for them. Most men must now adopt the same way of doing things. Some men do that already but majority dont.@@riproar11
This was me. I was the emotional tampon for many women. I was the shoulder to cry on. I was the one who picked them up, dusted them off, and told them they're beautiful. Only to watch them run right back to the piece of shit Chadrone they couldn't stop complaining about. No more. I'm dropping weight. Spending some decent money on a new wardrobe, cologne, and other stuff. Funny thing is, it actually works. When you stop being a doormat, and concentrate on yourself, it's literally life changing.
Can you explain what changed?
The Friend Zone only exists in so much as she has no romantic interest in you, but still wants to keep you around as a “tool”.
I’ve encountered a few of these women and I quickly dump them on the spot.
I just don’t bother answering any of their communications and just completely ignore them until they go away.
Bingo man. Thats all it takes. Only the real crazy bitches are gunna keep following you around and at that point I'd call them stalkers so I'm with you on this one
it can be literal tool... they want you to put up drapes or drill a hole.
Nobody told him he is ugly
Exactly, once good looks and fitness plus decent career came into my life when i grew out of being a snobby moms basement PC dweller - never had to question any zones we are at.
@@siamanspaps Nice job man. Got any advice for a current snobby moms basement PC dweller?
@@K4113B4113
Learn man qualities and character...,not just to get females, but to improve and be a self fulfilled warrior.
I was talking with a female colleague about my daughter the other day. My daughter is 16, has her stuff together and is not whoring around at all. I told my colleague that it's a Dad's job to tell their daughter "No". She told me that her Dad never told her "No". I looked at her with her pink hair and tattoos and just nodded my head thinking "I know your Dad has never said no to you."
Being in the friend zone means you haven't said no to your friend and to be honest, she isn't your friend.
Just say No and don't forget your spine
Someone highly agreeable. One who sees what the other person is thinking and changes opinion accordingly. Only to figure out later that it was a huge turn-off. Instead of nice guy , one should be labelled weak personality.
Crazy how I used to get on myself for treating women like crap and hell I guess I was right all along. Had a lot of success AFTER high school. Crazy world we live in.
Can you give some examples of your techniques?
There's a time for being nice and kind, and there's a time not to be.
"Best Friend Energy" 😆😅🤣😂
LMFAOROTFLSM 🤣
You’re very smart 😂
I cant even get friendzoned anymore. They just want nothing to do with me now
The guy is very lucky he got friend zoned by these women instead of ending up marrying one. Then hypergamy taking over when she gets fed up with the 'nice guy' after 10 years of marriage and two kids he would be paying child support for.
Guys always are very sad 😂😂 but they don’t understand in the long run it saved them
10 years? Wow you're optimistic😂
You took the words right out of my mouth.
The easiest way to stay out of the friendzone, is not to get in it. When she says "friends" when she knows you have interest, just say "no thanks, but best of luck to you". Keeping females in your orbit clouds your vision in the search for the real one.
excellent message 100 % correct, whilst your in the Friend zone, she is banging Ricky a drug dealing Biker with no Future
There's no real one. Stop this sniper mentality
There's no real one. Stop this scarcity mentality
@@superswag3252 More real than the girl who friend zones you.
I was the nice guy. And I’m still nice as it’s my personality but as far as women go, I cut them off at the knees and what hesitate nor apologize for it. I had one show me interest then ghost me. We were friends on Facebook. I called her out on her bs and unfriend her. I held her accountable because she’s the one that initiated the interest. She got butt hurt and blocked me like I give a f anymore.
He's the friendzoned chad basically.
Make your intentions clear from the get-go. Asked a girl out recently and set up the date. She cancelled so I told her to arrange the next date and nothing has happened. Found out she's got two nice guys giving her heaps of free validation without lifting a finger and she'd loose that privilege if she dated me. I could win her over if I put in the effort, but I've got better things to do.
i dont understand how u get "friendzoned" if girl friend zones me I simply say " don't call or contact me unless your calling to change your mind" Then unless she contacts me to change her mind SHE NEVER HEARS FROM ME EVER AGAIN!!!
Very important message. With me, insecurities, widowed mom home & plain old fear drive me to “nice guy”. I landed some & bad a few ltr, but didn’t lead to quality, they all cheated/left. At 30, I moved definitively towards more alpha & mature friends/mentors… can’t overstate how important this message is… don’t waste 10-20 yrs & have kids that see you get abused & trashed.
This is the best life advice for men that I've come across.
A lot of men need Dad's out there, and they're lucky to have you. We all are.
Thank you. I loved the discussion. I'm subbed, and I'll be listening.
Q. How do you get out of the friend zone?
A. Don't know, never been there.
Gents, if you want to drive 100 miles north, you don't set off heading due south. If you want to bang a girl, a plutonic relationship is the polar opposite of what you want to achieve, so why would you bother?
This comment is great😄
If you are reading this young man---what you are going through is far from uncommon and chances are the other guys aren't getting as much pussy as they claim. Get into Boxing or some combat sport and ignore women while you focus on yourself. This won't work overnight, though it is the direction to go in.
He's either lacking the masculine bone structure, or resources, or both. "Game" will never help if you're missing either one of these. There are no exceptions.
Guys, what Rich says at the end is absolutely 100% true: it all hinges on your ability to say no, especially to women.
You must demonstrate that you have higher priorities than her, and better things to worry about than whatever she happens to think of you.
Practice saying no. Put your own needs and desires first, be prepared to get up and walk away if a situation isn’t working for you.
The rest is just details.
The difference between being nice and a 'nice guy', is being nice doesn't cost you anything! If she's interested she will let you know in no uncertain terms. Don't be a nice guy (putting them on a pedestal), vs you can be friendly towards women that works, but only if they have attraction to you
You can either get what you want or hear everyone say how nice (easy to use) you are.
Holy crap! He was friend-zoned 30 times? I am the kind of guy who could tell the same story, except that I gave up trying well before my friend-zone count hit double digits.
The Glover Book “No more Mr Nice Guy” is a must…The behavior of being a nice guy is highly manipulative and disingenuous…. This Book in conjunction w Rich Cooper’s commentary will help anyone understand the “WHY” of this behavior and a more authentic path.. One of the key parts of Nice Guy Behavior /Covert Tactics results when this Nice Guy behavior doesn’t work…. An aware individual would change the behavior.. A Nice Guy doubles down on the behavior; and tries “extra hard” to be nice and accommodating with the motive of getting their needs met. Once you see it…. YOU can’t unsee it.
This guy is spot on forget gen Z I'm 40 and have faced the same issues with modren women ..has gotten to the point where i prefer being single and am blacked pilled ...wasted many years on dollars on women that just wanna be friends and f the jerk .. now that i am older i understand why things are that way but until social media dies men have no chance ..Good men should not change for women but unfortunately social media has corrupted them past help ....that being said there is women i have been friends with since my 20s who i recently told off and said they have terrible taste in men and that being there friend is pointless and benefits me in no way so i told them bye and and deleted there number ...
You need to look for Christian conservative women.
Real men with manly attributes attract whats theirs. Do the work, not for women, but for yourself. Blackpilled are lazy, spoiled whiny dudes with more emotional feminine energy than masculine frame. Soy nerds who think they should be accepted with no self improvement at all. Stay in the basement.
Being too nice and too cowardly has nearly destroyed my life
The worst thing a man can do for a woman is give her attention/validation without asking anything in return. That is the friends zone. The problem with too many of these guys is they allow a woman to mistake kindness for weakness and they set no boundaries with her. The way I avoided getting into this trap was within a date or two I made it clear that if I saw her again it would lead toward a romantic relationship (sex). If she responds that I was her friend or gives a BS answer, then I would tell her if she changes her mind, to let me know but as of now we will no longer see each other. That allowed her time to decide if I was boyfriend material. If she contacted me, I set the rules and made very clear expectations about what would and would not happen. If not, I avoided a lot of frustration and did not waste my time on a woman who will never take me seriously.
I have wrestled with these paradoxes all my life. I was taken in the 80's/90's by the feminist lie that women were "looking for a kind, considerate, sensitive, man". "Get in touch with your feminine side", "I respect a men that can cry" nonsense. It cost me dearly. I got friend-zoned and used and it just never stopped. I just didn't know what was going on. I thought being nice was just the normal way to live for anyone. Later in life I saw the need to set boundaries. People will just take you for a ride otherwise. And that did help me in relationships.
I liked what Rich said about being a "good guy" but knowing when to dispense kindness and so on. The niceness itself is not bad, it's when you allow emotion to control you. You get swayed by someone's need to the point where you bend and just wash through your boundaries. My dad was like that. He was always fair. He would be kind and decent but he had strong boundaries. He would just stop.
I have a little defense for the "nice guy". I disagree with Rich about "being a little bit of an asshole". That's the pill I never swallowed. I know that might reduce ones chances of success with women and even in general life but I believe that it is morally wrong. I can win by cheating. Anyone can. I can "knife you" and get the upper hand. But, is it right? Is life just about success with women or getting rich? If that's what it is all about then I'd rather be single and poor. Really. In fact, I'm living it. I'm only moderately successful. I could be more financially successful but there are certain things I just will not do.
And that brings me to the toxicity of the modern woman. They are looking for a man with "the necessary evil". Women are in a FRENZY these days about this. They are looking for toughness beyond reason. They LOVE "the bad boy". But he achieves his power by cheating. By evil. By not giving a damn.
Is that what you want?
Definitely not what I want. I would rather be friend-zoned by 70% of women for the 30% that recognize the need to respect a good man who does what is right.
Bad definitions.
Bad boy- not all bad boys cheat or are cheaters, thats you trying to make yourself feel good, justified weakness and morally elite, which is very feminine..,men deal with facts.
Bad boys are attractive to women because they exude manly man type qualites...,whether they have them or not, they have the act down cold and play it all the way thru toward their advantage, never breaking character....,women can trust that, he is what he is, take it or leave it.
To define the upper, higher levels of financial success path as only being a cheater is your own minds construction, limiting perception of what it takes to be succesdful and again, justifying and finding comfort in ones own weaknesses and lack of skills, resources and resourcefulness.
Being a A-hole - only means a man doing what he's got to do.., a man is supposed to be a leader or self led, and those who are under his ward may not agree on his decisions, but he does what must be done for the good and survival of his entity, which does not necessarily mean it was an evil, bad or viciscious choice, that is other peoples perception.
Men only focus on women in alignment with them and their goals and program...,the rest are invisible and are of no concern because they will never be truly yours anyway.
Who waste time contemplating the future and motivation of women that will never be in alignment with you or your program in the first place ??? Thats pathetic and weak.
I agree with Rich 100%.
I’m speaking from personal experience and learnt the hard way.
Being Too Nice gets you screwed over!
Lol at guys thinking they're victims of some "friendzone" cause they failed to go for what they want.
As soon as a woman friend zoned you….. walk away. When she asks don’t you want to be “friends”. Say NO! Trust me in a couple of months you’ll have a lot more respect for you.
Women like drama. Being nice has no tension in it. You have to be shitless to pull that off. So, when she begins crying and all that, you cannot actually give a damn, or you will ruin the drama. I know, I can't make it make sense... it just is.
Trash can audio but it works
Was the extra 3 minutes 35 seconds just placed there to give us time to beat the inner nice guy to a pulp?🤣
One of your best posts !!!
I actually use this to my advantage, I am nice to women I don't like, yes I pretend to be somebody I'm not with people I don't like. I don't do it too often luckily, it's exhausting.
I've actually done this with girls I knew had a crush on me, but I didn't like them, eventually they backed off on their own, they were just annoying AF.
Can I confront her? : " You friend zoned me, stop it! I need to get away from you. "
Tell them you just want to be friends first. Reactions are priceless and takes the wind out of their power struggle.
Indian culture has "Brother Zoned"
Hahaha them CURRYCELS are finished.
Never in my life did i get friendzoned, i never let myself get into that position. If they never saw me as someone theyd lay i walked away asap or even just ignored em altogether i have 3 sisters never needed chick friends
I have never been friendzoned by a woman. But I have friendzoned many beauty women, usually after sex when I didnt find it amazing to continue romantic relationship. The best way is to act confidence, a bit cocky, flirty and playful. If she doesnt want me as like this, im always ready to walk away. Many times when I walk away they want me.
The easiest solution for friend zone is to not accept it,simple
Oh no we are just friends
No we are not bye
The simple version is don't get in a rush. People make their worst decisions when they're desperate. Women smell it like a dog smells fear. The only thing worse than being in the friend zone is her Cat who more than likely has seen it all.
A hot girl who's a friend and you want to be around is a tough temptation. Been there done that a few times over 60 years, so I know. Things are easier said in forums like this than lived in the real world. But, yeah, use the "take want you want in life" moto. Do your best, being human isn't easy.
A "hot" girl whose not into you is totally useless. Get what you know you can attract..,those that look and respect you as a man. "Hot" for you supposed to mean a female that wants to jump yer bones.
Hot or not, dont waste time like some driftwood or lint hoping for something that is never going to happen, like wishing on a star..,very unmanly. ZERO benefits, period.
The friendzone is totally optional, and this goes on both ends. If you realize that the energy isnt being reciprocated then remove yours. It really is as simple as that.
Short story: I remember a few years ago post-college I would always run into this Asian chick who had a group of guys with her at a hookah bar. They clearly liked her but none made any moves and gave 'the friend vibe'. She'd always manage to make it over to me usually sitting alone drawing (or with one other friend) and chat for some time before walking back to her table. One of her guy friends from her table spilled the beans that I was taken and showed her a picture from Facebook to which she said 'I didnt know you had a girlfriend?!".
Needless to say, she definitely didnt give a $hit and DM'd me that we should go to the bar together one night together when she was free. It happened that same week and lets just say she definitely dressed to impress and shot her shot.
You cant negotiate attraction and you cant friendzone your way into pu$$y. Make your intentions known up front.
just ordered the book No more Mr Nice Guy, thx for recommend
Chad and Pookie score again!
Excellent advice.
Hey! When some of your friends knock one of these “beautiful women” up, they won’t be “beautiful” any longer and they’ll come looking for a guy like you to pick up the pieces, so wake up and learn to say NO!!!
Thank you Mr Cooper.
Nice guy worked out fine for me. Nice guy needs to be balanced too. You get nice girls who step over your head when they learn from you. However if you're nice guy. You have to balance it out early. Never had problems with women. I would bombard with my charm in the beginning and show my skills. and then would show boundaries early on. My mistake was that if you are super nice. They take you for granted (some of Them are greatful) and your boundaries too late on get confronted feom her with "don't be with me if you don't like me". All in move. And youre invested at that point. The best tool is if she says she does not love you when you ask. Or not yet. Then you say ok. Come backe when you decide. Not being affraid to be alone is Your Ace. Also sense of humor is best slayer. If you have good sense of humor. All ladies are yours. 100%. also another one. Dont teach her how to catch a fish. Always provide her with a fish. She needs to need you. And needs to know that she'll loose you if she is only a table. Exchange in relationships is. Critical . Dinner from her. Next time you cook. Show that you're capable doing things yourself. Ive had a girl saying. Relax I'll make it For you. Our kitchen is small. One day i woke up eating mcdonalds from deliveroo. Before healthy diet. Also knowing she cheated and now i need to relearn how to set washing machine. Plus alimony on the way. Good news. Kids love me. I've stayed to get longer than i should. Only for kids. I am martial arts guy. I know my worth. Money side needs to be sorted. That's the only tick thats left.
Bang on True
He is right. I am a woman. I enjoy male company, but I can only do that in a group setting. I had two male friends whom I had a common interest with from being in a volunteer community. We would meet occasionally and exchange books and talk. However, I always made it clear from the beginning that my meeting them did not imply I’m interested in dating them. They always agreed. The minute I sensed they were expressing sexual interest, I had to disengage. I was very straightforward with them from the start. If a man wants to date a woman, he has to ask her out, period. She will say yes or no. There is no such thing as hoping to get into her pants by being Mr. Nice guy.
Your best video in my opinion.
In earlier days I thought and did what Rich described. The result: nothing positive, all negative, and I was totally frustrated. Wish I learned that lesson from Rich when I was 16 - 22.
" Chads " are jumping for joy
because millions of women are coming across the boarder . . . . ❤ . . . . 😊
My parents were married for over 55 years - but my Mom ALWAYS, ALWAYS told me that you have to be NICE to find a nice girl and later wife. (Now I don't even get friend zoned very often.) But please tell us what exactly we are supposed to do? Start fist fights?
No such thing as friend zone.She is just not interested and that's that.Make yourself interesting.
There is a thing as the friend zone and it’s a different location than just friends. There is a lot to it
@@jamesg1974a Nothing to it.That is just an excuse invented in our minds,coping mechanism.If she's founds you fuckable she will take interest.
That's basically it in a nutshell.
100% true advice. That guy sounds like me when I was much younger. It was only when I started to say no and became more assertive that I started to get poontang. I blame those early years on being brought up very Catholic and being told over and over again that women like nice guys. I’m indoctrinating my son to be much different. Only woman he is allowed to take shit from is his mother.
You don't have to be an a-hole, just be someone that she sees as having priorities.
A woman who is genuinely attracted to you wants to be that priority.
If you click with a woman and she starts texting or wanting to talk overa coffee about her day, her problems, her work etc then that right there is where you make or break it.
Simply say something along the lines of 'you wanna talk over a coffee? If we do, then it's a date.' Can be cocky or charming with it. Say there's no way I'm going to be seen with a hottie like you unless it's obvious we're on a date. Say it with a smile. Even on the phone or on a text. Don't have to be an a-hole.
Or if she wants to text or call on the phone, just be straight up and don't waste your time. Tell her you've got other things to do but if she wants to make it a date, we'll talk in person.
She'll either refuse or take you up.
Either way, it's a win-win.
You get a date with clear intentions or you get your time back to focus on things that really matter and provide value to YOUR life.
The trap all nice guys fall for is becoming the friend who will just listen to her jabber on all day about her life. And it happens right at the start. Be alert for it and nip it in the bud if it happens.
Source: Fell into the trap far too often myself before I found Rich Cooper and other red pill content.
"look, I will listen to ur crap if I'm getting that kitten of yours at the end or you can take your whiny butt else where" 👌I like this line tho lol. Sounds like a win win either way.
The thing is that the nice guy is not really nice. The nice guy is perceived as kind of a manipulator using "nice" as a way to manipulate himself into her pants. It's still possible to be a good man. Disagreeing, politely saying no, having self-respect, or sticking to boundaries does not make someone a bad person. Watching how people handle the answer no speaks volumes of their character.
When women are complaining that they can't meet the "Right type of man" and want to be your friend, they're choosing the others and not you for sex.
If you are their friend, they will never choose you for sex.
And even if they did, your chances of them cheating on you are greater. Women don't cheat to have a friend.
How many alcoholics choose to give up drinking? How many pot smokers give up weed? As a percentage, not many.
Check your sound, Rich. Sounds like you're in a tin can.
Story of my life, adding the divorce part too!!
every word right my friend
There was some motorcycle dude that got stabbed in the back by his woman because he was too nice. He forgave her. Not sure if he is still alive or not.
It's the sad Truth
Never worked for me. 100% accurate truth bombs here. 💣
One of the best pieces of advice I've heard for nice guys, especially if you're a little nerdy..."embrace your inner Han Solo!" 😅
You are so right abooot that.
My best friend just came home from prison after a conviction for dispensing a tail-gater, ten years ago.
He already has, one month out, a harem of women meet his needs. Dude is a pro and there is much to learn.
I don't know man I think these guys are thinking to hard about the whole thing. You can usually tell if somebody's into you within the first 10 minutes of meeting them.
It was a Nice VIDEO 😂😂😂
In my 20s I was the nice guy in the friend zone and even the woman that friendzoned me would be annoyed that I was such a nice guy with everyone. She would tell me "You want everybody to like you? Fine. But I don't need such a friend". Ironic, the girl that friendzoned me taught me to say no to others.
All true. No lies.
Friends in low places.
I love the part at 12:35, been saying that for years
Haven't watched the full video yet- although the male in question sounds great. I get the feeling he is a nice guy and the women pick up on this. He is doing a good deed and expecting something in return. I think part of the problem is with him and how he handles himself. I have a relaxed couldn't care less attitude towards women and girls now. I don't want anything from them, I don't let them walk over me etc and I never get disappointed. I have had a charmed comfortable enjoyable life thanks to not inviting the wrong people into my life (or not having unrealistic expectation etc.) Stories like this remind me I have done th e right thing in my life by keeping things simple- have a good day reader :)
“Befriend the person you wanna’ date, but don’t be friends with them.” 😐
The word nice comes from the word Nescius. Which means ignorant you are trying to treat a woman as an equal when women are only attracted to leaders. People who are competent do not have to be nice cuz being nice only Hedges their bets. This does not mean that you need to be a jerk it just means you shouldn't put people on a pedestal. Because men and women are people they make mistakes and screw up just as much if not more than you do
When a woman friendzones you it isn't a mistake. They are using you on purpose.
@@HiddenHandMedia What are they using you for?
@@K4113B4113to inflate their sense of worth..ego..cause they know they are worthless
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You cant be serious??? For one, just for starters, unearned attention for females is as good as cash, validation and a ego massage.