Man Tips Winning Lottery Ticket, Sues to Get It Back (Bad r/legaladvice)
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I don't know if you've already touched on this subject but are you required to roll your window all the way down when you're pulled over? Can you just take your license and registration and just press it up to the window? Is being forced to open the window an illegal search?
Well, I am sure there are some questionable phrases in contracts one could talk about.
A customer once send me a contract that had this gem in it:
"The artist (that's me) hereby grants all rights in universe and perpetuity to the client."
on that note: What about contracts that are plainly selfmade? Like someone went to reddit and copied this and that and put it together in a jumbled mess including varying fonts, typos, wrong dates etc?
Is an engagement ring on a valentines day a gift promise or a contract that they get the ring in exchange for marriage?
If you do decide to cover more reddit stories you should really be more fair to the subreddit. Based on what you're saying in this video and the comments in the thread, the advice given was basically 100% correct on every single point. Why exactly are you calling it badlegaladvice?
Honestly, if I were in her shoes, I'd "settle" with the guy by giving him a lottery scratch ticket. Let's see how he likes receiving an almost certainly worthless piece of paper instead of money.
I like the way you think
But wouldn't that then inply that your did in fact owe them something? PS i also like the idea of it.
@@dskuit Maybe "settle" is the wrong word. Maybe a better term for it is "a token of appreciation."
If only the world leaders operated with your mind
@@forrest3 If you mean to pay off debts, that would probably result in war.
"Noooo I only tipped you with lottery tickets because I thought they would be worthless!!!"
Pretty much! lol
Hope she counter sues and gets legal fees covered
Yeah, this sums it up in a way that would make anyone understand that she deserves the money. The only value a lottery ticket has is the potential to win. So if you're leaving a lottery ticket as a tip, you're gifting someone the potential to win the lottery. Should the person then win the lottery and you then ask for you money back, they essentially never really had the potential to win, so the tip would have been completely worthless.
Hahaha reminds me of the episode of bojack horsemen where Todd gives the waitress millions as a tip
he don't consider all those times he got my tipping her nothing by giving a loser ticket.
She messed up on the #1 rule of winning anything lotto related: *DON'T TELL ANYONEEEEEE*
Exactly!
Many decades ago, in Toronto, lottery winners had to accept their winnings in public, thus letting everybody and their uncle know who they were and where they lived. After one big win, reporters from the local tabloid showed up at a lottery winners' house for a "human interest" story. They found the house empty and up for sale, and the winners gone to... somewhere unknown.
The reporters, being storyless, went angrily back to the lottery corporation, and told them what happened. The guy from the lotto hq responded, "Whaddaya know! Looks like somebody finally did it right."
@@Bob1Mack That’s actually a really cool story, is there a video about this on youtube?
@@conscripthornet4430 No, the story is probably older than the internet. It showed up as a throwaway item in a "cityside" column in one of the local papers, about 45 years ago.
The first 20 rules of winning the lottery. Don't tell anyone. Not friends, not your family, not your wife. Invest the money into something good. Don't be a dumbass
Imagine not only being shitty enough to tip with lottery tickets, but to sue the unfortunate soul to be tipped with lottery tickets if they win.
Ehh, I think 50/50 is reasonable
@@Dylan-dc2xf 50/50 is not reasonable when you're using a lottery ticket as a tip lol
@@Dylan-dc2xf Why would it be reasonable? What is it that leads you to that conclusion?
@@Dylan-dc2xf You have no personal connection to a server just because they served you once. They are essentially a random human to you. The moment you leave their presence its like you never met. You might as well demand 50/50 from any winner anywhere because you have an equal connection to that person as you do said server. You cannot possibly have an agreement with a random person you encountered for a moment.
@@Dylan-dc2xf Unless there is an explicit agreement to split the earnings, if you give someone a lottery ticket, it's theirs, and you should expect to receive absolutely nothing if they happen to win. ESPECIALLY in this case where the lottery ticket is being given as a tip instead of money.
If you want the winnings, don't give away your ticket lol
I feel like leaving a lottery ticket as a tip is a dick move in general.
Yep, and it's even more so if you demand a cut if the ticket turns out to be a winner. Essentially, he was happy giving scratch tickets solely because it cost him nothing, and more often than not their dogshit. I hope every server he gets from here on out spits in his food.
@@locutus94 No, it's worse: the scratch tickets _did_ cost him money. He had to buy them. He could have spent that same money on cash tipping, thus allowing the waitress to decide for herself whether the lotto was a good investment.
It's really common. To be fair a lot of scratchcards give out small prizes that can be as much as $50 or $100 which are not super rare and are pretty nice if your not the person buying the tickets. (If you are buying them your probably losing more then your getting back).
Agreed.
My boss gave them out as a 'Christmas bonus" too...I was like wow thanks for 5$ I will never get
Moral of the story: Don't tell ANYONE when you win the lottery.
In some states your identity must be revealed.
Specially the IRS XD
I have a sister who would totally get annoying if she found out that I won the lottery.
@@keathgraham2742 yes but usually you have a year to come forward so you can get everything in order, set up savings or retirement, get security, etc..
I believe one can set up a trust, sign the ticket over to the trust and have a lawyer collect the winnings for said trust.
Either that or turn up cosplaying as Darth Vader.
The fact that it's not technically illegal for her boss to give out an employee's personal contact information is more concerning to me than the claim to her winnings. As someone who has worked a lot of customer service jobs, this is how you end up getting stalked & killed.
i'm sorry to hear that
...
i'm also impressed that you're posting on youtube from beyond the grave. it gives me hope
@@paulputtotum9693 ? If you're gonna be a dick to someone it should at least make sense as a response to what they said.
@@elperry7733 I think the guy you're responding to was pointing out the phrasing at the end of the first comment making it sound like the person had themselves been stalked and killed, thus having firsthand knowledge.
It is super illegal in the EU. GDPR protects all personal information and you can only use it if you've been given express permission
I've realised this after working for few weeks in customer service ... people are efin weirdos freaks from time to time ... that's why in the call center were only guys . Girls were terrified
I’m gonna go out on a limb and say anyone who tips with a lottery ticket is essentially stiffing the server. They deserve no grace
It depends if the cost of the tickets are at least as much as the cash equivalent to what's otherwise tipped (and the quality of service). E.g. if the standard tip for the circumstance was $10, and I was tipped $12 worth of lottery tickets, I wouldn't complain.
@@PoochieCollins Really? You should. Unless he KNEW she would have bought the lottery tickets anyway, he's not giving her something she was wanting. Cash is liquid, it can be exchanged for all manner of goods and services. Lottery tickets are very specific and unless the recipient wanted them anyway, they're not at all equivalent to cash.
@@bobbyfeet2240 : tips are voluntary. Someone who's offended by getting more than the standard cash equivalent tip in lottery tickets should either become a better server so they get better tips, or leave and let someone else who needs the job more take it.
@@PoochieCollins so, it's fine to work at your current job, and then your boss pays you your wage in lottery tickets, hm?
@@mrbonlino : it depends on the EV of the lottery tickets, and what my cash alternative is. Otherwise you glossed over my last post where I said that tips are voluntary.
"But, I meant to leave you false hope of winnings, not actual winnings."
"Your Honor, I never meant for her to actually win!"
To be fair, considering we're all peasants, it's not that crazy for them to fight for any chance to escape the eternal cycle at the bottom.
@@blacklightredlight2945 maybe it isn't crazy for someone to want to get off the bottom. But it is shitty to do it to someone else down there with you. Especially here. Like bartends live off tips. And this ass hole was only giving lottery tickets. And when she finally wins, he wants in on her tip? This dude is a complete piece of shit.
Seriously. Its such a dick move to only leave lottery tickets to min wage employees. Throw it on top of a tip, but something that only has a 1 in 1xxxxxxxx chance of being real $ is a shit move.
@@blacklightredlight2945 If I can't afford to tip, then I can't afford to eat there.
Spending money to get drunk and harass a bartender doesn't seem like how you "fight for any chance to escape the eternal cycle at the bottom".
When I was a bar manager, we had an elderly regular who would buy tons of scratch-offs, and occasionally use them for tips.
His deal was this: he would offer when closing out his tab to give the ticket to his server as a tip. If they accepted, he would have them scratch it there at the table. In the event that they won nothing, he would still always leave a few dollars tip because he was that kind of guy.
One time, the server won $500! The man just asked that she cover his meal that night (about $30) in exchange for the ticket. Both parties went home happy.
If you're going to do this, do it like this guy. 👍
And that's exactly what Devin meant by an oral contract. Everything was up front and understood by all parties going going into the little deal. Totally different scenario from someone just giving a scratch-off instead of a real tip and then expecting payment back after the fact.
Also he just sounds like a fun customer to have since he's still taking care of the server either way.
@@backbeathighway I got the impression that he was a pretty lonely guy, and sharing that moment of scratching off a lottery ticket was sort of his social life highlight; a way to get a moment of connection with a relative stranger and a little excitement, in his otherwise mundane retirement. 😅
@@galacticbob1 He sounds like a man who knew he'd get more joy seeing someone else win than having the win for himself. Grandpa material right there! 😊
@@backbeathighway yeah but years of judge judy has taught me oral contracts mean nothing. written contracts do, even on a napkin. because lets say they changed their mind, now its "he said v she said" and its up to an arbitrator to determine what is fair
@@ilovefunnyamv2nd Arbitration and legal lawsuits are similar but not the same. Judge Judy is the former done largely for entertainment more than anything, while Devin is talking about actual lawsuits which would open up a lot more methods for gathering evidence and getting witnesses involved than basic arbitration.
And it's not going to always be he said, she said because some cases will have a lot more evidence to them. Oral contracts are not all just handshake, there can be other components that support the argument that a contract was in place. If I ask you to paint my fence and hand you a check to do it, but you cash my check and never paint my fence, I'll have the cashed check and not-painted fence as evidence.
But yeah, if it's something REALLY important or deals with a lot of money, you'll want it written down.
Imagine being such a crappy person you stiff servers because you're that cheap, and then when they actually get something out of it you sue them.
Imagine living in a society that worships the dollar so much, they'd do something like this.
@@blacklightredlight2945 - Get off your cringe medicine before you overdose ya Joker wannabe.
@@LucaxCorp Lol
I think the kind of person who sucks enough to tip in lottery tickets is the kind of person who sucks enough to sue you for winning the lottery
@@TunaBagels honestly
As a non-native English speaker, I just wanna express my appreciation of the fact that this guy actually bothers to clarify the meanings of frequently used abreviatuons, like "irl". It would've been extremely helpful to me back when I was still just starting to learn English if I had encountered more peeps like that.
It can sometimes be confusing for a native speaker when someone busts out with that OUDFJAKSDJFGASDFOUJIFNDSFSD abbreviation.
@@bucket4255 lol there are just way too many these days
@@bucket4255 LMAOHDYNKETM😭😭😂😂
Your English is much better than most who have English as a first language.
@@johncloois3301 That is definitely true.
Can we be horrified for a second by how it's legal for an employer to give out personal information to stalkers/abusers?
What does this have to do with stalkers/abusers? This bar patron is neither according to this story...
@@Neurotik51 what do you even mean? this old creep is a stalker... tracking her work schedule and is 40 years older than her. the person that commented on this is saying in the event someone is an abuser, it's horrifying that giving out an employees personal info can be done without any legal punishment
@@Neurotik51 Even if he isn't, theres no way for an employer to tell how the patron might have escalated the situation. It was absolutely inappropriate and should be illegal.
It only is so long as nothing happens. If they gave an employee's schedule or address and something happened, they would absolutely be liable NAL
The saddest part is that the government is reactive not preventative. So it's going to take someone getting hurt/killed for this to change unfortunately.
Wouldn't you also say tipping in lottery tickets implies either you want the person to win or you don't believe they will and are just trying to bypass tipping with "useless" paper?
Exactly. No one in their right mind would give out a ticket if they thought it would be a winner. Cheapo way to self justify a $1 tip on your meal.
@@EmperorOfMan it's even worse than that, the big prize tickets like this cost upwards of $5 meaning that you had $5 that you could have given them instead of a worthless piece of paper.
Precisely, most of the time leaving a lottery ticket is no tip at all!
Before discovering the ticket it is a winning ticket, the value of the ticket would only be the price of purchase.
This thread is restoring some of my faith in humanity, thanks everyone for understanding what a - what's the legal term again? - oh yes, what a d*** move this is. Y'all rock!
For anyone else reading through, please don't tip your servers with lottery tickets. We hate that. To us it's like, after spending roughly an hour tending to your every need with a smile, you've just "rewarded" us with a useless piece of paper that can't even go in the recycling bin if it's a scratch off, and then we're expected to say thank you.
If you really want to reward good service, please consider tipping in cash. In the age of 90% electronic transactions, we ALL like being tipped with cash and will very likely prioritize regular customers who tip in cash.
I have a regular who gives me a $100 bill and a fifth of liquor once a year around the holidays. She leaves 20-25% cash tips the rest of the time. All year round whenever she walks in, I make sure that her usual order is already on the grill before she's even been seated, and her needs always jump to the top of my list over everyone else's in my section. She could even be seated in someone else's section and she still gets top priority from me.
BTW, even the restaurant owner likes it when people tip in cash because then they don't have to pay the percentage it costs them for credit card transactions. Even a small restaurant that employs maybe 4 or 5 servers ends up paying tens of thousands of dollars annually just for the credit card fees on gratuities alone, although many restaurant owners pass this cost on to the servers via paycheck deductions.
He tipped with scratchcards in the past, most of the times it amounted to nothing, so he didn't pay any tips for ages.
Consider that debt repaid.
Actually by that logic if he wants half the lottery money then he owes half the price of those scratchcards he used as tips, not just to the woman he's trying to take money from but everyone he's ever tipped with a scratchcard. Those things are like ten dollars where I live so why did he tip with them?
As it is a scratch card it likely like 10K to 30K could even been like 5K so not big big money
You never have to tip someone it’s optional
@@Fifa-di4wk no, tip is mandatory. in fact loads of restaurants you have to give 15% tip on top of the bill.
@@Professional_TH-cam_Commenter Not in the US. Tips are optional. You're not required to tip.
What a weird promise. "If you win, you owe me a truck, even though I could have just kept the ticket and bought myself the truck."
He didn’t think he would win but already planning for what if scenario, tbh, I think if he makes it clear that he wants the truck if the one he tips won, I didn’t see anything wrong with giving him the truck
@@fos1451 Impossible to know what was actually said, but apparently he lied about the precondition of getting a truck as part of the winnings as a wedge to claim there was a breach of verbal contract.
@@jessecarliner7733 Unless there was a witness, I highly doubt claiming a verbal contract on a tip is going to fly in court. And i even more seriously doubt that a verbal contract was made, since no waitress in their right mind would actually want tickets as a tip, nor would any man (in their right mind) be trying to romance a waitress by giving her tickets. So while it might be impossible to know what was actually said, every single piece of evidence, context, and "normal behavior' (which is actually taken into account by a court) points to this guy just being a greedy prick.
@@Warrior_Culture I think it was his overall behavior that lost him the case. Even if in reality there was a promise of a truck, going for the millions lost him any credibility.
Just so we're clear, this man had no intention of giving her any legitimate tip. He only gave her tickets he thought were worthless and demanded them back when they weren't.
His behavior also indicates he sees the relationship as a transaction of ownership. The repeated solicitation of romantic encounters after tipping, followed by the assumption that she would return the money he payed her, wreaks of entitlement and misogyny.
*reeks
Yes, or for women, Tuesday.
Welcome to the world of women working in the restaurant business!
Is anyone even going to poinnt the fact she said "the prize was 3 months of salary"
3 months of salary for a WAITER is way LOWER than any LAWYER will ask to even open the door of his office....
noone will file a lawsuit for a 3 thousand dollars because, TO OPEN A LAWSUIT HAS COSTS. lawyers and even COURT COSTS [yeah you need to pay the justice], also the time you spend in such a waste of time has a cost, being in the courtroom has a cost...
soo all this work and costs to MAYBE get 1500 dolars split?
only a dumb, with a cousin that recently graduated to law school and has no real work, will file a petition for that.
There is a principle of "worth of courtroom"... it is no law is just basic comon sense that noone will file a lawsuit if the total sum of values will be less than the cost of the legal process...
In brazil the judge might even reject the case BEFOREHAND if he sees that it wont even pay the costs of his "time" of work
so it is normal that a teenager that recently finished the school didn't know about that... but how WOULD A LAWYER WITH AN TH-cam CHANNEL AND MAKING FUN OF PEOPLE ON REDDIT DIDN'T EVEN PAY ATTENTION ON THAT?
OOOOOO YEAH,,, MAYBE LAWYERS ON TH-cam ARE AS GOOD AS CAVEMEN
@@rafaellima381 Small claims court exists
Her former manager: "Hmm, should I give out her personal email to someone trying to harass her, or risk losing one customer? Well, in America they say the customer is always right, so...."
"What happened to the customer is always right"
"Well we were on a really good streak of that until you came along"
@@idontgetthejoke4813 Much better response.
You know who came up with the saying "the customer is always right"? A customer...
@@locutus94 Or businessmen who put profit ahead of most everything else.
"Assume that the customer is right until it is plain beyond all question he is not."
Wouldn't the previous wins of the small wins that he never tried to collect half constitute evidence that he never entered into a split agreement?
Fair point. I hadn’t thought about it that way till I read your comment.
Exactly what I was thinking.
Conversely, if she did give him something out of any previous ticket, that's one of the facts that would make her case a lot more complicated.
If this dude was tipping exclusively in *LOSING* lottery tickets for 3 years, then the one that actually won probably just makes up for the rest of the tips tbh lmao
So either, you tip with no money on the ticket, essentially leaving no tip. Or there is money on it, you sue for it trying to get it all, and essentially leaves no tip
Correct.
I had a dude I worked with who did that shit and he was the biggest POS... would do exactly this kinda crap too.
And no share of the winnings for either one 'cause the legal costs will eat it all up.
I'm sure the server has one 1,2,5 dollars with the scratch off before but overall they likely got nothing 99% of the time, so the patron stiffed the server those times. The server should turn around and countersue him for not leaving a real tip all those other times.
Exactly. Leaving a scratcher as a tip is an acknowledgement that you, the customer, believe the ticket will never be a winner. Thus, your real tip should have been $12 in cash, but because you leave behind a $5 scratcher where the top prize is $1 million, you've actually saved yourself $7 on the tip. While also allowing the customer to think that leaving the scratcher makes you look fabulously generous, in spite of the 30-million-to-one chance the waitress will actually win $1 million.
I'm amazed people do this. Its just a terrible idea.
Also any servers really need to 86 this crap. If they give you a scratch off next time they show up refuse them service. Or constantly remind them of how they left you no tip. Or whatever passive aggressiveness you can get away with at work.
"Here is a normally worthless scratch-off as a tip"
"WoW i CaN't BeLiEvE yOu WoN't SpLiT tHe WiNnInGs"
You just described american boomer mentality.
“Where large sums of money are concerned, it is advisable to trust nobody.” -Agatha Christie
"It is advisable to trust nobody"
- Tha Stie
Every time I listen to stories from workers in America, I appreciate the GDPR and employee rights in Europe so much more.
Yup. An employer giving out private information to some rando is all but unheard of here…
Here’s an idea, how about you just tip real cash rather than a most likely worthless lottery ticket
Missed opportunity to say “here’s a tip:”
Of course, better yet, we should pay servers enough that customers don't need to tip at all. Tipping culture needs to go away, but unfortunately it can't until those currently being tipped have their salaries increased.
...or maybe just normalize the business model that doesn't necessitate tips at all. If your employees are working such a low wage that has them dependent upon tips to survive, then your business model quite frankly sucks, and you're only kicking the can down the road that it justifiably deserves to go under with only yourself as the employer to blame.
Lottery ticket can be a free ticket and the ticket that follows is the gold mine
Bonus fun fact: our brains see tips and bribes as basically the same. Tipping culture massively increases bribery culture
This is why I never give lottery tickets as gifts: Most of the time, you are giving nothing. On the odd chance it wins, you are wishing you'd kept it.
You have to be totally prepared for them to win if you gift someone a scratch card. Otherwise things about to get nasty.
Why would you even buy them?
@@stribika0 There is no economic rationale for buying lottery tickets (except in very rare cases where the payout odds favor the ticket buyer). However, I occasionally buy a ticket for the fun of it.
@@stribika0 For fun
One more rationale is that one values a lot of money maybe coming all at the same time more than one values the steady money expended. As in, valuing a one to a million odds of getting one million dollars much higher than one dollar, due to the inherent life changing effect, while the actual lottery ticket expense fits comfortably into the budget.
Reminds me of my coworker. I collected losing scratch-offs to turn in the codes for points that I could then turn in for prizes. The coworker (lets call her Pam) started giving me her scratch-offs and made the comment that if any of them were in fact winners we would split them. Apparently she was too lazy to walk the fifteen feet from her register to scan the tickets to see if she won. ANYWAY.... I get a bunch of tickets from her, go home and upload the codes only to find there is a $3 winner among the losers. So the next day I go in, cash the ticket in and go hand her the $1.50 she won.
Pam gets all snippy with me wanting to know where the rest of it is. I remind her that we agreed to split any winnings if I found a winner among the losers. She says "No, we didn't!" and gets even more snippy with me. I'm like "Whatever." and walk away. She never speaks to me again but if that's how she acts over a freaking dollar and fifty cents.... I'm better off!
Clearly she meant that you would split winnings 99/1.
Imagine being that petty smh
Dodged a bullet there. It’s her loss, for turning away an honest friend.
@@ArDeeMee You're right. A lesser person would have kept the $3 but I wasn't raised that way. One time I was short about a dollar when buying some stuff and one of my coworkers gave me the dollar. I told her I would give it back to her the next day and she was like "Don't worry about it." The next day, after I clocked in I went and found her and gave her the dollar back. She was like "You really didn't need to do that." but I told her I borrowed a dollar and now I'm returning it.
Conclusion: don't tip with lottery tickets, ever. That's stupid in the first place and worst case scenario you'll miss on a fortune
He tipped in lottery tickets because he was romantically interested in the waitress and basically wanted to make himself look so nice to give a ticket that gives you a chance to win thousands of dollars
@@IronIsKing and usually gives you a chance to win nothing at all, lol, so that saves money, dude was trying to be a cheapskate and it backfired
I would say he was harassing her before the lottery ticket, so theoretically he could be a dangerous stalker and her boss just gave him means to continue to harass her.
This
_Theoretical_ is right.
@@RickJaeger theoretically, the human organism develops a sense of empathy for their fellow beings around 7 of age. Theoretically...
@@hamtart6572 Theoretically, although sadly in the tundra known as "reality", many human organisms never develop this almost mystical sense of empathy for fellow humans.
I can't believe an employer would think it's ok to give out contact information without first asking, especially young woman's info to a guy.
My guess is that the owner was mad because he also did not get any of the money.
After hearing that I automatically believed they hate women.
And a bar. Seriously, I've met too many turds who hit on bar maids. I wouldn't give him anything without a court order.
@@TesserId I have literally never heard someone use bar maids unironically.
@@NuncNuncNuncNunc I'm from Australia, how much $$$ are we talking about roughly. She said 3 months, pretty good wages, prob casual or part time.
Any idea?.
In the U.K. I’m pretty certain giving out data like the employee’s email is definitely illegal, especially under the new GDPR law
Is it still valid in UK? Seeing that its an EU law.
GDPR is still valid in the UK, with some tweaks here and here, but now it's called "UK GDPR" because our government wanted to feel ✨special✨
Specifically, GDPR was implemented in the UK as the Data Protection Act 2018, which is still enforced. The differences between UK-GDPR and EU-GDPR is mostly that the UK is now considered a "third country" for EU-GDPR purposes
(I interact tangentially with GDPR through work and got a talk on how it'll change (not much) when we Officially Left in 2021, but I'm probably forgetting some details)
Yes it is illegal still in the UK, but could disappear anytime the Tory "Abuse the People" Party wants to.. Doesn't Brexit suck - lots of excellent stuff comes from the EU and we will no longer get it. Rejoin the EU!
"This is what we call in the legal profession a 'total **** move'. It's also the same in bird culture" almost made me choke on my water. Well done, Sir.
"people don't often write down contracts, which keeps lawyers employed" LOL
That was the first thing my first ever private client said to me. He HAD written the contract... but he didn't have a lawyer write it and the dispute became as to whether or not the title was part of the contract, among other minutia.
Even TV judges have admitted this fact.
I'm an accountant, and a lawyer friend once told me that he'd go out of business if accountants stopped drafting their own legal agreements!
Verbal contracts aren't worth the paper they're written on...
@@iain3482 I hope that was a joke, but I am sometimes confused by sarcasm
In Australia it would definitely be illegal to give an employee's email to a customer
Same here in Sweden
@@Grakkagrunk And in the Netherlands. Legal protections for employees are truly a joke in the US...
@@Snowshowslow And I'm 90% certain it would be in the UK too. I think it would be a violation of the Data Protection Act.
@@Snowshowslow And that's because the US sees employees as disposable robots that serve their every whim, not people! Protection for employees? But that cuts into MY profits, we can't have that!
@@ewarwoowar9938 oh, gosh. Yes, a massive breach of GDPR, too.
He was tipping a lotto ticket to be cheap. And it's not like she won that much, she said about three months pay so as a bartender I'd imagine it be anywhere from 1 to 3 grand.
Thats 6 month pay for me and i m in IT
Depends on where you're working. Those are Vegas prices. Midwest would be half that
That about how much I guessed...and they also mentioned this dude is much older than them. So why is 65+ year old wasting waning days fighting over what will likely end up being 5k or so after taxes. I make far less than 60K per year, and I wouldn't want to spend potentially years in litigation for such a paltry amount.
@@bernlin2000 they said 3 months pay after taxes
That's two years pay for me wtf
I am sure waitress don’t want to be “tipped” in lottery tickets
Being tipped in lottery tickets and being asked out even less.
So, basically this guy stiffs her in tips for years and then when it finally pays off he wants it back. Who tips in lottery tickets? That's fine if it's extra, but it's not OK in lieu of cash.
Had a regular who worked as the general manager at a movie theater and he would tip in free rain pass tickets instead of cash. He would ask if you preferred cash instead of tickets, but we always took the tickets cause it was an easy $30 value. Tips don’t have to be cash, but they should at least be something of value
@@rachelroyce8494 But those passes had value. Lottery tickets don't unless they happen to be winners.
Tipping is not OK, it provides perverse balance of power where the one with no power (the waitress) is fully at the mercy of the old man. Pay your staff the right amount, charge the right amount, and dont have tips.
Classless scumbags, that's who.
@@isoroxuk Hun, we'd love that, but it ain't the reality of the situation.
The waitress does have power, the customer has no control over what happens to their food before it gets to the table, it you repeatedly stiff the same waitress, you better start getting concerned that something bad is going to happen to your meal. And it doesn't have to be something nasty from a movie, they could have it overcooked, undercooked, way too spicy, let if get cold, straight up the wrong thing, top shelf liquor... and you are stuck paying for it. Be nice to your server or suffer the consequences, whether tipping is a thing or not.
My Reddit legal advice: should you end up hitting a jackpot on a ticket that was given to you as a tip, and you feel compelled to tell others about your windfall, DO NOT MENTION WHERE YOU GOT THE WINNING TICKET.
Or just don't tell anyone at all. If I ever won money, no one would know.
Yeah, my general advice for people who suddenly get a big pile of cash:
1. Keep yer mouth shut about it.
2. No, really, don't tell anybody.
3. Really, don't tell ANYBODY - not friends, not relatives, maybe your spouse provided they can be trusted to follow rules 1-3 - until you've done the next step.
4. If it's a lot a lot of money, sit down with professionals like a lotto lawyer and/or financial planner to figure out a plan of how you're going to use the money. Most of the time, you should assume that you're not going to get it all at once, and even if you are you shouldn't plan to spend it or give it away all at once.
I'd also recommend avoiding being identified in news stories about it, as much as you possibly can.
It wasn't even the jackpot. It was only about 1/4 of a year's wages for a bartender, so not much money at all.
@@Ananamitron Well this was just a scratch-off. But yea, large jackpots like the Powerball or something - shhhhhhh, never tell anyone. Claim anonymously, and always do the lump sum.
@@thexalon My dad won a small amount with a lottery ticket (less than $100) and he told me I was the only one he told; he didn't even tell his wife. I know what would have happened if he'd told his wife - she would have told her freeloading daughters about it, and they'd have wanted her to share the money with them. Now, if I win any money, the only one to hear about it will be my husband, who can absolutely be trusted not to blab.
This is why it makes me nervous to get lotto tickets as christmas presents. The most I've ever won was $20, but there's a (very small) chance that it could be thousands/millions. If that was the case, if I decided to keep the full amount and not share with relatives, it could destroy the family if one of them feels entitled to any of the winnings. People don't think about lotto tickets before they give them away, and that worries me.
The lottery ticket was a tip, or considered a gift. Once you give a gift or tip you lose all rights to it.
If you give someone a lottery ticket, you are giving them any money that comes from that ticket winning. You no longer own it.
In my short stint waitressing, there's a decent chance she actually owes a split to the other workers.
@@blacklightredlight2945 It would depend on whether or not tips were split before where she worked. The rules vary a fair bit from place to place. They would also probably have to fight it in court if she didn't offer it to them. That could be costly for workers who don't have a lot of money to spend on legal fees.
I would she them to if they got millions but they only got thousands he's cheap
@@flixs1353 Not sure what you are saying.
@@my3dviews - He’s saying he’s also a PoS.
With all the losing tickets considered, the man basically never tipped. A winning ticket is just back pay at a certain point. Not legally speaking of course, just making a point at what a jackass the customer was.
Almost makes me wonder if he filed a frivolous lawsuit so she would be
forced to defend in court, which might force her to reveal her home
address or other personally identifying information he could use to
stalk her.
I once had to take a shopkeeper to a human rights
tribunal because they kicked me out of their poster shop for being
'Chinese' (I'm Asian, but not Chinese, but regardless, being Chinese
isn't grounds to have someone removed from a business place). But I
ended up not taking the case to arbitration because I would have been
forced to put my real name and home address in order to file my case and
have it heard, and I found out from someone who used to employ that
shopkeeper at his own poster shop that this shopkeeper had an illegal
side business selling illegal weapons (knives, etc.) and that he was bad
news... and I didn't really want someone like that knowing my legal
name and address where my sister and I lived.
I wish the first one was a simple making sense as “he gave it to her, it was hers.”
Yeah, I knew where this was going as soon as she told ANYONE she'd won. People are jerks. It shouldn't be complicated; he gave you the ticket, it's yours, transaction ends there. You don't have to tell anyone anything.
I wish people would not be stupid and tell others
Depends. Only 11 states allow a lottery winner to remain anonymous and still collect the money. All 39 others, the winner must be officially identified, in order to keep lottery officials honest.
@@TowaruTsura You can remain anonymous if you use a lawyer to collect the ticket on your behalf.
Reminds me of a rancher and a farm hand who took a sample of some funny colored mud to an assayer in San Francisco. It was Silver, the three of them agreed to meet at the assayer's office at noon after buying supplies so they (including the assayer) could stake (with real wooden stakes) claims. And of course not tell anyone. At noon the first race horse was sold so the buyer could try to outrun the huge crowd heading to the strike. 3 people couldn't keep the secret for a couple of hours. Really, if you want to keep a secret, you can't trust anyone, including family.
@@ceoatcrystalsoft4942 People like to gossip. Maybe it's a need to appear interesting by talking about events happening around you.
Man I feel bad for that bartender. She just trying to live her best life but Brent wants to sue her cause he thinks he's entitled
Welcome to America, land of the 'Entitled'
Seems to me that leaving lottery tickets for tips is super tacky. ~~ And, then he comes back using legal threats to bully her out a portion of the winnings. ~~ I hope they get sanctioned for a frivolous lawsuit. ~~ OMG, this reply got upvoted within a minute of being posted LOL.
@@cat-le1hf Hopefully the court orders a kick in the balls with golf shoes.
He may be entitled if he has mesothelioma.
@@pasteldonut6454 yea that too. the manager sucks too
It seems as simple as you gave a gift to someone, it's not yours anymore, the end.... is it not
The question is 'is it a gift, or an invitation to share the winnings'.
A good thing to keep in mind (according to what I was told by my dad's former lawyer) never, ever EVER tell ANYONE you won money in the lottery, especially not someone that controls your income (i.e. your boss) Only tell someone if you share an income with them. like your spouse.
Yeah I wouldn't tell my boss unless I was going to follow it up with "I quit" and a fairly lengthy explanation of how I really feel about him and why...
So he essentially leaves no tip for months, then when it turns out to be worth anything, he wants it back. How about just leaving actual tips instead 🙄
As a eastern european im confused, why leave tips at all? You order something and you pay for it, why should i hand out money to the waitress? And for what, for doing their job?
@@lamzaks112 Restaurants in America are not required to pay their employees a living wage (like $2 an hour), so they have to make up the difference in tips. What tips waiters DO get, also have to be paid out at the end of the night to busboys, bartenders, etc. So if you eat without leaving a tip, the waiter actually might have to pay out even so, so it's an especially shitty move to do that. If you eat out, it's expected you leave a 20% tip.
@@cl6874 This is why my mom, who managed a restaurant, told us kids "You can work in any job you want, but never, ever, EVER work in the food industry!"
IDK about the US but here in Canada it's common for waitress to earn more money with their wage+tips than busboys, cooks etc.
The main argument I see to keep this "tradition" is because you reward "good service" but I think this is bad reasoning on so many level.
-First only a minority of "service job" do get tipped. eg: barmaid vs a McDonald cashier, they both serve you your meal/drink yet one get tipped but not the other.
-Second, many restaurant employ busboy but don't share tips even if the busboy's job is to prepare the table for the next client allowing the waitress to have more clients. -Third, tips are heavily dependent on the waitress appearance & manner. A costumer can be rude or outright be indecent like harassing or groping a waitress and if she dare to do something about it then it can easily lead to little to no tips.
-Fourth, a tip can easily depend on the overall quality of experience, a bad meal can lead to a lower tip and a waitress have no power over the quality of the meal.
-Fifth, depending on the restaurant & tip sharing, a waitress can earn more than than cooks which is stupid, this most often occur in medium priced restaurants where cooks are often require to have some education or good experience beforehand.
I've never understood the reasoning behind tipping. Exceptionally good service will often result in the client giving a gift/better tip regardless if the industry/job is one where everyone is expected to tip. Teacher will sometime receive gifts because the parents like them, courier/mailman too if the client like them etc. I'm pretty sure if we get away from tipping, regular clients who get the same waiter/waitress will still tip just because they really appreciate the person giving them a service.
@@lamzaks112 You must live in a non-tourist Eastern European country then. As a Eastern European myself, I can say that I have never met a server who didn't enjoy and complain about tourist season at the same time. They couldn't wait to get a German's pocket exchange (which could buy one lunch or a night out drinking) but still complain about all the work they need to do. While still being paid a normal wage
1:15 A good rule of thumb.... Don't flirt with someone who can't leave.
Does that include co-workers?
@@Mecharnie_Dobbs yes if you want to flirt with co-workers do it after their shift. Because doing that on the clock is how you get complaints to HR. I would know guys have tried to do this to me on the clock I can't leave and were working together so it is difficult to respond in a way that lets them know I am 100% not interested.
@@harleehall2032 Lie and tell them your in a relationship and if they continue just murder them (joking, complain is what i meant)
@@stuff4812 no no I think you had right in the first half (jk)
@@ichijofestival2576 how so?
He gave her the lotto tickets.
This means this was a "GIFT"
She would have no reason to give money to the patron
Well, tips for work (such as a waitress) are not taxed as gifts but as earned income, subject to federal income tax, federal social security tax, and state taxes. So another reason tipping with lottery tickets is bad is that the waitress pays tax on what the "normal" tip would have been, plus tax on the gambling winnings she collects on the tickets that actually win. She can't even deduct the cost of the losing tickets, because she didn't buy them but received them as tips. And scratch-off tickets typically return 40%-50% less than they cost, on average.
The worst part of this is that the lottery winnings weren't an exorbitant amount and if the patron does file a lawsuit, the bartender could actually lose money in legal fees.
Despite what 80’s movies may tell you, repeatedly asking someone out in the face of “no” is not only not romantic and usually creepy but also sometimes sexual harassment.
Isn't asking someone out always considered sexual harassment? Unless it's someone you already know, of course.
@@toshineon, no. By law and most corporate policies, it doesn’t become harassment until you ask repeatedly after they’ve told you they’re not interested and/or asked you to stop. It’s not illegal to ask someone out (though some corporate policies don’t allow intra-office dating to avoid drama and potential harassment accusations), but continuing after someone has made it clear they are not interested crosses into harassment. If someone changes their mind, they’ll let you know.
Suing over the winning just highlights the real reason for tipping lottery tickets: a $5 scratcher is cheaper than a $10 tip, but they can *act* like it's more generous because there's a slight chance that you'll win significantly more. "That might be half a million bucks right there, so remember where it came from if you win, heh heh."
Waitress should countersue for all the times the scratcher was a dud!
@@DT-dc4br she should go a step further and sue him for sexual harassment.
And because they have a gambling issue, they convince themselves everyone else thinks they have a chance to win.
It is ridiculous for someone to tip with a scratch card or lottery ticket. It's essentially a non-tip and a screw you to the waiter (especially in the US, where wait staff depend on tips to make decent wages). The chance of winning is tiny, so you might as well be tipping with a blank piece of paper. And judging by the reaction of the patron to the waitress winning (a few thousand dollars, as I understand it), he never actually expected her to win anything.
Every time I hear the phrase "on retainer" I just imagine a law firm that also doubles as an orthodontics clinic.
Same!
I’m a 1L right now and this channel makes me feel like I’m doing so well when I recognize some of the legal terms ☺️
Tangentially, thanks for standing up for all the service folks (usually women) who get hit on by customers. You are spot-on, and I appreciate you saying this.
I have had waiters specifically have to write their number down or tell me they're hitting on me because I refuse to believe a waitress or customer rep was hitting on me lol
@OhioStateTexan that would’ve been epic to watch her beat the crap outta that perv. She sounds like an super cool person
@Dorothy Young I could not agree more! It is a scourge in our culture, not just for service people but for women everywhere, that these UTTER PATHETIC LOSERS will not leave them alone & let them walk the streets safely & in peace! Damn it!
I feel keeping tipping fosters the toxic culture those wholes live in. No dude, just because the young female server smiled at your dumb dad joke doesn't mean she wants you. It means she's trying to make this months rent/car payment/Rx. I'm sure if she's interested, **she'd let you know**.
I feel so gross hanging around guys that are like that (hanging around by outside force not by choice). I've made comments back trying to show them they were the problem not the woman/customer service person. I'd say more as a patron if I wasn't a short disabled dude.
@@neondeath07 That's a good point, actually. Leaving tips may seem like an unspoken agreement between patron and server (solely to the patron). I've already seen one commenter here saying the tip is meant to be a bribe to ensure good service, if that were the case than it would happen *before* the service was given, not after.
It's *suppose* to be gratuity, as in "thanks for doing the thing! Here's the voluntarily offered real value of the service!". Now it's in some sort of limbo where it's treated as a required part of the transaction by the manager, as a necessity by the server, and optional by the patron. And now I have to consider it as a potential bribe to the server for "extra services".
I hate people. I just give 20% and leave as clean and tidy a table as possible.
It's a tip. How does he think he's owed anything?
Would he ask for his change from a tip a week after giving a dollar?
Jusging from his actions as it is, it wouldn't surprise me if he did.
He wouldnt tip a dollar in the first place so no
We should split your interest earnings 50/50
@@ichijofestival2576 Sucks for the guy, cuz definition of gift is "a thing given willingly to someone without payment; a present."
@@Scampcam I’m glad he didn’t get it. He obviously didn’t deserve it.
Allowing people to sue anyone for any reason is a burden to the court system, and to the defendant, this is a money racket by lawyers, despicable.
It's America, what else do you expect?
Lol tipping with a lottery ticket, so basically his intention was to not tip at all because most lottery tickets are worthless
The story is double-anger-inducing - first, he stiffing the waitress for tips for years, which is a dick move in itself, and then sues her for winning from a ticket she owns. An unstoppable meme...
On top of being a total creep for the entire time. Calling up to get her work schedule, even knowing she wasn't interested after being turned down repeatedly? Knowing she couldn't avoid him if he came on during her shift? Doesn't matter that he was 40 years older or not. NONE OF THIS IS OK.
@@victoriashevlin8587 anddd thats why I hate men
If she didn't quit that terrible job, he'd stiff her forever until she quit or he died.
@@eddie9753 not all guys are like that ya know.
@@kylejohnson3889 not shit but men predominantly do this type of predatory behavior, we live in a society that allows this. I don’t literally hate all men
"We recommend a 20% tip."
"I brought Schrodinger's Cat."
I say 50/50
"but I brought Schrodinger's Cat but I sealed the box really well so the cats probably dead of asphyxiation anyway"
"Turns out the cat is alive, I'll take half"
50/50 odds? I’ll take that over a scratch ticket!
@@haroon420 If you don't open the box you win by default.
I went to Bingo for the first time with a friend of mine. Before it started we agreed that if one of us won more than $200 we would split it. On the second game I won $175 she was happy for me and said "Damn I just missed out". As soon as I got paid I handed her $85 she was so happy. Even the best of friends wear out if not treated well.
The parts about emails reminds me of when my wife did a website for a lawyer a couple years ago. He demanded more work than agreed for without paying his invoice so she turned over what was done and refused to work. For Christmas he sent us un-notarized (and un-filed) small claims form making it look like he was suing us. I offered to finish the work for him for free as a generous customer service offer. He replied by sending another un-notarized and un-filed small claims form raised to the max amount (double what he’d paid for the website). I wrote him back pointing out that he had forgotten to file the suit and asked for him to send a copy of the contract with the breaches highlighted so we could make him whole. Except I knew there was no written contract for him to point out the breaches. We never heard from him again.
The thing I'm learning today is that apparently some people think it's okay to tip people with lottery tickets like that's a normal thing to do
tipping is not a normal thing to do(never happens)let alone tipping a lottery.
@@nikos4677 In the U.S. you always tip the servers in the restaurant, they don't usually make minimum wage so tips help them make some more money, it's about 10% sometimes less if the service isn't that great.
@@ArtemisTaurus i highly doubt that because its illegal and you imply that most employers are violating the law which cleary doesnt happen
@@nikos4677 In my state people tip the wait staff all the time.
@@nikos4677 They do have that weird system out there where in federal law at least tipped employees have a lower minimum wage as exception. Something stupid like $2 per hour if I'm not mistaken, I do hope there are states out there overriding this federal minimum with a more sane amount closer to the normal minimum wage.
"don't mistake their professional courtesy for genuine interest" THANK YOU. As someone who's worked a customer service job and has been hit on while on the clock by customers, this statement is so true! Whether it's a bartender, cashier, waitress, etc, it's literally our job to be nice. Don't think that just because we are being nice and laughing at a joke that probably isn't all that funny we are interested in you.
not that its an excuse, but the alienation inherent in modern society means the two are very often confused.
@@marlond5579 It should be common sense though. A person working any customer service job is going to be nice (for the most part) because that is literally part of their job description. You should never interpret it as romantic.
@Yusuf Sanane um repeated unwanted advances Is called sexual harassment, which if you are somehow to dumb to know is a bad thing
@Yusuf Sanane Congratulations on outing yourself as most likely an incel.
@Yusuf Sanane No. This kind of behavior shouldn't accepted at work. I had unwanted advances from a female manager, regardless of the fact that she wasn't my type, since she's my manager she have power over me and this is unacceptable in a work environment.
Yeah, I had that problem too.
Now I only tip in expired tickets.
Dang you LegalEagle, today i'm watching NCIS and I find myself wondering why the defense attorney is in the well, and why the attorney's cross examination sounds like a closing statement. Well done.
“This is what we call in the legal profession a total -- move.”
Ah, now I can go to all of my friends and pretend I’m a lawyer
Why do i see you everywhere
With the addition of a Rick & Morty reference
😅😂🤣‼️‼️
“Objection, your honour!”
“On what grounds?”
“It’s a dick move.”
@@crashandsideburns
Judge: "Sustained!"
Opposing council: "But your honor-"
Judge: "I said SUSTAINED! One more word out of you and I'll hold you in contempt."
Opposing council: "That would be a dick move."
LegalEagle: Don’t take legal advice from free internet sources
Me (watching a free video that talks about law): Mhhh the irony
Well unlike Reddit, he is a real lawyer
@@doomedbringer and lawyers have never given bad legal advice ever
@@S1ipperyJim better then the average idiot
He also specifically says that this isn't legal advice.
@@devinpm true, but hes also a someone who actually understands the law more then people who would actually believe the myth that if you ask an undercover cop if they are a cop they have to say yes
3:44 DUDE I had to pause and read that tl;dr cause it's too funny
Wow. I'm grateful that Europe has strict laws on the sharing of someone's personal data.
So give someone no tip for months, then when you accidentally leave a $10k you demand half of it or threaten to sue them causing them to spend the entire amount on lawyers and keep nothing.
Cool guy.
While trying to date her😂
That’ll convince her to go out with him!
They could end up with a date in court.
Well I'd say the guy was expecting the winning card story would have a "happy ending" or a date at least.
This is why I just tip $10M instead of a cheap lottery ticket.
Same
I'd just be like 'yeah fine sue me. I'm gonna drag this out for years while the legal fees mount up that I can now very much afford thanks to the lottery winnings. How about you?'
This kind of reminds me of my old job where everyone would pool money together to buy lottery tickets. Only the way they did it, it was $1 per share. So if you put in $2 while everyone else put in $1 each, then your share of the winnings would have been twice as much as everyone else's. A few of the more competitive (and dumb) employees would always ultimately put in more money in order to one-up each other. I think one time a guy put in over $20, just to make sure that his share would be the biggest. Of course we never won, but if we did, bitter lawsuits flying left and right from that group would have been an absolute certainty.
Expected a video about how absurd and completely unreasonable it was to expect someone to return a gift, saw a video on how ridiculously nonsensical the American legal system is... Just to point out, if a manager anywhere in EU shared employee's private email address with a customer, they would be in several layers of legal hell.
Yep. Completely ridiculous how an employer giving out your email address when you clearly don't want to is not seen as an outrageous action. You give them your email work not for other uses.
@@TenaciousToucan pretty much. My guess is that the employer did that to avoid having to deal with a lawsuit themselves.
@Philip L Tite I believe in the US you're most likely to win with the sexual harassment claim, it should be relatively easily to have people corroborate that that guy was always asking out the server, proving a pattern a previous rejected advances.
That’s crazy! Who tips with a lottery ticket!? If you do, stop doing that and just give cash instead, it saves you the trouble of buying a lottery ticket that you aren’t gonna keep
Lottery ticket is probably cheaper than the tip he should have given
@@MuttFitness This is really why these sorts of folks do it.
It's tipping cheap but feeling better about himself for the fighting chance the ticket might be a winning one, 'xept if it is he'll come back for it.
What's the psychology here? It's as interesting to study as the legal implications.
Is that just a US thing? Does someone know more? I’ve never heard of tipping with lottery tickets and wanted to find out more about this hilariously dumb practice , but google just gives me articles from *cough* quality news outlets titled „bartender wins “
@@paulsieben9718 it's a jerk thing
I love his smooth advertising transitions. I listen to them just because of that.
America is a strange place.
The idea of an employer giving an employee's email to a customer here would be unthinkable.
I'm American and I myself wouldn't find this acceptable. Most Americans wouldn't.
Not that she ever would have gone out with this tool, but leaving lottery tickets instead of money certainly didn't help his case. Jeez!
Eh it depends. I don't like getting tipped in lottery tickets either but the main reason I don't is because we always pool our tips in house and if there's lottery tickets involved we tend to just ignore them and treat them as worthless. If one of us did get tipped a big winner like this it would be so tricky to figure out how that would be shared or if it should even be shared at all.
So the main reason I don't like lottery ticket tips is because they needlessly complicate our in house pooling system which otherwise works fine.
@@ktvindicare Like he said in the video, pooled tips can really complicate the lottery thing. Probably best to have a written policy about it, in the unlikely event something like this happens :)
@@ejonp Yea I know. The point is, if i was working in an unpooled environment like it sounds like this bartender was then I'd probably me more ok with them. Still wouldn't prefer them but still.
I like the idea of a pooled house anyway, it's much more fair to everyone so I always look to work at spots that pool tips in the first place.
@Patrick J Mims The place I worked at had 5-8 bartenders working over the course of a busy Friday or Saturday. 2 openers 3 closers 2-3 swing shift bartenders. Slower nights like Mondays would have usually 4 people on. 2 openers 2 closers.
For us it only made sense to pool tips. We worked the entire bar, did our own barbacking, ran our own food, opened and closed the place ourselves. There was never any animosity about who was going to serve customers and who was going to rack glassware because it was the shared role we all had.
In other restaurants. The bartender gets tipped out from the servers because a large part of the bill ends up being from the bar and requires the bartender's time and energy to work.
Pooled tips, also reduces animosity between staff members over which shifts they get. If I'm opening the bar, I'm going to make sure the closing shift has everything they need because the more money they make the more I make.
Having worked in this environment for as many years as I did, I love it. It makes for a more enjoyable work atmosphere, the bar runs better because people arent sacrificing their coworkers to chase a tip and it makes the customers happier because they get better service as well.
@Patrick J Mims It depend on the restaurant. If there are busboy working & cleaning your table just so you, the waitress can get more costumer it would be unfair to not share tips with them. After all they're cleaning your table which give you more time to serve more table/costumers and thus get more tips.
There's also the point ktvindicare bring. Sharing tips in this instance mean the opening shift will help the closing shift so both can get better tips.
Personally I don't like the tipping tradition we have here in North America for various reason.
The most disturbing part about this is the "probably about forty years my senior". As she is a bartender and just finishing school (most likely talking about college) I would assume she is in her 20's and that would make him in his 60's.....yeah, very creepy. And judging by the way he interacts with her a bit stalker-ish too.
Do not agree that age has much to do with it -- same behavior from a younger man is not just creepy but scarier
I do hope that by "school" she means college; otherwise the creepy guy has MUCH more to worry about than the scratch ticket winnings...
@@vaiapatta8313 No, she works in a bar and is in grade school. Doofus
@@pas9ify I obviously meant she could be 17 and finishing high school... not finishing grade school... the level of intelligence around here...
@@vaiapatta8313 1) high school is considered grade school and 2) yea a 17 year old is working in a bar. doofus
You sneaking in a Rick & Morty reference is another one of the multitude of reasons why I trust your input and keep coming back for more.
This is very interesting. I’ve looked at law school or reading the law as I am in WA. Thanks. Love this channel.
Reminds me of that dude who decided to pay his employees in bitcoin, then once he realized those bitcoins had multiplied in value tried to demand them back and give the employees an amount of money equal to the bitcoins original value instead.
Why was this dude paying his employers?
@@seansmagee Because E and R are next to each other on the keyboard and my hand coordination is shit.
@@Colopty 😂😂😂
@@Colopty that will do it
lesson learned, if you receive a tip, accept it an never talk about the tip and subsequent uses of such tips. This is a case of saying to much to the wrong person gets you in legal trouble.
That is true if you suddenly gain a large sum of money by any means. If you win big on the lottery then stay silent, anonymous and hire a lawyer as quickly as you can without alerting anyone or it will ruin/destroy/kill you, your relationships and all the ones you care for...
@@CuulX this is why I don't participate in lotteries. Well, I mean, besides it being a complete farce and waste of money.
Yeah.. any sum of money.. silence is golden after all.. what i used to hear is when people announce their big sum on their pension.. well, it never ended well for the big talker..
"it's also the same in bird culture" lmfaooo
Once worked in a coffee shop where the hot new worker got asked out by a customer, she rejected him. Advice: don't ask someone who works at a coffee shop if they want to go out for coffee. She dead ass turned and said "why would I go out for coffee when I spent the majority of my day in a coffee shop?!".
Bonus: don't ask someone out at a drive-thru, we're hella too busy to answer questions like that.
Wait, the Article says kidnapping. Are we not gonna talk about the kidnapping?
Apparently, her ex-husband kidnapped her and she ended up shooting him.
Wuttt
Kidnapping and lottery wins are not new, it’s actually quite disturbingly common
This is about as reasonable as demanding a regular cash tip back after the server has spent it on a car payment. Not happening buddy.
"He was Brent from The Good Place" she couldn't have been more efficient in helping me visualize this man.
I legit got the whole picture in that sentence.
Sounds like a good idea is to never tip a lottery ticket because you’re either stiffing them or WAY overpaying.
Objection: Winning a meritless case by default seems like a really stupid law.
Welcome to the legal system, where pontification is more important than human life...
I believe it is *possible* for a judge to dismiss a meritless case even the f the defendant fails to present a defense -- but it's much less likely.
not really
I think it's theoretically possible for the judge to dismiss it themselves, but without a defense explaining why the suit is nonsense, it's far less likely to happen.
@@hiimjustin8826 what do you mean not really? It's absolutely insane to think that someone can win a MERITLESS lawsuit just because the other person didn't feel the need to defend themselves against said MERITLESS lawsuit. Again key here is MERITLESS meaning there's no legitimate basis for the lawsuit. Meaning if you win said lawsuit that's just insane because you have no basis for your claim.
What I got out of this: NEVER join a lottery pool.
And if you do, put it on paper
You can but make sure to write who is involved
@@ceoatcrystalsoft4942 Nope, you make sure you're the one buying the tickets and ready to do a runner...he got 18m the rest of the group got a share of 20m 😲
Maybe don´t do the lottery. It´s called a tax on those who are bad at math for a reason.
@@robertjarman3703 That makes sense on a very superficial level, but the lottery is not based on maths alone, but also on psychology and situation. The main purchasers of lottery tickets are those caught in the poverty trap (where saving is penalized but winning a large lump sum would get you out).
The second largest purchaser is syndicates which plays on the fear of being left out. The UK's 'Postcode Lottery' literally bases its entire model on this. How would you feel if everyone in your street or everyone in your workplace won a lump sum and you were the only one with nothing to celebrate? For a few quid you can ensure you can prevent exclusion in that unlikely, but possible, event.
The law should make it that the person representing a merit less case is liable for the sanction. (and sanctions should happen every time)
This would lessen the amount of meritless cases being brought.
Either no lawyer will touch it, and you represent yourself and are liable for the sanction, or the case has merit
I actually kind of really like your stuff, the way you present the legality of situations is nice.
I was able to win the nation lottery game with the help of a great Spell caster called doctor Osagie on TH-cam
First, tipping or gifting lottery tickets is a terrible practice. I would rather you give me the dollar you spent on it because the vast majority of the time you've given me a worthless scrap of paper.
Second, if you tip someone with cash and they invest that cash into the stock market or a business venture or purchasing their own lotto ticket would the tipper have legal right to any profit from said investment? The answering being obviously no, tipping with a lotto ticket would likewise have no legal right to any profit said ticket might produce.
This lawsuit should be dismissed with prejudice and the person filing it, if accurately described, deserves...well, I'll plead the Fifth on that part.
"Sanctions"
First, tipping -or gifting lottery tickets- is a terrible practice.
FTFY.
I totally agree with you on that! I never would tip a lottery ticket! I would hate to have a winning ticket and give it away... but I'm not stupid enough to think that a gift should entitle me to something that they got from the gift!
They tip tickets because they are about 1 through like 5 dollars so it is a cheaper than a regular tip
@@Werrf1 we're in the system together, so individuals not tipping only causes the servers to suffer.
Well, that's the US. In Europe, email adresses are considered personal data, which may not be shared.
Every day I find more and more reasons to move to Europe.
@@yukikitsune7366 Maybe you are not alone in these, the tickets at 12:06 are from Germany. :-)
@@Fley1965 Yup, even though I think that we sometimes overshoot the marks for protecting data by quite a bit (especially Germany), I'm still glad that it is such a well regulated topic
GDPR?
@@awrebyawe General Data Protection Regulation
I love his creative segues into talking about the sponsors. 😂🤣