I am 22 and can I just say how this has opened my eyes or have given a spark. I have started off to struggle my productivity to pray, making my screentime as a useful tool to make things go faster in life, and surround myself with people that wont benefit me in moving forward inlife. I have recently got the motivation to start praying a salaah per day , as well as reciting the quraan, while slowly progressing myself to extend my time to move forward.
It's clear when you speak how the power in your words is something you've experienced for yourself and I really love hearing you talk about these things because I know you believe in them yourself. Like witnessing your faith strengthens mine and I just feel like the way you portray these ideas lands in the exact right way to really make an impact on me
Bahja is 100% right! I let myself always feel all the emotions I don’t ignore them. I have found that it helps me so much and also for those of you who haven’t tasted the sweetness of the reward yet, let me just say you keep saying your Astaghfar continuously see your problems get solved so much easily Alhamdulillah!♥️ Bahja is right too I also feel the same way that I’m happy my Dua didn’t get accepted and I received my answer ( the sweetness of waiting praying for it). It’s worth every day get up tell yourself you can do it 👏🏼 As always JazakAllah Bahja!!! Another great Treasure you advised.
The thing about moses (peace be upon him)'s story/journey that caught my attention as well is how Allah (subhanah) told him to throw the staff that was useful to him (what he preceives as good), then turned it into a serpent (something he would consider as harmful) and asked him to pick it up. This for me is Iman and Tawakul and trust in Allah : when the creator of all things wants us to have faith in him no matter what we may preceive as right and useful when in reality only Allah subhanah knows whats actually good or bad for you. And I for one beleive whole heartidly that Allah Ar7am Ara7imin would NEVER want bad things for me (no matter the hardships/tests he puts me through as this is sunnah al hayat : the way of life = it's continuous tests untill we return to him inchallah).
@@BahjaAbdi thank you so much sweetie ! it means sooo much coming from you 😘 Please keep up the good work. I always look forward to your insight. You deliver every positive message so beautifully and while praising Allah, I always look up to you honestly 💖 May Allah Bless you too ! PS: You're like a fixed part of my gratefulness prayer at this point 😅 I swear it feels like Allah sent you as a blessing 🙏
I love listening to you speak, your voice, your wisdom...I am so happy to be here, I'm your huge fan. Thank you so much for your hard work! Your channel gives me so much knowledge.
I definitely need to hear this!!! It is so easy for these problems to feel like an attack on your character when it isn't and I need to change my mindset
Mashallah so proud of you girl💕honestly needed to hear this at the right time . Everything going wrong in all directions in my life, Alhamdulillah always and this gives me hope . Thank you so much Bahja you never disappoint and may allah swt grant you abundant blessings for sharing your knowledge ❤🥹
Mashallah Abaayo, thank you for your kind words & the motivation. May Allah bless you with everything in life & hereafter! I’m starting my TH-cam channel and I’ve been so scared for a long time but this helps so thank you! ❤
Salam, Bahja, excellent talk as usual. I was wondering if u could make a video on how to cope being single in ur late 20s. The anxiety that comes with u not being married whilst all ur friends r getting married and also the fear of never finding a person for you and also if you should lower your standard if you are not able to find a person who you genuinely like. I have been watching you for a while and I really love your thoughts nd videos. Lots of love❤️
Don't ever feel pressured to settle Sis. And never agree to get married unless you feel okay with becoming a Mother. Sometimes these things can happen so so fast for girlies, who think they took every precaution :) The man Allah has for you cannot go to anyone else :) Remember? Because a Spouse is ideally for life. He should bring you peace. And vice versa. Too many heartbreaks happen after pretty weddings. In your 20s, I would say Sisters don't even know the value & power they hold over the many options available. Boost your own self esteem. Take yourself out on solo dates. Fill the void & romanticise being totally single. Every married woman I know misses it so much, even if they married in their late 20s/early/mid 30s. Being single is also a huge blessing from Allah. Make a list. Dealbreakers & qualities. And pray hard, including Isthikhaara. Keep working on yourself too, to match someone with that quality ie don't wait till marriage to pray tahaajjud/recite with tajweed & qiraat. Be that girlie now :) Keep considering people, but remember you alone will have to live within that family & with that Spouse after Nikaah. Yet it only takes about 20/30 mins for both of you to sign & accept x
Girl listening to you was like a heaven 😊 everything u have talk about was eye opening, im mum and wife and I been though so much with my marriage and everything that comes with it but im struggling to feel happy and deep down i feel sad cuz i dont know how to express myself to others nd when I do they misunderstand so I always keep to myself but i want to make my struggle to a opportunity so help
I wholeheartedly agree and LIVE by the fact that it is framing the way I view things in my life that affects how I feel and navigate through things. Its the perspective and not the situation alone. Also If you have Allah then you know you are good!
Hi Bahja ! Thank you so much for this video and all that you have done for us to help us grow and wake up to our potential. Could you make a video about how to start our own business ? This is something I really aspire to do but I am still in high school and I have no idea where to start. God bless you
Wow, what an incredibly insightful and empowering video! 🌟 It's so easy to get bogged down by life's challenges, but this video reminded me that every problem is an opportunity in disguise. The practical tips shared here are truly invaluable - I'm already feeling inspired to approach my obstacles with a newfound sense of optimism and determination. Thank you for creating and sharing this gem of wisdom! Also, are you planning on a sale for your program "Rewrite your story" please ? :))
Hey Bahja Abdi, really nice video ! I was wondering if I could help you with Best Quality Editing in your videos better than your Editor with good pricing and also make a highly engaging Thumbnail which will help your videos to reach to a wider audience ? Pls let me know what do you think ?
ALL EYES ON RAFAH!!
May Allah protect the people of Palestine 🇵🇸
I am 22 and can I just say how this has opened my eyes or have given a spark. I have started off to struggle my productivity to pray, making my screentime as a useful tool to make things go faster in life, and surround myself with people that wont benefit me in moving forward inlife. I have recently got the motivation to start praying a salaah per day , as well as reciting the quraan, while slowly progressing myself to extend my time to move forward.
Bahja: truly one of the most beautiful humans I’ve seen mA
It's clear when you speak how the power in your words is something you've experienced for yourself and I really love hearing you talk about these things because I know you believe in them yourself. Like witnessing your faith strengthens mine and I just feel like the way you portray these ideas lands in the exact right way to really make an impact on me
Bahja is 100% right! I let myself always feel all the emotions I don’t ignore them. I have found that it helps me so much and also for those of you who haven’t tasted the sweetness of the reward yet, let me just say you keep saying your Astaghfar continuously see your problems get solved so much easily Alhamdulillah!♥️ Bahja is right too I also feel the same way that I’m happy my Dua didn’t get accepted and I received my answer ( the sweetness of waiting praying for it). It’s worth every day get up tell yourself you can do it 👏🏼 As always JazakAllah Bahja!!! Another great Treasure you advised.
For any readers out there there’s a book, “The Obstacle is the Way” by Ryan Holiday. Really helpful with this topic Bahja talks about
IVE BEEN MEANING TO READ THAT!! Thank you for the recommendations 🥹🤍
It’s 1.00 AM and I’m just happy to be here🥹
Same girl same
Same
The thing about moses (peace be upon him)'s story/journey that caught my attention as well is how Allah (subhanah) told him to throw the staff that was useful to him (what he preceives as good), then turned it into a serpent (something he would consider as harmful) and asked him to pick it up.
This for me is Iman and Tawakul and trust in Allah : when the creator of all things wants us to have faith in him no matter what we may preceive as right and useful when in reality only Allah subhanah knows whats actually good or bad for you.
And I for one beleive whole heartidly that Allah Ar7am Ara7imin would NEVER want bad things for me (no matter the hardships/tests he puts me through as this is sunnah al hayat : the way of life = it's continuous tests untill we return to him inchallah).
Yes!! Subhanallah, thank you for sharing this with us! What a beautiful way to think about it 🥹🤍 may Allah bless you!
@@BahjaAbdi thank you so much sweetie ! it means sooo much coming from you 😘
Please keep up the good work. I always look forward to your insight. You deliver every positive message so beautifully and while praising Allah, I always look up to you honestly 💖
May Allah Bless you too !
PS: You're like a fixed part of my gratefulness prayer at this point 😅
I swear it feels like Allah sent you as a blessing 🙏
I love listening to you speak, your voice, your wisdom...I am so happy to be here, I'm your huge fan. Thank you so much for your hard work! Your channel gives me so much knowledge.
Needed this baaad. Thank you!!! I aspire to be like you and inshallah one day I will inspire girls the same way you do ❤
I definitely need to hear this!!! It is so easy for these problems to feel like an attack on your character when it isn't and I need to change my mindset
BAHJAAAAA UR ALMOST AT 200K ALLAHUMA BAARIK ❤❤❤
🥹 the fact that your excited for me makes me want to cry!!! I love you bestie 🥹🤍
Perfect timing, you honestly don’t know how much this video has helped me rn thank you sis ❤️
I love you Bahja! 💕 thank you for sharing your wisdom. God bless you
Mashallah so proud of you girl💕honestly needed to hear this at the right time . Everything going wrong in all directions in my life, Alhamdulillah always and this gives me hope . Thank you so much Bahja you never disappoint and may allah swt grant you abundant blessings for sharing your knowledge ❤🥹
bahja is literally a angel descended from heaven no one can convince me otherwise 🥺
🥹 your so kind
Yay Bahja posted how are you doing queen and thank you so much for this video. ❤
Mashallah Abaayo, thank you for your kind words & the motivation. May Allah bless you with everything in life & hereafter! I’m starting my TH-cam channel and I’ve been so scared for a long time but this helps so thank you! ❤
Allahumma ameen!!! I'm so happy for you, I pray for your success 🥹🤍
Salam, Bahja, excellent talk as usual. I was wondering if u could make a video on how to cope being single in ur late 20s. The anxiety that comes with u not being married whilst all ur friends r getting married and also the fear of never finding a person for you and also if you should lower your standard if you are not able to find a person who you genuinely like. I have been watching you for a while and I really love your thoughts nd videos. Lots of love❤️
Don't ever feel pressured to settle Sis. And never agree to get married unless you feel okay with becoming a Mother. Sometimes these things can happen so so fast for girlies, who think they took every precaution :)
The man Allah has for you cannot go to anyone else :) Remember? Because a Spouse is ideally for life. He should bring you peace. And vice versa. Too many heartbreaks happen after pretty weddings.
In your 20s, I would say Sisters don't even know the value & power they hold over the many options available. Boost your own self esteem. Take yourself out on solo dates. Fill the void & romanticise being totally single. Every married woman I know misses it so much, even if they married in their late 20s/early/mid 30s. Being single is also a huge blessing from Allah.
Make a list. Dealbreakers & qualities. And pray hard, including Isthikhaara. Keep working on yourself too, to match someone with that quality ie don't wait till marriage to pray tahaajjud/recite with tajweed & qiraat. Be that girlie now :)
Keep considering people, but remember you alone will have to live within that family & with that Spouse after Nikaah. Yet it only takes about 20/30 mins for both of you to sign & accept x
Ahh the way you word and made me feel and understand what you are talking about! MashAllah this is what I needed to hear ! Thank you ❤
ur videos always come at the right time, allahuma barik🥺❤️❤️
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Girl listening to you was like a heaven 😊 everything u have talk about was eye opening, im mum and wife and I been though so much with my marriage and everything that comes with it but im struggling to feel happy and deep down i feel sad cuz i dont know how to express myself to others nd when I do they misunderstand so I always keep to myself but i want to make my struggle to a opportunity so help
Thank you Queen ❤
I wholeheartedly agree and LIVE by the fact that it is framing the way I view things in my life that affects how I feel and navigate through things. Its the perspective and not the situation alone. Also If you have Allah then you know you are good!
❤❤❤, this topic made me subscribe
ahhhh welcome 🥹🤍
Thank you so much for your beautiful words sister Bahja 🩵🤍 May Allah SWT reward you for inspiring the people
Allahumma ameen 🥹🤍
God bless you mashaaaaalllaaahhh 😍😍
this video came at the right time 🫶🏽💕
Yayyy I'm so glad 🤍🤍🤍
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Thankyouuu❤ mashallah ILY
Love Love LOVE!! Allahumma Barik
Yes, with hardship comes easy.
Thank you so much ❤ this is exactly what I needed
Hi Bahja ! Thank you so much for this video and all that you have done for us to help us grow and wake up to our potential. Could you make a video about how to start our own business ? This is something I really aspire to do but I am still in high school and I have no idea where to start. God bless you
Thank you for this video sis
Wow, what an incredibly insightful and empowering video! 🌟 It's so easy to get bogged down by life's challenges, but this video reminded me that every problem is an opportunity in disguise. The practical tips shared here are truly invaluable - I'm already feeling inspired to approach my obstacles with a newfound sense of optimism and determination. Thank you for creating and sharing this gem of wisdom!
Also, are you planning on a sale for your program "Rewrite your story" please ? :))
The background is so cute and different
Mash'ALLAH, interesting
Hi Bahja
Please do you have a podcast?
It's coming 🤍
you are my safe place
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Hey Bahja Abdi, really nice video ! I was wondering if I could help you with Best Quality Editing in your videos better than your Editor with good pricing and also make a highly engaging Thumbnail which will help your videos to reach to a wider audience ? Pls let me know what do you think ?
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Needed to hear this reminder❤️🫶🏼🥹
Thank you for this! 🥹🙏🏼
Thank you so much Bahja. You have helped me grow so much 🥹💕
Thank you Bahja 🤍
Girl thank you so much, this was very much needed🥺 lots of loveeee🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾