The Magic of A Real Marriage - Rabbi Manis Friedman and Dr. Laurie Betito

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  • @lizdelisle1912
    @lizdelisle1912 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The only time I feel lonely is when I’m around people. Never lonely with my pets!

  • @amyaias.alagoa
    @amyaias.alagoa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Marriage means we already have the love, now I want you!
    Rabbi Manis Friedman

  • @judykeeler5051
    @judykeeler5051 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Manis, you are a treasure.

  • @rivkier7214
    @rivkier7214 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My husband and marauding was a gift from hashem to me it’s better than any fairytale and way better than I expected

    • @Y1836Y
      @Y1836Y ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Marauding? Did your auto-incorrect change your word?

  • @yearight1205
    @yearight1205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I wish I could find a woman who listens to the teaching of this Rabbi.

    • @MariaElena51185
      @MariaElena51185 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you found her yet? If you wanted this for yourself then you have found her

    • @PianoMessage
      @PianoMessage 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Trying to get my wife to listen to this amazing Rabbi on the topic or marriage... still waiting.

  • @VanessaOoms
    @VanessaOoms 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Such a great conversation! We aren't taught how to cultivate intimacy in our relationships and it's such a shame.

    • @katainz
      @katainz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its what I wanted alot of , but all this social media, porn and phones has taken alof of men away

    • @MariaElena51185
      @MariaElena51185 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@katainz feminism was actually launched by the CIA via Gloria Steinem in order to break up marriages and families.

  • @pennyjohoc
    @pennyjohoc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Well I miss my husband vary much, but I couldn't compete with alcohol, I tried for 38 years, so I am alone on earth but I turn to God a lot to fill my void

  • @igorthebilderdavidov2395
    @igorthebilderdavidov2395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wish the woman never interrupted

  • @rondanatan6198
    @rondanatan6198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So beautifully said Rabbi.

  • @judykeeler5051
    @judykeeler5051 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes he is married with many children. I studied with him in Minnesota in the 90’s.

  • @Y1836Y
    @Y1836Y ปีที่แล้ว

    Terrific discussion.

  • @katainz
    @katainz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I loved my husband alot, but he left me and our four kids for his co worker and has no regrets and is happier with her and not seeing kids much . men suck lol all sucked in to social media bla bla takes them awy from real world. I left all social media and my life is SOOO much better for it and my kids life too. I love the wisdom from Rabbi Manis, he is sooooo cool to hear and sometimes it sucks what he says but its gods truth and thats the final word, so work on getting better from there !!! xxxx

    • @Thelittleclipstore
      @Thelittleclipstore 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If ur hubs is truly happier with someone else then he’s obviously not urs meant to be.. there’s someone more compatible for u out there.

  • @moilyas2817
    @moilyas2817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why we love him, because he is love👍🕊️♥️🕊️

  • @lizgichora6472
    @lizgichora6472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you, this is Excellent. ( Ebbing and flowing of marriage) has nothing to do with lust.

  • @The_Only_Jamelia
    @The_Only_Jamelia 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hope my future husband is watching yoúr videos

  • @janatnalwoga
    @janatnalwoga 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is good

  • @nhartigan72
    @nhartigan72 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think some of the fantasy relationship can come true, but one needs to seek the partner whom the lord chooses for them. He knows what's best & has a way of adding magic.

    • @Thelittleclipstore
      @Thelittleclipstore 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The goal is that our desires align with gods desire, so the more we know ourselves , trust our intuition we start seeing and feeling what’s right for us..

  • @chanisurajchman8902
    @chanisurajchman8902 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You can constantly work on gratification and keep that love and appreciation alive and warm .

  • @sarashemesh8179
    @sarashemesh8179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When you don't have privacy then you don't have intimacy.
    With all the cameras everywhere around today this might make you feel paranoid.
    Intimacy is also expressing yourself and first allowing yourself to feel and express what's happenning to you.🥰

  • @coleenkohl634
    @coleenkohl634 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I miss my husband horribly. Heart attack eight years ago. No children.

    • @coleenkohl634
      @coleenkohl634 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      We were married 26 years when Mark passed away.

    • @weeklydaily4775
      @weeklydaily4775 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@coleenkohl634 so sorry about that.

    • @coleenkohl634
      @coleenkohl634 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your condolence.

    • @katainz
      @katainz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sorry to hear, god bless you xxx

  • @RobertfSullivan
    @RobertfSullivan 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    RFS Israel,

  • @87ladylala
    @87ladylala 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rabbi are you married

  • @libertyloveslife5602
    @libertyloveslife5602 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    disney was the worst thing for expectations for a woman in marriage. its not always hard to find the spouse as it is always as hard as it have a great marriage. marriage is hard work

  • @margaretmojica8190
    @margaretmojica8190 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think the magic of a real marriage would be sex, love, companionship. Love is not having a husband who acts like he is living in a boarding house among strangers where everyone lives their own life. Companionship is not having a wife in the same house but paying more attention to the television or the tablet. Companionship is having someone to spend time with so it does not feel just as lonely as when you were single. Sex is something you saved for marriage and then you get married and sex is twice a week, then once a week, then once a month, then once a year and then never and the husband claims he loves you.

  • @airmech5083
    @airmech5083 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Correction Marriage involves 3 parties (husband wife & state) that's polygamy and you need states permission via license to break the law.... Holy matrimony and wedlock is for man and wife in the eyes of God.

  • @BillyJeanIsNotMyMother
    @BillyJeanIsNotMyMother ปีที่แล้ว

    I only gave up my aloneness because I loved my husband. I love quietness, where the only sound you hear is nature. People are chaotic. We're not all built to need that chaos, so I disagree on this point.

  • @lheard6565
    @lheard6565 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Grass ain't greener

  • @briaincampbellmacart6024
    @briaincampbellmacart6024 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Old Norse used to call lust 'love kindling'. I think I prefer that term. 'Lust' is a very loaded term in the 'christian west'. Its a kind of 'sin'. Love kindling leads to love. A much better term 8n my view.

  • @TheShoshie10
    @TheShoshie10 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Billy Joel is a nice Jewish boy from Long Island, NY

  • @yerushalayimkodush5706
    @yerushalayimkodush5706 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes: Weיה אהבה originally purposed, of woman and man being joined / intertwined soul to soul, flesh to flesh two souls covered/wrapped in earth flesh to be one(as One being of two souls) in the marriage union, is for the male and female to be Helping Mates, one with to, &for the other; for generating חיים for human soul propagation, and maintenance; while simultaneously parting loneliness from both; as the two are meant/\decreed not to separate [{through the giving/gifting; and receiving by male, of the gifted trust, the hymen; from her - and the female receiving the males trust held for her, the female, (his testes and their semen) of the male to she] - even while in their daily activities of/by perpetuating the propagation of this live eternally, living garden of Life, with more souls/perpetual life. This design: to protect both human souls simultaneously, through each's soul's attention to its now completed other half's, other's emotional and physiological conditions manifesting in any given eternal instant. (Situations are far less dangerous, and toiling is far less toiling; when two halves are (whole, [together), to watch and aid] where the other is not able, while together; while together).
    ירושלים קודש המשיע, רוח הקודש אהבה יהוה לב אהבה