Observe the three main levels of communication which are (in the order of importance): 1. Body language 2. Eyes 3. Verbal. Verbal is the least important to focus on because in today's world humans will say whatever they feel they need to say in order to get what they want. A persons actions i e eyeballs and body language will ALWAYS tell you what you need to know if you are patient.
C Toomer facts, body language will tell you everything you need to know. Especially when dealing with females, always go by their actions because it speaks louder than their words.
A few times we did what we did and afterwards they tell me they have a boyfriend. Or they still came to me to do whatever but they have a boyfriend. I find it funny. Be smart with women and stay focused on what you do. Men and women belong together regardless but don't forget yourself.
Writer Suli It isn't legally and financially smart to marry a woman anymore. Take that off the table from the start. And let her know you'll only have a child under certain conditions from the start. Her reaction will show you where her head is.
My dad is probably this biggest victim of the bait and switch specifically with my mom. When they met and got married everything was great as he described. But then I was born and he said her entire attitude and demeanor changed as she seemed like a different person. This led to a divorce and my dad finding out she was a closeted homosexual this entire time. And to this day he regrets ever being married to her. That's what I'm trying to avoid, the whole bait and switch.
And when that attitude comes out, it comes out with a vengeance. Straight nasty, because she's pissed she suppressed her true self....even though she chose to do it. Yet she will take it out on you.
That's why when people ask me why I dress this way or drive the car I have I tell them that shit is by design. What I mean by that is basically what you see is what you get. By dressing a certain way or driving a certain type of car is like process of elimination. If a woman likes you ,one of that other b.s. matters.
Smart man Isiah. You think like me. When I go on a dates I keep it as cheap as possible because it lets me see if the woman is really into me. If she is really feeling you she could care less if you take her out for coffee/ ice cream. She is just happy to have your company.
Thanks Pat Johnson. What's interesting about how I found that out was a woman just walked up to me and said she had been eyeing me and saw something in me that she loved and knew very little about me and at the time I had next to nothing because I was still fairly young and unestablished but it didn't matter to her. Oh yeah I forgot to mention she was married. Lol
Maaaaan that physical bait and switch 😂😂😂 I went all the way to Canada 🇨🇦 to see a Ethiopian sister after I met her in philly years back . Maaaaan I was disappointed like a mutha lol .
My ex pulled that shit on me and I knew her for years. She was sweet, kind, respectful, clean, generous, and encouraging. Once we got married tho she became the total opposite of that and even had her kids in on the scheme.
Bless her soul My babymom did this to me as soon as she got some leverage in my life. made my life a living hell. got a vasectomy now and full custody of my kid, never again.
"Race may change but personality don't " - Rom Wills - that's a podcast - A lot of women will be super cooperative than act crazy when they think they turned you out....I know that game they be playing...(push up bra, tummy tuck, butt shapers, butt injections, breast implants, eye lashes" )
I'm thinking about the movie "I'm gonna get you sucka" and the woman made it seem like she was a dime piece and when they got behind closed doors she pulled off everything fake from her hair down to even a leg. Lol
Appreciate the video. My woman sex drive COMPLETELY STOPPED after our second child after she went into serious depression. They told me that that shit is completely NORMAL for a woman to go through after a pregnancy. 15 years later I find out she was molested by men and women in her family. Did that have something to do with her depression, IDK but take your time out here. Just something for you guys to think about if you’re considering starting a family.
I sometimes dress down on purpose wearing tshirt and tracksuit bottoms to scare away the gold digging women. As soon as I got engaged to my ex girlfriend and gave her the engagement ring back in 2006 when I was 24 she started to change for the worst and soon after that the relationship was finished.
I know exactly what you talking about and saying in this video Rom! Not only I've experienced that from women on a relationship level but I've experienced that from women relatives in my family! I noticed how they were cool with me, we'll talk in everything, then all of sudden out of nowhere, they just changed on me and started acting real ugly towards me. Now one of them relative cousins act alright towards me now but I'm still cautious with her, no hard feelings, it just made aware and I know why she changed towards me. Her and my brother are all of sudden so close, she never paid my brother any attention like, before that, me and her were real cool even her ex husband was crazy about me and still is to this day, she even told I've experienced it on both ends along with women outside my family. So now I'm very cautious and leary when it comes to women period! You never know, so I really take time and feel them out, even if she look good with a goddess body, still see where she's really coming from, it may be hard but it'll save you in the long run. What I do when women come at me with that bait and switch, I cut them off instantly and go about business and stay far away from them as possible, some would even pop back up and reach out to me later but I still would avoid them once I found them out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yea. Something similar with ol' girl. Voice was soft and quiet around me. Smiled when I talk. We are not talking now, but now and again I glance at her with her friends( male and female)she seems talkative, outspoken and quite sassy. I thought to myself that's her real self. But from what I've seen, I dont mind that side of her. Why hide it? Lol!
Chick 1 "I told you I was single... but I'm still married but I'm getting a divorce... he also works for the same company as you" and chick 2 "I told you I was single but I'm still married and I got a boyfriend also... " fast fwd year later, I'm moving out on my husband" first woman spanish and second woman white, both 89s
I saw a video with dr umar ... he talked about the shadow self .. this reminds me of that subject... the truth is inevitably regardless of how one plans a head.
Rom, it happened to you too? Lol. In my 20s, I met this fine ass sista in a shopping mall. I Went over to her place and smashed one week later. I tried to arrange a third date and she was like she couldn't because her boyfriend(baby daddy) was coming home from college. She had claimed prior that they were no longer together. I was like oh well since I had a girlfriend but was disappointed that I wouldn't be hitting that on the regular.
I swear you be reading my mind. The point when you said watch how she treat people especially other dudes. Women making that mistake when it comes to guys also thinking they are special. There are women who act normal and classy and when they get comfortable around you, then the ratchet bitch come out.
I was grinning from ear to ear when I saw the title. I knew there was gonna be a great story somewhere in there. And I was laughing my ass when you brought up a few examples as I knew they were the truth. Anyway, I have seen/known a few examples of that happening to men in my circles. I've even had a couple minor incidents myself. Nothing serious though as I was considered non-select or just weird. Still, it taught me a lot. Such as looking at hair color and cleavage with suspicion. Overall, a woman is only looking out for her own best interest(s). As with any other forms of deception the bait and switch is a means to an end. It goes to show that the masked woman comes in various forms. Unfortunately, there men that are thinking with the wrong head and got that ego swollen. In fact, one of the worst case scenarios of the bait and switch would be where the woman isn't really a woman. Talk about a masked woman. Damn! I don't ever wanna play the crying game. As for your story, I'm sure the late Brother Patrice O'Neal could relate to such a scenario. th-cam.com/video/uT9QqXCheZg/w-d-xo.html
Yooo nice to know it even happens to the dudes who are alpha as well. So basically people not being their real selves causes these relationship problems as well?
Observe the three main levels of communication which are (in the order of importance): 1. Body language 2. Eyes 3. Verbal. Verbal is the least important to focus on because in today's world humans will say whatever they feel they need to say in order to get what they want. A persons actions i e eyeballs and body language will ALWAYS tell you what you need to know if you are patient.
Great points.
Boom - you batting 1,000.00
C Toomer facts, body language will tell you everything you need to know. Especially when dealing with females, always go by their actions because it speaks louder than their words.
A few times we did what we did and afterwards they tell me they have a boyfriend. Or they still came to me to do whatever but they have a boyfriend. I find it funny. Be smart with women and stay focused on what you do. Men and women belong together regardless but don't forget yourself.
You're right about being smart.
I remember an episode of the Fresh Prince of Bel Air when Will's character delt with the bait and switch. Everything on that chick was fake! LOL
It's crazy.
Donnelle I remember that episode. Tisha Campbell played the girl in that one.
isaiah parks Yup that's the one.
I remember that lmaoo
Lol where they was stuck in the attic after the Earth qauke 😂😂.
Some women are so good at bait and switch that they won't switch til you're married or got a kid so you can't go nowhere.
Exactly.
Writer Suli It isn't legally and financially smart to marry a woman anymore. Take that off the table from the start. And let her know you'll only have a child under certain conditions from the start. Her reaction will show you where her head is.
Truth
Facts
Writer Suli IBMOR worst nightmare
My dad is probably this biggest victim of the bait and switch specifically with my mom. When they met and got married everything was great as he described. But then I was born and he said her entire attitude and demeanor changed as she seemed like a different person. This led to a divorce and my dad finding out she was a closeted homosexual this entire time. And to this day he regrets ever being married to her. That's what I'm trying to avoid, the whole bait and switch.
Wow. That happens more than people think.
im glad you said get to know her Unc,because she can only hold her breath for so long.
Very true.
And when that attitude comes out, it comes out with a vengeance. Straight nasty, because she's pissed she suppressed her true self....even though she chose to do it. Yet she will take it out on you.
That's what's happened.
Absolutely
Yup that bait and switch is real talk . She’ll be the nicest person you’ve met for abooooout a month or 2 but after that smh 🤦♂️
Many a brotha has been caught up.
Yup
@@Mr39thWays lmao
Time tell you everything you need to know about a person. Nice video
Well said.
Men who be getting some type of money, should only deal with women who have SOMETHING to lose. THANK ME LATA.
Great advice.
That's why when people ask me why I dress this way or drive the car I have I tell them that shit is by design. What I mean by that is basically what you see is what you get. By dressing a certain way or driving a certain type of car is like process of elimination. If a woman likes you ,one of that other b.s. matters.
isaiah parks that is hella smart. And you saving money.
Twistr yes sir!!!!
That's how you work it.
Smart man Isiah. You think like me. When I go on a dates I keep it as cheap as possible because it lets me see if the woman is really into me. If she is really feeling you she could care less if you take her out for coffee/ ice cream. She is just happy to have your company.
Thanks Pat Johnson. What's interesting about how I found that out was a woman just walked up to me and said she had been eyeing me and saw something in me that she loved and knew very little about me and at the time I had next to nothing because I was still fairly young and unestablished but it didn't matter to her. Oh yeah I forgot to mention she was married. Lol
Rom i just want to say thank you ! my comments make me look like a fan but im just someone who appreciate your wisdom . Thank you uncle Rom!
You're welcome.
Maaaaan that physical bait and switch 😂😂😂 I went all the way to Canada 🇨🇦 to see a Ethiopian sister after I met her in philly years back . Maaaaan I was disappointed like a mutha lol .
That's some terrible stuff.
My ex pulled that shit on me and I knew her for years. She was sweet, kind, respectful, clean, generous, and encouraging. Once we got married tho she became the total opposite of that and even had her kids in on the scheme.
Wow.
Bless her soul My babymom did this to me as soon as she got some leverage in my life. made my life a living hell. got a vasectomy now and full custody of my kid, never again.
@7:40 Palming heads!!! 😭😭😭
It was perfectly round.
Another daily dose of Rom Wills.
Can't get better
Thank you.
"Race may change but personality don't " - Rom Wills - that's a podcast - A lot of women will be super cooperative than act crazy when they think they turned you out....I know that game they be playing...(push up bra, tummy tuck, butt shapers, butt injections, breast implants, eye lashes" )
That's it. It comes down to personality.
I'm thinking about the movie "I'm gonna get you sucka" and the woman made it seem like she was a dime piece and when they got behind closed doors she pulled off everything fake from her hair down to even a leg. Lol
That was a great example.
Chameleons.....people nowadays are adept at hiding their true intentions.
Exactly.
Appreciate the video.
My woman sex drive COMPLETELY STOPPED after our second child after she went into serious depression.
They told me that that shit is completely NORMAL for a woman to go through after a pregnancy. 15 years later I find out she was molested by men and women in her family. Did that have something to do with her depression, IDK but take your time out here.
Just something for you guys to think about if you’re considering starting a family.
That happens.
patience is key!
Yep.
*Talking bout bald women*
"I used to palm they head" - Rom Wills
Legend.
It was perfectly round though.
Lol palm they heads.
I sometimes dress down on purpose wearing tshirt and tracksuit bottoms to scare away the gold digging women. As soon as I got engaged to my ex girlfriend and gave her the engagement ring back in 2006 when I was 24 she started to change for the worst and soon after that the relationship was finished.
Wow.
The engagement ring is a great way to do some vetting before the marriage happens. Brilliant
I know exactly what you talking about and saying in this video Rom! Not only I've experienced that from women on a relationship level but I've experienced that from women relatives in my family! I noticed how they were cool with me, we'll talk in everything, then all of sudden out of nowhere, they just changed on me and started acting real ugly towards me. Now one of them relative cousins act alright towards me now but I'm still cautious with her, no hard feelings, it just made aware and I know why she changed towards me. Her and my brother are all of sudden so close, she never paid my brother any attention like, before that, me and her were real cool even her ex husband was crazy about me and still is to this day, she even told I've experienced it on both ends along with women outside my family. So now I'm very cautious and leary when it comes to women period! You never know, so I really take time and feel them out, even if she look good with a goddess body, still see where she's really coming from, it may be hard but it'll save you in the long run. What I do when women come at me with that bait and switch, I cut them off instantly and go about business and stay far away from them as possible, some would even pop back up and reach out to me later but I still would avoid them once I found them out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Once you know what's up you have to act accordingly.
Listen what i learnt with women is when you critic them be smart about it. They will take it trust me on that.
Thanks Rom.
You're welcome.
Ahhhhh yes the ol' switch-a-roo.
Yep.
No Deep Thought video, today? I look forward to those.
I only post on this channel on Mondays. For now.
Put a ring on it and ........ding! Shop closed and went out of business. Sex, what's that? Doing my laundry, what's that....etc. etc.
Many married men have said that.
They go left and shit goes south...
Yep.
Yea. Something similar with ol' girl. Voice was soft and quiet around me. Smiled when I talk. We are not talking now, but now and again I glance at her with her friends( male and female)she seems talkative, outspoken and quite sassy.
I thought to myself that's her real self. But from what I've seen, I dont mind that side of her. Why hide it? Lol!
Some women are nervous around a man.
Warned and seen my son go through this. Eventually he caught on.
Keeping it 100 as always.
Great Game Once Again...
Thank you.
Rom Wills No, thank you Unc.
I feel you I'm tired of first night or one night stands
Many men want something more.
This happened to BGS last Friday.
Interesting.
I called it the interview stage. In eventually the true nature will come out.
Truth.
LoL
Warfare is deception.
Truth.
Unk that's true they switch up fast then light...
Too many do that.
I call that the fake nice
Chick 1 "I told you I was single... but I'm still married but I'm getting a divorce... he also works for the same company as you" and chick 2 "I told you I was single but I'm still married and I got a boyfriend also... " fast fwd year later, I'm moving out on my husband" first woman spanish and second woman white, both 89s
It's not just sistas.
Here here
Yep.
I saw a video with dr umar ... he talked about the shadow self .. this reminds me of that subject... the truth is inevitably regardless of how one plans a head.
Exactly.
Rom, it happened to you too? Lol. In my 20s, I met this fine ass sista in a shopping mall. I Went over to her place and smashed one week later. I tried to arrange a third date and she was like she couldn't because her boyfriend(baby daddy) was coming home from college. She had claimed prior that they were no longer together.
I was like oh well since I had a girlfriend but was disappointed that I wouldn't be hitting that on the regular.
That's how it goes.
I swear you be reading my mind. The point when you said watch how she treat people especially other dudes. Women making that mistake when it comes to guys also thinking they are special. There are women who act normal and classy and when they get comfortable around you, then the ratchet bitch come out.
Exactly. I pay strict attention to women treat other men.
One of the reasons for a divorce
Yep.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
facts though 🔥
I was grinning from ear to ear when I saw the title. I knew there was gonna be a great story somewhere in there. And I was laughing my ass when you brought up a few examples as I knew they were the truth.
Anyway, I have seen/known a few examples of that happening to men in my circles. I've even had a couple minor incidents myself. Nothing serious though as I was considered non-select or just weird. Still, it taught me a lot. Such as looking at hair color and cleavage with suspicion.
Overall, a woman is only looking out for her own best interest(s). As with any other forms of deception the bait and switch is a means to an end. It goes to show that the masked woman comes in various forms. Unfortunately, there men that are thinking with the wrong head and got that ego swollen. In fact, one of the worst case scenarios of the bait and switch would be where the woman isn't really a woman. Talk about a masked woman. Damn! I don't ever wanna play the crying game.
As for your story, I'm sure the late Brother Patrice O'Neal could relate to such a scenario.
th-cam.com/video/uT9QqXCheZg/w-d-xo.html
Patrice O'Neal was the prophet.
th-cam.com/video/AZxaUF9X930/w-d-xo.html
Yooo nice to know it even happens to the dudes who are alpha as well. So basically people not being their real selves causes these relationship problems as well?
Everybody has issues.
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
THank you.
They are "perfect" in the beginning, but it's all games and manipulation. They will eventually stop acting like they are nawalts.
It happens too much.
First boom.
Yep.
lol. Used to palm chick's heads.
Yep.