I think it is selfish to 'force' people to want you the same way you want them. You could only put yourself in the spotlight and talk to God about it. if you are a Christian. I have always wanted a close relationship with my wife as far back as 17yeaers ago in secondary school even if it's just casual dating but It didn't work, we went our separate ways different institution but somehow, we started to talking at some point after school but I realized she can't date me about 11 years ago but 3 years ago we both had break up from our previous relationships I re engaged my conversations and she realized I have grown to be her Ideal man. She now cherished and loved me ( plus Time factors) it's a beautiful decision for us she has been my spec ever since and now she has a better character than what I could have gotten then I'm also now better physically, financially, spiritually and characterwise . Atimes we need time, Atimes we need to move, it depends.
I think the man should be more attracted to the woman and want her with everything more than the woman, why? Because by nature we women can adjust faster to love the handsome inside more than the not so attractive outside of her husband.
I celebrate God I'm your lives. I can't get enough sight looking at you both. I love the way you look at each other, love on each other, PM concentration /listening art is 🌄, play,and still pass the message. 👏 I learnt " be rigid on the internal than the external" "Getting along and not aroused" "Attraction and emotions are flexible" "attraction doesn't have to be first physical" Congratulations to you both for not missing each other 🎉☺️ Amen to your prayers 🙏
Exactly 👍👍👍👍👍👍, the main thing is the mind not looks , looks has a part to play yeah buhhh what's on the inside is what matters more it's the number one thing
I agree with PK - I like my steak well done! 😂 Your conversations are interesting I’ve learnt a lot. It’s important to have the mind of Christ and to see and think the way He does. This has helped me on a personal level.
Both Pastor K and Pastor Mildred are CORRECT, they present different aspects of it, where Pastor Mildred shows us what some people “prefers” and there’s really nothing wrong with that but as Pastor K puts it, it can become a problem if a person doesn’t know what actually “matters” in the long run. We shouldn’t sacrifice what matters over preferences, but we should be attracted to our spouse at the same time as well, I do believe that even if our spouse may not be 100% exactly what we want in our minds, when we desire to do things God’s way He’ll renew our mind as Pastor Mildred said…He can help us to see what’s really important and when we open our hearts to the opportunity, it’ll build up attraction towards our spouse. Plus having friendship and getting to know the person intimately for who they are has a way of breaking down the preference wall when someone is rigid, and when you’re sure that God is The One Who has presented this person, it’ll help you to be patient and willing.
I absolutely agree with being rigid with the internals and flexible with the externals. Again,I thoroughly enjoyed this session.. Thank you so much Pastors M and K for sharing your honest thoughts on this.God bless you both abundantly.
Hello, here from Eswatini. This is a great topic! I learned from my husband that it does. Although growing up I didnt know what that meant... to be attractive. The bible does mention looks as a component of the characters in it . For example Leah and Racheal. However, not all beautiful or handsome people are God fearing and the bible says its a Gid fearing person (not good looking) person is to be praised.
I have watched two of your collaborations today and l have been blessed and I thank the Lord that you did not miss each other in the scheme of Gods things on the earth at a time like this how it for be thank you Jesus !!! Your delivery has been beautiful and l appreciate your honesty and vulnerability in addressing this matter. More grace to your life and ministry in Jesus name amen.❤❤
Thank you for sharing your perspective. Although I'm not sure that physical attraction is a social conditioning. If so, how do you explain a baby liking one food and disliking another? Even my puppy has it's preferences. I think we are all built with in built preferences. Having said that, that's not the all and be all of a relationship.
How handsome an armed rubber is does not change the fact that they're rubbing you 😅😅😅. Be rigid with the internal aspects and flexible with the external aspects of a partner 😊
You're feelings is not as independent as you think. The things you want in a man was specked into you. Dont combine 4 men and be expecting to see in one man. Its impossible 😅😅😅😅
Hello! Thank you for speaking on this and thank you Sister Mildred for taking up for us. Men can be such hypocrites because they know they aren't willing to marry a woman who looks like Nanny McPhee just because she is a prayer warrior 😆. I agree that looks should not be #1 but it does matter just as stated, when you get to the physical aspects, attraction is important..
It’s 4am in Ghana and I’m watching this videos. I’m getting blessed and at the same time laughing so hard and loud. I would have questions to answer from my family when day breaks😂. Shoutout to all the short brothers. You’re blessed 🙌🏽
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Pastor K’s sense of humor is on another level 😂😂😂You’re a blessing Pastor K &M ❤
I pray they discuss about if the man should be rich beforehand
Me too!! That was my same thoughts!!! 😂
At the end of the day physical attraction matter but it isn't necessary.
Actually i have a question. What if you like tall,hes reliable but he doesnt want you,but short wants you but hes not reliable.
I think it is selfish to 'force' people to want you the same way you want them. You could only put yourself in the spotlight and talk to God about it. if you are a Christian. I have always wanted a close relationship with my wife as far back as 17yeaers ago in secondary school even if it's just casual dating but It didn't work, we went our separate ways different institution but somehow, we started to talking at some point after school but I realized she can't date me about 11 years ago but 3 years ago we both had break up from our previous relationships I re engaged my conversations and she realized I have grown to be her Ideal man. She now cherished and loved me ( plus Time factors) it's a beautiful decision for us she has been my spec ever since and now she has a better character than what I could have gotten then I'm also now better physically, financially, spiritually and characterwise . Atimes we need time, Atimes we need to move, it depends.
Just continue praying and watching out for yours.
"Who is going to marry all the short😆, that are all over the world 🌎"?🤣🤣 this one got me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This one got me too.
I think the man should be more attracted to the woman and want her with everything more than the woman, why? Because by nature we women can adjust faster to love the handsome inside more than the not so attractive outside of her husband.
I celebrate God I'm your lives.
I can't get enough sight looking at you both. I love the way you look at each other, love on each other, PM concentration /listening art is 🌄, play,and still pass the message. 👏
I learnt " be rigid on the internal than the external"
"Getting along and not aroused"
"Attraction and emotions are flexible" "attraction doesn't have to be first physical"
Congratulations to you both for not missing each other 🎉☺️
Amen to your prayers 🙏
Its the way they're looking at each other for me. Love how you two love yourselves. ❤️ thank you PK and PM for this great piece yet again. ❤❤❤❤
Pastor Mildred is so pretty and lovely overall. She looks so beautiful with the weight. Few ppl wear weight well she looks like a plus-size model.
The sexiest thing about a man is his mind and how he thinks not necessarily his looks.
Yes ooo the Mind
Exactly 👍👍👍👍👍👍, the main thing is the mind not looks , looks has a part to play yeah buhhh what's on the inside is what matters more it's the number one thing
May God reprogram my mind.❤
I agree with PK - I like my steak well done! 😂 Your conversations are interesting I’ve learnt a lot. It’s important to have the mind of Christ and to see and think the way He does. This has helped me on a personal level.
Getting along is better than getting aroused! Thank you pastor K and M
Both Pastor K and Pastor Mildred are CORRECT, they present different aspects of it, where Pastor Mildred shows us what some people “prefers” and there’s really nothing wrong with that but as Pastor K puts it, it can become a problem if a person doesn’t know what actually “matters” in the long run.
We shouldn’t sacrifice what matters over preferences, but we should be attracted to our spouse at the same time as well, I do believe that even if our spouse may not be 100% exactly what we want in our minds, when we desire to do things God’s way He’ll renew our mind as Pastor Mildred said…He can help us to see what’s really important and when we open our hearts to the opportunity, it’ll build up attraction towards our spouse. Plus having friendship and getting to know the person intimately for who they are has a way of breaking down the preference wall when someone is rigid, and when you’re sure that God is The One Who has presented this person, it’ll help you to be patient and willing.
All the fine guys that showed me shege,thank you for leaving and helping me marry Right 👍😅😅😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂 shege 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I absolutely agree with being rigid with the internals and flexible with the externals. Again,I thoroughly enjoyed this session.. Thank you so much Pastors M and K for sharing your honest thoughts on this.God bless you both abundantly.
PK and PM said we should be rigid on the in side and be flexible on the outside
... Getting along is more important than getting aroused..
Hello, here from Eswatini. This is a great topic! I learned from my husband that it does. Although growing up I didnt know what that meant... to be attractive. The bible does mention looks as a component of the characters in it . For example Leah and Racheal. However, not all beautiful or handsome people are God fearing and the bible says its a Gid fearing person (not good looking) person is to be praised.
I love you both so much, I can't even pretend if I want to... God bless you both. Just watching you two is enough lesson sef ❤
I have watched two of your collaborations today and l have been blessed and I thank the Lord that you did not miss each other in the scheme of Gods things on the earth at a time like this how it for be thank you Jesus !!! Your delivery has been beautiful and l appreciate your honesty and vulnerability in addressing this matter. More grace to your life and ministry in Jesus name amen.❤❤
Yes it does but it shouldnt be used to overlook good character. You can grow in your level of attraction but cant change bad character.
First of Pk and Pm's video I'm watching to the end. Thank you for sharing. May God continue to impact you both with more knowledge
I believe I will have a beautiful marriage in Jesus name, Amen. ❤❤
Getting along is more important than getting aroused 😅😅😅
Thank you, Jesus. It was worth it. So true. Its the friendship for me. Some you can relate with on a level
Thank you for sharing your perspective. Although I'm not sure that physical attraction is a social conditioning. If so, how do you explain a baby liking one food and disliking another? Even my puppy has it's preferences. I think we are all built with in built preferences. Having said that, that's not the all and be all of a relationship.
There’s hope for you “Mr Short”😂💔.. learning at the same time having a good laugh!😅
Pastor K is right about the “programming “ abt physical looks.
The couple is just blessed ..l pray that god give me a wife who will submit like pastor Mildred does...oooh her submission is on another level 🙏
I love how you both being humour into your messages. It makes listening enjoyable. Thank you PK and PM❤❤❤
Whose going to marry all the shorts????! Preach Sir
Pastor K is a comedian 😂😂😂😂 Thank you for the teachings to both Pastor M and Pastor K, yall are a blessing ❤😊
This is so good 😊. Momma looks so good. The hair and the top! Gorgeous ❤
😂Jesus please 🙏give me light out of darkness
What if they don't have money and it's looking like they will be there for a long time 😶🌫️
How handsome an armed rubber is does not change the fact that they're rubbing you 😅😅😅.
Be rigid with the internal aspects and flexible with the external aspects of a partner 😊
Thank you Pastor…I’ve learnt a lot
You're feelings is not as independent as you think. The things you want in a man was specked into you. Dont combine 4 men and be expecting to see in one man. Its impossible 😅😅😅😅
You should be rigid on the internal, and flexible on the external…… Word
PK's throwback is a fine boy na😂
“What is the authorized shape of nose” chai!!
Totally awesome, I laughed all d way through
😂😂😂😂😂 you're talking a point here about difference in height jt shouldn't be the main issue while considering a marriage pattern
May God reprogram my mind...
pst M... am wit u but are u okay ma ?cos your voice is not at it best
What is wrong with my Maama's voice 😢
Hello! Thank you for speaking on this and thank you Sister Mildred for taking up for us. Men can be such hypocrites because they know they aren't willing to marry a woman who looks like Nanny McPhee just because she is a prayer warrior 😆. I agree that looks should not be #1 but it does matter just as stated, when you get to the physical aspects, attraction is important..
This was so funny to watch yet enlightening😂
Bless you sir and ma. This was really insightful ❤
Amazing. Teaching with so much fun
Pst K can make things difficult to explain sha 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The ugly hands comment took me out. The way that is me. Followed closely by awful dentition.
Heh Pastor M don’t kill me with laughter while teaching me😂
Very nice topic
God really transformed pastor K.
Yes
Very true Pastor k. Growing up I used to hate guys with beards but I just realized I now really like the beard gang guys
Thats where Psalm 91 comes in🤣🤣🤣🤣 Pastor K!!!!!!
I'm always blessed listening to you PK and PM. Sending love from Cameroon
physical attraction is the main attraction that draws one to another but it is not conclusive to keep the relation a lifetime
Forgetting that it's a content, these people are having fun😊......., my faves❤
Very relatable and wonderful topic. I was totally engaged from start to finish.
God bless you both, Pastor K and M
I now understand why she didn't like then...tbh he didn't look presentable and attractive 😢
Does she have a cold😢
Pastor Kingsley is so right
I really enjoyed this conversation 😂❤ Love you Pastor M & Pastor K
Love itttt❤❤❤..... Thank you ma
We roast the life out of suya😂😂😂I feel you with th burger pas K.
It’s 4am in Ghana and I’m watching this videos. I’m getting blessed and at the same time laughing so hard and loud. I would have questions to answer from my family when day breaks😂. Shoutout to all the short brothers. You’re blessed 🙌🏽
I'm watching it in South Africa 3am ... 🙏 . God bless you.
😂😂😂😂love ur discussion
It was so helpful
Thank you so much Mr and Mrs Kingsley
Your ministry is always a blessing to many of us
This is the best YT from Pastor K and Pastor M, everrrrr
Getting along is more important than getting aroused
So beautiful and lovely my lovelies ❤❤❤
This is so beautiful to watch. Thanks Pastor K and Pastor M. I really needed this right now.
😂😂😂😂😂 I laugh today thank you sir/ma
😂😂😂😂, She'll be roaming around..
Tall golath😅😅😅😅😅😢
Tall golath 😅😢😅❤ l just pass
22:50 and 27:03 Pastor K is hilarious 🤣🤣
😂😂😂
My favourite couple ❤️❤️❤️❤️
This is wonderful ❤
Well that's how mine worked out. Glory be to our all Wise God!
So timely, thanks for this.
Sir I think pointed nose is preferable
I love the way pm is listening to pk
2:30 We gree😂😂😂
7.52 PM is not agreeing lol
Thank you so much sir/ma ❤️
Hummmmm
hello man of GOD
Amen thanks
Awesome
Why does mildred seem drunk today 😂
Now this one got me😅😅😅😂🙌🏾
Pastor M doesn’t seem drunk to me, she seems her usual chirpy self but overcoming a cold or other upper respiratory or throat issue … 😊
It's love
More grace sir🙏.
AMEN
Thank you, so much
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My God 😂😂😂😂😂
😂,,,,,, 🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣
❤❤❤