52 xyoo tsis muaj txiv puag~02/03/2024~
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- Hmong Drama story: 52 never been married
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Sad and sorry about your illness. That being said, it's too bad you didn't listen to your heart as well as your head way back when you actually had a guy who really loved you despite his lack of higher education. Higher education is nothing more than a path to a career in a certain field (and sometimes because a person just wants to expand their knowledge), nothing more and nothing less, and having it doesn't automatically make you a better person than others. Two people with different educational backgrounds can be happy together if they have what matters to a happy and healthy relationship: love, support for each, common interests, shared values, shared goals, etc. You could have had both love and higher education if you hadn't been so narrow minded in your goal setting. I'm sorry that you only ended up with half the life you wanted, but that's on you and the decisions YOU made (although the advice to continue your higher education was good, your late parents' advice was incomplete due to their own limited experiences/view on life because you could have done both concurrently). Hopefully your story will help others (those that are struggling with a similar dilemma) out there to find a balance between education/career and love.
Your parents sold you a false dream. 😢 congrats on your achievements, but there's more to life than just a degree. May you find peace and love eventually. ❤️ sending you some hugs and love.
My husband isn't educated. We have a good life. We love each other a lot. You missed out girl.
A big house, big bank account, and success, but no one to share with is an empty unaccomplished lonely life. Money cannot buy love. Life without love is meaningless. It is better to find a loving man who can warm your heart better than an educated man who is selfish and rich but brings you no joy.
When there's no dream, there's no hope, and when you have no hope, there's no future. Get up from your sick bed and start loving yourself again. Eat, exercise, and buy things that will make you happy. You've given up too easily. Work as hard as you worked for your degree and you shall find a partner soon. And be proud of what you've accomplished in life.
Your parents are the ones stopping your husband future. But you're the one who didn't follow your heart. You should take your big sister's advice by following your ❤️. Your ex-boyfriend was right.
Sister, you made your decision to listen to your parents. Therefore that is why your life is like this. But regardless Sister, used this time to live your life and travel and spend your money on yourself. Do not leave a single penny to your siblings or niece's or nephew's. Donate your money to good charity that can really use. There are treatments do not give up. Seek those and take care of yourself. You should've married outside of the Hmong people.
sister, I know the feeling. I was the prodigal daughter and the expectations were high. The pressure to succeed was drilled into you. You were book start but lack life skills. We all have regrets in life. It’s better to feel yourself of your pain and be prepared for the after life. You can pass on and move forward in the afterlife if you forgive your parents and yourself. You achieved something I will never do in my life, so hold your head high and be strong.
Having a high degree does not mean you are a better person. A degree is lowkey just proof of your accomplishments in whatever the career the degree is for. Everything else such as characteristics, personality, attitudes still revolves around you. Your parents pretty much fed you on having an egotistic attitude and that is why you forget to remain humble.
Education is not everything, but it is important. It's ok that you prioritize your Education and wants to find a husband that matches your goal and ambition... It's just sad that not a lot of hmong man in your generation has that kind of ambition to match you. If your ex bf really loved you, then he could've waited. Instead he has the audacity to message u and flaunt his life as better. U could've still have a good life without marriage and a partner by traveling, having good friends and dating other ethnicities. But sounds like a marriage is what u wanted...so I'm sorry you could not have everything.
😔 such sad and regretful story sister, sounds like you lived your life for your parents and being such a dutiful daughter, you forgotten to live for yourself and fulfill your own dream.
Tsis yog tim leej twg tab sis tim yus tus keej muab yus saib loj dhau lawm xwb. Kev kawm yeej tseem ceeb. Kev hlub yeej muaj nqes. Tab sis yus yuav tsum paub tso hwj chim thiab saib taus lwm tus. Be humble.
Don’t feel bad for yourself or your life. Even though your love life was not as expected, everyone has a different path. As humans, sometimes the choices we make will make us live with regrets, but that’s just a learning lesson. Be at peace with the accomplishments you’ve done in this lifetime ❤️
You sound ignorant. A real educated person doesn't look down on people, and they stay humble.
As human we are selfish, we only want what we don't have. I think you could of lived life happy without no husband. There aren't much hmong people that goes all the way to their phd and takes the traditional route of finishing their degree first before marriage. Your thinking is very Americanized, yet you weren't able to connect with Caucasians. I think you were stuck in between hmong and American cultures. Hmong culture ideal of being happy is getting married and having kids and American culture is educational and solitary. I think you could of taken the opportunity to find yourself after your education and create a legacy. However, as a women we do want to be a mother at some point, that was where you lowered your standards and lost yourself. Sometimes, it's not about having a family but being happy within yourself or being a good leader for the community. Wish you all well, find happiness in other areas will do good to your heart.
Txiv neej ntshais ntshais yuav cov ntxhais kawm ntawd siab siab os tsam ces ua ua nai khav khav theeb ces caij tsuj txiv neej.
Have no regrets my hmong sister. You have accomplished more than some of us will ever. Stay strong and be happy!! I have a pain prescription for you that doctors can’t prescribe, go n listen to “I’ll remember you” by Atlantic Starr. Good luck to you!
Just because yu have a high degree u think too highly of yourself n look down on others that's why you're alone
Wow! Good story yog ib qho kev kawm rau peb cov me nyuam thiab os me ntxhais wish you good luck
Pab koj tus siab kawg os tus niam laus. Vim koj ruam koj thiaj mloog niam koj txiv tej lus cob koj thiaj tsis muaj neej