Can we learn not to negotiate for cheating hle, phela our spirit can't be connected with other people, why re tshilafatsa lenyalo, Modimo ga batle Bofebe Period. And some of us are very fortunate to be taught such thing, and ofcourse people are different some might see the need to stay. Nna I'm with you.🙏🙏🙏👊👊👊👊and I'm glad Ponka Machidi agrees
You just made me go back down the memory lane. In 2014 when i got out of my 7 years marriage because "he" slapped me after making me choose between him and my job. I then told him i cannot choose hence i could not leave my job. Then boom!! Slap on my face. That one slap made me go back home with our two sons😥. Even today, i also cannot stand an abusive partner. Thanks so much my favourite couple for your vlogs.🥰
Thank you guys. You know I don’t listen to TH-cam couples giving marriage advices but I enjoyed this because you were real talking about yourselves and one could relate and say yes and also laugh at your “madness “ (restlling. Love you guys and may God protect your marriage
Yes there are people who are are dependent emotionally to a point where toxic relationship /the physical abuse becomes like a love language. I don't understand why they get too much attached to those people,
Great conversation....really an eye opener for some people out there who need to gain strength to talk about whatever that they may be going through and always remember that its never too late to back out from any situation affecting their mental, emotional and physical health etc. As for the wrestling part🤣🤣🤣🤣
You can Go Live here on TH-cam, u can see the option next to your channel notification bell.😍😍we would love that to take place here. Love you guys so Much💗
I love you so much guys and enjoyed this video❤ i pray God continues to bless your marriage and strengthens your love everyday...such a beautiful couple😍😍😍
Recently a colleague of mine said for better for worse means the both of you going through things together not one person going through worse while the other is enjoying haibo..this is the case with cheating or abuse one person will be going through it and the sad part is the person who vowed to love and protect you is the one inflicting the pain and that is not marriage.
Just want to apprentice you guys so much. Even though this was way to short but ke I personally learn alot ngani you really a great couple....Even God does not want divorce but if things are really I mean really not working out then I won't also stay but I don't condone divorce nami...✌️❤️💯
I agree with both your deal breakers but guys for me someone who is horrible with financial management and always intoxicated "all of a sudden " all in the name of stress... that too is a deal breaker fr me ....
Thank You IM Gang..ncooo You guys complement each other and I love it when You compliment each other😍.Hhay bufebe..😂 is indeed a deal breaker for most couples..Such a beautifil humble couple..💜💜💜
Thank you guys wow am really happy that we have a couple that gives such advises ...as a younger person myself I truly honour that 👊👊👊🥰am honestly blessed and I have learned alot ❤️ thank you guys ..love you to bits
UBaba uMkhize uthi wenzeni ubedroom???😂😂😂 Lol.The 2000s once said-"the way the Pastor and his wife looks so innocent.You would swear they don't do what the married couple do in the bedroom" of which we all look innocent don't we???.Ama 2000s 😂😂😂
That s so true... cheating n GBV.. its jus traumatising nje.. akuphileki in such a scenario..if in a relationship n u experience such...baleka ngenyawo zombili otherwise uyofa umncane all in the name of love
Yeaaa ey... GBV is real guys ey😢🚮... People must really be okay with letting go of abusive people. Awww dankoo Sbari nice one.. tell them umfazi akashawa... Uthola in the room punishment 😂😂😂
Love you more and always 💓 💗 guys You are a good example that communicating is vital in Keeping the marriage .happy 💑. Know your partner and visa versa.
Aowa Inno this was too short😭. Love this conversations guys, keep em coming👌 I currently have a friend who's going through abuse in her marriage. I don't know how she copes being on the receiving end, cos I'm drained. As a friend I don't know how to support her without me bng pulled into her situation emotionally. I don't know how many times I've heard "I'm leaving him" tomorrow it's "he's changed, he's sorry, he loves me🤦♀️". Lately I try to bite my tongue (cos when things are fine I'm the hater) but I fail everytime. As friends of victims of abuse I think we also need therapy cos wow Issa lot🥴
why is it that for better or worse, is to stay when u hv been cheated or physically abused? for better or worse is when one of u looses a job, becomes sick, u loose loved ones, or ur business goes down but it ain't cheating nor is it staying after physical abuse
So Inno managed to convince Punka to record this video right after the one uploaded last week 😀😂 One thing about Inno, she knows her way around Punka and she's a die hard for the IM Gang ♥️
I would not suggest bringing people yo your home But rather do a series of telling people's stories (they can vent to you on Instagram and keep them anonymous) and speak about that as a sit down
Hypothetically speaking, When Ponka cheated and you Inno divorced him, according to the Bible who'll be at fault coz I know some scripture says the man would be causing the woman to commit adultery but if Inno could get married again would she be having a sin or it'll be taken as a man's fault in God's eyes? Have always been wondering!!
Guys can we appreciate the quality of this video yoooo haai shem am hooked and loving this quality 👌... My deal breaker is also as Inno, CHEATING it's a non negotiatiable...I was engaged and guy a feba 😂😂 and I took off the ring and ended things because nna naturally am loyal I hv never dated two guys at the same time,so I don't expect my partner to have me with another one that's just me....
This is amazing 😘😘Cheating and abuse are definitely deal breakers. A partner that makes you question your worth 🚩🚩re emetxe di youtubers that are negative that will read the title and assume yall are divorcing 😏
I don't think bringing people into your space is ideal, you know? Your safety will be compromised and people don't always have your best interest at heart. However, you can still do a live on TH-cam, i'm not sure if they'll physically appear like on Instagram but they'll still join.
Can we learn not to negotiate for cheating hle, phela our spirit can't be connected with other people, why re tshilafatsa lenyalo, Modimo ga batle Bofebe Period. And some of us are very fortunate to be taught such thing, and ofcourse people are different some might see the need to stay. Nna I'm with you.🙏🙏🙏👊👊👊👊and I'm glad Ponka Machidi agrees
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I also agree there❤🤌
Absolutely waka, we don’t negotiate when it comes to that!
You just made me go back down the memory lane. In 2014 when i got out of my 7 years marriage because "he" slapped me after making me choose between him and my job. I then told him i cannot choose hence i could not leave my job. Then boom!! Slap on my face. That one slap made me go back home with our two sons😥. Even today, i also cannot stand an abusive partner. Thanks so much my favourite couple for your vlogs.🥰
Thank you guys. You know I don’t listen to TH-cam couples giving marriage advices but I enjoyed this because you were real talking about yourselves and one could relate and say yes and also laugh at your “madness “ (restlling. Love you guys and may God protect your marriage
I see Bonka has improved🥺💐. He no longer talk over you.👏♥️He now lets you speak and then he talks after. I like that.
Finally someone who understands how deep cheating is ... I'm never negotiating cheating also.
Plz dnt bring strangers to your home...do it sumwhr else...
For yr own safety🤞
Much luv🇧🇼🇧🇼🥰
I love this couple,please we learning a lot from you guys.dont confuse us in future .WE WANT TO SEE YOU TOGETHER AS LONG AS YOU LEAVE.
For better or for worse doesn't include "bofebe"...preach sister!!
Yes there are people who are are dependent emotionally to a point where toxic relationship /the physical abuse becomes like a love language. I don't understand why they get too much attached to those people,
divorce is not a good thing , modimo a le dire ka go loka ❤❤❤ u also encourage us
Perfect disclaimer "team NO DEVORCE"...✊
You guys are amazing may God bless ur marriage and grow together.ur relationship and love for one another grow in Jesus name 💖
aow Mara Mme Manchidi this video was too short...aow Mara hle I love you all hle bathong gape I still wish nkebe e sa tswella pele
Great conversation....really an eye opener for some people out there who need to gain strength to talk about whatever that they may be going through and always remember that its never too late to back out from any situation affecting their mental, emotional and physical health etc. As for the wrestling part🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thnx Rendy and Mpho Machidi for putting us in right direction
I really love you guyz from🇿🇼
I agree with you, cheating is also my deal breaker, nna I'm not psychologically fit to deal with that, the other one for me is if he beat me
You can Go Live here on TH-cam, u can see the option next to your channel notification bell.😍😍we would love that to take place here. Love you guys so Much💗
Punka is soo cute tle 🔥🔥🔥🔥🙈🙈
New Subbie here.💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
It's great to see couples respecting marriage and doing it the Godly way, especially nowadays.
Wrestling 😅😅😅 i can imagine🤦♀️... What i love about you guys is how you compliment each other.... Love is always in the air 💖
Love the sitdowns, thank you guys🥰
Those Friday night lives were everything bahaManchidi, you guys should bring them back☺️❤️
Go gohlela mapai it means to defile your matrimonial bed, I think 😘
I love you so much guys and enjoyed this video❤ i pray God continues to bless your marriage and strengthens your love everyday...such a beautiful couple😍😍😍
been watching ,and i am finally clicking the right button ,i feel safe here
Wow Same here Cheating and Physically abuse. Thanx for sharing
Recently a colleague of mine said for better for worse means the both of you going through things together not one person going through worse while the other is enjoying haibo..this is the case with cheating or abuse one person will be going through it and the sad part is the person who vowed to love and protect you is the one inflicting the pain and that is not marriage.
Just want to apprentice you guys so much. Even though this was way to short but ke I personally learn alot ngani you really a great couple....Even God does not want divorce but if things are really I mean really not working out then I won't also stay but I don't condone divorce nami...✌️❤️💯
I agree with both your deal breakers but guys for me someone who is horrible with financial management and always intoxicated "all of a sudden " all in the name of stress... that too is a deal breaker fr me ....
Go kgopela mapai means defiling the marriage bed.
Go kgohlela mapai
Short, insightful ,impactful and entertaining all in one ☺☺...once in a while...we love you too Manchidis😍😍
Inno tlogela to wrestle Punka 🤣
Manchidi family ♥️ you are just God send Angeles.we love you so much
Thank You IM Gang..ncooo You guys complement each other and I love it when You compliment each other😍.Hhay bufebe..😂 is indeed a deal breaker for most couples..Such a beautifil humble couple..💜💜💜
I agree with you Inno.cheating and physical abuse big no,am out
Thank you guys wow am really happy that we have a couple that gives such advises ...as a younger person myself I truly honour that 👊👊👊🥰am honestly blessed and I have learned alot ❤️ thank you guys ..love you to bits
Love you guys.. cant wait for the series
Modimo ha batle bofebe 😂😂😂😂😂Yass Inno🤣🤣
Ponka is effortlessly funny 😹
I think so too😭😂😂
I believe the wrestling thing is with Manchidi's men😊😊😊I thought I was the only one 😂😂😂.
Re leboga thuto ya lehono ba Bina tau😊❤️
UBaba uMkhize uthi wenzeni ubedroom???😂😂😂 Lol.The 2000s once said-"the way the Pastor and his wife looks so innocent.You would swear they don't do what the married couple do in the bedroom" of which we all look innocent don't we???.Ama 2000s 😂😂😂
Not you guys playing wrestling😂😂😂😂
That s so true... cheating n GBV.. its jus traumatising nje.. akuphileki in such a scenario..if in a relationship n u experience such...baleka ngenyawo zombili otherwise uyofa umncane all in the name of love
Yeaaa ey... GBV is real guys ey😢🚮... People must really be okay with letting go of abusive people.
Awww dankoo Sbari nice one.. tell them umfazi akashawa... Uthola in the room punishment 😂😂😂
WHAT INNO WANTS INNO GET😹😻I MEAN SHE EVENTUALLY MANAGED TO CONVINCE PONKA TO MAKE ANOTHER VIDEO.... I LOVE U GUYS😻😻
For me cheating, abuse and drinking too much alcohol, thank you I really enjoyed this 🥰🥰🥰🥰
You guys are fun to watch 😂❤️
Nice matching outfits
Wrestling guys elaborate that🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣
I cant wait for the sit down where you speak about how you knew he was the one.
Thank you Inno 🇿🇦🇧🇼❤️🥰
The quality of this video? Love it❤️👌
y'all do wrestling maaaannn, love lives here♥️♥️😂
Thanks for the video 💖💗💖part 2
Robala le semangmang deal breaker 🙅♀️🙅♀️🙅♀️🙅♀️💔💔💔💔💔
Love you more and always 💓 💗 guys
You are a good example that communicating is vital in Keeping the marriage .happy 💑.
Know your partner and visa versa.
U guys are n inspiration.... luv this couple so so so much
Aowa Inno this was too short😭.
Love this conversations guys, keep em coming👌
I currently have a friend who's going through abuse in her marriage. I don't know how she copes being on the receiving end, cos I'm drained. As a friend I don't know how to support her without me bng pulled into her situation emotionally. I don't know how many times I've heard "I'm leaving him" tomorrow it's "he's changed, he's sorry, he loves me🤦♀️". Lately I try to bite my tongue (cos when things are fine I'm the hater) but I fail everytime. As friends of victims of abuse I think we also need therapy cos wow Issa lot🥴
Yep.. I think we emotionally invest in our loved ones problems (even those that are not GBV related) that we end up being drained ourselves
Yoh askies Angie strongs to you💕
Hahahaha wrestling part🤣🤣
😂😂👏👏👏 cheating its not a mistake shame..well said 💗
Dont defile the marriage bed for marriage is honourable...
Puka is funny hle🤣😂🤣
My notification was slow, only got it after 30min 🥰🥰
Wrestling aibo guys 😂😂😂😂
I hate this idea that true love is when love has no boundaries
🤣🤣🤣🤣ntate Machidi o ntsha evidence ya physical abuse🤣🤣🤣, so wena u won the wrestling part, as I die.
that part took me out🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@lettiem7923 🤣🤣🤣 they're so funny
Lmao guys I swear he wins 90% of the time 😂
Aaay the wrestling part took me out xem🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I adore you and Ponka lool the punching makes me laugh ❤️❤️❤️❤️your vlogs has a bang
why is it that for better or worse, is to stay when u hv been cheated or physically abused? for better or worse is when one of u looses a job, becomes sick, u loose loved ones, or ur business goes down but it ain't cheating nor is it staying after physical abuse
So Inno managed to convince Punka to record this video right after the one uploaded last week 😀😂
One thing about Inno, she knows her way around Punka and she's a die hard for the IM Gang ♥️
I thought he was tired that day 😅 Inno ke boso 🤣
@@skirtgirl1896 waitse keng 😂😂
Lol right? She is the one
@@patiencemarota The only 😅
Knowing your way with your person is the way ladies 😂
Wrestling, haaaiboo guys 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love you guys
watching from Leaotho
One thing about Inno you’ll make us get fired from work😅 bona nou I wanna watch this video so bad, unfortunately I’m still at work
Hahaha I thought am the only one, so I opened and got hooked, and now I couldn't wait to get home.🤣😍
Lol please please don’t get fired guys I love you 😂
@@InnoManchidi you will hire us, re tla eja jwang🤣🤣
I love you guys😘😘
As it alwyz finds me waiting 💃💃💃🥰🥰# i am gang🤟
Yasssss 💃🏽💃🏽
We don't mind long videos😭😩😩❤️
Inno is on fire 🔥
Great sentiments,
Re kgopela more videos, more especially le ya how did u know he's or she's the one for you, 😊😊😊😊
I always tell my partner cheating is not even negotiable and abuse anything else I think we can work around it
Yooh. I'm so thankful for this guys. You guys are doing God's work right there. ❤️❤️❤️
I would not suggest bringing people yo your home
But rather do a series of telling people's stories (they can vent to you on Instagram and keep them anonymous)
and speak about that as a sit down
or myb a person record his or her story thn you shared with us thn we do a group discussion or we give them advice even a sit up session will help
Love you manchidis❤️
Love you guys ❤❤❤❤❤
Much love 🥰❤
For maina waka study se a ema jwanong 😅💃😂
Bathong maina oska faila tlhe 😂❤️
🔥 ♥....Gvng Gang!!! 😊
Hypothetically speaking, When Ponka cheated and you Inno divorced him, according to the Bible who'll be at fault coz I know some scripture says the man would be causing the woman to commit adultery but if Inno could get married again would she be having a sin or it'll be taken as a man's fault in God's eyes? Have always been wondering!!
😂😂😂😂😂 yoooo wrestling 🤼♀️
My people ❤️
The Manchidis❤❤❤❤❤
😂😂😂e wrestling part
Much love❤️❤️❤️
❤️❤️❤️
Guys can we appreciate the quality of this video yoooo haai shem am hooked and loving this quality 👌...
My deal breaker is also as Inno, CHEATING it's a non negotiatiable...I was engaged and guy a feba 😂😂 and I took off the ring and ended things because nna naturally am loyal I hv never dated two guys at the same time,so I don't expect my partner to have me with another one that's just me....
This is amazing 😘😘Cheating and abuse are definitely deal breakers. A partner that makes you question your worth 🚩🚩re emetxe di youtubers that are negative that will read the title and assume yall are divorcing 😏
Hayi bawo le maka
I don't think bringing people into your space is ideal, you know? Your safety will be compromised and people don't always have your best interest at heart. However, you can still do a live on TH-cam, i'm not sure if they'll physically appear like on Instagram but they'll still join.
Thanks
I love you Fam❤❤❤
I love you guys 😍😍
I think you should post twice a week. Accommodate those who love sit-downs, and us who love vlogs 😆. I love your vlogs more than sit downs. :(☹☹
Totally agree 🥺❤