Breakups do suck. I had a pretty bad one in October and it ended super suddenly. I've healed a lot since then, but it was rough. By the time the divorce was finalized I was a lot happier. I'm now the happiest I've ever been. I'm glad you have a positive outlook on it. You're wonderful.
I don’t usually comment but I’ve dealt with a nasty breakup before so I know how much needed support is. You’re not alone and it’ll get so much easier, I promise. Just be patient with yourself and try to not expect healing to be linear. You got this. Thank you for sharing and take as much time as you need. This community will be patient :) I’m sorry this happened to you
I just have to say that even through a breakup you still got out of bed did your makeup and made a video talking about it that took a lot of courage and strength. you could have easily posted a message and said I needed a break but you didn’t. Stay well and keep your head up! Thank you for everything! ❤️
A saying comes to mind: “Life is what happens when you’re busy making plans for it.” I can relate to that feeling where, one minute everything looks and feels normal. Then, in a blink of an eye, everything comes unravelled.
I completely understand and feel you. I also left a 7 year relationship a month ago. It was inevitable and was going to happen eventually and my real fear and doubt was being a single mom of 3. This video and message is what I needed. I am so calm and sure. Thank you for sharing.
How is this for timing? You have no idea how this one hits, especially today. Thank you for opening up to us. I hope you have someone who comforts you as you're here to comfort us.
I appreciate this so much shortie. Just went through a breakup myself, and while it wasn't near as long as 7 years, I've been there too. Glad you're sharing so much of yourself and still managing to be so positive through it all. The world is a better place with you in it for sure.
We got your back J, as much as you've provided comfort to us in times of healing, let us now provide that comfort to you while you're healing. Thank you for trusting us enough with your story to share it. Our story, our song, is a uniquely personal thing, and I want you to know we as a community guard your story and that our hearts tear with yours.
Thanks for sharing. I just had to break off an engagement from a 4 year relationship. It just wouldn’t have worked. You have value, and someone will undoubtedly see it. I know you’ll find the right person. And you’re making perfect sense. I’m so happy to see you smiling about it. Glad you have a place to stay. The growth will be unmatched. Stay sober if you can. Thanks for opening up.
I appreciate this video so much! Currently going through a break up with the father of my children after almost 8 years together. One of the hardest things I’ve had to go through
😔 I'm so sorry. Everything does happen for a reason and although it doesn't feel great right now it will get better. You are an incredibly talented person with so much to look forward too ❤️. You are making perfect sense too. This video is also super relaxing, you're whisper is so soothing and your delicate hand movements 😴. Love youuuu
Such wisdom, kindness, generosity and vulnerability; thank you for sharing and I hope you feel the love that this community you’ve built has for you … after all, you’ve given us so much love and comfort over the years you’re owed it many times over!! Xx
Breakups are rough. I remember for about six months after my first breakup, I absolutely was a different person. They really are terrible. But then a switch flipped one day and I decided I didn’t want to feel horrible anymore. You will more than bounce back. We love ya!
You honour us with your transparency. And it's amazing that you can be here for us, while we're here for you. Thank you for the reminder that pain fades with time. "This too shall pass", as the sages say.
Thank you for sharing. It takes a strong person to look back at a negative experience and learn and teach about that experience. Confronting the feelings that come with that can be scary and daunting, so thank you very much and we are proud of you. Wishing you the best shortie!
I have a feeling this video is going to help a LOT of people in the years to come. Thanks for sharing so much. I'd offer some sort of comforting gesture but choreographing a fight scene for you is basically all I'm good for.🤷 🎬
You are a fantastic ASMR creator and human being. Glad to see you back on TH-cam, but make sure you take the time you need to heal after your break-up. I will be here when you are ready with the next video, and I'm willing to wager everyone else will be too x
Appreciate all you’ve done and saddened by your loss. Wishing you well on your journey to discover your new life. I went through a break up that shook me 10 years ago and today while still single I’m very happy and guiding my life a direction I know will return me to a relationship when I’m ready. You’ve got this.
Thank you for your honesty. I am amazed at your strength, your ability to talk about it. I'm praying you will take the time you need to heal, and move on when you're ready... And THANK YOU for giving of yourself with each video you share! Blessings!
You and another one of my favorites ASMRtists have gone through a breakup recently and I’m so sorry that this happened. You can now grow and focus on yourself as an individual which is super important. Sending love ❤️
I don't even know how I stumbled into this, but I "enjoyed" every second of it and left a well deserved sub for you. I also had a breakup not that long ago, so damn I know how you must feel right now. You have my respect that you had the strenght to make such a relaxing and awesome video even though the "reason" behind it is really sad and not easy at all. I hope this video helped yourself to get yourself through this phase. Always keep in mind, you are also a person in itself and just because you are single doesn't mean you're worth any less than everybody else in the world. Stay strong!
Sending love to u Shortie. ❤ I've been there and it was super painful and weird for a little while, but in the end one of the best decisions I ever made. Your attitude tells me everything will work out beautifully for you, just give it time 😊
You are loved sm Shortie💗 u don’t have to tell us anything nd we appreciate u opening up about what u r going through. Sending u biggest hug. Sorry about ur breakup beautiful but never forget that u r stronger than u think💗
Break ups do suck, you’re exactly right about that. I remember going through a break up a few years ago that was unexpected and it just knocks you completely off. However, I have to say that for you to go through all of that and not getting the property you were waiting so long for and still making a video. You deserve a ton of respect for that. It’s so easy to worry about what will happen in the future, but just take it one step at a time, take a deep breath and try to stay positive and everything will be easier. You are amazing and you deserve the best.
shortbread, I have come back to this video so much later because my boyfriend and I of nearly 3 years I think are breaking up today. this video hopefully will help me feel comfort in this hard time. thank you again for this video!
I needed this today- thank you. I'm always praying for you, and I know you'll land on your feet and keep going. Our scars are real but they make us stronger. Love ya, Shortie!
Break ups are incredibly difficult, so I’m very sorry you’re dealing with that. I am also currently dealing with that after a 6 year relationship, so I hear you. This video was a great comfort, and I hope it brought you some comfort to create it. While break ups are really awful and painful, you are beautiful and strong and you will get through this 💗
Oh my... blown away that this is this first time I've watched one of your videos but I still felt absolutely compelled to hear your story. I truly believe we can all come out of things like this stronger than before because we still take all of the good with us. Thank you for sharing your story.
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear such sad news, dear one. ☹️Thank you for opening up your heart to us. I hope sharing it could ease your pain a wee bit. Thanks for giving comfort when you are in need of comfort yourself. I really wish you can gain some comfort in the heartfelt sympathy, we all feel for you.❤️ We are with you. You are in our hearts. Love and hugs for you always. 🤗❤️
New to the channel but I’ve been enjoying the back catalog! Sorry about the breakup, but glad you found a positive way to work with it and appreciate the bravery to be vulnerable in front of an audience
I gone through that feelings and finally reached back , you're a strong soul &u r doing great , whatever you want to do just do... lots of love and support dear from my side ❤️
You don't have to share intimate details about this. I wholeheartedly understand what you're saying. I see it in your eyes. It's the same pain I've seen in mine. You'll pull through. Stay strong. We'll all be here for you.
Hey Shortie! We all love what you do for us. You are an amazing, savvy, gorgeous person. Good times are just around the corner I'm sure. Much love from Australia 🙂
yeah it is rough losing someone who is such a big part of your life, who you care for. I wish you the time and comfort to heal, and that the right person eventually finds you. thank you for your comforting videos
Hey Shortie! I hope you’re feeling alright as of the typing of this comment. From personal experience, break ups are never easy. I’ve taken them pretty hard and have kept me in a state of constant misery. But it took me a long time to realize that things really do get better afterwards. They really do! It just works in ways we don’t fully notice. It also helps to listen to comforting words from friends, family, and videos like these (shoot, I definitely have watched *your* videos during times of heartbreak so thank you for that 🙏). I’m glad you were able to keep it on good terms with the fella. Seven years is a long time but you’ll be alright! That goes for anyone reading this!
Sorry that you are going through this, hope you feel better. I honestly can't relate to a breakup since I have never even gotten a date in my life (late 30s). But I'm sure you'll eventually heal from the pain.
Wow. I’m so proud of you for being strong and encouraging us even while you’re going through it. I only hope we can do the same for you. We are here for you my friend. Much love! xx
Really kind of you to post this, even though it's so personal! If it's therapeutic for you to say it all, then that's brilliant and I hope this helps bring closure. You are awesome pal, keep on being you!
Breakups suck a lot. I’m going through one also. We’ve missed you. And we love you. And we do have each other. We are in this together. This little community. This little loving village of internet people. It’s beautiful. We’re so proud of you! Stay strong. Xoxoxo from Wilmington, NC, USA. ♥️🐝
I haven't been in a relationship for 7 yrs. It does suck! You got to embrace & learn from what you go through. I been there, good support & comfort really matters. You're very beautiful 🙂
I hope you truly know that your viewers really care about you too. I'm sure I can speak for so many of us when I say that you are a bright spot in our lives, and we want you to be happy and living your best life. You can make it through this difficult time, we are with you in spirit. I may not be going through a breakup, but I'm having some very difficult family issues these past 6 months, and your videos, including this one, are a source of positivity and comfort that means more than you could know. Thank you
Breakups are really tough. I'm "glad" that yours ended on good terms at least. I've had a bad breakup when I was 15. Honestly, I didn't know what I wanted back then, ended up being in a toxic relationship, so the fact that it ended after some months isn't that surprising for me by now, but it was really devastating for me at that time. Thank you for opening up even though you didn't have to. I hope you take enough time to heal. But if you need help, we're here for you. You're helping us all the time, so I'm more than happy to give it back ❤️
Thank you, I went through one a little over a month ago and I'm still trying to figure out the aftermath. I hope you get through it stronger than before
The worst part of this is that im going through the same thing with a girl ive loved of 10 years and now that its over and hearing you i wish i could give you a hug.
Hey Shortie! I just want you to know that we (your community) are all here for you in our own ways. I'm sorry to learn of your heartache and I wish that I could take the sting out of it all. But I commend you for your courage and compassion as you share yourself with us. You've been a comfort to so many of us. I hope you know that you are an amazing person with so many talents. I think I can speak for all of us on your channel when I say that our lives have been enriched by you in some way or another. I hope that there is some comfort in that for you
So sorry about your breakup. I know how hard it is. How much loss that comes with it. I've been dealing with a breakup just now too. It makes me feel like I don't matter. That I could never be loved. But I've been trying to remind myself that I can't see the future. I can't get defeated. And trying to have hope even during this time of grief. It definitely sucks. We'll be stronger for it and learn things about ourselves for when the right one does come along.
As they say, the compassionate also need compassion, the healer also needs healing. I'm glad you took time for yourself. I wish you comfort and light. You are a joy to so many.
Glad to see you back. It's almost funny how this vid resonates for me right now. Not necessarily going through a real break up but it's def been a hard July. Thanks for making this! It's been pretty helpful 😊
Ending on good terms is art. Once upon a time, I didn't manage, and I never recovered from it. But you help me heal a lot. And I'm far away, but I'm here for you.
My boyfriend just broke up with me yesterday afternoon and god it is so heartwrenching. I woke up this morning and I just wanted to throw up and cry. But i know I'll be okay, it will just take some time. Even though I'm so young, it feels like memories just ran away from me. My best friend and my love left and its so hard but I understood and agreed that we shouldn't be together even though my heart aches saying it.
Trust me, the day WILL come when the pain goes away. You are amazing, compassionate, talented and intelligent - the world is your oyster. So spread your wings and see what's waiting out there for you. 💕
That took real guts to reveal so much. Kudos. Life is change. Accepting that simple fact helps. You’re an exceptional person and an exquisite woman. You deserve the best and I’m sure you’ll experience it. 🙌
I can totally relate to what you're going through. It takes courage to make a video like this; kudos to you. You seem to be doing okay. Thank you and keep your head up. 🙂
Everytime I'm having a particularly hard day just thinking over some hard times I open TH-cam and there it is, a brand new ASMR upload on the exact thing I was thinking about.
Glad your back I'm still hurting from my last break up from a long time ago but I'm trying to go on with my life but I love your calm and love your accent makes it even more calming I hope to find love again but I doubt it much love and respect you Shortbread
The genuineness you exude to us, your adoring audience, is what sets you and your channel apart from the others. Thank you for that. I only hope you can feel the genuine love and gratitude coming your way from this side of the camera and mic 🙂
So sorry you’re going thru this. Yes, 7 years is a very long time. If its any consolation, NOT breaking up can be even worse, if it’s no longer meant to be (speaking from experience here). Chin up Shortie. You’re a beautiful person, both inside and out, and you’ll be better than fine before you know it 🙂
Breakups are indeed hard, but sometimes open up possibilities one wouldn't have had previously. Crank some Phil Collins and let the emotions do their cleansing. I always relied on "Against All Odds" and "I Wish It Would Rain Down"...that last one at full volume of course. Be well and healthy healing! We all appreciate what you do for us, and you sharing bits of your personal life means a lot!
You are a beautiful soul. We’re all on a journey who knows where it takes us???? Relationships and partings are difficult 😞 mine ended with a six month breakdown. I’m a very strong person but even I could be broken. Stay strong and keep going my heart goes out to you xxx
Change is scary! But sometimes as you say change is the right thing to do. Am on a journey to help change some things about myself. It's a helluva process but it's helping. And I'll keep at it till I feel I'm ok. Keep going Shortie! Again I'm very sorry for what happened to ya. But it's good to open up and let out the pain. It's also nice that you shared it with all of us. We've got your back. Sending hugs 🤗 💖
So amazing to have ypu back😘 sorry to hear about the break up, sounds like i was going to happen in the future anyway. You are a very strong young woman 💪🏼 i look forward to more content and honest talk ❤️
I’m sorry to hear about the breakup… you are quite lovely and we both know you’ll find love again, being as lovely as you are! 🥰❤️ Sorry to hear about the home too!
Bless you Shortie. I'm so sorry that you're going through this. You have such a beautiful soul and wonderful personality, that I know you will find love again when you're ready. Whoever you choose will be very lucky indeed. I see I'm a month late though, so hopefully you're doing a little better by now and the pain is beginning to ease. Big hugs to you lovely.
Hey Shortie, just wanted to let you know that you’re not alone. Believe it or not I also just went through a bad breakup last week and the pain sucks, but your wonderful vids have helped me get through this. Remember that we care about you and you are loved 💙
New to ur community. Life is strange. Everything can't be explained. Totally understand that feeling. I myself was in a 5 yr relationship many moons ago in my 20s. I am much older now. You got this. She got married yrs later. Me not so much. I'm still single but music has been my savior and I am fine. But yeah all kinds of emotions come crashing down on you after a breakup. Can't say it didn't affect me but you will survive and this will make you stronger and it will give you a chance to reflect on a better you. Thanks for being brave in sharing such a vulnerable time in your life. Peace and love.
I’m going through a divorce, although it is though and lonesome, painful and full of sadness, you are absolutely right, it is better to do something about it, not afraid of change but excited about leaving what once was going nowhere and find your happiness discovering that the relationship became very distant, I believe loneliness includes some painful portion of the process, it derives sadness and a broken sentiment which induces a higher level of melancholic distance inebriated in all directions, it is a passage that it must be traveled to understand one’s failures and mistakes to renew ourselves into somebody who we always wanted to be but never reached. Sorry I got carried away with my feelings, something I never do but you seem to be the right person to talk during these times.
Hi shortbread and just wanted to let you know I just been watching the video you posted. Sorry for your recent relationship not working out anymore but I wanted to send positive thoughts to you and tell you everything is going to be okay. Take time for yourself focus on everything else and what makes you happy. You're the most powerful person and coolest ASMR artist I've ever known. You'll be fine. Jonathan
I wish you pease and love. It is beautiful watching you smile! It comes over you like a wave coming ashore on the beach. It comes and goes with the soft comfort of knowing that there will be more.
Emotional shocks can be worse than physical trauma, especially with the practical changes you've had to make suddenly. I've been there a few times but as they say time heals everything 😊
I can't really weigh in on breakups, but I have experienced my share of strife over the last few years. I've learned that I am capable of persisting even when my world is flipped, ripped, and whipped. We don't have much choice but to get on with things, but it does get easier.
Wow! I’ve been kind of going on a bender watching your videos the last few days because, well, there is something very genuine about you that is just filling a gap I need right now. It’s like sitting in a library with a great friend, chatting about life, and enjoying their warmth, kindness, and extremely expressive hand gestures. After going through a few of your posts, I felt compelled to send you a little Christmas something, something because your vids are so comforting to me . . . you are like the human embodiment of the Sarah McLachlan song “Arms of an Angel.” Anyway, this particular post of yours struck me because it demonstrates what a warm and genuine human being you are. I’m sorry life took an unexpected detour for you, I’m glad you’ve shown hopeful resilience to buoy you through the storm, and I’m pleased to learn that you find as much comfort from your conversations with us viewers and as you give to us . . . or, speaking for myself, to me. Anyway, please keep up being the truly awesome person you are and know that, across a wide ocean, their is this faceless/nameless guy who really digs your work and considers you a friend! Rock on!
Sorry to hear that. And you’re right about all the questions you ask yourself. I was in a 12 year relationship that ended simply because we were not the same people we were when we first got together. We changed. What I used to feel for her changed. It was horrible letting go, but ultimately the best thing for both of us. Things will get better. Life will get better. You will find love again. Take it one day at a time. 💪🏾
Thank you for this. My relationship ended maybe in the worst way imaginable. But I'm still here ready to be a father and manage a full time job while also having studies. Stuck in a beastmode
A few years ago, your video about, it’s ok to not be ok, helped me through not a breakup, but rejection. I sat with my feelings for a long time, like just sitting with a friend and listening. It helped so much. I have so much respect for what seems to be Scottish philosophy. I really think I need to live there for some time, at some point. Marriage isn’t always the answer it seems to be. There’s a story full of hurt there for me, that I’m still working through. Fun fact: my best friend is American Scottish, and is related to William Wallace. He moved away and I’m planning some big changes, even if many don’t support me. Much love, from a fellow violinist. Process away, sit with the uncomfortable feelings without judgment, and you just might be surprised at the results. I know I was.
Glad you’re back. 7 years is indeed a long time. Be patient in the next steps of your journey. You’ll bounce back fine! Take care of yourself as best you can!
So sorry for you and you’re right, break ups suck and I’ve experienced a few bad ones in my time. But then one day when I wasn’t looking for love I stumbled upon it and have been happily married for 12yrs this Feb and we’ve recently adopted 2 children ❤️ I’m sure you’ll meet someone who fixes that heart of yours in the future x
I just discovered this channel (and ASMR) and you are just incredible! I'm definitely addicted to your voice and that accent already. ❤️ Thank you for sharing something so personal. You are helping many people including myself with this. ❤️
Before you know it you'll feel better than ever. You're such a beautiful person, inside and out. You'll absolutely find love again when the time is right. Thank you for all that you do. Much love to you
No matter where life ahead leads for you, you are going to be surrounded by love. You are a beautiful soul. All things for a reason, as they say. Scant comfort but nonetheless wholly true. We're always going to be here, Shortie. Peace and healing as you need it x
Breakups do indeed suck. We had grown apart, fell out love with each other and were always arguing which was affecting our young kids. Yes we were engaged but never got to the wedding ring. That was 16 years ago now. Time is a healer they say. Keep being positive there young lady.
My boyfriend was in a relationship for 8 years. He says TIME was his solution. He talked about little triggers that reminded him of her, but over time he healed, he focused on the present, living in the moment, and moved on. Keep your head up and I'm sure you'll find somebody with plans/life goals that align more with yours. 💚
Yup, they do suck. I had a toxic relationship end some time ago (it was like a 6+ year relationship). I know it's easy to start blaming yourself or wallowing in self-pitty but try not to do it. It's for the better that things ended.
You don't owe us any explanation but thank you for opening up. We love you! Thank you for everything you do.
I really appreciate your support! Thank you and sending you lots love hugs. xx
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Breakups do suck. I had a pretty bad one in October and it ended super suddenly. I've healed a lot since then, but it was rough. By the time the divorce was finalized I was a lot happier. I'm now the happiest I've ever been. I'm glad you have a positive outlook on it. You're wonderful.
That's too bad but at least you saw the bright side of it
I don’t usually comment but I’ve dealt with a nasty breakup before so I know how much needed support is. You’re not alone and it’ll get so much easier, I promise. Just be patient with yourself and try to not expect healing to be linear.
You got this. Thank you for sharing and take as much time as you need. This community will be patient :) I’m sorry this happened to you
I've been watching/listening to this for several consecutive nights and it's really been helping. Thank you.
I'm so glad I was able to help you a wee bit. I hope you're doing okay - you've got this! 🫶🏻
Sad to hear about your breakup, but good that you're okay. Thanks for this video I needed it 😊
You're so welcome! 💜
I just have to say that even through a breakup you still got out of bed did your makeup and made a video talking about it that took a lot of courage and strength. you could have easily posted a message and said I needed a break but you didn’t. Stay well and keep your head up! Thank you for everything! ❤️
A saying comes to mind: “Life is what happens when you’re busy making plans for it.” I can relate to that feeling where, one minute everything looks and feels normal. Then, in a blink of an eye, everything comes unravelled.
I completely understand and feel you. I also left a 7 year relationship a month ago. It was inevitable and was going to happen eventually and my real fear and doubt was being a single mom of 3. This video and message is what I needed. I am so calm and sure. Thank you for sharing.
How is this for timing? You have no idea how this one hits, especially today. Thank you for opening up to us. I hope you have someone who comforts you as you're here to comfort us.
I appreciate this so much shortie. Just went through a breakup myself, and while it wasn't near as long as 7 years, I've been there too. Glad you're sharing so much of yourself and still managing to be so positive through it all. The world is a better place with you in it for sure.
Break ups are always hard, time makes it easier but it always hurts. You are a wonderful person.
We got your back J, as much as you've provided comfort to us in times of healing, let us now provide that comfort to you while you're healing. Thank you for trusting us enough with your story to share it. Our story, our song, is a uniquely personal thing, and I want you to know we as a community guard your story and that our hearts tear with yours.
"Breakups suck." Such a simple phrase but damn this hit hard, I felt it. Thank you for sharing your experience. This was really sweet and helpful. 🖤
Thanks for sharing. I just had to break off an engagement from a 4 year relationship. It just wouldn’t have worked. You have value, and someone will undoubtedly see it. I know you’ll find the right person. And you’re making perfect sense. I’m so happy to see you smiling about it. Glad you have a place to stay. The growth will be unmatched. Stay sober if you can. Thanks for opening up.
I appreciate this video so much! Currently going through a break up with the father of my children after almost 8 years together. One of the hardest things I’ve had to go through
😔 I'm so sorry. Everything does happen for a reason and although it doesn't feel great right now it will get better. You are an incredibly talented person with so much to look forward too ❤️. You are making perfect sense too.
This video is also super relaxing, you're whisper is so soothing and your delicate hand movements 😴. Love youuuu
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Such wisdom, kindness, generosity and vulnerability; thank you for sharing and I hope you feel the love that this community you’ve built has for you … after all, you’ve given us so much love and comfort over the years you’re owed it many times over!! Xx
Breakups are rough. I remember for about six months after my first breakup, I absolutely was a different person. They really are terrible. But then a switch flipped one day and I decided I didn’t want to feel horrible anymore.
You will more than bounce back. We love ya!
You honour us with your transparency. And it's amazing that you can be here for us, while we're here for you. Thank you for the reminder that pain fades with time. "This too shall pass", as the sages say.
Thank you for sharing. It takes a strong person to look back at a negative experience and learn and teach about that experience. Confronting the feelings that come with that can be scary and daunting, so thank you very much and we are proud of you. Wishing you the best shortie!
I have a feeling this video is going to help a LOT of people in the years to come.
Thanks for sharing so much.
I'd offer some sort of comforting gesture but choreographing a fight scene for you is basically all I'm good for.🤷 🎬
You are a fantastic ASMR creator and human being. Glad to see you back on TH-cam, but make sure you take the time you need to heal after your break-up. I will be here when you are ready with the next video, and I'm willing to wager everyone else will be too x
Appreciate all you’ve done and saddened by your loss. Wishing you well on your journey to discover your new life. I went through a break up that shook me 10 years ago and today while still single I’m very happy and guiding my life a direction I know will return me to a relationship when I’m ready. You’ve got this.
Breakups are so hard. Sending you so much love for healing. ❤️
Thank you for your honesty. I am amazed at your strength, your ability to talk about it. I'm praying you will take the time you need to heal, and move on when you're ready... And THANK YOU for giving of yourself with each video you share! Blessings!
You and another one of my favorites ASMRtists have gone through a breakup recently and I’m so sorry that this happened. You can now grow and focus on yourself as an individual which is super important. Sending love ❤️
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I don't even know how I stumbled into this, but I "enjoyed" every second of it and left a well deserved sub for you.
I also had a breakup not that long ago, so damn I know how you must feel right now. You have my respect that you had the strenght to make such a relaxing and awesome video even though the "reason" behind it is really sad and not easy at all.
I hope this video helped yourself to get yourself through this phase. Always keep in mind, you are also a person in itself and just because you are single doesn't mean you're worth any less than everybody else in the world. Stay strong!
Sending love to u Shortie. ❤ I've been there and it was super painful and weird for a little while, but in the end one of the best decisions I ever made. Your attitude tells me everything will work out beautifully for you, just give it time 😊
You are loved sm Shortie💗 u don’t have to tell us anything nd we appreciate u opening up about what u r going through. Sending u biggest hug. Sorry about ur breakup beautiful but never forget that u r stronger than u think💗
Break ups do suck, you’re exactly right about that. I remember going through a break up a few years ago that was unexpected and it just knocks you completely off. However, I have to say that for you to go through all of that and not getting the property you were waiting so long for and still making a video. You deserve a ton of respect for that. It’s so easy to worry about what will happen in the future, but just take it one step at a time, take a deep breath and try to stay positive and everything will be easier. You are amazing and you deserve the best.
shortbread, I have come back to this video so much later because my boyfriend and I of nearly 3 years I think are breaking up today.
this video hopefully will help me feel comfort in this hard time. thank you again for this video!
I needed this today- thank you. I'm always praying for you, and I know you'll land on your feet and keep going. Our scars are real but they make us stronger. Love ya, Shortie!
Break ups are incredibly difficult, so I’m very sorry you’re dealing with that. I am also currently dealing with that after a 6 year relationship, so I hear you. This video was a great comfort, and I hope it brought you some comfort to create it. While break ups are really awful and painful, you are beautiful and strong and you will get through this 💗
Oh my... blown away that this is this first time I've watched one of your videos but I still felt absolutely compelled to hear your story. I truly believe we can all come out of things like this stronger than before because we still take all of the good with us. Thank you for sharing your story.
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear such sad news, dear one. ☹️Thank you for opening up your heart to us. I hope sharing it could ease your pain a wee bit. Thanks for giving comfort when you are in need of comfort yourself. I really wish you can gain some comfort in the heartfelt sympathy, we all feel for you.❤️ We are with you. You are in our hearts. Love and hugs for you always. 🤗❤️
I appreciate that you shared something so intimate. We're here for you while you heal.
New to the channel but I’ve been enjoying the back catalog! Sorry about the breakup, but glad you found a positive way to work with it and appreciate the bravery to be vulnerable in front of an audience
I love that you’re honest and open🥺 You’re such a sweetheart 🥰 I’m glad that you’re okay
I gone through that feelings and finally reached back , you're a strong soul &u r doing great , whatever you want to do just do... lots of love and support dear from my side ❤️
You don't have to share intimate details about this. I wholeheartedly understand what you're saying. I see it in your eyes. It's the same pain I've seen in mine. You'll pull through. Stay strong. We'll all be here for you.
Hey shortbread, sorry to hear about your troubles. I have been watching you for 2 years. You are my favourite ASMRtist
Hey Shortie!
We all love what you do for us. You are an amazing, savvy, gorgeous person. Good times are just around the corner I'm sure. Much love from Australia 🙂
yeah it is rough losing someone who is such a big part of your life, who you care for. I wish you the time and comfort to heal, and that the right person eventually finds you. thank you for your comforting videos
Hey Shortie! I hope you’re feeling alright as of the typing of this comment. From personal experience, break ups are never easy. I’ve taken them pretty hard and have kept me in a state of constant misery. But it took me a long time to realize that things really do get better afterwards. They really do! It just works in ways we don’t fully notice. It also helps to listen to comforting words from friends, family, and videos like these (shoot, I definitely have watched *your* videos during times of heartbreak so thank you for that 🙏). I’m glad you were able to keep it on good terms with the fella. Seven years is a long time but you’ll be alright! That goes for anyone reading this!
Sorry that you are going through this, hope you feel better. I honestly can't relate to a breakup since I have never even gotten a date in my life (late 30s). But I'm sure you'll eventually heal from the pain.
Wow. I’m so proud of you for being strong and encouraging us even while you’re going through it. I only hope we can do the same for you. We are here for you my friend. Much love! xx
Really kind of you to post this, even though it's so personal! If it's therapeutic for you to say it all, then that's brilliant and I hope this helps bring closure. You are awesome pal, keep on being you!
Breakups suck a lot. I’m going through one also. We’ve missed you. And we love you. And we do have each other. We are in this together. This little community. This little loving village of internet people. It’s beautiful. We’re so proud of you! Stay strong. Xoxoxo from Wilmington, NC, USA. ♥️🐝
I haven't been in a relationship for 7 yrs. It does suck! You got to embrace & learn from what you go through. I been there, good support & comfort really matters.
You're very beautiful 🙂
I hope you truly know that your viewers really care about you too. I'm sure I can speak for so many of us when I say that you are a bright spot in our lives, and we want you to be happy and living your best life. You can make it through this difficult time, we are with you in spirit. I may not be going through a breakup, but I'm having some very difficult family issues these past 6 months, and your videos, including this one, are a source of positivity and comfort that means more than you could know. Thank you
Breakups are really tough. I'm "glad" that yours ended on good terms at least. I've had a bad breakup when I was 15. Honestly, I didn't know what I wanted back then, ended up being in a toxic relationship, so the fact that it ended after some months isn't that surprising for me by now, but it was really devastating for me at that time.
Thank you for opening up even though you didn't have to. I hope you take enough time to heal. But if you need help, we're here for you. You're helping us all the time, so I'm more than happy to give it back ❤️
Thank you, I went through one a little over a month ago and I'm still trying to figure out the aftermath. I hope you get through it stronger than before
The worst part of this is that im going through the same thing with a girl ive loved of 10 years and now that its over and hearing you i wish i could give you a hug.
Hey Shortie! I just want you to know that we (your community) are all here for you in our own ways. I'm sorry to learn of your heartache and I wish that I could take the sting out of it all. But I commend you for your courage and compassion as you share yourself with us. You've been a comfort to so many of us. I hope you know that you are an amazing person with so many talents. I think I can speak for all of us on your channel when I say that our lives have been enriched by you in some way or another. I hope that there is some comfort in that for you
That ramble defies description. You put your whole heart and talent into the role and it was truly amaźiñg.
So sorry about your breakup. I know how hard it is. How much loss that comes with it. I've been dealing with a breakup just now too. It makes me feel like I don't matter. That I could never be loved. But I've been trying to remind myself that I can't see the future. I can't get defeated. And trying to have hope even during this time of grief. It definitely sucks. We'll be stronger for it and learn things about ourselves for when the right one does come along.
As they say, the compassionate also need compassion, the healer also needs healing. I'm glad you took time for yourself. I wish you comfort and light. You are a joy to so many.
Glad to see you back. It's almost funny how this vid resonates for me right now. Not necessarily going through a real break up but it's def been a hard July. Thanks for making this! It's been pretty helpful 😊
Ending on good terms is art. Once upon a time, I didn't manage, and I never recovered from it. But you help me heal a lot. And I'm far away, but I'm here for you.
My boyfriend just broke up with me yesterday afternoon and god it is so heartwrenching. I woke up this morning and I just wanted to throw up and cry. But i know I'll be okay, it will just take some time.
Even though I'm so young, it feels like memories just ran away from me. My best friend and my love left and its so hard but I understood and agreed that we shouldn't be together even though my heart aches saying it.
Trust me, the day WILL come when the pain goes away. You are amazing, compassionate, talented and intelligent - the world is your oyster. So spread your wings and see what's waiting out there for you. 💕
That took real guts to reveal so much. Kudos. Life is change. Accepting that simple fact helps. You’re an exceptional person and an exquisite woman. You deserve the best and I’m sure you’ll experience it. 🙌
I can totally relate to what you're going through. It takes courage to make a video like this; kudos to you. You seem to be doing okay. Thank you and keep your head up. 🙂
I’ve missed you. Been going back through older content while you were on break. 🖤 sending love to you🖤
Everytime I'm having a particularly hard day just thinking over some hard times I open TH-cam and there it is, a brand new ASMR upload on the exact thing I was thinking about.
Glad your back I'm still hurting from my last break up from a long time ago but I'm trying to go on with my life but I love your calm and love your accent makes it even more calming I hope to find love again but I doubt it much love and respect you Shortbread
The genuineness you exude to us, your adoring audience, is what sets you and your channel apart from the others. Thank you for that. I only hope you can feel the genuine love and gratitude coming your way from this side of the camera and mic 🙂
This is the one I needed. Exactly when I needed it. Love you Shortie. I think you just saved me.
I'm overwhelmed by this comment. Thank you for sharing. Sending you love. X
So sorry you’re going thru this. Yes, 7 years is a very long time. If its any consolation, NOT breaking up can be even worse, if it’s no longer meant to be (speaking from experience here).
Chin up Shortie. You’re a beautiful person, both inside and out, and you’ll be better than fine before you know it 🙂
Breakups are indeed hard, but sometimes open up possibilities one wouldn't have had previously. Crank some Phil Collins and let the emotions do their cleansing. I always relied on "Against All Odds" and "I Wish It Would Rain Down"...that last one at full volume of course. Be well and healthy healing! We all appreciate what you do for us, and you sharing bits of your personal life means a lot!
You are a beautiful soul. We’re all on a journey who knows where it takes us???? Relationships and partings are difficult 😞 mine ended with a six month breakdown. I’m a very strong person but even I could be broken. Stay strong and keep going my heart goes out to you xxx
Thanks for trusting us enough to open up. I’m sorry you are going through this but you got this 🤗🥰
Change is scary! But sometimes as you say change is the right thing to do. Am on a journey to help change some things about myself. It's a helluva process but it's helping. And I'll keep at it till I feel I'm ok.
Keep going Shortie! Again I'm very sorry for what happened to ya. But it's good to open up and let out the pain. It's also nice that you shared it with all of us. We've got your back. Sending hugs 🤗 💖
So amazing to have ypu back😘 sorry to hear about the break up, sounds like i was going to happen in the future anyway. You are a very strong young woman 💪🏼 i look forward to more content and honest talk ❤️
Love what you do abd the kindness you give you give. You don't need to explain, am just glad you doing okay ❤️ x
I’m sorry to hear about the breakup… you are quite lovely and we both know you’ll find love again, being as lovely as you are! 🥰❤️ Sorry to hear about the home too!
Bless you Shortie. I'm so sorry that you're going through this. You have such a beautiful soul and wonderful personality, that I know you will find love again when you're ready. Whoever you choose will be very lucky indeed. I see I'm a month late though, so hopefully you're doing a little better by now and the pain is beginning to ease. Big hugs to you lovely.
Hey Shortie, just wanted to let you know that you’re not alone. Believe it or not I also just went through a bad breakup last week and the pain sucks, but your wonderful vids have helped me get through this. Remember that we care about you and you are loved 💙
New to ur community. Life is strange. Everything can't be explained. Totally understand that feeling. I myself was in a 5 yr relationship many moons ago in my 20s. I am much older now. You got this. She got married yrs later. Me not so much. I'm still single but music has been my savior and I am fine. But yeah all kinds of emotions come crashing down on you after a breakup. Can't say it didn't affect me but you will survive and this will make you stronger and it will give you a chance to reflect on a better you. Thanks for being brave in sharing such a vulnerable time in your life. Peace and love.
I’m going through a divorce, although it is though and lonesome, painful and full of sadness, you are absolutely right, it is better to do something about it, not afraid of change but excited about leaving what once was going nowhere and find your happiness discovering that the relationship became very distant, I believe loneliness includes some painful portion of the process, it derives sadness and a broken sentiment which induces a higher level of melancholic distance inebriated in all directions, it is a passage that it must be traveled to understand one’s failures and mistakes to renew ourselves into somebody who we always wanted to be but never reached. Sorry I got carried away with my feelings, something I never do but you seem to be the right person to talk during these times.
Hi shortbread and just wanted to let you know I just been watching the video you posted. Sorry for your recent relationship not working out anymore but I wanted to send positive thoughts to you and tell you everything is going to be okay. Take time for yourself focus on everything else and what makes you happy. You're the most powerful person and coolest ASMR artist I've ever known. You'll be fine. Jonathan
I wish you pease and love. It is beautiful watching you smile! It comes over you like a wave coming ashore on the beach. It comes and goes with the soft comfort of knowing that there will be more.
Emotional shocks can be worse than physical trauma, especially with the practical changes you've had to make suddenly. I've been there a few times but as they say time heals everything 😊
I can't really weigh in on breakups, but I have experienced my share of strife over the last few years. I've learned that I am capable of persisting even when my world is flipped, ripped, and whipped. We don't have much choice but to get on with things, but it does get easier.
I hope you feel better soon. He is out of your life for a reason so be excited because it just means bigger and better things are headed your way.
Shortie!!! We’re here for you!!! It’s all love and light! Good to see you back!
Wow! I’ve been kind of going on a bender watching your videos the last few days because, well, there is something very genuine about you that is just filling a gap I need right now. It’s like sitting in a library with a great friend, chatting about life, and enjoying their warmth, kindness, and extremely expressive hand gestures. After going through a few of your posts, I felt compelled to send you a little Christmas something, something because your vids are so comforting to me . . . you are like the human embodiment of the Sarah McLachlan song “Arms of an Angel.”
Anyway, this particular post of yours struck me because it demonstrates what a warm and genuine human being you are. I’m sorry life took an unexpected detour for you, I’m glad you’ve shown hopeful resilience to buoy you through the storm, and I’m pleased to learn that you find as much comfort from your conversations with us viewers and as you give to us . . . or, speaking for myself, to me.
Anyway, please keep up being the truly awesome person you are and know that, across a wide ocean, their is this faceless/nameless guy who really digs your work and considers you a friend! Rock on!
Sorry to hear that. And you’re right about all the questions you ask yourself. I was in a 12 year relationship that ended simply because we were not the same people we were when we first got together. We changed. What I used to feel for her changed. It was horrible letting go, but ultimately the best thing for both of us. Things will get better. Life will get better. You will find love again. Take it one day at a time. 💪🏾
Thank you for this. My relationship ended maybe in the worst way imaginable. But I'm still here ready to be a father and manage a full time job while also having studies. Stuck in a beastmode
A few years ago, your video about, it’s ok to not be ok, helped me through not a breakup, but rejection. I sat with my feelings for a long time, like just sitting with a friend and listening. It helped so much.
I have so much respect for what seems to be Scottish philosophy. I really think I need to live there for some time, at some point.
Marriage isn’t always the answer it seems to be. There’s a story full of hurt there for me, that I’m still working through.
Fun fact: my best friend is American Scottish, and is related to William Wallace. He moved away and I’m planning some big changes, even if many don’t support me.
Much love, from a fellow violinist. Process away, sit with the uncomfortable feelings without judgment, and you just might be surprised at the results. I know I was.
Glad you’re back. 7 years is indeed a long time. Be patient in the next steps of your journey. You’ll bounce back fine! Take care of yourself as best you can!
So sorry for you and you’re right, break ups suck and I’ve experienced a few bad ones in my time. But then one day when I wasn’t looking for love I stumbled upon it and have been happily married for 12yrs this Feb and we’ve recently adopted 2 children ❤️ I’m sure you’ll meet someone who fixes that heart of yours in the future x
I just discovered this channel (and ASMR) and you are just incredible! I'm definitely addicted to your voice and that accent already. ❤️
Thank you for sharing something so personal. You are helping many people including myself with this. ❤️
Before you know it you'll feel better than ever. You're such a beautiful person, inside and out. You'll absolutely find love again when the time is right. Thank you for all that you do. Much love to you
Love having you back with us! Sorry about the break up but you will be stronger in the long run.Love from South Texas 🤠❤️Sam👍
I'm glad your doing better and glad to see you back doing videos and thank you for the update!
Aww I'm sorry Shortie. I know it's very difficult but like all things time will help. Good to see you back x
No matter where life ahead leads for you, you are going to be surrounded by love.
You are a beautiful soul. All things for a reason, as they say. Scant comfort but nonetheless wholly true.
We're always going to be here, Shortie. Peace and healing as you need it x
Breakups do indeed suck. We had grown apart, fell out love with each other and were always arguing which was affecting our young kids. Yes we were engaged but never got to the wedding ring. That was 16 years ago now. Time is a healer they say.
Keep being positive there young lady.
My boyfriend was in a relationship for 8 years. He says TIME was his solution. He talked about little triggers that reminded him of her, but over time he healed, he focused on the present, living in the moment, and moved on.
Keep your head up and I'm sure you'll find somebody with plans/life goals that align more with yours. 💚
Yup, they do suck.
I had a toxic relationship end some time ago (it was like a 6+ year relationship).
I know it's easy to start blaming yourself or wallowing in self-pitty but try not to do it. It's for the better that things ended.