Grieving and Timeless Love, with Tara Brach

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  • Grieving and Timeless Love, with Tara Brach
    How we relate to change and loss is directly connected to how fully we live and love. This talk looks at the classic ways we avoid opening to the realness of loss, and how our sorrows and grief can become a portal to awakening our heart and spirit.
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    With thanks and love, Tara
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  • @allisonblaustein7898
    @allisonblaustein7898 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you my son died 3/22. Tara’s talks are helping me

  • @cherylsolis236
    @cherylsolis236 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    in 2020 i lost my brother to covid, 3 months later my husband to cancer. 4 months later my father in law in early 2021. our family is always learning how to handle our grief. Hearing this insight was very helpful and helped to make sense of our loss. Grief is a process

    • @GrayWithMe
      @GrayWithMe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      it really is a process with an ebb and flow, with waves so powerful it takes your breath away and then other days it recedes and you feel almost alive - I hate it. Trying to get comfortable with the discomfort though

    • @EphemeralHumanBeing
      @EphemeralHumanBeing 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am so sorry for such a great loss you’ve gone through. I’m glad Tara’s message helped. You’re not alone ❤️‍🩹

    • @mslark9111
      @mslark9111 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dear Cheryl,
      Your losses are immense. I hear you. We can walk on this path awhile together. There are many of us trying to bear the grief alone but we do have each other and we can help each other heal. In my life, I am surrounded by angels...those people who give love in a smile, a hand on the shoulder, a warm greeting. I look for this evidence of love in my life and know my loved ones have never left me, even though it feels like I am alone, sometimes. Sending love and blessings.

    • @bronsonmcdonald5473
      @bronsonmcdonald5473 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mslark9111 That is beautiful 💞

  • @joena.
    @joena. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Thank you, Tara. You have an ease about you. Your calming and nurturing presence feels like a loving family member giving words of wisdom. I always feel rested and calm when I have your talks on. Sending much love and blessings 💖

  • @bettinadelsesto9088
    @bettinadelsesto9088 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Beautiful and gentle way of delivery by you,Tara, is helping me day by day. I have listened to this on grieving several times and it is sinking in drip by drip. Thank you and blessings to you and yours.

  • @kenlevi6630
    @kenlevi6630 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Deeply thankful. Exactly what I needed to hear. My son took his own life last year and I've become more aware lately of the ways I've been avoiding being with the incredible pain of the grief I've carried about it. This is a great help.

    • @punchlinecopy
      @punchlinecopy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      this internet stranger is sending you big hugs and strength.

    • @Kathie4
      @Kathie4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I am so sorry for your loss, Ken. I'm sending love your way.

    • @hadarovsky
      @hadarovsky 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💙🙏

    • @user-ei8rb7sj6c
      @user-ei8rb7sj6c 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @Ken Levi I am so sorry. Losing a child is almost unbearable, & suicide must add another layer to work through. Your comment caught my eye because I lost my son on 12/21/20. His death was ruled accidental, but his heart stopped while using an inhalant, and deep inside, I wonder if it really was accidental. He was only 43 but he was so tired of the emotional & physical pain he had battled & tried to numb for years.
      I’m seeing a counselor, reading grief books & attended a grief group for parents until I could no longer bear the weight of the other parents’ sorrow on top of my own.
      It’s been almost a year, & yet it feels as though it was only a month or two ago. It hurts so much, & I still cry almost every day. I’m a Christian & believe there must be a reason that I won’t understand until I get to Heaven myself. In the meantime, I just let the sadness leak out. I don’t have the willpower to make myself decorate, make Christmas plans, or do much of anything. I do have faith that in time, the pain will lessen. My hope & prayer is that one day I will again feel joy & be able to move forward. Good luck to you & may God bless you in your healing journey.

    • @GrayWithMe
      @GrayWithMe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sorry for your loss - I hope that things get easier for you as you attempt to deal with the grief you’ve been avoiding. Sending you healing energy.

  • @RoRoRoCda
    @RoRoRoCda 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Your most beautiful talk ever. I needed to hear this, tonight, now. Blessings 🙏 ❤

  • @judithwallace2091
    @judithwallace2091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    When your videos are played my cat leaps into my arms and cuddles at my heart. All is well now and forevermore. 💖

  • @rosieeilon1882
    @rosieeilon1882 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You make me cry with your beautiful stories where love and hope light up our world 💜
    Thank you for being such a generous spirit 🙏

  • @dawn1153
    @dawn1153 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lost my brother a few days ago. Feeling so raw. I'll return again to this talk during the next few weeks, and beyond, as I go through my own processes of grief. I really felt, during the meditations, that grief comes from love. Thank you Tara.

  • @gypsystar5884
    @gypsystar5884 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    SO THANKFUL everytime I listen to your talks Tara!🙏

  • @tammyrobison1355
    @tammyrobison1355 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are timeless and calm...bless your work for the ones awakening

  • @denisecote7869
    @denisecote7869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    you are a blessing to this world. Thank you for all your talks.
    xxxà

  • @gregorywacker5708
    @gregorywacker5708 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    At 50 now I lost my father when I was 9 . That event set the stage of how I delt with loss . thank you for this video , I plan on finding a quite place where I can reach out to each of my past loved ones and just talk and share how special they were to me . most of them I never had the chance to do that and I believe it's not to late . 🙏

  • @debrabrown9120
    @debrabrown9120 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I never grieved my divorce, but this year, I have felt the lost, and I have been trying to recognize that both of us were at fought, and put it to rest.🍁

  • @katrinahinton7310
    @katrinahinton7310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you. I feel one step closer to accepting the loss of my Darling parents. I think I’ve been holding back from acceptance so I don’t have to acknowledge the hole in my heart. But maybe now I can start to fill it with the memory of their amazing love. 💙

  • @allisonblaustein7898
    @allisonblaustein7898 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There are very few people able to just be present with my sorrow. I treasure those people. I hope that at least I can become that type of person as a result of my loss.

  • @mslark9111
    @mslark9111 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was able to return to grieving a loved one for whom I had never been able to properly grieve. And then I saw how the grief went back even further to my abandonment by my father. I can see how these losses have made it hard for me to give freely. Thank you, Tara, for the guided meditation. Luckily, my computer cut off which gave me extra time to explore my grief and see how hard I have struggled to move on without having paid attention to suffering the losses. Your video has helped me a lot. I feel as if something has lifted although I am still feeling sad, I know I will adjust with grace.

  • @uclassc
    @uclassc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I cried when you talked about the field of love and the monk, it’s so true if you embrace the grief you do feel that enormous love.

  • @tammyrobison1355
    @tammyrobison1355 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm currently grieving loss of my daughter who won't allow me to see my 1 month old grandson, she is living with a man who is a drug dealer and has his habit in the home, he's married to another woman, has been unfaithful, various things she told me and she decided to continue on with this person who I can't enable to not work and take care of what my daughter does deserve, I'm finding I cannot control her, him, the situation is her path. We aren't speaking and I'm just trying to deal with my own grief by allowing me to live my own life and let go of the illusion of control...

    • @tammyrobison1355
      @tammyrobison1355 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Meaning I have given my adult child money and items , I took on her struggles so, it is a freedom to let go totally, for her to face and process or not her decisions for her life

  • @1010tigerlily
    @1010tigerlily 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank You Dear❤️ Tara!

  • @mrsmacca126
    @mrsmacca126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you, Tara. You are like a living calmant! 🙏🌸

  • @taowalker833
    @taowalker833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much for this. I really appreciate it.

  • @bronsonmcdonald5473
    @bronsonmcdonald5473 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Tara 💗

  • @samanthasmith8376
    @samanthasmith8376 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is truly a gift 🙏

  • @clairef.shepard2776
    @clairef.shepard2776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Tara
    As always you are a powerful gentle force of healing love and I wish you all blessings. Namaste.

  • @elisabethannwexler4728
    @elisabethannwexler4728 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What an amazing & true gift. I am grateful to you, Tara for your compassion, guidance & inspiration.

  • @dominictambuzzoayurvedamas9093
    @dominictambuzzoayurvedamas9093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Tara.

  • @dianahurt4006
    @dianahurt4006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    🙏 Thank you Tara. I have so much inner searching to do. You are a blessing. ❤

  • @davevillaflor3267
    @davevillaflor3267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Tara 🤗❤️

  • @michellep6704
    @michellep6704 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Tara. I needed this.

  • @randallwing3105
    @randallwing3105 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    now i know my tears are not in vain. than you

  • @pennyschnee-bosch8058
    @pennyschnee-bosch8058 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for during your deep understanding of grief.
    I realized that my clinging had everything to do with fear of losing myself. Since I've been embracing that I have been feeling much lighter.

  • @amyludwig8685
    @amyludwig8685 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @grainneoconnor9010
    @grainneoconnor9010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You have an amazing soul

  • @irenemacdonald4955
    @irenemacdonald4955 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful Tara, thank you. So tender and sensitive.

  • @liannabergan1357
    @liannabergan1357 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thankyou so much.

  • @roryschaefer1076
    @roryschaefer1076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tara, thank you for being such a beautiful gift!

  • @irma7354
    @irma7354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank youuuuu! 🙏🌟🙏

  • @nothing-oh1cg
    @nothing-oh1cg ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed 2hear this Now. losing myself in blame...from blaming the person or myself. 'vengeance is a lazy form of grief'. Thank u Tara💜

  • @Pingu1963
    @Pingu1963 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you 🙏

  • @angelikafarrell3267
    @angelikafarrell3267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you 💗 thank you 💗 thank you 💗

  • @lansingday1453
    @lansingday1453 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you 🙏🏽

  • @estherabe9035
    @estherabe9035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Tara

  • @bestrongandloveyourself2370
    @bestrongandloveyourself2370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so helpful! Thank you so much! 🥰🥰🥰

  • @katycaselli3867
    @katycaselli3867 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this wonderful gift.

  • @leahweston4354
    @leahweston4354 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm very appreciative to have been led to your videos this evening. I have listened to several. Thank you!

  • @graceacer9369
    @graceacer9369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You seem genuine. I'm a practitioner from a few years back when I came off life-support and try to further my spiritual journey. I'm pretty sure what has happened to me is illegal and too ugly to admit to anyone. You talk about belonging.

  • @annemariemikkelsen5882
    @annemariemikkelsen5882 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really, really good listening to this ❤️🌈🌺

  • @barbaramatthews1148
    @barbaramatthews1148 ปีที่แล้ว

    In grief it is common or preferable to blame self rather than admit powerlessness

  • @anderslindstrom4528
    @anderslindstrom4528 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @spicypotatosofttaco3227
    @spicypotatosofttaco3227 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Webcast starts at 4:52

  • @monazakareya9946
    @monazakareya9946 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    And how to stay with grief and don't die Tara

  • @Sashas-mom
    @Sashas-mom 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does anyone know the name of the poem she quotes by David Whyte? @ 32:16?

  • @zoilaramirez5498
    @zoilaramirez5498 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lost my sister 9/1/2/23?😢

  • @elizabeth-ty3he
    @elizabeth-ty3he 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How are we conditioned be racism?

  • @1anonymousgrl162
    @1anonymousgrl162 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So profound and deeply grateful 😢🫂