Watch Part II on Prime's TH-cam channel HERE Can I Love You If I Don't Love Myself? | Harlem After Show Part 2, With Shan Boodram | Prime Video th-cam.com/video/jbjmeEdgH-w/w-d-xo.html
I'm a firm believer of "we move forward, never back". I've done the whole back with the ex thing and either, one of us hasnt changed or both of us have changed so much that we no longer align. They are exes for a reason, you or them had to leave for a reason. And to me, there is no point in rehashing something that was previously laid to rest.
That’s really sweet truth be told i thought this shirt was a LOT less see through when I got dressed at home but when the bright lights hit it, 😳. I wish I had a blazer overtop but thank you for your kind words bc I was definitely bracing myself for the opposite about this look
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash
I feel the same way, but for my ex-husband he did not and that was heart breaking because I told him I don't do divorce. If he ever thought that divorce would ever be on the table then don't marry me. He did and then he did.
😂 Anyone who truly believes they can still be friends with their ex’s. Are not in a position to truly experience anything new. If it’s not them wanting more it’s the ex.
The mental health part with Quinn got me because I’m Jamaican and even though I fully support and am in therapy, medication isn’t apart of my care. 😮💨My depression has reached a point where I think medication is necessary but I’m still hesitant because I also have BPD and it doesn’t work on us. I alway want to point out Quinn isn’t the only one with a mental illness. Camille mean one ANXIETY plus her unresolved trauma and attachment issue from her mom. Actually I was going to make a list but every main character in this show has attachment issues of some form. They need to go to therapy and I would like to see them talk about that more in the next season.
@@roxywyndham Did you watch the show or even this video? She states she's been on them for a few weeks and she's fine now thanks to the meds. Most information regarding medication to my knowledge is that it takes several weeks for it to take any effect, so depending on the medication she wouldn't even be seeing results quickly. So back to what I said..
Going back to an ex. I say it depends. Was there growth cause sometimes you get together at the wrong time and then you grow and you become better, so I don't see a problem, but if it's just the same crap in an older package, it's a NO!
I truly don't understand going back to an ex. Can your ex and you have changed so much that it could work out in the future? Maybe, but let's be honest, even if you do change, in most cases you will hopefully have changed for the better and will have changed into someone who is not suited for your ex, anymore. I feel like it's pure luck if, somehow, you both break up, change for the better in the exact right way that would allow y'all to still like/want each other, while also becoming mature enough to make your relationship a healthy one, and do right by each other. This is why I truly believe when people go back to their exes, it's because familiarity is easier than the work of growing and changing. You'd rather go be with someone who is used to your mess, just like you are used to their mess, than to do better and find someone better, if you so choose. Plus, I have NEVER seen it work out for anyone I've seen go back to an ex. It's always good for a few months, maybe even a couple of years, but all those issues they didn't take care of (you know, because that's why they decided to go back to the ex, to not deal with that stuff) always come back up, so either you become that drama-filled, annoying on and off couple people get tired of or you actually break up for good, but there's so much animosity there for each other because all of that trying to make it work when it obviously was not working. I always just hope there are no kids brought into the situation, especially the on and off situation. I've heard people say they had to "make it work" because they were twin flames or soul mates or whatever, but one or both people are miserable af. Make it make sense.
I think having the Prime label in the corner turns people off from watching. The views seem a lot lower when people know it’s commercially “branded” content. I’m still watching, and pumped to see Kev 🐿! Just my humble opinion🙏🏽
Watch Part II on Prime's TH-cam channel HERE Can I Love You If I Don't Love Myself? | Harlem After Show Part 2, With Shan Boodram | Prime Video
th-cam.com/video/jbjmeEdgH-w/w-d-xo.html
I'm a firm believer of "we move forward, never back". I've done the whole back with the ex thing and either, one of us hasnt changed or both of us have changed so much that we no longer align. They are exes for a reason, you or them had to leave for a reason. And to me, there is no point in rehashing something that was previously laid to rest.
I’m so sad the season is already over!
Also your outfits have been on point lately 🔥🔥🔥
That’s really sweet truth be told i thought this shirt was a LOT less see through when I got dressed at home but when the bright lights hit it, 😳. I wish I had a blazer overtop but thank you for your kind words bc I was definitely bracing myself for the opposite about this look
Thank goodness I don't keep contact with my exes and past people. My mental health is important than people's feelings.
I really hope that there will be a third season of Harlem
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash
@Johnson Llobet well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer
@Johnson Llobet her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster
you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
I feel the same way, but for my ex-husband he did not and that was heart breaking because I told him I don't do divorce. If he ever thought that divorce would ever be on the table then don't marry me. He did and then he did.
I really enjoy everything you do Shan! ❤
You're the best rose! Like actually I’m so so honored to have you here thank you
"It's giving gaslight" - Wooo chile tell that to my exes
😂 Anyone who truly believes they can still be friends with their ex’s. Are not in a position to truly experience anything new. If it’s not them wanting more it’s the ex.
The mental health part with Quinn got me because I’m Jamaican and even though I fully support and am in therapy, medication isn’t apart of my care.
😮💨My depression has reached a point where I think medication is necessary but I’m still hesitant because I also have BPD and it doesn’t work on us.
I alway want to point out Quinn isn’t the only one with a mental illness.
Camille mean one ANXIETY plus her unresolved trauma and attachment issue from her mom.
Actually I was going to make a list but every main character in this show has attachment issues of some form.
They need to go to therapy and I would like to see them talk about that more in the next season.
You look good Shan❤️thankyou for the episode
I wish they used Quinn to talk about how medication can have side effects and people may have to try different medications to find the right one.
Maybe season 3 when she starts taking it? Let’s wait and give her a moment to actually go through the process 😂
@@roxywyndham Did you watch the show or even this video? She states she's been on them for a few weeks and she's fine now thanks to the meds. Most information regarding medication to my knowledge is that it takes several weeks for it to take any effect, so depending on the medication she wouldn't even be seeing results quickly. So back to what I said..
Great interview! 🎉
I really enjoy watching all of the Harlem after shows
Going back to an ex. I say it depends. Was there growth cause sometimes you get together at the wrong time and then you grow and you become better, so I don't see a problem, but if it's just the same crap in an older package, it's a NO!
I like how they edited this. Shoutout to the editor!
That was the finale?? 💔
Season not series
I don’t see part two on Prime Video
Hopefully this morning, we had to post late last night when ppl shouldn’t be working but really wanted this 🆙
Love this show
When is Lauren Jauregui’s episode dropping?
If you have mental health issues, you can pursue a love connection… but you probably shouldn’t! Focus on your health 1st!!
Love this ❤
I truly don't understand going back to an ex. Can your ex and you have changed so much that it could work out in the future? Maybe, but let's be honest, even if you do change, in most cases you will hopefully have changed for the better and will have changed into someone who is not suited for your ex, anymore. I feel like it's pure luck if, somehow, you both break up, change for the better in the exact right way that would allow y'all to still like/want each other, while also becoming mature enough to make your relationship a healthy one, and do right by each other. This is why I truly believe when people go back to their exes, it's because familiarity is easier than the work of growing and changing. You'd rather go be with someone who is used to your mess, just like you are used to their mess, than to do better and find someone better, if you so choose.
Plus, I have NEVER seen it work out for anyone I've seen go back to an ex. It's always good for a few months, maybe even a couple of years, but all those issues they didn't take care of (you know, because that's why they decided to go back to the ex, to not deal with that stuff) always come back up, so either you become that drama-filled, annoying on and off couple people get tired of or you actually break up for good, but there's so much animosity there for each other because all of that trying to make it work when it obviously was not working. I always just hope there are no kids brought into the situation, especially the on and off situation. I've heard people say they had to "make it work" because they were twin flames or soul mates or whatever, but one or both people are miserable af. Make it make sense.
Shan you look 🔥🔥🔥🔥!
Everyone's situation is different.
I think having the Prime label in the corner turns people off from watching. The views seem a lot lower when people know it’s commercially “branded” content. I’m still watching, and pumped to see Kev 🐿! Just my humble opinion🙏🏽
Kev is amazing! And I appreciate you taking the time to share feedback
Why would that stop them honestly? Knowing she’s getting paid and also the content is amazing. I genuinely don’t get this logic if you’re a supporter.
💙💮💙💮💙💮😻😻😻
I commented first! 🎉lol
I seen this first lol
I disagree
NEVER EVER
NEVER EVER