The women you slept with before getting with Melissa are not of lower value as you implied. Just as you had to change your behavior for someone to take your seriously, they have to change their behavior for someone to take them seriously. But no one is of lesser value
Exactly! Milk is expensive! Beef is expensive! Even Air Jordans are expensive! Can't nobody go to the market and expect to get free beef OR free milk! Unless they was looting!!! Lol! 😊 So why give up goods and services and not get anything out of it? If I'm good enough to sleep with THEN I'm damn sure worthy of carrying my Man's last name! Amen to THAT!
@@cariannette1 you are so right about that, if you're good enough to lay with you're good enough u th to take his name. But if you're giving up all of the milk for free why would you buy the cow. And please stop getting all of these babies thinking they will get or keep a guy they won't, don't get me wrong babies are wonderful, all I'm saying if you can't afford to take care of them on your own, be fair to yourself and the baby as well, because they are the innocent ones. I'll probably get talked about for this but this is the same conversation that I have with my daughter, as well as my sons. It's the same conversation that was told to me, I'm just passing it on to others. I love to see young people excel because they are truly our future. TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE. LOVE YOURSELF AND YOULL BE ABLE TO GIVE LOVE TO OTHERS. IJS.BE BLESSED FAMILY, PLEASE STAY SAFE, COVID 19 IS TAKING NO PRISONERS.
Steve Harvey was not with Marjorie for 20 years. That's a whole lie right there. Ain't no way he was married, and had a woman dating her for a while 20 years, and the wife don't know. I tell you this much though, Marjorie Harvey was not down with that ole struggle love mess! She sure wasn't, Steve Harvey's struggle had to be over, before she married him. It's the Truth anyhow!
YOU ABSOLUTELY RIGHT, I JUST STUMBLE ACROSS YOU ON TH-cam. I HAVE BEEN SINGLE FOR ALMOST SEVEN YEARS. BUT I REFUSE TO BE TREATED LIKE H##. SOMEONE ONCE TOLD ME THAT MY STANDARDS ARE TWO HIGH. SOME MEN ASSUME WHY BUY THE COW, WHEN YOU CAN GET THE MILK FOR FREE..... TO OLD TO PLAY GAMES WITH GROW A## MEN. I'M NOT FOR PLAY PLAY...
Not o mention the benefits from God. He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord! Proverbs 18:22. If men really knew what’s up they’d run to the alter with the wife they’ve found.
@Kev….so glad you are not in the majority of men that do their wives dirty. Ppl respect your marriage as long as you respect your marriage. We have to be intentional when it comes to living right! Otherwise, heaven will be an empty place😐
Sounds like biblical principles. Everything you say about relationships and marriage come from the holy book. Yet people look to T.V. and youtube for advice that puts you deeper in a hole. God bless you Kevin.
A lot of people are scared of marriage because they are from broken homes. Some people don't get married because of taxes and government benefits make it cheaper to not marry.
17:14 but what if you set those standards and tell him is this or let me go, and he chooses to let you go anyway? what are you supposed to do then if its actually someone you wanted to be with. im genuinely asking because im going through that now. Im not stubborn or strict on a lot of things but theres 1 thing that is a deal breaker for me and i basically told him if he cant budge on it or even think on it, what are we to do? and he told me plane jane "well, i guess we're putting a pause on it. i appreciate you and we dont have to be enemies or anything, but bye." this is literally what he told me. previous to that he was telling me he already sees me as his wife and wanted for us to build together. He knows i can cook, take care of a home, we both want kids eventually, i want to home school them ect ect. I havnt done any of this for him nor have we ever lived together, but he knows i can do it. hes seen me cook, raise my nieces and all that. but now he's content with just saying "alright, well bye" i dont understand
I think he just saved you from a disaster relationship/marriage. Walk, there are plenty of fish in the sea. He already doesn’t see your worth or value you enough to compromise… his loss
Hi,so I've been with this guy for close to two years now,okay everything happened so fast and shit went down on the first night so I never expected anything from it happened but he kept coming back but he mentioned being with someone whom he has dated for close to 7 years now, I never wanted to get serious with him so I really fucked up in the beginning as I wasn't all into him, he made me change my mind, he made me value relationships and all that crap that comes with it but it hasn't been easy, I've tried out but he always pulled me back but being a side chick ain't easy at all am too jealous, he says that he plans on getting married in 3 years time and wants me in his life but am really not sure about it, And he is a very nice guy and he's so responsible but am confused about all these
you need to get out now and go get therapy to let go, and move forward you need to value yourself enough to be with someone who values you properly unless you, him and his wife•to•be decide to have a threesome for life - you get to be jealous and hurt the rest of your life - and risk whatever happens when she finds out you deserve better than to settle for someone who doesn't love you p.s. he may act nice enough to keep you coming back, but he's not actually a nice guy - he's selfish and he's degrading You - his fiancé - and himself
The women you slept with before getting with Melissa are not of lower value as you implied. Just as you had to change your behavior for someone to take your seriously, they have to change their behavior for someone to take them seriously. But no one is of lesser value
Thank you for sharing the truth. Some women are people pleasers, have low self worth.
STRAIGHT FACTS! I've been celibate for 9YRS and 7 mos! I'm NOT GIVING UP MY CELIBACY UNTIL MY WEDDING NIGHT!
Good Truthful information!
Thanks for sharing. My favorite part is about the ring..."Girl look at it, girl look at it" lol. Too funny 🤣🤣
Kev, you're right about the 'REAL MAN' but problem is....they seem so rare now. smh. They're so many immature Fools out there now.
So you're saying why buy the cow when you're getting all of the milk you want for free.
Exactly! Milk is expensive! Beef is expensive! Even Air Jordans are expensive! Can't nobody go to the market and expect to get free beef OR free milk! Unless they was looting!!! Lol! 😊 So why give up goods and services and not get anything out of it? If I'm good enough to sleep with THEN I'm damn sure worthy of carrying my Man's last name! Amen to THAT!
@@cariannette1 you are so right about that, if you're good enough to lay with you're good enough u th to take his name. But if you're giving up all of the milk for free why would you buy the cow. And please stop getting all of these babies thinking they will get or keep a guy they won't, don't get me wrong babies are wonderful, all I'm saying if you can't afford to take care of them on your own, be fair to yourself and the baby as well, because they are the innocent ones. I'll probably get talked about for this but this is the same conversation that I have with my daughter, as well as my sons. It's the same conversation that was told to me, I'm just passing it on to others. I love to see young people excel because they are truly our future. TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE. LOVE YOURSELF AND YOULL BE ABLE TO GIVE LOVE TO OTHERS. IJS.BE BLESSED FAMILY, PLEASE STAY SAFE, COVID 19 IS TAKING NO PRISONERS.
Baby Kev!!
Excellent vid, Kev!!! Speak, Brother!!!
Such beautiful work here Kev!!!!
I wish I heard this along time ago 😭
Steve Harvey was not with Marjorie for 20 years. That's a whole lie right there. Ain't no way he was married, and had a woman dating her for a while 20 years, and the wife don't know. I tell you this much though, Marjorie Harvey was not down with that ole struggle love mess! She sure wasn't, Steve Harvey's struggle had to be over, before she married him. It's the Truth anyhow!
Who gives a shit. You're being pedantic. Steve is a hypocrite and is no one to go to for marriage advice. 🙄
Bell curve statistics as an analogy! Love it!!! 😂🥰
YOU ABSOLUTELY RIGHT, I JUST STUMBLE ACROSS YOU ON TH-cam. I HAVE BEEN SINGLE FOR ALMOST SEVEN YEARS. BUT I REFUSE TO BE TREATED LIKE H##. SOMEONE ONCE TOLD ME THAT MY STANDARDS ARE TWO HIGH. SOME MEN ASSUME WHY BUY THE COW, WHEN YOU CAN GET THE MILK FOR FREE..... TO OLD TO PLAY GAMES WITH GROW A## MEN. I'M NOT FOR PLAY PLAY...
Hey where have you been ❓so good to have you back 👏🏽👏🏽💯👍🏽❤️glad you are back
I'm sorry, but the way you leaned in and read that first comment ...🤭😹😹😹 #2024
What about ORDER? GOD’S ORDER, not just about benefits from a women?
Not o mention the benefits from God. He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord! Proverbs 18:22. If men really knew what’s up they’d run to the alter with the wife they’ve found.
Amen. U keep being good .I am listening to yah
Been saying the same thing for years now. Stop giving husband benefits to BFs. Woman need to get on code & move as a unit.
@Kev….so glad you are not in the majority of men that do their wives dirty. Ppl respect your marriage as long as you respect your marriage. We have to be intentional when it comes to living right! Otherwise, heaven will be an empty place😐
Please do more video like this big bro u are right
Amen! It's time to move on
Sounds like biblical principles. Everything you say about relationships and marriage come from the holy book. Yet people look to T.V. and youtube for advice that puts you deeper in a hole. God bless you Kevin.
Kev you make problamtic videos too, tjo
Facts
A lot of people are scared of marriage because they are from broken homes. Some people don't get married because of taxes and government benefits make it cheaper to not marry.
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Damn
Big bro um a woman and u are right
FACTS
17:14 but what if you set those standards and tell him is this or let me go, and he chooses to let you go anyway? what are you supposed to do then if its actually someone you wanted to be with. im genuinely asking because im going through that now. Im not stubborn or strict on a lot of things but theres 1 thing that is a deal breaker for me and i basically told him if he cant budge on it or even think on it, what are we to do? and he told me plane jane "well, i guess we're putting a pause on it. i appreciate you and we dont have to be enemies or anything, but bye." this is literally what he told me. previous to that he was telling me he already sees me as his wife and wanted for us to build together. He knows i can cook, take care of a home, we both want kids eventually, i want to home school them ect ect. I havnt done any of this for him nor have we ever lived together, but he knows i can do it. hes seen me cook, raise my nieces and all that. but now he's content with just saying "alright, well bye" i dont understand
I think he just saved you from a disaster relationship/marriage. Walk, there are plenty of fish in the sea. He already doesn’t see your worth or value you enough to compromise… his loss
He just doesn't love you
He did you a big favor. Hope all is well with you.
the real question is what actual value marriages bring: zero
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Why buy the cow if you get the milk for free? I hold on to that saying to keep my goods in check....Lol
I always heard why buy the cow if u can get the milk for free.just saying
Hi,so I've been with this guy for close to two years now,okay everything happened so fast and shit went down on the first night so I never expected anything from it happened but he kept coming back but he mentioned being with someone whom he has dated for close to 7 years now, I never wanted to get serious with him so I really fucked up in the beginning as I wasn't all into him, he made me change my mind, he made me value relationships and all that crap that comes with it but it hasn't been easy, I've tried out but he always pulled me back but being a side chick ain't easy at all am too jealous, he says that he plans on getting married in 3 years time and wants me in his life but am really not sure about it, And he is a very nice guy and he's so responsible but am confused about all these
you need to get out now
and go get therapy to let go, and move forward
you need to value yourself enough to be with someone who values you properly
unless you, him and his wife•to•be decide to have a threesome for life - you get to be jealous and hurt the rest of your life - and risk whatever happens when she finds out
you deserve better than to settle for someone who doesn't love you
p.s. he may act nice enough to keep you coming back, but he's not actually a nice guy - he's selfish and he's degrading You - his fiancé - and himself
You seem to be living in a fantasy. Deep down in your heart you know what to do.
Run away! Don't walk, run!
Y he wont marry u: cuz men know there is 0 gain in marriage. Theres no reason for it beyond putting urself under someone elses leverage