My Future In-Laws Threw Me Out?! | The Thirsty Sisters #18
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.ค. 2020
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Dealing with a toxic relationship is hard enough, now we got to deal with the in-laws?!
This week, the Thirsty Sisters tackle the issues of toxic in-laws, and how the stories of their friends have impacted their lives!
03:34 Purple's history with toxic and abusive relationships
08:49 Lime's history with the toxic in-laws
16:58 Green was forced to buy a new TV
19:14 Orange's story about moving into the in-laws
24:19 What guys should do to prevent toxic relationships
26:29 Sylvia's perspective from the other party
32:24 Nina's perspective from the other party
36:56 Mama Chan's lesson of the day
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My lecturer once told us in class she is grateful that she married an orphan because naturally she doesn't have to care about in-laws 😂
Ladies, never, ever, put yourself in a situation where you end up compromising too much of yourself - especially if you're not married. Second, a man who would put you in this kind of situation is not worth it. Don't waste your time with someone that does not respect you.
Thanks for talking about this, it’s not often discussed. I too, have stayed with exes and though it’s quite amicable most times... but when we quarrel or have disagreements, his family members will definitely come in and interfere. Sibei sian Wan. Better move out together and have your own love life. Also, parents out there - if you have a daughter moving out to stay with their partner, always let her know that you are there for her no matter what ok. Your daughter is your flesh and blood. Women though more established now are still quite vulnerable in relationships. Have her know she can come back anytime and never, ever shame or guilt trip her for coming back. The least you can do as parents, the very people who are supposed to love, support and protect your children.
when Nina said 'deh kor lai sa' XD but completely agree with the host. I'm a Malaysian dating a sg bf now was once asked to move in with him but I've insisted not to because I know all couples cannot avoid when you have arguments, and I don't want to have no place to go to if that happens if I don't want to see him or face his family. I have insisted that ladies you gotta be independent man, you have to be financially independent and a place you call your own like what Sylvia mentioned. On the gifts when visiting, I agree completely with Sylvia, it's a nice gesture for every first visit (but no need birdnest la, atas Sylvia) LOL
The bottomline i think is this: Men have the responsibility to mediate between his wife/partner. He needs to take charge to protect the fairness, justice, and harmony of the family.
Omg the first time I'm seeing Sylvia's hair fully (on ig, she didnt show as much) and IT'S SO SO PRETTY
I want to thank my stylist Justin from Shunji Matsuo Ngee Ann City for his work of art 😂
@@sylsylchan You are the masterpiece, he just added the finishing touches 😍 Haha was that too cheesy?
There should be an open conversation between the family and the newcomer to clarify expectations/house rules to maintain the peace. Simply moving in and expecting things to go smoothly never works. Everyone is different and without clarifying expectations upfront always leads to issues. COMMUNICATION is the KEY!
Here is my personal take, if a gf or bf wanna move in tgt, find a room tgt outside both parent's home to avoid any trouble while parents can use their old room however they want BUT must maintain a bed in the old room in case bf-gf quarrel or even break-up, they have an option to stay as back up. but both bf and gf must contribute 50-50 when you r renting a room outside.
I can relate to this, stayed for 7 years before we got married and no one in the family respects me. I still stayed and now 12 years in the house, I'm his wife.
Is it better now? ❤️
Oh gurl , always remember this golden rule honey !!!!! ITS UR PARRENTS IN LAW HOUSE , U AND UR HUSBAND DOESNT OWN ANY INCH OVER THERE!!! They just pity u n ur husband , so they let u stay in THEIR HOUSE!!!!mever asking more than that , u sign up for that . U date him for 7years, cant u calculate his earning ?? Cant he affor to buy new flat(instalment) or at least rent ??? Its never been easy stay with parent in law , they have different background from u . So deal with it , or just rent n move out with ur husband
@@thebomb3970 agreee
I always click very fast when I saw a new podcast by y'all😆 You guys r very entertaining and I can learn a lot of things through all of your podcasts. Love you all💜💜💜💪
So early for the first time! Thank you for these interesting and insightful content all the time! ☺️
I LOVE this podcast, it's WAY TOO RELATABLE
I was once told by my BF that I didn’t greet her sister when I was at his home. I said it didn’t come naturally to me cox she has a very unwelcoming face when I come. But I told him alright I’ll do it the next time. So the next time, I greeted her sister and she didn’t greet me back or even acknowledge. So I reported this back to my BF and told him... I tried greeting your sister and she didn’t give a damn and still gave the straight face so in future do not force me to greet someone who don’t appreciate my presence. My BF reply was great.. “alright we gave her a chance but she wants to give people to not greet her so we shall move on. It’s not your fault anymore. “ I guess having a logical bf is a good thing. I’m happy my BF didn’t blindly just side his sister. Ps I always greet his parents cox they are always very welcoming.
Oh please , she just dont care . I also never great back my sister boyfriend cos i think he is useless boy not worth my time , come never bring anything , no manner . Maybe she had the same thought like me about u . U need to remember this gurl whenever u come to ur bf house , IT HIS PARENTS HOUSE , UR BF DOESNT OWN ANY INCH OVER THERE!!!!!!the parents just pity ur bf , thats why they let him stay in THEIR HOUSE!!!
The BOMB what she wrote is SHE DIDNT GREET HIS BF SISTER when she is in her bf house, so actualy this girl has no manner after all . She thinking her self so highly, ckckckck so naive gurl !!!!!!n this gurl is so bad she want to provoke the fight betwen sibling no wonder one day she will ask her bf u choose me or ur parents??i pity ur bf gurl!! Ur bf sister has the right to not greet u back since u didnt greet her in the first place , DONT COMPLAIN TO IT N TAKE IT AS A LESSON BITCH !!!!”someone who dont appreciate my pressence” u also didnt appreciate ur bf sister pressence , damn bitch
The Devil exactly. Regardless of whether you like your partner’s siblings or not, you don’t just ignore them. Especially not at the first meeting. It’s basic human courtesy to greet others when you go to THEIR house or meet them.
Michelle Goh lol your BF is 100% in the right. He isn’t being “logical” but reasonable as a decent person with manners would be. Even if you aren’t on good terms with his sibling, it’s just basic respect. Otherwise, you’re only doing yourself a disservice because even if she was being rude to you first, you would still be perceived as ‘the rude gf’. If you guys end up marrying, his sister would be your sister-in-law and it would be pretty regrettable that no one tried to patch the relationship for the next few decades 🤷🏻♀️
I am enjoying all podcasts you have done! It is so interesting to listen from the female perception from this channel. It will be also cool to have another channel for guys to talk about their perceptions on the same topic :D
If staying with other families - must take note that must respect and contribute to that household. You cannot expect that they do your laundry, cook your meals etc for free when you are not their child. I don't agree that its OK not to contribute. Best if you work out with the bf on the arrangements. I say this as someone who doesn't have a maid and have my own house. I would be damn annoyed if someone I don't really know stays in my place and I have to cook and clean after them
Agreed. This sense of self-entitlement and insensitivity would more often than not, trigger unhappiness all around.
Thanks for the advice lovelies. I have been thinking alot about moving in with my boyfriends parents home in hope of saving money which I did not enjoy staying there due to his brother. Now you've helped me strengthen my decision. Love the vids
I agreewith Sylvia. If you are visiting for the first time at least buy a gift. And if you are a frequent visitor, those 6 times a week kind, at least buy something over once in a while, be it food or what.
Yayay!!!New episode😍😍I missed you!
I love the stories y'all share!! ❤
"nice is the baseline" wow best phrase ever
Sylvia having fun naming all the people in colours i cannot😂😂😂
You girls deserve more sub for this channel. Never failed to miss every episod!
Purple's situation is still common in modern Singapore. Chinese parents still molly coddle and cover up for their sons' mistakes..
Keep it up! Your podcasts are awesome! Always listen to y’all while I cook! Jiayou!
I agree with Sylvia. If you’re going to someone’s house for the first time buy a gift.
This needs to be part of a mandatory syllabus for women.
sis learning so much things here, interesthanggg
when Sylvia said "as respected beings in the society" my mind just immediately went to NYGH's BARMOS lol iykyk HAHA
I’m Malaysian and my mum taught me visit anyone house cannot 空手去
Me too!
I think being in a relationship = accepting everything abt the other half which includes their family cuz that’s who brought them up the way they were. However I dont advocate staying in a toxic relationship bcuz while being accepting, one also have to have basic self-respect to know that they’re being mistreated. If they know but choose to stay, I mean if one is happy enough to look past the toxicity then there’s nothing much friends can say anymore tho I still will nag at them lmao. Lastly, loved the ending tho HAHAHA good luck Nina and Sylvia!!!
Love your podcasts 💕
Hahaha.. this! Is my fav episode ever! Super funny!
I stayed with my brother's family after my parents passed, my sis in law was so toxic so I relate.
Reminds me of the question, if your mum and I drop into the sea who will you save 😂
My in laws are all very friendly, but one thing i face is, the bro in law gf. Omg, she never greet anyone when entering ppl house, shamelessly move in and even throw her dirty clothes in front of a shared toilet (including her bra), until my nice mum in law cannot stand it anymore, my mil help her to do the laundry, wash her bra and even fold her clothes. Not only that, my bro in law even need to fetch her to work everyday and on a weekend if she were to go out with friends, she will drive our family car out cause she has no car. When she is working from home, she never use a headset. She will just switch on the loudspeaker for entire 8hours. My poor mil has to lower the volume of her tv just so the gf can work in peace. Not only does she not contributing a cent, like to take advantages of others, she is also very abusive. She will whack my sister in law's puppy for not listening to her command. I really wish they can breakup man. The gf is not like goddess pretty with nice body, i dont even know why there's such shameless person on earth.
Omg when sylvia said let's pick a manly name, i thought maroon and nina said it. I'm like damn same brain🖤🖤🖤
But it sounds like Buffoon. 😁
My brother never does that in fact, he still borrow money from our mum to pay for his meal with his gf who basically lives off our hse bill without paying or doing anything. I can totally relate just from watching on the sidelines
Im surprise how often girls can tolerate abusive (physical) bf. In no regards this is acceptable.
Hahaha I totally agree with Sylvia about the Maroon’s Story.
oh dear... i was ever in the situation where i can only squeeze all my infant's items in my room
why is it usually girls moving to guy house HAHAH what about guys moving into girl’s house
The other way round just don't happen as much
혜림 its happend tho , for money boy A LOT .... u know aunty who lonely but she dont want another married , a lot in singapore rich widow ,or rich wife who cheat too or executive lady (old lady , 35 n still single ) ... there a lot money boy in singapore ...
BUY THE BIRDNEST. SO TRUE ahahahaha🤣
My PrettyPrincessSylvia, it is close to midnight here in Singapore and I'm about to go to sleep after spending the whole day watching your videos and thinking about you. Everytime I saw your travel videos to other countries, I wish I can go travelling with you and we can have lots of fun together but all these can only be in my dream. I hope everything is ok for you and I miss you very much. Good night and I love you. 😁
I think Lime is referring to Grace
wow sylvia hair THE BEST, 最CHIO
What.. That means they didn't brush their teeth and used any essential items before Green moved in? Like so crazy OMG. Yes always have the power to take back what your give. Always have options! 😎
Sg is so small. Is there really a need to move in with the guy? Most people will avoid staying with in-laws at all cost so why move in unnecessarily?
From the in-laws, perspective, it’s an outsider who has her own house coming into your already small HDB house. Also, the older generation is quite conservative and won’t have a good impression of girls who just comes over to stay.
🤔 personally as a girl, I prefer to cohabit for a period of time w my partner (especially if I have marriage in mind) as I do think that this would really allow me to understand my partner’s daily lifestyle/habits and see if we are really compatible. I really don’t wish to go straight into marriage without having a ‘trial’ period.
But if this arrangement greatly inconvenienced mine or my partner’s family, I would suggest moving out and renting a place for ourselves. It would be entirely selfish of me to impose on others, especially when it is not my own house.
Both look so pretty
Silviya. Pretty
Nina. Beautiful
for me, I would rather my significant other live at my house so I hv a perm place to live and with valid reason ,kick the person out. Best part is, my house my rules
Do an Q&A!!
I want the part 2 childhood scary ghost stories and 7 month
All women should be like orange, leave and don't get bullied. Not married why need to take all this crap. Aiyor, if not married is like this, married will be worst.
bruh am i the only one getting zijie vibes from maroon ahahaha just from the way sylvia is teasing him
I was buying my in laws CNY goodies fr years especially I like my mil braised mushrooms until one point she only cook fr my other bil wife when she nvr even buy anythg fr her just so she is the same dialect group as their family. Still can say we must order ahead and my boyfren(my hb now) then too complacent of me buying goodies, he do not bother to buy anythg good or equivalent standard of goodies fr my mum. Since then I quit buying anythg fr them. Pissed off.
My personal view is that the boyfriend must be a good moderator between his own parents and the girlfriend. He needs to know where is the line and to be clear headed, which is easier said than done especially when you are balancing between your girlfriend which is someone you love and your parents which is someone which brought you up for years. I'd say you could do everything and anything but sometimes things just don't work out between the parents and the girlfriend. The best solution would be to move out and have minimal contact with the parents as much as possible. The girlfriend and the boyfriend should be mature enough to come to a conclusion and understanding that, "we are marrying each other, not marrying each others' parents". They should also agree that should the guy's parents dislike the girl or the girl's parents dislike the guy, each party should step up to defend one another even if it means the guy has to offend his own parents or that the girl has to offend her own parents. If the guy's parents are immature or have vastly different values from that of the girl, there is no way the guy can love the parents as well as the girl. He has to pick more of one side. Same goes for the girl's parents. Then the guy or the girl has to be matured enough to know what he wants in life and to set the boundaries right from the start. He / she needs to know that as boyfriend girlfriend, they are eventually going to get married and start a family of their own and everything that the family does should be entirely independent of their parent's views. There needs to be a cutoff. On a side note, I would say a lot of things are fated. I don't feel angry or judge why things happen to another person ask how can they be so stupid. I can only empathize with them because they are the way they are because God made them to not realize certain things in life and to be so blind to their dire situations that no matter who tries to enlighten them, they just wouldn't comprehend, and hence they have no choice but to fall in love with the wrong person and to go through all that shit and suffer. And sometimes even after they realise it, it's too late to change anything. It's all destined. If we could just wake anyone up from their deep sleep and their mistakes by just telling them what should be the right way of things and make them comprehend with just a few words of good advice, then it wouldn't be called destiny already...and no one in this world would need to go through shit and everyone would be living happily ever after. If a person is destined to go through shit, there is no way anyone can stop it.
Omg u coment so long , i just read half n U R BAD GURL!!!!! Moving out is ok option , but if ur parents in law never like u , maybe u need to quetiening ur self !!!! U MUST HAVE NO MANNER , whenever u visit ur parents in law never come empty hand!!ALWAYS GREAT THEM FIRST n smile no matter if they reply u or not n ALWAYS REMEMBER THIS GOLDEN RULE!!! ITS UR PARENTS IN LAW HOUSE , ur bf/gd dosnt own any inch over there . This is trick , for the girl try to get ur father in law side n the boy get mother in law its more easy n let the magic work
My CuteLovelyPrincessSylvia, thanks for your reply and I'm very happy, I looking forward to more of your videos and I enjoy your NOC videos also. I will continue to support you and Nina. I have lots of fun listening...Hahaha 😁
Malaysia got this culture
Pls make a video about phases of your life
The 'Maroon' kind of guys should deserve to be single all their lives 😆
Marriage is different from dating. Marriage is about being family don't abuse your in law, wife , husband and parents. Being family is going through thick and thin of life. My wife always tell me respect each other is important and of course work out our problem as a family. When it comes to question who you want to save if both drown in the sea ( mum or wife), my wife will say save your mom because she know how to swim that why I love my wife so much. But I will also scold her with a smile and say I will save both this is my job to protect my family.
Come on guys, if you cant cohabitate before marrying, don't bother tying the knot. There'll be future problems that'll surface. Both parties must compromise!
Lets talk about y its so difficult to find a partner !!!
So..here's a thing for discussion ok, I've grown up being a child of divorce, I don't have siblings neither. So, I've never wanted to be in a relationship because I don't truly believe in needing a title..more so when I've always heard toxic relationship stories from friends/colleagues, it makes me even more firm with my decision to stay single.
BUT, my family and most part of the society can't seem to accept the fact that, hey I can be my own powerful woman and live my life while I plan my savings and deal with my own broken family. They always believe and think that it's only complete when we have a relationship, get married and have children.
To be honest, it stresses me out and drives me to a corner because its like I'm thrown into a box of being a failure. What is TTS thoughts on this? Must life only be complete with a partner?
From what you said, I think you are not ready to be that "powerful" woman you think you want to be. Because a true powerful woman would not let these societal 'norms' or expectations get to her. Failure (or success) is defined by yourself. Nobody can tell you that you failed unless you acknowledge it yourself. I do not believe in having children after marriage (for many various reasons). Imagine the criticisms I get from society and families and in-laws! I do not see myself as a failure, instead I see myself as the 'ENLIGHTENED' one out of these bunch of people who cannot accept others who are different from them.
@@cashmerehazel21 Point taken, maybe I'm not there yet to be where I want to be..I'll learn and be there one day. I applaud you for standing your grounds too and not give in to societal norms.
Just ignore and lead your own happy life 😃
ABiteOfMe oh gurl , no one can live alone in this world !!!!!!!! Dont make a stupid mistake like sylvia did (oops) , use ur brain some more n thinking ahaead 20-30years later ..HAVE U DONE COMINITY SERVICE HELPING ELDERY IN SG???? U pity them right ? n u will become one of them too BURDEN OF SOCIETY(they think they plan so well lead their happy life !!!) AND LOOK AT THEM NOW ,NO HUSBAND NO KID AND YES PEOPLE JUDGING THEM N THEY BECOME BAD ROLE MODEL SO PEOPLE DIDNT DO THE SAME MISTAKE N yet people never learn
I have an experience but thankfully not my bf. My mothers fren, aunty T's family when I was renting a room.
For everyone's birthday I'm I'm in-charge of buying cakes until i was asked to buy whole big cake. Ok fine. After buying 6-7 cakes/year, I hv no cake on my birthday, not even a slice. How cool is that right!!
My LovelyPrincessSylvia, I enjoy today's topic, very interesting. You are very beautiful and your hair is very nice. I saw in one of your videos you are planting food at home, very nice and I hope your Roo Roo, Susan doing ok and your Porky is happy. Being angry at times is ok but don't angry too long because my heart will pain and hurts. It's always a blessing to have someone to love you and care for you, just enjoy it. As your diehard fan, I'm always here to care and support you. Stay happy always and 爱你 爱你...😙
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Once I just dating my ex bf and one day the parent ask me to join them to JB. The morning before depart, the parent suddenly tell me to fork out RM100 for the day expense. I was so surprised because I never encounter this situation before is super weird leh. What do you guys think? That is the first outing with them and they already so calculated lol. I was thinking to have fun together but end up feels like . . . . .
Personally I feel nothing wrong w that. It’s better to settle money issues on an AA/Dutch basis.
Hi!!
The conclusion right, these experiences if you face this kind of difficult thing its a good thing. Better than make the mistake of getting married after all that kind of ludicrous problem, especially that toothpaste one. That woman is ridiculous. Ownself toothpaste sabun ownself jaga lah. Different people also use different brand wut. I use Sensodyne, mother use colgate, some people lagi need mouthwash, how buy?
Really right, be decent be clean and be respectable.
got so many shit guys but im still single lol?XD
*Mama Chan*
Sylvia's hair is purple.
Imagine getting heart from thirsty sisters
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Hmm... Big house in Singapore = Rich family. Lime has choose her own fate because these well to do folks probably saw her as a leech than a future family member. Choose bf wisely next time.
Not to mention that her boyfriend isn’t assertive in the home by allowing his sister to make the decision of not allowing a small piece of furniture from his room to be placed in the large living room.
I would have firmly gave the lady a LARGE piece of my mind if she was my sister.
Omg this the first time Sylvia gets divorced!
hi
What is bto? @34:39
oh it's like balloting for flats, apartments, houses together as a (married couple) :v ( i think so ?)
But we want Nina s dating stories
Yo this won't happen if a men is a men 😁 A independent men like me don't need to be taken care of. 😜 Simple lah when it really time ask for your parents blessing. Move out to live. Sit dwn hv a heart to heart talk w ur parents assure em tat ur gf is not here to compare n bring u away.. Love em more dine w em at least once a week n get ur gf involved...
MySweetPrincessSylvia♡, you are always on my mind, your beauty makes me unable to forget you. Loving you is the happiest thing that happens in my life. Just wanna say I love you always. Gonna miss your beautiful smile. 😂
T. T I wish Sylvia is my jiejie
wait am i first? idk by the time i post this comment im prob late but whatevs
MyLovelyPrincessSylvia♡, you are my angel, I like your beautiful hair, I like you because you are very pretty, I like you because you are a very special person that makes me unable to forget you. I like everything about you. 我喜欢你, My PrincessSylvia♡.
Early !!!!!!!
Early
Why is the camera on Nina so blur?? Gonna be a Grammar Nazi here and point out that WOMAN is pronounced as woo-men; WOMEN is pronounced as wee-men. And yes, Nina pronounced GESTURE correctly, it is pronounced as jes-chur.
Women=*wim-min*. Wee-men is how a scottish person would say for "small men".
That’s not grammar you’re correcting. That’s pronunciation. If you want to correct their grammar and pronunciation, that’ll be never-ending. So don’t. They aren’t English teachers. It’s not their job or responsibility to speak fluently and accurately.
Junaidi Aminuddin love this! 🤣
Very one sided man bashing kind of episode. Later TTS episodes are much better in that they are more balanced.
For lime's case, its simple. The in-laws don't like her. full stop. And if she already knows this, why is she still trying to cling onto the relationship? Answer: Rich boy with rich parents, living in a big house = GOLD DIGGER. She is a GD for 5 years already, not bad I must say, very persistent. And for all we know, the chair is ugly and have no taste to be placed in the living room. At the end of the day, the house is not HERS! Why should she be placing her furniture in their house? If the family likes her, of course they will accept and allow her to put her stuff ard in the house. so its just plain simple that the family does not accept her and might see her as a GD.
Stfu
I don't think u should assume that she is a gold digger... bc u don't know the behind story of it
have u seen the chair before wth-
@@user-lm3px8ey5u have you?
@@user-lm3px8ey5u Girl..... if you have been tgt with a guy for 5 years, and his parents don't like you. Have some EQ and take the hint that they don't approve your relationship. Ask yourself why you really "love" him, if he was not rich and living in a 2 room hse, parents are not rich. WIll you still cling on for 5 years being treated the same way?
PLs la, this Lime is just a gold Digger, obviously she has to be nice to his family ma! she wants to stay in a rich biggg house what. duhhhhh
Your comment is very shallow. Lime wants to stay with her bf who invited her to live with him. It does not matter whether the house was big or small. She didn't stay there for the big house. Because if she was a gold digger, why did she allow herself to "suffer" in that tiny crowded room for 5 years? Where's the "reward" of her gold-digging if she didn't get a nice big room with a house maid to service her?
@@cashmerehazel21 baby girl,,,,, a true GD is one that perseveres through the hardship knowing that in the future, all of these will be hers. One day, just one day, all of these will be hers. How is that possible? Simple. The father will pass down the inheritance to the son and sister. Why do you think the sister hates her? obviously because she might feel that Lime is not good enough for her brother and she is just a GD. I know bitches that at first don't like the guy, but after finding out that he stays in a big hse and such... oHHHHh suddenly see him as a potential boyfriend.. oh wow! And I think your thinking is shallow for not looking at the bigger picture of how that Lime is a GD. Lime is smart for "tahanning" the family, coz she knows as long as the boyfriend likes her, she will also reap the inheritance one way or the other. See the bigger picture. GD like that do exist.