Story Time: How Race Has Affected Our Relationship
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In this storytime, we're going to talk about one of the most significant topics of our lives: race. We'll explore the way race has affected our relationship over the years, and talk about some tips for building a more successful interracial relationship.
Whether you're newly dating or have been together for a while, this storytime is guaranteed to help you grow and develop your relationship in the best possible way. Sit back, relax, and let's talk!
Sweetheart! You two look 👀 beautiful together, as for race there is only one race, and that’s the human race, God created a race of people, but he decided to give his race of people different colors, so if God is impartial so should we, and love ❤️ one for whom they are, remember, one race, the human race, but many colors in that race!!!❤️🙏🏾😊🥰👩🏽👨🦰
So true🤍✨
Well said we are one race the human race.
True, we are one race,
The Human race made up of different cultures.
Relationships are a beautiful thing whether they be intercultural or not.
It is a blessing when someone finds or meets that beautiful unique individual. Betwwen which there is love, respect, communication and togetherness.
@@sg2570 I agree
Amen
She's beautiful and he's handsome. They seem like lovely people. I love to see black women thriving, being loved as we should and overall winning.
I would like to see them thriving only when they are with a white man huh? Just asking
As well to see white men thriving and being loved as they should. White women have for years dated Black men which is a form of rejecting white men. White men are also winning.
@BSOG3 huh? Well they have been winning since day one!! The majority of white women still love their white man. And I know this because as a black man I've always thought since white women now date black men, and I'm talking about back in the day I thought it was going to be a trend. But the more and more I started to see white women still choose their white man was still astounding, not saying it's a bad thing but still astounding. They was liking they're white man like they never had one before it was almost like trying somebody from a different culture but however they're both white and I see how white women were caress and love their white men just like how black women are doing that they've always been winning. The white women that were dating black men was doing it out of something new to try. Every time I grew up with the white girl that was dating black dudes I was like okay she's cool because one I thought she understood the culture don't think that it was better cuz she was with us, I just said okay she has a sense of understanding that's how I always looked at it. But for the most part she will be dating Pookie and Ray-Ray and when she grew up cuz we all grew up together she will always end up marrying a white man for the most part that is. But once a black woman go to these white man they still stay with them.
I always said a white male will date a black sis if he really likes her. the reason we see more white ladies dating black men is because they are more open to accept others. While white male are afraid to assume black ladies due to skin complexity. For the black ladies who are looking for love please don’t chose a male by skin colour or money .Pray to Jesus to bless you with the right one. The first interracial marriaged couple in the TH-cam couple no longer are together. So don’t expose yourself too much . The secrete of a blessing life is too keep great moments within your loved ones . God bless you all 🙏🥰
It's over
The colour of skin comes in different shades, but the colour of blood is one!
My wife of 20 years is Black (Jamaican). We have 2 sons. We had a similar experience to yours.
Thanks for sharing. I'm a BW in a WM/BW Marriage. We met online, got married within 3 days and we have been married for some years now. Not everyone approves, but we were not expecting them to, therefore we thrived as a couple because we had already educated ourselves on race prospective mindsets. Our authentic desires to be together, plus our love for each other, along with the fact our race differences was not a hindrance to each other, made us conquerors. We removed all negative people from our lives if their views was constant toxicity. The public will always try to give their opinions. They will stir to get your attention, but ignore them and live your best lives together in love. Nothing can stop you two but yourselves. I am cheering for you two to thrive like us. 🙌🙌😇😇💕💕
What an awesome journey ❤ thank you for sharing ✨
Wow married in 3 days!
I always believe that when the creation of Gods people came about as a human race I never saw any of his as a white person but as Caucasian people because when the melanin hit it made Brown, Caucasian, Maloto, and if white people were created where are they. if white people looked like Casper the friendly ghost or a white piece of paper they would really be in trouble because they would look like dead people. I can't call what I don't see and this was a name these people on themselves not society.
@@beaniesonna3052 Most background checks don’t come back in 3 days. 😂😂😂😂.
How long have you guys been married? Wow. What convinced you after 3 days?
I'm here for interracial relationships that are healthy and based on a premise of love AND true compatibility vs.a 'preference' or a perceived status. They are a stunning couple. I noticed that Dillion dropped a couple black references and wondered how much exposure he's had with black culture prior to this relationship.
It's NY! You can't go anywhere here without being exposed to Black people! Even the most uptight white person has a lot of exposure to Black folks. It's not perfect, but I love my city.
I love my man. We met on match. He’s white and I don’t see color. 7 months strong. We went about meeting up safely. His mom said, “ I’ve been praying for a woman like you for my son.” We take good care of each other! ❤
Happy for the both of you.
@@sashisoon8950 you are so lucky. I have tried almost all dating sites but I have never had any luck. Currently on match now. But still nothing. Happy for you. 😊
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Super sweet. I have been with my husband for 20 years and have three kids. I am Asian and my husband is mix Black/White. Our kids are a great mixture of all three race. I wish you happiness in your future life together.
Very similar mix. My hubby is half Singaporean half German and I’m Haitian-American. We’re celebrating 20 yrs in July. He’s my best friend. I am blessed. 😊
Congrats , I am from mixed marriage both Asian from the south Asian , we married for 42 years till now
I hope you grow old together. You are a beautiful couple. Keep your love alive.
Thank you!!
They seem like two people with a lot of emotional intelligence. Their focus on communication and not worrying about what others think is great advice for any relationship, regardless of racial makeup. They are luckly that their families are cool. Not all interracial couples have that benefit.
You two are so cute together!🥰 I have said all my life, that although there are different Ethnicities, there is only One race. That is Human🙌🏽
Yes ! I was scrolling the comments to see if someone would correct. I am in a interracial relationship also. You are a beautiful and happy couple!!!!!
Welcome to FL! I live in South FL, on the east coast.
Daughter met her fiancé on Tinder 4 years ago. They’re getting married in March. They are an interracial couple, with an interracial couple as parents, and an interracial couple on one side as grand parents. Life is a beautiful thing when you find “the one” :) My parents got married in 1935. The world was “rough” to say the least back then.
What an awesome story. Thank you for supporting!
We love you both.... Keep on thriving together no matter what race you are.....
Thank you!! ❤️
Beautiful! I’m an Afro Brazilian married to a Canadian and never felt so comfortable and loved. Skin tone can’t be the deal breaker element for compatibility and building a solid relationship.
In Love is not race its joy and happiness! Congratulations
It is!!❤
Your husband definitely handsome. Win win. Beautiful couple.
If There's chemistry, that's what's important.
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Seeing you both gives me hope for my two young daughters. I am so happy that you both found one another!
If you're hoping they won't have issues like poverty, racism, abuse etc, that comes with every race.....
As a black man who grew up in Brooklyn, I don’t see why you need to explain your relationship to anyone focus on each other not on outside idiots who’s life is empty and full of envy. Stay true and loyal to each other and the universe will continue to bless you. As for your haters f’ them they will always hate no matter how hard you try to explain to them! Peace and blessings to you.
Dude, outside of the 5 boros of NY, interacial couples raise eyebrows and really upset people. Its weird I know. If youre born and raised here, its so normal and natural but its not like that in any other place in the world.
@@LisaLee__ where do you travel to?
I’ve been 17 countries including 3 on the African continent and have not seen any problems with interracial couples
Germany, Russia Poland Ukraine Czech
Rwanda Uganda Tanzania Italy Thailand
To name a few and I didn’t see any problems
Stop the hijack of this couple’s happiness
@@knowledgebornunderstanding8826 that's awesome, what a dope life. I have 0 clue why you're taking whatever I said in such a way, it's not how I meant anything. I have a biracial child and married and dated out of my race since middle school. I have had the occasional messed up thing said usually to the white or Asian guy i was with, fights even diffraction times to different guys. Thats my experience. I guess im telling you because, well idk what i said that you're responding to but i certainly am not disparaging this couple! God bless them! Bye!
@@knowledgebornunderstanding8826 oh, well yeah you cant honestly have traveled to all of these places and not seen how uncomfortable people are with interacial couples. You're lying. So why? Idk but i also don't care
Fellow "met online/interracial couple" here ! Just subscribed 😊
We agree it’s so important to be true to yourself and to be open to meeting a partner no matter their background. That’s truly what makes life special, is a love with no boundaries (especially in terms of race, religion, etc)! xxx
I don't pay too much to the negativity towards Interracialism. Because I LOVE it then and I still love ❤️. Always will.
Congratulations 🎊 👏🏿 💐 to you both.
You make a beautiful couple don't let race interfere in your relationship you just stick together even what family members and no one can come between you.
My son and his girlfriend look like this couple. I love this generation for being open. 💕💜💜💕
My husband is a Hill Billy from Ohio and I’m an Army brat lol night and day! We meet on POG 12yrs ago. I’m so happy for you both God bless💕🙏🏾💕
Sounds like a love connection to me. Stay together forever!!!!!
My wife is black and I'm white. We have five children 45 years down to 34. We went years without seeing other couples like us. It was very different back then. I've was fired from a job, slap by an old women I didn't know. So much more.
Whoaaa that’s intense I’m so sorry you went through that
This makes me smile broadly. Best wishes for a long union.
You have a beautiful smile LaDonna
D@mn he fine! 🥰🥰🥰. Congratulations on your engagement! 💍💒
I always say that a relationship should start with a friendship. That helps ensure that you can have a strong foundation that's not primarily built on attraction but on openness and trust and reliability.
YESSSSS I AM HAPPY FOR MINA AND DYLAN ALL LIVES MATTERS 💖
interracial relationships/marriages are the best it's the most beautiful thing for me i love love it GOD BLESSINGS TO YOU BOTH..
Thank you 🙏❤️
OH MY GOD!!!! That is a FINE man😫😫 & you are GORGEOUS!!! My husband is Irish & Italian🥰
Y’all are going to have the most beautiful kiddos
Congrats to you guys!! Dylan is superrr cute! I met my husband online in 2018 and we got married in 2019. You go girl!!
So nice to meet you Both! Thank you for sharing your lives with us!😇❤️🙏🏽
Good for y'all. Quiet the noise. Keep loving each other. I will be 60 years old and in my younger days I always dated white guys but my dad always told me if I married a white guy he would disown me, so I never did. I can tell those guys loved me. Now I am not afraid, it is never too late to love.
I agree Patricia, thanks for sharing and supporting!
I commend this couple for the way they looked and handled their relationship. Blessings bestowed upon your relationship, engagement and hopefully marriage.
CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR ENGAGEMENT. YOU ARE A BLESSED COUPLE
would u call them Blessed .. if it was a pretty white woman with a FINE black man? .. nope
This is a beautiful love story, been married for 22 years now hope you guys get to stay together for a long time. Love is love has no race or color
It’s really heartwarming to hear you guys share your experience because when I was in Highschool, I was in an Interracial relationship with a girl whose mother didn’t like me just because of the color of my skin, and it traumatized both her and I for a While. Till this day it still stresses me out thinking about it. It gives me hope because shows me things are changing and hopefully people in the future won’t have to through what me and my Ex girlfriend went through in Highschool.
This channel popped up and I love it
I love you too
So chilled.....God bless you
Thank you☺️
I think your channel will be a success. You’re both open, you’re both attractive (let’s be honest, that matters in social media) and it’ll be fun to watch your progression. Glad to have found you!
Thank you for the support 🤍✨
Wow!!! You two are going to have BEAUTIFUL children, eventually, of course.
Get married, have fun for a while, and then have kids. That's the best advice I can give...26 years married this August.
TH-cam recommended your video. You two are beautiful together. May your relationship continue to prosper and may you both grow old together. Love your vibe!
Pray your love is forever. You are a great beautiful couple.
Beautiful couple and congratulations! God Bless you both today and always. Love, love, love, always! No matter what! Love always wins when all is said and done in the end. I’m from Papua New Guinea, a dark skin woman, married to my White American husband - will be 32 year anniversary this year. It was Love at first sight, asked me to marry him after my 2nd visit to see him (4 days total). Through many trials and tribulations, bad enough to tear us apart, but because of LOVE We made it this far! And because of LOVE, we plan on making it till death do us apart. 😍
There’s only ONE RACE! HUMAN!!
Okay look I don't know why y'all keep saying that stupid line because this is why I say that, and you might think as an attack but you are degrading literally how this country came about because people separate us because of race we speak a different language because nationalities which is underlined by race. My forefathers that look like me weren't allowed to drink off the same Fountain as that man that's married to this black woman in this video because of race stop saying y'all see no color because y'all got a white man that s*** is so infuriating. When I was in Japan you know what I saw? A lot of Japanese people who saw a black man because of my race. I dated a black woman I dated a white woman and end up having an ex white wife. And you know what she said I'm the first and last black man! I've noticed that the only time people say they don't see color is when they watching videos of black women who sold their self to the white man because he treats her like a queen because of his privileged background because of the color of his skin. And you all have the nerve to say y'all don't see color, what a slap in the face. I swear if I had that white skin maybe I'll be sitting there with a black woman who can love me for me instead of only loving white men
Race is not a bad word. People have used their judgement and ignorance to make it bad. One way to try to avoid negative impacts is to say that this and other differences should be ignored or shouldn’t matter. All should be appreciated and if anything gets in the way, don’t dismiss the diversity, address the question, judgement and negativity. I am a person who is a Black, woman who is a Baby Boomer, mother, etc. All those things add flavor to my deliciousness. The focal point varies. And all is important.
you are a beautiful couple. l watch different racing on line it beautiful to see. congratulations be you.FRANCES
My husband is black and race doesn't affect our relationship because we BOTH do not care what anybody including family says. As long we allow what people thinks and their opinions of us come in our life it will have an affect. Our MINDSET need changing when it comes to people opinions. Give them NO rooms in your heart with their racism and hatred.
Congratulations on your engagement,, ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤
Thank you ☺️
MY SISTAH THANK YOU FOR ALLOWING HIM TO LOVE AND HEAL YOU
The Universe gives us permission that was millions of years ago. Love, Love and more Love is the greatest gift of all!
U both r a wonderful couple.
U even appear to b cool-headed people who genuinely love/respect each other.
Have a blessed relationship ❤️ 🙏
Love the analogy! Blessings to you both!
Thank you! ❤
Beautiful couple.May ALMIGHTY bless you both.
Dude, listening to you two talk is awesome. You remind me of how my husband and I view things. We are both black but from different cultures. In a lot of ways we walk the same path but our perspectives are wildly different. Being able to talk in a non- judgmental way is key to the strength of our relationship. Also we are bluntly honest about everything. Sometimes that means hurt feelings, but we have learned to disagree in a way that just feels like a conversation.
You are so right! Thank you for your support ❤️❤️
you both have very calm, balanced energy. that's rare.
Thank you! ❤️
Amazing content, i am so happy for you both Congratulations on your engagement,,
Congratulations on your engagement! I hope the day will come when race is not an issue when it comes to the friendships we make and the relationships we have. I don't understand racism especially because each race has all types of people.
I agree and thank you for your support 🤎😌
They are beautiful. I have all colors in my family. My family skin tone’s are from really dark skin tones to white. It’s nice that my family is really accepting. Love is Love is Love. TRUE LOVE DOESNT DISCRIMINATE ❤❤❤❤
GOD loves poeple...We all are human...Black...WITE...Brown....the same red blood...Amen
U both are a beautiful couple I wish a happy life together God blessu both
I love this! So glad that your channel popped up in my feed. You both look great together and I wish you both happiness. I’m a BW who met a WW and we were together 25 years before cancer took her from me 3 years ago. She was my best friend and I have the same sentiments as you about race. It was not an issue for us either. I would love to see more videos from you guys! 😊
I'm sorry to hear that! Life is short and love should be love without color. Thank you for your support and sharing your story ✨
Congratulations on your engagement. You make a beautiful couple!
Beautiful couple. Sending you love from South Africa.
Being consistent and mindful will literally make someone stand out like a bright star. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with seeing race and the differences and yet still learning snd supporting each other on a human level. I enjoyed this video. You’re both gorgeous. ❤
I appreciate your comment. We all see color and it's nothing wrong with that.
We were created to see and enjoy color. It's a gift.
Thank you both for sharing your love. You're such an attractive couple. At 53 I'm a widow and desire another opportunity at love
Beautiful couple
Thanks for sharing this beautiful 😍 love story…. Wishes you guys the best
Hey Hi from New Tampa, Fl. Well, being born and raised in Brooklyn New York myself, it’s common to date others of different race, religion, background , etc. I’m Puerto Rican and raced in diversity! Beautiful couple! Blessings and best wishes for a lifetime ♥️♥️
god is good ; if you are happy stay in love my sister
Congratulations on your engagement and may Jehovah, God bless your union of marriage and may you have many years together.
Thank you for making this video you guys remind me so much of my relationship when I met him at school and we are still going strong for 4years now it's just sometimes hard here in South Africa people are always looking at us when we in public there was a time I did not even wanna go shopping with him but I think the older you get the more you don't give a f anymore this video is so inspiring
My daughter met her husband online, not sure if was Tender, but I'm very pleased with their union. I wish you the best in your future marriage❤❤❤
Y'all are TOO CUTE!! 😭❤️
May God bless your togetherness.
Thank you love ✨☺️
So nice to meet you both.
Hi, it’s my first time to your channel that just happened to popup. Thank you so much for doing this video, bc I am so afraid to date outside of my race, but I am open to a real godly man in or outside my race. I must say that I love your story, and what a beautiful couple you are. I love that you did not allow what others would say, affect your decision to stay together, and that you only cared about how you felt for each other. You guys have so much wisdom and I pray that it’s for a lifetime together. CONGRATS and God You Bless your relationship as you move forward to become one.👏🏾🎉
You are an amazing couple. The things that matter is love of two people. Everyone else shouldn’t get involved. I’m married going on 35 years to Dominican lady. I do see good vibes coming from both of you. Congratulations and bless you.❤
That's awesome 35 strong years✨ thank you for your support 😌
Beautiful love story! I enjoyed listening to y’all talk! Soothing. Y’all have a very calm energy. ☺️
Love knows no color. Y’all are a beautiful couple 😊
😊 thank you
Beautiful couple. Thanks for sharing your story.
Our pleasure!❤❤
I love your authenticity and genuine regard for each other. Beautiful couple. You must post video of the nuptials!
So sweet! 🥰 Wish you both a lifetime of happiness
Thx for sharing your wonderful journey together, growing from good friends, to partners to fiancees now. And yes his parents are 'pretty much hippies', and they want your happiness always. ✌️❤️🙏😘
It’s wonderful that you share your insights bc you are both funny and have a way to talk about a heavy topic with so much grace.
I subscribed immediately after watching! A very 'delightful' video!😊. And you're both so easy on the eyes and ears. And your diction....Good Lord, amazing! Looking forward to watching all your videos to come. See you again soon! 🥰❤❤
Wow such a beautiful couple! You guys are glowing! ✨ congratulations on your engagement!
Happy for you both. Wishing you many more years of happiness. 😊
Hi guys I'm new to your channel. Welcome to Florida, I live on the east coast of Florida and planning to move to your guy's neck of the woods. You're such a beautiful couple with great vibes. I love your story and the chemistry is so very real with you all. Thanks for sharing, May God bless your union.🥰👏
Love the diner story, how you met, etcetera. How you communicate and trade off on planning dates is wonderful. You guys are a great example to anyone wanting to have a good relationship.
I appreciate how honest you are about this and congratulations on your engagement.
Wow just found you guys and loved listening to your story. It is obvious, to me, that it was kismet you were destined to meet and the moment you did it clicked. You’re both a shining example that Race has no barriers if two people have respect and love for each other. Looking forward to many more videos 🥰
OMG, I can’t believe you are on TH-cam. I am super excited for you. I can’t wait to watch all of your videos. I miss and love you girly. ❤😊. Your relationship inspires me.
You both are such a gorgeous couple! Congrats on your engagement! 🎉🥂 Just subscribed to your channel. Please post more vlogs and videos of your life and relationship. ❤️
I just came upon your channel this morning! You both are stunning, intelligent, and lovingly respectful of one another! Loved this video! ❤
THIS is the most gorgeous man I've ever seen!!!!...Girllll!!
Beautiful couple. I love your maturity, and congratulations on your engagement.
Like # 4.3k plus 1, thank you both so much for sharing your story. I've been interracially married for 27 yrs & we are the proud parents of 20 yr old fraternal twins. We, like the two of you, have never given a thought to what anyone may say or think about us. We honestly do not care. Congrats on becoming engaged, I wish you both many more years of love, happiness & togetherness. Thank you both for sharing & making me smile. Tina in Cali
I like your idea of alternating date nights! Great tips in your reflection.
Your such a great couple. God bless your marriage.