The wife in this story should have done something to get the attention of her husband before she cheated. He could have revised his algorithm and fixed the problem if he had known it was a problem. She didn't give him a chance, he thought everything was good. The husband in this story should have been more observant but the wife should not have betrayed him. Marriage is about commitment.
You're absolutely correct, they all do the same thing they cheat and say you it was because of some thick problem they made up and that you never knew about and if that was truly the case why wouldn't they go to their husband and telling about this problem they're having so they can fix it together as a couple... But they don't do that the cheat and then make up a reason to justify the infidelity
Totally agree, yet women aren’t built that way. Had a wife that I gave her everything and it wasn’t enough and it was my fault because I never read her mind and figured it out. Turns out later she was bipolar and it was my fault. So glad we never had kids.
She did say at the end that she handled it like an adolescent, which is true, she did. But it's also true for both of them. He didn't just work hard, he was an engineer and picked engineer battles in his life because those were the ones that made more sense, that 'added up'. He was a workaholic, but with algorithms and designs, not with his marital duties. He was an aging adolescent, picking an adolescent's battles. Yes, she should have pointed out some of that to him, or found a counsellor who could articulate it to him in a way he could have heard. But she was an adolescent about it, focusing only on her own loneliness, then spitefully jumping into bed with the best friend to get her husband back for that loneliness he'd caused her. He was a kid about it and worked too hard, because that was the kind of work that made more sense to him, not the work he should have been doing in his marriage. She was a kid about it and nuked the whole thing. Hers was the greater sin, and the only marriage-ending one, for sure. But that fact about her doesn't make him guiltless -- not guilt about breaking the marriage, but guilt nonetheless, about straining it to the point of breaking, setting it up for her to finish it off with her unequivocable wrongs. They were both like adolescents, and he did hurt her with his neglect. But she was like an adolescent who'd found an unsecured, loaded weapon, and used it on him.
Have you noticed how many of these stories say “think of the kids”? I’m a pleasant guy probably more than I should be but I’d still talk to the marine if I’m not given custody then the earth wasn’t scorched enough
I agree that OP never should've neglected his wife by working too much. To the relationship guys: "Don't be neglecting your girlfriend or wife by working way too much." Because, that will cause massive problems in the relationship. Because, if you're not showing your woman any love, affection or attention, then she's going to cheat on you with someone else.
I don’t deny the ops own failings but I feel you aren’t also speaking of the wife’s own failings as well. Arguable worse than his. She didn’t try in anyway to make her marriage better. Instead of making it better she made sure it stayed dead. If she had done what she did in the beginning without any cheating I could see them possibly being able to try to work it out but she didn’t even attempt it. To make matters even worse, the person she cheated on him with was his Best friend. I’m sorry to say but any hope of a better marriage was destroyed when she cheated. The main guy started it but his spouse didn’t try to stop it. She made is incredibly way worse
Yeah, I knew that I remembered another character with the name of "Doug Stamper." Maybe with the death of his career, Stamper strolled off into the sunset and had a new and exciting career as Frank Underwood's fixer.
I feel sorry for OP - he's missed the entire point of a musvle car. If you h a v e to show how mucho you are then you're definitively NOT macho. Muscle cars are a challenge, a car worthy of your skill, to be driven hard, enjoyed, and in turn challenged
Claire was so stupid. She never tried to save ger marriage. She was hurt and angry and wanted to punish him. Why be with someone who has the same job as your husband? Now, she ended up alone because she didn't use her words.
Here's a secret my friend for the higher-ups I worked in a field that constantly have to deal with people I call the upstairs the management would come down and try to micro manage now here it comes you have one of your people or yourself strategically place a grease gun in the area when the suits show up the one fellow with the grease gun hanging down nonchalantly walks past and dips a small tiny piece of grease on the back of the man's trousers he will not know where he got it but he will spread it all over that new BMW they'll have it clean it'll happen once it will happen twice and subconsciously he will never return to your domain again it will be phone calls and requests for you and they won't even know why
I had to drop friends who never had to work a day in their life. Trust fund kids who pretended to be poor. They had no concept of hard work and not doing what you want, when you want. They looked down on me b/c I prefer metal over jam bands. My contempt for them made me remove myself from them, especially when my wife got breast cancer and none of them said anything.
The only concern is the kids. If you keep it on as good a terms as possible the kids will suffer the lest. I know , my Parey fought till the day they died dispite being divorced and married to other people. Us 3 kids were always in the middle. All 3 kids are messed up.
I understand. The indecision and waffling that comes from her confessing to infidelity. He is an engineer. Where's that problem solving engineer mindset? How long before this guy gets his act together? I'm an hour in and he's still waiting. He is so weak.
Story felt a little unsatisfying. The ending isn’t as bad as some people think- it seems more realistic (remember they have to co parent). Glad he didn’t end up with Sandra that would be sillier and a downgrade.
Jesus Tap Dancing Christ, can anyone tell me the exact time the revenge begins, I'm not in the mood to go through 3 hours of a story that could potentially end up being 2 hours and 40 minutes of nonsense before the payload.
15:36 HELL yeah! I've been waiting for a story with this line. Don't get me wrong, MC seems like a bit of a scumbag, but this line in the story has made me instantly enjoy it.
@YGA_QUEZ not really a scumbag, admittedly. But his whole neglecting his family and every female character's description linking to his horniness or their effect upon it gave me scummy vibes. He definitely comes around a lot in the story, but early on he's not an MC I'd typically root for. 😅
So Frank admits to devoting his at home life to work and his wife cheats on him. I'm a salaried employee and I will never work after I leave...most these stories seem to get out of hand due to lack of communication...communication is key to a long term relationship. And people in these stories act like there significant others are mind reader. Frank leave ur work at work and give ur wife attention or she will look for attention else where..truth hurts but u communicated ur issue. Fix it and make changes or deal with the shit that unfolds😢
Dont this bullshit stories seriously. Let me ask u question clara and doug works for same company. They have 2 young kids and still get time to screw each other ??? I have only one nephew at a ge of 3 years and it take 4 of us to control him and working women clara finds time for extra sex with 2 kids running all over house😅😂
Ok I'm glad I'm not the only one thinking like this, I keep seeing similar events pop up and I'm like, bro you literally ignored her/treated her like actual nothing, I don't think you should be cheated on but man you're not even a good spouse to begin with
Meh shes just as guilty. He should have been more attentive correct (I wont harp on him since thats already been done)- However she gave up long before she cheated without ever doing anything to actually save the marriage. He is shown to be very much able to 'wake up' when shaken. But she never shook. His Kid did though. He woke up, he reflected. She (his ex) woke up and spread her legs for his best friend. Perhaps she could have simply walked right into his office and say "Frank I am feeling lonely and like shit and we need a therapist and change or this marriage wont last' I think based on the fact that his daughter could shake him awake with what she said.. That would have shaken him just as much.. Instead she cheated. So yeah as a character shes just as guilty. They both did it, in different ways. Helped along by the biggest hypocrite - his best friend.
True but there is also another truth to that one. Actually communicate your issue with your partner if you have a problem. That can help a whole lot more than cheating with his best friend.
Seriously hatsoff to clara for finding time in between office timing and rising 2 young kids and to have time for ex martial affair, rising 2 kids with abscenty husband and lover.. What an irony 😅😂 frank cant reconcile with his wife for cheating with best friend, but willing to take chance with lapdancer and parttime escort.😅😂
This story stirred up plenty emotions. However I'm most grateful for having surpassed all obstacles. There's always light at the end of tunnel. We only need to look down the right tunnel to see the light. Great story❤ Thanks LLC 💫😘
Typical….they love the money & perks that come with a job promotions but then hold it against him for earning it & use it as a justification to cheat!
I'd go for the Marine lawyer. After cheating on me scorched earth is the only way
I would too
And there it is! Engineers will always tell you they are engineers every five minutes
Man, I hope this story gets a second part!
Getting hit on the ear A) hurts like hell B) can throw off your equilibrium C) it's like 2 inches away from your temple.
Not if it’s a nerd throwing the punch 😆
Marine!!
The fact that she cheated on you with your best friend you should have went with the marine and scorched everything in your way
Loved this story! Saw so much of myself in OP
The wife in this story should have done something to get the attention of her husband before she cheated. He could have revised his algorithm and fixed the problem if he had known it was a problem. She didn't give him a chance, he thought everything was good. The husband in this story should have been more observant but the wife should not have betrayed him. Marriage is about commitment.
You're absolutely correct, they all do the same thing they cheat and say you it was because of some thick problem they made up and that you never knew about and if that was truly the case why wouldn't they go to their husband and telling about this problem they're having so they can fix it together as a couple... But they don't do that the cheat and then make up a reason to justify the infidelity
Totally agree with you
Totally agree, yet women aren’t built that way. Had a wife that I gave her everything and it wasn’t enough and it was my fault because I never read her mind and figured it out. Turns out later she was bipolar and it was my fault. So glad we never had kids.
She did say at the end that she handled it like an adolescent, which is true, she did. But it's also true for both of them. He didn't just work hard, he was an engineer and picked engineer battles in his life because those were the ones that made more sense, that 'added up'. He was a workaholic, but with algorithms and designs, not with his marital duties. He was an aging adolescent, picking an adolescent's battles. Yes, she should have pointed out some of that to him, or found a counsellor who could articulate it to him in a way he could have heard. But she was an adolescent about it, focusing only on her own loneliness, then spitefully jumping into bed with the best friend to get her husband back for that loneliness he'd caused her. He was a kid about it and worked too hard, because that was the kind of work that made more sense to him, not the work he should have been doing in his marriage. She was a kid about it and nuked the whole thing. Hers was the greater sin, and the only marriage-ending one, for sure. But that fact about her doesn't make him guiltless -- not guilt about breaking the marriage, but guilt nonetheless, about straining it to the point of breaking, setting it up for her to finish it off with her unequivocable wrongs. They were both like adolescents, and he did hurt her with his neglect. But she was like an adolescent who'd found an unsecured, loaded weapon, and used it on him.
Wedding vows should be honored no matter what.
The company drama adds another twist. Will Frank use this to his advantage, or is he in too deep already?
As an Engineer, this is hitting very close to home, very good story well done
Sounds like some Karma happening to our Husband here….
Have you noticed how many of these stories say “think of the kids”? I’m a pleasant guy probably more than I should be but I’d still talk to the marine if I’m not given custody then the earth wasn’t scorched enough
He and she were made for each other if not for cheating on him she would tried alternate approach
A ungrateful wife
Revenge at 1:21:00
Such a long story and such a short ending.
She has a lover , of 😅course she has no problems 😮shes moved on 6 months ago. 😊
Simp. She had another choice to talk to her husband before sleeping with someone else
I agree that OP never should've neglected his wife by working too much. To the relationship guys: "Don't be neglecting your girlfriend or wife by working way too much." Because, that will cause massive problems in the relationship. Because, if you're not showing your woman any love, affection or attention, then she's going to cheat on you with someone else.
Some times the job requires it to make a decent living.
I don’t deny the ops own failings but I feel you aren’t also speaking of the wife’s own failings as well. Arguable worse than his. She didn’t try in anyway to make her marriage better. Instead of making it better she made sure it stayed dead. If she had done what she did in the beginning without any cheating I could see them possibly being able to try to work it out but she didn’t even attempt it. To make matters even worse, the person she cheated on him with was his Best friend. I’m sorry to say but any hope of a better marriage was destroyed when she cheated. The main guy started it but his spouse didn’t try to stop it. She made is incredibly way worse
Nice "House of Cards" references!
Yeah, I knew that I remembered another character with the name of "Doug Stamper." Maybe with the death of his career, Stamper strolled off into the sunset and had a new and exciting career as Frank Underwood's fixer.
This was a great story ! Thanks so much 😊
I feel sorry for OP - he's missed the entire point of a musvle car. If you
h a v e to show how mucho you are then you're definitively NOT macho. Muscle cars are a challenge, a car worthy of your skill, to be driven hard, enjoyed, and in turn challenged
Typical. give us HALF the story.
Best friends don't do that crap to their friends ... not even good friends would do that ...
At the end all I could do was sing “I’m in love with a stripper” by T-Pain
Claire confesses to Frank in bed that she is unhappy in their marriage, feeling neglected due to Frank's long work hours and emotional distance.
Claire was so stupid. She never tried to save ger marriage. She was hurt and angry and wanted to punish him. Why be with someone who has the same job as your husband? Now, she ended up alone because she didn't use her words.
Here's a secret my friend for the higher-ups I worked in a field that constantly have to deal with people I call the upstairs the management would come down and try to micro manage now here it comes you have one of your people or yourself strategically place a grease gun in the area when the suits show up the one fellow with the grease gun hanging down nonchalantly walks past and dips a small tiny piece of grease on the back of the man's trousers he will not know where he got it but he will spread it all over that new BMW they'll have it clean it'll happen once it will happen twice and subconsciously he will never return to your domain again it will be phone calls and requests for you and they won't even know why
Well then twisted justice in ways i didn't expect 😅 😮
I had to drop friends who never had to work a day in their life. Trust fund kids who pretended to be poor. They had no concept of hard work and not doing what you want, when you want. They looked down on me b/c I prefer metal over jam bands. My contempt for them made me remove myself from them, especially when my wife got breast cancer and none of them said anything.
The only concern is the kids.
If you keep it on as good a terms as possible the kids will suffer the lest.
I know , my Parey fought till the day they died dispite being divorced and married to other people.
Us 3 kids were always in the middle.
All 3 kids are messed up.
Did the wife ever really try to talk to him before the affair?
I understand. The indecision and waffling that comes from her confessing to infidelity.
He is an engineer. Where's that problem solving engineer mindset?
How long before this guy gets his act together? I'm an hour in and he's still waiting. He is so weak.
Alright, enough of this silly stuff. "Not a manly cry ? but on my knees balling and sobbing" this after months of living as divorced, seriously.
Story felt a little unsatisfying. The ending isn’t as bad as some people think- it seems more realistic (remember they have to co parent). Glad he didn’t end up with Sandra that would be sillier and a downgrade.
this was a good one
Turning point of the story 45:50
A 45 min interlude with a ho....really? These stories are long enough man. COME ON!!
Get the marines
That's why you lost out you rather work then spend time with you family your at fault
Jesus Tap Dancing Christ, can anyone tell me the exact time the revenge begins, I'm not in the mood to go through 3 hours of a story that could potentially end up being 2 hours and 40 minutes of nonsense before the payload.
One year, sex after 6 months.
Thank you.
one of the better stories I've heard
15:36 HELL yeah! I've been waiting for a story with this line. Don't get me wrong, MC seems like a bit of a scumbag, but this line in the story has made me instantly enjoy it.
How exactly is the op a scumbag lol
@YGA_QUEZ not really a scumbag, admittedly. But his whole neglecting his family and every female character's description linking to his horniness or their effect upon it gave me scummy vibes. He definitely comes around a lot in the story, but early on he's not an MC I'd typically root for. 😅
@@WhiskeyWizard understandable
Vestibule of hope?
Mc still wanted to work on his marriage after wife cheated on him for a year? Luckily, mc was saved after wife called AP’s name.
The ending was absolute crap. Frank is an old fool!
Agreed.
That was an even dumber and more absurd decision than the typical "aND SiX mOnTHs LaTEr tHEy gOT MaRRiEd!" happily ever after ending.
Too wordy, and boring and a waste of time. No satisfaction at all
So Frank admits to devoting his at home life to work and his wife cheats on him. I'm a salaried employee and I will never work after I leave...most these stories seem to get out of hand due to lack of communication...communication is key to a long term relationship. And people in these stories act like there significant others are mind reader. Frank leave ur work at work and give ur wife attention or she will look for attention else where..truth hurts but u communicated ur issue. Fix it and make changes or deal with the shit that unfolds😢
Dont this bullshit stories seriously. Let me ask u question clara and doug works for same company. They have 2 young kids and still get time to screw each other ??? I have only one nephew at a ge of 3 years and it take 4 of us to control him and working women clara finds time for extra sex with 2 kids running all over house😅😂
Ok I'm glad I'm not the only one thinking like this, I keep seeing similar events pop up and I'm like, bro you literally ignored her/treated her like actual nothing, I don't think you should be cheated on but man you're not even a good spouse to begin with
They both sucked and should've never got married. They married after one year of dating. Bunch of fools who can't communicate.
Meh shes just as guilty. He should have been more attentive correct (I wont harp on him since thats already been done)- However she gave up long before she cheated without ever doing anything to actually save the marriage. He is shown to be very much able to 'wake up' when shaken. But she never shook. His Kid did though. He woke up, he reflected. She (his ex) woke up and spread her legs for his best friend. Perhaps she could have simply walked right into his office and say "Frank I am feeling lonely and like shit and we need a therapist and change or this marriage wont last' I think based on the fact that his daughter could shake him awake with what she said.. That would have shaken him just as much.. Instead she cheated. So yeah as a character shes just as guilty. They both did it, in different ways. Helped along by the biggest hypocrite - his best friend.
True but there is also another truth to that one. Actually communicate your issue with your partner if you have a problem. That can help a whole lot more than cheating with his best friend.
Seriously hatsoff to clara for finding time in between office timing and rising 2 young kids and to have time for ex martial affair, rising 2 kids with abscenty husband and lover.. What an irony 😅😂 frank cant reconcile with his wife for cheating with best friend, but willing to take chance with lapdancer and parttime escort.😅😂
They’re about the same, two sides of the same coin lol
I mean, the stripper at least didn’t sleep with his best friend.
@@jim6480 That you know of!🤔🙄🤨🍺😎
Great story but I wish he would've found someone his own age and not in that lifestyle
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This story stirred up plenty emotions. However I'm most grateful for having surpassed all obstacles. There's always light at the end of tunnel. We only need to look down the right tunnel to see the light.
Great story❤
Thanks LLC 💫😘
Thanks for sharing!
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I kept jumping ahead 5 minutes fast forwarding because the story was pretty boring going nowhere 👎
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Boring too long and wordy
If he didn’t work that hard she say he’s a bumb he’s broke she want more out of life women are never happy