LIVE ALONE - beauty of SOLITUDE
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 ก.พ. 2023
- The world is more connected than it's ever been before. We can communicate instantly with our friends and family who live miles apart, thanks to the power of social media. And yet... why do so many of us still feel lonely?
Feeling lonely is a normal human experience - it is something we all go through. And it's not simply a function of being alone. You can feel lonely in a crowd. Because loneliness is a feeling of being alienated from others, not feeling understood or connected - it’s a feeling that something is missing.
But loneliness is also a message that our body sends us, letting us know that we are important, and we need to become friends with ourselves again. When we feel isolated or alone, we can choose to have compassion for ourselves. We can recognise our emotions without judging them. When we accept where we are at and what we are struggling against, without berating ourselves, we can then begin to change.
In order to defeat loneliness, we have to listen to its message - You are complete, nobody is needed, you are enough!
Filmed in Groot-Marico, South Africa.
Featuring Johann Moolman (www.art.co.za/johannmoolman/)
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Who is Reflections of Life? We are Justine and Michael (previously known as Green Renaissance). We use our passion for filmmaking and our love of storytelling, to remind our audience of one simple truth - that we are all human. The more that we understand and believe in this interconnectedness, the more we will treat ourselves, one another, and planet earth with a greater sense of compassion.
Editing - by Amy Cupido and Justine du Toit
Music sourced from ArtList - bit.ly/2KfrAt2
Cold - by Borrtex
Creativity (Theta) - by Yotam Agam
Enter (Reworked) - by Christopher Galovan
Close - by Eleven Tales
In a Heartbeat - by Noam Zaguri
Break of Day - by Noam Zaguri
A huge thank you to these guys, who so generously gave of their to time to help with language translations:
Arabic - by Mohammad Alkhudhair
Assamese - by Partha Protim Borah
Catalan - by Pau Zabaleta
Chinese - by Loretta Mao
Croatian - by Davor Bobanac
Dutch - by Karla Greven
English - by Justine du Toit
French - by Amélie Macoin
Georgian - by Qeti Giorgadze
German - by Tanja Pütz
Greek - by Angeliki Papadimitriou
Hungarian - by Zorka Evetovics
Indonesian - by Ary Nuansa
Italian - by Grazia Gironella
Korean - by Chloe Park
Macedonian - by Lidija Pusevska Markovska
Polish - by Anna Konieczna
Russian - by Assiya Marzhanova
Slovak - by Zuzana Beratsova
Slovenian - by Jasmina Kovačič
Thai - by Pimmi Uamart
Ukrainian - by Olha Yurchyk
Vietnamese - by Thi Le - ภาพยนตร์และแอนิเมชัน
I would much rather go home to an empty house than to someone I wish weren’t there.
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Or go to someones house when you feel like you're walking on egg shells.
Agree 100%😊
this is why I am not renting out my spare bedroom. Prefer to live a frugal life than have some stranger sharing my space.
Could not agree more
Being around people who are fake and insincere or where you feel out of place is so much worse than loneliness.
30+ years of it. But because of this, I accomplished a lot due to my own personal training, hard work, resilience, intelligence, and inability to allow others to disrespect me for more than a moment.
Besides... what is most important is none of this terrestrial, non-sequitur nonsense. When you're about to cross beyond the void veil--when that moment surely arrives... Reflect carefully.
"Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In time, all points converge, hope's strength resteeled. But to earn final peace at the universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again." --Diamond Dragons (Armageddon's Ballad)
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Thank you for watching and sharing this thought. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
Agree
That's pretty much the whole world
I couldn't agree more with this.
Periods of solitude help me recover from the madness of the crowd.
Me too
I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes it's just too much.
I understand completely. Actually, I need so much solitude just to feel like myself. I feel more alone when around most people than I do by myself.
So important to have solitude in between. So glad the story resonated with you. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
Agree especially if one is an introvert as myself.
This reminds me of a great quote from Blaise Pascal....."All of man's troubles stem from his inability to sit quietly in a room alone."
Thank you for sharing this quote - very fitting. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I guess we can update that to include " humans problem" with tech today.
That is one of my favourite quotes for a long time.
What a wonderful channel. Stillness. Being. It’s all we need and are.
bravo!!
There are just too many of us all around the world and sometimes...sometimes we all gather here in the comments, like around a fire (the video) and we become a part of this same story, all togheter.
Even if for some brief moments, we share something, all of us.
Best Regards to all from Portugal.
Wow, what a lovely comparison, thank you for sharing this thought with us all. Sending you warm hugs to Portugal, Justine and Michael. 💚
Truly. From Florida.
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Indeed 😘
Indeed, thank you for sharing this 😍
I identify with Johann. I believe we are ultimately alone in life, especially as we contemplate its end. I live on my own through my past choices and decisions. But when I experience something beautiful in Nature and I long to share that joy with someone else, that is when I feel lonely. I just have to say to myself "Be thankful for this moment, for the incredible opportunity to join in the dance of the Cosmos, and be a living thing among the countless others our precious Mother Earth supports". It's enough.
We are glad his message resonated with you Anthony. May there always be a way to appreciate moments of joy where you can "join in the dance of the Cosmos..." , find comfort in your surroundings, in nature. Wishing you well. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I also live alone in nature. Wanting to share it got me into more than one messy predicament. Now I'm enjoying a thunderstorm in the screen porch. Sending video clips to my sons. The worst loneliness is with someone there. Being at the far end of life, as our artist says, is worth regular contemplation.
You can share those beautiful moments in nature with others through the internet (pictures, film, writings) and move many souls (especially important for those who would not be able to go out in nature for varios reasons (too poor to travel, ill, etc.)
@@JB-pd3ir Of course you are right. Unfortunately you become very insulated in your "bubble" perhaps as a way to cope, so less willing to reach out. But thank you for the thought.
That's lovley what you said🌈
Enjoying the life alone and not feeling lonely and not needing much is the ultimate wisdom.
Glad his message resonated with you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Some of my happiest moments are in my greenhouse alone, no music with a bag of potting, compost and seeds to plant and plants to prune just the sound of the birds and the company of my cat., absolute bliss
Sounds heavenly! Enjoy these precious moments of peaceful solitude. Warm hugs. Justine and Michael. x
That’s exactly how an old woman should be, old, alone, with a bunch of cats.
Sounds delightful, one of my goals for my later yrs
Same here, after a long day work in the garden, looking at the beautiful sunset and sitting on the terrace like in this film.
You,ve got it exactly right Christine….my garden planting seeds,taking cuttings and watching them grow…nowt better lass!
I've never been lonelier than when I'm surrounded by people.
Yes, there are many people that feel that way - you are not alone, Sharon. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I hear that!
Johann, a pleasure to listen to you speak on living alone,
I live alone too, although i had a husband and our family once,
my husband got sick and passed away, our boys grew to men, with their own lives, but i am content, i like my own company, life is good to me, but i take care , in every way.
@SharonG-ipII have not heard this old saying for such a long time.
Understood....
When I walk into the woods, no one is about.
Oddest thing, feel very happy, NO loneliness, none...
Thank you, sir, for your most needed video. I too am a full-time working artist, 71 years old, and recently told I won't walk again. I live alone and am isolated. Working through all of this I am walking the path with you. I just appreciate your honesty. It was a gift to me today. All the best.
We are glad that you found some comfort in this story. And we're sorry to hear about your health - we do hope that you are ok. Sending much love and care to you. Justine and Michael. x
Have you got a dog? This can be the best company.
May God give you all the strength and love that you need. We are never alone, God is with us, all the time… Sending you my warm wishes 🙏💖🌹
Don't let anyone tell you that you can't do anything. Even paraplegic people have devices now to keep them Mobil, don't give up!
I’m wishing you the best in a tough situation. I hope your spirits are not crushed, and you find renewed purpose, happiness and connections.
"Be good to yourself. Be kind to yourself." Yes.
Glad these words resonated with you. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
Be your own indulgent mummy - treat yourself to an ice cream cone
alone IS NOT LONELY..ITS WONDERFUL SPACE TO BE ONESELF
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And most of the people sharing their stories have pets with them through thick and thin. Animal are wonderful ❤
Yes, absolutely right. Unconditional love. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
yes, except for for the drawn out period of their old age, decrepitude, suffering and one's own impotence in helping the beloved pet.
The best friend a person could have .
If you have a pet, then you're under the illusion of being alone. Most people cannot tolerate the transcendental awareness of true solitude.
Yes! Animals are the best! I love my dogs and they are my best company. I occasionally meet with friends, but I love my own company more than anything else, and the older I get, the more I enjoy being on my own. I am in my late 60s and never feel lonely! I am still very energetic, independent and very grateful for everything I have had in my life.
There is no lonelier place than being with people who don't appreciate you! Five years of living by myself, seeing myself, and embracing the resulting peace as truly opened my mind! I've learnt so much of this Earth and its workings .. I saw nothing until i was at one with myself! We are here to live and learn....there is no set way. I share my life with few, help where i can, and enjoy my pet companions!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Nice that you are feeling ok living on your own. Wishing you all the best for every day, and happy living and learning. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚
There's a long long way to go still. Don't worry my friend, One good day, you will find what you're looking for? The other group of rest of the world doesn't realize that fact because some of them are living in a deep sleep state and some of them are enjoying life like living in a dream state. Everyone on the planet is alone and lonely in fact but few have been awakened from sleep state and do feel themselves misfits in the fake world around them. This might be the purpose of living a spiritual life but the process of awakening is very painful. Only few can hold the courage to choose. In the end they are the lucky ones. Thanks if you understand my point of view.
Exactly.
Precisely !😅
Most of these people seem to be so calm with their lives. Something we could all learn from.
Lovely thought. We are so glad we can share this calmness with all our viewers. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Its because they go to a peaceful ,quiet enviroment and reflect. Escaping the chaos of what is pushed down our throats to think one must believe.
They live in SA in the most beautiful environment
When you are in the last stage of life.
Energy is conserved for living
@@kimsherlock8969 I like that Kim 😊
Many individuals in these stories have animals surrounding them. Love is abundant with these companions.
We agree, animals make such a difference in our lives. And they always share love. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
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I noticed that too! I have 3 dogs they remind me of unconditional love.
True....I am never lonely with my 4 cats around me. They are magical.
My doggies have given me reason to live, love, and forgive. Dog isn’t God spelled backwards by coincidence. The ultimate partner in life, IMHO❤️
I have lived alone since 1996. I view the outside world as something I once swam in. Now I am content with my library, music and memories
We are glad you found your happy place, that's the most important thing. As long as you are content where you are. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
@Green Renaissance I am aretired NZ Army Veteran with 20 yrs service hence my decision to view the world on my terms.
I love the metaphor of swimming in the world. I embrace my alone-ness because so much of the world was a cesspool in which I was mired. There are crystal streams to be witnessed if you look for them. But I am a terrestrial creature. From the Earth to which I will return. All things outside of my body are not part of me, but the universe which surrounds me. It is like looking up into the starfield of the galaxy. Beauty to behold and befriend, but we will never touch.
"What you have acquired in your soul is wealth". "Realize that there is an end to your journey". Wise words from a wise man.
We are glad his words resonated with you Terry. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Most disgusting feeling to be alone that talk all nonsense .. life to make real big family alot of sons be around you live care about each other the will care about you when being older
7 years widowed and loneliness is a thorn piercing my heart that sometimes sits kindly and quietly, and sometimes wiggles further in and I cry in pain.
So sorry Jenna, we understand. It's not easy to have lost a loved one /the partner. Sending you many warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Beautifully said
My heart feels the same.
Broken hearts , denied of love
I am 66 and I am slowly coming round to the idea this is my life and I must embrace my life.
Thank you for your post.
I understand
I'm so sorry for your loss. 🙏💖
Have been here, this to passes in its own time. Everything does somehow❤
I've lived with chronic depression for 20 years as a result of experiences from a career in forensic science/law enforcement. There is a difference between solitude and being content, compared to being alone with an empty life. I can manage the dark times due to the company of my labradors. They are more human than dog, they sense my feelings and moods, they treat me better than most humans have. Their love and loyalty knows no bounds. They taught me patience, the simple pleasures of life and to be at peace with myself. I now enjoy pursuing my interests and always have them by my side. Life is what you make of it. Do the things YOU enjoy, everything else falls into place.
Thank you for sharing a bit about your life. So glad you found a way to deal with your depression, that you have your furry friends by your side. Yes, dogs have a wonderful way to love and support us. Wishing you all the very best for every coming day, enjoy the company of your Labradors, enjoy life. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I love the last sentiment you said. Thank you for sharing your wisdom, I needed to hear that today. And you do not carry your struggle alone. Wishing you love and comfort and peace in where you are.
@@ADDYsunshine Thankyou.
The scene where he is walking along with the four dogs I pray that is what heaven will look like for me
I hope it does for you ❤
Then I live in Heaven now. I live with my my partner and her seven big dogs and three big cats. It’s Heaven (til it’s time to cleanup the yard! LOL).
Yes❤
@@sstolarik lol
You literally do live in heaven. Heaven is here and Now. Only a thought makes you think you don't ❤@@sstolarik
Who is this man with such a quiet wisdom, so beautifully offered?
He certainly read a lot. There are some Buddhist philosophies in there " you are born with nothing and leaving this Earth with nothing."
A wonderfully wise south african for sure...
@@haid9063 You can learn that lesson without reading. There is a song by The Streets in which the chorus says, "I came to this world with nothing, and I'll leave with nothing but love. Everything else is just borrowed."
We are glad that you enjoyed what he shared. His name is Johann Moolman. You find more info and his website link in the write up below the video. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
@@haid9063When he said "naked I was born..." he was quoting from the book of Job 1.21.
When he said "Do to others as you would have done to yourself" he is quoting the Gospels (the so-called golden rule) and when he says love is the bottom line he is qoting the great commandment from the gospels and that great hymn to love - 1 Corinthians 13.
His idea of renunciation as we age certainly echoes the Hindu Sanyasi and his love of solitude the eremetic life of the desert fathers.
I live in solitude. I am a painter. I paint everyday and enjoy my animals. I am not lonely.
To be a true artist, it is necessary to be alone so that the magic of creativity can come
mysteriously. It is a great honor to be in that realm, but one has to give up human drama.
Quietude, peace and nature are the ingredients.
So wonderful to read of the life that you have created for yourself. May you continue to use the solitude to craft the magic of your creations. Sending hugs. Justine and Michael. x
"solitude is for me a fount of healing which makes my life worth living. Taling is often a torment for me, and I need many days of silence to recover from the futility of words"- Carl Jung
Thank you for sharing the quotation with us. Certainly words one can ponder on. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
There is a ocean of difference between solitude and being lonely .
No one is an island
No one stands alone
Each ones Joy's are joys to me
Each ones needs are my own
We need one another
So I will defend
Each one as my other
Each one as my friend .
Beautiful words, thanks so much for sharing. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
@@ReflectionsofLife we used to sing it at my school.
....provided you mix with the right people
@@brucedownunda7054 The right people . How hard it is to find them. So, I live a almost hermit like life and hope for the best. So, the majority of people discover the right mind.
@@spmoran4703 Not difficult, You simply have to look under the Right Mushrooms. " Don't Stop nelieving" Journey
There is nothing more relaxing than quiet place
Well said, glad this video resonated with you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Another excellent documentary. What an articulate person. This man has such a gift with words. Thank you, GR. You are definitely making the world better.
Wow, thank you! Such encouraging and kind words. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I love everything you share to me with your Chanel❤Love Jannike Sweden 🇸🇪
Most disgusting feeling to be alone that talk all nonsense .. life to make real big family alot of sons be around you live care about each other the will care about you when being older
@@mahersaber6381 there are zero guarantees
You are making each day better ❤️
I absolutely love being alone. I'm never bored. I love hiking and biking throughout the west of Ireland 🇮🇪 In October 2022 I did a two week self drive camping safari in Namibia in southern Africa. I've travelled all over the world solo. I never feel alone.
Wonderful to read that you are content being on your own. Your travels sound wonderful. Enjoy every new adventure. Kindest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
In recovering from trauma, I recently came to understand what this man said about accepting the reality of loneliness. He has a concise way of speaking about complicated things. Thank you for sharing this.
Wonderful that his words are so meaningful to you. We hope you are doing better, wishing you all the best for the road ahead. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
@@ReflectionsofLife Yes, I am. Thank you for your kindness. ☮️
I live close to hermit life. Totally surprised, unplanned, but sequalae from brain injury and fatigue, headache, vertigo, blah blah.
I was such a "people person" !
I enjoy my own company.
Amen.
I love your films.
Every
Single
One.
.. let's all agree that this was a beautiful documentary, so soul soothing.. powerful words indeed.. 🥰 truly, I can relate
Thank you Pelo, so glad it resonated with you. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
I agree totally
Through childhood trauma, poor decisions as an adult i was alone/lonely for most of my life.
- in my 20's, 30's i looked into a few different 'religions though couldn't really relate to any of them.
i started looking at my hand, praying to whoever made it to reach out to me. God did Through Jesus Christ and the Bible. It hasn't always been easy, and i've still a ways to go though i'm happily married now: we're buying a home at age 57. Again it's not easy though i've found living for myself is "for the birds" i personally believe Christ died that i might live! This life is short though God willing i'm trying to live it in a way that has meaning & purpose...
Thank you for sharing your ups and downs. We are glad that you found contentment and more stability, are also married now and are able to buying a home. Wishing you all the best further, and joy and strength for every new day. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
This came at the right time. At 46, i separated from my ex 19 years ago. We have 2 children. I gave the latter my all, just as my parents did for me. Lots of outdoor time, great vacations, top notch private school, which ultimately led to top colleges. I ensured to keep them out of my & their mother's differences, and also enforced the necessity to have respect and honor for their mother & elders in general. They were blessed to know their great grandparents on my side very close. But unfortunately i now realise that their mother had poisined their minds. Now in their late teens there is quite a shift. Father's day mother's day they would not call me or their grandparents....that hurts the latter much😔, as do me as well. Calls / messages are unanswered nor responded to. They would simply say "oh i forgot." Their great grandfather left em a multi-million dollar estate....they simply seem not to care or show interest. I've worked too hard and its time to focus on me and ensure things are good for my parents as they are getting older (thank God they're healthy though). Thank you sir, this vid is the push that i needed.
We are glad this video and Johann's message is valuable. Thank you for sharing a bit about your situation, we hop it helped you. We are sorry to read about the circumstances and what all happened and is happening. We hope you can find a new way, be content somehow. Wishing you all the best and strength for the time ahead. Sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚
@@ReflectionsofLife indeed.
A kind, wise, gentle and loving human being. Thank you for being you and sharing your wisdom.
Thank you for taking the time to listen. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Most disgusting feeling to be alone that talk all nonsense .. life to make real big family alot of sons be around you live care about each other the will care about you when being older
The Beatles nailed it with Eleanor Rigby, all the lonely people where do they all belong. A beautifully sad song.
Agree a great song sad too I remember it well ❤ spelt Eleanor 😊
What a beautiful reminder of a beautiful song. We'll be listening to that this weekend. Hugs to you. Justine and Michael 💚
@@ReflectionsofLife hugs in return 🤗
At 67, I am living by myself. I have the love of my children and grandchildren. I choose to let them live their lives and leave it to them when they want to share their lives with me. I also treat people the way they treat me. I don't go out of my way to push my belief that they should treat me in a certain way when they have their own beliefs. I love solitude ❤.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and views. Nice that you are content living on your own but that you still have family that is part of your life. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
“It’s what you’ve acquired in your soul that is wealth.” This man understands. So few do, and for many, it is too late to change the selfish, superficial, materialistic habits of a lifetime.
We are glad his words resonated with you. Thank you for watching. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
My soul was lost, scared, confused & in darkness my whole life. I decided I needed to do some DEEP SOUL SEARCHING & IMPROVE MYSELF in every way possible. I’m so proud of myself….i started when I was 24 and something in me sky rocketed when 26 and now at 28 my soul is free and I set up my life in a certain way that allows me to have a car, studio apartment, dog, food, everything I really need and some extra for life. Thing is, to everyone around me im a loser…but to me….im my own hero. I beat this thing that kept me trapped in myself. No one understands. I’m incredibly resilient to the opinions of others but at times it takes its toll. I may not have a lot of money but I’m pursuing art to become an artist and develop a clothing brand that speaks to people’s souls and help them like I helped mine. Idk. May be stoopid but my heart says this is it. Just full throttle ahead. Worse comes to worse, we’ll pick up a trade job and have a family later on in life or maybe a realtor but Idc about money. I care about life. I finally got mine back. A lot of trauma as a kid. Idk where I was going with this. I guess I’m just venting. Peace & love from a human in NY, JR
He has enough money. I'm six months away from not having enough money to eat.
Needless to say, no restaurants for me: cook everything I eat.
Solitude and your favorite pipe. It doesn't get any better than that.
Glad you enjoyed this, Michael. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
These films have been instrumental in my reshaping my life in more peaceful and joyful ways the last few years. I am more grateful than I could ever say. Thank you to all involved.
We appreciate your kind and encouraging words so much. So wonderful to hear that our videos are so valuable to you. Good to have you with us on our journey. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Same❤️
Ive been solo on and off through out my life, as I get older its more on than off because I simply enjoy the lack of drama that comes with it. I have my interests, and enjoy the company of others occasionally, thats enough for me.
Thank you for sharing. Glad you found contentment now. All the best further. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
To anyone feeling lonely, go to the nature for a walk and let yourself immerse into the surrounding, you'll get out with a smile on your face...
Thank you for sharing this encouraging message with all of is. Wishing you many happy walks. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Life plays no favourites, we are in this journey together! Find your passion.... find your love.... find your soul tribe! All roads lead home but somewhere along the way you need a helping hand! Take time to enjoy the sunrise, the sunset and don't be scared to step out of your comfort zone and learn love! Smell the roses! This wonderful man is very wise and very uplifting! Thank you Green Renaissance for another magical ride into the journey of life!
You are welcome Heleena. Lovely to read all your thoughts, ideas,... We are glad we could share the video with you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I'm never lonely when all by myself, even for long periods of time.
I'm never bored if forced to wait in the waiting room and I don't need magazines or my phone!
I just use this time to think and that's so good not to feel guilty about not doing anything, and just thinking, travelling in my mind wherever my mind takes me! 😊
We are glad you feel comfortable and happy when you are by yourself. Nice that you can let your mind travel in these times. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
@@ReflectionsofLifeThank you so much. My apologies for taking so long to reply but I must've missed the notification.
Warm wishes to you both too❤
I wish all the lonely people could come together and we could hug it out for sure, just once, just for a wee while. Then we could all go back home and know and remember that moment and know we need never feel alone again. :)
Such a calm, gentle and hope bringing message for all of us, thank you. Sending you much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Being alone and being lonely are very different. Most people don't deserve intimate relationships. Between the many faults in humans, I see the best choice is to go at it alone, if someone happens to stick around, then so be it.
Big difference between alone and lonely. No great man was ever made without solitude.
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That's a great truth. Like me, I love when I being alone. But those times ,I have chosen- I could meet with other fellows - but it's beautiful. So I'm myself ,Emptiness within. Perfect.
been alone for 5 yrs its better but it has increased social anxiety as well ,no choice as we are social animals.
@@johnjones99124 Can join a gym, or something like a coffee roasters club, car club, or beer brewing club. Meet once or twice a month to stay social.
Beautiful man and words. The calm in and around him seem to offer a deep place of reflection and insight. In the end it is all about love. ❤
Happy you enjoyed it, Heidi. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
It’s hard if you don’t know love
Yes it’s all about love,love everything and just live in the now ,don’t worry about what happened yesterday or what may happen tomorrow love this very moment and enjoy your life
As i am watching this i was thinking about the little flame in me that keeps burning, hell or highwater. How he explains our mental awareness, our fragility; "adrift on the ocean, there's land ahead.." i love that. He says he has reached an age, i am 65 yrs & feel sorrow that, right now, i 'm not sharing my life , and years of questioning wisdom that could help a male partner, an ageing man full of life's experience. He gives us a truly wonderful attitude to life, very honest and gentle, which is a quality that draws me to a man. Men can be just as caring, loving, nurturing, joyful, sweet, scared, self-doubting as women.
Thank you, i loved listening to him. Sending love. 👍💕🌈🌱🦋
So wonderful that his words, his thoughts were so meaningful to you Anjou. Thank you also for sharing your thoughts. And keep that flame burning, no matter what. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
.. and I thought I was one of only very few people who spend lots of time alone...Thanks for the video
Time is the only resource. When you're about to cross beyond the void veil... Reflect carefully.
"Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In time, all points converge, hope's strength resteeled. But to earn final peace at the universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again." --Diamond Dragons (Armageddon's Ballad)
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You are welcome. Glad the video helped you, resonated with you. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I'm at a point in my life where I'm constantly surrounded by people. More than ever before. Yet I have never felt more alone
Interesting, thank you for sharing. We hope you can find a space and place again where you can feel belonging, where you can be at peace and content. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Hi, I was recommended to you by an artist. I must say that at 75 I have finally found true happiness. I moved next door to my daughter and the grandchildren are popping in and out unannounced. At first I felt some frustration because I have lived alone for the past 30 yrs, but now I miss their comings and goings on weekends when they’re busy with sports and friends. Let me tell you, it’s only now that I realize how terribly lonely I had been prior to my moving here. Pets and children are pure of heart and give unconditional love, in my humble opinion they are our best teachers. That said, I love my mornings when I’m free to be alone with my paintbrushes.
Thank you for your lovely message, for sharing a bit about your life. We are so happy that you found a happy spot now and a balance - having family time but also 'Me' time with your paintbrushes. Wishing you all the best further, much happiness and joy every new day. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
@@ReflectionsofLife thank you
When you are with books especially you are never alone, I feel more alone in a crowded area than a woodlands on my own, I love being with family, friends, but enjoy my own solitude
Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts. We are glad you feel comfortable and content being by yourself. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
If you can be truly happy while alone, that is true strength, and a great advantage in life!
Thank you for sharing. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
Two of the things I notice in all of the people in their videos are a sense of humor and a sense of appreciation
Lovely observation. So positive. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Wow! I could listen to him for hours - the calmness of his voice, wisdom of his words, kindness of his heart. Thank you again, GR.
You are welcome Cate. We are glad you enjoyed listening to him. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
@@ReflectionsofLife Is he an artist?A sculptor?
Living alone is okay when you're happy with yourself & enjoy yourself.
True. If one gets miserable being alone, it's not a good idea. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
حقا الثروة الحقيقية هي ما تكتسبه روحك ❤
Well said Zed Zed. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
namaskaram🙏
If you're lucky enough to get old you might understand your place in the world. Be it alone or with a partner.
Thank you for the thought. 💚
Even though he speaks of loneliness, the strongest impression I felt while watching was quiet, restful, restorative solitude.
Wonderful that it could be felt by you through the video. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
Exactly how I viewed it. Peaceful solitude knowing that the quietness is restorative to the soul.
If only, only we could focus our outward experiences to an inward experience of being here and now. Meditation doesn't need anything, it doesn't need any props or any kind of crutch. It perfection. Only then will we find ourselves as true living Beings. Besides Aloneness is a form of virtual meditation. Cos whatever is thrown up on ones mental screen is one's own creation. It's one's own meditation. We just be careful of what we meditate on. 😊. As St, Francis of Assisi once said, "He what is looking is that, what is seeing" A true lightness of Being. A self contained module of vast potential and energies. To put it another way. We are born Immortal, we come down to this planet Earth to be born, live a very short life of giving others and ourselves so much misery. Always lookin out to bow down to someone or something, we then die only to become immortal once again...😮😊. How strange man has become...😂🤣....
Such a soulful and kind man. I could've kept on listening for hours! Soothing and so grounded in truth. This world needs more perspectives like his. I had to go through loneliness when the father of my children left 10 years ago. They were 3 and 1. The loneliness was unbarable and hurt like nothing I've ever felt before. I was terrified of it for so long that it became my reality. I've now reached a point where being alone is my sacred space. I cherish it and love it with all my heart. I sometimes wish I could be on an island. But then, he says it's not the answer. I appreciate this message. It's what I needed to hear. Guess I have more to learn on this crazy beautiful journey! ☺️✨
Sorry to read about your sad experiences. But we are so happy this video resonated with you so much. May his words inspire and help you to find the right path through life, times for being alone and to be with people. Sending you many warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Merci pour ce merveilleux partage.
Grâce à vous je me sens privilégiere d'avoir la possibilité d'écouter toutes ces personnes d'une si grande sagesse..
Mille pensées célestes 🙏💫
It's a pleasure. Such a privilege to share all these stories, to share hope and positivity with so many people. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I enjoyed listening to his man speak about the important things. If I may share my humble opinion, I think this could have been much more powerful if you had included his personal story (where did he come from, what has his life been like? married? kids? etc) to add the story element that really brings the spark of relationality to the philosophical musings. Perhaps a follow-up video with this man? That would be wonderful!
The power of his words apply to any and all life statuses. So while I agree it may be interesting to know, none of those details matter. Fill in the blanks with anything...🙏
Try reading "The Pursuit of Happiness" by Bertrand Russell.
@jennyjenny3531 - Thanks for the thoughts and suggestion. While we do agree that there is always value in knowing more and understanding more - there is also a beauty in a degree of anonymity about lifes personal details - without knowing too much about his personal story, it allows us to all see a bit of ourselves in him, so regardless of my personal situation and how it may differs to his, the story still carries relevance, without letting the details get in the way. But I do also see your point of view - so to include a little more personal info is something that we'll consider going forward :) Warm hugs and best wishes to you for a happy week ahead. Justine and Michael.
@@SonicFields Oh I guess I did! And, I am!
No person is ever "alone", there is always one with you. Call upon that one and enjoy his company
My inside ferals and outside colony fill my single life with Heaven. Animals and Nature will Heal you of your lost connection to creation.
We send you much love - thanks for taking the time to enjoy this film. Justine and Michael. 💚
I am with you in this thought. I do not live alone and I am never lonely. I live with God and my two amazing, beloved dogs, and I AM HAPPY! I go by the saying: the more I know people, the more I love my dogs!@@kenjileach
Thank you for this heartwarming words. I love this non-bullshit and naked approach to what life is really about.
So glad you enjoyed the video Tina. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Most disgusting feeling to be alone that talk all nonsense .. life to make real big family alot of sons be around you live care about each other the will care about you when being older
@@mahersaber6381 I couldn't have children in this life. I have learned to enjoy spending time with myself. I'm not afraid of being alone, because I'm not lonely.
I guess you say that you only want sons to take care of you when you get old?
So much wisdom from this gentleman. Feel connected to everything he said. Thank you for bringing this beautiful video to us.
We are so happy that we could share this video with you Sabina. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
I agree that there is a difference between being alone and lonely. I am 69 years old, semi-retired, living in a very rural farming state and community. I moved from California 25 years ago, missed the bullet on that. LOL. I no longer hear traffic but nature. My neighbors are friendly but we all like our privacy. Great video.
So happy his message resonated with you. Nice that you have a place where you are happy, you are lone but not lonely. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
A man at peace with his existence. Aspiring.
So happy his story resonated with you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
I’ve been lonely all my life and I’ve started to accept it in past few years. It’s still painful but it is what it is. Loneliness is one thing I don’t wish upon even on my worst enemy. Thank you for this beautiful video ❤
Glad we could share it with you. May you have peace in your heart regarding your situation. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
You are not alone we are all right here with U 🥰
You have yourself, a beautifully honest human being. I love you. Ana in Mexico City!❤
Great man, to admire. I live a very solitary life, mostly by choice. It makes me feel calm to hear and see this man, since i crave meeting, being with people like him, but i still havent met them where i live. I am thankfull to know and see, they exist. It takes the loneliness that i feel at times, away.
We are glad you enjoyed watching this video. We hope his story inspires you. And we hope you can meet like-minded people at some stage. Stay positive. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚
@@ReflectionsofLife thank you for your kindness ❤️
In most Green Renaissance videos, the protagonist almost always has an artisanal pursuit, the creative outlet, which I believe helps with any solitude. And if that pursuit is income generating, it’s even much better.
Beautiful thought. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
'You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with.' - Wayne Dyer
Thank you for sharing this quote, very fitting. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Very wise words. Listen to the heart and not so much the head. Love and kindness will work wonders for us all.
So glad his words resonated with you Scott. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I was standing on the crossroads for the last 3-4 years was not able to make a way , this movie gave me an answer to understand what the life is ? I hope at this age of 58 I would make most of it.
Sincere thanks for this gift .
Love you all .
We are so glad that this video was so valuable. This touches us. Wishing you all the best for your life's journey. Sending you warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
What a beautiful warm home to rattle around in while alone. Thank you for this.
You are welcome. Really happy you enjoyed the video so much. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
This is my most favorite TH-cam channel. His words are just like the message that I need today. I felt like I am reading a book about how to live life and what is life. I deeply appreciate you for making this film.
It's a pleasure. How special that you could watch this video on a day when you needed it. Always so heartwarming when this happens. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Mine too ❤
We recently adopted a cat, he is like no other cat we've had, he is laying on me in bed after being fed, and staring at me intently, I'm stroking him as I write this, of all the things we pocess, we have the most satisfaction connecting with this little critter, there more joy and laughter from him, than anything else, we are at one with him, cats are good for the soul and mind
The unconditional love of our animal companions is the gift to us from the eternal I AM.. this man fully embrace and gift it to his own soul 🧡💚beautiful!
Thank you for these lovely words, we are so glad you enjoyed his story Zelda. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I'm 19 years old and no one older has ever sat down, looked at me and told me about the pains that life has and how painful it can be. I learned from life experiences. This video seemed like a comfort to me from someone teaching me and telling me how I should act when faced with loneliness. Thanks!
You seem wise beyond your years. No matter what comes your way always know that you are loved and that YOU are a child of God.
@@hihatjas9477 What a beautiful comment! Know that you made me feel joyful for reading. And yes! If I have enough wisdom to deal with the pains of life, it is thanks to the goodness of God in my life. Thanks again! I'm even going to take a screenshot of your comment to remember it and smile every time I read it :)
Be blessed 😇🤗
Your words touch us. So glad Johann's words were so valuable and meaningful to you. May his message help and inspire you as you walk through life. Wishing you all the best in all situations of life you face. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Alone but not lonely✨🙏💛💚
Yes, big difference. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Great message. Being alone is the place to find peace. And peace is vital.
So glad this message resonated with you. Yes, we all need these times and places to recharge. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
Muito inspirador ! Obrigada por nos mostrar seres humanos tão especiais .. from Brasília- Brasil 🇧🇷
Beautifully said❤
You are welcome, thank you for watching, Maria. Sending you warm hugs to Brasilia, Justine and Michael. 💚
Happiness is a state of mind, not normally wealth or position. Many of us are shown what true happiness is when we're kids growing up. It's in the laughter we share with our friends making that journey from being children to young adults. It's in those summer days building dens, fishing, sitting on fare ground rides and that line between reality and imagination which is a lot more blurred when we're younger.
And yet having being shown happiness, we hardly notice it and set off in pursuit of it in material things, job positions and attractive people. Hopefully some where along that journey of adulthood we pause for a while and glance back over our shoulder at those childhood days and we are reminded that happiness is often found in the simplest of pleasures. Chatting with your friends down the pub, watching your grandchildren play, sharing a meal and watching a film next to your partner or even just slowing everything down and appreciating everything in nature around you.
Simple, gentle things un-clutter the mind, they help us relax where we find peace and contentment. I'm retired now and love every single day just doing the gentle things. Now life's slowed back down again I see much more and see it more clearly and defined.
Wow, thank you for sharing this, beautiful to read. An invitation to stop, sit and ponder on our lives. Glad you enjoying retirement, the slower living, the appreciation of many things. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
@@ReflectionsofLife ...You're very welcome...Have a wonderful life yourselves !
Lovely to hear someone who is thinking the same thoughts
Thank you for watching. So glad his message resonated with you. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Wow, just beautiful and truthful. Thank you for bringing beautiful people out of the crowds to share their "talking from the heart" with us. 🌱🌳⭐
You are welcome Marietjie. We are so thankful all the people allow us to share their stories. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
When one finds themselves... loneliness becomes only a shadow of one's past. Finding yourself in everything there is... will bring forth compassion, love and connection to all that is... Thank you for this gentle soul of a spiritual being! Love your videos and your compassion:-).
Thank you Charles, we are glad our videos mean a lot to you. We also appreciate you sharing your thoughts. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
What most people don't understand of people suffering from loneliness is that suffering is not coming from being alone, but in being with people and not feeling any resonance with them. So when you say to a lonely person he should go out more and try to hang with more people, you are making things worse.
Thank you for sharing these thoughts Dominic, so interesting how you describe loneliness. Thought-provoking. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
He loves lighting matches.
I noticed as well. There is a pleasantness about the warmth of candle flame and the drift of pipe smoke, but I have always disliked the smell of a match being struck . . . almost as if there is a disconnect. I tried not to allow that to carry over to my response to Johann himself.
Thank you. Your home studio space speaks volumes. Your peace with your dog and surroundings. Your good smile and humor. Thanks.
You are very welcome. So glad you enjoyed watching this video. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Thank you Johann Moolman : words of wisdom 🤎 , Thank you Green renaissance: for spreading the light 💚
You are welcome Leonita. Always a pleasure to share these stories. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
@@ReflectionsofLife 💚💐
I wish I could meet this man. I am so lonely, but I have a dog. I can go days without speaking to another human being, I would rather be like this than with someone who makes me unhappy. xxx
We are sorry to hear that you are lonely, Jilly. But so good that you have your dog. Animals are such great companions. We hope you can find peace with your situation somehow, or maybe meet a person with whom you feel comfortable, where you can be yourself. Stay in the light. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
My hobbies keep me striving forward with joy.
My internet allows me to scour it for truth & understanding of this changing world.
I'm 67 & out-living friends & family.
My prayers give me hope....my experiences give me strength.
I trust very few people but let them know I love them.
A warrior is always alone to fight his fears.
Maybe...the next life will be better & more fulfilling.
I trust that my destiny is a divine-plan that must reach it's finale.
My guitar helps me weep & laugh.
Peace I wish for all to receive.
Beautiful thoughts, thank you for sharing. Wishing you the best for every new day. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
I love the solitude. The one that teaches and makes us grow inside. That allows us to leisurely enjoy our surroundings. Whether with family or nature. Where time doesn't matter more than on the clock.❤
Beautifully written. May you enjoy lots of these times Julie. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Great share - question still lingers for me from the very early part of the video ….. what blend of pipe tobacco would a man like this sip at while contemplating life’s fascinating intricacies ? My guess .. 🤔 English blend laced with mysterious Oriental / Smokey Latakia ? …or perhaps an sweet aged Red & White Virginia leaf to brighten the mood ? Just like the pipe, life will need to be re-lit / tended too, tipped over to dump the ash…sometimes better enjoyed not at at the pace of a freight train but slowly sipping away to pick out the beautiful & sweet nuances of it all. A man and his pipe (:
Very interesting analogy - smoking a pipe and the living of life. 'tipped to dump the ash' - loved that, and so true - often times we need to let go of that which is no longer serving us. 'slowly sipping away' - how much we miss when we race so quickly, not slowing down to savour the beauty that surrounds us all, every day. Thanks for sharing these views - nicely done. Warm hugs. Justine and Michael. x
@@ReflectionsofLife 🙏🏼
SLOWING down to THE SPEED OF LIFE is solitude's silent invitation. At peace, far from the madding crowd 🙏🏻
Beautiful words - thanks for sharing here with us. 💚
This gentleman has a calm spirit & a very high intellectual level that causes you to listen carefully to each & every word he says!! He’s full of true wisdom!! What an amazing heart felt presentation, this man!! Thank you!!
You are welcome Sonia. So glad you enjoyed listening to him. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
"It's your state of mind which determines loneliness." Just when I needed this reminder, thanks again.
So wonderful that it came at the right time. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Im hoping all this months I need to be alone, and enjoying the silence.. will help me heal my inner child who was abused and abandoned by a mother with the dark triad of personality…
I’m giving this child a time to grieve, to cry, to rest, to be sad, to be calm.. to remember.. I hug this child in the nights and mornings…
The more time passes, the more I feel this child is real, this energy.. I’m not sure how much time is ok to be alone..
but this alone time is a blessing and a rest for the soul
We are sad that you experienced these difficult circumstances. There is no set timeframe how long it takes to heal that inner child, it's something very personal. May your inner child find the peace, strength , healing,... it needs. Wishing you all the best for your journey through life. Sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚
I felt it necessary to Thank You Kindly for this, on this specific day. I am Blessed today to have come across this space on TH-cam. I am 66+ been alone for the last 10 years. I too am on the final walk, vision, hearing, smelling, tasting and mostly the feeling of Awakening of this vapor and whisper of my being. Comfort in surroundings are not vast...but a blessing. Life is a challenge for each of us in the paths we've chosen. Not where I imagined I might be in my late stroll in life. I am positive, however, it is Exactly where my Creator GOD knew I would rest. In that I find Peace...Faith...Beauty...a Divine Warmth I would say. Good Journey You❤
Thank you for your kind words and sharing your thoughts. We are so glad that you discovered our channel. Nice that you are in a place where these is peace, beauty,... Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚
Johann is only discussing the difference between being alone and being lonely. This doesn’t mean that he himself is alone. Both he, his life partner Justine & their pets live together. It’s an important topic to discuss & many of us have appreciated both Johann’s & Justine’s time & effort in sharing this enlightening video with us👍🏼😎👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Thanks so much for sharing this here. And yes - to see how many hearts and minds have been touched by this film, giving food for thought to the very big difference between 'being alone' and 'being lonely' - that makes us smile. Sending you warmest of wishes. Justine and Michael x
What a lovely man, wise words, beautiful smile.....TFS
Thank you kindly Nell. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚
“I spent 3 months in New York.” Say no more. This wise man clearly gets it, well done sir.
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