“ I should have worn black” it doesn’t matter what color you worn regardless, you have every right to have fun and NOT being taken advantage of. If I wore green, ya I’ am single and ready to mingle but, don’t f**king harass me. You didn’t deserve any of this, nobody should! He’s guilty, end of story. I send you love and good vibes towards you ❤️ Any survivors out there, I send love too. 💖
Yes absolutely and totally agree with you but I’m that type of person that’s scared to go out in life and to meet new ppl bc the irl friends I currently have are trash and don’t care about me,,and I’m just a introvert that likes to stay at my house and read and stuff
Just because of a color of clothes you wore doesn't mean you can be harassed like that, even if you were drunk, he would still need full consent to do ANYTHING like that. I am disgusted by people like that, I am happy that you are safe. I am sorry this happened Hono.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. A lot of people gets down played because it's not "bad". And many people just can't get enough courage to share this. You are brave. That guy is obviously guilty. Don't blame yourself. We're all here to support you.
Sorry you had to go through that;; much proud of you for being able to share this story though to help others too! ;v;)/ There's some crazy people out there who'll take advantage of you like that, it's absolutely disgusting. MAD AT FUGLY DA HELL WITH THAT MAN CONSENT IS KEY
I'm so sorry this has happened to you! I'm still 11 years old, and thank you, so, SO MUCH for making this video to warn me and other younger people about our safety.
I'm so sorry this happened to you, Hono. Being taken advantage of is not a fun experience and I hope a lot of people can learn from this video that consent is extremely important!! Love you lots, Hono! Please be safe!!
So, I did not understand at all what happened to her. Did she get kissed, fondled, or touched inappropriately? While holding hands with her friend? What actually happened?
I'm soo glad people in the comments are reasonable. I've seen others share similar experiences and downplay it just because it wasn't "worse". Doesn't matter what it was. Don't violate people. Nothing is "harmless" violation. I'm soo sorry this happened to you. 🙏 (P.s. IDK how you manage to make a serious topic funny but I DIED when Fugly was introduced LOL)
Exactly, I was touched by someone for just 10 seconds and now I get scared when people are behind me or in front of me It doesn’t matter the size it’ll always hurt you
@@NeonIceCream10 simple, don't touch people without their permission. Period. No one has any right over another person's being. Don't blame the victim. Shame the ones doing this creepy behavior. Full stop.
@@NeonIceCream10 Its a crime to go to a college party with your friends? She didnt drink. She was responsible. Its literally the whole, "well, she was asking for it by the way she was dressed" argument. No. Doesn't matter where she was, she was with a trusted friend and was being responsible. She's allowed to enjoy parties sober. Its not an invitation for anyone to do anything to her.
@@NeonIceCream10 *But that's just a speculation. A.. "maybe" we can't be sure of the opposite as well. Besides, it doesn't hide the fact that she was taken advantage of.*
@@NeonIceCream10 *But in a party, where you have your friends, being taken advantage of is the last thing in somebody's mind. This a party, not a high rate crime city. Still you have to be aware, but you expect to have fun at a party. Not something that is out of the ordinary, like what happened.* *Yes, she may have reaped the consequences of her actions, but this isn't some run of the mill crime, it was something unexpected.*
"Consent is not: having to convince them" This hit home for me and made me feel really sad about my past experiences. If only we could go back in time with my current knowledge to stop what happened in the past.
I haven't watched the video through yet, but 0:14 and I was looking away when I swear I heard: "When we think of parties, at least in the US, we think of a bunch of JEWS!" I had to backtrack because... well my first thought about college parties isn't "Jews." lmao
You’re very brave for sharing this, especially in today’s society when victim blaming is a big problem. Big respects Hono, you didn’t deserve that homie
Whether you are a female, male, non-binary, etc. your are still human, and you should each be treated with respect. No matter what your gender is consent is still consent and no means no. If (blank) says no respect that and leave them alone. (Always wait till they're sober and awake that’s very important!!)
Man, that sucks. I had to deal with a similar situation when I was in college. I'm a big burly dude. I went to a party, got heavily intoxicated and went back to my dorm alone. I fell asleep and when I woke up, there was a girl I didn't recognize having 'fun' with me. Now I keep track of how much booze I drink, I make sure I'm sober before I go home and I sleep with a knife. My point is that it can happen to anyone. Do not ever think that you are the exception, I know I did. Always stick with friends, don't ever go anywhere alone with someone you don't know very, very well. Make sure you aren't being followed home. Stay vigilant and don't drop your guard.
So sorry you had to go through this Hono :( nobody and I mean 'NOBODY' should take advantage of anyone by any means!. Especially if it's a party where people are suppose to have fun!. I hope people learn from this and if people DO go to party's, always make sure to have a good trusting friend with you to tag along incase something happens to you
When someone tells a r@p3 victim “why didn’t you tell her/him no” or “you could’ve push her/him off” listen to this, some victims wouldn’t know what to do in that type of situation and some would worry that nobody would believe them and some didn’t have the courage to tell anybody.
@@Realpenciliswear You sound so reasonable! Thank you cries.. There are not enough people now who I've known or seen have positivety towards people who have been through this. That made my morning! :,D
@@SCP--fj2jr OML so true! But there are some who understand what sympathy is like you and me ofc but like some people are so unreasonable and probably very biast that they will never understand anything.. about what other people go through. They just have to wake up some day and realize by themselves. Because they can't take other peoples experiences sadly. I've learned to just let those people be after telling them their wrong and just telling them facts., once I do that I tend to normally let it go now xD cause either way their too biast that they can't change their mind from what other people tell them.. Its normally all about them. They can't think about.. what other people experienced. They have to make their own decisions on what they say just like everyone else. No one can control other people tbh :,D ALSO TYYYY FOR BEING UNderstandING Too I HAVE HAD SO many people in my life giving me so much negativity cause they want to take out their own problems on me or people in general.. that I got very sick of it as of rn but that doesn't stop me weirdly from being a Righteous person, also I am infact very incredibly stubborn sometimes which can make it hard to accept peoples negativity but I normally get over what people say pretty fast. Because anyone can be strong if they want to and tell others what they believe in, but people sometimes won't know when to quit.. and they will sometimes try to pull the blame on you.. for speaking up to them. sometimes even taking things the wrong way trying to twist what you actually said so they don't look bad themselves. To them its the easy way out or sometimes they just got some habits of it and can't stop. Either way some people don't have good intentions or maybe got a habbit of those bad things.. and they became unaware of their actions and how their treating others. like this video kinda I guess since they said: "Some People have bad Intentions".. and it can be hard to read them. ANY WAY THIS SO MADE my morning! :,D I give you like cause I am thankful! :,D glad there is still some positive people who care about others still today.. ;^;
@kero Exactly! Also I am not a feminist.. But I kinda feel like girls sometimes have more to worry about - (Not saying guys have it better) - when being r@p3d because guys don't have to normally worry about going home worrying about having a baby they never wanted. and have to maybe even end up getting an abortion which shouldn't even be a thing neither should r@p3.. But I am not taking sides was just thinking about this. How girls are sometimes called feminists for worrying about this stuff kinda funny. I definitely feel like that is very very bad for both genders and its not good in general I just think that guys don't have to worry about that which kind of makes them lucky they don't have to worry about getting pregnant normally. I mean imagine having to go home to your family and tell them you were forced and your now baring that mans child even though they never gave you consent. that seems so horrible.. I don't even want to think about it tbh its like really really sad, But it still happens..
So sorry that you had to go through this Hono… it must’ve taken a lot of courage to make this video!! As one survivor to another I hope there hasnt been anymore experiences like this! Stay strong! You’ve got this 😤😤
My college made me take a test about consent and sexual harassment (even though I'm only taking a math class for duel credit) and now I've seen an example of why that would be a problem in the first place. I hope you're doing ok
I’m so sorry that this happened to you As a victim who was 13, and was molested by middle aged man, I could feel how afraid you were. It took me months to say anything to my father :( But I’m now 14 + recovering and I’m glad you are too.
Shit I'm at a loss for words all I want say is that Ii hope everyone doing well and that im very proud of you for waking up and giving today a try. Its can be hard sometimes to hold and or carry those thoughts andor responsibilities. just remember to do what you can do and whats in your control and to not worry about what you cant control. Try not to compare yourself with others because your not walking the same path of life as them you faced different problems and issues that you have overcome and became a better stronger and wiser person from those experinces. Do the little things that help build up the confindence and stamina,take some sleep,hydrate yourself,take a shower and try to do some excerise. Key word here is try. Be patient with your self change doesn't happen over night its take a long ass time filled with challenges and a need for a lot of patience and alot of discipline but I believe in you and do something you love you can get through this and to remember to love yourself no matter how productive or accomplished you feel. Also try not to blind yourself with all the problems thoughts or issues you are having. Open your eyes and keep a open mindset,never take failure as a aww I lost or something to get you down there's to much shit that does that. So try to look at everything as a learning opportunity on how you can grow and become better and how it's a tool to tell you what your strengths and weaknesses are and tells you how much you have grown and what you need to practice you are on the right path . Plus dont rush into thing as well and to just take it easy when your filled of stress and anxiety just take a breather go outside an walk pug in those ear phones let the music rush into your ears and its gives you waves of energy and good vibes and remember to just try and breath and enjoy yourself and do whatever you feel like doing to make yourself feel better and i know this much to ask of you but try to be strong and try to brave and IM SO PROUD OF THE PERSON WE HAVE BECOME AND HOW MUCH EFFORT WE PUT INTO OUR LIFE TO TRY AND IT BETTER AND how we on the right path with much love simon.
same i was touch by my... you know what convinced myself it's not that serious and he's not in my life anymore it affected me more than i thought he also did the same to my cousin and sister i never said it to my parents because i want them to be happy and they're already stress and it will become troublesome...
Thank goodness you were with your friend and she was there to ask if you were okay and to help you get out of there. Thank you for sharing this story, it must have been hard for you to decide to make and post this. Anyone who dislikes this video I will personally send many bad vibes to.
@@SoniWyd yeah but without consent and it was something she didn't want. Imagine if someone tried to force you to drink something you didn't want. Sure the thing might not be bad to drink, but when it is unwanted and the situation happens so fast it can leave you shaken. Also it's also frightening because things could have easily gone further if her friend wasn't there. He was already so daring even with her friend there. If she wasn't he could have gone further without her consent and still blamed it on "being drunk".
@@SoniWyd maybe you wouldn’t care but other people can feel violated when someone does things to them that they don’t want. It can make them feel gross and guilty. Not everyone has had many kisses either and some value it as something special between themselves and their partner.
LIKE WHAT THE ACTUAL HELL!? "He's a good person"? What kind of friend says that after there friend HARASSED someone. What the actual fuck. I am so proud of you for standing up for you Hono you are so brave and a REAL friend would try to control the person who was "drunk" and harassing you.
You'd be surprised, people will be willing to defend their buddies or close friends no matter how awful or scummy they are just because they like being around them. I've heard too many army horror stories of officers assaulting young female recruits, being called out and because they're the golf buddy of someone higher up or the son of a golf buddy of theirs they'll look at the assaulter and go "ok we can't let you stay so choose, discharge or court marshal?" And of course, they choose discharge. The victims constantly call to have something, anything done about this and they just keep brushing the victims claims off because the one who assaulted her has friends in high places.
Hear me out, I don’t think we can IMMEDIATELY out him as a terrible person just by what he did. There’s plenty of good people that just do stupid things. And i think he needs to be educated rather than being immediately called a bad person. Btw take this from a person that gives people the benefit of the doubt WAY too much
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As someone who was on the board for my pilipino american student association. I am absolutely disgusted that things like this happen. I would have ABSOLUTELY RIDICULED FUGLY- I’m sorry this happened to you and it was 110% not okay and your feelings are valid ♡
this has happened to me three times before... and the worst part about it is that you kinda lose trust in people, like you feel like you can't really trust anyone because what they put off could just be a mask that covers their true intentions and its so scary. That's why I hate people like "fugly" because they never think about how much their actions can affect a person and it REALLY fucking sucks because that shit follows you for life, even now I have a hard time connecting with people on a romantic level because I'm afraid of their true intentions and I feel like I can't trust them.
I feel a big thing that let's this stuff happen is people not being taught consent/no means no properly. Luckily for me my health teacher was a big advocate for consent, but not just the teachers need to teach, but the parents as well. Before health classes in 0-7th grade, ALOT of the kids barely knew about the subject. And this is coming from someone who has been touched with no consent in broad day light. I am SOOO happy you came out with your story and showed what and what not consent is I'm def subbing!!
I’m really sorry that this happened to you Hono. That’s a horrible thing to go through 😔 I’m glad you had friends to comfort you and help you through it. And am glad you were able to speak out about it. I just subscribed and have been watching your videos. You are definitely a spark of light on TH-cam and You make a lot of people smile, so please keep up the good work 😀
3:02 No Hono, no. It isn’t your fault at all! That guy (imma call him ugly because idc) should have *never* taken advantage of you. And the fact you were only 15! I really do hope you feel better Hono! Love goes to you!❤❤❤
She was a freshman in college, so about 18 maybe 19, but you’re so right he was in the wrong, that should never happen to anyone regardless if they were an adult
Hono I'm so sorry that happened to you 🥺 I've had a similar experience happen to me which is why I immediately stopped going to clubs after my freshman year of college. Thank you for sharing your experience!! There's definitely a handful of younger viewers of yours that should be aware especially since college is almost back in session soon!
Things like this should not happen. Going out and having fun should never have to come with a warning label. I swear there will be a day where people can enjoy them selves without worrying about creeps.
Im so sorry you went through this you are so strong for going through this let alone bringing up the memories this must of been hard , if you ever went through I’m sorry and you are so strong for still making it and keeping yourself safe ❤️ 💝
This is a very important message and experience. I had something similar happen and it still haunts me to this day. And it's so sad that too many people experience these things I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I wish this didn't happen to you Hono. To be honest, we don't know better when going to university/college and the fact that we're in a very vulnerable environment, with people we don't really know, and don't have anyone we can turn to afterwards, is very isolating. I'm not really huge on people moving away to go to university/college anymore because of my experience. My therapist said she thinks this kind of thing may be more common than we think, but is an unspoken problem that goes on behind the scenes cause you're expected to kind of "brush it off and move on". And that is horrible. Consent is extremely EXTREMELY important. Do not even touch someone without it. And if someone says "no", that means "NO". Do not continue to pursue them. Cause your actions scar them for life.
You didn’t deserve to go through this crap at all,no victim did I’m so sorry you had to experience this,that guy was a monster and it sucks his friend defended him.Please stay safe and healthy,remember we care about you deeply and your mental health is important ^^
I’m terribly sorry for what happened to u and ur so strong for sharing ur story, u deserve more than an apology. Ur so strong and keep up with the amazing content :)
No one deserves to be treated that way and no one deserves to be subjected to that kind of trauma because it can ruin someone’s life man or woman no one deserves to be treated that way
I hope he got in trouble. Im really sorry this had happened to you, I may not understand what you gone through, but I know that you have great friends and family that got you're back, and billions of hono fans that love you! Stay safe Honobread and continue what you love!
thx for sharing hono ;-; I've gone through type of situation and still scared my brain off. sadly this behavior is common on the world, but we will stay strong ;)
I’m so glad you spoke out about this. People forget that as a victim you sometimes can’t even react. One time in Miami on vacation a man kept touching me, it was mostly just tapping and talking to me but I stayed completely still in terror because what happens if I make a scene. People are gonna look and judge and my family might scold me and punish me for the rest of the trip. What if this guy has a weapon on him or will use violence. Sadly this happens. No one can say no because either people get violent or you’re made out to be the bad guy. I still remember me not being able to say why I couldn’t stop it but I really wish I did. I’m just glad my dad saw and helped me
this video has helped me a lot, I thought what I went through was nothing and I was just sensitive but watching this video made me realize that feelings I felt was real and I let that happen to me, I'm so sorry that happened to you and I really hope one day I don't need to worry about people like this.
This happened to me at a very young age, ( I was near 9-10) and I’m glad you have the freedom to share and make others aware of this issue! Love your personal strength!
What Fugly did was not cool, that what he did was one of the worse things to do to a girl, not just at a party, but in general. And he had the audacity to do that when you're still holding onto your friend!? Disgusting, shame on him and shame on his friend for trying to cover him. I hope you're doing okay Honobread, I'm sad that society is like this with victims of these kinds of situations. Mad props to your friend for being their for you the entire time, all I can say at this point is that I hope you and Fugly never cross paths again. Things like this shouldn't ever happen to anyone, no matter who they are, where they are and when, consent is the number one thing people need to consider and better off asking to make sure if someone is really okay with something.
@@ooglyb0ogly as far as the video explains, it seems to be just a kiss. Like its been stated, that's not okay to kiss someone without consent and it can be traumatizing. I know because once when I was 10 years old and at a friend's party, some older dude I assumed was their uncle came up to me while no one was looking and kissed me without consent. Long story short I've been afraid of being near guys and getting physical contact from them whenever I'm alone and/or my mom doesn't know them. It just goes to show even a non consented kiss is enough to leave someone afraid for life.
@@ooglyb0ogly it's okay now, I'm just happy my mother was there for me when I needed her most. We also had cut ties with that friend and their family in fear this could happen again. We never saw or heard from them again after elementary. Sadly I don't know if the police was ever called or if the guy got arrested.
None of his "excuses" matter. It wouldn't matter if he "had" been drunk. His actions should have consequences, regardless of his intoxication level. Shit like this is why I hate parties in general. I never partied. I went to a couple 'wrap parties' because I was an acting major and we celebrated the end of a play circuit we performed. I was there to ensure my friends didn't hurt themselves and to be the designated driver. But I never drank and eventually stopped going to 'wrap parties' because I hated the environment. Point is, Fugley and others like him NEED to be held accountable. Thank you for speaking up about such a heart-wrenching, personal trauma and I hope you have nothing but happy days ahead of you! Keep up the amazing work and have a beautiful day!
I had similar cases, and your explanation to the experience was so relatable. I wish I get a chance to express my own story to my loved ones who i trust. Stay strong everyone ✨
This happens a lot, not only parties but sometimes in public. Carry hairspray, or some sort of defence item . It helps a lot and would buy you time when you’re in these kinds of situations As said in the video, be 100% aware of your surroundings.
I can understand how horrible and vulnerable this must have made you feel :( Ive been in a similar situation at a party when I was 13 and a 17-18 yo dude wouldnt leave me alone. At some point as i was walking away he just ran behind me, with no warning and hugged me. Needless to say he was much taller than me, I just felt locked and trapped in some stranger's arms. I was shocked and couldnt move at all or say anything. I cant imagine how much violation you must have felt by this kiss. Its honestly horrible and makes you feel really helpless :( Im sorry this happened to you
* The hug lasted a long time and he wouldnt let go, so an older lady that was about 30 came over and pushed him away from me, she started yelling at him to defend me. She was very nice :)
Thank you very much for sharing this story! I know that it couldn't have been easy to talk about this experience, so thank you! just know that the lessons you shared here are going to be the soul reason someone is going to be able to keep themselves safe from something like this. You have done something that has actively made the world a better place, so thank you.
Im terribly sorry to see this happened to you, and the fact you were able to talk about it shows you have more bravery and strength than Fugly has(though that bar is kinda already set low considering what the guy did).
No no, you wear that damn yellow proud. You are allowed to be single and unsure and still deserve to consent. It's not okay to do that regardless of clothing status.
No one should ever have to go through with what happen to you. I'm really proud that you could open up about your experience. To help guide others who may or may not being going through assault. Consent is always the key. Please stop victim blaming it doesn't help anyone!
I’m really sorry this happened to you. This is such a scary experience. Thank you for sharing your story it takes a lot, this video bringing awareness to many and I hope people stay safe out there
Its moments like this where I'm glad I don't socialize with anyone i ain't already friends with in college. So sorry that happened to you, I hoped your friend Morduh was able to somewhat comfort you after what happened.
I feel very bad that this has happened to her at such a young age. I know how this feels, because this happened to me about 1-2 months ago. I feel very bad that so may people have to go through this.
I’m glad you were able to get out of the situation fairly quickly and that Morduh was there to help. I’m honestly surprised myself cuz I would’ve had the same thought process as you.
Im so sorry this happened to you. i hope that you dont have to go through this ever again, and i am really happy you wanted to share this video with us so your audience can learn too. theres just so much people out there that want to take advantages of other people, and you might not even know it.
I am very sorry you had to go through this. You didn't deserve to be taken advantage of like this. Very sickening and disgusting AF of that dude. You're very brave to share this devastating story. My heart go out to you and everybody who can relate to this.
I am sorry that this happened to you, I have never personally experienced this but I know a friend who has. My male friend was in 6th grade (so like maybe 11-12 years old?) and got SA’d by an 8th grade female. I will spare the details but essentially she took advantage of him and had the audacity to say “tell anyone about this and your dead” after SHE took advantage of him without his consent. But no need to worry my friend told his mom and grandma and she has been arrested. But the sad part is that yeah he took therapy, but nobody seemed to care or ask if he was ok. Of course this was in Florida so take it with a grain of salt, but I just get upset sometimes when people only care about victims that are physically attractive, and the ones that aren’t have to keep to themselves and not talk about it. We live in a fucked up world man, shit is why I have trust issues.
I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. I have never experienced this and I hope I never do, but I hope you have recoverd from this traumatizing experience. I'm actually younger than 13 but thank you for having the courage to tell this story to thousands and millions of people ❤
I'm 14 and even I know that the guy was at fault. Just because he was drunk doesn't mean he should have done that. If that was I would be very scared, I'm glad she's ok.
This actually made me breakdown...I don’t know why but it did. In 2015 in eighth grade, I got taken advantage of very badly that I ended up...regretting a decision three months later. Since then I’ve still been taken advantage of because I’m already a victim, I’m scared of what might happen to me if I said no. Only just recently in my second year of college did I finally go to mental therapy and confess my traumas. From slowly being able to trust men and see that certain things can be loving, helped me improve and get into a healthy relationship. Seeing this, yes it made me breakdown but it made me cry because I didn’t feel alone. Yes I feel horrible that it happened to you but it made me cry out of I guess happiness? To know that there are people who share my pain of being a victim. Sorry for the long paragraph >~
I’m so happy for you that you were able to get the help and healing you needed and deserved. But yes you’re definitely not alone and i feel happy that i was able to reach you as well 🫂💖
@@HonobreadYT Thanks, the therapy and my partner have really helped me heal and become a stronger person. Also thank you for making this video, as people who have been victims we need to spread a light on harassment and assault. I do want to properly thank you with a drawing since we’re both artists, is there another platform I can send it to you Miss Bread?
I was SAed by my cousin. He is younger than me by 2 years. But he made me uncomfortable and hit my no no square and kept… to put it briefly, “practicing” sexual acts with me, i know how probably didn’t have ill intentions. But it still makes me feel violated and very uncomfortable about this situation. I kept telling him to stop but he wouldn’t. He kept sitting on my lap and doing very gross things, and he kept hitting my behind.. he also kinda sat on top of me when i was laying down. I feel gross and violated since it happened. I just wanna know, was is SA? Cause I know he probably didn’t have I’ll intentions but it still makes me feel gross..
His intentions dont matter he performed inappropriate acts with you that you didn't consent to. It is 100% sa and there is no excuse for his actions. I hope ur doing okay
So sorry u went through that and how old was he ? Because he learned this behaviour somewhere and hopefully he isn’t mimicking abuse he’s been subjected to, I’ve seen it before and it is awful
Tbh, I think there are just lucky people, because I've been raised and told that it's either that you absolutely not talk to people and be a lonely pebble for your entire life or you become "too carefree" and get taken advantage of and stuff like that. The lucky people are raised with a proper environment and are decent. I'm not saying that everyone who have gotten taken advantage of aren't raised properly. I'm saying that there is a gray spot, and even tho someone is an anti-humanity activist DOES NOT MEAN THEY ARE SAFE FROM BEING TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF and that JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE IS A COMPLETE EXTROVERT WHO LIKES THAT KIND OF STUFF DOES NOT MEAN THEY WILL BE TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF. Like SERIOUSLY. I've been told all my life "why do you not have friends?" or "why are your friends all girls?". Like, I dunno mom, maybe it's because you tell me that all boys are trash but still want me to be straight. 😑
I've learned a lot, Thank you so much Hono! I would like to share the awareness of attending parties and I feel sorry that you've experienced such a thing but still glad that you still wanted us to know about your experience and about Consent! Even though it might be hard to share these kinds of experiences but your content will help many people learn and know what to do! So it is really helpful. We love you so much Hono! Keep up the amazing work as always 🤗💕💕
I swear to god how many TH-camr animators/Artist I know and love go through this shit like here’s some examples: AmyRightMeow illymation Alex’s Corner MARCOJIN NeroTM Animations Yennie Fer I’m very sorry you went through that and as a male I believe that no person should go through anything like that.
@@lexdraws1729 Well first, Stop interrupting into my opinions. When they're at 17-19 then of course they have to be responsible for want they get themselves into in. You don't know much.
Shit, Hono, I'm really sorry you had to go through that. It pissed me off when his friends keep throwing the "He's a good person." bullshit excuse. Good people ask for consent. Good people don't take advantage of people. If your supposed "good friend" is going around doing fucked up shit, then maybe you shouldn't be friends with him my dudes idfk. I'm glad you tho you had a friend at the time to be there for you when it happened.
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man that dude at the end was spittin
I wonder who he was🤔
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You are indeed far from fugly
Nothing but truth was spoken
“ I should have worn black” it doesn’t matter what color you worn regardless, you have every right to have fun and NOT being taken advantage of. If I wore green, ya I’ am single and ready to mingle but, don’t f**king harass me. You didn’t deserve any of this, nobody should! He’s guilty, end of story. I send you love and good vibes towards you ❤️ Any survivors out there, I send love too. 💖
Exactly! deserves a like c; you gots 57 now yay! :,D
I agree. 👍🏾
Yes absolutely and totally agree with you but I’m that type of person that’s scared to go out in life and to meet new ppl bc the irl friends I currently have are trash and don’t care about me,,and I’m just a introvert that likes to stay at my house and read and stuff
Yesh
Tmw Fugly's friend had the audacity to still say "He's a good person" after knowing what happened to you got me loading my gun
yes
also hi alex :3
Exaclty your not a good person if you can’t get consent
Consent is everything everyone
The ✨AUDACITY✨!?
Well fugly might of twisted some things. So it’s not really their fault if it was that. But if it wasn’t same
It got me planning where the body gonna be hidden and the perfect plan for it X)
Just because of a color of clothes you wore doesn't mean you can be harassed like that, even if you were drunk, he would still need full consent to do ANYTHING like that. I am disgusted by people like that, I am happy that you are safe. I am sorry this happened Hono.
no shit
Yeah
@@hihello2yes even if you will wear pink big jacket you still can get rope
Exactly.
Yeah..
I'm so sorry this happened to you. A lot of people gets down played because it's not "bad". And many people just can't get enough courage to share this. You are brave. That guy is obviously guilty. Don't blame yourself. We're all here to support you.
He’s guilty, your honor.
Case closed
Yes
ye
Now your honor may I suggest giving him the special treatment of... ✨Electric chair✨
Yessir
@@hcneymacaroon9457 yes you may
too any survivors out there my heart goes out to you. you’re beautiful and what happened to you does not define you. keep shining lovelies
@Tootee teehee
Thank youuuuu
There's a 15 year old survivor I know who made a song that really reached me th-cam.com/video/nCfQxbhMFbU/w-d-xo.html
I'm no surviver but I'm glad you're talking about it...
Thank uuuuuu😭💖
Sorry you had to go through that;; much proud of you for being able to share this story though to help others too! ;v;)/
There's some crazy people out there who'll take advantage of you like that, it's absolutely disgusting. MAD AT FUGLY DA HELL WITH THAT MAN CONSENT IS KEY
Yoon!! I love your vids!!( ˘ ³˘)♥︎
Love you
I’m mad and weirded out at the same time at Fugly.
Pull a Baki move and OHKO them.
@@ss-zq6yi ohh
It doesn't matter how drunk he was or if he was drunk at all. What he did was so wrong and I'm glad you're okay
when he tried to contact Honobread that's when i realised he was genuinely sorry, and wanted to make it up
bro when your drunk its as if you cant control yourself so yeah it does matter
I'm so sorry this has happened to you! I'm still 11 years old, and thank you, so, SO MUCH for making this video to warn me and other younger people about our safety.
I am 12 :D
and this video actually made me lose more hope in humanity
@@MasonTheFurryCatim 12 too 😃
nice :D @@cheddarcheeseballz
So we just telling are ages now
@@cheddarcheeseballzme three
When I saw the title, I was really hoping you were ok. Never knew these things can happen to often. Stay safe everyone!
They happen more often than they should unfortunately
A lot of women have been sexually harassed or assaulted. Sad reality.
Yeah I do feel the same way
I feel bad.
I really hope she is ok
@@lexdraws1729 also men
I'm so sorry this happened to you, Hono. Being taken advantage of is not a fun experience and I hope a lot of people can learn from this video that consent is extremely important!!
Love you lots, Hono! Please be safe!!
1K likes and no reply???
No comments les change dat 😻✌
I agree. 👍🏾
So, I did not understand at all what happened to her. Did she get kissed, fondled, or touched inappropriately? While holding hands with her friend? What actually happened?
I'm soo glad people in the comments are reasonable. I've seen others share similar experiences and downplay it just because it wasn't "worse". Doesn't matter what it was. Don't violate people. Nothing is "harmless" violation.
I'm soo sorry this happened to you. 🙏
(P.s. IDK how you manage to make a serious topic funny but I DIED when Fugly was introduced LOL)
Exactly, I was touched by someone for just 10 seconds and now I get scared when people are behind me or in front of me
It doesn’t matter the size it’ll always hurt you
@@NeonIceCream10 simple, don't touch people without their permission. Period. No one has any right over another person's being. Don't blame the victim. Shame the ones doing this creepy behavior. Full stop.
@@NeonIceCream10 Its a crime to go to a college party with your friends? She didnt drink. She was responsible. Its literally the whole, "well, she was asking for it by the way she was dressed" argument. No. Doesn't matter where she was, she was with a trusted friend and was being responsible. She's allowed to enjoy parties sober. Its not an invitation for anyone to do anything to her.
@@NeonIceCream10
*But that's just a speculation. A.. "maybe" we can't be sure of the opposite as well. Besides, it doesn't hide the fact that she was taken advantage of.*
@@NeonIceCream10
*But in a party, where you have your friends, being taken advantage of is the last thing in somebody's mind. This a party, not a high rate crime city. Still you have to be aware, but you expect to have fun at a party. Not something that is out of the ordinary, like what happened.*
*Yes, she may have reaped the consequences of her actions, but this isn't some run of the mill crime, it was something unexpected.*
"Consent is not: having to convince them" This hit home for me and made me feel really sad about my past experiences. If only we could go back in time with my current knowledge to stop what happened in the past.
do you think you have doraemon time travel machines?
I haven't watched the video through yet, but 0:14 and I was looking away when I swear I heard: "When we think of parties, at least in the US, we think of a bunch of JEWS!" I had to backtrack because... well my first thought about college parties isn't "Jews." lmao
You’re very brave for sharing this, especially in today’s society when victim blaming is a big problem. Big respects Hono, you didn’t deserve that homie
Yo,in one video didn’t one chick you mentioned tried to get you laid without consent in a party?
Big up
@@delight3632 I wasn’t trying to be funny or anything I was just saying
@@REDACTEDrose184 sorry but I thought you ment when he went through something kinda similar so how do you deal with when ppl ask/talk about it
@@delight3632 Oh,right...
I can relate to you
Girl I'm glad you cried and didn't hold in how you felt when it happened.
One thing to remember:
*You didn't mess up, he did*
Also one thing to remember:
*_He's gonna pay_*
@christagi mbeka
*Eh, the internet will do it for me. They have a knack for finding obscure figures once in a while.*
@@SCP--fj2jr I’m still holding my point for her closing her eyes
Whether you are a female, male, non-binary, etc. your are still human, and you should each be treated with respect. No matter what your gender is consent is still consent and no means no. If (blank) says no respect that and leave them alone. (Always wait till they're sober and awake that’s very important!!)
If you are human you are human
*end of story*
I praise you pls be mine pleaseee
Non binary doesn’t exist my bro
Sorry you had to go through all that, no one should be taken advantage off. Glad you were able to get over the situation, stay strong HonoBread.
Man, that sucks. I had to deal with a similar situation when I was in college.
I'm a big burly dude. I went to a party, got heavily intoxicated and went back to my dorm alone. I fell asleep and when I woke up, there was a girl I didn't recognize having 'fun' with me. Now I keep track of how much booze I drink, I make sure I'm sober before I go home and I sleep with a knife. My point is that it can happen to anyone. Do not ever think that you are the exception, I know I did. Always stick with friends, don't ever go anywhere alone with someone you don't know very, very well. Make sure you aren't being followed home. Stay vigilant and don't drop your guard.
So sorry you had to go through this Hono :(
nobody and I mean 'NOBODY' should take advantage of anyone by any means!. Especially if it's a party where people are suppose to have fun!. I hope people learn from this and if people DO go to party's, always make sure to have a good trusting friend with you to tag along incase something happens to you
When someone tells a r@p3 victim “why didn’t you tell her/him no” or “you could’ve push her/him off” listen to this, some victims wouldn’t know what to do in that type of situation and some would worry that nobody would believe them and some didn’t have the courage to tell anybody.
*People who say this or that to a victim have not likely experienced it themselves.*
thats true although i am lucky never to have been.. you kno.. before. i hope none of it ever happens to you all
@@Realpenciliswear You sound so reasonable! Thank you cries.. There are not enough people now who I've known or seen have positivety towards people who have been through this. That made my morning! :,D
@@SCP--fj2jr OML so true! But there are some who understand what sympathy is like you and me ofc but like some people are so unreasonable and probably very biast that they will never understand anything.. about what other people go through.
They just have to wake up some day and realize by themselves. Because they can't take other peoples experiences sadly. I've learned to just let those people be after telling them their wrong and just telling them facts., once I do that I tend to normally let it go now xD cause either way their too biast that they can't change their mind from what other people tell them.. Its normally all about them.
They can't think about.. what other people experienced. They have to make their own decisions on what they say just like everyone else. No one can control other people tbh :,D
ALSO TYYYY FOR BEING UNderstandING Too I HAVE HAD SO many people in my life giving me so much negativity cause they want to take out their own problems on me or people in general.. that I got very sick of it as of rn but that doesn't stop me weirdly from being a Righteous person, also I am infact very incredibly stubborn sometimes which can make it hard to accept peoples negativity but I normally get over what people say pretty fast.
Because anyone can be strong if they want to and tell others what they believe in, but people sometimes won't know when to quit.. and they will sometimes try to pull the blame on you.. for speaking up to them.
sometimes even taking things the wrong way trying to twist what you actually said so they don't look bad themselves.
To them its the easy way out or sometimes they just got some habits of it and can't stop.
Either way some people don't have good intentions or maybe got a habbit of those bad things.. and they became unaware of their actions and how their treating others. like this video kinda I guess since they said:
"Some People have bad Intentions".. and it can be hard to read them.
ANY WAY THIS SO MADE my morning! :,D I give you like cause I am thankful! :,D glad there is still some positive people who care about others still today.. ;^;
@kero Exactly! Also I am not a feminist.. But I kinda feel like girls sometimes have more to worry about - (Not saying guys have it better) - when being r@p3d because guys don't have to normally worry about going home worrying about having a baby they never wanted. and have to maybe even end up getting an abortion which shouldn't even be a thing neither should r@p3.. But I am not taking sides was just thinking about this. How girls are sometimes called feminists for worrying about this stuff kinda funny. I definitely feel like that is very very bad for both genders and its not good in general I just think that guys don't have to worry about that which kind of makes them lucky they don't have to worry about getting pregnant normally. I mean imagine having to go home to your family and tell them you were forced and your now baring that mans child even though they never gave you consent. that seems so horrible.. I don't even want to think about it tbh its like really really sad, But it still happens..
So sorry that you had to go through this Hono… it must’ve taken a lot of courage to make this video!! As one survivor to another I hope there hasnt been anymore experiences like this! Stay strong! You’ve got this 😤😤
Aaaa Peachhhh 🥺🫂💖💖💖
@@HonobreadYT you poor baby 😭
Preach!
WTH did you survive? No I’m actually curious, I mean, only speak if you are ok with it but... I’m curious
My college made me take a test about consent and sexual harassment (even though I'm only taking a math class for duel credit) and now I've seen an example of why that would be a problem in the first place. I hope you're doing ok
6:35 bro that sound legit gave me shivers, you could be a great voice actor oml.. That made me feel uneasy in so many ways 💀
Frr
BRUH SHES SO CONFIDENT POSTING THIS- TOTAL QUEEN 10/10
WHO WOULD EXPECTED CURTRICHY TOO BE HERE
@@chezgoat I honestly didn't expect to see curt here
Bow down for the queen
oh no not more yas queeners
I’m so sorry that this happened to you
As a victim who was 13, and was molested by middle aged man, I could feel how afraid you were. It took me months to say anything to my father :(
But I’m now 14 + recovering and I’m glad you are too.
Gosh that's scary, I'm glad you're doing better :(
@@gtom866 I am doing better just in the process of recovering
Shit I'm at a loss for words all I want say is that Ii hope everyone doing well and that im very proud of you for waking up and giving today a try. Its can be hard sometimes to hold and or carry those thoughts andor responsibilities. just remember to do what you can do and whats in your control and to not worry about what you cant control. Try not to compare yourself with others because your not walking the same path of life as them you faced different problems and issues that you have overcome and became a better stronger and wiser person from those experinces. Do the little things that help build up the confindence and stamina,take some sleep,hydrate yourself,take a shower and try to do some excerise. Key word here is try. Be patient with your self change doesn't happen over night its take a long ass time filled with challenges and a need for a lot of patience and alot of discipline but I believe in you and do something you love you can get through this and to remember to love yourself no matter how productive or accomplished you feel. Also try not to blind yourself with all the problems thoughts or issues you are having. Open your eyes and keep a open mindset,never take failure as a aww I lost or something to get you down there's to much shit that does that. So try to look at everything as a learning opportunity on how you can grow and become better and how it's a tool to tell you what your strengths and weaknesses are and tells you how much you have grown and what you need to practice you are on the right path . Plus dont rush into thing as well and to just take it easy when your filled of stress and anxiety just take a breather go outside an walk pug in those ear phones let the music rush into your ears and its gives you waves of energy and good vibes and remember to just try and breath and enjoy yourself and do whatever you feel like doing to make yourself feel better and i know this much to ask of you but try to be strong and try to brave and IM SO PROUD OF THE PERSON WE HAVE BECOME AND HOW MUCH EFFORT WE PUT INTO OUR LIFE TO TRY AND IT BETTER AND how we on the right path with much love simon.
You’re really strong!💝
same i was touch by my... you know what convinced myself it's not that serious and he's not in my life anymore it affected me more than i thought he also did the same to my cousin and sister i never said it to my parents because i want them to be happy and they're already stress and it will become troublesome...
Thank goodness you were with your friend and she was there to ask if you were okay and to help you get out of there. Thank you for sharing this story, it must have been hard for you to decide to make and post this.
Anyone who dislikes this video I will personally send many bad vibes to.
it was just a kiss
@@SoniWyd yeah but without consent and it was something she didn't want.
Imagine if someone tried to force you to drink something you didn't want. Sure the thing might not be bad to drink, but when it is unwanted and the situation happens so fast it can leave you shaken.
Also it's also frightening because things could have easily gone further if her friend wasn't there. He was already so daring even with her friend there. If she wasn't he could have gone further without her consent and still blamed it on "being drunk".
@@SoniWyd maybe you wouldn’t care but other people can feel violated when someone does things to them that they don’t want. It can make them feel gross and guilty. Not everyone has had many kisses either and some value it as something special between themselves and their partner.
@@SoniWyd
*Yeah sure and Prison is just a Room.*
:>
@@tooblue127 I'm a pretty big guy so I guess I forgot that everyone isn't as big as me, so I'm not as scared of situations like these.
my genuine reaction to this is what the actual f**k it seriously makes me sick that ppl do this, why just WHY
LIKE WHAT THE ACTUAL HELL!?
"He's a good person"? What kind of friend says that after there friend HARASSED someone. What the actual fuck. I am so proud of you for standing up for you Hono you are so brave and a REAL friend would try to control the person who was "drunk" and harassing you.
You'd be surprised, people will be willing to defend their buddies or close friends no matter how awful or scummy they are just because they like being around them. I've heard too many army horror stories of officers assaulting young female recruits, being called out and because they're the golf buddy of someone higher up or the son of a golf buddy of theirs they'll look at the assaulter and go "ok we can't let you stay so choose, discharge or court marshal?" And of course, they choose discharge. The victims constantly call to have something, anything done about this and they just keep brushing the victims claims off because the one who assaulted her has friends in high places.
Hear me out, I don’t think we can IMMEDIATELY out him as a terrible person just by what he did. There’s plenty of good people that just do stupid things. And i think he needs to be educated rather than being immediately called a bad person. Btw take this from a person that gives people the benefit of the doubt WAY too much
No because the way I’d go crazy if my friend did something bad to my other friend, like they’d end up in the ER if they did that to my friend
Hallo guys - I swear I'm working on getting my Q&A out very soon LOL! Feel free to comment any more questions and hopefully I'll be able to answer as much as I can ~
If you'd like your fanart to be featured in the Q&A video, you can send them to honobread.yt@gmail.com or DM me in any of my social media 🥰
Whats your favourite chips?
How did you come up with your name?
^^
@@walt3rq bc she likes bread
How long have you been doing art?
As someone who was on the board for my pilipino american student association. I am absolutely disgusted that things like this happen. I would have ABSOLUTELY RIDICULED FUGLY- I’m sorry this happened to you and it was 110% not okay and your feelings are valid ♡
I would have cut his head off and used it as a flashlight
this has happened to me three times before... and the worst part about it is that you kinda lose trust in people, like you feel like you can't really trust anyone because what they put off could just be a mask that covers their true intentions and its so scary. That's why I hate people like "fugly" because they never think about how much their actions can affect a person and it REALLY fucking sucks because that shit follows you for life, even now I have a hard time connecting with people on a romantic level because I'm afraid of their true intentions and I feel like I can't trust them.
You’re so much stronger than you will ever know. You go girl!
Huge respect and shout out to you for being brave enough to tell your story. Hope you feel better as time goes on. Fugly should repent…for his sake…
I'm so sorry that you had to go through all of this but everything is over now and i hope people are more caution out there to be safe
I feel a big thing that let's this stuff happen is people not being taught consent/no means no properly. Luckily for me my health teacher was a big advocate for consent, but not just the teachers need to teach, but the parents as well. Before health classes in 0-7th grade, ALOT of the kids barely knew about the subject. And this is coming from someone who has been touched with no consent in broad day light.
I am SOOO happy you came out with your story and showed what and what not consent is I'm def subbing!!
I’m really sorry that this happened to you Hono. That’s a horrible thing to go through 😔 I’m glad you had friends to comfort you and help you through it. And am glad you were able to speak out about it.
I just subscribed and have been watching your videos. You are definitely a spark of light on TH-cam and You make a lot of people smile, so please keep up the good work 😀
3:02 No Hono, no. It isn’t your fault at all! That guy (imma call him ugly because idc) should have *never* taken advantage of you. And the fact you were only 15! I really do hope you feel better Hono! Love goes to you!❤❤❤
She was a freshman in college, so about 18 maybe 19, but you’re so right he was in the wrong, that should never happen to anyone regardless if they were an adult
@@HiimSofa Right thank you for correcting me! :)
Hono I'm so sorry that happened to you 🥺 I've had a similar experience happen to me which is why I immediately stopped going to clubs after my freshman year of college. Thank you for sharing your experience!! There's definitely a handful of younger viewers of yours that should be aware especially since college is almost back in session soon!
Things like this should not happen. Going out and having fun should never have to come with a warning label. I swear there will be a day where people can enjoy them selves without worrying about creeps.
Um...I'm sorry to be the villain in this situation...but I doubt a day like that will happen anytime soon.
Im so sorry you went through this you are so strong for going through this let alone bringing up the memories this must of been hard , if you ever went through I’m sorry and you are so strong for still making it and keeping yourself safe ❤️ 💝
Girl you didn’t deserve this it’s not your fault sending lots of love to you and the people that this has happened to before ❤❤❤
This is a very important message and experience. I had something similar happen and it still haunts me to this day. And it's so sad that too many people experience these things I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I wish this didn't happen to you Hono.
To be honest, we don't know better when going to university/college and the fact that we're in a very vulnerable environment, with people we don't really know, and don't have anyone we can turn to afterwards, is very isolating. I'm not really huge on people moving away to go to university/college anymore because of my experience. My therapist said she thinks this kind of thing may be more common than we think, but is an unspoken problem that goes on behind the scenes cause you're expected to kind of "brush it off and move on". And that is horrible.
Consent is extremely EXTREMELY important. Do not even touch someone without it. And if someone says "no", that means "NO". Do not continue to pursue them. Cause your actions scar them for life.
You didn’t deserve to go through this crap at all,no victim did
I’m so sorry you had to experience this,that guy was a monster and it sucks his friend defended him.Please stay safe and healthy,remember we care about you deeply and your mental health is important ^^
Consent can only be properly given when in the right state of mind
Drunk, high, etc is NOT the right state of mind
Agreed! Glad we can come to consensus (maybe unless they are partners)
this is traumatic ate hono... i'm glad you're okay! thank you for spreading more awareness about things like this, CONSENT IS IMPORTANT PEOPLE!!
I’m terribly sorry for what happened to u and ur so strong for sharing ur story, u deserve more than an apology. Ur so strong and keep up with the amazing content :)
No one deserves to be treated that way and no one deserves to be subjected to that kind of trauma because it can ruin someone’s life man or woman no one deserves to be treated that way
I hope he got in trouble. Im really sorry this had happened to you, I may not understand what you gone through, but I know that you have great friends and family that got you're back, and billions of hono fans that love you! Stay safe Honobread and continue what you love!
thx for sharing hono ;-; I've gone through type of situation and still scared my brain off.
sadly this behavior is common on the world, but we will stay strong ;)
I’m so glad you spoke out about this. People forget that as a victim you sometimes can’t even react. One time in Miami on vacation a man kept touching me, it was mostly just tapping and talking to me but I stayed completely still in terror because what happens if I make a scene. People are gonna look and judge and my family might scold me and punish me for the rest of the trip. What if this guy has a weapon on him or will use violence. Sadly this happens. No one can say no because either people get violent or you’re made out to be the bad guy. I still remember me not being able to say why I couldn’t stop it but I really wish I did. I’m just glad my dad saw and helped me
this video has helped me a lot, I thought what I went through was nothing and I was just sensitive but watching this video made me realize that feelings I felt was real and I let that happen to me, I'm so sorry that happened to you and I really hope one day I don't need to worry about people like this.
I'm sorry he did that to you. You deserve way better.
Good to see that you seem to have moved well past it, You fucking rock!
This happened to me at a very young age, ( I was near 9-10) and I’m glad you have the freedom to share and make others aware of this issue!
Love your personal strength!
I came here from Curt's channel and I'm glad you could talk about such a thing. It takes alot of courage and you should be proud of yourself !
What Fugly did was not cool, that what he did was one of the worse things to do to a girl, not just at a party, but in general. And he had the audacity to do that when you're still holding onto your friend!? Disgusting, shame on him and shame on his friend for trying to cover him. I hope you're doing okay Honobread, I'm sad that society is like this with victims of these kinds of situations.
Mad props to your friend for being their for you the entire time, all I can say at this point is that I hope you and Fugly never cross paths again. Things like this shouldn't ever happen to anyone, no matter who they are, where they are and when, consent is the number one thing people need to consider and better off asking to make sure if someone is really okay with something.
I have a question. Did fugly just kiss her or do something else to her? (Either one is not okay anyway)
@@ooglyb0ogly as far as the video explains, it seems to be just a kiss. Like its been stated, that's not okay to kiss someone without consent and it can be traumatizing. I know because once when I was 10 years old and at a friend's party, some older dude I assumed was their uncle came up to me while no one was looking and kissed me without consent. Long story short I've been afraid of being near guys and getting physical contact from them whenever I'm alone and/or my mom doesn't know them. It just goes to show even a non consented kiss is enough to leave someone afraid for life.
@@amukaghostlily oh ok thanks. Also, I'm sorry that happened to you.
@@ooglyb0ogly it's okay now, I'm just happy my mother was there for me when I needed her most. We also had cut ties with that friend and their family in fear this could happen again. We never saw or heard from them again after elementary. Sadly I don't know if the police was ever called or if the guy got arrested.
@@amukaghostlily that's good. I'm glad your mom was there to help
Thank you for sharing such a personal experience to inform us about something so important! ☺️
None of his "excuses" matter. It wouldn't matter if he "had" been drunk. His actions should have consequences, regardless of his intoxication level. Shit like this is why I hate parties in general. I never partied. I went to a couple 'wrap parties' because I was an acting major and we celebrated the end of a play circuit we performed. I was there to ensure my friends didn't hurt themselves and to be the designated driver. But I never drank and eventually stopped going to 'wrap parties' because I hated the environment.
Point is, Fugley and others like him NEED to be held accountable. Thank you for speaking up about such a heart-wrenching, personal trauma and I hope you have nothing but happy days ahead of you! Keep up the amazing work and have a beautiful day!
I had similar cases, and your explanation to the experience was so relatable. I wish I get a chance to express my own story to my loved ones who i trust.
Stay strong everyone ✨
This happens a lot, not only parties but sometimes in public. Carry hairspray, or some sort of defence item . It helps a lot and would buy you time when you’re in these kinds of situations
As said in the video, be 100% aware of your surroundings.
I’m sorry for what happened to you. YOU ARE SO STRONG!!! You inspire me!❤
I'm glad you have such good friends that will look out for you
I can understand how horrible and vulnerable this must have made you feel :( Ive been in a similar situation at a party when I was 13 and a 17-18 yo dude wouldnt leave me alone. At some point as i was walking away he just ran behind me, with no warning and hugged me. Needless to say he was much taller than me, I just felt locked and trapped in some stranger's arms. I was shocked and couldnt move at all or say anything. I cant imagine how much violation you must have felt by this kiss. Its honestly horrible and makes you feel really helpless :( Im sorry this happened to you
* The hug lasted a long time and he wouldnt let go, so an older lady that was about 30 came over and pushed him away from me, she started yelling at him to defend me. She was very nice :)
Thank you very much for sharing this story! I know that it couldn't have been easy to talk about this experience, so thank you! just know that the lessons you shared here are going to be the soul reason someone is going to be able to keep themselves safe from something like this. You have done something that has actively made the world a better place, so thank you.
Im terribly sorry to see this happened to you, and the fact you were able to talk about it shows you have more bravery and strength than Fugly has(though that bar is kinda already set low considering what the guy did).
I love getting back from a long day at school, getting a bag if chips, and watching some honobread.
No no, you wear that damn yellow proud. You are allowed to be single and unsure and still deserve to consent. It's not okay to do that regardless of clothing status.
It must’ve been gut wrenching to go through that, I’m glad you’re ok and your friend was there to help
No one should ever have to go through with what happen to you. I'm really proud that you could open up about your experience. To help guide others who may or may not being going through assault. Consent is always the key. Please stop victim blaming it doesn't help anyone!
I’m really sorry this happened to you. This is such a scary experience. Thank you for sharing your story it takes a lot, this video bringing awareness to many and I hope people stay safe out there
What fugly did was unforgivable im so sorry you had to go through that i hope your ok hono and i love your videos
Its moments like this where I'm glad I don't socialize with anyone i ain't already friends with in college. So sorry that happened to you, I hoped your friend Morduh was able to somewhat comfort you after what happened.
Freeze response isn’t the best feeling but I’m so glad that you’re ok and stick around to trust a good friend
I'm so glad that it was just a kiss I thought it would be much worse like rape but I'm really glad you're okay.
I feel very bad that this has happened to her at such a young age. I know how this feels, because this happened to me about 1-2 months ago. I feel very bad that so may people have to go through this.
I’m glad you were able to get out of the situation fairly quickly and that Morduh was there to help. I’m honestly surprised myself cuz I would’ve had the same thought process as you.
Im so sorry this happened to you. i hope that you dont have to go through this ever again, and i am really happy you wanted to share this video with us so your audience can learn too. theres just so much people out there that want to take advantages of other people, and you might not even know it.
I am very sorry you had to go through this. You didn't deserve to be taken advantage of like this. Very sickening and disgusting AF of that dude. You're very brave to share this devastating story. My heart go out to you and everybody who can relate to this.
This channel has been a blast so far!! You've definitely earned a new subscriber!
Thank you so much for this video Hono. This is so important and I know it's not always easy to share our stories.
I am sorry that this happened to you, I have never personally experienced this but I know a friend who has. My male friend was in 6th grade (so like maybe 11-12 years old?) and got SA’d by an 8th grade female. I will spare the details but essentially she took advantage of him and had the audacity to say “tell anyone about this and your dead” after SHE took advantage of him without his consent. But no need to worry my friend told his mom and grandma and she has been arrested. But the sad part is that yeah he took therapy, but nobody seemed to care or ask if he was ok. Of course this was in Florida so take it with a grain of salt, but I just get upset sometimes when people only care about victims that are physically attractive, and the ones that aren’t have to keep to themselves and not talk about it. We live in a fucked up world man, shit is why I have trust issues.
I’m sorry Hono, don’t you worry, these happen in life and they teach us to be careful next time. Life is for us to learn, we’re all glad you’re ok!
I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. I have never experienced this and I hope I never do, but I hope you have recoverd from this traumatizing experience. I'm actually younger than 13 but thank you for having the courage to tell this story to thousands and millions of people ❤
I'm 14 and even I know that the guy was at fault. Just because he was drunk doesn't mean he should have done that. If that was I would be very scared, I'm glad she's ok.
This actually made me breakdown...I don’t know why but it did. In 2015 in eighth grade, I got taken advantage of very badly that I ended up...regretting a decision three months later. Since then I’ve still been taken advantage of because I’m already a victim, I’m scared of what might happen to me if I said no. Only just recently in my second year of college did I finally go to mental therapy and confess my traumas. From slowly being able to trust men and see that certain things can be loving, helped me improve and get into a healthy relationship. Seeing this, yes it made me breakdown but it made me cry because I didn’t feel alone. Yes I feel horrible that it happened to you but it made me cry out of I guess happiness? To know that there are people who share my pain of being a victim. Sorry for the long paragraph >~
I’m so happy for you that you were able to get the help and healing you needed and deserved. But yes you’re definitely not alone and i feel happy that i was able to reach you as well 🫂💖
@@HonobreadYT Thanks, the therapy and my partner have really helped me heal and become a stronger person. Also thank you for making this video, as people who have been victims we need to spread a light on harassment and assault. I do want to properly thank you with a drawing since we’re both artists, is there another platform I can send it to you Miss Bread?
Im so sorry this had happened. I hope Fugly pays for his actions. Stay awesome!
I was SAed by my cousin. He is younger than me by 2 years. But he made me uncomfortable and hit my no no square and kept… to put it briefly, “practicing” sexual acts with me, i know how probably didn’t have ill intentions. But it still makes me feel violated and very uncomfortable about this situation. I kept telling him to stop but he wouldn’t. He kept sitting on my lap and doing very gross things, and he kept hitting my behind.. he also kinda sat on top of me when i was laying down. I feel gross and violated since it happened. I just wanna know, was is SA? Cause I know he probably didn’t have I’ll intentions but it still makes me feel gross..
OMG!! I am so sorry you had to go through this. Did you tell ur parents about this? Also, wtf is “PRACTICING-?!?!” That’s disgusting and sick.
His intentions dont matter he performed inappropriate acts with you that you didn't consent to. It is 100% sa and there is no excuse for his actions.
I hope ur doing okay
So sorry u went through that and how old was he ? Because he learned this behaviour somewhere and hopefully he isn’t mimicking abuse he’s been subjected to, I’ve seen it before and it is awful
Tbh, I think there are just lucky people, because I've been raised and told that it's either that you absolutely not talk to people and be a lonely pebble for your entire life or you become "too carefree" and get taken advantage of and stuff like that. The lucky people are raised with a proper environment and are decent. I'm not saying that everyone who have gotten taken advantage of aren't raised properly. I'm saying that there is a gray spot, and even tho someone is an anti-humanity activist DOES NOT MEAN THEY ARE SAFE FROM BEING TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF and that JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE IS A COMPLETE EXTROVERT WHO LIKES THAT KIND OF STUFF DOES NOT MEAN THEY WILL BE TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF. Like SERIOUSLY. I've been told all my life "why do you not have friends?" or "why are your friends all girls?". Like, I dunno mom, maybe it's because you tell me that all boys are trash but still want me to be straight. 😑
Thank you for sharing your story Hono 🙏🏽❤
I've learned a lot, Thank you so much Hono! I would like to share the awareness of attending parties and I feel sorry that you've experienced such a thing but still glad that you still wanted us to know about your experience and about Consent! Even though it might be hard to share these kinds of experiences but your content will help many people learn and know what to do! So it is really helpful.
We love you so much Hono! Keep up the amazing work as always 🤗💕💕
I’m so sorry, you don’t deserve that! I hope you heal!
I’m so sorry this happened to you😭you’re really brave for sharing it and I thank you for doing that because it can help SOOOOO many people
I’m so sorry hono I was also taken advantage of and it feels humiliating to talk about it I’m proud of you and I hope you’re doing okay
As a guy, I can't stand seeing these types of guys do this. Like, BACK OFF, dude!
pepole can be real creeps just like this guy,
it makes me happy to know there are still good pepole out there.
Naw u used bubble bass to refer to him 😭😭😭😭 Das crazy 😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂
I swear to god how many TH-camr animators/Artist I know and love go through this shit like here’s some examples:
AmyRightMeow
illymation
Alex’s Corner
MARCOJIN
NeroTM Animations
Yennie Fer
I’m very sorry you went through that and as a male I believe that no person should go through anything like that.
Well The more junk you get involved into means the more problems which all those people love so ┐( ∵ )┌
You wouldn’t believe how common it is
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@@KabirHenry No one ask to be assaulted or harassed. I hate that you’re saying they asked for it.
@@lexdraws1729 Well first, Stop interrupting into my opinions. When they're at 17-19 then of course they have to be responsible for want they get themselves into in. You don't know much.
Shit, Hono, I'm really sorry you had to go through that. It pissed me off when his friends keep throwing the "He's a good person." bullshit excuse. Good people ask for consent. Good people don't take advantage of people. If your supposed "good friend" is going around doing fucked up shit, then maybe you shouldn't be friends with him my dudes idfk. I'm glad you tho you had a friend at the time to be there for you when it happened.
Your so strong for coming forward about this🥺you’re not alone😕stay safe everyone♥️
Yeah speaking from experience I know how terrifying things like are and it’s gross how common and terrifying this things are