Sewing Q&A: Answering your pressing sewing questions & life update

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  • @rosethread5509
    @rosethread5509 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    So sorry to hear about your marriage ending. It brought tears to my eyes. My 33 year marriage ended 6 years ago. You are blessed to have a sister that can be there for you. You are so strong to share this with your online vewiers. Take time to care for yourself, to reflect and grieve. Sending you a big hug.

    • @Penguinandpear
      @Penguinandpear  ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thank you, it was a struggle to know what to do or say but I’m not at home and that’s obvious so thought this was best to avoid questions. Sorry to hear about your marriage also.

  • @kathygann7632
    @kathygann7632 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    The best revenge is him seeing you living a good, happy life. After the initial year post divorce, I have never been happier. The constant daily stress is gone, and I got healthier because of that. Go for a walk with your sister or go swim laps. The exercise is good for you mentally, physically, and relieves stree.

    • @Penguinandpear
      @Penguinandpear  ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I don’t want revenge. Glad to hear you had a happy outcome. Both my sister and I have chronic illness so exercise is not appropriate. That said I do get outside when I can.

  • @Lorraine-yy8ey
    @Lorraine-yy8ey ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Sweet Claire, it hurts to see you so sad. I'm sorry to hear about your marriage, but you certainly came to the right places for support . . . your dear sister and us! We support you through thick and thin. Talking head videos, talking arm videos, talking leg videos, talking feet videos -- it doesn't matter. I will watch, rewatch, and re-rewatch them all. Big ole hug from your friends in Florida USA.

    • @Penguinandpear
      @Penguinandpear  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you

    • @hf3739
      @hf3739 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes, I'm watching the ads right through to the end, even though I'm not interested in them, but I know it helps the algorithm if the whole ad is watched. All the best for the future, Claire.

  • @kes44p
    @kes44p ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sorry to hear your news. Thank heavens for your sister.

  • @AprilAiteen
    @AprilAiteen ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m sorry for your heartache. I was there a few years ago and it really sucks. Give yourself the time you need to heal. Talk, cry, get angry, go for a walk. But above all else, be kind to yourself.

  • @Chericherry4
    @Chericherry4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    You can get through this. You’re not alone. Angels surround you, both living and unseen. I’ve been there.

  • @deblondon5700
    @deblondon5700 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hang in there lovey … take this journey in small steps, be kind to yourself. And I’m so proud of you for “showing up” today and being open with your community. We’ve got your back … huge hugs!

  • @sandimcp
    @sandimcp ปีที่แล้ว +36

    My heart goes out to you, Claire. Thank you for all you do with this channel. It's amazing that you even do this. Thanks for the encouragement as always. You will get through this. We are with you. Sending you hugs.

  • @elsafischer3247
    @elsafischer3247 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I’m so sorry, but you have to stay strong and show him that you are independent and you don’t need him. You videos are great. Keep your good work. We are with you

  • @clairebuchanan6199
    @clairebuchanan6199 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Hugs! Hang in there. You’re pretty amazing- remember that!

  • @user-mn7ux4gi4k
    @user-mn7ux4gi4k ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Chin-up! This will pass. What a courageous person you are. Give yourself time to grief. Better days are coming (don't ask me how I know). Keep doing what you do best!

  • @murielbailiwick2978
    @murielbailiwick2978 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It’s always sad when a relationship dies. All I can add, Claire, having been in that place myself, is that everything passes. You will get through this and come out the other side stronger

  • @maaiketjepkema7207
    @maaiketjepkema7207 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hi Claire sorry to hear about your marriage. I've been watching your sewing channel for quite some time and was delighted when you came back. Still love your videos.

  • @jennyallan8794
    @jennyallan8794 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Life has an habit of putting the " boot in " you are a strong lovely lady keep that gorgeous smile you light up the screen 😊 thank you for sharing stay safe ❤ I've given a 👍 up and subscribed xx

  • @sarahrieth9042
    @sarahrieth9042 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Claire, I am so sorry for what you are going through with the loss of your marriage and all that goes with that. I have learned so much from you in the three years since I returned to sewing, and I am grateful. Know that we are all holding you up with our hearts and prayers.

  • @gingergreen4647
    @gingergreen4647 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sorry to hear that. Take care❤

  • @denisedorsey2889
    @denisedorsey2889 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Claire, you are one courageous woman! Thank you for being real and vulnerable with us. We will be on this journey with you. I love how you present yourself here on your channel. It was your sense of humor and your skills at sewing that won me over several years ago. Sending you love from Oregon, US….A needle and thread bind us together across the miles. ❤

  • @sandie4yeshua
    @sandie4yeshua ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Darling Claire, I am so sorry to hear. I wish I could give you a big hug. Praise God that you have your sister. Try and get your sewing items as sewing is good for our mental health.
    Wool - do not wash but steam fabric to deal with shrinkage.
    Thereafter, garment should only be dry cleaned.

  • @katiedoessewing2218
    @katiedoessewing2218 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey honey! Love ❤ the channel sending love ❤ and one day at a time xxx

  • @gillian-clairepearman3125
    @gillian-clairepearman3125 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Sad news indeed, but many of us know what you're going through, so please don't think you're on your own, we're all here for you xx

  • @jenniferclifford4669
    @jenniferclifford4669 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Sorry to hear that things are not in a good place for you. I hope you can come to a pace where you feel safe and secure and excited about the future.

  • @jeanbucknell1947
    @jeanbucknell1947 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Sending you a virtual hug, glad to hear you have a place and someone who loves you, keep being strong and take care of yourself.

  • @deniseblake6214
    @deniseblake6214 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Such a difficult time for you now …. I wish you well and hope you get the support you need from your sister and give yourself time and space …. I’m not qualified to give you advice, and I’m sure you done need any from me so I can only try to cheer you up by telling you how much I enjoy your videos and really appreciate your no nonsense advice and information … I send you my very best wishes

  • @nightembergrl
    @nightembergrl ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I'm sorry your going through a rough time. I recently found your channels and your videos are super helpful and they brighten my day! Sending love and hugs your way!

  • @carolinarios2994
    @carolinarios2994 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have found you channel last week, have been watching your videos all week.
    Im verry sorry to hear about the end of your mariage😢

    • @Penguinandpear
      @Penguinandpear  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you and thank you for watching

  • @debbiebosworth3120
    @debbiebosworth3120 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Claire sending you ❤️

  • @tishawright2780
    @tishawright2780 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I will continue to pray for you and your family.Sorry to hear about your personal life I pray it gets better.

  • @jumartus2639
    @jumartus2639 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You are a strong woman ! We are with you !

  • @shivsnorman
    @shivsnorman ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am so sorry to hear your news. We will all be here when you are ready to get back to us. Thinking of you 😢♥️♥️

    • @Penguinandpear
      @Penguinandpear  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you. I’m not going anywhere, I need to earn money. It’s just they’ll be talking head videos only for a little while

  • @janejaggers4703
    @janejaggers4703 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One day at a time. You have a huge support system with your followers.

  • @mermaidstears4897
    @mermaidstears4897 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I’m so very sorry for your situation.
    An answer for the lady who wants to make a wool coat, PLEASE don’t prewash your wool-it will felt. I’ve made probably close to a hundred wool coats in the past thirty years. If you are concerned about shrinkage, hang the fabric up and steam it with a steamer (or the steam from a hot shower), but what you want to avoid is the combination of moisture and agitation.

    • @Penguinandpear
      @Penguinandpear  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you for sharing your expertise

  • @maureenleclair8773
    @maureenleclair8773 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤🙏❤🙏❤ Take care of yourself. Sending Light and Love to you. ❤🙏💘🙏❤

  • @shannonlaubert9822
    @shannonlaubert9822 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bless your heart! ❤ So many of us have gone through what you're going through but take it one day at a time and breathe. I'll bet you're stronger than you think you are and I imagine a true survivor! Your confidence shines through and we all support you! 🤗

  • @deborahjackson4866
    @deborahjackson4866 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤ Sending love and hugs

  • @kimt2au
    @kimt2au ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh Claire Bear, I am so sorry to hear about your situation. Thank goodness for your Sister.

  • @joyful8072
    @joyful8072 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So sorry to hear about the end of your marriage. I can imagine what a horrible time it is and I admire your courage to move forward. You are blessed to have a sister and especially one with room and ability to help you out right now and to be an emotional support to you as well. Stay strong though I know it is only human to feel fragile through difficulties. Eventually things will get better for you. Hugs. xx

  • @retired_early
    @retired_early ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been there. Fast forward 11 years and I’m now married to the love of my life and have a completely different and living a much more fulfilling life. One day at a time.
    Just know how much I and others learn from you and how encouraging you are to us. We appreciate you so much.

  • @ruthirwin8222
    @ruthirwin8222 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Aw im so sorry claire, it is one of the hardest things to go through but eventually ypu get over it and move on and have a good life, i know, im 20 years on from it, take good care of yourself and best wishes, i love ur videos

  • @maryhull531
    @maryhull531 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love and hugs and glad you have a great sister who let you live with her .all the best .

  • @kathleenstoin671
    @kathleenstoin671 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You can get through this, Claire! Yes, it will be very hard emotionally at first, but just take things one day at a time, doing things to take care of yourself, and one day you will be happy again. You're going to experience a range of emotions, which is completely normal, so be prepared for that. I'm so glad you have a wonderful sister to help you now. As you lay your head on your pillow tonight, please let your mind concentrate on how many people care about you and are wishing you well.

  • @trudyberry3267
    @trudyberry3267 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So sorry to hear about your marriage Claire. Please know that your followers are all here for you, take the time you need to process it all. It doesn't feel like it yet but you are about to be reborn into a new life where you will blossom and grow into an even more amazing woman. Life is going to bring you the most amazing blessings because you deserve even more love in your life.❤

  • @valhogue7870
    @valhogue7870 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So sorry to hear. I love your TH-cam videos 🙏🙏🙏

  • @doloresw
    @doloresw ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sorry to hear your news of your marriage, glad you have support of your sister. That is wonderful.

  • @ohmum6431
    @ohmum6431 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My 5 yr grandaughter greets me in the morning with "morning granny. Can we sew today?". She has her own box of no Frey fabrics, small equipment box. Last week she sewed her first machine seam ...making a curtain for a cubby...she is my thread clipper and it's lovely to teach her every thing...I explain everything, let her cut the scraps ..we spend time making doll clothes, and pillows and even mini quilts...then we go play banjo and sing lots of old english kid songs....(they are the best).... i am watching from deep bush in Australia, yes I have snakes and big spiders (they hide in my stash)...bit scary....adds another thrill.... I hope this image gives you cheer. Sending sunshine... make sure you get some it's good for you.🌞🌞🌞

  • @BSWVI
    @BSWVI 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bug hugs🫂 from Canada 🇨🇦. You are an inspiration to us, 💡and we are here for your sensible approach to life and sewing. And we are here for You! ❤

  • @kckazcoll1
    @kckazcoll1 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    sorry to hear that you are in such a sad place right now. Thanks for answering the questions for us, Claire

  • @deborahbreslin4285
    @deborahbreslin4285 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh honey stay strong. Despite all your challenges you have been a source of comfort for more people than you know. We're all with you xx

  • @asajarl5519
    @asajarl5519 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Take care Claire ❤ We are with you❤

  • @daxxydog5777
    @daxxydog5777 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m glad you have your sister to rely on. You are strong and you’ll come out the other side even stronger!

  • @TheValerie999
    @TheValerie999 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My heart goes out to you. I’m sending you positive energy and I know that this have a surprising way of working out for the best. You are blessed to have a caring sister.

  • @dianemontavon5670
    @dianemontavon5670 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hugs to you. So sorry to hear about your marriage. God Bless.

  • @lynneprentice4278
    @lynneprentice4278 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    So sorry Claire! I hope you get things sorted out a bit, soon. Sisters are an amazing support - glad you’ve got yours ❤️❤️

  • @saramanzo-leasure3251
    @saramanzo-leasure3251 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sending hugs and prayers

  • @Hiker_who_Sews
    @Hiker_who_Sews 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish I were there with you because... I know stuff. My marriage died when I was about your age. I'm 70 now. It's wonderful that you have your sister by your side.
    And still you answer our questions, and give us valuable tips. You are amazing!!

  • @annadubois3914
    @annadubois3914 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dear Claire, You brought tears to my eyes but ì know they are relevant of your empathy, generosity, honesty, and so much more. Your sewing videos have touched our minds and your kind and generous personality has touched our hearts. For that reason we will keep watching and supporting you as long as you need. Stay strong, Lots of love from France

  • @je9417
    @je9417 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much for answering my questions ❤ really helpful advice!
    My heart goes out to you - you're a treasure and you deserve so much happiness and fulfillment. Please never forget that.
    Will continue to support you and your channel. Your content is not only informative, but so calming. You're a lovely person and I very much hope that your channel grows exponentially!

  • @HumanFellaPerson
    @HumanFellaPerson ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you so much for all you do! Your videos are so helpful and a joy to watch!

  • @KlingonPrincess
    @KlingonPrincess ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sending all the hugs, you got this. I've been divorced for 6 years now and though the loss of the hopes and dreams was hard, life today is so peaceful and fulfilling. I encourage you to navigate this time giving yourself lots of grace. [I'm on the spectrum too. You might like some of Orion Kelly's videos, thinking of the one in which he talks about emotions.]

  • @traciesperrin7548
    @traciesperrin7548 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Stay strong. Small steps. Thanks for answering my question.

  • @honeywell891
    @honeywell891 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So sorry to hear this. Divorce/separation is one of the hardest thing to go through. Other than a funeral. It always plays on my heart. Take all the time you need to get back physically and mentally. Thank you for having the strength to share with us. I’m sending prayers and love to you on the wings of a dove. 🕊️🕊️🕊️

  • @cherylrice3049
    @cherylrice3049 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    À beautiful stain glass window is made of broken pieces of glass . God will put your broken pieces into a beautiful and better life! ❤

  • @sabrinaqualley5743
    @sabrinaqualley5743 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    So very sorry to hear you're going through a rough time. Your videos have been very helpful to me as I am about to start sewing my first garments. Wishing you all the best as you forge a new path forward.

  • @redelephantsafari9217
    @redelephantsafari9217 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You will get through this , Claire ! I started to learn to sew during COVID and I turn 60 In 2 months ‘ time . Your videos have taught me so much . Keep them coming . God Bless.

  • @sarahj6190
    @sarahj6190 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sending hugs as one door closes another one is sure to open ❤

  • @nalodailec
    @nalodailec ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good luck and best wishes to all of you. ❤

  • @PKEDRM
    @PKEDRM ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was sorry to hear your news. I recall when my first marriage ended I left with my sewing machine under one arm and my purse under the other. Life tests us every step of the way, but have faith. Everything will work out.
    I love your videos and will keep watching. As someone who has fibromyalgia, osteoarthritis, and 4 artificial joints so far - I understand a bit of what you are living with. I turn 70 in 15 days, so add old age to the mix. If I can't do it while seated it just doesn't get done.

    • @Penguinandpear
      @Penguinandpear  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for your lovely comment

    • @bonnieleebragliatatford296
      @bonnieleebragliatatford296 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You will get through this! It will make you stronger and wiser. I have been watching your videos for a very long time and you are absolutely the best! Never forget how wonderful you are! And you are much appreciated!

  • @ilnacastelyn6310
    @ilnacastelyn6310 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so glad you have your sister to support you in this time. Take time to mourn (yes, divorce is like death), be kind to yourself and take it one day at a time. Your viewers will always be there for you.

  • @KnitzyKitzy
    @KnitzyKitzy ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I’m so very sorry to hear you are going through such a hard time. It’s even harder to go through emotional issues when you have chronic health conditions to deal with too. I have multiple autoimmune diseases so I know how they like to flare up at the worst times. However, I am sure you will get through this and come out the other side with determination and the spirit you display whenever you make your videos. Remember you are awesome and a fighter.

  • @Sashabebe
    @Sashabebe ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So much love my sewing sister❤

  • @bawtosu5269
    @bawtosu5269 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I know your followers, including me, are so sorry for your sad news. Keep strong. Take care of yourself, and I am sure everyone is relieved that your legend of a sister is there for you. That's a plus. Again, take care of yourself.

  • @nanastevens4094
    @nanastevens4094 ปีที่แล้ว

    The best revenge is to succeed on your own. No matter what happens as time goes on, proving you can stand on your ownand in spite of what evolves you know, as well as everyone else, that it is your choice, not fear, guiding the way.

  • @catherineb6565
    @catherineb6565 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Blessings Claire xo

  • @marywagner5088
    @marywagner5088 ปีที่แล้ว

    Claire, my heart goes out to you. Sometimes it's hard to see our way forward when pain and tears blur our vision. I hope you can take one day at a time. The fog will clear, and you will find your way.

  • @user-qq5sd8cw4z
    @user-qq5sd8cw4z ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Claire I am just so sad to hear your life update. I so love watching your posts and found all your sewing advice amazing and helpful. You are a very special lady and I'm glad you were so brave and continued to post. Sending you hugs.

  • @chi2tan
    @chi2tan ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Appreciate your honesty and wishing you luck in your next chapter in life!

  • @lorindaannleighton4194
    @lorindaannleighton4194 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have been watching you for a little bit now and I am thinking that a beautiful woman that you present yourself to be will be just fine given time. I speak from the heart and found my best friend at 45. A third marriage for us both and I am now 58. Just take baby steps which can be a moment at a time. You are fortunate to have a sister to turn to. Sending you love and prayers from Victoria Australia. P.S. sewing is a God send for your soul ✨️

  • @frannygrace2191
    @frannygrace2191 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh, Claire, I'm so sorry to hear about your marriage breaking up. I've been there twice, and no matter the reason it is a hard thing to go through. We love you and your videos and we will be praying for you. IF I can figure out how to join PayPal I'll see what I can do there, too.

    • @Penguinandpear
      @Penguinandpear  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you. I don’t think you need to join PayPal to use ko-fi.

  • @lizann3058
    @lizann3058 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love & hugs from Australia 🐨 🇦🇺

  • @TheBareFootSewist
    @TheBareFootSewist ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bless you. Sending hugs xx

  • @torirochleau-rice8037
    @torirochleau-rice8037 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wishing for you a powerful future. Hugs.

  • @justjo5379
    @justjo5379 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sending you love and hugs xxx

  • @beckybest7192
    @beckybest7192 ปีที่แล้ว

    You can walk through this valley and come out stronger. You will be in my prayers.

  • @marygreen7225
    @marygreen7225 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Take care of yourself Claire.

  • @ChristineSewsALot
    @ChristineSewsALot ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I am so sorry. Sisters are the best.

  • @jenismith466
    @jenismith466 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hugs to you Claire, glad you have such a supportive sister.

  • @marcienuber
    @marcienuber ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you. Many prayers for you during this difficult time in your life.

  • @KarenWomersley
    @KarenWomersley ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So sorry to hear such sad news x stay strong x

  • @karenbrooke3617
    @karenbrooke3617 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks

  • @leslieclaire
    @leslieclaire ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a strong woman and now you will discover how much stronger you will get! You can do it! One day at a time! 💕💕

  • @missbellarubens5255
    @missbellarubens5255 ปีที่แล้ว

    I found the best medicine for sadness is in a swimming pool or a bubble bath. Where your body gets a break from the gravity. Much love xxx

  • @abbyelvidge4654
    @abbyelvidge4654 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You’re lovely and so encouraging! Thank you 🌻 Sending love🍂

  • @skoop0808
    @skoop0808 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My heart goes out to you. Stay strong. You are lucky to have a support system, and kudos to your sister! I really enjoy your videos. Hang in there!!

  • @janematthews6579
    @janematthews6579 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God Bless You❤

  • @janetdickenson3271
    @janetdickenson3271 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for all your hard work, love and hugs

  • @janetwilliams2314
    @janetwilliams2314 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am so sorry you are going through such a difficult time, Claire. I discovered your videos recently, and I enjoy your honesty and expertise. You have given me hope that I can sew garments reasonably well, and as soon as I finish organizing my sewing room, I plan to begin sewing again. I am glad that you can stay at your sister's while you get your life back in order. I, too, have a sister who put me up when I was going through a difficult time some years ago. Thank you for all of the good advice your provide on your TH-cam channel. Sending you love and best wishes.

  • @evelynburgstaller9376
    @evelynburgstaller9376 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so sorry... In the last video I already felt this might be the reason for staying at your sister's 😔
    All the best for Darren and you. Big hug 🤗

  • @user-ti8bw1ri5h
    @user-ti8bw1ri5h ปีที่แล้ว

    Claire, my heart goes out to you... You're in the middle of the storm right now, but please hang on tight, because clear and calm waters are not very far.
    Hugs and good vibes

  • @bungalolovers
    @bungalolovers ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sending hugs and warm wishes to you, I’m so glad your sister is there for you.

  • @elizabethscoot6804
    @elizabethscoot6804 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bless you! Sending you so much love xxxx

  • @Craftylisa69
    @Craftylisa69 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou so much Claire for answering my question. Please be assured of my continued support . Please take rest as you need it because you know how important that is . I’ll be watching lots of videos to help in anyway I can. Take each day at a time , grieve and know you are very loved xxx