I've learned to stand up to my own father over time. Not everyone agrees with my actions including my siblings but it's ok to cut out a toxic parent out of your life.
I stood up to my dad. After he died, I regretted it because I think I broke his heart. Old people will be what they are, they're not changing. I learn to just let things be.
Omg! This Story piss me off...the Audacity that heartless Father has to ask for money from the daughters he abandoned!!! Daughters, you owe that man, Nothing!!!
Should just drop that selfish father at a nursing home. These daughters are too forgiving and compassionate. I would have changed my phone number and block all future contacts with him the day he disowned me. LOL 😅
Um I get the story but the moral did not turn out like I wanted. You girls were suppose to stay far away and mind your own business when your Dad comes calling decades later. You should have said you're married and not responsible for him but you didn't stick up for us Sisters who have only daughters.
In America now Hmong Girls have paved the way to great things! To bad these old people do not see the value of our Hmong girls and women. I’m glad parents now are breaking the cycle to love all our kids equally.
Txhob tu siab os viv ncau aw kuv lo yog ib tug ntxhai tsi muaj nu thiab os tab si kuv zoo siab qhov kuv txiv hlub peb cov viv ncau kuv txiv g tau hai lu rau peb tu siab ib zaug li os
Kuv yog ib tug txiv neej uas ntshaw ntshaw tub. Kuv muaj ob tug tub. Tus poj nrauj poj ntsuag twg muaj ib pab tub ces kuv xav yuav tus ntawv lo ua niam yau ntag vim kuv xav tau tub xwb. Kuv ntseeg vajtswv ces kuv txoj kev hlub loj loj rau cov poj niam uas muaj me nyuam coob coob 15, 16 tus me nyuam.
Nowadays the girls are the ones who will love and take care of their parents more. This is why people always complain about their sons wearing the skirt and following neej tsa. Because the woman will always love her family more than the family loves her! My husband has 5 brothers but guess who is the one to plan holidays and birthdays? Who takes my MIL to the doctor? Who checks in on my in laws? Their only sister 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Thaum kawg cov hlub yus ho yog cov ntxhais. Coob tus cov tub mas yog sib txeeb nyiaj xwb. Hmoob og ntshaw kev hlub thaum tuag xwb . Thaum tuag mam hu los hnia pa. Hos muaj co nyab thiab nus yeej tsis hlub tej muam tabsis thaum tuag mam mus thov cov muam tuaj zaum rooj. Yuav kom tsim nyog hu ua txiv yuav tsum muaj kev hlub rau tej ntxhais thiab. Nej txiv yog tus tawv nncauj tshaj os. Es nej txiv nev ho zoo li cas.
Girls are raised to know their parents favorite food, to know how their parents keep the house, to know birthdays and plan events, to be loving and caring…. *Yet parents still think a son will love them more.* They spoil their sons, let them roam free, raise them to become menyuam laibs… and still think their son is perfect. Smh. If your dad treats you like outsiders then don’t help him or give him money. Outsiders don’t do that.
Nyob lub ntuj puag thaum ub hauv teb chaws Laos mas tej niam tej txiv ntshaw kom yug muaj tub dua li yug muaj ntxhais vim tub yug los tsav niam thiab txiv lub neej lawm yav tom ntej. Tab sis txheej niam no txawm nyob lub teb chaws twg los tsis matter yug muaj tub los ntxhais. Neej tuaj nyob USA mas ib nkawm niam txiv twg yug muaj ntxhais coob dua yug muaj tub no ces nkawv tau txais kev hlub loj dua vim yog cov ntxhais xwb. Ntawm cov tub, lawv tig mus hlub lawv niam tais yawm txiv lawm.
Yog yus tsis ris siab ces tsis txhob qhib tias yus niam tsis tau yus zog noj. Yus muaj siab muaj tsws thiab muaj txoj kev xaiv. Nej txiv tsis hlub nej los nej xaiv txoj kev hlub nws ces cuag li nej ua twm nej niam xwb os. Nej niam tseem qhib tshaj os. Tsis tsis yog li os.
Wow! Your father have some nerves. I will not help, not in this lifetime, the way he treated all of you. Koj txiv got what he deserved! Why you even cry? I would be so mad that there will no tears!
Hmong men will continue to treat daughters like this because they get away with it and their daughters end up rewarding them at the end. They treat their daughters so bad but at the end, daughters still give them money, gold necklaces, and allow them to live with them. Please have more respect for your mother and yourselves.
Tus mes muam, zoo li koj txiv thiab kuv txiv ces Yog cov tuag tsis muaj ntxa os. Txhob tu Siab os nawb. Zoo li peb los twb Yog tub es twb tsis muaj txiv hlub os. Cia lub ntuj mam txiav txim rau nws xwb os
It seems they are very desperate for his love and approval, even at their adult age. That's why they accept him back with opened arms and even kill a cow for him and bought him a gold necklace. That already says they forgave him for everything he's ever done to them. This story's ending does not justify it's beginning and middle at all. Weak.
It just gives those old men more reason not to care or love their daughters because they know they’re too soft hearted and can be easily manipulated. Stupid story and ending.
Nej ces tim nej xwb os cov Sisters aw! Ua ntej yuav txais tos nej Txiv hais kom tag tej lus nej txiv txiav nej thuam nej rau thaub mloog tso pob. Kuv yog nej niam mas kuv los hem kom nws nyob tsis tau nrog kuv pab ntxhais kiag ntag ho nws nyob tom tej kwv tij mas tsis pom kuv tab sis los nrog kuv cov ntxhais ib tug twg nyob mas kuv ua phem xwb2 laub. Koj niam yog neeg siab zoo kawg os yom. Nrog nej cov me ntxhais tu siab kawg os vim nej tsis tau txiv txoj kev hlub zoo li cas os.
Cov txiv zoo li no mas g hlub los yeej g npam os Cov ntxhais no los ntshe npam thiab ho vim lrej niam kev npam tas lawm thiaj tau mus ua ntej hos cov ntxhais no tseem cia txiv los es so quav ...auj....😡😡😡🤬🤬🤬🤬
Ntsej muag dev laus hais tub li tub yog Tim leej twg naj Tim koj niag qaus laus ntawm ko tsis qoos xwb naj koj cov niag kab tub tsis muaj zog txaus los ua tub xwb hos koj niag maum dev laus ko tos muaj tub neb yog dev ib yam ces kab tub kab ntxhais muaj zog ib yam xwb kav tsim yug tub kom coob li coob Tau nawb lwm hnub koj tuag lawv thiaj coj koj mus pam saum ib nta ntuj os hos cov niag ntxhais ces yuav pam koj rau ntiaj twb xwb os nawb hlub tiag tiag nawb
Grew up in a family of mostly girls...my dad feel the same way. He married a 2nd wife who gave him his 1st son..my mom then had a sons too..my dad now have 7 sons who doesn't do anything he expected. Now he think, it's karma..lol.. Don't have high expectations of the sons..the daughters do more for the parents than the son's do nowaday... Parents need to treat all children equally because you don't know what your future holds..
Ca koj lub mi nêej es niam zoo li Kuv lub. Kuv niam Kuv txiv ce niam yug tau peb 5tug ntxhai. Kuv niam Kuv txiv ce niam tu tu siab tia tsi muaj tub, Kuv txiv niam ua yoob ua yai thb
tus txiv no tsis muaj lub siab hlub nej tiag tiag xwb,tub thiab ntxhais los yeej zoo ib yam .kuv muaj tub thiab ntxhais tib si cov mas tub mas yeej tsis pab Yus yeej tsis tau lawv ib pas dej haus tsis pom ib lub txiv noj li naj .ntaub ntawv Yus thov cov tub pab los yeej txib tsis tau li.tsuas muaj cov ntxhais thiaj pab Yus xwb.
Cov niag leej txiv siab phem khuj hij li nej txiv yeej ces ua zaj twg los yeej txhaum nws tag tiam neej li os cov me ntxhais. Nej tawv nkuav tsis hlub nws li los yeej tsis npam nej li. Txhob txhawj qhov nej txiv foom nej thiab txiav nej li os.
Tsis thab quav ntsej li os cov me ntxhais aw...nej txiv twb tsis saib nej tias nej yog nws cov ntxhais es nej yeej muaj nqis thiab. Nej yeej tsis muaj nws ntev lawm tsis KK txog nej txiv li os.
Very few Hmong peoples loved & treated their daughters equally but majority of the Hmong peoples choose side to loved. I am one of the outsider that’s what our parent considered girl. How sad that I learned my lesson how to loved myself and have my voice as loud as the boys.
Viv ncaus aw.. nej cov viv ncaus yog cov npam os... nej txiv tsis hlub nej li tsam no nej tsawm tau so quav so zis ces tus npam yog nej ntag mas nej txiv yig tus muaj hmoo ...
Wow, that sounds like my dad to us 6 sisters, too. I'm the b oldest, but I wouldn't be as stupid as to give him money if he was this rude and disrespectful. My dad hasn't gotten to this point yet, but when he does, I have no problem telling him to f off. Idc. I treat everyone the way they treat me regardless of who that person is to me.
Omg, i am pissed at your dad for the way he treated u girls, but i am so annoyed at u girls for accepting him back at the end. U girls aren't really sad enough, tu siab enough, or hurt enough seriously.
Koj tu siab tsis tau txaus os, sister. Yog kuv mas, kuv tig pob tw rau nws xwb. My dad loved us girls more than the sons. When we became adults, us daughters did more for my parents. My brothers were always useless.
Why do you guys keep enabling him? Stop!! No matter how much you give him, he will not care or love you!!! He does not know how to love you girls!! Stop feeding him like a child! Learn to love yourselves!!!
......Some Hmong OGs like this grandpa got all backwards. They are greedy. Instead favoritism, we should love our daughters as much as possible because we only have short time with them as they will go off and move on where their husband takes them. We should love them more. For our sons most of the time can choose to stay close to us, parents or more flexible where they choose to stay. Some of these OGs are soms of the greedist people I've known. Sadly, it's our own enthcity. We as younger generations got to be better. For me, all my daughters I love them most.
Cov txiv neej zoo li no ces 3 cov ntxhais muab nws saib zoo li ib txiv dev xwb 3 tsi hwm nws lawm. Cov txhiv neej zoo li no civ tub muab nws tsim tom qab mas nws yuav tuag tsi tu siav thaum kawg ces nej xov ntxhais yog civ yuav mus nqa nws lub taub hau txiv dev ntawv faus pov tseg os . 3 cov txhob tu siab rau niag txiv dev ntawv.
@ethankeukeu I'm not sure if she just being nice or plain stupid! No feelings! This is exactly why Hmong OGs always mistreated the daughter bcuz the daughters were stupid enough to take them in at end!!
Ha ha ha koj txiv tus tub dov tawm ! Tsis yog doctor hos Yom dov tawm, tawm Tom jail los ! Nej tsis khe khe nej tej nus Liam lis os. Liam lis nej txiv os !
Niag ntsej muag dev laus siab phem ntawm mo ces tsis tas hlub thiab yuav li los siab phem tag npaum li ko cas nej tseem yuav rov qab thiab hlub niag dev laus ko thiab na coa kom nws tau mus nyob qab choj xwb mas.
Peb Hmoob lub hlwb siab phem saib ntxhais tsis muaj nqis mas liam tshaj plaws. Tseem ho mus yuav pojniam los ua neej dabtsi? Kuv txiv kiag los yeej 1 yam li nej txiv thiab.
lol I don’t get what these girls want from their dad?! Daddy issues?!!!! If the old man tells me to leave him alone; I would gladly leave him alone!!! Lol
Niag txiv siab phem niag txiv ntshaw nyiaj. Cas yus twb txiav txiav tej ntxhais ua cas ho pheej mus taij nyiam ntawm cov ntxhais ua luaj li mas niag dev liam. Pab koj txaj muag dhau lawm. Koj ces tsim nyog noj yeeb tuag mus zoo dua
Your father doesn't deserve anything good from you and your sisters. OG always thinking their sons will do 100% everything for them 🙄 Sons and daughters are equally important and should be valued equally. Best wishes to you and your sisters
This man Don't understand that it not his wife fault for not having a boy it's him that can't have give a boy, to these days having girls are the best when u get older in life.....
I feel for you sisters. Your dad's negativity towards you sisters just made you all a better daughter, sister, & mother towards your growing family. Your love for your dad is unconditional and with respect at its finest. I believe men with too much pride will never admit to their wrong doings in life. Especially raising sons to be exactly like them, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Wish you sisters the best and good luck! I know you will all take better care of your dad than his young wife and the nyabs will ever do. God bless you sisters and your family!
Some of these old men are stupidly, selfish, and only care for themselves. I grew up with a large family and we only have 4 sisters with 3 different moms, but my dad love all my sisters equally as our boys. In life, we don’t know the future so don’t underestimate, unpredictable, judgmental about life. Wether boy or girls, love them equally. Be happy for what you have. Peace, love and take care each other.
Tos yug tsi tau tub lo yog lub ntuj yeej paub hais tias koj txiv yuav tsi muaj lub peev xwb yuav cob qhias tau cov tub txim txiaj. lub ntuj yeej paub hais tias tub yuav ua rau koj txiv mob hlwb nyuab siab es lub ntuj thiaj tsi muab tub rau koj txiv. Saib seb mas koj txiv tsi yuav koj txiv txoj hmoo nrog koj niam koj txiv mus txob2 niam yaus seb tau tub tsi raws lub siab xav. qhov koj txiv tau ces tau kev nyuab siab xwb. Lwm tias mas koj txiv yuav npam hais tias koj txiv tsi hlub cov txhais ces ntuj yuav tsi muab ntxhais rau koj txiv yuav tau ib pab tub yuav ua kom mob txiv siab tshaj tias no os.😅
Kuv tsi nkag siab tias ua cas Peb hmoob pheej liam tias vim poj Niam yug tsi tau tub vim lawv tsi muaj kev kawm. hmoob Thaum ub assume too much. Pointing fingers to all women tsi kua me nyuam los tim poj niam es yuav Niam yau. Lawv twb tsi xav tias lawv kab me nyuam tub twb muaj tsi txaus ne ntxhais ntau dua ces kuj muaj ntxhais kab tub ntau dua ces muaj tub coob dua. Tej Thaum txiv neej kab me yuam twb tsi muaj tab sis nws yeej muaj kua txiv neej ma thiaj tsi muaj me nyuam tej Thaum kuj tim poj Niam thiab mas thiab thov Peb cov hmoob tau hloov tus cwj pwm no
OMG I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU SISTERS EVEN GAVE YOUR DAD A SINGLE PENNY FROM YOUR MOTHER'S DEATH BENEFIT. DID YOU FORGET YOUR MOM SAID SHE WOULD COME HAUNT YOU IF YOU GAVE HIM A SINGLE PENNY????? YOUR FATHER DO NOT DESERVE YOUR LOVE AND MONEY‼️ SO DESPERATE FOR A FAKE FATHER'S LOVE
I've learned to stand up to my own father over time. Not everyone agrees with my actions including my siblings but it's ok to cut out a toxic parent out of your life.
I stood up to my dad. After he died, I regretted it because I think I broke his heart. Old people will be what they are, they're not changing. I learn to just let things be.
All fathers are not the same. Some deserved love, and some are not.
Omg! This Story piss me off...the Audacity that heartless Father has to ask for money from the daughters he abandoned!!! Daughters, you owe that man, Nothing!!!
It's a poor excuse - always. He never loved your mom and you girls. If all of you were boys, he'd still use the same excuse he needs a daughter.
My blood boils!! This father deserves nothing in life
Should just drop that selfish father at a nursing home. These daughters are too forgiving and compassionate. I would have changed my phone number and block all future contacts with him the day he disowned me. LOL 😅
Um I get the story but the moral did not turn out like I wanted. You girls were suppose to stay far away and mind your own business when your Dad comes calling decades later. You should have said you're married and not responsible for him but you didn't stick up for us Sisters who have only daughters.
Such disappointment for me.
Super disappointed. The disrespect to their mom!!!! Unbelievable
Tus sister nej tsis nco nej niam cov lus lawm lov, es nej yeej tsis ntshai tsam nej niam rau txim rau nej li.
Not all Hmong men think like this father, only OG think like that. My girls are special in my heart.
Not all OGs. Just the dumb immoral ones.
@@monkeybanana9269well said.
In America now Hmong Girls have paved the way to great things! To bad these old people do not see the value of our Hmong girls and women. I’m glad parents now are breaking the cycle to love all our kids equally.
koj txiv liam thiab siab phem tiag2 cia lwm hnub seb nws cov me tub yuav hlub nws npaum cas nawb
Niam ntsuab teev koj hai neej neegyuam kev ntau heev li os.
You siblings are too nice. Most children would of turn a blind eye to a father like that.
Txhob tu siab os viv ncau aw kuv lo yog ib tug ntxhai tsi muaj nu thiab os tab si kuv zoo siab qhov kuv txiv hlub peb cov viv ncau kuv txiv g tau hai lu rau peb tu siab ib zaug li os
Ab es yus twb txiav cov ntxhais kev tag es tsam no yus tsi muaj chaws tuag no ho rov los thawj cov ntxhais es puas txaj muag naj txiv neej hmoob aw
Kuv yog ib tug txiv neej uas ntshaw ntshaw tub. Kuv muaj ob tug tub. Tus poj nrauj poj ntsuag twg muaj ib pab tub ces kuv xav yuav tus ntawv lo ua niam yau ntag vim kuv xav tau tub xwb. Kuv ntseeg vajtswv ces kuv txoj kev hlub loj loj rau cov poj niam uas muaj me nyuam coob coob 15, 16 tus me nyuam.
Ca zoo li peb kiag li thiab o 😭😭😭 peb kuj ib pab viv ncau coob2 li ko thiab tu2 siab li o 😭😭
Kuv myiam nploog koj dab neej heev li o niam ntsuab teev
Nowadays the girls are the ones who will love and take care of their parents more. This is why people always complain about their sons wearing the skirt and following neej tsa. Because the woman will always love her family more than the family loves her!
My husband has 5 brothers but guess who is the one to plan holidays and birthdays? Who takes my MIL to the doctor? Who checks in on my in laws? Their only sister 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Nrog koj tu siab kg uas yus txiv tsis txawj xav tsis txawj hlub.. licas puam chawj tsuav nej txawj hlub nejncov xwb txhob xyaum tej tsis zoo mog
Thaum kawg cov hlub yus ho yog cov ntxhais. Coob tus cov tub mas yog sib txeeb nyiaj xwb. Hmoob og ntshaw kev hlub thaum tuag xwb . Thaum tuag mam hu los hnia pa. Hos muaj co nyab thiab nus yeej tsis hlub tej muam tabsis thaum tuag mam mus thov cov muam tuaj zaum rooj. Yuav kom tsim nyog hu ua txiv yuav tsum muaj kev hlub rau tej ntxhais thiab. Nej txiv yog tus tawv nncauj tshaj os. Es nej txiv nev ho zoo li cas.
Girls are raised to know their parents favorite food, to know how their parents keep the house, to know birthdays and plan events, to be loving and caring….
*Yet parents still think a son will love them more.*
They spoil their sons, let them roam free, raise them to become menyuam laibs… and still think their son is perfect.
Smh. If your dad treats you like outsiders then don’t help him or give him money. Outsiders don’t do that.
Nyob lub ntuj puag thaum ub hauv teb chaws Laos mas tej niam tej txiv ntshaw kom yug muaj tub dua li yug muaj ntxhais vim tub yug los tsav niam thiab txiv lub neej lawm yav tom ntej. Tab sis txheej niam no txawm nyob lub teb chaws twg los tsis matter yug muaj tub los ntxhais. Neej tuaj nyob USA mas ib nkawm niam txiv twg yug muaj ntxhais coob dua yug muaj tub no ces nkawv tau txais kev hlub loj dua vim yog cov ntxhais xwb. Ntawm cov tub, lawv tig mus hlub lawv niam tais yawm txiv lawm.
Tsis yog ntxhais los yeej tseem ceeb, ntxhais mas tseem ceeb tshaj vim xab maim no cov ntxhais rau siab kawm ntawv tshaj, kawm mus siab dua, hlub niam hlub txiv dua. Ntuj aws... cas nej coj ntxhais los siab yuav zoo ua luaj koj tseem yuav nws los nrig koj nyob thiab. Yog kuv mas ua ntej nws yuav los mas kuv yuav muab nws coj los hais nws coj lus thaum ub rau nws mloog tso.
Yog yus tsis ris siab ces tsis txhob qhib tias yus niam tsis tau yus zog noj. Yus muaj siab muaj tsws thiab muaj txoj kev xaiv. Nej txiv tsis hlub nej los nej xaiv txoj kev hlub nws ces cuag li nej ua twm nej niam xwb os. Nej niam tseem qhib tshaj os. Tsis tsis yog li os.
sij neej no txiv neej txoj kev lim hiam ma leej twb g ntsib tus ntawv yeej g paub li o hmoob aw
Wow! Your father have some nerves. I will not help, not in this lifetime, the way he treated all of you. Koj txiv got what he deserved! Why you even cry? I would be so mad that there will no tears!
Hmong men will continue to treat daughters like this because they get away with it and their daughters end up rewarding them at the end. They treat their daughters so bad but at the end, daughters still give them money, gold necklaces, and allow them to live with them. Please have more respect for your mother and yourselves.
Ib leeg txiv zoo li no tsis hlub los yeej tsis npam qhov twg li.
Tus mes muam, zoo li koj txiv thiab kuv txiv ces Yog cov tuag tsis muaj ntxa os. Txhob tu Siab os nawb. Zoo li peb los twb Yog tub es twb tsis muaj txiv hlub os. Cia lub ntuj mam txiav txim rau nws xwb os
I love my boys and girls the same. Good story and thank you for sharing.
Cas tseem yuav txais ib niag neeg tsis muaj siab ntsws los ua leg thiab muab nws ncaws txawm pov Tom sab choj xwb
cov thaublaus yeej ib txwm nkaus, luag hais tias taws laus ces taws tsiv rauv neeg laus ces neeg nkaus.
My grandpa now praise the girls because the girls in our family are doing much better than some boys.
This story has no happy ending. nej cov ntxhais tsis muaj siab nej tseem yuav nej txiv los tu.
Yog mas! Looks like their very desperate to take their dad back even though he has sons of his own that’ll buried him.
It seems they are very desperate for his love and approval, even at their adult age. That's why they accept him back with opened arms and even kill a cow for him and bought him a gold necklace. That already says they forgave him for everything he's ever done to them. This story's ending does not justify it's beginning and middle at all. Weak.
It just gives those old men more reason not to care or love their daughters because they know they’re too soft hearted and can be easily manipulated. Stupid story and ending.
Hais tau zoo li peb lub neej kiag os😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢pej kuj muaj 6leej txhias thiab g muaj tub
Nej ces tim nej xwb os cov Sisters aw! Ua ntej yuav txais tos nej Txiv hais kom tag tej lus nej txiv txiav nej thuam nej rau thaub mloog tso pob. Kuv yog nej niam mas kuv los hem kom nws nyob tsis tau nrog kuv pab ntxhais kiag ntag ho nws nyob tom tej kwv tij mas tsis pom kuv tab sis los nrog kuv cov ntxhais ib tug twg nyob mas kuv ua phem xwb2 laub. Koj niam yog neeg siab zoo kawg os yom. Nrog nej cov me ntxhais tu siab kawg os vim nej tsis tau txiv txoj kev hlub zoo li cas os.
Cov txiv zoo li no mas g hlub los yeej g npam os
Cov ntxhais no los ntshe npam thiab ho vim lrej niam kev npam tas lawm thiaj tau mus ua ntej hos cov ntxhais no tseem cia txiv los es so quav ...auj....😡😡😡🤬🤬🤬🤬
Ntsej muag dev laus hais tub li tub yog Tim leej twg naj Tim koj niag qaus laus ntawm ko tsis qoos xwb naj koj cov niag kab tub tsis muaj zog txaus los ua tub xwb hos koj niag maum dev laus ko tos muaj tub neb yog dev ib yam ces kab tub kab ntxhais muaj zog ib yam xwb kav tsim yug tub kom coob li coob Tau nawb lwm hnub koj tuag lawv thiaj coj koj mus pam saum ib nta ntuj os hos cov niag ntxhais ces yuav pam koj rau ntiaj twb xwb os nawb hlub tiag tiag nawb
Grew up in a family of mostly girls...my dad feel the same way. He married a 2nd wife who gave him his 1st son..my mom then had a sons too..my dad now have 7 sons who doesn't do anything he expected. Now he think, it's karma..lol..
Don't have high expectations of the sons..the daughters do more for the parents than the son's do nowaday...
Parents need to treat all children equally because you don't know what your future holds..
Sister's!! After all that b.s stuffs he did you girl's, you lady's open the for him? You should've close the door so hmong will change!!
Hmoob yog ib haiv neeg siab phem! Cov txiv neej coj lub siab tsis zoo rau cov ntxhais ces lwm tiam los yug uas ntxhaisHmoob es los nyob tu² siab! Foom koj txhob tau leej txiv txoj kev hlub thiaj li paub.
Ca koj lub mi nêej es niam zoo li Kuv lub.
Kuv niam Kuv txiv ce niam yug tau peb 5tug ntxhai. Kuv niam Kuv txiv ce niam tu tu siab tia tsi muaj tub, Kuv txiv niam ua yoob ua yai thb
tus txiv no tsis muaj lub siab hlub nej tiag tiag xwb,tub thiab ntxhais los yeej zoo ib yam .kuv muaj tub thiab ntxhais tib si cov mas tub mas yeej tsis pab Yus yeej tsis tau lawv ib pas dej haus tsis pom ib lub txiv noj li naj .ntaub ntawv Yus thov cov tub pab los yeej txib tsis tau li.tsuas muaj cov ntxhais thiaj pab Yus xwb.
Mom toxic siab phem tiag! Tsis tsim nyog nej cov vivncaus hlub koj txiv rau yav laus no. Tsis ncaj ncees rau koj niam uas tus hlub thiab tu nej tab sis tsis tau nej zog noj. Koj txiv ces coj mus nyob tsev laus los yog Nrog koj cov txiv ntxawm lawv nyob xwb. Nws yog txiv nws twb hlub tsis tau nej nws tseem txob thuam nej yam tsis txuag txiaj. Tu siab tiag! He doesn’t deserve your forgiveness.
Cov niag leej txiv siab phem khuj hij li nej txiv yeej ces ua zaj twg los yeej txhaum nws tag tiam neej li os cov me ntxhais. Nej tawv nkuav tsis hlub nws li los yeej tsis npam nej li. Txhob txhawj qhov nej txiv foom nej thiab txiav nej li os.
Tsis thab quav ntsej li os cov me ntxhais aw...nej txiv twb tsis saib nej tias nej yog nws cov ntxhais es nej yeej muaj nqis thiab. Nej yeej tsis muaj nws ntev lawm tsis KK txog nej txiv li os.
Very few Hmong peoples loved & treated their daughters equally but majority of the Hmong peoples choose side to loved. I am one of the outsider that’s what our parent considered girl. How sad that I learned my lesson how to loved myself and have my voice as loud as the boys.
Siab dub li ntuw ces tsis yuav los yee los yeej tsis ua li cas li nws muab tuwv dev los looj luwm yeej tsis nlub li lo yeej tau mog
Tsi hlub los yeej tsi npam. Y'all just too soft, paub tu siab thiab mas. No matter what his son is still his #1.....wasting your time
Cov niag ntsej muag ruam ib leej txiv zoo li ko es tseem hlub thiab los nej ces mus noj quam tau lawm mas nej na
cas koj niam Tsis los hem nws na thiab hej nej vim nej hlub nws ne thaum pib twb Tsis hlub nej
Koj txiv yog ib niag txiv lam laus xwb yog ib niag txiv tsis paub cais ua yus yog ib tug txiv tsev paub cais yus xav tau nyiaj Cas hos tsis Hu ncaj qhas nrog tej vauv Tham txhob tusiab mog cov mes muam
Yog tshaj plaws os yu yog tu yug los txhaum ua hmoob ib leej txhais ces yus yog tu swb 😢
Daughters have no value except for the dad needs money... so sad. Glad you daughters said no and drew your boundary
They didn’t and don’t say no.
He’s with them, they are whipping his butt😂
Viv ncaus aw.. nej cov viv ncaus yog cov npam os... nej txiv tsis hlub nej li tsam no nej tsawm tau so quav so zis ces tus npam yog nej ntag mas nej txiv yig tus muaj hmoo ...
Kuv hais ib yam thiab. 💯
What a horrible dad..my husband says his life is not complete until he has a daughter I'm sad for these dads who don't love their daughters 😢
Your mom already told you not to give him a cent and yet you took him in! Don’t hurt your mom like that.
Ntawj aws cas tej tug niag txiv dev zoo li no cas yuav ua tau ntxim txub tshaj.
Nej ces tsis muaj siab muaj nstws, npam nej lawm os. Nej tsis hlub nej niam. Yug nej pab ko yuam kev lawm
Hahaha txiv dev ces kawg yug tau tub dev xwb mas...
Wow, that sounds like my dad to us 6 sisters, too. I'm the b oldest, but I wouldn't be as stupid as to give him money if he was this rude and disrespectful. My dad hasn't gotten to this point yet, but when he does, I have no problem telling him to f off. Idc. I treat everyone the way they treat me regardless of who that person is to me.
Tsis yog koj txiv npam tabsi yog KOJ yog tu npam es koj tseem yuav koj txiv nrog koj nyob.
It’s better not to call him father
Nws tsis muaj chaw tuag lawm es nws lam quaj Kom nej hlub xwb tabsis nws tsis hlub nej nej yog cov npam nej thiaj los nqa nws quav
If girls are not worth anything, stop asking them for money😂😂😂😂
Omg, i am pissed at your dad for the way he treated u girls, but i am so annoyed at u girls for accepting him back at the end. U girls aren't really sad enough, tu siab enough, or hurt enough seriously.
Koj tu siab tsis tau txaus os, sister. Yog kuv mas, kuv tig pob tw rau nws xwb. My dad loved us girls more than the sons. When we became adults, us daughters did more for my parents. My brothers were always useless.
Why do you guys keep enabling him? Stop!! No matter how much you give him, he will not care or love you!!! He does not know how to love you girls!! Stop feeding him like a child! Learn to love yourselves!!!
Hmong men like this father in this were trained to be selfish by his parents
......Some Hmong OGs like this grandpa got all backwards. They are greedy. Instead favoritism, we should love our daughters as much as possible because we only have short time with them as they will go off and move on where their husband takes them. We should love them more. For our sons most of the time can choose to stay close to us, parents or more flexible where they choose to stay. Some of these OGs are soms of the greedist people I've known. Sadly, it's our own enthcity. We as younger generations got to be better. For me, all my daughters I love them most.
If you're no satisfied one thing then you're no happy 4 evey thing .mostly hmong men rather choosed lub clans instead of choosing his own daughters
Cov txiv neej zoo li no ces 3 cov ntxhais muab nws saib zoo li ib txiv dev xwb 3 tsi hwm nws lawm. Cov txhiv neej zoo li no civ tub muab nws tsim tom qab mas nws yuav tuag tsi tu siav thaum kawg ces nej xov ntxhais yog civ yuav mus nqa nws lub taub hau txiv dev ntawv faus pov tseg os . 3 cov txhob tu siab rau niag txiv dev ntawv.
Twb yog tiam 21lawm nej cov ntxhais tseem ntshai koj txiv thiab nej cov ntxhais ruam tiag, tiag
Annoying story. Should just let that old dog live along.
Why ya take him in? If it’s me I would’ve cut ties with him long ago
She’s obviously not “tu siab” enough. 🙄
She is his kind for sure 😂
This is what i called "neeg tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws tsis txawj tu siab, ua dev leg."
@ethankeukeu I'm not sure if she just being nice or plain stupid! No feelings! This is exactly why Hmong OGs always mistreated the daughter bcuz the daughters were stupid enough to take them in at end!!
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Ha ha ha koj txiv tus tub dov tawm ! Tsis yog doctor hos Yom dov tawm, tawm Tom jail los ! Nej tsis khe khe nej tej nus Liam lis os. Liam lis nej txiv os !
Niag ntsej muag dev laus siab phem ntawm mo ces tsis tas hlub thiab yuav li los siab phem tag npaum li ko cas nej tseem yuav rov qab thiab hlub niag dev laus ko thiab na coa kom nws tau mus nyob qab choj xwb mas.
Yog nej thiaj yuav koj txiv xwb Yog kuv ces bye bye nws tsis yuav li os
Puas muaj part 2. Leej niam puas ua dab los hem nej li nws hais tseg.
Peb Hmoob lub hlwb siab phem saib ntxhais tsis muaj nqis mas liam tshaj plaws. Tseem ho mus yuav pojniam los ua neej dabtsi? Kuv txiv kiag los yeej 1 yam li nej txiv thiab.
Yawm Txiv es mus ros Ntxhaij Vau nyob? Tsiv taub poj dau lis os qhov yawm Txiv mus ros Vauv nyob nas.
My husband love his two girls ❤
Ruam ua luaj twb nyob mis kas teb lawm na cas nej tsuas npav quaj xwb na
May you don’t need a make over you are very pretty
Siab phem npaum li ko na tsis tas hlub li lawm os cas nej tseem yuav pab thiab na tas k nws li os
Screw father when u needed, he is bad father. He dnt love your mother , screw him..
lol I don’t get what these girls want from their dad?! Daddy issues?!!!! If the old man tells me to leave him alone; I would gladly leave him alone!!! Lol
Ughhh I swear!! Those men that have daughters only are so annoy! Tsis hlub tabsis thaum kawg tseem vam yus ua ntxhais thiab os ntuj e.
Niag txiv siab phem niag txiv ntshaw nyiaj. Cas yus twb txiav txiav tej ntxhais ua cas ho pheej mus taij nyiam ntawm cov ntxhais ua luaj li mas niag dev liam. Pab koj txaj muag dhau lawm. Koj ces tsim nyog noj yeeb tuag mus zoo dua
😢😢he cut you all off bcuz he could not use all of you to his advantage! But he forgot hes gonna die someday, too. He is so evil!!!
Your father doesn't deserve anything good from you and your sisters. OG always thinking their sons will do 100% everything for them 🙄
Sons and daughters are equally important and should be valued equally.
Best wishes to you and your sisters
This man Don't understand that it not his wife fault for not having a boy it's him that can't have give a boy, to these days having girls are the best when u get older in life.....
I feel for you sisters. Your dad's negativity towards you sisters just made you all a better daughter, sister, & mother towards your growing family. Your love for your dad is unconditional and with respect at its finest.
I believe men with too much pride will never admit to their wrong doings in life. Especially raising sons to be exactly like them, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Wish you sisters the best and good luck! I know you will all take better care of your dad than his young wife and the nyabs will ever do. God bless you sisters and your family!
Ib leej txiv phem li koj txiv ces twb tsis piv ibtug tsiaj uas siab phem tshaj plaws hauv ntiaj teb no lawm. Ntxim muab cabtes pov khibnyiab xwb.
Ham tsis pab niag ntxhais XWB las as es thiaj mag so quav los mos.
Yog nej yog pab niag ntxhais DIAM ces nej kuj tsis mag so quav 😂
Some of these old men are stupidly, selfish, and only care for themselves. I grew up with a large family and we only have 4 sisters with 3 different moms, but my dad love all my sisters equally as our boys. In life, we don’t know the future so don’t underestimate, unpredictable, judgmental about life. Wether boy or girls, love them equally. Be happy for what you have.
Peace, love and take care each other.
Tos yug tsi tau tub lo yog lub ntuj yeej paub hais tias koj txiv yuav tsi muaj lub peev xwb yuav cob qhias tau cov tub txim txiaj. lub ntuj yeej paub hais tias tub yuav ua rau koj txiv mob hlwb nyuab siab es lub ntuj thiaj tsi muab tub rau koj txiv. Saib seb mas koj txiv tsi yuav koj txiv txoj hmoo nrog koj niam koj txiv mus txob2 niam yaus seb tau tub tsi raws lub siab xav. qhov koj txiv tau ces tau kev nyuab siab xwb. Lwm tias mas koj txiv yuav npam hais tias koj txiv tsi hlub cov txhais ces ntuj yuav tsi muab ntxhais rau koj txiv yuav tau ib pab tub yuav ua kom mob txiv siab tshaj tias no os.😅
Koj hais lus hmoob tsis yog lawm tsi yog cov nus muag nas hmoob hu peb cov viv ncaus no thiaj yog vim yog tib pab ntxhais xwb ok
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Kuv tsi nkag siab tias ua cas Peb hmoob pheej liam tias vim poj Niam yug tsi tau tub vim lawv tsi muaj kev kawm. hmoob Thaum ub assume too much. Pointing fingers to all women tsi kua me nyuam los tim poj niam es yuav Niam yau. Lawv twb tsi xav tias lawv kab me nyuam tub twb muaj tsi txaus ne ntxhais ntau dua ces kuj muaj ntxhais kab tub ntau dua ces muaj tub coob dua. Tej Thaum txiv neej kab me yuam twb tsi muaj tab sis nws yeej muaj kua txiv neej ma thiaj tsi muaj me nyuam tej Thaum kuj tim poj Niam thiab mas thiab thov Peb cov hmoob tau hloov tus cwj pwm no
OMG I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU SISTERS EVEN GAVE YOUR DAD A SINGLE PENNY FROM YOUR MOTHER'S DEATH BENEFIT. DID YOU FORGET YOUR MOM SAID SHE WOULD COME HAUNT YOU IF YOU GAVE HIM A SINGLE PENNY????? YOUR FATHER DO NOT DESERVE YOUR LOVE AND MONEY‼️ SO DESPERATE FOR A FAKE FATHER'S LOVE