@@geesung4444 Agreed, he probably was watching her movements and who she was in communication with.. It’s happened to me quite a few times to with different people. For instance, I went to the local market with my mum and she told me to look after our trolley in a corner, there were people nearby eating food at a table close by but I noticed someone on the other side pretending to order food as he sat down while staring at me, I tried to ignore it by being on my phone but he kept on staring and eventually came up to me, asked me questions like “how are you, how old are you, where’s the toilet, do you speak English….? Hello, talk to me” etc as the people nearby didn’t do anything while I felt so uncomfortable… being bothered and preyed on eventually he walked away but sat at the same table before while staring at me again I told my mom but she just dismissed my emotions 😢
@@thatgirl9532 Next time, I would legit say FUCK OFF. If that pisses him off, GOOD! Either way the person is going to be upset, I would think that ignoring them completely would guarantee piss them off too (SO WHY NOT TELL THEM OFF?!! :] ) My point is, you gotta SAVE yourself! But I understand some people are not confrontational! If I was with you, I would have def. said something! Stay safe out there!
@@geesung4444thanks this is the kindness that is hard to find these days, but I had reasons to not want to speak, I don’t have the guts to yell at someone in public. And I appreciate you replying back
Heartbreaking!!! This young lady who had just gotten married & starting her life with her forever person is now gone. Oh my Lord, why are so many bad people in this world wrecking the lives of innocent people? It's so unfair!!! My condolences to all the family & friends. May she RIP in paradise.
@@lemontea128 there’s a few articles out there. One they were both nurses, worked together briefly. So they were more than neighbors. Second the guy was charged with 2nd degree murder. So it may have been done as a “act of passion” ie rejection of love. Considering she was killed shortly after she got married to Brian and that Brian was always gone for military work. It really fits the mold.
People don’t take things seriously… when they should from parents to police, to friends to just anyone in general… a lot of people like to see others suffocate for no actual reason but sometimes there’s reasons behind it!
So angry about this. If your Asian looking and live in the continental US. You need to always be aware of your surroundings and be ready to defend yourselves. We lived in Mississippi, Vietnamese lady store owner was robbed and shot point blank. This was an eye opener for me to train my wife and kids. My condolences to the family this is very heartbreaking.
Oahu is a beautiful place, took a trip to Honolulu last April with family and friends and I didn't want to leave, the people of the islands I would have conversations about the cost of living and I knew I couldn't afford it there. Sad situation, I'm sorry about your lost mother and brother my condolences! I really don't even have the words! Wow! 🙏🙏🙏
Its very sad. They spent a whole decade together. Flying to see each other is a lot of love to give to another. This one breaks me more than anything. It's almost routine for them, and now he's gotta wake up everyday figuring out how to go without that same feeling. That's crazy. I couldn't recover from that.
Dang, worst nightmare for all who are close to this young lady. A waitress at my local breakfast restaurant whom my family had known for the last few years, recently took off her covid era mask. I had only known her with the mask on and did not recognize her when she greeted us today. She later told us she wore the mask for so long because she had 4 stalkers who would follow her after work and located where she works out. Very disturbing times. I hope the killer rots in prison.
That’s just sad. It’s happened to me quite a few times to with different people. For instance, I went to the local market with my mum and she told me to look after our trolley in a corner, there were people nearby eating food at a table close by but I noticed someone on the other side pretending to order food as he lsat down while staring at me, I tried to ignore it by being on my phone but he kept on staring and eventually came up to me, asked me questions like “how are you, how old are you, where’s the toilet, do you speak English….? Hello, talk to me” etc as the people nearby didn’t do anything while I felt so uncomfortable… being bothered and preyed on eventually he walked away but sat at the same table before while staring at me again I told my mom but she just dismissed my fear 😢
@thatgirl9532 I'm very sorry this happened to you. Be safe out there, lots of creeps in public spaces. I've encountered grown men trying to touch my young sons. Sending protection and good vibes from Canada 🇨🇦
@@BWT599 thanks for the reply, I think it’s more difficult for females though, if a guy follows or attacks there’s not much that women can do especially if they are alone! Oh no that’s gross, please keep on being the best father! (also my bad if you’re not a dude) Kids need their parents for protection, love and understanding! Back to you from Australia 🇦🇺
I think the reason why she took off the mask is that alot of caucasians/white folks HATE seeing folks being protective of themselves. I live in the islands and I still GET stink looks from them......cant say or else i been censored...
@@jonnieinbangkokShe didn’t want Bryce her average, basic and low level coworker… She wasn’t giving him free anything! She loved her handsome and caring husband. Go to he🏒🏒!
So so sorry for your loss. What a horrible situation for her husband and her family God bless all of you. What a beautiful young woman. You are all in my prayers. RIP
Justice for Melissa Jubane! ❤what an incredible woman of service to her community. God please be with and bring comfort to Melissa's husband and family and friends 🙏
lol go COLUMBIA... then come back and tell us how crazy America is..... Actually, go ANYWHERE other than America, come back here- and type that shit again, like you think you said something. They say ignorance is bliss, but ignorance is just you brah.
@@anthonylogiudice9215 Says a lot about your ability to read people if you think he's a chad. He's boardering on the line between geek & gay. The fact he chose nursing as a profession also defies the 'chad' argument.
Well now that we know who the suspect is there will be more information coming out. Bet the husband will say things that the wife previously told him. Maybe things like she had a bad/creepy feeling about that guy. Like he try’s to talk with her or maybe liked her. There will be something I would think.
I pray that Jesus will help the loved ones, and friends through this tragic time by wrapping his holy arms around them and help to comfort them. This is truly heartbreaking. May her soul rest in peace and love in Gods house. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🤍🕊️ Heaven has gained another Angel 🪽
I don't think they can because it sounds like she was having an affair with the white guy. He snapped when she chose to not cheat anymore. I hope I'm wrong about this but I have a gut feeling she's been cheating on her husband with this guy many times.
@@byronharano2391 I understand. I click on the video originally thinking this white monster stalked and killed this poor girl who’s Asian like me. Then it sounds like they wanna protect her image. I hope I’m wrong because it’ll be hard for the husband to find out your wife’s side dude killed her. I would question if everything we had was real.
@justadude-w5f He's not insanely attractive, even still looks mean nothing if you don't have charisma or the confidence for the dating world. Something countless men struggle with, hence why celibacy/virginity rates have sky rocketed
Was she scared not to stay where she was before she married because he was threatening her ? May he never be able to do this again . Jesus Christ please bring Your peace that passes understanding to the family and friends. Amen
Ladies, use your 2nd Amendment rights. You have a better chance than to try to physically overpower a male attacker when you are in a defensive situation.
Woah woah woah, so her neighbor just randomly decided to kill her once she got back? Nah. Lets see what t he motive was. He was also a nurse, and so was she, and they lived close by. Why would he kill her? Why after the marriage? Was it perhaps they were a couple and he found out she was not only cheating but decided to marry the other guy? There are some unanswered questions here.
The guy probably was her stalker. I dont think there was cheating involved as these married couple were in relationship for 10 years before they got married last month.
Dont "feed" the defense......thats probably what they are going to AIM at......because she is dead and there is no way she can defend herself...unless she has a very close friend who she confides in...... In the islands, a few long years BACK, there was a homicide involving a filipino husband who found out his then-wife was cheating on him with a caucasian/white dude........he got so angry that he did a multiple murder. There is a vid out that explains what happened.....the freaky part is, you "think" the ex was a decent wife???? watch the vid of Orlando G.
I'm not sure it's a hate crime when the motive is she had an affair with the white guy and he snapped because she didn't want to betray her husband anymore. This sounds like a cheating nurse killed by her side dude.
I'm so, so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
Its an absolute outrage. Wishing bad karma on the killer. The young newlyweds had so much in life ahead of them. Sincere condolences to both families.
I would not be surprised if he knew she just came back from being married! He probably stalked her prior. SICK.
Actually sounds like an affair partner situation
@@geesung4444 Agreed, he probably was watching her movements and who she was in communication with..
It’s happened to me quite a few times to with different people. For instance, I went to the local market with my mum and she told me to look after our trolley in a corner, there were people nearby eating food at a table close by but I noticed someone on the other side pretending to order food as he sat down while staring at me, I tried to ignore it by being on my phone but he kept on staring and eventually came up to me, asked me questions like “how are you, how old are you, where’s the toilet, do you speak English….? Hello, talk to me” etc as the people nearby didn’t do anything while I felt so uncomfortable… being bothered and preyed on eventually he walked away but sat at the same table before while staring at me again I told my mom but she just dismissed my emotions 😢
@@thatgirl9532 Next time, I would legit say FUCK OFF. If that pisses him off, GOOD! Either way the person is going to be upset, I would think that ignoring them completely would guarantee piss them off too (SO WHY NOT TELL THEM OFF?!! :] ) My point is, you gotta SAVE yourself! But I understand some people are not confrontational! If I was with you, I would have def. said something! Stay safe out there!
@@geesung4444thanks this is the kindness that is hard to find these days, but I had reasons to not want to speak, I don’t have the guts to yell at someone in public.
And I appreciate you replying back
I’m so sorry for her husband, family, and friends 💔😭. Sending my sympathy to everyone 💐🤍
Stay strong Brian!
What you did by being a hypocrite showed the world you stood for nothing. Don’t do betrayal and then not be good at fighting
@@JBus-m6v ? You mean your mother?
Heartbreaking!!! This young lady who had just gotten married & starting her life with her forever person is now gone. Oh my Lord, why are so many bad people in this world wrecking the lives of innocent people? It's so unfair!!! My condolences to all the family & friends. May she RIP in paradise.
Sounds like she was doing some side work with the killer. Sucks for the Brian.
@@SLAMINIRCwhere’s your proof
@@lemontea128 there’s a few articles out there. One they were both nurses, worked together briefly. So they were more than neighbors. Second the guy was charged with 2nd degree murder. So it may have been done as a “act of passion” ie rejection of love. Considering she was killed shortly after she got married to Brian and that Brian was always gone for military work. It really fits the mold.
Do u know for sure or r u just a big A. Have some respect she’s dead.
@@SLAMINIRC or the killer was a sick obsessive stalker
I wonder if she reported him before and no one took it seriously. My condolences to the families. I pray for justice and more protections for women.
the neighbors told investigators that he (suspect) had a wierd personality....
People don’t take things seriously… when they should from parents to police, to friends to just anyone in general… a lot of people like to see others suffocate for no actual reason but sometimes there’s reasons behind it!
Police ignore women as usual. In my country (India), police even shame women who are the victims of "grape"
So angry about this. If your Asian looking and live in the continental US. You need to always be aware of your surroundings and be ready to defend yourselves. We lived in Mississippi, Vietnamese lady store owner was robbed and shot point blank. This was an eye opener for me to train my wife and kids. My condolences to the family this is very heartbreaking.
It dangerous out there?
I cannot fathom melissa's husbands inner sadness and rage.
im so sorry. this is devastating! strength to this family. justice for Melissa!
Rest in peace Melissa in paradise ♥️🙏♥️condolences for her family for their loss ♥️🕊♥️🕊
No words can describe so sorry 😢😢
Oahu is a beautiful place, took a trip to Honolulu last April with family and friends and I didn't want to leave, the people of the islands I would have conversations about the cost of living and I knew I couldn't afford it there. Sad situation, I'm sorry about your lost mother and brother my condolences! I really don't even have the words! Wow! 🙏🙏🙏
Sorry for your loss mama
She looks like such a pure and gentle soul. May she rest in peace.
God give this family and her husband strength. This should not have happened...
I'm sorry for her death but I think she was having an affair with the white guy.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I felt that mother-in-law’s pain. Melissa was only a newlywed starting her life with her husband. So unfair and cruel.
This is such a terrible horrific crime my heart goes out to the family for their tremendous lost.
My deepest sympathy to you and your family 🙏
The couple was about to embark into their married life, tragically, it was cut short. Rest in peace Melissa.
Sending my sympathy to the whole family. 😢
To have found the love of your life and then to lose her. How will he recover from that? How could anyone?
Its very sad. They spent a whole decade together. Flying to see each other is a lot of love to give to another. This one breaks me more than anything. It's almost routine for them, and now he's gotta wake up everyday figuring out how to go without that same feeling. That's crazy. I couldn't recover from that.
This guy is a real one the loved of my life is the opposite of this girls husband… just plain cruel
Prayers for you and the whole family.🙏🙏🙏
Rest Easy Melissa. Condolences to her husband and family
What as a society do we plan to do about male mental illness that turns to violence?
Too bad Reagan nixed that Federal mental health program
Teach our kids to not be liberals.
*we use it as an excuse to put more money in our pocket. this is the U.S.A, what you talking about.* 🤣
its NOT male "mental illness"........its called desperation....desperate to find a woman and not only any kind of woman.
My condolences to the family. I hope her husband can pull through this difficult time.
So horrific & tragic. Why? Just why???
I am so sorry for your loss this is so devastating heartbreaking love and aloha to the entire family❤
Becoming a widow(er) is a pain like no other. I’m so sorry.
My heart is so broken 💔
Dang, worst nightmare for all who are close to this young lady. A waitress at my local breakfast restaurant whom my family had known for the last few years, recently took off her covid era mask. I had only known her with the mask on and did not recognize her when she greeted us today. She later told us she wore the mask for so long because she had 4 stalkers who would follow her after work and located where she works out. Very disturbing times. I hope the killer rots in prison.
That’s just sad. It’s happened to me quite a few times to with different people. For instance, I went to the local market with my mum and she told me to look after our trolley in a corner, there were people nearby eating food at a table close by but I noticed someone on the other side pretending to order food as he lsat down while staring at me, I tried to ignore it by being on my phone but he kept on staring and eventually came up to me, asked me questions like “how are you, how old are you, where’s the toilet, do you speak English….? Hello, talk to me” etc as the people nearby didn’t do anything while I felt so uncomfortable… being bothered and preyed on eventually he walked away but sat at the same table before while staring at me again I told my mom but she just dismissed my fear 😢
@thatgirl9532 I'm very sorry this happened to you. Be safe out there, lots of creeps in public spaces. I've encountered grown men trying to touch my young sons. Sending protection and good vibes from Canada 🇨🇦
@@BWT599 thanks for the reply, I think it’s more difficult for females though, if a guy follows or attacks there’s not much that women can do especially if they are alone!
Oh no that’s gross, please keep on being the best father! (also my bad if you’re not a dude) Kids need their parents for protection, love and understanding! Back to you from Australia 🇦🇺
I think the reason why she took off the mask is that alot of caucasians/white folks HATE seeing folks being protective of themselves. I live in the islands and I still GET stink looks from them......cant say or else i been censored...
@@thatgirl9532you don't look remotely Australian
😞😖💔🙏 So devastated for you and your family.
The dude was a co-worker and was also neighbor. Her marriage was probably the trigger. Why would that be is the question.
He was not her co-worker.
No more freebies 😮
@@jonnieinbangkokShe didn’t want Bryce her average, basic and low level coworker… She wasn’t giving him free anything! She loved her handsome and caring husband. Go to he🏒🏒!
not a coworker......
@justadude-w5f No. They were not co-workers. He lived in the same apartment building.
So so sorry for your loss. What a horrible situation for her husband and her family God bless all of you. What a beautiful young woman. You are all in my prayers. RIP
So sorry for your loss!
Rest easy in Heaven Melissa.
Justice for Melissa Jubane! ❤what an incredible woman of service to her community. God please be with and bring comfort to Melissa's husband and family and friends 🙏
Condolences😢
Aloha~Sending Condolences to the Ohana & Deepest Prayers from Healthcare Ohana🤍🕊🙏
This is a tragedy. A young, beautiful, smart woman was murdered shortly after getting married. Wishing that killer rot in jail!
Too much suffering in the world, so sad for him❤
Why aren’t they showing a picture of the accused?
Google his name and you will find it.
So terribly sad💔
This is tragic. Condolences to all. Justice for our Kama`Aina
Too many sick people in the world.
To the grieving family, we are sorrowful for your loss.
May God Bless her Soul and lead it to His Kingdom! I pray!
Crying for her, how absolutely sad
I’d like to know how many complaints she had against this man.
Demn " I'm RETIRED Navy and I'm Stationed in Pearl Harbor from 1993 to 1998 this is sad and Hard to believed that the Neighbor Killed Her 😢 😔 😢
I want to say my honest opinion, but I am being OO....there are censors...
RIP Melissa
So heartbreaking 😢😢
Sad 😞 Hopefully the police give an update as to what happened.
Alot of crazies in the USA
Always gotta be ready to go to town
lol go COLUMBIA... then come back and tell us how crazy America is..... Actually, go ANYWHERE other than America, come back here- and type that shit again, like you think you said something. They say ignorance is bliss, but ignorance is just you brah.
@@tl1533 Obviously
Why no photo of the man arrested?
he's white
@@LalithoTheRedBorderCollie He is white but I think she had an affair with him. Poor husband to find out your wife got killed by her affair partner.
For all those wanting to know what he looks like, Google his name and click on images. There are Instagram posts with several pictures of him.
He's a Chad. They were intimate with each other.
@@anthonylogiudice9215 if hes a chad then the bar is low
@@anthonylogiudice9215 Is that a fact or your opinion? We don’t know anything yet!
lucky you didnt get edited yet.........lots of mines were removed
@@anthonylogiudice9215 Says a lot about your ability to read people if you think he's a chad. He's boardering on the line between geek & gay. The fact he chose nursing as a profession also defies the 'chad' argument.
Well now that we know who the suspect is there will be more information coming out. Bet the husband will say things that the wife previously told him. Maybe things like she had a bad/creepy feeling about that guy. Like he try’s to talk with her or maybe liked her. There will be something I would think.
So very sorry for ur loss condolences to the families and friends 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽✝️✝️✝️🔮agape 😭😭🌻🧚♀️✨️✨️✨️🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤
I pray that Jesus will help the loved ones, and friends through this tragic time by wrapping his holy arms around them and help to comfort them. This is truly heartbreaking.
May her soul rest in peace and love in Gods house. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🤍🕊️ Heaven has gained another Angel 🪽
What’s the reason?
Jilted lover
@@anthonylogiudice9215thank you.
Nobody knows. Unless someone has inside information, I wouldn't trust random people on the internet.
Tragic,,,,. 😢
How many people are
involved ?
Becareful around the usual suspects in cases such as these.
Oregon needs to charge this as a capital offense.
I don't think they can because it sounds like she was having an affair with the white guy. He snapped when she chose to not cheat anymore. I hope I'm wrong about this but I have a gut feeling she's been cheating on her husband with this guy many times.
@@donaldchay6938 I appreciate your reply. However, I am biased since I am from Hawai'i. Donald. You be safe sir. Blessings
@@byronharano2391 I understand. I click on the video originally thinking this white monster stalked and killed this poor girl who’s Asian like me. Then it sounds like they wanna protect her image. I hope I’m wrong because it’ll be hard for the husband to find out your wife’s side dude killed her. I would question if everything we had was real.
@@donaldchay6938 Mahalo Donald.
The neighbor was also a nurse
So they knew each other through work? He could be her stalker?
@justadude-w5f Gross comment
@@nak-b3s He worked previously at a different hospital for only a year
@@nak-b3sdiff hospital but same system
@justadude-w5f He's not insanely attractive, even still looks mean nothing if you don't have charisma or the confidence for the dating world. Something countless men struggle with, hence why celibacy/virginity rates have sky rocketed
Was she scared not to stay where she was before she married because he was threatening her ?
May he never be able to do this again .
Jesus Christ please bring Your peace that passes understanding to the family and friends. Amen
Something doesn’t sound right here. Must be more to the story. Tragic. Cast thy net to the right, always. 🙌🏼💫🙌🏼
Of course there's more to the story.
Especially if they said second degree that’s weird
Why did the neighbor kill her ?
Jelousy
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Horrible! So sorry for all loved ones 😞
Oregon has a surprising number of crazies
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So sad. It seems this would have been difficult to prevent. You can’t choose your neighbors.
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Truth come out
So sad
There is no way this can happen. They were just married. Heartbreaking,!
Rip
Ladies, use your 2nd Amendment rights. You have a better chance than to try to physically overpower a male attacker when you are in a defensive situation.
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Whats the story with the neighbor😢 were they messing around or something
Calling this out. ‘Her husband and her got married?
Horrible grammar
She and her husband got married (or were married).
For what i understand they are newly wed and only got married for a week and she was killed by her creepy neighbor.
What the hell, what was the motive! So sad!!
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Nuts
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Imagine the love of your life for ten years and finally they marry, only to be taken away. Rotten, selfish, evil people.
Show the neighbor. Tell the whole story of the jealous incel.
Woah woah woah, so her neighbor just randomly decided to kill her once she got back? Nah. Lets see what t he motive was. He was also a nurse, and so was she, and they lived close by. Why would he kill her? Why after the marriage? Was it perhaps they were a couple and he found out she was not only cheating but decided to marry the other guy? There are some unanswered questions here.
He had been blowing her back out for years
The guy probably was her stalker. I dont think there was cheating involved as these married couple were in relationship for 10 years before they got married last month.
@@riacai3959 you are naive
@@riacai3959 I disagree. Its more likely she was cheating.
Dont "feed" the defense......thats probably what they are going to AIM at......because she is dead and there is no way she can defend herself...unless she has a very close friend who she confides in...... In the islands, a few long years BACK, there was a homicide involving a filipino husband who found out his then-wife was cheating on him with a caucasian/white dude........he got so angry that he did a multiple murder. There is a vid out that explains what happened.....the freaky part is, you "think" the ex was a decent wife???? watch the vid of Orlando G.
Go back with your parents and heal. Dont look back at this horrendous state
Easy to say, hard to do.
What!!! This is a good area! I use to live in Beaverton. So husband did husband kill her?
Her creepy neighbor
@@epsilonxvi5675What the hell!! How terrible!!!
Where are her parents? Why is just his mom interviewed
I wil b rage too this makes me upset
0:16 disgusting , they have no shame
my words being edit......
You think Oahu is bad try the continent!
This happened in Oregon. In the continent.
Too many weirdos. YOU
Should have stayed here. Would almost certainly be alive.
She's Filipino
I think the husband is filipino/Hawaiian. She looks Chinese.
she doesn't look filipino
Looks Korean to me.
Yes she's Filipino
No picture of the suspect. I guess we can guess lol
He's white. Google his name.
Manless country
Hate crime?
I'm not sure it's a hate crime when the motive is she had an affair with the white guy and he snapped because she didn't want to betray her husband anymore. This sounds like a cheating nurse killed by her side dude.
The killer couldn’t help himself but I bet his ass is regretting now
Horrible Completely Horrible.
Yellow fever can drive you crazy.
Right 😂 😂 😂
Ugh
I cant express.......they will delete me.