Blythe Baird- "She Doesn't Need to See the Menu"

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  • Thank you to Germ Magazine for publishing my poem in their February issue! This one is a slam called "She Doesn't Need to See the Menu." www.germmagazin...
    Original version on my tumblr, blythebrooklyn....

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  • @diz.420
    @diz.420 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1161

    It's crazy to hear the difference between this and "When The Fat Girl Gets Skinny." They're so similar, but so different. I love this. And I'm so sorry you had to go through so much. You're so beautiful and strong.

    • @madde8509
      @madde8509 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dizzelez Ynf they are the same person. Please don’t think I’m being rude not trying to.

    • @alyssawinters6745
      @alyssawinters6745 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      This one was a rough draft of when the fat girl gets skinny and when the fat girl gets skinny was the final copy

  • @ameliakopper3145
    @ameliakopper3145 8 ปีที่แล้ว +624

    Is this the rough draft of "When the fat girl gets skinny"?

    • @BlytheB
      @BlytheB  7 ปีที่แล้ว +320

      yep!

    • @emilynielsen575
      @emilynielsen575 7 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      I LOVE IT. THANK YOU FOR POSTING THIS I LOVE SEEING BOTH OF THEM WOW

  • @maddyrab9322
    @maddyrab9322 5 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    “Breakfast is plain oatmeal no milk flavoured by tap water” seems like a simple line but I’ve never related to something more

  • @theradicalace
    @theradicalace 7 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    hearing similar lines from this and "when the fat girl gets skinny" is chilling

  • @tiarenee5514
    @tiarenee5514 8 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    i am bawling. I'm in recovery currently and this hit home. Me and my friend got sick together. We encouraged each other to stop eating. She was skinny. I was not. It's been four years now and I was 96 pounds 4 months ago. Now, I'm 110. I'm getting better. I was about to skip dinner tonight, about to relapse. You just encouraged me beyond explanation. Thank you.

    • @haleybain8915
      @haleybain8915 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I hope you're doing FUCKING WONDERFUL.

    • @beakeller4317
      @beakeller4317 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Bless your soul you are so brave and a fighter it's inspiring 💓

  • @yasmeen5931
    @yasmeen5931 8 ปีที่แล้ว +660

    Do you plan on making a book with all your poems? I would totally buy it

    • @BlytheB
      @BlytheB  8 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      +yasmeen zainul i already have one out that is available for purchase HERE: whereareyoupressstore.com/collections/frontpage/products/pre-order-give-me-a-god-i-can-relate-to

    • @taylorhall4429
      @taylorhall4429 8 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      +Blythe B I bought your book, and it's my favorite thing ever. I carry it around everywhere and read it all the time.

    • @brittneyseitz4171
      @brittneyseitz4171 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      +Blythe B will you be getting more of your book in stock?

    • @lanakanu2460
      @lanakanu2460 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Blythe B why cant i find it anymore

  • @iSmilexDD
    @iSmilexDD 10 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    I literally cannot get over how perfect this is. Huge support

    • @BlytheB
      @BlytheB  10 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      wowza. thanks girl! i appreciate it!

  • @draculoser2280
    @draculoser2280 8 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    your are one of the few sublime poets who make me cry through an entire poem and recite each word as if they were already my own. thank you for having a voice that is strong enough to speak for more than one soul.

  • @laurenx4603
    @laurenx4603 8 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    I feel like this poem evolved into "when the fat girl gets skinny" either way they are both great.

  • @jalexlucker8312
    @jalexlucker8312 10 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I want to show this to my girlfriend in hopes it will encourage her to recover. I'm trying everything I can to help her, and let her know how beautiful she is everyday, and do anything I can to get her to recover. I'm a bit nervous about her reaction, but... I need her to recover.

  • @MrMurphytomato13
    @MrMurphytomato13 7 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    My best friend has anorexia and this made me think about her and I can't stop crying

  • @Grace-cf5zy
    @Grace-cf5zy 9 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    This and Girl Code are breathtaking.

  • @chasingthestarsxoxo1084
    @chasingthestarsxoxo1084 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    “If you are not recovering, you are dying.”
    I felt that😭

  • @cza977
    @cza977 10 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I just discovered your poetry tonight. Damn, your words really cut to the bone.
    Keep it up.

  • @neurotransit
    @neurotransit 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Ahhhh the most talented poet I have disccovered this year!

  • @daniellanunez4121
    @daniellanunez4121 8 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    so so powerful. ive never had someone explain my anorexia so perfectly. this was so touching

  • @maggieh3587
    @maggieh3587 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Your poems are a blessing to this world, and to me. I don't know how many times I've gone to these videos when I'm struggling again. You're such an inspiration

  • @OpheliaCyber
    @OpheliaCyber 10 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is one of the most moving and touching pieces I have ever heard. This is beautiful Blythe. You have a true talent. I sincerely hope that you can finish your poem with 10.

  • @masayrs
    @masayrs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I first found your work years ago when I was deep in the depths of my disorder. I’m almost two years clean now, and I still come back every few months to remind myself why I’m doing this. Thank you

  • @anagarrett8871
    @anagarrett8871 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I never thought I would cry over a poem

  • @ashleyallensworth5646
    @ashleyallensworth5646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've listened to When the Fat Girl Gets Skinny so many times. It's fascinating to see how this poem evolved and how her confidence grew. I hope you're still healing.

  • @chriscocookingspray9266
    @chriscocookingspray9266 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hearing this and any of her recent slam poetry just shows how much she's changed. Her voice is so incredibly different now, it was soft in this video and gentle but now it's rough and loud and powerful.

  • @sherylmonks3401
    @sherylmonks3401 10 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You're amazing, Blythe. Keep writing. Send us more work soon.

  • @carmensierra3935
    @carmensierra3935 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    your work reads like a mirror to my childhood
    all my diaries then journals to blogs mostly Tumblr and xanga
    proana
    depression
    unworthy
    lonely
    all i internalized and kept private until i found you and your button poetry pieces
    shocked by how similar our lives were
    saddened that it is so
    thank you so much for puyting your work out for the public
    Thats brave and honorable
    inspiration :)
    thank you

  • @patriceanderson4661
    @patriceanderson4661 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "heal" is not a word anyone throws around enough!!! It was powerful to hear that one word. Not everyone has had to have the same issues to understand it... but it's something everyone has had to do at some point to some degree. It needs to become the focus so the "getting sick" doesn't have to be anymore :o)

  • @neivedawson7674
    @neivedawson7674 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have been watching my best friend get sick, thank you for this, it makes me feel hopeful for her, our, future. I hope I get to watch her recover. Thank you.

  • @memerivera1876
    @memerivera1876 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is so powerful im literally crying omg astounding job !

  • @rjsimpson1795
    @rjsimpson1795 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "If you aren't recovering you are dying."

  • @cloe56
    @cloe56 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So much talent! all her poems give me goosebumps x

  • @butterflyhope5182
    @butterflyhope5182 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In tears. That was so powerful. I relate to your words and emotions so much. I wish to one day reach a place of healing as well. I hope you are feeling strong in your recovery. You are an inspiration. Thank you for sharing your experiences and talent.

  • @X0XbatgirlX0X
    @X0XbatgirlX0X 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s been 8 years and I still think about this poem

  • @lilsnowball99
    @lilsnowball99 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Im crying... Ohmygosh that was amazing

  • @_mrshym3ll0w0_7
    @_mrshym3ll0w0_7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love her poems

  • @xtonibx5770
    @xtonibx5770 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how she said "If you aren't recovering, you are dying" in both this and "When The Fat Girl Gets Skinny"
    I love all of the similarities between the two poems. Wow.

  • @littlebeansrebornnursery7678
    @littlebeansrebornnursery7678 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i jusr discovered your channel and im in tears at how much your works relate to me....i feel like you're talking directly to me. thank you.

  • @tessa6377
    @tessa6377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I remember watching this video for the first time... it won my subscription

  • @piposnake8008
    @piposnake8008 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    your poems bring tears to my eyes thank you for posting these it hurts how badly these relate i hope youre well

  • @izzybohn7521
    @izzybohn7521 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    this is so great watching the growth between this video and "when the fat girl gets skinny" incredible

  • @skylarlankford4105
    @skylarlankford4105 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have absolutely fallen in love with you and your poetry !

  • @frightfulfaces3019
    @frightfulfaces3019 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is so fantastic wow

  • @adibmir9791
    @adibmir9791 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I needed this. Thank you.

  • @AspieAnswers
    @AspieAnswers 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're an amazing young woman with so much to offer. Sorry to hear that you had to endure this. Yet, we can see that you're a survivor. I wish you all the best for your health and future. May years be a brighter one for you through all the success and opportunities to come. I would like to see if you create a book through all of your poetry...

  • @ip79
    @ip79 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "if you aren't recovering , you're dying" that fucking hit me like a truck

  • @avianaembry1536
    @avianaembry1536 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm crying watching this. I've been through this.

  • @ljamesgets
    @ljamesgets 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm scraping the walls of my head away to try and find the words to explain how this poem made me feel. There is nothing that flies so fast to the heart than hearing your own story told back to you in someone else's language. Thank you for turning tumbling thoughts into a lifeline. You are so talented: this poem has moved me so deeply. I cannot say thank you enough.

    • @Freegreenwanderer
      @Freegreenwanderer 6 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @butterflybri14able
    @butterflybri14able 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    im so glad i found this

  • @julia-7129
    @julia-7129 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been watching your poems and I'm so in love with you. I hope you find recovery. I'm so proud of your strength

  • @nickybee800
    @nickybee800 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg I absolutely LOVE YOU! *bravo!*. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful poem with us!

  • @elitedragonslayer_3.143
    @elitedragonslayer_3.143 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    turning this strength you've obtained into an art is an amazing thing. I've been there and many other places, and I truly appreciate your works. about to watch some more, so thank you!!

  • @xxo4914
    @xxo4914 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    even the way you read it is moving and powerful ❤❤❤

    • @Freegreenwanderer
      @Freegreenwanderer 6 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @nadiawolowik8582
    @nadiawolowik8582 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Blythe. My name is Nadia, and I am 15 years old. When I was twelve, I got sick. I stayed this way for 2 years, and I was dying. I finally got help, and I can say that I’m finally recovering. I want to tell you that your poetry is one of the constants through everything I want to. There were nights where that little girl I used to be thought she should just give up, die. Thank you, for giving me something, something you didn’t even realize you had-something to hold onto. Thank you. I won’t ever forget all you’ve done for me.

  • @koayleebear4041
    @koayleebear4041 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really needed this. You have helped me start the road to recovery. Thank you so much.

  • @emikelscooters610
    @emikelscooters610 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    i listened to your videos and fell in love. your poems are so powerful with such powerful lines. thank you for being such an inspiration and amazing person and strong voice

  • @АнастасияМазуровская-с9г
    @АнастасияМазуровская-с9г 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so strong.
    Exactly at this moment you are a great inspiration. I am sorry for everything you have got through. Hope that you feel much better with every day passes. Thank you!

  • @ShanTASTIC57
    @ShanTASTIC57 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good God-finally another much needed artist for our time. Bravo.

  • @mattiashammarstrom8605
    @mattiashammarstrom8605 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. God damn it. I've been a fan for a while, but this swept me off my feet completely. Shed a few tears, and not ashamed to say so. Subscribed!

  • @lisamckeen6433
    @lisamckeen6433 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so amazing, thank you for putting this out there. It helps me cope with my problems

  • @gothkyle7362
    @gothkyle7362 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    The intensity of her live shows are amazing

  • @xodancerxo312
    @xodancerxo312 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is so powerful wow

  • @alanaryan3490
    @alanaryan3490 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I remember watching this on repeat in high school and my eating disorder was on full blast. I remember thinking "I won't ever get better". Well, nearly 3 years later, and I'm getting better. I'm still recovering, but the yellow pigment faded, my veins don't bulge anymore, I can finish meals, I no longer feel happy with an empty stomach.
    I guess what I'm trying to say is, it does get better. And I hope this comment reaches at least one person who is still struggling to believe that they'll ever get better. Hang in there and keep fighting 💜

  • @lovelykat3578
    @lovelykat3578 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    you have literally the best poems and voice ohmygod

  • @stoptalking85
    @stoptalking85 10 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great job!

    • @BlytheB
      @BlytheB  10 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you!

  • @selenealyce8438
    @selenealyce8438 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    L Y R I C S / /
    One:
    I am watching you get sick. The whites of your eyes are becoming yellow yolks, cheeks hang like grocery bags. You make diets of day planners no time to eat with a stuffed calander live off of scheduled glamour. Meals of powdered hot choclate packets, no marshmallows, just water. Breakfasts of plain oatmeal. No milk, just tap water.
    Two:
    To invite happiness inside him, Vincent van got drank paint of yellow hues. You do mad things for happiness, too.
    Vomit like an after school sport.
    Your teeth blister,
    Bathe in sea salt to dehydrate water weight.
    Three:
    Eating disorders are VERY in.
    Like kale,
    Like skinny jeans,
    Like old Hollywood glamor,
    And don’t you dare bring up Marilyn Menroe
    Recents studies show, her frame was only 1/3 of what you think
    Four:
    Shrivel your stomach until it takes a single granola bar to feel full.
    Having nigtquil for a midnight snack. The pale pupils and unclogged irises
    The only language you communicate in is numbers.
    You are a human recycling bin.
    Quit blaming your hometown and decomposing skin.
    If you aren’t recovering, you are dying.
    Five:
    There is another girl in our grade who got sick around the same time you did, but she went to the hospital real quick be she was already thin to begin with.
    Six:
    You were not thin to begin with. You were fat.
    And now you’re evaporating so everyone is congratulating you on “getting healthy.”
    Your not an illness, but an inspiration.
    Your father still carries your before and after photo in his wallet.
    Your disease is a SMASHING sensation.
    Seven:
    Friend.
    I’m so sorry.
    You, too, are sick.
    Your messiah Kate moss insists her physique is an achievable ambition.
    Nothing tastes as good as skinny feels.
    Gurl.
    She has NEVER had Nutella.
    Do not trust her,
    Her two faced dental care,
    Or her fur pelt.
    Anorexics develop hair all over to thaw their glacial bodies, called lanugo.
    The cold will NOT let you go.
    Eight:
    Veins bulging like a pop up book,
    I am watching you get sick.
    Mistake tracing paper for your skin,
    I am watching you get sick.
    mistake tracing paper for your skin,
    I am watching you get sick.
    When the blackouts start and your pulse gets slippery,
    Wall paper your interior with laxatives,
    I am watching you get sick.
    Read so much,
    Your body trusts it is full on authors,
    Not high on hunger.
    I am watching you get sick.
    Nine:
    One day, you will learn.
    The natural pigments will return,
    No more yellow skin,
    No blue fingernails
    No red scratch in your throat
    Matchings the nick on your middle finger,
    Make amends with the kitchen.
    Your face will glow like a television.
    You will get full again.
    Be able to finish a meal.
    You will become alright.
    One day, I hope I will be able to finish this poem and say
    Ten:
    I am watching you heal.
    I am watching you get better.

  • @bellepover2470
    @bellepover2470 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so strong. This poem is a comfort to me, thank you.

  • @sashamutesi8498
    @sashamutesi8498 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This Gives Me Vertigo❤️❤️

  • @sarahharwood3380
    @sarahharwood3380 10 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is amazing, well done darling

    • @Freegreenwanderer
      @Freegreenwanderer 6 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @elizabethmack7877
    @elizabethmack7877 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so powerful i love it

  • @blackeyedbutterfly
    @blackeyedbutterfly 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    so beautiful. thank you for sharing!

  • @eliedgecomb4903
    @eliedgecomb4903 ปีที่แล้ว

    You don’t know what a gift this is.

  • @kimberlyfeist7169
    @kimberlyfeist7169 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I absolutely love this!!!!!

  • @randomhandle09.
    @randomhandle09. 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your poems sooo much. Your an amazing inspiration.

  • @daniellelmftcatp3890
    @daniellelmftcatp3890 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    WOW, wow, wow. I could feel this. I could feel your angst and heartache. I could feel your soul step outside of yourself, and push you aside and begin to speak for you, when you couldn’t.
    This is powerful fellow Aquarian (Feb 7 here). I feel stupid I have not heard of you, yet angry that the entire world has not heard you.
    I have big news for you, you said “you will be a writer”, guess what, you ARE a writer. A beautiful, deep and very respected writer. You see, you write about things others want to push under the rug, and that is part of the allure and beauty of your work.
    You are healing every day. Every day. Thank you for sharing this profound poem.

  • @miriagreyhaven9460
    @miriagreyhaven9460 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Crying...
    Thank you so much

  • @edin9
    @edin9 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I absolutely adore you! Your words have so much power. You truly are amazing

  • @kbbandtees8112
    @kbbandtees8112 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is so beautiful

  • @alexandra.adventures
    @alexandra.adventures 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely incredible. Thank you.

  • @beearmy4823
    @beearmy4823 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    This made me cry but I love it thank you

  • @iBe_Sarah
    @iBe_Sarah 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cried. Thank you. ❤️

  • @gracelangford4794
    @gracelangford4794 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I lost it. This really spoke to me.

  • @letsgetcancer7265
    @letsgetcancer7265 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love her hair. The cut and color are perfect for her face. She's so pretty.

  • @wdwgirl9206
    @wdwgirl9206 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is Baby Blythe! 😍

  • @livfrankspauline2787
    @livfrankspauline2787 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this! This is so good:). I love your work so much!!

  • @vxrxnx__5809
    @vxrxnx__5809 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    beautiful.

  • @anniegolding1306
    @anniegolding1306 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your poems

  • @amandameth6365
    @amandameth6365 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, Blythe

  • @meaganday846
    @meaganday846 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow this is powerful! Much support. Thank you

  • @hayleerose2988
    @hayleerose2988 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    please look into making a book of all your poems.. you inspire me so damn much...

  • @katrinashaw2195
    @katrinashaw2195 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love that this the before if ‘when the fat girl gets skinny’ i’ve changed poems as well and revamped them. It felt comforting to see another artist do that.

  • @finnsparks8427
    @finnsparks8427 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The only language you speak in is numbers
    If you are not recovering you are dying
    This is beautiful and can save lives

  • @indecisivemaniac116
    @indecisivemaniac116 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are not and illness but an inspiration. It's sad that the words she says are true.

  • @tunmiseakinyemi1762
    @tunmiseakinyemi1762 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are such an inspiration!

  • @queenofspades1309
    @queenofspades1309 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    *snaps* BEAUTIFUL!

  • @kartermcclendon6129
    @kartermcclendon6129 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you queen B everything will be ok you are amazing

  • @shawnneiland4988
    @shawnneiland4988 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your poetry so so much, really inspirational love you

  • @jupiter6628
    @jupiter6628 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    She has grown so much.

  • @lorelaiharris571
    @lorelaiharris571 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing.

  • @fareehashah1138
    @fareehashah1138 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love this

  • @katelynmccorkle9902
    @katelynmccorkle9902 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Went unnoticed*

  • @MichelleTorez
    @MichelleTorez 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are my favourite modern poet xxx subscribed

  • @sabakhalid2056
    @sabakhalid2056 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am crying 😭