I wanted to share what it looks like when you click on the 3 dots beside a message. You choose "report" and these are the categories that YT gives you. Obviously, you wouldn't report them if they didn't fit into one of these types of abuses.......What's going on? We'll check for all Community Guidelines, so don't worry about making the perfect choice. Sexual content Violent or repulsive content Hateful or abusive content Harassment or bullying Harmful or dangerous acts Misinformation Child abuse Promotes terrorism Spam or misleading
A few years back I had a really mean troll she would call me Jezebel and all kinds of mean things she would leave long long messages and I realized that social media is a play ground for some people who have mental health issues and it was nothing personal these were miserable people who really do not know you from a can of paint 😂 it was just my turn until there next victim arrives ❤ great topic 👍🏽
Thanks for sharing your experience Angel ❤You are right in that it is a playground for all kinds of folks that have had issues in their own lives. They do usually move on to their next target 🎯We can try and talk with them and pray for them. Glad you liked the topic, thank you 💕and have a wonderful Thanksgiving 🦃
I had my share of the peanut gallery myself i usually delete their comments and if they pop up on my livestreams they will be kicked out. It is a good topic and thank you for sharing much appreciated.
Thanks Barby 🙂I certainly don't mind having comments that critic anything that I say or do. For me, it's the manner and intent in which it's said and done. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family Barby 🥰
Solid advice. Thank you for talking about this. Yes, your advise will surely be appreciated by not only content providers, but also friends and family. Well done, Krista. Well done.
Thank you Adrienne 💕I'm happy that I was emailed this question because it's been on my mind to talk about for a bit now. Yes, it relevant to all you mentioned 💯👍
My dear friend, you are such a lovely person! You are strong and valuable!...... you will always get a thumbs up from me! Thanks for making us aware of the peanut gallery, and for showing us on how to deal with it! I truly appreciate you ❤
Re. Q6. What irritates me most is that no comment or explanation is given when they put thumbs down. I mean how can one improve. I also made it a point that I will never ever give a thumbs down and wrote it on my channel description and this I wrote as soon as I started my channel. Like you said they do it to hurt your channel. Thank you always.❤❤❤❤❤
I agree. It's pretty hard to engage in a conversation about improvement when they say nothing. In this case I do think these are the types that spread negativity to bring you down or at least try. Try to consider the fact that even a thumbs down is giving attention to the algorithm in order to attract ones to your channel that do engage and give constructive criticism 🙂Thank you for sharing ❤and have a wonderful day.
excellent question awesome answer just keep in mind even a negative comment which is best to ignore is pushing the algorithm is for you. I always try to pull positive out. Looking forward to the next video.
Thank you 🙂 For sure negative comments push the algorithm and it's always good to try and communicate. Sometimes there is a positive and sometimes not.
I have already received some very rude comments in my short time on TH-cam, but I just do not spend any energy responding and or even think about them. I refuse to react in any way. That's my way of dealing with them.♦
I once had a comment about how rude a person I was 😢 and it hurt me deeply because although I have a raw sense of humour and I admit can swear a bit my intentions are never to be hurtful. On the same token if you don’t like me or my content you are not held hostage either. We can’t please all the people all the time but there’s never a reason or need to be cruel. As nana said if you can’t say anything nice then don’t say anything at all ❤. Have an awesome night Krista
This is a very good video. Let's start with the trolls: they are there to make you upset & out of sorts, they love knowing they make folks mad. It's like bullies back in school. I have some advice which may seem counterintuitive: when a troll comments with trash on your channel, PIN their comment! It works every time. Trolls want you to feel hurt & sad. But when you celebrate their stupidity in front of all your subscribers, they always disappear fast with their heads between their tails. Trust me, I live in a shack with 4 catbillies & I've received vicious comments as to how bad my place must smell & how messy it is. Please laugh at these losers. They're actually the ones who have nothing & you'll be smiling when you watch them run because you put them forefront on your channel for all to see. This doesn't take thick skin, it takes self assurance. Interesting enough, I've myself been called negative & not a community person just because I always question things & don't hold to any sides & don't adhere to a worldview that doesn't allow for change or questions. Oh... btw... we grow the world's best & largest peanuts here in Virginia, hehehe... Happy Thanksgiving, even those y'all don't have our holiday, cuz being thankful is something that we should all be every day, regardless of the hurtful things which come to us. Peace--------
Thanks so much for sharing your experiences 🙂I also leave negative comments up but don't pin them like you, lol........funny you should mention growing peanuts because I was looking into that and I guess I can grow them in my short growing season but I'm sure they wouldn't be as grand as the one's from Virginia, lol. I'm going to be making some peanut brittle here soon 😁We do celebrate Thanksgiving here in October and I had a wonderful time visiting my daughters and grandson in Ontario for a couple of weeks. I was thankful then and thankful everyday. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving with the catabillies 💕 ~ Peace and God bless 🙏
I always get a one or two thumbs down 👎 comments and most times I disregard the comments but occasionally I go in attack mode on the trolls lol. From what I understand those comments actually do good for the channel because there is interaction and engagement and TH-cam looks at engagement as a good things as it increases viewer ship. I agree with the points that we need to look at the comment and see if it's a positive criticism or some times questionable criticism because they are asking. I've asked questions and have thought about it being taken as negative comment so I usually say I'm asking because I don't know. I'm not political correct either for the peanut gallery and fell the same way as you do. Now I have done the thumbs 👍 up and heart ❤️ to a criticism or downright mean comment and will again lol. Trolls will be trolls , flush their verbal diarrhea and move on. Great video again my friend 👍 👍 👍
Exactly...........down the drain it goes. You are so right about their interaction increasing views. Thanks for your support my friend and have a good week ❤
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OK, I just paused the video. I recently experienced someone calling me out when I nailed my fingers together what I did I asked them questions and I drew them into a conversation explaining what really happened and by the end of four or five back-and-forth we were on an agreements. Also all the comments are helping me grow the channel. There’s many different ways to look at this but yes, you need to have tough skin if you’re putting yourself out there because there are, some very rude people I choose to drag them into a conversation if I can and work through it so far it has worked for me
I'm glad you paused the video to share because you can most certainly grow as a person and grow your channel. All the comments help guide and shape our channels by offering constructive criticism, which shapes our content. Even rude people have the ability to change, however, I do not tolerate verbal abuse and that is exactly what some of them do.
@ verbal abuse is definitely not acceptable and I didn’t realize you could report them. I should’ve known that but once again, I’ve learned something new today. This is awesome.
@@exploringmybackyard I just clicked on the 3 dots beside you name and choose "report" so that I could copy and paste the choices for you to see. They were......What's going on? We'll check for all Community Guidelines, so don't worry about making the perfect choice. Sexual content Violent or repulsive content Hateful or abusive content Harassment or bullying Harmful or dangerous acts Misinformation Child abuse Promotes terrorism Spam or misleading I think I will pin this up in my comments for all to see.
I've only had to delete 3 people in my two and a half years as a creator, which I think isn't too bad. But I get at least 5 offers a week in my emails to "improve my SEO" -it drives me nuts! Warm wishes from Millionaire Paul 👋
You're preaching to the choir on this subject. Even gardening and homesteading don't protect you from this bad behaviour. I did a video on growing corn and sunflower together and it got a thumbs down. I am trailing a new concept because I haven't seen anyone do this. it's paying off big time with 10 ft sunflower and most of my corn has double ears.
That's true that everyone has to deal with this sort of thing individually, in their own ways. I'm glad your having such fantastic results by growing the two crops together 🙂
I wanted to share what it looks like when you click on the 3 dots beside a message. You choose "report" and these are the categories that YT gives you. Obviously, you wouldn't report them if they didn't fit into one of these types of abuses.......What's going on?
We'll check for all Community Guidelines, so don't worry about making the perfect choice.
Sexual content
Violent or repulsive content
Hateful or abusive content
Harassment or bullying
Harmful or dangerous acts
Misinformation
Child abuse
Promotes terrorism
Spam or misleading
A few years back I had a really mean troll she would call me Jezebel and all kinds of mean things she would leave long long messages and I realized that social media is a play ground for some people who have mental health issues and it was nothing personal these were miserable people who really do not know you from a can of paint 😂 it was just my turn until there next victim arrives ❤ great topic 👍🏽
Thanks for sharing your experience Angel ❤You are right in that it is a playground for all kinds of folks that have had issues in their own lives. They do usually move on to their next target 🎯We can try and talk with them and pray for them. Glad you liked the topic, thank you 💕and have a wonderful Thanksgiving 🦃
@ people will bash content with no reason why because there’s no reason 👍🏽😂👍🏽
@ Happy Thanksgiving I agree pray for them
Incrivel-👍💯👏🚀
Thank you. I'm happy you enjoyed 🙂
I had my share of the peanut gallery myself i usually delete their comments and if they pop up on my livestreams they will be kicked out. It is a good topic and thank you for sharing much appreciated.
Thanks for sharing your experiences and how you handle situations 🙂
كلما شرقت الشمس، يأتي بداية جديدة مليئة بالفرص والبركات، صباحكم خير وبركة
Thank you 🙂and amen. Have a blessed day as well.
Good advice Krista. I remember using the the words "no comments from the peanut gallery", lol. Wishing you and your family a Wonderful Thanksgiving. 💞
Thanks Barby 🙂I certainly don't mind having comments that critic anything that I say or do. For me, it's the manner and intent in which it's said and done. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family Barby 🥰
Solid advice 👌 💯 ❤ Looking forward it ⚘️ 🎩 👌 👍
Thanks Nafex 🙂I'm glad you enjoyed.
Solid advice. Thank you for talking about this. Yes, your advise will surely be appreciated by not only content providers, but also friends and family. Well done, Krista. Well done.
Thank you Adrienne 💕I'm happy that I was emailed this question because it's been on my mind to talk about for a bit now. Yes, it relevant to all you mentioned 💯👍
Nice sharing 😊👍
Thank you Anuj 🙂
Nice sharing ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you 🙂
My dear friend, you are such a lovely person! You are strong and valuable!...... you will always get a thumbs up from me! Thanks for making us aware of the peanut gallery, and for showing us on how to deal with it! I truly appreciate you ❤
Thank you so much Juani ❤I am glad that you found the video useful.
Sending you a big hug!
@@juanisgarden5356
Great advice! ❤
Glad you found it helpful Jen, thanks and Happy Thanksgiving to you 💕
Re. Q6. What irritates me most is that no comment or explanation is given when they put thumbs down. I mean how can one improve. I also made it a point that I will never ever give a thumbs down and wrote it on my channel description and this I wrote as soon as I started my channel. Like you said they do it to hurt your channel. Thank you always.❤❤❤❤❤
I agree. It's pretty hard to engage in a conversation about improvement when they say nothing. In this case I do think these are the types that spread negativity to bring you down or at least try. Try to consider the fact that even a thumbs down is giving attention to the algorithm in order to attract ones to your channel that do engage and give constructive criticism 🙂Thank you for sharing ❤and have a wonderful day.
beautiful sharing new friend 🎉🎉🔔🔔🎁🎁
Thank you 🙂
excellent question awesome answer just keep in mind even a negative comment which is best to ignore is pushing the algorithm is for you. I always try to pull positive out. Looking forward to the next video.
Thank you 🙂 For sure negative comments push the algorithm and it's always good to try and communicate. Sometimes there is a positive and sometimes not.
Came to listen 🎧
Thank you 🙂
I have already received some very rude comments in my short time on TH-cam, but I just do not spend any energy responding and or even think about them. I refuse to react in any way. That's my way of dealing with them.♦
Thanks for sharing your strategy Anne 💕I'm sure that works in most situations 👍
Very solid message. Indeed you don’t have to tolerate it at all. But definitely can handle it with class. ❤❤Great job❤❤
Thanks Bandy 💕
Happy Wednesday! We cannot control other’s behavior only how we react. ❤😊
Thanks Donna 🙂💯fact Happy Thanksgiving ❤
I once had a comment about how rude a person I was 😢 and it hurt me deeply because although I have a raw sense of humour and I admit can swear a bit my intentions are never to be hurtful. On the same token if you don’t like me or my content you are not held hostage either.
We can’t please all the people all the time but there’s never a reason or need to be cruel.
As nana said if you can’t say anything nice then don’t say anything at all ❤. Have an awesome night Krista
I agree 👍There is never a reason to be cruel. Have a great night yourself Ali 💕
Great 🎉🎉❤
Thank you 🙂
This is a very good video. Let's start with the trolls: they are there to make you upset & out of sorts, they love knowing they make folks mad. It's like bullies back in school. I have some advice which may seem counterintuitive: when a troll comments with trash on your channel, PIN their comment! It works every time. Trolls want you to feel hurt & sad. But when you celebrate their stupidity in front of all your subscribers, they always disappear fast with their heads between their tails. Trust me, I live in a shack with 4 catbillies & I've received vicious comments as to how bad my place must smell & how messy it is. Please laugh at these losers. They're actually the ones who have nothing & you'll be smiling when you watch them run because you put them forefront on your channel for all to see. This doesn't take thick skin, it takes self assurance. Interesting enough, I've myself been called negative & not a community person just because I always question things & don't hold to any sides & don't adhere to a worldview that doesn't allow for change or questions. Oh... btw... we grow the world's best & largest peanuts here in Virginia, hehehe...
Happy Thanksgiving, even those y'all don't have our holiday, cuz being thankful is something that we should all be every day, regardless of the hurtful things which come to us.
Peace--------
Thanks so much for sharing your experiences 🙂I also leave negative comments up but don't pin them like you, lol........funny you should mention growing peanuts because I was looking into that and I guess I can grow them in my short growing season but I'm sure they wouldn't be as grand as the one's from Virginia, lol. I'm going to be making some peanut brittle here soon 😁We do celebrate Thanksgiving here in October and I had a wonderful time visiting my daughters and grandson in Ontario for a couple of weeks. I was thankful then and thankful everyday. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving with the catabillies 💕 ~ Peace and God bless 🙏
Chia sẻ hay lắm bạn rất mong cùng🤝🔔
Thank you 🙂
I love how you always engage with your audience. It's a great way to build a community!
Thank you 🙂I enjoy people so it comes natural.
Great message, it’s hard but I just ignore or delete.
Thanks for sharing Lee 🙂
Peanut gallery😂😂 I used to use that phrase a lot
And I definitely knew what the definition was I was using it correctly
😄Thanks Chief 👍
@@chiefbrokenbrain Yup, we all use it correctly. Just the peanut gallery that objects, lol.
I just used it the other day on a Short. 😬
@easystreetwithjen 😂 lol
I always get a one or two thumbs down 👎 comments and most times I disregard the comments but occasionally I go in attack mode on the trolls lol. From what I understand those comments actually do good for the channel because there is interaction and engagement and TH-cam looks at engagement as a good things as it increases viewer ship. I agree with the points that we need to look at the comment and see if it's a positive criticism or some times questionable criticism because they are asking. I've asked questions and have thought about it being taken as negative comment so I usually say I'm asking because I don't know.
I'm not political correct either for the peanut gallery and fell the same way as you do. Now I have done the thumbs 👍 up and heart ❤️ to a criticism or downright mean comment and will again lol.
Trolls will be trolls , flush their verbal diarrhea and move on. Great video again my friend 👍 👍 👍
Exactly...........down the drain it goes. You are so right about their interaction increasing views. Thanks for your support my friend and have a good week ❤
💬 I’d love to hear your thoughts, ideas, and personal experiences in the comments below. You can also send me an email 📩 at almostoffgridgrandma@gmail.com ~ Krista ~
Join me on my journey by subscribing and hit the bell 🔔 for more content!
Very encouraging. Thank You
@@susiebyler5226 Thank you Susie 💕🙏
Good advise
Thanks McD ☺
😊🎅👍🙏
Thanks 🙂
Well done!
Thanks Leona 🙂
Like 39👍🏾thanks for sharing my friend❤❤💕💕❤❤
Thanks for your continued support friend 🥰💕
Beautiful video
Thank you 🙂
OK, I just paused the video. I recently experienced someone calling me out when I nailed my fingers together what I did I asked them questions and I drew them into a conversation explaining what really happened and by the end of four or five back-and-forth we were on an agreements. Also all the comments are helping me grow the channel. There’s many different ways to look at this but yes, you need to have tough skin if you’re putting yourself out there because there are, some very rude people I choose to drag them into a conversation if I can and work through it so far it has worked for me
I'm glad you paused the video to share because you can most certainly grow as a person and grow your channel. All the comments help guide and shape our channels by offering constructive criticism, which shapes our content. Even rude people have the ability to change, however, I do not tolerate verbal abuse and that is exactly what some of them do.
@ verbal abuse is definitely not acceptable and I didn’t realize you could report them. I should’ve known that but once again, I’ve learned something new today. This is awesome.
@@exploringmybackyard I just clicked on the 3 dots beside you name and choose "report" so that I could copy and paste the choices for you to see. They were......What's going on?
We'll check for all Community Guidelines, so don't worry about making the perfect choice.
Sexual content
Violent or repulsive content
Hateful or abusive content
Harassment or bullying
Harmful or dangerous acts
Misinformation
Child abuse
Promotes terrorism
Spam or misleading
I think I will pin this up in my comments for all to see.
@@AlmostOffGridGrandma yeah this is awesome. I never knew this. There’s a lot of different tools TH-cam provides.
@@exploringmybackyard They really do give us a lot of tools to work with but many are just not aware of them 🙂
Beautiful
Thank you.
Ah, the peanut gallery 😂
You know sistah. Happy Thanksgiving to you ❤
Have a great day
Thanks Dave, you as well 🙂
I've only had to delete 3 people in my two and a half years as a creator, which I think isn't too bad. But I get at least 5 offers a week in my emails to "improve my SEO" -it drives me nuts! Warm wishes from Millionaire Paul 👋
Oh yes, the improve the SEO messages are relentless, lol 😂I'm glad you haven't had to deal with to much negative stuff. Thanks Millionaire Paul 🙂
Nice video, keep it up! New sub here
Thank you and welcome 🙂I'm glad you enjoyed the video. I also look forward to your content as I also sub'd to you 💕
You're preaching to the choir on this subject. Even gardening and homesteading don't protect you from this bad behaviour.
I did a video on growing corn and sunflower together and it got a thumbs down.
I am trailing a new concept because I haven't seen anyone do this. it's paying off big time with 10 ft sunflower and most of my corn has double ears.
That's true that everyone has to deal with this sort of thing individually, in their own ways. I'm glad your having such fantastic results by growing the two crops together 🙂
I delete ugly stuff so I don't have to think about it. 😊
Great solution and thanks for sharing 🙂Sometimes people can get very flustered with that kind of thing.
@AlmostaGreenAcre-zs5eu it says more about them than us.