When you laugh, the world laughs with you, but if you cry, you cry alone. An old saying but truth, so might as well try to be happy - my inner work is loss of love ones esp my wife of 13 yrs to cancer :(.. But can be done or help from others, but sorry for your loss if lucky, got to learn to deal n heal
I’m not Okay because others have not kept their promises over and over again . Thats why I’m lonely and have lost hope of genuine relationships at 61 after plenty of trial and error .
Hello can someone explain the part of around 4:20 to 5:00? He says it's not about renouncing. Then he said it's not about deciding what I can have that make me okay, if I can switch partner I will be okay but it's not right, I am committed my life to this person so I renounce being okay. It's like saying that you'll never be okay if you don't switch partner since he says it is not about renouncing, not sure if my understanding is correct since English is not my first language. Also, they may blame themself for not being okay since he/she didn't switch partner which will create more drama. Or did he mean that you don't renounce being okay and still commit your life to your girlfriend/boyfriend or husband/wife. I think and I believe that you should stay committed to your girlfriend/boyfriend or husband or wife which is the right thing especially when they didn't do anything wrong, and let go of your personal self to flourished the relationship. That's what he always says on his previous talks and he always says that's real/true love. And for me this is the most unconditional love you can give to your girlfriend/boyfriend or husband or wife.
He's saying that if you are unhappy in your relationship, you could choose the path of renunciation (worldly path) or the spiritual path. In this example, on both paths you stay in the relationship, the only difference is the reason why you stay. In renunciation, you stay out of a sense of obligation. Even though you’re miserable, you stay and suffer through it. On the spiritual path, you stay because you realize the reason you’re miserable is not because of your spouse. The reason you’re miserable is because you’re not okay inside. So the spiritual path is to release the things that are causing you to be not okay. Does that help any?
@@SeatsofContemplation oh yes, it helps a lot. So what he means is you stay committed but also don't say that you gonna renounce being okay. It only means that you stay because you love the person unconditionally and since you love the person you're willing to let go the part of you that is not okay and you did it because of love and not because you decide that you don't want to be okay. Because of that relationship will flourished and you will feel more love inside the relationship.
@@SeatsofContemplation also, he mentioned on the talk that it is not about wanting to get things you/mind wants it's because that's is the lower part of your being. So if your mind says that you want that, that you need something, tha i'm not going to be okay since I stay, it only means that you just decide or go or listen to the lower part of yourself. Is this correct?
@@SeatsofContemplation. Lastly, don't get me wrong I understand what you're saying. But I think he also mentioned on other talks that we still have obligation or interact with the world. But you just do it with love. And we still have obligation with ourself which is to let go of the personal self. So I think obligation is not bad and will not lead to suffering as long as you did it because of love and just want to serve and without putting your lower self on it. And since you do it by love you won't feel it as an obligation. Please let me know your thoughts on it.
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When you laugh, the world laughs with you, but if you cry, you cry alone. An old saying but truth, so might as well try to be happy - my inner work is loss of love ones esp my wife of 13 yrs to cancer :(.. But can be done or help from others, but sorry for your loss if lucky, got to learn to deal n heal
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This event a “Nono”….. this event a “yes yes “…. Omg that statement alone guided me to healing my innerState😮! 14:42
11:55 .my notes 📝. I understand, and I am practicing.I will come to this video .
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"i don't feel loved, i need respect." i knknow people like that.
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I’m not Okay because others have not kept their promises over and over again . Thats why I’m lonely and have lost hope of genuine relationships at 61 after plenty of trial and error .
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3:46 ,why am not ok ,is the question to ask. 4:20
Hello can someone explain the part of around 4:20 to 5:00? He says it's not about renouncing. Then he said it's not about deciding what I can have that make me okay, if I can switch partner I will be okay but it's not right, I am committed my life to this person so I renounce being okay. It's like saying that you'll never be okay if you don't switch partner since he says it is not about renouncing, not sure if my understanding is correct since English is not my first language. Also, they may blame themself for not being okay since he/she didn't switch partner which will create more drama. Or did he mean that you don't renounce being okay and still commit your life to your girlfriend/boyfriend or husband/wife. I think and I believe that you should stay committed to your girlfriend/boyfriend or husband or wife which is the right thing especially when they didn't do anything wrong, and let go of your personal self to flourished the relationship. That's what he always says on his previous talks and he always says that's real/true love. And for me this is the most unconditional love you can give to your girlfriend/boyfriend or husband or wife.
He's saying that if you are unhappy in your relationship, you could choose the path of renunciation (worldly path) or the spiritual path. In this example, on both paths you stay in the relationship, the only difference is the reason why you stay. In renunciation, you stay out of a sense of obligation. Even though you’re miserable, you stay and suffer through it. On the spiritual path, you stay because you realize the reason you’re miserable is not because of your spouse. The reason you’re miserable is because you’re not okay inside. So the spiritual path is to release the things that are causing you to be not okay.
Does that help any?
@@SeatsofContemplation oh yes, it helps a lot. So what he means is you stay committed but also don't say that you gonna renounce being okay. It only means that you stay because you love the person unconditionally and since you love the person you're willing to let go the part of you that is not okay and you did it because of love and not because you decide that you don't want to be okay. Because of that relationship will flourished and you will feel more love inside the relationship.
@@SeatsofContemplation also, he mentioned on the talk that it is not about wanting to get things you/mind wants it's because that's is the lower part of your being. So if your mind says that you want that, that you need something, tha i'm not going to be okay since I stay, it only means that you just decide or go or listen to the lower part of yourself. Is this correct?
@@SeatsofContemplation. Lastly, don't get me wrong I understand what you're saying. But I think he also mentioned on other talks that we still have obligation or interact with the world. But you just do it with love. And we still have obligation with ourself which is to let go of the personal self. So I think obligation is not bad and will not lead to suffering as long as you did it because of love and just want to serve and without putting your lower self on it. And since you do it by love you won't feel it as an obligation. Please let me know your thoughts on it.
@@edimarburgos1100 Exactly. Yes.
No no or yes yes…
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26:15 . 26:24
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